I Am Going Through a Divorce Right Now

hey all,
so heres my story im 22 and got married at 18...3.5 years of being emotionally abused was no fun...i was forced to get into the whole house wife thing..didnt work out for me. the guy made me do everything lawn and all the...

just maybe i can get a Temporary order in place this week so i can figure out my budget!

Its been since Nov. This whole thing is going to take a year to get done.

How absolutely horrid--I now have to refer to 1st and 2nd ex--I never would have anticipated this--we got couseling! prior to the marriage--life seemed so wonderful, and now I feel like I'm walking around with with my tail between my...

Some of you may have read my last story in this group called "So it begins".  This is just an update to share what happened today when my soon to be ex wife called.
 
I got the call thinking it was my little girl...

So I found an apartment and I pick up the key tomorrow. I will also begin moving my and my daughter's things tomorrow. It all seems so surreal right now. We were just saying we loved each other last month (Valentine's Day) and a month...

So my husband gets out of the military almost 10 yrs ago, he comes home and says he doesn't want to be a husband or a father anymore, that's it, just like that! We had 2 beautiful girls 5 and 10 and I had to leave my FT job as he was...

You know the part where after the heat boils over and cools, there's that period of clarity. In every marriage and divorce there are signs that there once was something that made the relationship great. That made the marriage worth...

So last night she finally decided to accept some responsibility for things. She believes, for some reason, that I was blaming everything on her... This is not the case, I own what I did. Why I did it or thought it was okay is not...

H and I have been together for 30 years (23 of them being married) and have two children, 19/17 yr olds. In that time, we've gone through a lot of ups, downs, hurdles and hurts.In 2008, he left a job he had for 16 years (because he was...

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Being married for 20 years to a bully is certainly not the marriage I envisioned. Too young I supposed, at 21..what do I know then...he didnt actually beat me up physically but the mental abuse is just as bad. I as made to feel like...

My wife decided to tell me on New Years Day that our 13 year marriage was over and she needed me to find alternative accommodation. This happened right after we got back to our house, just after dropping our 11 year old boy off to her...

Well, killed my wife's high horse deader than hell. We are both(mostly) aware now of all the perceptions, occurrences and events that have brought us to this place. Neither of us are bad people, but we do have our issues. At this point...

Haven't seen the wife all weekend - it's been nice, but weird. Back to dealing with the garbage again. She is still acting insufferable. I won't tell her everything that I know about her lies until the day I leave, because I don't want...

...No, not really.

But apparently that is what all of her friends, family, and co-workers now think. She told them all I was mentally abusive, because I called her out on 16 months of lying on a public forum.

The definition of abuse...

So, just like everybody else on this page, I 'am going through a divorce right now.' Actually, it's the separation preceding the filing of a divorce (our state mandates a year of separation before couples can file for divorce), but it...

I have been trying to get a divorce for over a year now. I have been paying my wife's support since October or November. She filed for support in August but didn't move out of her mother's house until October or November when I started...

Last night we were talking - we were curled up next to each other, something we rarely do now. We were actually having a discussion, trying to work some things out - and suddenly shitty, manipulating wife appears. Everything becomes my...

I got divorced about four years ago. For reasons not important, we shared the house until a couple of weeks ago. Tomorrow will be the last phase, she is going to pickup her things. It will be great seeing the last of her.

After three years of total angst and feeling guilted to stay here for the child, I just decided to stop waffling and held my ground on this decision. It's been a very long time coming. All of what I've been going through for the past...