I Am Going Through A Hard Time Trying To Move On

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    How Do I Move On?

    I was in a committed relationship for 2 years. It's been a year now since we seen each other. I still think about him and how he moved on so quick. Now he has a girlfriend that's pregnant with his baby. I haven't spoken with him for as long as I can remember but I miss him with...
    jly092 jly092
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2013

    So I just kinda need to vent about this.

    I was dating this girl for a while, and I fell in love with her. After about 5 months she announced on facebook that she was in a relationship with an old friend of mine. She announced it with pictures of them over the last several weeks. She then took him on the date to the...
    cws122 cws122
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 9, 2015

    The Choice Between Two Worlds.

    Six or seven months ago, I "lost" my virginity. It's funny because I don't even know what the day was. I had never had a boyfriend before, or even dated, so I wasn't really expecting it to happen that way... one night I'm experiencing my first kiss, and the next I'm having sex. D...
    OblitusAuri OblitusAuri
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2011

    How?

    How do you say good bye to that person you truly love? How do you let go of them in your heart and learn to live your life without him? How do you live each moment and not remember those little things that he did that make you smile? How do you experience a single moment of joy...
    kayje kayje
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jul 23, 2012

    I just need some late night advice.

    I've been going to schools in my area for ever since I've been in school. So I know everyone. I've been through so much. In elementary school it was that I was shy and had no friends I liked. Middle school it was bullying, the odd one out, and I also lost my virginity. So my...
    Mariexoll Mariexoll
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2015

    My husband passed away.

    Since then I have been coping sometimes ok and at times worse than what I'm going through now. I feel that I'm bothering people when I need help just trying to find enough to occupy my mind so that it doesn't start freaking out. I am here for anyone, I just am not interested...
    infinityalone infinityalone
    46-50, F
    May 19, 2015

    Up until last year I was working in retail,

    and had been with the same company since 2012. My boss saw great potential in me and I progressed quickly from casual to full time and second in charge. My plan was to of course end up in my own store, and then to move up into head office. Eventually my boss had to be relocated...
    AnxiouslyAwaited AnxiouslyAwaited
    22-25, F
    Mar 16

    All Alone.

    Its been months since we last spoke, yet every morning, I still wake thinking of her, I still spend my day trying hard to be positive , to believe that I'll make it through, yet every night I feel defeated in that purpose and need the sound of the tv to help muddle my thoughts so...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium
    31-35
    6 Responses Aug 18, 2012
    AquaQ AquaQ
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2015

    The lord is close to the brokenhearted.

    He saves those whose spirits have been crushed. Psalm 34:18
    Pierce7891 Pierce7891
    18-21, F
    Sep 6, 2014

    How Hard I Find It To For Get You Zoe :'(

    sins the day we started talking on msn i have felt something for you at the start i had a feeling that i didnt like you in any good ways but when we started talking as friends i started to realise that i didnt just like you i loved you witch was a feeling i had never felt b4 i...
    elliottdudley elliottdudley
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2011

    I have been trying to get through a marriage

    that I thought was going to be forever!! I thought we were soul mates we feel in love on AOL 18 years ago we were married 17 years and then he started taken pain pills he would lie all the time he also stopped going to work and no money was coming in to pay any bills his whole...
    monica0215 monica0215
    51-55, F
    Jun 4, 2015

    My abuser suddenly left me 4 month ago

    after 5 years of relationship. Is saturday night and im having very hard time being alone, my anxiety grows 8/10. In tv there is a tv show that we saw together, talk with my sis that is with her bf and other things make me feel really bad.
    marirosi marirosi
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 31, 2014

    It Turned Out To Be A Lie

    Hi ...im new here , i came across this site by chance i think its very helpful. No one deserves to be lied to..people shouldn't mess with ur feelings just because they could ... when u decide to let someone in ur life they shouldn't take u for granted ..no one...
    littlenono littlenono
    26-30
    4 Responses Feb 5, 2011

    I know and get that he has moved on,

    yet he still the only person that I think about :/ I just hope that one day it'll different
    NothingGoodIsLeft NothingGoodIsLeft
    18-21, F
    Apr 11

    She Called Off The Engagement, She Is Sure, But I Am Dying.

    After 5 years of being together, and living together, I thought she was waiting for me to propose. And I did. But a few months after the engagement she called it off and wanted to go in separate ways. I guess she always had doubts about me. I had my doubts too, but at the end of...
    Lacana Lacana
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Aug 8, 2010

    Some days are pretty good,

    then I hear a song on the radio or see a place we used to go together and I get really sad ....
    tcross71 tcross71
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2015
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2015

    Negative people and bad situations can't have a

    hold on you if you make the decision to always look for the best in everything. There will always be argumentative people, but you can choose not to entertain them. There will always be trials in life and instead of complaining you can invest your energy with moving past them...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed
    31-35, M
    Aug 18, 2015

    I've realized no matter how much I try to move

    on there is always something that stops me
    miamousley miamousley
    13-15, F
    Jun 7, 2015

    So I burned a lot of bridges recently with

    friends and an ex and the thing is that last night I had a dream that my ex apologized to me and it was so weird. I woke up and felt at peace, but then I realized that that would never happen in reality and that it didn't happen in real life and I feel unhappy about it.
    ifeelachangeinthewind ifeelachangeinthewind
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2015

    so I will go and rebuild myself alone.

    won't allow myself more pain cz i gotta fix and glue these pieces back together. I will not forget you. tc
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 15

    letting her go. I've been in relationships

    but nothing like this. what we had was hell and bliss. her kiss I miss. her the taste of her lips the feel of her hips. my heart burns and spirit yearns to hold her one more time. but like any good drug once is never enough.
    Joecanada11 Joecanada11
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 16

    Hello everyone, I just wanted to share an

    experience that I am praying is now ending. I am someone that could never handle too many emotions. I often feel overwhelmed very fast, anxious, and I go crazy trying to not act on impulse when something that is beyond my control is not going my way. During the past two weeks, I...
    mariashelly mariashelly
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2014

    well tomorrow I'm going to another rehab

    facility this time with an open mind hope the **** helps me
    jitterbug9 jitterbug9
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 20, 2015

    he was the love of my life

    but now is over no matter what I will always love him and wish thing are different but now I just hurting so bad but I will move on No matter what and begin again
    nicegirl15 nicegirl15
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2015

    I Feel So Numb...

    I should feel lucky that i have a good group of friends who are helping me go through this painful period. It's been two weeks and everyday I had someone come over and stay with me till I can fall asleep. I admit, I can not be alone anymore. My apt feels so empty without her. So...
    Lacana Lacana
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Aug 15, 2010

    I have been friends with a guy

    for about three years now. I became so close to him that it got to a point where I couldn't care the thought of losing him or him not being around. All we have been this far is just close friends. The first year I knew him I had feelings for him, a crush I guess but those...
    Baniazzz Baniazzz
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 5, 2014

    Memories

    i'm tired, of missing you memories cloak me with insomnia. stain me with melancholia. and my eyes burn deep, remembering you. but I will forget not because beneath the cavernous wounds that will become magnificent scars [of you] is a beauty that lingers, lives, shines through.
    wildf1ower wildf1ower
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 20, 2011

    I'm going through a really hard time trying to

    get over something that happens 2 years ago people may think it happend 2 years ago u can get over it but u find it hard wen you are only 12 and you have to ring the police coz ur step dad is plunging his teeth into your cousien throwing knife racks around and beating your mum...
    miamousley miamousley
    13-15, F
    Jun 4, 2015

    Can You Still Feel Me?

    we're broken up now, but i want you so bad. our passion for each other was incredible and inextinguishable. you always wanted me, and i always yearned for you. and we never turned each other away. we always indulged each other in our bodies' treasures. i miss the sweet love we...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2012

    Today I met with a potential employer

    that my Ex introduced me to. As we talked, he asked how she and I were connected? I said we had been engaged but split up amicably. He then responds,"I met her husband at her companies Christmas party." Knife in the heart! Although I called off the wedding, she was in another...
    Addison15 Addison15
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2014

    How to move on: Fall in love with

    yourself–the whole of you, not a part of you, and fall out of love with the voices telling you that you need someone else to make you complete. You are all you need.
    ImAlivingParadox ImAlivingParadox
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2015

    2013 Can Go Away Now..

    I will not be looking back fondly on 2013. I think I have struggled the most this year with various demons than I have since my gran's passing, seven years ago. I have had some good moments, don't get me wrong..spending time with some special little people in my family has...
    MissBehaviour MissBehaviour
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2013
    syukyoo syukyoo
    22-25, M
    Mar 25, 2015

    I fell in love with someone

    that turned out to be all the things a woman does not want. liar, story teller, taker, theif of the heart, manipulateur, con, want to be, looser, minion.....
    elisef elisef
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2015

    I don't understand why u have grown

    so cold and indifferent towards me. I don't deserve it and it hurts. I want to be there for u but I don't know how anymore. I guess I ain't good enough, when will this cycle be broken? When will I stop having to pay for her sins? Haven't I proved myself to be true and worthy...
    BeyondGreenEyes BeyondGreenEyes
    36-40, F
    Mar 25, 2015

    I was so long what my ex bf (Yaseen).

    ...one day he just stopped talking to me so I massaged him and he did say some thing and then he did not Speke to from then
    Ayeshaebrahim Ayeshaebrahim
    13-15, F
    Apr 16
    Hypnobud Hypnobud
    26-30, M
    Mar 25, 2015

    As If Nothing Had Changed......................

    She walked right in as if nothing had changed. She was talking to the little one when I entered the room. She seemed very happy. Disappeared in the bathroom for quite some time. Emerged and was ready to take the little one and go. A little small talk about upcoming events...
    michael4480 michael4480
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Oct 19, 2011
    xBlackyChan xBlackyChan
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 15

    I met my ex-girlfriend on a dating site.

    We started talking on line then in person and found that we liked each other and she ended up moving in with me. We were together for ten years. Everything was going great till she had to have multiple surgeries on her foot. That was the start of the end. Well it has been a...
    wingski5 wingski5
    51-55, M
    May 18, 2015

    Respect Vs. Love?..... "Oh, No!"

    I recently answered this question: Loss of respect vs loss of love what would you choose? "if giving in meant loss of respect and being taken for granted and if not giving meant being lonely,what would you choose?" One should never have to choose between respect and love. Respect...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles
    46-50, F
    Oct 29, 2011

    So I have been taking to this guy

    for a little over a year now and in the beginning everything seemed to be going great. you know how everyone starts out talking every day and all day getting to know the person and everything. When I first started talking to him I told him that I wasn't looking for a...
    erinnicole03 erinnicole03
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    I've recently got involved with a guy I've been

    fond of for about 3 months and this whole time he's told me experiences of girls breaking his heart and how he doesn't want to be in a relationship. But he speaks of us getting together and about a week ago he tells me he doesn't sees himself in a relationship with me he wants...
    kashaleea kashaleea
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2015

    I dont think i ever been in love,

    my whole life.iv been in maybe 4 relationships.This past one with my daughters father was really bad for me.. i was abused in all ways, I tried to make it work and it was all the wrong ways..I guess I deserved it but now I have a daughter and my life has gotten way harder from...
    findingtruth828 findingtruth828
    18-21, F
    Jan 2

    Firstly, let's call this person M.

    So M is my former bestfriend whom I've fallen inlove with (the cause of our drifting apart drama). We didn't talk for 2 months but I still can't get M out of my mind. Last monday is my first day in college (Yes I'm 15 and I'm already in college. Believe it or not is up to you...
    BittersweetRose BittersweetRose
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2015

    I can only stay strong

    for so long until it's finally time to let go and close doors.
    Kkgunny Kkgunny
    18-21, F
    Mar 24, 2015

    shadows are falling and I'm running out of

    breath , keep me in your heart for awhile
    cartwright66 cartwright66
    46-50, M
    Feb 11, 2014
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