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I Am Going Through a Horrible Breakup

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    Hi Everybody. It's been a little while

    since I've been here because I have been going through quite a lot latey, but a few weeks ago I posted a thread about how my boyfriend left me while I was sleeping.... Well I've done okay up until now, but I decided to come here and post another thread because there has been...
    Heartbroken82 Heartbroken82 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 27

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    It's been 3.5 weeks since he dumped me,

    and I'm feeling worse. I think everything is really sinking in. My ex and I will never get back together and probably never see each other again either. He dumped me on the phone after 3 years. He hung up on me mid-sentence and blocked my number and blocked me on Facebook. He...
    coonie1114 coonie1114 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    My boyfriend left me

    for my ex girlfriend...Ironic and painful at the same time
    emilyemo123 emilyemo123 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    Long Time Ago, Just Took Effect

    Back in May 2012 I had a girlfriend. Weve been dating for a while and we went to church together all the time. She then broke up with me at the end of may. I was sad at first but I got over it, I mean its happend before to me. Ive been great all up till now, which is October...
    nightowl46 nightowl46 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2012

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    My boyfriend of one and a half years broke up

    with me two days ago. I am completely shocked and the reality of it all is hitting me now. I was practically crying at work all day. This is going to sound really cliché, but I really thought he was someone I was going to marry. I had met his family in Denver multiple times...
    blazeee blazeee 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    hi everyone...i guess i'm just doing this to

    let everything out. Long story short my bf (now ex) were together for 7 months. Because of insecurity and attachment issues somewhere along the road i made him my happiness...he broke up with me 3 days ago and im miserable...its an emotional rollercoaster ..one moment im sad...
    tdac2133 tdac2133 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I talk to my ex on the phone.

    We've only been broken up for 2 weeks. we talked about everything. He said that he left because he thought he wasn't the man I deserved. And that he wanted time to grow up so he can come back to me as the man I deserve. I'm not sure what this means or what I should do. Can...
    maromis maromis 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    I was crazy in love with him

    and I thought he felt the same, last night found out through a random girl that he had been inappropriately texting someone else and who knows what else or how long it had been going on for or how many girls, he denied it to start with but there was a picture of it, I went...
    anonymous1005 anonymous1005 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    So, this is kind of a crazy story.

    Me and my ex were dating for 4 years -- all 4 years in college. It was love at first sight and we spent every minute together since our first date. Our families became each others families, we even spent thanksgiving together as one big family. We have been faithful to each...
    AntoniaE AntoniaE 22-25, F 1 Response May 14

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    My boyfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me this

    week. It was a long distance relationship, so it was always a tough situation. He'd been pushing me to move down there, and though I love where I live, said I would if I could find a job in my field. The last thing I wanted was to be financially dependent on him. I tried so many...
    vickyny01 vickyny01 31-35, F 6 Responses May 31

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    I'm a young college student

    that has been in a relationship with a great guy for the last two years. I recently broke up with him, for various reasons, and now I feel lost. But it's not because he's no longer a permanent fixture in my daily life, it's because of another guy. I have a long time friend that...
    ldreed ldreed 18-21, F Jun 14

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    Hear my tale.. Two strangers met in language

    class. Became high school sweethearts. Two different worlds. Both were codependent, but didn't realize its toxicity. Unhealthy relationship, no friends outside themselves. She doesn't get out much. He did, but he felt sorry for her therefore he gave up a part of himself to be...
    RainReigns RainReigns 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    How I Got Over A Heartless Breakup

    A one year seven months heartless story: He was a jerk, making use of his charming appearance and made use of me to borrow money many times. He caused me sadness on my birthday just to borrow money for his friend and didn't even celebrate my birthday with me. Valentine day...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    Day By Day and It Gets Better

    I know the feeling of not being able to carry any more.  Then I would remember that old saying that when you only saw 1 track of footprints in the sand, you remembered he was carrying you.  My love and I were together for years.  We had a home, four pets, he worked and I...
    hiyaluv hiyaluv 31-35, F 14 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    So A Partner Just Broke Up With You. What Do You Do?

    The love of your life has just turned your world upside down. The person broke up with you. What do you do? Step 1: Control what you say. Say nothing. Make it a clean break and that is all you have to say to the person. 'We are making a CLEAN BREAK'. Be firm and refuse to be...
    shaandar shaandar 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Hi all, I'll try and keep this short n

    sweet: question: How do you repair/replace a broken relationship? (The breakup was caused because of too much arguing, which stemmed from me not moving in with her) to give you an idea of where things stand: -dated for 3 years -fighting started 1 1/2 years into it, small at...
    bcanded6244 bcanded6244 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    My world just fell apart.

    We were together 4 years and my depression got the best of us. I feel like I'm dying inside and I don't know what to do.
    Taradactyl123 Taradactyl123 18-21, F May 25

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    Codependent Breakup- Will It Ever Be Over?

    I have been dealing with codependency my whole life. Starting with the terrible examples set forth by my mother and father and continuing on into my adult life. I've dealt with some bad breakups, but this one has been particularly bad. And mostly in an unusual way. Unlike most...
    farawayseas farawayseas 22-25, F 16 Responses Sep 3, 2009

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    Completely Unexpected Break Up Is Leaving Me Lost, Confused, And Severely Depressed.

    Three years ago I briefly dated this guy Mike who was perfect in my eyes. We were 18. I had more experience with love and relationships at the time, and I was his first. When the relationship ended, I was sad but it was understandable that he wanted to experience life more...
    Cmargotti Cmargotti 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    My ex of one week sent me snapchats with him

    crying and saying he made a huge mistake. Also one with cuts and blood. I have a past with cutting and he knows it. I want to help him but I'm trying to help myself.
    austints96 austints96 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    How do you get over a guy you just broke up

    with? He was the sweetest guy I have ever met. But we broke up like a month ago cuz we had some issues. I'm still in love with him but I don't know what to do?
    madikinz101 madikinz101 16-17, F 10 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Its Over

    It's been 3 weeks since we split, and I still can't stand it. I miss her very much even though she did me wrong. We were together for like 4.5 years, and I'm still trying to figure out what happened. She won't even talk to me, and was with someone else just days later. She has 3...
    BSwalks BSwalks 31-35, M 16 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    1/11/14...2:48pm Why did my relationship have

    to end like this? Usually I'm the one who gives out relationship advice, and not receiving it. Well, I just had the most painful breakup in my life. I was dating this amazing guy, who I have loved since 5th grade. Anyway, we started dating once we were in high school, and things...
    Vicki101 Vicki101 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Love is a stranger. One rainy morning on Times

    Square in New York, whilst sitting on the red stairs I met the man of my life by coincidence. He was English, friendly and funny. I was German hopeful for love and almost immediately into him. This was in spring 2010. In this very moment two people from completely different...
    juleskietta juleskietta 26-30, F Jul 14

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    The Letter I'll Never Send

    Dear you, Today is day four. Still fresh. I think it may have been the worst day because today you came home from vacation and it changed nothing. Sitting around checking my phone every second with hope that you'd text me. Today was hard because it didn't hurt so much, today...
    NLS13 NLS13 18-21 2 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Around 7 tonight I'll see her; the first time

    since we broke up three months ago. Just about every second right now I'm thinking about it, and even when I'm "focused" on something else I still feel that cold, damp sweat that makes my skin clammy. My stomach's in knots as my head goes over every possible scenario tonight has...
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 15

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    Hello, I'm new to this website.

    My friend told me people here might be able to help me. (WARNING VERY LONG >.< SORRY) So, In January I started dating this boy (18) His name was Ian. I had talked to Ian before. Back in June of the previous year. I would've originally dated him then... but my friend and her...
    maromis maromis 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    The fact that she can walk away from what we

    were building together is fine. She never HAD to love me; it was all her choice. She has every right to do it if she so pleases. Is it unfair to me? In a way, maybe, but as a whole it’s perfectly fine; I’m not fine with it, but it is fine. I can’t force her to stay, can...
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M Jun 9

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    It's been a little over a week

    since my bf of three years broke up with me. I've been an emotional train wreck going from laughing to bawling my eyes out. I feel like im going insane. I'm constantly thinking about him. I wish I could forget everything.
    austints96 austints96 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    Your Gone

    When you said it was over I couldn't believe my ears How could all of our love Bring me to tears It just hurts me so much That you have moved on I'm having trouble Believing you're gone I've been thinking it over All I've gone through with you How come you don't love me Just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    Even it was just for a month

    and a half, the reasons were due to circumstances. Also, the fact that he couldn't tell it online, right before my face also hurts, he tried getting online for me, but his laptop was taken away and stuff cx Kinda difficult to explain and yeah, we were in a drl. The thing is, I...
    chryseae chryseae 13-15, F 1 Response May 27

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    Moving After A Bad Breakup Is Easier Than You Think!!!

    July 10th.....4 months later with advice from the ex. I went and catch myself a really great guy...one that's lovely and happy. This time is was MY choice...I picked him. We're pretty much in love. =) Who knew that my life could be so good right now...and it was only 4 months...
    madwoman0717 madwoman0717 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    I had asked him to please contacting his ex-wife

    as this was disrespectful to our relationship. I saw the red flags but because I liked him so much, I made excuses. six months of back and forth. I asked him to treat me nicely but he would say horrible things.. I tried to leave in the morning and he would take offense because...
    vbo30 vbo30 31-35, F Feb 19

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    I knew it was a mistake to get involved with my

    ex almost as soon as I met him, but I just couldn't help myself. I wish more than anything I could rewind three years and run in the other direction. It's been a month now and my stomach constantly churns with shame at all of the horrible things I have allowed to be done to me...
    Hanalacle Hanalacle 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I Still Love Him

    HI, who ever you are. I am not sure why i am writing this because i doubt really anyone will read this. I am your typical Asian girl. He is your typical jock. No one ever suspected something will happen between us, no one in their wildest dreams though that i would be the one to...
    theawkwardasiangirl theawkwardasiangirl 16-17 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    Its really hard. I still miss her

    so much. I am the one who broke up, but still, its not like I wanted to. I knew it was best. But I didn't want to :( Its so hard to accept when things go different then you think. We where going to get married. I wanted nothing more then to see her grow old. The feelings where...
    blumbox blumbox 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 10

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    I Hurt Her Really Bad!!

    I loved you, I still love and I will always love you. I hurt you, I said mean things, hurtful things that you just cannot forget. Although the boy turned into a man, started treating you right, you could not forget. You could not forget the hurt the boy caused, and you blamed it...
    iwilllistenandhelp iwilllistenandhelp 26-30 1 Response Dec 1, 2013

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    Is It Love?

    I'm getting rid of this story. Why? Because past is past and it should stay there. Nobody should let it tie them down and control your present or future!
    Butterflying Butterflying 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    4+ Year Relationship Gone In A Poof

    So last Sunday, my girlfriend of 4+ years just broke up with me out of the blue. I was completely taken by surprised, and her was very determined. I was going over to her house to give her some of her clothes, and I was very happy to see her because I haven't seen her in two...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses May 9, 2010

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    Accountability...

    For a while I was extremely depressed and hurt, then I got mad. Really mad. To be honest I wanted him to hurt just half as much as I was hurting. I think in some way's that's typical depending on the situation. The problem? I don't even think he knew that he had hurt me so deeply...
    Charish Charish 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    Once upon a time a girl

    and a boy fell in love and began to spend all their time together. Until the boy broke up with the girl. They worked through it and then got back together. Until the second time. . . and oh wait the third time. Last but not least, in the first new month of 2014, the boy broke up...
    JCastle JCastle 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Though We Were Perfect

    I am 13 and Dan is 14. Last June we had a child together. Dan just texted me saying that he can't do this anymore. He can't spend his life taking care of our son! He is heartless. He said that he wants to do other things and not be a father at age 14. Wtf is wrong with him!! It...
    kate2000 kate2000 13-15, F 11 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    My boyfriend and I had been together

    for 1.5 years. It definitely wasn't a perfect relationship- in fact far from it. With 100% confidence I can admit that not only was he not the right partner for me, but he was both emotionally and physically abusive, dishonest, and untrustworthy. However, throughout the...
    schoolpunk32 schoolpunk32 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I Work With My Ex-lover And The Pain Is Unbearable... I Am Still In Love With Him, But He Does Not Love Me..

    We met at work and first started out as friends. He was married but was not happy. The energy between us was crazy.. like teenagers.  Long story short he left his wife and moved into his own place and we became lovers.  I complained about many things about him as the...
    nikkionelove nikkionelove 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 9, 2010

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    I am still making monthly payments on the lap

    top I bought you and the last time I spoke to you you told me to ******* leave you alone and that I am a fat *****.
    whoateyourheart whoateyourheart 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I noticed my girlfriend acting strange.

    Never answered my calls, texts, or even questions. She hardly ever saw me. Locked up in that little home of hers I tried to visit. For a very scary moment I thought she was dead, Finally, she answered a text. She said no, she didn't want to go out with me tonight. I didn't say...
    ella1235 ella1235 18-21, F 1 Response May 31

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    My Broken Love - Why It Hurts To The Point Of Breakdown.

    trolls, stop right here, no need to read the following.... Love Hurts. This is one of the biggest lies ever. Love does not hurt. Lies do. Love is a responsibility. Lies told to avoid the responsibility hurts. Imposting hurts. hypocrisy hurts.In less than two months, I went...
    diamondlens diamondlens 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    Closure.

    Last night will be last last time i see or hear from him. The person i stood in front of was one i couldnt recognize. He was so cold and mean. Saying things just to hurt me. I moved on yes. And he resents me for it. What was i supposed to do? Just wait around and live in the past...
    kmart52492 kmart52492 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    I'm going through my first break up.

    He was the first love of my life and we were together for two and a half years. It is day number six and I still feel like I'm dying. This sucks so bad and I'm tired of being sad.
    austints96 austints96 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 26

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    Nasty Breakup

    I'm currently struggling with some of the post-breakup issues, sometimes I feel wonderful and releived I escaped what it seems a one way relationship, others I just feel sad and guilty. I know I should've left earlier, we lasted 1 year and 2 months, the last couple months were of...
    Polarooz Polarooz 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2013

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    My ex recently broke up with me to go back to

    his ex whom he has a child with. He's the first and only person I've ever truly loved, and I think about him and miss him every minute of the day. I keep hoping that he will try to contact me and tell me he's changed his mind, but a few weeks have passed now and I'm trying to...
    Morganc123 Morganc123 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    tashu786 tashu786 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 18

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    I loved her higher than the skies.

    .. It is summer vacation and she is at a camp. We barely said a few words to each other, and after three days, I revived a message there she broke up with me. Literary out of nowhere I where supposed to meet her later that day Yeah, I where doing fine that day, but at night; I...
    TheoAu TheoAu 13-15, M Jul 10

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