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I Am Going Through a Horrible Breakup

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    I am now currently going trough a horrible

    breakup. I was with with my girlfriend for almost two years and she broke up with me today. I've stayed inside almost all day and didn't wake up til 3 pm. I'm really down In the blues. I don't know what I will do without her I loved her to death even though I may have gotten a...
    swsluver swsluver 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    A month after our break up,

    my ex approached me (face to face) after no contact, which went into immediate effect after the fact. By the way, we work together--at the same organization, but we do not have to interact as we are in different divisions and have different functions. He said he wants to talk...
    Kadessa00 Kadessa00 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    I hate when you find your boyfriend making out

    with another girl in his car...I saw them and I went and pounded on his window...found out the girl he was making out with was my cousin...go figure..my cousin always wants what I have and gets it...I hate her and my ex
    WhiskyLulubyBlonde123 WhiskyLulubyBlonde123 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    How do you get over a guy you just broke up

    with? He was the sweetest guy I have ever met. But we broke up like a month ago cuz we had some issues. I'm still in love with him but I don't know what to do?
    madikinz101 madikinz101 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    We have been together on

    and off for almost 2 years , he have failed me many times and I have forgive him many times , I did few mistakes 2 but none compared to his , he forgave me 2 .. lately we have been together for a while , and then he broke up with me because I confronted him with anything bad or...
    denial1 denial1 22-25, F Oct 18, 2014

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    Mine isn't even that horrible,

    compared to breakups i've been through before. It just hurts. I waited in this relationship for a year, waiting for him to make a tiny bit of effort. It never happened. Now I feel like i'm going to be alone forever. I feel gross and ugly. I guess everyone gets these feelings...
    snowkey snowkey 22-25 Jun 27

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    One day, my head will stop spinning My heart

    will stop worrying and My mind will be calm and peaceful I will feel relaxed and more then content with life. I will find smiles and happiness upon my face on more instances and moments Surprises will feel great and quiet times will be lovely .... One day I will feel good
    maybethistime33 maybethistime33 31-35, F May 22

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    Hear my tale.. Two strangers met in language

    class. Became high school sweethearts. Two different worlds. Both were codependent, but didn't realize its toxicity. Unhealthy relationship, no friends outside themselves. She doesn't get out much. He did, but he felt sorry for her therefore he gave up a part of himself to be...
    RainReigns RainReigns 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    I don't even know what to write here

    but I feel the need to get my feelings out. Once again I'm sad, alone and I just don't want to go out and face the world right now. I can't put on a smile and pretend that I'm happy because I'm not. I can't pretend that I have friends because I don't and I can't pretend that I...
    chuhulil chuhulil 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    We've been breaking up pretty much

    since we got together 5 years ago... We haven't lived together for almost a year. He is the one who always decides he's "had enough" but today I told him that maybe it would be better if we didn't see each other for a while. He said "sure whatever you want. Ok." ..... I can't...
    maybethistime33 maybethistime33 31-35, F 1 Response May 18

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    My boyfriend broke up with me this morning

    through text message. It was so out of know where i had no idea that he was going to end things between us, after being together for a year. Im so confused on how he could just drop me out of his life like that. I feel so horrible, he was my best friend.
    deena213 deena213 18-21, F 1 Response May 25

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    Day By Day and It Gets Better

    I know the feeling of not being able to carry any more.  Then I would remember that old saying that when you only saw 1 track of footprints in the sand, you remembered he was carrying you.  My love and I were together for years.  We had a home, four pets, he worked and I...
    hiyaluv hiyaluv 36-40, F 14 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    My gf just left me- we too were in a

    picture-book relationship and she told me "it's not working" when everything was so perfect and we were so happy. I need some help getting over her because I still love her- I honestly feel sick, any advice?
    willwillwillwillwill willwillwillwillwill 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago.

    We were together for 2 years and I'm absolutely in love with her. I love her with all of my heart and soul. This break up is ******* killing me..
    ShawnMcDeath ShawnMcDeath 13-15, T Apr 12

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    And it's not with my husband.

    It's with a friend. The friendship was completely harmless, yet wife got jealous. It's hard to think about the hirt I have caused just because I'm me.
    cheekyhannah36 cheekyhannah36 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    The thing is... It's not a "normal" break up,

    I can usually deal with that... The problem is That she was my friend since preschool, so a 13 year friendship gone... Forever, according to her... See, we agreed that if we dated we would still be friends afterwards, and cause we had been friends for such a long time... We...
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh 16-17, T 2 days ago

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    Though We Were Perfect

    I am 13 and Dan is 14. Last June we had a child together. Dan just texted me saying that he can't do this anymore. He can't spend his life taking care of our son! He is heartless. He said that he wants to do other things and not be a father at age 14. Wtf is wrong with him!! It...
    kate2000 kate2000 13-15, F 10 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    'Ghosted' by the love of my life

    while being rejected by my church after seeking help with PTSD... I'm beyond suicidal. My spirit may have died so fast it forgot to turn the lights out in me. I may have even left myself behind in the process. I'm choking on the ashes of love and broken glass flows through my...
    Dvex Dvex 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Closure.

    Last night will be last last time i see or hear from him. The person i stood in front of was one i couldnt recognize. He was so cold and mean. Saying things just to hurt me. I moved on yes. And he resents me for it. What was i supposed to do? Just wait around and live in the past...
    kmart52492 kmart52492 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    I had to kick him out

    for good this time. He admitted he's been sneaking Rx pills behind my back. He blamed them on me, because I don't like him to drink. He said the pills made it so he didn't drink so much. He was a recovering drug addict struggling with alcoholism. He had schizoaffective...
    yppirt yppirt 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Once upon a time a girl

    and a boy fell in love and began to spend all their time together. Until the boy broke up with the girl. They worked through it and then got back together. Until the second time. . . and oh wait the third time. Last but not least, in the first new month of 2014, the boy broke up...
    JCastle JCastle 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    How I Got Over A Heartless Breakup

    A one year seven months heartless story: He was a jerk, making use of his charming appearance and made use of me to borrow money many times. He caused me sadness on my birthday just to borrow money for his friend and didn't even celebrate my birthday with me. Valentine day...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    I can't eat. I can't sleep.

    I feel horrible, and the only person I want here to console me is the one who broke my heart. I wish I could forget all the good memories, because when they play through my head it's like torture. sometimes I get distracted for a few minutes, and then I remember again and it...
    samanthafleur samanthafleur 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Its really hard. I still miss her

    so much. I am the one who broke up, but still, its not like I wanted to. I knew it was best. But I didn't want to :( Its so hard to accept when things go different then you think. We where going to get married. I wanted nothing more then to see her grow old. The feelings where...
    blumbox blumbox 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    Feel Like I'm Dying.

    Dated mine for two years. Loved him. Wanted nothing but the best for him. We were both recovering meth addicts. I had left to another state to get clean and I did. He did too and after 6 months he wanted me to come and live with him. I was quick to come but had known that he had...
    Chainlink Chainlink 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2010

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    well, I'm new to this site.

    .....I don't know how it exactly works but anyway, I'm sharing my experience here. I'm a 20 year old male from India doing my engineering. I started to like this girl and I asked her out, she was a muslim and though I'm an agnostic skeptic, my family follows hinduism. anyway, in...
    alpha8994 alpha8994 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    This is by far the craziest situation of my

    life. I'm a 20 year old girl and my ex is 25. We have been together for 3 years and common law for 1 and a half. The whole relationship I was extremely jealous and insecure. You name it: jealous and over curious about his past girlfriends, accusation all and always paranoid...
    lotusavx lotusavx 18-21, F Jun 18

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    They are moving away

    so they don't want to be with me anymore... And I'm in so much pain and I just want it to stop but it won't and it's tearing me apart
    cicizzle cicizzle 16-17, F Jul 22

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    I love him... I miss him

    so much but I don't want to see him... even though I am alone right now after I flew across the world (planned to see him before we "broke up "). We r both better to be not with each other and this kills me.... God please help me... :(
    clevercandle clevercandle 31-35, F May 28

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    Inside I am squirming,

    guts twisting in tiny little knots. Sharp pains cry from my heart. Overwhelmed by this cloud of doom and gloom eating away at my light. He stole my soul. Ripped me to shreds and delicately places me back together like his little doll. I sat on the shelf admired and adored until...
    lucileface lucileface 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2014

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    Things I've learned from my breakup: How to

    be self-reliant. That I can make myself happy and I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. That it's ok to be open with and lean on friends and family. How to forgive. That life is an amazing gift every single day and I will not throw it away just because of others...
    Rose3710 Rose3710 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 23 hrs ago

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    "I love you I want you

    but I cant be with you" he says. A relationship of six years is now over after a trip I gave him to his favorite place. I spent time money energy and feel now I am a fool. Not only is he going back to the women he cheated on me in the past with but has the nerve to tell me he is...
    lesmoveson lesmoveson 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    Moving After A Bad Breakup Is Easier Than You Think!!!

    July 10th.....4 months later with advice from the ex. I went and catch myself a really great guy...one that's lovely and happy. This time is was MY choice...I picked him. We're pretty much in love. =) Who knew that my life could be so good right now...and it was only 4 months...
    madwoman0717 madwoman0717 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Your Gone

    When you said it was over I couldn't believe my ears How could all of our love Bring me to tears It just hurts me so much That you have moved on I'm having trouble Believing you're gone I've been thinking it over All I've gone through with you How come you don't love me Just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    I'm going through a tough breakup,

    which is a new experience for me. The pain is excruciating. I've only been in one other relationship (lasted on and off for five years), which I ultimately ended. My boyfriend, Kadima and I have been dating for the past eight months. He's a colleague. At our workplace, it's...
    Kadessa00 Kadessa00 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Anybody else going through a tough break up

    and wanna keep each other company? This is the longest break I've ever been through....one year...and I hope today is the last time.
    SuriAnne SuriAnne 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    It's been 3.5 weeks since he dumped me,

    and I'm feeling worse. I think everything is really sinking in. My ex and I will never get back together and probably never see each other again either. He dumped me on the phone after 3 years. He hung up on me mid-sentence and blocked my number and blocked me on Facebook. He...
    coonie1114 coonie1114 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2014

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    tashu786 tashu786 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    I made the mistake of dating my best friend on

    and off for four years. I knew his feelings weren't as strong as mine (he always leaned more towards friends while I leaned more towards dating), but we were happy and it worked for us. I've completely fallen in love with him and his family and hoped to be with him forever. Then...
    Feldsparr Feldsparr 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    I'm pretty sure it's finally here!

    I saw it coming for 6 months. We've tried to break up for a couple of weeks now but we always had fight to make it work. Now we're both exhausted and I think this is the end.
    heatherrrbee heatherrrbee 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Is It Love?

    I'm getting rid of this story. Why? Because past is past and it should stay there. Nobody should let it tie them down and control your present or future!
    Butterflying Butterflying 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    I was with my ex for almost 2 years.

    ..he was my first everything almost and he was doing so many things that would make me upset in the end of our relationship, especially with some girl that liked him. He would choose her over me millions of times and I got tired of it and I decided to end it. When I ended it, we...
    TheLifeOfMe1 TheLifeOfMe1 18-21, F 1 Response May 31

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    cicizzle cicizzle 16-17, F Jul 24

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    I am divorcing my hubby of 16 yrs

    who was emotionally abusive and at times physically abusive. We have three kids together. There safety means everything to me yet I am a little afraid of how they will react
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Apr 12

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