I Am Going Through A Seperation

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 82 People

    Soooooo glad that xmas is over.

    ...first one without my husband and it sucked....cant wait for the new year to come
    kylieheartbroken kylieheartbroken
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2015

    I'm going through a unwanted seperation,

    my wife has told me we are seperating and I am to consider myself single. We have 3 kids and been together 19 yrs and married for 12. It's been very difficult for me. She has asked for space and time, but it's been hard to do thst. Everything in me says fight for my...
    RobJRich RobJRich
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 27, 2014

    I've gotta say it comes in waves.

    . I know I've been trying to be positive and just accept this separation with my wife (in recent posts) but wow this whole situation sucks! For years I've been looking for the answer to fix my marriage and a few months ago I found it!! I had to just let go of trying and get on...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    My wife is moving out

    and I don't know how to deal with it, what's the right way to deal with this I want to be supportive but at the same time, I still have hope that things will work out between us. I've understand I've put her thru so much and I also feel she's confused I'm just no sure which way...
    HellaFresco HellaFresco
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2015

    Ten years down a rabbit hole of hurt,

    lies, and selfishness. Love for each other is and was undeniable.... But I ask my self was it true? Was it real? Because my gut tells me different from my heart and I can be loved more in depth then what I am and was.I compare cheating to hanging up the phone on someone; it is...
    stephers127 stephers127
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2014

    I am glad we made it work.

    I love him so much
    vannypeace vannypeace
    36-40, F
    Apr 29, 2014

    Just Seperated After Told By Wife She Does Not Love Me.

    Dear fellow members A joy to have come across this site and let my emotions pour out. I have been in a marriage for 4 years and found the hard way on the 29 of december 2010 that i am no longer loved by my soul mate. A shock it came to me because there was no major signs of not...
    stringer97 stringer97
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

    So it's been two weeks out of my marriage.

    I've had a few moments where I'm like "am I doing the right thing", but mostly it's been pretty good actually. I did have a good day today until tonight. I've had to move in with my brother because I have no money, no job and no where to go so he took me in. I get told from...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2014

    Am I meant to follow my heart

    or my gut feeling in these situations?? My heart is telling me even though you have nothing and have to start over you will make it... My gut is telling your making a mistake. Sitting down with my husband and talking more he has told me how unhappy he is as well but was just...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    It's been 3 days since this decision was made

    mutually... We are both unhappy and miserable together, but it hurts like hell I have been with my husband for 7 years, married for 2. I start university today it's orientation and to have to fake a smile all day it's going to be hard. I still put on my wedding ring cause I'm...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2014

    My wife told me 5 days ago

    that she wants to leave. She did not use the words divorce but I am wondering if I still even have a chance. I do not want to give up but I believe my wanting to talk to her and work it out is pushing her further away. My heart is breaking and I feel so very alone. I am not...
    KevAM KevAM
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 5, 2014

    Just Separated And It's My Fault!

    I have just separated 2 days a go. My wife has decided to leave while I was at work. She has a long history of depression and has tried to commit suicide. In our case, i feel i have to bear a lot of the responsibility. I have come to the conclusion that I have never forgiven her...
    Heafty Heafty
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 2, 2012

    I think I may have just asked a different

    question on here but i got disconnected....now my wife and I have been separated nearly 4 months and we are setting up a date with mediation....now during mediation can i bring up the fact she has been cheating me for months?? does that help my case or not?
    eggs35 eggs35
    36-40, M
    Feb 12, 2015
    deleted deleted
    Sep 16, 2015

    I separated with my husband of 17 years about 5

    weeks ago, and I was ok with it, or at least that was what I thought. We agreed to go our separate ways and that we had just grown apart. we hadn't had any intimacy in at least 4 years (his choice not mine). We found somewhere for him to move that would be available in a few...
    chirpychops chirpychops
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 22, 2015

    Hi, I was looking through the internet to see

    if I could find something like this or a chat site to talk to people. I have recently found myself in a position that I would not have thought I would be in. So here is my story so far, about 4 months ago my husband out of the blue says that he no longer loves me and doesn't see...
    briskkie briskkie
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    I am again on EP . I always use to come

    when i am depressed. Now i think its a part of my life. Right now i am in my office.Trying to hide my tears. I met him in 2012 . We use to meet once in 4-5 months. Then in 2014 we starting meeting in weekends almost every weekend we use to be together. After few months we...
    kathhyv kathhyv
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 8, 2015

    To err once is human

    but twice is careless. So you might be able to imagine how it feels to be told your second marriage is over. I was so determined to keep the marriage together but I also made mistakes. I was given a Hobson's choice six years ago- follow "me and your child" to another part of...
    Nick021070 Nick021070
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 26, 2015

    Its that time of the year

    when the holidays brings people together. One of my managers tried to make small talk and asked if I was married. On paper, yes I am but in real life, I am separated which is not the easiest thing to announced when question by someone whose approval you seek. Married has such...
    macabre00 macabre00
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2015

    It's been 3 months since my husband told me he

    didn't want to be with me. After almost 8 years of being together, 5 of marriage and a 6 year old son he just walked out my life and didn't even think twice. What hurts the most we been through so much together and i never turned my back at him and i still don't understand how...
    MelyssaLee MelyssaLee
    26-30, F
    Aug 7, 2014

    I just found out my wife is leaving me

    for a woman. Are you serious. I have literally never been in this much emotional pain in my life. I feel like just locking myself in a room and crying for days. But I also feel so numb to everything around me. This has literally broke me
    Kwreka89 Kwreka89
    26-30, M
    Dec 25, 2014

    Hi . I am a 39 year old woman with 3 children

    which is going through a separation (He has yet to move out which is not making it any easier). My husband has made this decision and left us all devastated. I google 'Going through a seperation' and this website popped up. I am just looking to make new friends who have shared...
    IrishErin IrishErin
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2014

    I am new to being separated only a few weeks in

    and it has been one hell of an emotional roller coaster. My husband has been going on a down spiral for a while now and I been trying to make it work. This man has hurt me in the worst way possible and made me feel like a fool. I thought he was really my Mr. Right and turned out...
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015

    I Am Scared

    After 18 years together and 9 of them married, we are now separating. Days are getting easier and I stopped blaming myself for everything that went wrong in our marriage. I'm struggling with the holidays coming. I am scared to be alone for the holiday as my ex enjoys his time...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 23, 2013

    I am new to EP. I gave been enjoying reading

    other people experiences so here goes with my own. I recently separated form my wife of eight years. We had one of though relationship that was to great to leave but to terrible to stay. Now for what's next. We still talk and even about reconciliation but many days it feels...
    Armalite762 Armalite762
    Apr 5, 2014

    I have been with my husband going on 3 years now

    and married 2 years, we have been through a lot and some things I couldnt let go.. Long story short a few days ago he choked me in front of my kids after drinking that day, I called the police and he went to jail. I told him I am done with him so today he will be moving out. I...
    kadkaloma3 kadkaloma3
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 18, 2014
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