I Am Going Through Alot of Lonliness Right Now

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    I know what it is to be lonely, I too have been and perhaps will again. However there are some truths, yes I said "truths" not ideologies that can help us overcome loneliness.  "Do your best to come to me soon.  For Demas, in love with this present world, has deserted me...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 22, 2012

    Too Weird For Even The Weirdest

    I have an eclectic group of adopted family. Very strange group of people you would expect to be unfased by weird, quirkiness. Yet, I open my mouth, get looked at weird. Get judged, put down. It's really hurtful. I wonder " am I an outcast, even among weird people?" I want to just...
    Under8construction8 Under8construction8
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 9, 2013

    I'm 34 weeks and 3 days pregnant.

    I feel like my other half doesn't want to be around me anymore. I feel like I beg for him to spend time with me and most of the time I still get shot down. We only see each other for an hour a day or less. And none on Sundays. It's really bothering me. I feel so unattractive. I...
    Adpatrick Adpatrick
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    Everyone has that friend

    that they'd choose over everyone else. To talk to To hang out with It doesn't matter They're always the first choice I get an empty feeling in my chest When I realize I'm not that friend for anyone
    GracefulCas GracefulCas
    16-17, F
    Jul 20, 2014

    I feel lonely right now.

    I am a junior in college and I feel like I have no friends. No one texts me throughout the whole day. No one cares if I am alive or dead. all I do is sit in my room doing nothing, sometimes I cry. I do cry myself to bed. I wish I had more friends. I am a friendly person but I am...
    Mishmishti Mishmishti
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2014

    Lonesome Loser

    I received some info today that has forced me to confront some painful truths about myself and my future. In short, I'm terribly lonely for a genuine romantic connection to a woman (this part I already knew), but I'm so hopelessly out of my depth when it comes to such things that...
    OneIsTheLoneliestNbr OneIsTheLoneliestNbr
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    Loneliness At Its Worst

    Now there's no one, just me. Me against this cold, cruel world. This is nauseating to me, it really is. Not one person by my side, when I went to bloody hell for them, I wept tears and gave my time, my life for them. And now? Where are they when I need them the most? Nowhere...
    shansparkle shansparkle
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2013


    I have been that someone you could count on for other people, for sometimes. I felt I was being used and left out :( I never had that feeling of comfort knowing that there's someone I can count on when I fall. Although, I've been that someone to other people.
    hembhatt05 hembhatt05
    22-25, M
    Sep 5, 2013

    Irrational Feelings Of Desertion

    I traveled half the world to look after a sick father, and then travel the world with him, bring him back home, and live happy. Except, I traveled half the world to go watch my father slowly die. It was unexpected, he was supposed to get better, but he didn't. I didn't have any...
    GeometricDreamer GeometricDreamer
    22-25, M
    Mar 15, 2013

    My Life Right Now

         A little over a year a go my mother died of cancer.  Not only was she my mom, but my best friend.  My marriage was already on shaky grounds before my mother's illness, but now it is even worse.  There is no cheating or abuse happening, just...
    sunrise89 sunrise89
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

    Another Day Dawns....another Day To Try And Keep It Together

    So another virtually sleepless night...drifted off eventually to have the same vivid dream..he came and told me its ok it will be ok, and I woke up crying..with the stark realization than its most definitely not OK...another day alone, another day frightened,another day trying to...
    soulsearchingforever soulsearchingforever
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 28, 2012

    All Alone

    I guess sometimes lately I prefer to be alone because I am depressed but that doesn't mean its the right choice. It makes it worse for me but its so much easier just to isolate. I found this site through a search engine and it would be nice to meet some people who have been...
    kthimm12 kthimm12
    18-21, F
    Mar 14, 2011

    Sometimes we sacrifice our selfs to save others

    in trouble. Unfortunately it comes at a big cost.
    jakboom jakboom
    41-45, M
    Jun 14, 2014

    I Dont Want to Be Lonley

    Well I just had a baby he is 2 months old and I also have a five year old. And I love my children very much. I have a fiance who is never home hi is always at work which is OK but then after work he goes out , even his free time on the weekends he is out or if we argue he...
    proudmami28 proudmami28
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2009

    How I Feel

    I don't want to get out of bed - last weekend I spent 34 straight hours in bed, and only got up because I had places I had to be. I've got a lot of vacation coming up and I'll probably spend most of it in bed. Normally I try to put a happy face on things for other people, but I...
    OneIsTheLoneliestNbr OneIsTheLoneliestNbr
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 25, 2012
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    1 Response Jan 2, 2015

    I am looking for some emotional support.

    It's funny that I say this because if you knew me on a more personal level you would understand that I usually don't get too emotional about most things at least not on the surface. The reason why I am in this position right now posting on a public forum is due an extreme level...
    jimwhip09 jimwhip09
    22-25, M
    Dec 9, 2015

    I joined this group to alleviate some crushing

    feelings of lonliness and it is. I have been alone (not in a relationship) for over 5 years and though, I accept it to some degree and to some degree its gotten easier, in some ways it never gets easier. I've been married, had long term and casual relationships. I'm writing...
    gairenafarraige gairenafarraige
    46-50, M
    Oct 4, 2014

    I am a 19-year-old male experiencing obsessive

    thinking on a daily basis which I believe has created loneliness for me. I feel like a loser just posting this online but I guess I needed something that could help me connect with others dealing with the same struggle. I am a college freshman but, I sometimes fail at making...
    SearchingForABetterDay SearchingForABetterDay
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 24, 2015

    Tired Of Feeling So Alone And Crying.

    This is my first time here. I needed people in my life that knows what I'm going through. I just don't know how much longer before I break. Just doesn't seem to get any better, no matter what I do. First, I'm a mother of 4, 2 of my adult kids live with me in a 1 bedroom apt...
    beccarocks58 beccarocks58
    Aug 12, 2013

    Not just "right now." I can't remember a time

    when I DIDN'T feel lonely. But sadly, I might be getting used to the feeling. I don't know whether loneliness is friend or foe. I think it's more of a party guest who refuses to leave. Just hanging around and not getting the hint that either the party is over or they aren't...
    notthis78 notthis78
    36-40, F
    Jan 19, 2015

    "dieing Of Lonliness......................................

     so alone, there's nobody in the world that cares about me, nobody will even notice when, I die. Iv'e been alone my whole life, unwanted and uncared for. There are plenty of people who could help if they wanted to, "But" nobody does, after all, Where's the mileage in it for...
    Anto815 Anto815
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2010

    People Just Don't Care About Me

    They never have. I've always felt like I'm watching the world from the sidelines. I watched my parents have a normal caring relationship with my older sister while they just seemed to resent me, I watched the other kids at school make friends but avoid me. I sat alone on...
    snowcat1 snowcat1
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2012
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