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I Am Going Through An Extramarital Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 483 People

    Sleeping With Multiple Men And Married - She may not be the typical stereotype of a cheating woman. What she is hopelessly unsatisfied physically in her marriage. She dealt with...
    backtovanessabet backtovanessabet 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    My EA just came to a crashing halt once her husband told her he knew. He has been insinuating that he knew for two months (the affair was only three months long) but she kept...
    canfora canfora 51-55, M Mar 4

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    The Break Up Is Hurting So Bad - This is only day one of my break up with my lover.  We were together for almost 4 months, and I loved it.  It was my first "full out affair" in...
    VancouverMom VancouverMom 46-50, F 13 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    I Can't Seem To Stay Away - I love my husband. We have problems, but what couple doesn't? The past few years he has lost interest on sex. At first I thought that he didn't find me...
    chorusgirl chorusgirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    It Never Ends - I thought that my story would give a special twist to this subject. I had a 6 year affair. It was work related, My wife knew it was on and off and the final off was...
    Darksideofme255 Darksideofme255 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    I was in extramarital affair for last 14 years me & my husband dont live together as i am working in a different country and we are very well in touch with each other he is a very...
    betrayal2013 betrayal2013 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Working Out With "the Pitcher" Part 1 -      I don’t know for sure, but I am guessing that this story MAY need to be more than a few separate “parts”. It took a LONG...
    rosepetals11 rosepetals11 36-40, F Jun 27, 2012

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    I Am Going Through A Self Destructive Affair - We met online about 3 months ago.I was lost (read seeking intimacy but not getting it at home) and he claims that so was he.After...
    hopefulfor2013 hopefulfor2013 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Mental Dalliance - There is this married man who is in love with me okay; He always looks at me with Lust in his eyes roaming over my body; He always looks at me with Need in his...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 18, 2012

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    I have a dilemma. I haven't had sex with my husband in a long time.  I started the affair with my boss, Chris, almost 3 years ago.  I wasn't looking for the affair when it...
    PaleLily PaleLily 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Never Throw A Blanket Of Darkness Over Anothers Beautiful Light - I happen to be a very kind and generous person in many ways. My biggest way is to always spread Love, Light and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Found Love On An Adult Website! - I'm 34 yrs old, been married for 10yrs going on 11yrs...my husband and I have grown apart...and I no longer love him like I did when we got...
    inloveforthefirsttime inloveforthefirsttime 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    I am in what i thought was A unique relationship yet it seems to be common . I have a very kind h but have almost no intimacy. We waited to to be married before we had relations...
    Titziana Titziana 46-50 Feb 1

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    Feeling Guilty? - I am a Disciplinarian and have had to opportunity of helping women feel better about themselves after have an extramarital affair even though their husbands does...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M Jun 23, 2013

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    Trust Is The Key To An Affair - Here is the great irony about extramarital relationships. An affair is an act of betrayal, yet in order for an affair to work, the two people within...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    He's Like My Drug... - I'm married under 5 years, in my 30's and here's my story. So, I started working at a new job and about six months later, one of my colleagues (who's in a...
    nadie3 nadie3 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    Big John - Big John Every morning at the mine you could see him arrive He stood six-foot-six and weighed two-forty-five Kinda broad at the shoulder and narrow at the hip...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Nov 4, 2013

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    Me N My Love - Hi friends ....before i start my story i will like to say abt my past....i was in a fair with someone to whom i love like anything....bt for family reason we both...
    pucchu pucchu 26-30 Jan 21, 2013

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    Me N My Love - Hi friends ....before i start my story i will like to say abt my past....i was in a fair with someone to whom i love like anything....bt for family reason we both...
    pucchu pucchu 26-30 Jan 21, 2013

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    Make Up Your Mind... - So I have been married for a few years to a great guy. Good to me, good to my family, good provider all that stuff that everyone says. Our only issue is in...
    Photogirl23 Photogirl23 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I Want To Be A Pearl Again - I Want to Be a Pearl Again She could be a statue of liberty She could be a Joan of Arc But he's scared of the light that's inside of her So he keeps...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Nov 11, 2013

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    So Conflicted - Its been four months and after every meeting he just grows on me. I don't know what is in his mind.He does not talk much about his feelings.We can spend hours...
    hopefulfor2013 hopefulfor2013 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Forbidden Love - I am a mother of two and separated from my husband. I started having an affair with a married man 7 months ago. Never in my wildest imagination had I ever thought...
    mainasauca mainasauca 31-35, F Apr 1, 2013

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    Weird Affair - Please Help Me.. - Been married for close to 10 years now and I've known the person I'm currently having this affair with for over 11 years. We have always been good...
    radhageeta radhageeta 31-35 5 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Painful - we married for 7 years. We stayed happily with 2 years ol daughter.But the things was over..... I have our second baby last year. He is a baby boy,i was so happy,he...
    ooilee13 ooilee13 26-30 10 Responses Jun 9, 2010

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    Affair With My Soulmate - i have been married for 17 years to a man whom i thought i loved. as the years went on, our differences surfaced and gradually i fell ou t of love with...
    popcornlove popcornlove 41-45, F 7 Responses Oct 7, 2011

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    My Secret........... - I am 29 years old, and have been married for 10 years, what I am about to disclose I have never shared with any one ever, but I just needed to express my...
    ANGELKZ ANGELKZ 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    An affair with a long lost friend whom I re-met after a decade - I met an old very good friend of mine after a span of 10 years through a social networking site in the beginning of...
    rosymarie12 rosymarie12 31-35 3 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    The Curse of Being Capricorn Wendy let me in I wanna be your friend I want to guard your dreams and visions Just wrap your legs round these velvet rims And strap your hands across...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Jan 22

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    45 Yo Woman In A Sexless Marriage Having An Affair - Hubby of 20 years is a wonderful man but sex has been an issue since our 2nd month of marriage. Of course we have no children...
    smoakin smoakin 41-45, F 8 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    8 Years And Nothing To Show For It - I Know Not Where the Birds have Gone A little voice inside my head said, "don’t look back, you can never look back." I thought I knew what...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Jan 17, 2013

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    My First Treasome With A 20 Year Boy - As you know reading my stories, I was rally shy and conservative, but since my mother died, live was been teaching me to get the most of live...
    sandralopes sandralopes 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    Rekindled First Love From 30yrs Ago And Both Of Us Are Married - He friended me on Facebook. We started talking like it was just yesterday when I broke off our engagement. We met...
    Somethingmagical Somethingmagical 41-45, F 2 Responses May 22, 2013

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    The Second Time. - My dog is pulling frantically as I make my way up the side walk. He is my excuse today. My heart is pounding. I can't believe I'm about to do this but here I am...
    chorusgirl chorusgirl 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    The Other Woman - My story starts early 2012 . . . There was this man to whom I started seeing on may way to work every morning for two months. Being the good girl that I was, I...
    HappilyInLove HappilyInLove 36-40 Jun 18, 2013

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    Can Not Control Myself From Loving Another - Could that be possible if i have a wonder wife, and i found myself deeply in love with another girl...
    wsanti wsanti 41-45, M May 15, 2013

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    The Husband'S Condoms - I have been having an affair with a MW for 10 years.  There are times we **** at her place when her H is at work or away.  She claimed they were in a...
    Latinluvr Latinluvr 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    Affair Ruining My Life - I am a lady in my early 30s, I have been married for 4 years and i have been having an affair with someone i met through work for 3 years. The affair has...
    mosetsana mosetsana 31-35 1 Response May 22, 2013

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    Making Decisions, Hard But Right, Scary But Right - My marriage was nearing its end, constant turmoil day in and day out, when into my life walked this man that exuded serenity. I...
    snowflame snowflame 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    How To Say Goodbye?? - The rollercoaster of emotions that the deep and complex love affair I am so very entangled in evokes is not something I have ever tried to put into words. I...
    lawgrl12 lawgrl12 31-35, F 19 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    A Giant Of A Man With A Giant Broken Heart - Big John Every morning at the mine you could see him arrive He stood six-foot-six and weighed two-forty-five Kinda broad at the...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Aug 20, 2013

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    So How Did This Happen? - I started working for a new company about 8 months ago. The man who interviewed me was dull, uninteresting and tiring. But attractive none the less. He...
    thescarletletter thescarletletter 41-45, F 12 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Having An Affair Was a Bad Decision For Me! - Over 10 years ago now, I met a man I worked with at a Fortune 500 company in Michigan.  I was in one department & he was in...
    sweetchild75 sweetchild75 31-35 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Love Or Lust?? - A married man who is 15 yrs older to me came in my life as friend through Facebook..I always wanted to b his friend but his poetic & romantic words attracted me...
    frank20000 frank20000 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Glenn'S Second Chance - Glenn’s Second Chance “He has a girlfriend and I’m the other woman” - Meryl Streep as Jane Adler in It’s Complicated I was expecting a story...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 28, 2013

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    I Got Myself In Quite A Pickle... - I'm 30 years old, and have been married to my wife for 10 years. We've had our ups and downs, but always ended up working things out. I wouldn...
    whattodo83 whattodo83 31-35, M Aug 12, 2013

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    Me N My Love - Hi friends ....before i start my story i will like to say abt my past....i was in a fair with someone to whom i love like anything....bt for family reason we both...
    pucchu pucchu 26-30 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Where To Go From Here? - I am married to my soulmate. I believe that whole-heartedly. We have been together since we were very young, and we have built a fantastic life and family...
    tiredunsureandconfused tiredunsureandconfused 31-35 10 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    Free At Last - Well, your faith was strong but you needed proof You saw her bathing on the roof Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew ya And she tied you to the kitchen chair She...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Mar 12, 2013

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    I Cannot Take It Any More ............help Me What I Have To Do Now.. - i have been married for more than 15 years and ours is a love marriage and having a kid..and very happy...
    aalfar aalfar 36-40 8 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    Crossroads. - I have bee married for 14 years to a wonderful man, who is a perfect father to our kids. He gives me everything i could ever want. About 2 years ago, i rekindled an...
    san23 san23 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2010

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    Steamy, Kinky Sex With My Hot Lover ! -       As he walks in the door, I want to push him against the wall & kiss him passionately. I want to begin stripping off his clothes...
    rosepetals11 rosepetals11 36-40, F