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I Am Going Through An Extramarital Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 486 People

    A Romantic But Tired Capricorn And His Quest For Love

    This is an excerpt from a recent book I wrote. It is a compilation of stories from people across the country who have had an affair. This is an exceprt of one of my own stories. I am a Capricorn. I’ve never been one that looks at my daily astrology chart or anything like that...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    I Got Myself In Quite A Pickle...

    I'm 30 years old, and have been married to my wife for 10 years. We've had our ups and downs, but always ended up working things out. I wouldn't say I've been unhappy, but I have never been quite satisfied with my marriage. We have 2 beautiful children that we both love...
    whattodo83 whattodo83 31-35, M Aug 12, 2013

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    I was in extramarital affair

    for last 14 years me & my husband dont live together as i am working in a different country and we are very well in touch with each other he is a very nice person but i fell out of my marriage with a guy 7 years younger to me and we were living together for these 14 years and my...
    betrayal2013 betrayal2013 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Weird Affair - Please Help Me..

    Been married for close to 10 years now and I've known the person I'm currently having this affair with for over 11 years. We have always been good friends who have always spent time and really enjoy each others company. Have got drunk a 100 times before but nothing has ever...
    radhageeta radhageeta 31-35 5 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Me N My Love

    Hi friends ....before i start my story i will like to say abt my past....i was in a fair with someone to whom i love like anything....bt for family reason we both stop our love...aur i can say when he sifted to delhi i have stop everything coz i came to know tat he was in Fair...
    pucchu pucchu 26-30 Jan 21, 2013

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    The Husband'S Condoms

    I have been having an affair with a MW for 10 years.  There are times we **** at her place when her H is at work or away.  She claimed they were in a sexless marriage.   So, in the heat of sex I have "borrowed" condoms from the bathrooom or his night stand.  She felt we...
    Latinluvr Latinluvr 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    I Cannot Take It Any More ............help Me What I Have To Do Now..

    i have been married for more than 15 years and ours is a love marriage and having a kid..and very happy family . I used to have a school friend and her husband also friend of mine. and my husbdand..  who came to our life and as a family we go for outting and dinner etc.. I...
    aalfar aalfar 36-40 8 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    The Other Woman

    My story starts early 2012 . . . There was this man to whom I started seeing on may way to work every morning for two months. Being the good girl that I was, I minded my business until he began talking to me and asked me for my number. We eventually developed feelings for each...
    HappilyInLove HappilyInLove 36-40 Jun 18, 2013

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    Forbidden Love

    I am a mother of two and separated from my husband. I started having an affair with a married man 7 months ago. Never in my wildest imagination had I ever thought I would fall in love with someone who belongs to someone else. At first he was a friend, he listened to all my...
    mainasauca mainasauca 31-35, F Apr 1, 2013

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    He's Like My Drug...

    I'm married under 5 years, in my 30's and here's my story. So, I started working at a new job and about six months later, one of my colleagues (who's in a relationship of several years -.he's in his late 30's) began playing mind games with me where some days I wanted to kill him...
    nadie3 nadie3 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    So Conflicted

    Its been four months and after every meeting he just grows on me. I don't know what is in his mind.He does not talk much about his feelings.We can spend hours together talking, laughing, kissing...All I know is that he said this was a no strings attached relationship and I walked...
    hopefulfor2013 hopefulfor2013 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    My EA just came to a crashing halt

    once her husband told her he knew. He has been insinuating that he knew for two months (the affair was only three months long) but she kept calling me, texting me, making love to me and dreaming about the future with me. I can't let go of the things she said to me in her sweet...
    canfora canfora 51-55, M Mar 4

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    Affair With My Soulmate

    i have been married for 17 years to a man whom i thought i loved. as the years went on, our differences surfaced and gradually i fell ou t of love with him. i felt this 5 years into the marriage, but i still tried to make it work. i concentrated on our daughter too, who is now 14...
    popcornlove popcornlove 41-45, F 7 Responses Oct 7, 2011

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    An affair with a long lost friend whom I re-met after a decade

    I met an old very good friend of mine after a span of 10 years through a social networking site in the beginning of last year. It was he who actually, searched me out. We were working together for almost 5 years as apprentices and were very good friends, though not meeting up on...
    rosymarie12 rosymarie12 31-35 3 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    Found Love On An Adult Website!

    I'm 34 yrs old, been married for 10yrs going on 11yrs...my husband and I have grown apart...and I no longer love him like I did when we got married. I put a profile on an adult friend finder site to just see what would happen...wasn't really looking for anything serious...but I...
    inloveforthefirsttime inloveforthefirsttime 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    I need some replies..

    .tell me how bad a person I am or tell me that I am human. Tell me what to do so I don't do the unthinkable.
    canfora canfora 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    It Never Ends

    I thought that my story would give a special twist to this subject. I had a 6 year affair. It was work related, My wife knew it was on and off and the final off was a suprise to her that it was even going on. First as a man my affair started out of what I thought I was entitled...
    Darksideofme255 Darksideofme255 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    My First Treasome With A 20 Year Boy

    As you know reading my stories, I was rally shy and conservative, but since my mother died, live was been teaching me to get the most of live. one night I was having sex with my husband. we had a few drinks, not enough to be drunk just to get sexual desire to a peak. anyway, I...
    sandralopes sandralopes 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    Once In A Lifetime..

    I fell head over heals for my MM, and the fabulous sex and his perfect anatomy { ;) }, coupled with our hunger to share, discuss, advise and plainly marvel at our deepening friendship - helped none... From the start there was a spiritual like bond. It was crazy and compulsive...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 15 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    Feeling Guilty?

    I am a Disciplinarian and have had to opportunity of helping women feel better about themselves after have an extramarital affair even though their husbands does know it. Sometimes the secret affair is prying on ones' conscious to here it really bothers you.If you need help, I am...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M Jun 23, 2013

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    How To Say Goodbye??

    The rollercoaster of emotions that the deep and complex love affair I am so very entangled in evokes is not something I have ever tried to put into words. I have a strong desire to share it though and break my silence through anonymity on this forum. I have read the stories on...
    lawgrl12 lawgrl12 31-35, F 19 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    45 Yo Woman In A Sexless Marriage Having An Affair

    Hubby of 20 years is a wonderful man but sex has been an issue since our 2nd month of marriage. Of course we have no children. We've been through years of counseling but he isn't willing to compromise. He hates sex and we haven't had intercourse in 5 years. Unfortunately I'm...
    smoakin smoakin 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Where To Go From Here?

    I am married to my soulmate. I believe that whole-heartedly. We have been together since we were very young, and we have built a fantastic life and family together. Our sex is good, our communication is open, and we do not have any major problems - I am happy at home. I have...
    tiredunsureandconfused tiredunsureandconfused 31-35 11 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    The Break Up Is Hurting So Bad

    This is only day one of my break up with my lover.  We were together for almost 4 months, and I loved it.  It was my first "full out affair" in bed he made me feel incredible - outside of the bedroom I felt like...just so admirred, so sexy. I am in my late 40's and just lost a...
    VancouverMom VancouverMom 46-50, F 13 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    I have a dilemma. I haven't had sex with my

    husband in a long time.  I started the affair with my boss, Chris, almost 3 years ago.  I wasn't looking for the affair when it started.  Chris and I have known each other for a very long time and have always been attracted to each other.I had become very distant from my...
    PaleLily PaleLily 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Having An Affair Was a Bad Decision For Me!

    Over 10 years ago now, I met a man I worked with at a Fortune 500 company in Michigan.  I was in one department & he was in another.  I remember the first time I locked eyes with him; it was like the world had stopped and I still remember that day like it was...
    sweetchild75 sweetchild75 31-35 11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    So How Did This Happen?

    I started working for a new company about 8 months ago. The man who interviewed me was dull, uninteresting and tiring. But attractive none the less. He hired me and I started the position a month later. After a few weeks on the job I noticed he was hanging around my office more...
    thescarletletter thescarletletter 41-45, F 11 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Free At Last

    Well, your faith was strong but you needed proof You saw her bathing on the roof Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew ya And she tied you to the kitchen chair She broke your throne and cut your hair And from your lips she drew, “Hallelujah” Hallelujah, Hallelujah Hallelujah...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Mar 12, 2013

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    Me N My Love

    Hi friends ....before i start my story i will like to say abt my past....i was in a fair with someone to whom i love like anything....bt for family reason we both stop our love...aur i can say when he sifted to delhi i have stop everything coz i came to know tat he was in Fair...
    pucchu pucchu 26-30 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Sleeping With Multiple Men And Married

    She may not be the typical stereotype of a cheating woman. What she is hopelessly unsatisfied physically in her marriage. She dealt with this through ************ and toys for a long time before hooking up online with multiple men. The men  she sees are single, separated, or...
    backtovanessabet backtovanessabet 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    A Giant Of A Man With A Giant Broken Heart

    Big John Every morning at the mine you could see him arrive He stood six-foot-six and weighed two-forty-five Kinda broad at the shoulder and narrow at the hip Everybody knew you didn't give no lip to Big John - Johnny Cash, Big John One of the plights of the male when it comes...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Aug 20, 2013

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    Make Up Your Mind...

    So I have been married for a few years to a great guy. Good to me, good to my family, good provider all that stuff that everyone says. Our only issue is in the bedroom. I have a few kinks, he knew this going into the marriage and didnt seem to have an issue, now he seems to have...
    Photogirl23 Photogirl23 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I am in what i thought was A unique relationship

    yet it seems to be common . I have a very kind h but have almost no intimacy. We waited to to be married before we had relations. The mm I am involved with has the same history. We have only held hands and hugged. Quite passionately but haven't done much else. Talk everyday...
    Titziana Titziana 46-50 Feb 1

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    Me N My Love

    Hi friends ....before i start my story i will like to say abt my past....i was in a fair with someone to whom i love like anything....bt for family reason we both stop our love...aur i can say when he sifted to delhi i have stop everything coz i came to know tat he was in Fair...
    pucchu pucchu 26-30 Jan 21, 2013

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    Love Or Lust??

    A married man who is 15 yrs older to me came in my life as friend through Facebook..I always wanted to b his friend but his poetic & romantic words attracted me towards him. I am married for 14 yrs and never had any affairs, happily married with 2 beautiful kids... Why am I...
    frank20000 frank20000 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Making Decisions, Hard But Right, Scary But Right

    My marriage was nearing its end, constant turmoil day in and day out, when into my life walked this man that exuded serenity. I know now that I was probably drawn to him because its exactly what I needed in my life and I had become so used to the everyday stress that it seemed a...
    snowflame snowflame 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Crossroads.

    I have bee married for 14 years to a wonderful man, who is a perfect father to our kids. He gives me everything i could ever want. About 2 years ago, i rekindled an old friendship with a man i know for about 20 years. I met him long before i met my husband, and we have always...
    san23 san23 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2010

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    Affair Ruining My Life

    I am a lady in my early 30s, I have been married for 4 years and i have been having an affair with someone i met through work for 3 years. The affair has driven me away from my marriage that i am no longer intimate with my partner. Intercoursewith my H normally happens once in a...
    mosetsana mosetsana 31-35 1 Response May 22, 2013

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    I Want To Be A Pearl Again

    I Want to Be a Pearl Again She could be a statue of liberty She could be a Joan of Arc But he's scared of the light that's inside of her So he keeps her in the dark Oh, she used to be a pearl...Ohh Yeah, she used to rule the world...Ohh Can't believe she's become a shell of...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Nov 11, 2013

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    Big John

    Big John Every morning at the mine you could see him arrive He stood six-foot-six and weighed two-forty-five Kinda broad at the shoulder and narrow at the hip Everybody knew you didn't give no lip to Big John - Johnny Cash, Big John One of the plights of the male when it...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Nov 4, 2013

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    The Second Time.

    My dog is pulling frantically as I make my way up the side walk. He is my excuse today. My heart is pounding. I can't believe I'm about to do this but here I am…again. My dog tugs harder. Now he can see and smell Zoe in the backyard and he's dying to get to her. His door is...
    chorusgirl chorusgirl 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Steamy, Kinky Sex With My Hot Lover !

          As he walks in the door, I want to push him against the wall & kiss him passionately. I want to begin stripping off his clothes & press my horny body against his. I resist & walk up the stairs ahead of him. He says hello & I find myself slipping into my horny MILF...
    rosepetals11 rosepetals11 36-40, F Jun 26, 2012

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    Mental Dalliance

    There is this married man who is in love with me okay; He always looks at me with Lust in his eyes roaming over my body; He always looks at me with Need in his eyes searching for me to answer his inner cries; He just wants me because he has a need not being met in his marriage...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 18, 2012

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    8 Years And Nothing To Show For It

    I Know Not Where the Birds have Gone A little voice inside my head said, "don’t look back, you can never look back." I thought I knew what love was What did I know? Those days are gone forever I should just let them go but -- I can see you -- Your brown skin shining in the...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Jan 17, 2013

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    I Am Going Through A Self Destructive Affair

    We met online about 3 months ago.I was lost (read seeking intimacy but not getting it at home) and he claims that so was he.After exchanging a few e-mails, we meet for dinner and then we continue talking and meeting. Did I forget to mention that we are both married 18 years but...
    hopefulfor2013 hopefulfor2013 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Working Out With "the Pitcher" Part 1

         I don’t know for sure, but I am guessing that this story MAY need to be more than a few separate “parts”. It took a LONG time to happen, so I can only imagine, if I can remember it all, it will be a LONG story!                I had been chatting with...
    rosepetals11 rosepetals11 36-40, F Jun 27, 2012

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    Can Not Control Myself From Loving Another

    Could that be possible if i have a wonder wife, and i found myself deeply in love with another girl...
    wsanti wsanti 41-45, M May 15, 2013

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    Rekindled First Love From 30yrs Ago And Both Of Us Are Married

    He friended me on Facebook. We started talking like it was just yesterday when I broke off our engagement. We met to take which ended in a brief hiss and hug. Met again and talked and ended in a more passionate hug. We text daily and expressed our desire to love each other...
    Somethingmagical Somethingmagical 41-45, F 2 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Trust Is The Key To An Affair

    Here is the great irony about extramarital relationships. An affair is an act of betrayal, yet in order for an affair to work, the two people within the relationship must absolutely trust each other. To put it simply, you have to trust your partner more than you trust your spouse...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    Glenn'S Second Chance

    Glenn’s Second Chance “He has a girlfriend and I’m the other woman” - Meryl Streep as Jane Adler in It’s Complicated I was expecting a story like the one told by Glenn and was surprised it took so long to meet someone who would deliver it. Glenn had been married...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 28, 2013

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    Never Throw A Blanket Of Darkness Over Anothers Beautiful Light

    I happen to be a very kind and generous person in many ways. My biggest way is to always spread Love, Light and Joy where ever I go. I am very friendly to all the workers in all the stores I go too, I let people go ahead in line. I give homeless people a few bucks, I buy little...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Painful

    we married for 7 years. We stayed happily with 2 years ol daughter.But the things was over..... I have our second baby last year. He is a baby boy,i was so happy,he too. I realise my husband has an extramarital affair after 3 days i delivered my son. Its happened few months...
    ooilee13 ooilee13 26-30 10 Responses Jun 9, 2010

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    My Secret...........

    I am 29 years old, and have been married for 10 years, what I am about to disclose I have never shared with any one ever, but I just needed to express my feelings some how. my husband had been the first guy I have been with sexually and I always believed in faithfulness, for the...
    ANGELKZ ANGELKZ 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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