on 02:59PM at May 7th, 2007
My wife for the second time,has decided to walk out the door again,I wish that I would have thought this one through a little more,but here I am.Not a rookie at this but still hurts non the less.My wife seems to think she is a teenager all over again,I believe it is MLC,which I have been studying alot.She is concerned only with drinking and money what a combo.About 6 months ago she moved out and in with a girl friend of hers who strangely dissappeared for the 5 years we were married,but suddenly reappeared.To make more sense of this,I have been married to the same woman twice,same results.This is where her girl friend comes in,She appeared at the worst of our first marriage than we divorced for 5 years she hung around we remarried this time for 4 years,and here she is again,maybe coincidense maybe not but still weird.I am in a way glad she is gone,but I am hurt because of our children for the 2nd time they have to see this crap.
on 06:42AM at Aug 18th, 2008
it is easy to lay the blame on other people, Somehow it makes us feel that it is not really our spouses fault. Let's face it they are not kids, They have minds of their own and no the difference between right and wrong. I could easily blame my 2nd divorce on my MIL (who by the way is the ***** from hell) but even though she created alot of the **** in our marriage the point of it is My husband allowed it. And if the marriage meant anything to him he would have been man enough to stand up to her tactics.
I do feel for your kids, It is so hard for us adults I can only imagine how difficult this is for them. Draw your strength and peace from those innocent children and remind yourself constantly what your wife has caused them to go through.