I Am Going to Be a Military Girlfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 35 People

    I Am Going To Be A Sailor'S Girlfriend

    As of December of 2012, My boyfriend decided he was going to enlist in the US Navy. He's going into Meps Febuary 4th and 5th and hopfully he passes his tests.... I know it's going to be hard, but I'm sure I can handle this. We're already a long distance couple, but now he's going...
    ASailorsGirl18 ASailorsGirl18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 29, 2013

    New And Confused

    I am completely new at this! I have no idea what I am doing. Me and my guy are not actually officially dating. I think he is waiting until he comes home to make it official. We have been good friends for the longest time. I know a lot of you don't hardly get to talk to your man...
    somecountrygirl somecountrygirl
    18-21, F
    Jan 12, 2013

    Let The Countdown Begin...

    We're down to a little over a month until my boyfriend leaves for basics. I know deep in my heart that this isn't just "some fling." This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, and you can say I'm too young to know that, but I know, in the deepest parts of me. I...
    carealot96 carealot96
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2012

    Worth It.

    I am a junior in High School and I have been Best Friends with a wonderful guy named Josiah for almost 2 years. Most of the time we were friends he had a girlfriend, and even though I had strong feelings for him I never told him. Just a few months ago, him and his girlfriend...
    carealot96 carealot96
    16-17, F
    Sep 10, 2012

    Questions About Basic

    I'm trying to prepare as much as I can...can anyone give me any idea on how much we will communicate during basic, and in what forms? I always read different things, someone who knows and has experienced it would be great. He will be in the military.
    Hemi2012 Hemi2012
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 26, 2013

    So I've been talking to this guy

    for some months now and I've noticed some sexual tension. He comes home in 5 months and we've known each other for a few years. Should I have sex with him when he comes home since I may not have the chance to make love to him in many months? You're opinions?
    DaniD19 DaniD19
    18-21, F
    Jun 10, 2014

    Day One - 6 Months to Go

    even though we decided to "break up" while he was gone, we still both love each other and miss each other.  i saw him today for the last time that i will see him in six months.  we have been together almost three years and have hung out nearly every day since...
    jjane jjane
    26-30, F
    Feb 28, 2008

    I'M New To This Military Stuff

    My boyfriend is going through the process of getting into the national guard. I care about him so much and I want to support him more but I can't because I'm worrying about him. Also I need people that can talk to me. Also share their advice. When he leaves I don't want to be one...
    Goalie1993 Goalie1993
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2013

    He's Leaving In Two Months!!

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months so far, and I love him so much. He has just signed up with the ARMY, and will be leaving for basic training in two months. I have no idea how to handle this, and I don't know what to expect.
    dudlegirl9 dudlegirl9
    18-21
    3 Responses Feb 6, 2008

    I Don't Know What To Expect

    My boyfriend will be going into basic training soon, he's got his fitness test in a few days which he will pass. We're in a long distance relationship at the moment but I still have regular contact with him everyday and I get to see him every couple of weeks or so and so I just...
    charlottesometimes21 charlottesometimes21
    18-21, F
    Mar 12, 2012

    My Boyfriend Is Moving To Israel

    I've been dating Jake for just over 5 months now, and it has been one hell of a ride. I'm 17 and he's 18, so basically I have one more year of high school and he just graduated. As of about a year ago Jake decided he wanted to move to Israel when he graduated and join the IDF...
    ashmichelle777 ashmichelle777
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2013

    National Guard

    My boyfriend has officially joined the National Guard. He leaves for basic training in January of 2008. His MOS: EOD...Explosive Ordnance Disposal Specialist. AKA: dealing with bomb stuff. Scary stuff...I know. Anyways, he set his whole deal up to where he won't be coming back...
    timmysgirl timmysgirl
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2007

    Separation

    I will soon be a military girlfriend. This summer in fact is when he will be leaving. Right now I am on spring break, and 750 miles away from him. It is really the first time we have been apart. So for good practice we said that we wouldn't text or call, for practice of the...
    Hemi2012 Hemi2012
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

    Couting Down the Days Until I See Him Again

    Well first of all, I am already an army girlfriend.  We met while i was at school, and he was here visiting some friends.  We talked the entire night, thats when i found out that he was in the army and was only visiting for a month, then he would return to Korea for a...
    jmsk208 jmsk208
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 3, 2008

    June 24th Cannot Get Here Soon Enough.

    Yesterday was the last day that I get to see him until his graduation in May. And then he will leave for AIT and come back in June.We have only been dating since November but it seems like it has been much longer we've have known each other and been friends for three years now. I...
    NikkiWilson NikkiWilson
    16-17
    1 Response Mar 1, 2011

    I Am Going To Be A Military Girlfriend

    My boyfriend is literally the most wonderful man I have ever met. You hear people say that a lot. But he is, he would do anything for anyone and the love I feel for him overwhelms me. He has wanted to join the armed forces for a long time and this January he decided he was going...
    charlottesometimes21 charlottesometimes21
    18-21, F
    Mar 11, 2012

    Anyone?

    Does anyone have a boyfriend/husband that has just left for basic training in San Antonio, Texas?
    carealot96 carealot96
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2013

    Related Experiences

    Well it's just about time to get going. I've had lots of fun here this past year or so. Pictures, RPs, pleasant chats. I'm both sad to see it go and happy to be free of it. Took up...
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1
    22-25, M
    Apr 21
    Who else is going to Warped Tour I'm going to a couple different ones I'm going to ones in the following states New York Georgia New Jersey California Maryland Virginia...
    Daddydomless Daddydomless
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 21
    All of you seem to know what you want but I have no idea. Sometimes I get a bit jealous of my friends because all of them have girlfriend. I can understand how wonderful they feel...
    moscarodas moscarodas
    16-17, M
    Apr 21
    My girlfriend is the most beautiful girl in this whole world! I love you Sarah, to the moon and back!!
    musicislife32 musicislife32
    18-21, F
    Apr 21
    April 21 is fast approaching. This group has moved to Facebook, join us for support, encouragement, and advice! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram...
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 21
    April 21 is fast approaching. This group has moved to Facebook, join us for support, encouragement, and advice! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram...
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 21
    April 21 is fast approaching. This group has moved to Facebook, join us for support, encouragement, and advice! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram...
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 21
    April 21 is fast approaching. This group has moved to Facebook, join us for support, encouragement, and advice! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram...
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 21
    Going to miss all of you. Don't know if who is going to other sites or just deleting accounts and being done.... But if you want to stay in touch feel free to email me Cmyk323...
    cmyk323 cmyk323
    36-40, F
    Apr 21
    Joined EP a little over a year ago and I've met many people on here. The one person I cherish meeting the most is my girlfriend Josie. So for my last post on EP I want to just say...
    jojosspam jojosspam
    16-17, M
    Apr 19
    My boyfriend of 4 years got orders overseas. We have a baby together and he is leaving for 2 years this summer. We aren't going because we aren't married and because he will deploy...
    Mishelly81 Mishelly81
    31-35, F
    Apr 19
    This group has moved to Facebook , join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 19
    This group has moved to Facebook , join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 19
    This group has moved to Facebook , join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 19
    Never have i ever had a girlfriend, been kissed, went on a date, or hold hands with a female ever in my whole existence. I was always like the deep, strict, quiet and much slightly...
    Knickster24 Knickster24
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Apr 19
    Well today is two weeks not talking to my baby. One more week to go till I can(:
    MarineGf15 MarineGf15
    18-21, F
    Apr 18
    I am going to similar worlds. They don't pretend to be the same people as those who developed and ran this site. They are just going to do a better job that the people who...
    silmarilion456 silmarilion456
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 18
    My boyfriend graduated bootcamp this past Friday. Ladies I am one more living proof that love is stronger than everything. Love this family and I passed bmt and if you have any...
    Misabelf Misabelf
    18-21, F
    Apr 18
    I am a boy of 13, and I need a girlfriend of 12-13 years. If you are interested comment here or message me or you can also message me on Facebook@Ayam Dobhal
    AyamD15 AyamD15
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Apr 18
    The gals here are now on Facebook ! Join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 16
    The gals here are now on Facebook ! Join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 16
    I am bisexual. I would like a girlfriend. I am more into older women (20 and over) as I find them much more mature and experienced. Message me if you're interested
    HornyHenry69 HornyHenry69
    13-15, M
    1 Response Apr 16
    Hi guys I am 19 and my boyfriend and I have just met our 4th year together. My boyfriend is on hold at great lakes and is expected to leave on the 23. On the 23rd he is supposed to...
    joy0308 joy0308
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 15
    So I'm new to this whole military relationship. And my boyfriend just left on April 4th and I'm still a nervous wreck about him being gone. He's going to be a nuclear engineer for...
    hannah343 hannah343
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 15
    I know I'll have lost my vision by then. That's all I know. I dunno WTF I'm going to do when I'm older - the issue with being a jack-of-all-trades - and it's given more brainaches...
    AsYetNameless AsYetNameless
    13-15, T
    Apr 15
    I'd like to say I've been fattening my girlfriend up, but in reality she's doing most of the work herself! What can I say, I just like keeping her happy, so I make sure there's...
    sterlingredjack sterlingredjack
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 15
    I love the effect this has had on my girlfriend. She used to be stick-thin and 105 lbs. But then her and I started going out to eat all the time, buying more snacks to eat around...
    sterlingredjack sterlingredjack
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 15
    Well guys it's been a week and a half not talking to my baby. A week and a half more to go till I hear his voice again. Gosh I miss my marine
    MarineGf15 MarineGf15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 14
    My boyfriend is going off to bootcamp next summer. He wants me to follow him and I will but I want to do my own plans like go to college .... I hope to hear from other's !
    BringTheBizzle BringTheBizzle
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 13
    I am a military girlfriend my boyfriend just left yesterday for basic training and I have been on the internet trying to find support groups because I just needed people who...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 13
    She was living here with her aunt and uncle for a year and was about the greatest person I ever met. I thought we would be together forever. But she went back and we tried to keep...
    HardlyHarley HardlyHarley
    18-21, M
    Apr 13
    I am 19 and my fiance will be going to bootcamp in September. This is going to be a long but interesting and I hope enjoyable ride.
    alexis05 alexis05
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 12
    I got a girlfriend this weekend. She is my dream. I love her so, but realize its only been a few days, so calm down, and wait to get real on all this. She's been in love with me...
    9minute 9minute
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 11
    I joined Experience Project when I was going through a rough patch. I remember going on and typing my problems away. I got good advice from some people. Then, as soon as everything...
    nemophilist8 nemophilist8
    18-21, F
    Apr 11
    because you just said this, "I hurt and I'm sad for the reason that you can't tell me anything and I have to watch you sit there helpless and sad.", "Sometimes I feel like i am...
    silentsimp silentsimp
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 11
    I've been looking for a girlfriend for almost a year a girl that is kind loving and beautiful in between the age of 13 and 15 im only 13 but im triedmof looking just need some one...
    skylerjohnson skylerjohnson
    13-15, M
    1 Response Apr 10
    Friendly reminder* to stay in contact with this group join our Facebook! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 10
    So I am a military gf we have been together for almost 3 years. my partner is just about to pass out of phase 1 training, I am so proud of him 😁 it's been hard as I am now 26...
    nict88 nict88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 10
    although I do want a girlfriend at this point I'd much rather have a friend that's a girl to just talk to. I always seem to have better conversations with girls and open up to...
    joker364 joker364
    26-30, M
    Apr 10
    My boyfriend is a marine, at one point before he became a marine we weren't dating anymore we took a long break (almost a year) because he didn't know what he wanted anymore. He...
    DeyDeyHM DeyDeyHM
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 9
    It's hard not to. I'm split into so many parts. So many thoughts and emotions that feel like they shouldn't be mine. But it's more than that, no one sees the things I do in music...
    justbnatural justbnatural
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 8
    Hi, I am new to this.. I am 18 years old about to start my senior year next year and a member of the Army national guard, I ship June 4th.. 2 days after my senior year ends. My...
    asia98lewis asia98lewis
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 8
    I am no longer a military girlfriend but I am currently talking to this wonderful guy in the Navy and I am in need of an advice. This post is quite long so please, please bear with...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 8
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