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I Am Going to Be a Military Girlfriend

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    Anyone?

    Does anyone have a boyfriend/husband that has just left for basic training in San Antonio, Texas?
    carealot96 carealot96 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2013

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    I Am Going To Be A Sailor'S Girlfriend

    As of December of 2012, My boyfriend decided he was going to enlist in the US Navy. He's going into Meps Febuary 4th and 5th and hopfully he passes his tests.... I know it's going to be hard, but I'm sure I can handle this. We're already a long distance couple, but now he's going...
    ASailorsGirl18 ASailorsGirl18 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    New And Confused

    I am completely new at this! I have no idea what I am doing. Me and my guy are not actually officially dating. I think he is waiting until he comes home to make it official. We have been good friends for the longest time. I know a lot of you don't hardly get to talk to your man...
    somecountrygirl somecountrygirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    National Guard

    My boyfriend has officially joined the National Guard. He leaves for basic training in January of 2008. His MOS: EOD...Explosive Ordnance Disposal Specialist. AKA: dealing with bomb stuff. Scary stuff...I know. Anyways, he set his whole deal up to where he won't be coming back...
    timmysgirl timmysgirl 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2007

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    So I've been talking to this guy

    for some months now and I've noticed some sexual tension. He comes home in 5 months and we've known each other for a few years. Should I have sex with him when he comes home since I may not have the chance to make love to him in many months? You're opinions?
    DaniD19 DaniD19 18-21, F Jun 10, 2014

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    Couting Down the Days Until I See Him Again

    Well first of all, I am already an army girlfriend.  We met while i was at school, and he was here visiting some friends.  We talked the entire night, thats when i found out that he was in the army and was only visiting for a month, then he would return to Korea for a...
    jmsk208 jmsk208 18-21, F 1 Response May 3, 2008

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    Day One - 6 Months to Go

    even though we decided to "break up" while he was gone, we still both love each other and miss each other.  i saw him today for the last time that i will see him in six months.  we have been together almost three years and have hung out nearly every day since...
    jjane jjane 26-30, F Feb 28, 2008

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    June 24th Cannot Get Here Soon Enough.

    Yesterday was the last day that I get to see him until his graduation in May. And then he will leave for AIT and come back in June.We have only been dating since November but it seems like it has been much longer we've have known each other and been friends for three years now. I...
    NikkiWilson NikkiWilson 16-17 1 Response Mar 1, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Is Moving To Israel

    I've been dating Jake for just over 5 months now, and it has been one hell of a ride. I'm 17 and he's 18, so basically I have one more year of high school and he just graduated. As of about a year ago Jake decided he wanted to move to Israel when he graduated and join the IDF...
    ashmichelle777 ashmichelle777 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    I'M New To This Military Stuff

    My boyfriend is going through the process of getting into the national guard. I care about him so much and I want to support him more but I can't because I'm worrying about him. Also I need people that can talk to me. Also share their advice. When he leaves I don't want to be one...
    Goalie1993 Goalie1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2013

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    I Don't Know What To Expect

    My boyfriend will be going into basic training soon, he's got his fitness test in a few days which he will pass. We're in a long distance relationship at the moment but I still have regular contact with him everyday and I get to see him every couple of weeks or so and so I just...
    charlottesometimes21 charlottesometimes21 18-21, F Mar 12, 2012

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    Worth It.

    I am a junior in High School and I have been Best Friends with a wonderful guy named Josiah for almost 2 years. Most of the time we were friends he had a girlfriend, and even though I had strong feelings for him I never told him. Just a few months ago, him and his girlfriend...
    carealot96 carealot96 16-17, F Sep 10, 2012

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    Separation

    I will soon be a military girlfriend. This summer in fact is when he will be leaving. Right now I am on spring break, and 750 miles away from him. It is really the first time we have been apart. So for good practice we said that we wouldn't text or call, for practice of the...
    Hemi2012 Hemi2012 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    He's Leaving In Two Months!!

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months so far, and I love him so much. He has just signed up with the ARMY, and will be leaving for basic training in two months. I have no idea how to handle this, and I don't know what to expect.
    dudlegirl9 dudlegirl9 18-21 3 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    I Am Going To Be A Military Girlfriend

    My boyfriend is literally the most wonderful man I have ever met. You hear people say that a lot. But he is, he would do anything for anyone and the love I feel for him overwhelms me. He has wanted to join the armed forces for a long time and this January he decided he was going...
    charlottesometimes21 charlottesometimes21 18-21, F Mar 11, 2012

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    Let The Countdown Begin...

    We're down to a little over a month until my boyfriend leaves for basics. I know deep in my heart that this isn't just "some fling." This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, and you can say I'm too young to know that, but I know, in the deepest parts of me. I...
    carealot96 carealot96 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2012

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    Questions About Basic

    I'm trying to prepare as much as I can...can anyone give me any idea on how much we will communicate during basic, and in what forms? I always read different things, someone who knows and has experienced it would be great. He will be in the military.
    Hemi2012 Hemi2012 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Just found out my boyfriend is going to be stationed in Japan. This ought to be fun..
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    His plane left today. He is no longer in the United States 😔 I'm going to miss him so much I hope next spring comes soo
    asoldiersgirl2012 asoldiersgirl2012 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    http://youtu.be/GAstxqgkzZc Ladies watch this video its called "Military Love" it'll make ya'lls day knowing that we really are being appreciated and men do notice all the...
    abbyrodriguez abbyrodriguez 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I am a long time military girlfriend. Most military couples don't stay in this stage for as long as we have. We have been together for 5 years. We met in college, and have been...
    JoRigs JoRigs 22-25, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    nobody that I socialize with understand the pain I am going through they all tell me to stop crying cause he will be back...but don't understand the pain I'm going through rn... I...
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend is in the navy and it's one of the most challenging loving relationships I've ever been in. But I wouldn't change it for anything in the world. I'm willing to give...
    noellegabriella noellegabriella 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    UPDATE: my "boyfriend" and I talked things out... we have decided that we will be going back to square one... we are no longer officially a couple bc the whole thing is apparently...
    Alli4772 Alli4772 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The day my boyfriend left for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hey everyone! I am new to this, I am a military girlfriend. I have been friends with my boyfriend way before he joined the Coast Guard, and continued to be friends with after he...
    ctr11b ctr11b 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I have a question for all the girlfriends who has been to like a military ball! In September, me and my boyfriend are going to the Airforce Semi formal ball... And I have NO clue...
    sydp95 sydp95 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Today has been one of those hard days where all I want is a hug from my baby. I had a super loaded and stressful day at school, and I got in a car accident right after school. Now...
    AnaValencia AnaValencia 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have known my boyfriend for 6 years, we have been close for about 4 of those years, we have been dating on and off again for almost 9 months because I was afraid to commit and...
    Alli4772 Alli4772 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I have talked to and got to meet a few people who were going through BCT and AIT on this page and don't want to leave it even though I am a spouse now ..I'd still like to stay...
    brenarmywf brenarmywf 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Georgia life is good so far...I do miss home but our new life together is well worth it! Oh and the deployment date changed so I still have time with him for a couple months at...
    brenarmywf brenarmywf 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Haven't posted in a while or even used the app, but here's an update on what's all going on. My honey graduates from AIT this week! The plan was for him to come home this weekend...
    selenaalyse selenaalyse 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Hi ladies, well its a possibility that I may be a soon to be army wife. My husband a was Navy Sailor who was honorably discharged and came back home from Pearl Harbor, Hawaii back...
    VaniaAbel VaniaAbel 18-21, F Aug 18

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    Today's the day I'm watching my boyfriend leave for boot camp. I'm going to try and hold my tears back for him but it's going to be a struggle. This came up so fast...
    Jordaiin Jordaiin 18-21, F Aug 18

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    Anyone have a relationship that goes on and off for years ? I feel like no one understand because dating in the military is hard .I feel like his family and friends look at us like...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    It my boyfriend in high school .We did not start dating until after high school .First 2 years got station over Japan we were on and off .He got deployed one time to afghan.I...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I'm going to visit my boyfriend Friday at tech school!!!! So excited! He's talked a little about proposing but I'm 18 and he's 20 and I'm going to college. What do you all feel...
    KLuce15 KLuce15 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    my boyfriend left for basic a week ago, and none of my friends understand what I'm going through. they all say "its not like you broke up" or "he'll be back, get over it." just...
    cassiemarie19 cassiemarie19 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    Me and my boyfriend met in high school .He join the marines afterwards and he was station over Japan for 2 years .The first leave everything was great than everything went down...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Are there any military girlfriends that have a boyfriend who is in fort Leonard wood right now??
    LoveIsArmyStrong LoveIsArmyStrong 18-21 1 Response Aug 15

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    So I went out to eat w mom, sister and grandma. And my mom and sister double up on me telling me how I made a mistake getting with David knowing that he was leaving. They say he's...
    AnaValencia AnaValencia 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm going to talk to my boyfriend's mom soon. She really doesn't like me right now, which I'm doing my best to fix whatever I did. How do I fix things without cowering? I want to...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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