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I Am Going to Be a Military Girlfriend

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    Day One - 6 Months to Go - even though we decided to "break up" while he was gone, we still both love each other and miss each other.  i saw him today for the last...
    jjane jjane 26-30, F Feb 28, 2008

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    Couting Down the Days Until I See Him Again - Well first of all, I am already an army girlfriend.  We met while i was at school, and he was here visiting some friends. ...
    jmsk208 jmsk208 18-21, F 1 Response May 3, 2008

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    Worth It. - I am a junior in High School and I have been Best Friends with a wonderful guy named Josiah for almost 2 years. Most of the time we were friends he had a girlfriend...
    carealot96 carealot96 16-17, F Sep 10, 2012

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    Let The Countdown Begin... - We're down to a little over a month until my boyfriend leaves for basics. I know deep in my heart that this isn't just "some fling." This is the man I...
    carealot96 carealot96 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2012

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    I Am Going To Be A Sailor'S Girlfriend - As of December of 2012, My boyfriend decided he was going to enlist in the US Navy. He's going into Meps Febuary 4th and 5th and hopfully...
    ASailorsGirl18 ASailorsGirl18 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    He's Leaving In Two Months!! - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months so far, and I love him so much. He has just signed up with the ARMY, and will be leaving for basic...
    dudlegirl9 dudlegirl9 19-21 3 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    Separation - I will soon be a military girlfriend. This summer in fact is when he will be leaving. Right now I am on spring break, and 750 miles away from him. It is really the...
    Hemi2012 Hemi2012 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    I Don't Know What To Expect - My boyfriend will be going into basic training soon, he's got his fitness test in a few days which he will pass. We're in a long distance relationship...
    charlottesometimes21 charlottesometimes21 18-21, F Mar 12, 2012

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    June 24th Cannot Get Here Soon Enough. - Yesterday was the last day that I get to see him until his graduation in May. And then he will leave for AIT and come back in June.We have...
    NikkiWilson NikkiWilson 16-17 1 Response Mar 1, 2011

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    Questions About Basic - I'm trying to prepare as much as I can...can anyone give me any idea on how much we will communicate during basic, and in what forms? I always read...
    Hemi2012 Hemi2012 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    Anyone? - Does anyone have a boyfriend/husband that has just left for basic training in San Antonio, Texas?
    carealot96 carealot96 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2013

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    I Am Going To Be A Military Girlfriend - My boyfriend is literally the most wonderful man I have ever met. You hear people say that a lot. But he is, he would do anything for...
    charlottesometimes21 charlottesometimes21 18-21, F Mar 11, 2012

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    I'M New To This Military Stuff - My boyfriend is going through the process of getting into the national guard. I care about him so much and I want to support him more but I can't...
    Goalie1993 Goalie1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2013

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    National Guard - My boyfriend has officially joined the National Guard. He leaves for basic training in January of 2008. His MOS: EOD...Explosive Ordnance Disposal Specialist. AKA...
    timmysgirl timmysgirl 16-18, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2007

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    New And Confused - I am completely new at this! I have no idea what I am doing. Me and my guy are not actually officially dating. I think he is waiting until he comes home to make...
    somecountrygirl somecountrygirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    Hey ladies! So I'm a fairly new Marine girlfriend. I met my Marine through my stepmom.... ironically her boss is his mother. :) She knew about me from talks with my stepmom and...
    JELarson3514 JELarson3514 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I haven't been dating him long and I feel like even being on here is crazy but it's tough. He's pushing me away because he knows how tough the next four years can be with only...
    natspen natspen 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Hey guys, I'm a bit nervous about this but I need someone to talk to. I'm a 17 year old girl who has been dating her boyfriend for 6months ATM, my boyfriend started talking about...
    angelskyanderson angelskyanderson 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I may not like you. I don't like the way you smell, your breath always smells of rotting milk. I don't like the way you talk, it's always too loud. I don't like the way you want to...
    heymunoz heymunoz 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My marine just broke up with me before he went to boot camp. To say the least I am crushed and hurt. I was the one that understood what he was going through and this came out of no...
    katemancini1115 katemancini1115 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    My engagement ring from my Marine :) can't wait to embark on this new journey with him <3 any military wives have some advice for a soon to be marine wife? I've been a military...
    lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I'm about to become a military girlfriend :(
    MyrkaEspinoza MyrkaEspinoza 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I got engaged to my Airman and have no idea where to start with the planning for the wedding... I have so many ideas. If there are any Military Girlfriends/fiances/wives, MESSAGE...
    Gingerelle Gingerelle 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I was a military girlfriend. But army has made him heartless. We broke up after almost 3 years of a perfect relationship.. Its been an year now but i still love him and hate him at...
    steee15 steee15 18-21, F Mar 27

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    So I was thinking about getting news that your loved one will be gone longer than originally planned, or there is some other unforeseen event that prevents you from seeing them as...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I just want to shout all over the world how happy i am.. finally got call from my soldier, who is away for his trainings. Another 3 weeks and i will see him again. Can't wait. Then...
    ioannaLee ioannaLee 18-21, F Apr 3

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    actually..idk if im still a military girlfriend...we've been in the relationship for almost 2years..i've seen him before,during and after deployment..i've experienced days,weeks...
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 5

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    Hi! I will be gone for a little while, but if you want to, message me! :) I would love to meet other military girlfriends here! :)
    navygirlfriend22 navygirlfriend22 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Today me and my boyfriend were talking and he told me he wanted to join the USA army when he turned 18 (which is in a few months) I can't help but feel really worried and scared...
    esperanza53 esperanza53 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Anyone been with their military man before they joined the military who witnessed their boyfriend go through the process of signing up for the army that can message me? I have some...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    So my dad told my boyfriend's mother that my boyfriend and I won't last because we're going in "two different directions" in our lives. My boyfriend was devastated when he heard...
    tsmith25 tsmith25 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    As the significant other of someone in the military, you know. You know what it’s like to wonder if he’s okay. You know what it’s like to lay awake at night and wonder if he...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Sometimes the military sucks. But you get out of it what you put into it. If your going to be one of those people who just complains that your soldier is gone or cant be with and...
    lmsabatino lmsabatino 22-25, F a week ago

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    Just recently started dating my man , he has taken an interest in being a member of the armed forces and I supported him through his enrolment and found my self falling in love...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    You know it's love when he gives up his sleep to stay up late and talk to you. Especially when he's in the Military, sleep is like gold over there <3 lol I am a proud US Army...
    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Anyone else hate when people say "military wife/girlfriend, hardest job in the ____ " ? It's like...well , you know, I'm not the one on submarine or a boat or in some foreign...
    Sierragoneau Sierragoneau 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Anybody got proposed to while their SO was at basic but didn't get a ring yet?? I'm engaged, I'm planning my wedding, we're getting married after AIT. I know I'm getting a ring but...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Today I realized that I may not get to see my Sailor for the next year and a half. He might be able to come visit me in Washington in May for a week but then he'll be going back to...
    DistantSailor DistantSailor 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I had such a strange start with him... We met 2 weeks before he left for bootcamp. I was infatuated with him. I told him I would write him every day, and I did. I traveled 1,500...
    Poetbyheart Poetbyheart 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I've known my bf for 4 months but have only been dating him for 3. He leaves in just about a month for basic training and I'm nervous about how he's going to do there. He's not in...
    xoxohayley xoxohayley 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    If anyone needs support I will be here for you. I am currently going through a second deployment with my fiancé and I know that support is a huge factor for all of us at home. I...
    lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I figured since I haven't posted a story to this specific experience in a while, that it was definitely time to, especially being since February. So in the 2 and a half months...
    Gemini0069 Gemini0069 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    We were talking about marriage and our future today. Talked about whether he will reenlist or not, talked about what he wants to do, what I want to do. He wants to go for Chief E7...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    He's here these days and im so happy bout it!!he's done wit BCT btw he's going to AIT...btw everytime he'd kiss me xD I thought he would change but...he's still the sweet same guy...
    ardesia ardesia 18-21, F a week ago

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    Maybe it's a relationship thing rather than a military thing. He doesn't want me to get attached to him too much in case these upcoming years in the Navy are too much. He tells...
    natspen natspen 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    This post has nothing to do with being a military gf but I need some advise I just found out my little sister that is in middle school is making twerk videos and sending it to boys...
    wifey2be wifey2be 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I miss him so much I wish I could hold him feel him I can't wait when he get back from afghans so we could be together forever I know the military get my soldier but I get his...
    Bella114 Bella114 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Bad day today 😞 Everything I've tried so hard not to cry about in the last 5 weeks is all coming up . 25 days to go feels like an eternity . Screw the military for taking our...
    jitterbuggxo jitterbuggxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Is it bad breaking down to your military man and telling him that you miss him?? I don't want to show him I'm weak but I could use some comfort.. I need advice please
    bayjoy95 bayjoy95 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    My sailor has been at A School for only 3 days. I'm starting to feel so many different emotions. Mostly sad. The distance is getting to me. We can barely talk because he's so busy...
    TayBunting TayBunting 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Past few days have been peaceful and really nice between my soldier and I. Although I miss the crap outta him like usual. After the huge argument we got into about how other...
    Cierraaa15 Cierraaa15 18-21 1 Response