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I Am Going to Be Friends With Who I Want to Be Friends With

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    It's My Decision

    I have had people telling me off and on my whole like you should/shouldn't be friends with this person you can/ can't talk to this person. Well right now I am going to say, I am almost 25 years old, I am  damn well old enough to decide who i will or will not be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    Through My Eyes...

    What I see in someone with my own eyes and what they show me with their heart is not for you to judge. We are different things to different people and the beauty inside myself and yours cannot be exposed to the masses. You are special to someone, anyone, to me... because I can...
    KatjaShoshanaGrace KatjaShoshanaGrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Indeed I Will

    Okay, so... Since elementary school, people have been telling me who I should and should not be friends with. It's lame. I've been friends with some really cool people that have been shunned from the majority because they are different. In elementary school I was best friends...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    My Life

    I Dont Like When People Say You Shouldnt Talk To Them Or Hang Out With Them.   This Is My Life I Can Do As I Please.
    cry7 cry7 22-25, M Feb 27, 2009

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    Grow Up

    Damn straight I can chose my friends. Who are you to tell me I can't be friends with someone? Maybe I'm more accepting of people than you. XP You big jerk!
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F Jan 12, 2009

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    Ummmm...

    Isn't this kind of a no-brainer?
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    A Big No No

    I cant stand it when people say you can't or can hang out with them or you shouldn't hang out with him/her.What really gets under my skin is when my parents say they're a negative influence...i've been called a negative influence before and it's not a good feeling. No one's ever...
    desertedangel desertedangel 18-21, F Apr 30, 2009

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    Yep..

    I am don't follow the crowd, and don't listen to others be friends with such and such I do that at work!
    scarecrowe scarecrowe 22-25, M Sep 29, 2010

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    I'M An Adult

    I am old enough to vote, drink, procreate, marry, divorce, and buy cigarettes.  I am therefore also old enough to pick my own friends.  I love the people on my circle and would never ask them to choose friendship with me over their friendship with another person but...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    Yes I Am

    I am going to be friends whit who I want to be friend with. I am not going to let anyone tell me, who I can and can not be friends with. I am just not going to take it anymore.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    No Matter What People Think

     because i have walked down that long lonesome road.and i know what it is like.i don`t care what the he** people think.these same people are the ones who will not go around their family because they are beneath them.or because they have some kind of disability .they make me...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Sep 26, 2009

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    I Pick My Friends.

    I pick my friends based on what I think of them not what others think. I wouldn't have half the friends I've got if I let other pick and choose them.
    Chance101 Chance101 41-45 1 Response Feb 18, 2009

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    Nearly Anyone

    Being the person I am I have made many friends/associates in my life time. Depending on the first impression of the person my Personality changes not in a drastic way just in points of interest and conversation topics, whether religion or music or current events I hold an...
    mrmcool mrmcool 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    It is a friend with benefits rather than multiple like the title suggests. I have never done it before. Probably wouldn't do it again. But now I feel trapped and I think he does...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I am a extremely secret person so I think I enjoy this site most of all because I have a place I can let things off my chest yet still be anonymous to some degree. Anyways; with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I love having a friends with benefits but it can be so nerve wracking. In the past, I have had feelings for a friend with benefit & that didn't turn out so well. I would go over...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I have been friends with 2 people who were once very happily married. I met both of them at the same time and they seemed to be really great together. It seems that now perhaps...
    beinmee beinmee 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    So I hooked up with a guy I met at a Korean spa. We texted about what we were looking for. We both said friends with benefits. We got together and it was good. Yesterday i took a...
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He has been busy. I've been cooking for him and our other room mate a lot. He's been eating everything and going back for seconds. He's normally very picky and not a big eater...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F Jul 30

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    I have a close, Bi-Female friend who wants to meet more Women Bi or straight. I get along with women better than men and would like to make more female friends as well. We want...
    MikjallFimbultyr MikjallFimbultyr 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I loved the guy who used to be my best friend but he didn't feel the same towards me and I moved on from him to great extent. And now we are soon to be friends with benefits. We...
    Bella2911 Bella2911 18-21, F Aug 4

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    Always had better relationship with guy friends (no back stabbing no jealousy etc) but in the end they always wanted to bang me. Then of course I was doubting the real reason they...
    lifetails lifetails 26-30, F Jul 20

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    Really I'm still in shock and I haven't really figured out how to feel about this yet. Maybe talking about it here will help. I'll start from the beginning with how I met and...
    NuuIdeas NuuIdeas 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I want to make friends with people who have kids text me at 781-202-6188
    silentpeanut silentpeanut 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I find it amazing how few people seem to know who they are or be able to be content with themselves. Aside from the romance factor, I don't need someone to tell me I'm beautiful...
    picadilly1970 picadilly1970 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I don't care if I'm with the nerds, popular, normal or isolated people. I want to friends with everyone. I want to get to know people more. I was a popular kid in my old school...
    dreadedpast dreadedpast 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I always wanted to be friends with a cheerleader LMFAO
    radicalkiah radicalkiah 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I always wanted to be friends with a gamer addict
    radicalkiah radicalkiah 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I've only ever had 2 boyfriends since I was 14. First relationship lasted for about 6 months, second one lasted for 2 years but it was an on-and-off abusive relationship. If I...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    What would be the point of only being friends with people like me? It takes all sorts to make the world turn. And let's be honest, I'm not the most exhilarating company! Haha.
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    Societies labels, hmmm. Well straight to the point, I've been friends with a goth, hippy, drug dealer, potheads, crackheads, drunk heads, so called "disabled or mentally Ill" the...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 29

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    I can be friends with people from a wide range of difference. It varies from oldschool nerds to contemporary ******* or even mixed! I'm the kind of in between these two, so maybe...
    pnsrstw pnsrstw 18-21, F Aug 8

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    I just made friends with a scary sheep :D He head-butts everyone except for me :D I love that guy and he loves me lol
    tarara0414 tarara0414 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    It's so true. Like people that are completely opposite from me I can be friends with them(:
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I just realized how ridiculous this experience is. Because surely people who need a "talk" or "advice" will probably never come here. The people who are actually depressed and...
    LightlySaltedSalmon LightlySaltedSalmon 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I would even be friends with a.. a.. a mayo lover!
    ketchuplover24 ketchuplover24 22-25, M 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I'm bored, who wants to talk? Message me.
    FallingUp23 FallingUp23 13-15, M Jul 26

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    Will Talk To Anyone Who Wants To Talk To Me Or Needs Advice
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M Jul 30

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    Meeee Im a skinny girl who wants to gain weight :)
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    "I am bored, who wants to "chat".
    MadaraU MadaraU 22-25, M Aug 11

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    I ended things. We are now friends only. The events leading up to that were convoluted and confusing as usual. So a few days ago we went over to some friends of ours. Our...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I do not judge others for things they say/think/feel...i do not think anything is gross or weird...what i want right now is for you to message me and tell me what your secret is...
    MosBlccPhnix MosBlccPhnix 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    Things have taken a different turn than I thought they would. Its felt like he was mad at me for a while. We kind of blew up the night before last. The other night he picked out...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    in real coz they are afraid of what ive been before. I have a bestfriend before and she left me because im in trouble. I have a serious problem with my neighbour before...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I have an ex bf, James, who is my best friend. When we went out it was awk and we knew it couldn't work. I loved him but I had to let him go. I no longer love him like that but...
    BellyBoo5 BellyBoo5 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    So my ex just called me and was like I need your help. My gf doesn't believe that we are broken up so I'm going to put her on three way call and she thinks you don't know she's...
    Pinkyschwear23 Pinkyschwear23 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    This is a HUGE group! I try to stay open to all types of people and I show each of them respect. I try to find positive qualities in each. There are plenty of people in the...
    icDavey icDavey 56-60, M 4 Responses Jul 20

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    It's crazy knowing people that are going into the army or marines or navy, you tend to understand and appreciate all other soldiers more, because you know what they and their...
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F Jul 30

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