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I Am Going to Be Friends With Who I Want to Be Friends With

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 236 People

    I Pick My Friends.

    I pick my friends based on what I think of them not what others think. I wouldn't have half the friends I've got if I let other pick and choose them.
    Chance101 Chance101 41-45 1 Response Feb 18, 2009

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    Nearly Anyone

    Being the person I am I have made many friends/associates in my life time. Depending on the first impression of the person my Personality changes not in a drastic way just in points of interest and conversation topics, whether religion or music or current events I hold an...
    mrmcool mrmcool 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    Yep..

    I am don't follow the crowd, and don't listen to others be friends with such and such I do that at work!
    scarecrowe scarecrowe 22-25, M Sep 29, 2010

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    No Matter What People Think

     because i have walked down that long lonesome road.and i know what it is like.i don`t care what the he** people think.these same people are the ones who will not go around their family because they are beneath them.or because they have some kind of disability .they make me...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Sep 26, 2009

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    Ummmm...

    Isn't this kind of a no-brainer?
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    Indeed I Will

    Okay, so... Since elementary school, people have been telling me who I should and should not be friends with. It's lame. I've been friends with some really cool people that have been shunned from the majority because they are different. In elementary school I was best friends...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    It's My Decision

    I have had people telling me off and on my whole like you should/shouldn't be friends with this person you can/ can't talk to this person. Well right now I am going to say, I am almost 25 years old, I am  damn well old enough to decide who i will or will not be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    My Life

    I Dont Like When People Say You Shouldnt Talk To Them Or Hang Out With Them.   This Is My Life I Can Do As I Please.
    cry7 cry7 22-25, M Feb 27, 2009

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    A Big No No

    I cant stand it when people say you can't or can hang out with them or you shouldn't hang out with him/her.What really gets under my skin is when my parents say they're a negative influence...i've been called a negative influence before and it's not a good feeling. No one's ever...
    desertedangel desertedangel 18-21, F Apr 30, 2009

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    Grow Up

    Damn straight I can chose my friends. Who are you to tell me I can't be friends with someone? Maybe I'm more accepting of people than you. XP You big jerk!
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F Jan 12, 2009

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    Yes I Am

    I am going to be friends whit who I want to be friend with. I am not going to let anyone tell me, who I can and can not be friends with. I am just not going to take it anymore.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    I'M An Adult

    I am old enough to vote, drink, procreate, marry, divorce, and buy cigarettes.  I am therefore also old enough to pick my own friends.  I love the people on my circle and would never ask them to choose friendship with me over their friendship with another person but...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    Through My Eyes...

    What I see in someone with my own eyes and what they show me with their heart is not for you to judge. We are different things to different people and the beauty inside myself and yours cannot be exposed to the masses. You are special to someone, anyone, to me... because I can...
    KatjaShoshanaGrace KatjaShoshanaGrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Warning, this is long, but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once...
    sketchit sketchit 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    I can be friends with just about anyone who wants to be friends with me. Being friends with people totally different from me means maybe I get to learn new things. How cool is...
    CoffeeFlavoredKisses CoffeeFlavoredKisses 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    it'd be great to make friends with someone who is like me
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F Nov 23

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    In a way I like it why not I had a friend but we don't really see each other as much anymore but we still text but we are the complete opposite in style, likes, disliked, music...
    digglett digglett 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    I'm still friends with my first girlfriend, even after we broke up. It's good that we're still friends. She's not a bad person. She was just too clingy, never letting me have time...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M Nov 25

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    After two heart-breaking relationships, I gave up on love. I chose to be single and mingle for straight sexual bliss and fun. I have five friends with benefits and we all share the...
    M3MC M3MC 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    Should I still be friends with my ex because I get jealous when she talks about this friend. She is always talking about this other friend now and I think u shouldn't be friends...
    sarcasticgirl sarcasticgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    Have you ever been friends with an ex but no matter what you do it always feels awkward? Like there is some sexual tension there... And I don't believe it will ever go away.
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I do feel lonely at times, and I do understand the pain of heartbreak and failure, as I myself have experienced it. There are many of you who are experiencing loneliness or trying...
    rko683 rko683 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    I do , i hate having anxiety people tell me that im crasy and they dont know wat im going thru . They tell me that i dont have symptoms from my anxiety ,
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    I just like to be out and about in the world around me, with my friends having a good time. Doesn't matter what we do, it's just pure fun. Maybe that's why I like cross country so...
    sblp2017 sblp2017 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Totally! Tbh I have friends who are more academically smarter than me, like my brainy science friends, my maths loving friends and my fun friends who love English. We all help each...
    MixedJayy MixedJayy 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    So, as I mentioned before I find chubby girls very attractive. I myself am also chubby and love being chubby, however I want to remain healthy. Recently this girl started talking...
    ilovefatforsomereason ilovefatforsomereason 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    I want to make a friend Just loyal friend and I am Who is loyal and want be friend with me just message me thanks
    loyalandhonest loyalandhonest 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 19

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    It's tough living with anxiety, not only because the effects of anxiety alone are crippling, but also because people don't understand what it's like. My family doesn't even believe...
    amazingcuzitis amazingcuzitis 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    Freshman year of high school, I was awkward and quiet, but my choir teacher made it his goal to bring me out of my shell. It was his first year as a teacher, and we instantly...
    MeAndMySkinnyLove MeAndMySkinnyLove 16-17, F Nov 23

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    one of my best friends lets call her K bullyed me today she called me bossy and my other best friend lets call her A anyway A and I walk home together and I told her my story and...
    basmalaalemam basmalaalemam 13-15, F Nov 25

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    Is there anybody out there who can help me achieve this? We don't have to be "lovers" I'm fine with being friends. I like formal dresses the most.
    notuh notuh 31-35, M 15 hrs ago

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    I like having friends that like the same things that I do...or at least some things...but I also enjoy having friends that are totally opposite of me. You learn more from them...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 22

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    I gaze in the mirror and no longer recognize who looks back at me...who are you I ask over and over, I no longer know who you are.....where did you go? where did you run away to...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    the thing is what I am always worried about is if she has the cooties. I'm looking for a college graduate A woman with a job preferably a career who doesn't have a lot of time in...
    LoveRobbery LoveRobbery 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    The last two women who rode me both wanted me to marry them. I just want to ****, over and over.
    00000MG 00000MG 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    I like all people if they are cool and out going thats whats up
    marvel901jones marvel901jones 41-45, M Nov 18

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    I have friends who's interests and personalities are very different if not completely opposite of mine. As long as you see value in each other and cherish each other's feelings...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    I want to wear skirts. I do wear skirts at home. I want to wear skirts in public. There is a safety factor on a man wearing a skirt in public. Along with all the snide remarks too...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I am a 15 year old white girl and every day I wear dresses and white pantyhose. There is a 53 year old black man who lives across the street from me and my family. His wife passed...
    tracywatson tracywatson 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 6

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    What are you going to do if you have a TRAITOR FRIEND?? It's really hard,,Isn't it??
    xolovemia23 xolovemia23 13-15, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    Met these 2 amazing people in Leeds yesterday. Was a great day. I met robert who's a total sweetheart and really cute, although he's all for the boys;) haha. So no chance there. He...
    WeCouldBeDead WeCouldBeDead 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    Message me if u wanna become friends 😏😏😏
    maverick909 maverick909 13-15, M Nov 28

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    I want to make new friends from anywhere because I enjoy learning about different cultures and I think there is strength in diversity.
    Shyviolet2 Shyviolet2 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 28

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    My ex boyfriend and I were together for two years on and off, and now we're friends.. I find it a little weird. He changed a lot after our final breakup and we weren't even friends...
    ayoolexie20 ayoolexie20 16-17, F Nov 23

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    I don't know why we make this such a big deal. So what, I'm gay. Whoop die fuking do. Doesn't mean I need to tell everyone and their mother. The way I see it, being gay should only...
    silverthewulf silverthewulf 16-17, M 4 Responses Nov 27

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    I want a friend that will do stuff with me and be able to handle my stupidness, so if any ladies think they want to help me, go right ahead and text, I will be waiting
    Ceaser55 Ceaser55 16-17, M Nov 30

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    But every time I see her its always awkward.. Like there's some sort of sexual tension there and its not just in my head bc my friends see it as well. It's been over a year since...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F Nov 23