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I Am Going to Be Friends With Who I Want to Be Friends With

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    I'M An Adult

    I am old enough to vote, drink, procreate, marry, divorce, and buy cigarettes.  I am therefore also old enough to pick my own friends.  I love the people on my circle and would never ask them to choose friendship with me over their friendship with another person but...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    Yep..

    I am don't follow the crowd, and don't listen to others be friends with such and such I do that at work!
    scarecrowe scarecrowe 22-25, M Sep 29, 2010

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    Ummmm...

    Isn't this kind of a no-brainer?
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    Grow Up

    Damn straight I can chose my friends. Who are you to tell me I can't be friends with someone? Maybe I'm more accepting of people than you. XP You big jerk!
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F Jan 12, 2009

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    Indeed I Will

    Okay, so... Since elementary school, people have been telling me who I should and should not be friends with. It's lame. I've been friends with some really cool people that have been shunned from the majority because they are different. In elementary school I was best friends...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    A Big No No

    I cant stand it when people say you can't or can hang out with them or you shouldn't hang out with him/her.What really gets under my skin is when my parents say they're a negative influence...i've been called a negative influence before and it's not a good feeling. No one's ever...
    desertedangel desertedangel 18-21, F Apr 30, 2009

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    Through My Eyes...

    What I see in someone with my own eyes and what they show me with their heart is not for you to judge. We are different things to different people and the beauty inside myself and yours cannot be exposed to the masses. You are special to someone, anyone, to me... because I can...
    KatjaShoshanaGrace KatjaShoshanaGrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Nearly Anyone

    Being the person I am I have made many friends/associates in my life time. Depending on the first impression of the person my Personality changes not in a drastic way just in points of interest and conversation topics, whether religion or music or current events I hold an...
    mrmcool mrmcool 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    My Life

    I Dont Like When People Say You Shouldnt Talk To Them Or Hang Out With Them.   This Is My Life I Can Do As I Please.
    cry7 cry7 22-25, M Feb 27, 2009

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    I Pick My Friends.

    I pick my friends based on what I think of them not what others think. I wouldn't have half the friends I've got if I let other pick and choose them.
    Chance101 Chance101 41-45 1 Response Feb 18, 2009

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    Yes I Am

    I am going to be friends whit who I want to be friend with. I am not going to let anyone tell me, who I can and can not be friends with. I am just not going to take it anymore.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    No Matter What People Think

     because i have walked down that long lonesome road.and i know what it is like.i don`t care what the he** people think.these same people are the ones who will not go around their family because they are beneath them.or because they have some kind of disability .they make me...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Sep 26, 2009

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    It's My Decision

    I have had people telling me off and on my whole like you should/shouldn't be friends with this person you can/ can't talk to this person. Well right now I am going to say, I am almost 25 years old, I am  damn well old enough to decide who i will or will not be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Let's be clear, I'm not meaning l can and will be friends with everyone, my arrogance and ignorance radar is well tuned and l have no respect or tolerance for rudeness either...
    MistyMoon1 MistyMoon1 41-45, F 21 Responses a week ago

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    What the heck is FWB? Why is there even such a thing? Sounds more to me like friends who give friends STDs. Seriously where do you cross the line? Why can't it be Friends withOUT...
    tessa4ever tessa4ever 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I made friends with a girl who has friends who smoke cigarettes and marijuana. I would never do either, but we chill together and stuff. I freaked out a little bit, but now I'm...
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I have had many women I have dated and especially two that became friends with benefits. I was more serious on my end with these two and was contemplating initiating the "L" &"M...
    xmannos xmannos 36-40, M Aug 29

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    I don't care if you are skinny, fat, ugly, tall, short, straight, gay, or bi. I will totally be friends with you and still love you for the way you are. You can always be yourself...
    musicislife15 musicislife15 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 31

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    I think its great to develop friendships with people who don't think and act exactly like you .
    rlbguy89 rlbguy89 41-45, M Sep 6

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    Any girl who wants to chat hit me up
    nickm07 nickm07 22-25, M Aug 24

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    I received a message from someone who wanted to talk. We conversed and what this person was saying really didn't make sense. Long story short, i am a lovely person but this person...
    LnlYw2kds LnlYw2kds 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 11

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    I can be friends with you even if you hate the things that I like... I'm sure that we have something in common and if not it's still nice to know you... The more friends you have...
    D3fau1THack3R D3fau1THack3R 18-21, M Aug 24

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    Heck, when it all boils down to it I am just a kid..... But I like to think that I can make friends with many and varied people, as I do on here.... Due to my job I meet young...
    SarahTheHooker SarahTheHooker 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hey my names Alisha :) so i can make friends with anybody because I'm totally un judgemental and accepting, I just love everybody! :) so message me if u wanna have a chat xx
    alishamariexo alishamariexo 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm a very sociable person but I can't be friends with a drug addict or a womanizer.
    TheVase TheVase 18-21 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Sometimes! There are alot of people that think differently than I do and they think that their opinion is all that matters. I can not be friends with someone that is not willing to...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Indeed, I am friends with people totally different from me.
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Am a single mature guy looking for Indian females who want to get real and explore a nice time or NSA relationship
    sinofjoy sinofjoy 36-40, M Aug 26

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    Well, that's me! I'm a seventeen year old girl who wants to gain! I'm looking for someone in my area to feed me in person. Any feeders in the San Francisco Bay Area?
    missbouncybelly missbouncybelly 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    Well hot damn! Aanger stays hidden sometimes and it is wrong sometimes and every so often you get mad and find a nice little clarity of vision that whacks you on the side of your...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    Actually, I tend to get bored when I hang out with friends who are similar to me. Don´t get me wrong; I love these friends. Some of them I´ve known all my life. It´s just that...
    lfcalzada lfcalzada 51-55, M a week ago

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    I have a friend - well a far relative. He lives one hour away from me. He used to come over ALOT of times and we used to go out and have some fun. :) we used to go watch movies...
    watermelongirl watermelongirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I didnt much like living a social stereotype. Friends take too much energy and people live day to day. I prefer people who struggle but accept themselves for who they are no...
    earlycrisis earlycrisis 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 10

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    I may sound like such an attention seeker when I say this, but, I have come to terms that I am entirely unattractive, and will die alone.. Infact I've already planned on dieing...
    abercrombie99 abercrombie99 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I have a couple of friends, like 3 who i hang out te most, and they are like completly different from eachother al witha difrent lifephase and all come from a complete difrent...
    Warrierworrier Warrierworrier 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    Message me if you want join me. I'll tell you the rest when you contact me. Hope to see you guys soon and I know we will be great friends.
    sophilla sophilla 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    This was not always true for me. In fact in the beginning it would have been one of the scariest of ideas for cross dressing me. Having lived for so long in fear of being...
    cdsubalice cdsubalice 56-60, M 4 Responses Sep 4

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    I have friend who is the complete opposite of me. By all means we should not be able to get along. We have even taken multiple personality tests together and every time our results...
    alifeofcreativity alifeofcreativity 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I know it looks like I have to many friends to talk with or keep track of. I do keep track of most of you,follow what you are posting or asking questions. I may not respond to all...
    christy2u christy2u 56-60, T Sep 3

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    I'm very friendly to be honest :) So if you want to talk or vent go ahead! Though I'm not on here so much, but that's okay :) I'll keep the conversation going. Except, please no...
    PerfectTwo18 PerfectTwo18 13-15, F Sep 5

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    Hi my names JD and I love mothers and think it's beautiful and would love to be friends:)
    JDSHELLEY JDSHELLEY 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    The thing I love the most is the different ways with which people cope with trauma and abuse and so on. The diversity is amazing. I love that just because someone behaves...
    Lucienn Lucienn 18-21, T 1 Response Aug 24

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    I am married but lookin for a partner one who can fill my needs make me laugh do things to me my husband don't hint hint
    countygal countygal 51-55, F 13 Responses Sep 10

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    I can be friend with anyone who has different personality traits and I love it.But if that person is like me it's better.I'm a serious person and I love serious people!!!!!!You...
    behnam11 behnam11 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    but finding that more people actually fared better socially when they stick around those who share common interests with them. nevertheless i believe this is the way forward to...
    memuse memuse 22-25, M a week ago

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    Times are changing.I think that we are in communities where it forces us to meet people from different backgrounds.I think that it is great to have 1 friend who is totally...
    sineadduff sineadduff 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I love this statement ! All of my friends are so unique and completely different from each other and myself ! My world would be so empty without them ❤️😘❤️
    NoTuRtYpE78 NoTuRtYpE78 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Hehehehehe, I have 4 right now! One is super close and treats me like a girlfriend for all intents and purposes. He knows about the others, and is fine. We just don't talk about...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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