I Am Going to Ignore Valentines Day Again This Year

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    Wrong Word.

    I wish I could ignore it.  Endure is more the word I would choose. Recently divorced, and not dating.   Update (per request from ggrl). Since I wrote this, life has changed greatly.  I made a decision several months ago to start dating.  I dated a number...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2008
    Timona Timona
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2014

    I Celebrate the 15th.

    Who needs Valentine's Day? At my house we give the girls a little something for Valentines. My husband and I go out and celebrate Feb 15th. On Feb 15, 2005 I was diagnosed with cancer. Since that time we have started celebrating my recover and our love on this day. My hubby...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2008

    No Valentines Day

    Valentines day is supposed to be a romantic day.Why even acknowledge the day if you still would get no romance or anything at all. Why even bother
    nosexforme nosexforme
    31-35
    Feb 8, 2008
    MontyB2 MontyB2
    16-17, M
    Jan 22, 2014

    Poem I Wrote

    I wrote a poem one valentine's day when I was little with the lines: Cupids crash In the grass. What was that supposed to mean?  Was that an early sign of my asexuality?
    Sncats Sncats
    26-30, T
    Aug 1, 2009

    I Imagine So.

    it falls on a thursday this year, which means that my husband and i will go to choir, then we will go home and he will do homework for his law school class the next day. it doesn't really hurt my feelings. he's all kinds of busy and stressed, and i wouldn't want to add to that...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter
    26-30, F
    Feb 12, 2008

    valentines day is fine

    if you have someone who shares it with you. for those who are alone it can be a hell steeped in lust and envy. the day can vanish into the deepest pits of Tartarus for all I care this year.
    Zurea Zurea
    26-30, T
    2 Responses Feb 11

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