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I Am Going to Ignore Valentines Day Again This Year

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    Poem I Wrote

    I wrote a poem one valentine's day when I was little with the lines: Cupids crash In the grass. What was that supposed to mean?  Was that an early sign of my asexuality?
    Sncats Sncats 26-30, F Aug 1, 2009

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    MontyB2 MontyB2 13-15, M Jan 22

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    Me Too

    it is an advertising gimmick to sell things after christmas and before easter. it is a painful reminder of cards i didn't get when i was in school
    2ndhandjunk 2ndhandjunk 46-50 Aug 7, 2011

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    I Imagine So.

    it falls on a thursday this year, which means that my husband and i will go to choir, then we will go home and he will do homework for his law school class the next day. it doesn't really hurt my feelings. he's all kinds of busy and stressed, and i wouldn't want to add to that...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F Feb 12, 2008

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    I Celebrate the 15th.

    Who needs Valentine's Day? At my house we give the girls a little something for Valentines. My husband and I go out and celebrate Feb 15th. On Feb 15, 2005 I was diagnosed with cancer. Since that time we have started celebrating my recover and our love on this day. My hubby...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 12, 2008

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    Timona Timona 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I Didn't Once.

    This happened.
    WhoAmI613 WhoAmI613 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2013

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    Wrong Word.

    I wish I could ignore it.  Endure is more the word I would choose. Recently divorced, and not dating.   Update (per request from ggrl). Since I wrote this, life has changed greatly.  I made a decision several months ago to start dating.  I dated a number...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 12, 2008

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    No Valentines Day

    Valentines day is supposed to be a romantic day.Why even acknowledge the day if you still would get no romance or anything at all. Why even bother
    nosexforme nosexforme 31-35 Feb 8, 2008

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F Aug 29

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    For some reason, every valentines day I have ends up bad. One year I got suspended ;'-(
    saboosa1 saboosa1 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    It's 3 am on my 33rd birthday and I'm dreading daylight. I've never been one to celebrate my birthday--my mom ate a bottle of Tylenol on my 7th & my nanna passed on my 9th. My...
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    What is today "ignore Tatum day?" Because that's what it feels like .-. Everyone I know and want to talk to is ignoring me.. Nice.
    TheNamesTatumLol TheNamesTatumLol 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Since middle school and before entering high school, this problem has caused me a lot of social pains. I have trouble socializing, even having conversations. My school grades...
    OperaG OperaG 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I ****** up on everything once again Now He's not going to trust me again. ****, I'm scared. Why the **** is so hard for me to say NO!!! to people.
    BrutallyHonest316 BrutallyHonest316 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4

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