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I Am Happiest Doing For Others

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    I have empathy for others, but why I always got betrays by people I have an empathy with? Or Empathy transform us to be stepping stones for others who don't have?
    andywei andywei 26-30, M Mar 19

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    I love to open doors for others including other women, older folks, handicapped individuals, and any else who needs assistance.
    femalelovesanimals femalelovesanimals 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Just something that I've been doing since I was 16. Now I am 20 and still hold doors open for people. Whether they say thank you or nothing at all. I just like doing it. One time I...
    Ermacz Ermacz 18-21, M Apr 4

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    All. The. F*cking. Time. I have a lot of siblings and because I'm not the most well behaved I'm frequently blamed for things I didn't do.
    Samchezz Samchezz 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    That's respect to the other. I like to do that for my lady.
    Neveknow Neveknow 31-35, M Apr 6

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    Why do I continue to subject myself to the never ending chaos of another person? Because I deeply FKING love this man! I am like his playground to run around on and do as he...
    taintedinside taintedinside 26-30, F Mar 19

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    I always do that, it's involuntary.
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    <3 & I don't even look at your *** True gentleman ( ̄ー ̄)
    Mewkittyx3 Mewkittyx3 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Yeah so I guess it never occurred to me to actually google it, or explore if it's an issue for others because much like most people- I really thought I was the only one. I put my...
    chambredesmots chambredesmots 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    I can always give good advices for others but when it comes to myself it never works.
    Iwillloveyou4ever Iwillloveyou4ever 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Life talks without saying a word.... If something isn't meant to be something will take place in order to prevent it from happening & thats exactly how it's been all of my life. I...
    TheWorldVsJ TheWorldVsJ 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    If u anyone needs 2 talk about the pain in their life I am here 2 help I've been in pain most of my life but that is what keeps me going u can't let others rule u & take the...
    charlymyrt charlymyrt 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    If u anyone needs 2 talk about the pain in their life I am here 2 help I've been in pain most of my life but that is what keeps me going u can't let others rule u & take the...
    charlymyrt charlymyrt 56-60, F Apr 4

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    I tend to help others when me myself need help. I give them advice when I can't even advice my own self. Even when there are things going on with my life, I still care for others...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I love meeting people and genuinely care for others. I feel as if I treat a new person I have hits met as family and I hate that the world isn't always like that. Wonder if it's...
    Life1sinteresting Life1sinteresting 18-21, M Apr 1

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    It is easy for me to forgive others, why is it so hard to forgive myself?
    memyselfandi27 memyselfandi27 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    "Ask and ye shall recieve." I help others because I believe it to be moral behavior, and enjoy it mostly in a 'I'm doing the right thing' kind of way. When I was deciding what to...
    TragicMonkey TragicMonkey 31-35, M 4 Responses Mar 28

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    Put a job in your hands. "One of the central tenets of the Western worldview is that one should always be engaged in some kind of outward task. Thus, the Westerner structures his...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F Apr 4

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    Hey guys... I figured out how to feel better about myself, and be happier and I'd like to share it with you all. (I am aware this might all sound very hippie like...but I'm just...
    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I have always been nice to others, and they always hate me for some reason, my depression doesn't help, and neither does my family. Sometimes I wish I could hide and never be seen...
    notcaring notcaring 13-15 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Those people who give a **** about what others think will suffer terribly. Don't live your life the way other people want you to, it's your fucken life do what ever the **** you...
    JustMe123468 JustMe123468 18-21, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I love you my sweet and dear Paula,I know I love you because I worry about you,when you suffer,I do too,when you smile,you bring peace and enlightment to my tormented heart,when...
    theWolfUndertheMoon theWolfUndertheMoon 22-25 2 hrs ago

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    I would be the happiest person in the whole world if my mom and dad would stop drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes. It's very dangerous since they are also aging as time pass...
    Mjnicasio Mjnicasio 13-15 3 days ago

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    I was 13 when I was in a year long relationship with a 17 year old, I know right.. ****** up. But anyway, we split up and he moved on. He was my first low so I was just in a mess...
    worthlesslife97 worthlesslife97 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    I am here for anyone who needs to talk or needs a friend. I know I seem young and you might say I wouldn't know about life but you might be surprised. I'm not saying I know as much...
    makaiajane makaiajane 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    So it's only been 2 weeks since I broke up with my long time boyfriend. I just can't take it anymore. I feel rejected, lonely, angry and humiliated. I never thought he'd ever do...
    varsitymuenster varsitymuenster 26-30, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I make mistakes and learn from it. I am not perfect. No matter how well you are doing without me, holding a grudge is only going to hold you back from being fully happy. I may not...
    TearfulNights22 TearfulNights22 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I want to be a leader. I want to be a role model, an example, a good influence on other people so they can look at me doing good and follow me doing good as well and we all can do...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F Apr 8

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    After I had come out about a year one of my cousins was going to get married. At the beginning the family was making all kinds of list. At one point they were looking for...
    sandybrandy70 sandybrandy70 41-45, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I think I have year around SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder). I actually notice that by the third day without sunshine my mood is heading south even in the summer. Of course, it...
    xxxtop xxxtop 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You belong. That voice that tells you you're alone, it's not a friend of yours. IT. IS. A. LIAR. Stop believing it. instead stay here awhile and rest your weary mind. Forgive...
    geminina geminina 31-35, F Mar 27

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    I don't have enough means to communicate with you yet you decided to just shut down the only remaining medium that keeps us somehow connected. That's awful of you, you must know...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I love waking up everyday knowing that im helping others. Helping them to do what they want to do in life and not what they have to. People are so stuck on living and working day...
    monicadaboss1 monicadaboss1 18-21, F Apr 5

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    It's true, I am hopelessly and helplessly in love with my big brother... and I've never been happier :). I was adopted when I was little so we're not related by blood or anything...
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    I feel like I owe my old friends an apology. I feel like I’m the reason a lot of my past relationships haven’t worked out. I feel like I’m always wasting time...
    moorelove3168 moorelove3168 18-21 3 days ago

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    At this point in my life I'm not interested in relationships. I'll be honest about what I do look for. I want intimate friendships preferably online and separate from my offline...
    SmashedUpSanity SmashedUpSanity 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Came to realize a few things but I still feel lost; like I'm living through the motions of life just to live. For so long I've held on to the baggage of my past. Too many times I...
    halfdead25 halfdead25 26-30, F Apr 4

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    From cheering people up to doing minor things like helping people with their homework brings me pure joy!
    lilay98 lilay98 16-17, F 7 Responses Mar 20

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    Most of my childhood others have told me how to feel, what to think, what to say, do this, do that. The one's who claimed to love me, controlled every aspect of me. I thought when...
    BEYMMXIII BEYMMXIII 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I feel my parents love my older brother more than me. Even though they've never said so, even though they rarely directly compares me to my brother - I know they do, all the time...
    dysfori dysfori 16-17, M Mar 26

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    I think Obama health care is a ridiculous idea and law ! It's doing more bad then good! Obama clean up your messes instead of creating more messes and bills !
    candyliscious candyliscious 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Every time I used to feel myself losing grip on the reigns I would do my best to quickly grab a tight hold again. I was under the impression that if I let go I would lose myself...
    ladysilhouette ladysilhouette 18-21, F Mar 29

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    Hi, I have always had this feeling of wanting to help others the best way I can. I always plan that when I get older i will do lots of charities and volunteer at animal shelters...
    musicgirl102 musicgirl102 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    IT'S THE BEST!!! I love doing things like community service, handing out food to the hungry, teaching people how to vote, listening to a struggling single moms troubles, planting...
    killerkris killerkris 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    For the past 3 years I've told my girlfriend I don't get enough love and affection. She keeps saying ill get better. It's never does. I know she's not cheating but I'm Not exactly...
    shunjustin shunjustin 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Been single too long to be ablento work through the pain and the suffering what eats me up from the inside. Started turning very bitter,hateful lately,also feelings of rage grown...
    PeterHelpsYou PeterHelpsYou 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I studied marshal arts from an early age. I was never good at much else in youth (in my opinion.) My teachers in all the various forms (Kenpo, Taekwondo, Hapkido) said I had...
    yoiteangel yoiteangel 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    i hate that i feel like my own happiness depends on having ppl interact with me, showing me attention. the moment im ignored. i feel lonely, depressed, worthless, no good, just all...
    hallowedwillow hallowedwillow 26-30, F Mar 27

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    Sometimes in your quest to make everyone else happy, you make yourself miserable. Never let your own happiness wither away as you try to bring sunshine to others. Life is not...
    SatriaMerah07 SatriaMerah07 26-30, M Apr 3

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    I can't remember the last time I cried in front of others. I've never cried at school, and my friends have never seen my truly cry. Just nearly at tears from a movie *laugh*. I...
    paislin paislin 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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