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I Am Hated By My Mother

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    Hated By My Biological Mother

    I was born out of wedlock to teenage parents in 1955. My father, mother, aunts and paternal grandmother hated me before I was born. I ruined my parent's lives by being born. My aunts went to see my paternal grandparents to see what they planned to do because my mother was...
    Naamalinda Naamalinda 56-60 Oct 14, 2013

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    She Hates Me More Than Anything.

    If I've made mistakes fine criticize me. But don't act like its constructive. You never seem to notice while you point out all I do wrong, what you don't agree with or understand; you never offer an alternative. But even that is tolerable. i am not writing a damn experience about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19, 2010

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    denisestephanie denisestephanie 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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