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I Am Hated By My Mother

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    She Hates Me More Than Anything.

    If I've made mistakes fine criticize me. But don't act like its constructive. You never seem to notice while you point out all I do wrong, what you don't agree with or understand; you never offer an alternative. But even that is tolerable. i am not writing a damn experience about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19, 2010

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    Hated By My Biological Mother

    I was born out of wedlock to teenage parents in 1955. My father, mother, aunts and paternal grandmother hated me before I was born. I ruined my parent's lives by being born. My aunts went to see my paternal grandparents to see what they planned to do because my mother was...
    Naamalinda Naamalinda 56-60 Oct 14, 2013

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    Okay, so to post the whole story would be insanely long so I'm going to shorten it for you keeping all the important bits! My partner and I have been together now for almost two...
    sallyrhiannon sallyrhiannon 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    So my granddads in hospital still and mums gone away for three nights to them out. I've not been told anything about my granddad or been allowed to even speak to my own mother yet...
    AngelOfDeath92 AngelOfDeath92 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    That one phrase that always got used when I brought up how controlling she was: "Would you rather not have anyone to love and take care of you, like I did? You should be thankful...
    eristwhile eristwhile 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I spent my childhood and teen years living as an extension of my mother. My thoughts, my feelings, my opinions, and even my needs were almost always discarded in place of my mother...
    malanxious malanxious 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I wish I had taken the advice from the few ones who informed me that my mother didn't like me and she would destroy every thing for ..I'm 36 today and the last four years I had...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ex Machina lol definitely hated it
    GummiBr GummiBr 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I spent my whole life feeling ugly and hated, even though I wasn't bad looking, my mother made me like that, she would insult me, humiliate me, telling me I'm not good enough, that...
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    So having a narcissistic mother who never seemed to care about me enough, who used me as leverage to get what she wanted all of my childhood, and who ended up abandoning me when I...
    CloudTen420 CloudTen420 70+, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. He has custody of his 2 children, and his step child from a previous marriage. I raise them with my 2 children as my own. Mom is not...
    taintedalyce taintedalyce 36-40, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hey, I'm here as I no longer have a relationship with my mother. due to the effect her narcissistic behaviour has had on me, I made the decision that I could only be mentally...
    yogihope yogihope 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I've realised that the thing I crave more than finding a partner and becoming a wife or mother, is that I just really want to be a daughter to a loving mother. At 26 I should...
    yogihope yogihope 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Recently an NPR program was focusing on minority women in business. Ursula Burns is the CEO of Xerox. Her biographer recounted an event from when she was a young girl.Upon arrival...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    My mother was raised by an insane woman, who happened to be my grandmother. The grandmother and the grandfather(who was a kind man) (my mothers parents)were 2nd generation...
    notPC notPC 56-60, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    This is a true story about the most delightful lady I ever had the good fortune to know. My Mom. Little Drummer Boy. We all have songs we love and songs we hate. Little...
    Serenitree1 Serenitree1 70+, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have been so unlucky with humans even with the person who suppose to be my mother ..she was so hateful since I was a little kid before I even could walk and talk ..she never...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    To be very truthful I think once this French person from hotel du vin tread on me ..it all stopped on this ..I do think I wanted anything to do with a man who tread on me ..it was...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F Feb 5

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    I try to have a relationship with my mother, even though I am nearly as intimidated by her as I was when I was a child. About a year and a half ago I changed my career, and she...
    greensapphire greensapphire 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Classic narc family occurence; I got a letter from my father asking me to un-remember recent put-downs from my narc mother on several calls between September and November. After...
    Decaturite Decaturite 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    In 2004 I got treated badly and heavily humiliated by two managers at hotel du vin in Brighton ..the mistreatment could possibly be racial or it could because I'm an ugly looking...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I am 17. I attended a vocational program in high school and got my CNA when I was 16. I work very hard, I graduated high school early and I am now in nursing school. I work two...
    sarajacquelyn sarajacquelyn 16-17, F Feb 3

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    After several days of not hearing from my girl. Mom. My health is not getting any better. I just can't keep anything down. And goes on to describe her symptoms. She also states...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 2

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    My mother is a severe narcissist, and my Father, the severe enabler. It took me a while to realise how his inaction regarding my mother's abuses made him as guilty as her. It's...
    malanxious malanxious 22-25, F Feb 1

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    Hi so I'm posting here to write about my mother and how I'm affected with severe depression and anxiety because of her I don't like to point fingers or blame anybody but she is the...
    Pinkskiespinklove Pinkskiespinklove 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    My mother spent three days continuously calling me names and trying to press my buttons. She called me a ****, a “piece of Satan”, and a horribly sadistic person. She didn’t...
    JHicks28 JHicks28 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I am a proud single mother of four.That in itself is stressful. If I had to describe my parenting skills, I'd have to say "Old School" and because it's just me... They know that...
    MissingTrevion1020 MissingTrevion1020 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Promoting a Gender Reversed SocietyAs a radical feminist, I have many views that many would consider controversial. I am a huge advocate of petticoating and support any women...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    When do I speak my truth? Or haven't I all these years? I'm going to be 42 years old. I have not spoken to my mother in 5 months and my father - about 4 (I went from low contact...
    thegirlwithnomom thegirlwithnomom 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I have been dating my fiance for 9 months and were about to get married in May (I'm 19 she's 21 if that makes a difference with the story)..... but I ******* hate her mom. Oh my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 31

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    I need to tell this to the world, hoping to find people that have the same situation as i do or give me some advice. My mother likes to call me a prostitute, a sl*t, a wh*re. She...
    tictactoe88 tictactoe88 22-25, F Jan 29

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    I am almost 16 years old and I left my narcissistic mother about 6 months ago. I am living at my dads with my stepmom, who is and was my only true mother because of all she did...
    kayla459 kayla459 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    I'm sorry, but I need to get these feelings of resentment and hatred out of me before I end up doing something very foolish. I hate my mother. I just hate her. I cant stand to be...
    aaron812 aaron812 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    does anyone feel like their (ex /current ) mother in law has destroyed the relationship with their partner? in his shoes I can't imagine being raised by the woman. her and I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 28

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    My husband and I have been married for 7 months, he recently went to Samoa to visit his mother who he has not seen in ten years, he wanted her to live with us and I told him no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    As I arrived at the nursing home, I saw my brother in the room at her bedside. She was experiencing apnea and had been given high doses of morphine by the hospice nurses on duty...
    Nightvale Nightvale 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I am having trouble navigating my relationship with my parents. I am very worried about going to see them. Lately my father has developed a very serious form of cancer, so my...
    Decaturite Decaturite 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I'm sorry to bother you again but in regard to my ****** up mind I think one of the people who got me to be screwed up in the head is the dirty vagina who gave birth to me ..she...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I remember an old lady who went to through my job in home care and when she saw me she told me that you are only young and you are worn out ..she said to me I was wearing out...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Well I have seen many psychiatrists and mental health professionals and they all said the same thing that I do not suffer from schizophrenia or any psychotic disorder ...so if...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 24

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