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I Am Having Affair With My Married Boss

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    I have a bf, he has a wife.

    My boss, Alcohol > one night stand > friends with benefit, but now we both developed feelings. What should I do?
    redautumnleaves redautumnleaves 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    Why?!

    I am having an affair with my married boss. He's 9 years older than I am and I knew from the moment he asked me to go on a date that it was the wrong thing to do but something about doing the wrong thing I love doing. The physical and sexual attraction we have for each other is...
    oldsoulbabe oldsoulbabe 22-25 3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Struggeling Within

    I TOO AM HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY BOSS. HE IS MARRIED AND 20 YEARS MY SENIOR. UNFORTUNATELY, HE IS A MAYOR AND THE DIRECTOR OF A STATE AGENCY. NO CHILDREN SO YOU WOULD THINK HE WOULD LEAVE HER. HE TELLS ME THAT HE LOVES ME AND THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS baseD ON SOMETHING...
    whoknewitwouldbeme whoknewitwouldbeme 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Having Affair With My Boss

     I'm 29 years old, maried for 8 years with 2 kids. I have been working with my boss for 5 years in different places. He is 20 years older than me and also married with kids. The whole story started at the very beginning of my hiring as a friendship, I was going through tugh...
    lomad lomad 26-30, F 15 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Wild Affair With Married Boss

    Wow! I am so happy I have found this site! My boss is married with 2 kids, I am married with 1 kid. He is 19 years older than me and we are having the wildest time I have ever had with any man! He wants more, and even wants us to move together, but for me it is too much...
    Juliette0083 Juliette0083 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    I'm not exactly sleeping with him

    but I want to I actually work for him and his wife...she is the main boss I give him BJ about twice a month and love it and want more He says it's not cheating on her because it's only a BJ and I don't care because I'm a free agent I just wish he would help me out instead of...
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    A Kinda Weird Situation...

    Really weird situation to be honest. I started working there a little over 6 months ago, and it started 6 months of a large amount of mind games, which it turned out we both liked. He has always been quite focused on me sexually and I knew that, but I really wasn't sure about...
    Jan 31, 2013

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    Advice Please

    I would have had an affair with my boss, but he stopped it before it could start. it was an emotional affair for sure. he was very attracted to me and wanted to, until I fell for him. He wanted sex and fun, that's it. When he learned I wanted more, he backed off, I took it hard...
    amylee123 amylee123 31-35 3 Responses May 6, 2012

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    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    My Married Boss, Was My Biggest Crush For Years

    When I was young, my dad cheated on my mom having other kid. I was very hurt and so was my mom and my brother and sister. When I found out I was only 11 years old. I had always promised myself to never do this or hurt a wife and a family. Until I was 19 years old. I was hired as...
    propuestaindecente propuestaindecente 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    Ms K

    i have been having an affair with my boss for over three years now.he is 20 yrs older tham me and will be retiring within the next couple of years.before our affair began he was a father figure and mentor to me in all aspects of my life.our relationship is ending. i am still...
    kimbelina kimbelina 46-50 2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Big Love Romantic Bullshit.

    I'm in love with a married guy, father of 3. To top it off, he is (was) my boss. It used to be a typical love affair. No strings attached, lots of traveling and lots of fun. He never told me that he doesn't love his wife nor his children. Quite the opposite in fact. "My loving...
    brokenflower26 brokenflower26 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Im In Affair With My Boss Whos Also A BPD

    I am single but I am in an affair with my boss. I know her fiance, he's one of the nicest people around and yet I can't do the right thing. I love her too much and I don't know what to do. I can't walk away even though she drives me nuts sometimes. I can't walk away because of...
    hoots hoots 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Casual

    I have worked for him for 5 years and don’t really know how this started? I never looked at him as anything but a boss, but, for a month or so we have been flirting, today we kissed, I don’t want a relationship, he is married with children, he is only 5 years my senior. I...
    anonmo2 anonmo2 36-40 4 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    Wow, It Actually Happened. Shouldn'T I Feel Worse?

    It's something I had fantasized about for several years. I knew it would never happen, so it was fun to think about. I even had the offer a few years ago on a trip together. I declined. Not enough to drink, perhaps. Too many morals at the time. I didn't decline this time. I saw...
    HyperNova HyperNova 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Never Thought It'd Happen To Me.... I Have Learned To Never Say Never

    I am on my second marriage. I have no kids but my husband has 2 girls from a previous marriage ( a marriage dissolved due to his ex cheating so yeah I feel really crappy). Obviously there are many stresses entering a marriage with children that are not yours ( but I accepted as...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal 41-45 8 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    I got a great job just 5 months ago,

    with one of my previous clients of 2 years. We got along great for those two years, including private lunches, that were all professional in nature. We are both married, myself 10 years and him 11 years, we are only 3 years apart and both have children. Neither of us have ever...
    Kathrine2014 Kathrine2014 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    I am 24 married with 2 kids

    and my husband is a good man but he has issues and we fight alot we both work for my boss who is a great guy and always helps me if I need anything be is married with 2 kids. And we have been having an affair for 14 months our sex is amazing and he always makes me smile but...
    maria2489 maria2489 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I Just Cant Help Myself :S need advice!

    Its complicated but ill try my best to explain. When I started work 2years ago the guy in question wasn't my boss, but I instantly noticed him as I was extremely attracted to him. My husband and his wife are both involved in the company, which I guess made me feel at ease around...
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    I am about to do something very stupid.

    We've been working together for over a year, which has been great because sometimes I think he is the only one there who knows what he's doing. We've been flirting, pretty much from the beginning, by text and phone. (We don't work in the same office, we do everything by phone...
    hopelesssness hopelesssness 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Addicted

    i'm actually finding it hard to believe that i haven't already found a "group" out there with a topic like this.  I'm not at all proud to admit this.  I'm a divorced single mom and have known him for 4 years.  We just started this a year ago after i moved...
    jaddicted2k jaddicted2k 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    It Only Took An Hour... (i Am Married Not Him)

    Today I did it. I crossed the line big time. I am a sink or swim girl. I don't need a love relationship. I am the one who's married. I adore my husband. I am just not sexually into him. I have been dropping little comments to my Guy boss for weeks. I was playing with the idea...
    mistakenforme mistakenforme 26-30, F 5 Responses May 29, 2012

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    I Love Him, But I Hurt Him, I Need Him Back. Please Help.

    It started a little over a year ago. I had been on vacation when i came back to work my boss told me he missed me. I said oh you only missed all the work i got done. he said yeah but i missed you in other ways too. a little later that day he asked for my phone number. i am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    My 5 Month Long Fantasy Comes True

    About 5 months ago I was offered a bartending job at a local club in the town I live in. I had no experience as a bartender but was trained on site. The manager of the bar is always there. He's the guy us bartenders answer to. But he answers to the owner.. Who also owns 4 other...
    ak89 ak89 22-25, F Oct 9, 2013

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    1st Hand Advice~dont Date Ur Married Boss

    I bided my time for 15 yr s to leave a bad marriage. Put myself through college again w 2 young boys. Now they are teens & I am divorced. I left w nothing but 3/4 of his debt. Secured a job. Started dating my boss who lied about being "single". He moved out over a yr ago.- a.k.a...
    tggrrrl tggrrrl 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Early Stages

    My manager and I started working at the same location just over six months ago. We have known each other through the company for about two years. He was always my go-to person whenever I had a question because my manager at the time had no idea what he was doing. In these past...
    jmay2013 jmay2013 18-21 Jan 26, 2013

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    Amidst The Comlications

    I am not at all happy to declare this that I have an affair with my married boss, but there comes the circumstances where we are swayed away with the feelings. We know what we are doing is not fair and might cause too much chaos in too many lives. My story too is one of the...
    penguin120 penguin120 26-30 2 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    I think it's really sad that I've seen alot of women get romantically involved with married men. As a single person like myself, I feel like it's not really worth it because you're...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F Aug 15

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    Married man in Melbourne, Australia. Any ladies looking...? We can chat and maybe meet up during the day.
    melbourneonly melbourneonly 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I want to real an affair with a beautiful and young woman
    bxmale bxmale 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Is it ok to have an affair with wife's sister ?
    purnarai purnarai 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't actually know if he really wants me or not but I want him I actually work for him and his wife...she is the main boss I give him BJ about twice a month and love it and...
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My name is tubebiowei, I am 19 years old, I have a friend who is very very close to me, so when I eventually start having financial problems so my friend volunteer to get a job for...
    tubebiowei tubebiowei 18-21 Aug 15

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    I'm not exactly sleeping with him but I want to I actually work for him and his wife...she is the main boss I give him BJ about twice a month and love it and want more He says...
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Trying to find places to meet privately with my MM. Any suggestions?
    Asheera123 Asheera123 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    It lasted for almost a decade. It ended four years ago. I've been typing and deleting what I typed. Haha! How can I describe it? It was chaos, bliss, addiction, nourishment, bane...
    REG821 REG821 41-45 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm trying to end it. I just can't. He's just the best I think its because it kinda turns me on us sneeking around. But I kno its wrong. I need to settle down and get a man myself...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Omg he is so freakin hot!! Those beautiful bright blue eyes, broad shoulders, strong arms yum yum yum! His authority and power just overflows off of him. He's such an amazing...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F Jul 30

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    I worked at a VBS camp two years ago during the summer. It was held during the night and I worked where I helped teach kids how to cook. I was the leader and I worked with a man...
    Southernpanda Southernpanda 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    I was 15 she was 35 my speech teacher. She was very will pretty and always rubbed against me in class. I was a naive kid who did not know what was happening. She told me in class...
    edstarr edstarr 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    Is there any older women that would like to text this young guy over here 😉. Don't worry your secret is safe with me
    Afroman22 Afroman22 22-25, M Aug 12

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    My boss criticizes everything that everyone does, is a perfectionist, plays favorites, and I'm pretty sure is OCD. He contradicts himself in what he asks of us. Like he will want...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Hi! I posted this is one of the threads here, but I decided to post this again. August 9, 2014 I am 22 weeks pregnant. I have had instances wherein I bled because of too much...
    cindyann85 cindyann85 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    At first I didn't know what to think. Then I decided that I was giving this man something his wife could not give him. Sexual satisfaction. I knew the mans wife because I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Obvs my wife works very hard with the keeds and this is how I'll thank her for raising my children, working her azz off and suckin' mah deck.
    thelonerinyourbed thelonerinyourbed 70+, T 20 hrs ago

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    I recently got engaged in July. My future inlaws never congratulated us. It has been really hard for me to wrap my head around it. I have always gotten along with them and never...
    enlightenyoursoul enlightenyoursoul 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Havnt actually had an experience yet . My fwb and I have sext with couples and I find it Hott sexting with other females . It's fun when I'm at work and well my bf def gets the...
    Noismkr Noismkr 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    EP was a site that I visited almost daily. It has been taken over by inexperienced, immature, opionated members who seem to lack the ability to think on their own. When one seeks...
    SmrtGuyUT SmrtGuyUT 61-65, M Aug 15

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    So this is all probably tied together. I used to have serious problems with my self image. Like so bad I dropped from 200 to 160 lbs in two months one year by walking everywhere...
    shintoangel226 shintoangel226 26-30, T 2 days ago

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    I'm obviously messing up their marriage. He is obviously messing up mine .. So to me it seems clear we need to throw some water on this fire but neither of us seem motivated to do...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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