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I Am Having Affair With My Married Boss

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    i'm actually finding it hard to believe that i haven't already found a "group" out there with a topic like this.  I'm not at all proud to admit this.  I'm a divorced single mom and have known him for 4 years.  We just started this a year ago after i moved...
    jaddicted2k jaddicted2k 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    My Married Boss, Was My Biggest Crush For Years

    When I was young, my dad cheated on my mom having other kid. I was very hurt and so was my mom and my brother and sister. When I found out I was only 11 years old. I had always promised myself to never do this or hurt a wife and a family. Until I was 19 years old. I was hired as...
    propuestaindecente propuestaindecente 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    ep has all kind of experiences

    that might be happening in our own lives . yes i am dating my boss and loving it . its so much freedom in office and you get the perks which others just crave for
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Wow, It Actually Happened. Shouldn'T I Feel Worse?

    It's something I had fantasized about for several years. I knew it would never happen, so it was fun to think about. I even had the offer a few years ago on a trip together. I declined. Not enough to drink, perhaps. Too many morals at the time. I didn't decline this time. I saw...
    HyperNova HyperNova 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Wild Affair With Married Boss

    Wow! I am so happy I have found this site! My boss is married with 2 kids, I am married with 1 kid. He is 19 years older than me and we are having the wildest time I have ever had with any man! He wants more, and even wants us to move together, but for me it is too much...
    Juliette0083 Juliette0083 26-30, F 14 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    Early Stages

    My manager and I started working at the same location just over six months ago. We have known each other through the company for about two years. He was always my go-to person whenever I had a question because my manager at the time had no idea what he was doing. In these past...
    jmay2013 jmay2013 18-21 Jan 26, 2013

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    I have a bf, he has a wife.

    My boss, Alcohol > one night stand > friends with benefit, but now we both developed feelings. What should I do?
    redautumnleaves redautumnleaves 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    Im In Affair With My Boss Whos Also A BPD

    I am single but I am in an affair with my boss. I know her fiance, he's one of the nicest people around and yet I can't do the right thing. I love her too much and I don't know what to do. I can't walk away even though she drives me nuts sometimes. I can't walk away because of...
    hoots hoots 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Having Affair With My Boss

     I'm 29 years old, maried for 8 years with 2 kids. I have been working with my boss for 5 years in different places. He is 20 years older than me and also married with kids. The whole story started at the very beginning of my hiring as a friendship, I was going through tugh...
    lomad lomad 26-30, F 18 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Always enjoyed me boss's company,

    but was never sexually attracted to him. Then we had a couple of international trips away together and after lots of alcohol we ended up in bed. I thought it was a one night stand. Then we just kept texting and I got so turned on by the idea of sleeping with the boss we have...
    Maxieb Maxieb 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    My 5 Month Long Fantasy Comes True

    About 5 months ago I was offered a bartending job at a local club in the town I live in. I had no experience as a bartender but was trained on site. The manager of the bar is always there. He's the guy us bartenders answer to. But he answers to the owner.. Who also owns 4 other...
    ak89 ak89 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    I got a great job just 5 months ago,

    with one of my previous clients of 2 years. We got along great for those two years, including private lunches, that were all professional in nature. We are both married, myself 10 years and him 11 years, we are only 3 years apart and both have children. Neither of us have ever...
    Kathrine2014 Kathrine2014 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    Big Love Romantic Bullshit.

    I'm in love with a married guy, father of 3. To top it off, he is (was) my boss. It used to be a typical love affair. No strings attached, lots of traveling and lots of fun. He never told me that he doesn't love his wife nor his children. Quite the opposite in fact. "My loving...
    brokenflower26 brokenflower26 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Amidst The Comlications

    I am not at all happy to declare this that I have an affair with my married boss, but there comes the circumstances where we are swayed away with the feelings. We know what we are doing is not fair and might cause too much chaos in too many lives. My story too is one of the...
    penguin120 penguin120 26-30 3 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    Who would **** their boss?

    Are you that desperate for ****!!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    Why?!

    I am having an affair with my married boss. He's 9 years older than I am and I knew from the moment he asked me to go on a date that it was the wrong thing to do but something about doing the wrong thing I love doing. The physical and sexual attraction we have for each other is...
    oldsoulbabe oldsoulbabe 22-25 3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Advice Please

    I would have had an affair with my boss, but he stopped it before it could start. it was an emotional affair for sure. he was very attracted to me and wanted to, until I fell for him. He wanted sex and fun, that's it. When he learned I wanted more, he backed off, I took it hard...
    amylee123 amylee123 31-35 2 Responses May 6, 2012

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    1st Hand Advice~dont Date Ur Married Boss

    I bided my time for 15 yr s to leave a bad marriage. Put myself through college again w 2 young boys. Now they are teens & I am divorced. I left w nothing but 3/4 of his debt. Secured a job. Started dating my boss who lied about being "single". He moved out over a yr ago.- a.k.a...
    tggrrrl tggrrrl 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Never Thought It'd Happen To Me.... I Have Learned To Never Say Never

    I am on my second marriage. I have no kids but my husband has 2 girls from a previous marriage ( a marriage dissolved due to his ex cheating so yeah I feel really crappy). Obviously there are many stresses entering a marriage with children that are not yours ( but I accepted as...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal 41-45 8 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    I am 24 married with 2 kids

    and my husband is a good man but he has issues and we fight alot we both work for my boss who is a great guy and always helps me if I need anything be is married with 2 kids. And we have been having an affair for 14 months our sex is amazing and he always makes me smile but...
    maria2489 maria2489 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    It Only Took An Hour... (i Am Married Not Him)

    Today I did it. I crossed the line big time. I am a sink or swim girl. I don't need a love relationship. I am the one who's married. I adore my husband. I am just not sexually into him. I have been dropping little comments to my Guy boss for weeks. I was playing with the idea...
    mistakenforme mistakenforme 26-30, F 5 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Ms K

    i have been having an affair with my boss for over three years now.he is 20 yrs older tham me and will be retiring within the next couple of years.before our affair began he was a father figure and mentor to me in all aspects of my life.our relationship is ending. i am still...
    kimbelina kimbelina 46-50 2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Struggeling Within

    I TOO AM HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY BOSS. HE IS MARRIED AND 20 YEARS MY SENIOR. UNFORTUNATELY, HE IS A MAYOR AND THE DIRECTOR OF A STATE AGENCY. NO CHILDREN SO YOU WOULD THINK HE WOULD LEAVE HER. HE TELLS ME THAT HE LOVES ME AND THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS baseD ON SOMETHING...
    whoknewitwouldbeme whoknewitwouldbeme 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    I am about to do something very stupid.

    We've been working together for over a year, which has been great because sometimes I think he is the only one there who knows what he's doing. We've been flirting, pretty much from the beginning, by text and phone. (We don't work in the same office, we do everything by phone...
    hopelesssness hopelesssness 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    Casual

    I have worked for him for 5 years and don’t really know how this started? I never looked at him as anything but a boss, but, for a month or so we have been flirting, today we kissed, I don’t want a relationship, he is married with children, he is only 5 years my senior. I...
    anonmo2 anonmo2 36-40 3 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    I Love Him, But I Hurt Him, I Need Him Back. Please Help.

    It started a little over a year ago. I had been on vacation when i came back to work my boss told me he missed me. I said oh you only missed all the work i got done. he said yeah but i missed you in other ways too. a little later that day he asked for my phone number. i am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    all they want is sex and that's all I want to. and I love having men who know that I can give them what there wife can't. it's such a thrill
    CheatingTracy CheatingTracy 22-25, F 22 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yes. Yes. Yes. Older married men 😍😍😍😍
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been in this affair with my MM for 6 months now. it's been a whirlwind of emotions of course. when we first met, I did not know he was married. about 4 months in and I...
    button3 button3 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I have been having an affair with a married man for 6 months now, the worst and best is that it's a complete secret, something I could never talk about with any of my friends. I...
    kittykitt kittykitt 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 9

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    Hi . I'm a 50 year old women who is having a affair with a 22 year old man ..the problem is that I have fallen in love with him..I have been married for 31 years . Me husband is a...
    PRMAMI50 PRMAMI50 46-50, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yes I had an affair it lasted about six months and I enjoyed it having fun with her gave me what I wasn't getting at home
    layedback75 layedback75 36-40, M Apr 17

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    Hi I'm new to the group. I comment a bit on another group but haven't felt like opening up yet. I should start by saying I am also married. In a way I feel like it's easier because...
    xoxoblueskyxoxo xoxoblueskyxoxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I'm not quite sure if posting here will help me or not, and I realize that some responses will judge me, but I am sitting alone crying and not sure where to turn because as others...
    Julianne2222 Julianne2222 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I paused our get togethers after experiencing feelings of doubt a few weeks ago. Even though we only communicate via text, he seemed to know something was up (I've wondered more...
    sarabear7 sarabear7 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    So we're back to this again! My MM's living situation with his family has been a little shaky for the past couple of months. For me it was great because we have been spending...
    button3 button3 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    My best friend and I went to Cuba for Christmas vacation. She had just completed her divorce and I was recently separated from my husband. My divorce will be final in the next few...
    CafeAuLeah CafeAuLeah 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    It's a year on Monday since it started...not your typical rant as he is leaving. His office is a mini house with new iron, microwave, cutlery set, Hoover etc all in boxes ready...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I am involved with a married man.. for 2 years I have been involved with a married man on and off. As hard as i try to let him go, it is very very hard. We work together and it...
    LustingKendra LustingKendra 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    or married women that carry on with men or married men / women that carry on with other married men / women ya'll disgust me....
    AwesomeAlert AwesomeAlert 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    For whatever reason...I am craving this. I literally stare at my ceiling and think about how being with a married man would be, physically of course, and I get tingles all over my...
    meowbabyxo meowbabyxo 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 2

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    He's gone :( The man I've been flirting with off and on for 5 years has taken himself off social media never to be heard from again. A part of me is broken. I was so drawn to...
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    She doesn't believe anything I say and she believes her other friend more than me.I might break the friendship with her since she doesn't believe a word I say
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F Apr 10

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    And just like that, it's over. He leaves for his overseas job assignment on Wednesday. It was a rough week - our schedules weren't lining up and I was afraid I wasn't going to...
    sarabear7 sarabear7 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17