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I Am Having Affair With My Married Boss

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    Amidst The Comlications

    I am not at all happy to declare this that I have an affair with my married boss, but there comes the circumstances where we are swayed away with the feelings. We know what we are doing is not fair and might cause too much chaos in too many lives. My story too is one of the...
    penguin120 penguin120 26-30 3 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    Wild Affair With Married Boss

    Wow! I am so happy I have found this site! My boss is married with 2 kids, I am married with 1 kid. He is 19 years older than me and we are having the wildest time I have ever had with any man! He wants more, and even wants us to move together, but for me it is too much...
    Juliette0083 Juliette0083 26-30, F 14 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    My 5 Month Long Fantasy Comes True

    About 5 months ago I was offered a bartending job at a local club in the town I live in. I had no experience as a bartender but was trained on site. The manager of the bar is always there. He's the guy us bartenders answer to. But he answers to the owner.. Who also owns 4 other...
    ak89 ak89 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    Early Stages

    My manager and I started working at the same location just over six months ago. We have known each other through the company for about two years. He was always my go-to person whenever I had a question because my manager at the time had no idea what he was doing. In these past...
    jmay2013 jmay2013 18-21 Jan 26, 2013

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    Wow, It Actually Happened. Shouldn'T I Feel Worse?

    It's something I had fantasized about for several years. I knew it would never happen, so it was fun to think about. I even had the offer a few years ago on a trip together. I declined. Not enough to drink, perhaps. Too many morals at the time. I didn't decline this time. I saw...
    HyperNova HyperNova 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    It Only Took An Hour... (i Am Married Not Him)

    Today I did it. I crossed the line big time. I am a sink or swim girl. I don't need a love relationship. I am the one who's married. I adore my husband. I am just not sexually into him. I have been dropping little comments to my Guy boss for weeks. I was playing with the idea...
    mistakenforme mistakenforme 26-30, F 5 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Big Love Romantic Bullshit.

    I'm in love with a married guy, father of 3. To top it off, he is (was) my boss. It used to be a typical love affair. No strings attached, lots of traveling and lots of fun. He never told me that he doesn't love his wife nor his children. Quite the opposite in fact. "My loving...
    brokenflower26 brokenflower26 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    I am about to do something very stupid.

    We've been working together for over a year, which has been great because sometimes I think he is the only one there who knows what he's doing. We've been flirting, pretty much from the beginning, by text and phone. (We don't work in the same office, we do everything by phone...
    hopelesssness hopelesssness 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    Im In Affair With My Boss Whos Also A BPD

    I am single but I am in an affair with my boss. I know her fiance, he's one of the nicest people around and yet I can't do the right thing. I love her too much and I don't know what to do. I can't walk away even though she drives me nuts sometimes. I can't walk away because of...
    hoots hoots 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    I have a bf, he has a wife.

    My boss, Alcohol > one night stand > friends with benefit, but now we both developed feelings. What should I do?
    redautumnleaves redautumnleaves 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    ep has all kind of experiences

    that might be happening in our own lives . yes i am dating my boss and loving it . its so much freedom in office and you get the perks which others just crave for
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    1st Hand Advice~dont Date Ur Married Boss

    I bided my time for 15 yr s to leave a bad marriage. Put myself through college again w 2 young boys. Now they are teens & I am divorced. I left w nothing but 3/4 of his debt. Secured a job. Started dating my boss who lied about being "single". He moved out over a yr ago.- a.k.a...
    tggrrrl tggrrrl 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Why?!

    I am having an affair with my married boss. He's 9 years older than I am and I knew from the moment he asked me to go on a date that it was the wrong thing to do but something about doing the wrong thing I love doing. The physical and sexual attraction we have for each other is...
    oldsoulbabe oldsoulbabe 22-25 3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Always enjoyed me boss's company,

    but was never sexually attracted to him. Then we had a couple of international trips away together and after lots of alcohol we ended up in bed. I thought it was a one night stand. Then we just kept texting and I got so turned on by the idea of sleeping with the boss we have...
    Maxieb Maxieb 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    Having Affair With My Boss

     I'm 29 years old, maried for 8 years with 2 kids. I have been working with my boss for 5 years in different places. He is 20 years older than me and also married with kids. The whole story started at the very beginning of my hiring as a friendship, I was going through tugh...
    lomad lomad 26-30, F 18 Responses May 9, 2011

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    I got a great job just 5 months ago,

    with one of my previous clients of 2 years. We got along great for those two years, including private lunches, that were all professional in nature. We are both married, myself 10 years and him 11 years, we are only 3 years apart and both have children. Neither of us have ever...
    Kathrine2014 Kathrine2014 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    My Married Boss, Was My Biggest Crush For Years

    When I was young, my dad cheated on my mom having other kid. I was very hurt and so was my mom and my brother and sister. When I found out I was only 11 years old. I had always promised myself to never do this or hurt a wife and a family. Until I was 19 years old. I was hired as...
    propuestaindecente propuestaindecente 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    I am 24 married with 2 kids

    and my husband is a good man but he has issues and we fight alot we both work for my boss who is a great guy and always helps me if I need anything be is married with 2 kids. And we have been having an affair for 14 months our sex is amazing and he always makes me smile but...
    maria2489 maria2489 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    Never Thought It'd Happen To Me.... I Have Learned To Never Say Never

    I am on my second marriage. I have no kids but my husband has 2 girls from a previous marriage ( a marriage dissolved due to his ex cheating so yeah I feel really crappy). Obviously there are many stresses entering a marriage with children that are not yours ( but I accepted as...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal 41-45 8 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    I Love Him, But I Hurt Him, I Need Him Back. Please Help.

    It started a little over a year ago. I had been on vacation when i came back to work my boss told me he missed me. I said oh you only missed all the work i got done. he said yeah but i missed you in other ways too. a little later that day he asked for my phone number. i am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Advice Please

    I would have had an affair with my boss, but he stopped it before it could start. it was an emotional affair for sure. he was very attracted to me and wanted to, until I fell for him. He wanted sex and fun, that's it. When he learned I wanted more, he backed off, I took it hard...
    amylee123 amylee123 31-35 3 Responses May 6, 2012

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    Ms K

    i have been having an affair with my boss for over three years now.he is 20 yrs older tham me and will be retiring within the next couple of years.before our affair began he was a father figure and mentor to me in all aspects of my life.our relationship is ending. i am still...
    kimbelina kimbelina 46-50 2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Who would **** their boss?

    Are you that desperate for ****!!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    Struggeling Within

    I TOO AM HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY BOSS. HE IS MARRIED AND 20 YEARS MY SENIOR. UNFORTUNATELY, HE IS A MAYOR AND THE DIRECTOR OF A STATE AGENCY. NO CHILDREN SO YOU WOULD THINK HE WOULD LEAVE HER. HE TELLS ME THAT HE LOVES ME AND THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS baseD ON SOMETHING...
    whoknewitwouldbeme whoknewitwouldbeme 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Addicted

    i'm actually finding it hard to believe that i haven't already found a "group" out there with a topic like this.  I'm not at all proud to admit this.  I'm a divorced single mom and have known him for 4 years.  We just started this a year ago after i moved...
    jaddicted2k jaddicted2k 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    Casual

    I have worked for him for 5 years and don’t really know how this started? I never looked at him as anything but a boss, but, for a month or so we have been flirting, today we kissed, I don’t want a relationship, he is married with children, he is only 5 years my senior. I...
    anonmo2 anonmo2 36-40 3 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    looking for married man age 26-36 to have a online affair with.. I love the thrill .. what can I say. I'm a home wrecking $L#T
    XoXo07 XoXo07 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I am having an affair with a married man who I used to date 15 years ago. He is twelve years older than me and I was very much in love with him. At the time I think I was too young...
    ma4466 ma4466 36-40, F Feb 4

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    So I guess I had an affair with 2 mm. The first one is still going on for 4 yrs now but it's slowly fading. We don't see each other as much. My second mm well he's my ex mm I guess...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F Feb 5

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    hi im a married man wanting an affair any married women out there looking for the same..i want to have fun...plus im well hung and love to please
    stiffylube stiffylube 41-45, M Feb 6

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    In general, it is hard to understand men. Having an emotional and physical affair with a 6 years younger man than me even make me think harder. When I first know him, I refused to...
    envymyself envymyself 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    I still think about the man that I had an emotional affair with for 2 years. No stranger, we’d gone to high school together. We had history, flirting in study hall, talking...
    Raven57 Raven57 56-60, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I had several affairs with black men over the years. Four of them get me pregnant and with their white wives and girlfriends permission. These women are good friends of mine. I...
    oldernudistfamily oldernudistfamily 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    My lover texted me a few days ago. I noticed right away that things seemed different but I couldn't place what or why. I went with it, curious to know what was happening. It's like...
    sarabear7 sarabear7 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    It's this guy I work with likes me and I have a little for him too. This has been going on for a while now but haven't completely gave in because he is married. Last weekend he...
    sweetbee221 sweetbee221 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been talking too a married man for months and sleeping with him for a few weeks. I like him a lot and he is very caring and kind, he cuddles me and I love every minute that I...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 14

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    I love my MM so much... I'm off tonight and wish I can be with him. We're together all the time during the day but not much after hours. How do you guys deal? I'm usually great but...
    SoMarvelous SoMarvelous 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have taken the first step I approached her with my ideas of her an having an affair together lets see how she feels about it...
    cuteinmypantiestoo cuteinmypantiestoo 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 14

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    He is an older guy. He has finally started flirting back. It all started with him joking around with me about my butt. He would cut up with the other guys about me having a girl's...
    standinginthecorner standinginthecorner 31-35, M Feb 24

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    I want him terribly but I have no idea how to handle my emotions. Should I even act on them at all?? We've worked together for a little less than year. He's become my best friend...
    Bluejay1812 Bluejay1812 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love my gf because she has a beautiful heart but I can't stand how much she does for her family and that her family expects it. her Gma is past the point of needing to be in a...
    True2myHeart True2myHeart 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me nearly as much as I do with him. We have been together for over a year now. I am a 21 year old female and he is a 25 year old male...
    LilyHennes LilyHennes 18-21, F Feb 19

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    I think he wants me now. He has been making gestures by rubbing himself while looking at me. I really hope I'm not reading him wrong, because I'm gathering the courage to go for it...
    standinginthecorner standinginthecorner 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    I still love him and think about him everyday. It's almost like I'm haunted by him. He showed up unexpectedly ay my work with a couple friends of his, and I had to fight to keep an...
    renae85 renae85 26-30 1 Response Feb 15

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