I Am Having Affair With My Married Boss

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 178 People

    Amidst The Comlications

    I am not at all happy to declare this that I have an affair with my married boss, but there comes the circumstances where we are swayed away with the feelings. We know what we are doing is not fair and might cause too much chaos in too many lives. My story too is one of the...
    penguin120 penguin120
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2012

    Early Stages

    My manager and I started working at the same location just over six months ago. We have known each other through the company for about two years. He was always my go-to person whenever I had a question because my manager at the time had no idea what he was doing. In these past...
    jmay2013 jmay2013
    18-21
    Jan 26, 2013

    I Love Him, But I Hurt Him, I Need Him Back. Please Help.

    It started a little over a year ago. I had been on vacation when i came back to work my boss told me he missed me. I said oh you only missed all the work i got done. he said yeah but i missed you in other ways too. a little later that day he asked for my phone number. i am...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 15, 2013

    My Married Boss, Was My Biggest Crush For Years

    When I was young, my dad cheated on my mom having other kid. I was very hurt and so was my mom and my brother and sister. When I found out I was only 11 years old. I had always promised myself to never do this or hurt a wife and a family. Until I was 19 years old. I was hired as...
    propuestaindecente propuestaindecente
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

    Advice Please

    I would have had an affair with my boss, but he stopped it before it could start. it was an emotional affair for sure. he was very attracted to me and wanted to, until I fell for him. He wanted sex and fun, that's it. When he learned I wanted more, he backed off, I took it hard...
    amylee123 amylee123
    31-35
    2 Responses May 6, 2012

    Casual

    I have worked for him for 5 years and don’t really know how this started? I never looked at him as anything but a boss, but, for a month or so we have been flirting, today we kissed, I don’t want a relationship, he is married with children, he is only 5 years my senior. I...
    anonmo2 anonmo2
    36-40
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2013

    Why?!

    I am having an affair with my married boss. He's 9 years older than I am and I knew from the moment he asked me to go on a date that it was the wrong thing to do but something about doing the wrong thing I love doing. The physical and sexual attraction we have for each other is...
    oldsoulbabe oldsoulbabe
    22-25
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

    A Kinda Weird Situation...

    Really weird situation to be honest. I started working there a little over 6 months ago, and it started 6 months of a large amount of mind games, which it turned out we both liked. He has always been quite focused on me sexually and I knew that, but I really wasn't sure about...
    Jan 31, 2013

    Wow, It Actually Happened. Shouldn'T I Feel Worse?

    It's something I had fantasized about for several years. I knew it would never happen, so it was fun to think about. I even had the offer a few years ago on a trip together. I declined. Not enough to drink, perhaps. Too many morals at the time. I didn't decline this time. I saw...
    HyperNova HyperNova
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2013

    Always enjoyed me boss's company,

    but was never sexually attracted to him. Then we had a couple of international trips away together and after lots of alcohol we ended up in bed. I thought it was a one night stand. Then we just kept texting and I got so turned on by the idea of sleeping with the boss we have...
    Maxieb Maxieb
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    Wild Affair With Married Boss

    Wow! I am so happy I have found this site! My boss is married with 2 kids, I am married with 1 kid. He is 19 years older than me and we are having the wildest time I have ever had with any man! He wants more, and even wants us to move together, but for me it is too much...
    Juliette0083 Juliette0083
    26-30, F
    14 Responses Dec 3, 2009

    Never Thought It'd Happen To Me.... I Have Learned To Never Say Never

    I am on my second marriage. I have no kids but my husband has 2 girls from a previous marriage ( a marriage dissolved due to his ex cheating so yeah I feel really crappy). Obviously there are many stresses entering a marriage with children that are not yours ( but I accepted as...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal
    46-50
    8 Responses Mar 19, 2013

    Wow! I am on a roller-coaster (emotionally).

    I have been seeing/dating my boss for over three months, we are both unhappy in our married relationships and we both have three children. We are both unhappy in our marriages with our partners not even acknowledging our feelings. Believe me, I've tried counselling, talking...
    anik1980 anik1980
    36-40, F
    Apr 2

    ep has all kind of experiences

    that might be happening in our own lives . yes i am dating my boss and loving it . its so much freedom in office and you get the perks which others just crave for
    tiarababy tiarababy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    Having Affair With My Boss

     I'm 29 years old, maried for 8 years with 2 kids. I have been working with my boss for 5 years in different places. He is 20 years older than me and also married with kids. The whole story started at the very beginning of my hiring as a friendship, I was going through tugh...
    lomad lomad
    26-30, F
    16 Responses May 9, 2011

    I Just Cant Help Myself :S need advice!

    Its complicated but ill try my best to explain. When I started work 2years ago the guy in question wasn't my boss, but I instantly noticed him as I was extremely attracted to him. My husband and his wife are both involved in the company, which I guess made me feel at ease around...
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

    My 5 Month Long Fantasy Comes True

    About 5 months ago I was offered a bartending job at a local club in the town I live in. I had no experience as a bartender but was trained on site. The manager of the bar is always there. He's the guy us bartenders answer to. But he answers to the owner.. Who also owns 4 other...
    ak89 ak89
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2013

    Ms K

    i have been having an affair with my boss for over three years now.he is 20 yrs older tham me and will be retiring within the next couple of years.before our affair began he was a father figure and mentor to me in all aspects of my life.our relationship is ending. i am still...
    kimbelina kimbelina
    46-50
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

    I am about to do something very stupid.

    We've been working together for over a year, which has been great because sometimes I think he is the only one there who knows what he's doing. We've been flirting, pretty much from the beginning, by text and phone. (We don't work in the same office, we do everything by phone...
    hopelesssness hopelesssness
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    Addicted

    i'm actually finding it hard to believe that i haven't already found a "group" out there with a topic like this.  I'm not at all proud to admit this.  I'm a divorced single mom and have known him for 4 years.  We just started this a year ago after i moved...
    jaddicted2k jaddicted2k
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Nov 29, 2008

    We were at lunch and he just kissed me.

    We're both married. I am in shock. There's been a lot of flirting but I don't even know how the kiss happened
    misst128 misst128
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 10

    Struggeling Within

    I TOO AM HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY BOSS. HE IS MARRIED AND 20 YEARS MY SENIOR. UNFORTUNATELY, HE IS A MAYOR AND THE DIRECTOR OF A STATE AGENCY. NO CHILDREN SO YOU WOULD THINK HE WOULD LEAVE HER. HE TELLS ME THAT HE LOVES ME AND THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS baseD ON SOMETHING...
    whoknewitwouldbeme whoknewitwouldbeme
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jun 3, 2012

    I got a great job just 5 months ago,

    with one of my previous clients of 2 years. We got along great for those two years, including private lunches, that were all professional in nature. We are both married, myself 10 years and him 11 years, we are only 3 years apart and both have children. Neither of us have ever...
    Kathrine2014 Kathrine2014
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    I'm 19 and she's 47 I have a girlfriend

    and she's married but we started sleeping together recently.
    IIDave95II IIDave95II
    18-21, M
    2 Responses May 6, 2015

    Big Love Romantic Bullshit.

    I'm in love with a married guy, father of 3. To top it off, he is (was) my boss. It used to be a typical love affair. No strings attached, lots of traveling and lots of fun. He never told me that he doesn't love his wife nor his children. Quite the opposite in fact. "My loving...
    brokenflower26 brokenflower26
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2012

    Who would **** their boss?

    Are you that desperate for ****!!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    It Only Took An Hour... (i Am Married Not Him)

    Today I did it. I crossed the line big time. I am a sink or swim girl. I don't need a love relationship. I am the one who's married. I adore my husband. I am just not sexually into him. I have been dropping little comments to my Guy boss for weeks. I was playing with the idea...
    mistakenforme mistakenforme
    26-30, F
    5 Responses May 29, 2012

    Im In Affair With My Boss Whos Also A BPD

    I am single but I am in an affair with my boss. I know her fiance, he's one of the nicest people around and yet I can't do the right thing. I love her too much and I don't know what to do. I can't walk away even though she drives me nuts sometimes. I can't walk away because of...
    hoots hoots
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 3, 2013

    I am 24 married with 2 kids

    and my husband is a good man but he has issues and we fight alot we both work for my boss who is a great guy and always helps me if I need anything be is married with 2 kids. And we have been having an affair for 14 months our sex is amazing and he always makes me smile but...
    maria2489 maria2489
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 3, 2014

    1st Hand Advice~dont Date Ur Married Boss

    I bided my time for 15 yr s to leave a bad marriage. Put myself through college again w 2 young boys. Now they are teens & I am divorced. I left w nothing but 3/4 of his debt. Secured a job. Started dating my boss who lied about being "single". He moved out over a yr ago.- a.k.a...
    tggrrrl tggrrrl
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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