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I Am Having Affair With My Married Boss

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    Why?!

    I am having an affair with my married boss. He's 9 years older than I am and I knew from the moment he asked me to go on a date that it was the wrong thing to do but something about doing the wrong thing I love doing. The physical and sexual attraction we have for each other is...
    oldsoulbabe oldsoulbabe 22-25 3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Ms K

    i have been having an affair with my boss for over three years now.he is 20 yrs older tham me and will be retiring within the next couple of years.before our affair began he was a father figure and mentor to me in all aspects of my life.our relationship is ending. i am still...
    kimbelina kimbelina 46-50 2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    I got a great job just 5 months ago,

    with one of my previous clients of 2 years. We got along great for those two years, including private lunches, that were all professional in nature. We are both married, myself 10 years and him 11 years, we are only 3 years apart and both have children. Neither of us have ever...
    Kathrine2014 Kathrine2014 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    Wow, It Actually Happened. Shouldn'T I Feel Worse?

    It's something I had fantasized about for several years. I knew it would never happen, so it was fun to think about. I even had the offer a few years ago on a trip together. I declined. Not enough to drink, perhaps. Too many morals at the time. I didn't decline this time. I saw...
    HyperNova HyperNova 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Casual

    I have worked for him for 5 years and don’t really know how this started? I never looked at him as anything but a boss, but, for a month or so we have been flirting, today we kissed, I don’t want a relationship, he is married with children, he is only 5 years my senior. I...
    anonmo2 anonmo2 36-40 3 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    Always enjoyed me boss's company,

    but was never sexually attracted to him. Then we had a couple of international trips away together and after lots of alcohol we ended up in bed. I thought it was a one night stand. Then we just kept texting and I got so turned on by the idea of sleeping with the boss we have...
    Maxieb Maxieb 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I Love Him, But I Hurt Him, I Need Him Back. Please Help.

    It started a little over a year ago. I had been on vacation when i came back to work my boss told me he missed me. I said oh you only missed all the work i got done. he said yeah but i missed you in other ways too. a little later that day he asked for my phone number. i am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Wild Affair With Married Boss

    Wow! I am so happy I have found this site! My boss is married with 2 kids, I am married with 1 kid. He is 19 years older than me and we are having the wildest time I have ever had with any man! He wants more, and even wants us to move together, but for me it is too much...
    Juliette0083 Juliette0083 26-30, F 14 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    Advice Please

    I would have had an affair with my boss, but he stopped it before it could start. it was an emotional affair for sure. he was very attracted to me and wanted to, until I fell for him. He wanted sex and fun, that's it. When he learned I wanted more, he backed off, I took it hard...
    amylee123 amylee123 31-35 2 Responses May 6, 2012

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    I am 24 married with 2 kids

    and my husband is a good man but he has issues and we fight alot we both work for my boss who is a great guy and always helps me if I need anything be is married with 2 kids. And we have been having an affair for 14 months our sex is amazing and he always makes me smile but...
    maria2489 maria2489 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    1st Hand Advice~dont Date Ur Married Boss

    I bided my time for 15 yr s to leave a bad marriage. Put myself through college again w 2 young boys. Now they are teens & I am divorced. I left w nothing but 3/4 of his debt. Secured a job. Started dating my boss who lied about being "single". He moved out over a yr ago.- a.k.a...
    tggrrrl tggrrrl 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Struggeling Within

    I TOO AM HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY BOSS. HE IS MARRIED AND 20 YEARS MY SENIOR. UNFORTUNATELY, HE IS A MAYOR AND THE DIRECTOR OF A STATE AGENCY. NO CHILDREN SO YOU WOULD THINK HE WOULD LEAVE HER. HE TELLS ME THAT HE LOVES ME AND THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS baseD ON SOMETHING...
    whoknewitwouldbeme whoknewitwouldbeme 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    I Just Cant Help Myself :S need advice!

    Its complicated but ill try my best to explain. When I started work 2years ago the guy in question wasn't my boss, but I instantly noticed him as I was extremely attracted to him. My husband and his wife are both involved in the company, which I guess made me feel at ease around...
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    A Kinda Weird Situation...

    Really weird situation to be honest. I started working there a little over 6 months ago, and it started 6 months of a large amount of mind games, which it turned out we both liked. He has always been quite focused on me sexually and I knew that, but I really wasn't sure about...
    Jan 31, 2013

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    Never Thought It'd Happen To Me.... I Have Learned To Never Say Never

    I am on my second marriage. I have no kids but my husband has 2 girls from a previous marriage ( a marriage dissolved due to his ex cheating so yeah I feel really crappy). Obviously there are many stresses entering a marriage with children that are not yours ( but I accepted as...
    Tryn2Heal Tryn2Heal 41-45 8 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Having Affair With My Boss

     I'm 29 years old, maried for 8 years with 2 kids. I have been working with my boss for 5 years in different places. He is 20 years older than me and also married with kids. The whole story started at the very beginning of my hiring as a friendship, I was going through tugh...
    lomad lomad 26-30, F 16 Responses May 9, 2011

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    ep has all kind of experiences

    that might be happening in our own lives . yes i am dating my boss and loving it . its so much freedom in office and you get the perks which others just crave for
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Early Stages

    My manager and I started working at the same location just over six months ago. We have known each other through the company for about two years. He was always my go-to person whenever I had a question because my manager at the time had no idea what he was doing. In these past...
    jmay2013 jmay2013 18-21 Jan 26, 2013

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    I'm 19 and she's 47 I have a girlfriend

    and she's married but we started sleeping together recently.
    IIDave95II IIDave95II 18-21, M 2 Responses May 6

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    Im In Affair With My Boss Whos Also A BPD

    I am single but I am in an affair with my boss. I know her fiance, he's one of the nicest people around and yet I can't do the right thing. I love her too much and I don't know what to do. I can't walk away even though she drives me nuts sometimes. I can't walk away because of...
    hoots hoots 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    I am about to do something very stupid.

    We've been working together for over a year, which has been great because sometimes I think he is the only one there who knows what he's doing. We've been flirting, pretty much from the beginning, by text and phone. (We don't work in the same office, we do everything by phone...
    hopelesssness hopelesssness 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    Amidst The Comlications

    I am not at all happy to declare this that I have an affair with my married boss, but there comes the circumstances where we are swayed away with the feelings. We know what we are doing is not fair and might cause too much chaos in too many lives. My story too is one of the...
    penguin120 penguin120 26-30 3 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    I have a bf, he has a wife.

    My boss, Alcohol > one night stand > friends with benefit, but now we both developed feelings. What should I do?
    redautumnleaves redautumnleaves 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    My 5 Month Long Fantasy Comes True

    About 5 months ago I was offered a bartending job at a local club in the town I live in. I had no experience as a bartender but was trained on site. The manager of the bar is always there. He's the guy us bartenders answer to. But he answers to the owner.. Who also owns 4 other...
    ak89 ak89 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    My Married Boss, Was My Biggest Crush For Years

    When I was young, my dad cheated on my mom having other kid. I was very hurt and so was my mom and my brother and sister. When I found out I was only 11 years old. I had always promised myself to never do this or hurt a wife and a family. Until I was 19 years old. I was hired as...
    propuestaindecente propuestaindecente 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    Who would **** their boss?

    Are you that desperate for ****!!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    It Only Took An Hour... (i Am Married Not Him)

    Today I did it. I crossed the line big time. I am a sink or swim girl. I don't need a love relationship. I am the one who's married. I adore my husband. I am just not sexually into him. I have been dropping little comments to my Guy boss for weeks. I was playing with the idea...
    mistakenforme mistakenforme 26-30, F 5 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Big Love Romantic Bullshit.

    I'm in love with a married guy, father of 3. To top it off, he is (was) my boss. It used to be a typical love affair. No strings attached, lots of traveling and lots of fun. He never told me that he doesn't love his wife nor his children. Quite the opposite in fact. "My loving...
    brokenflower26 brokenflower26 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Addicted

    i'm actually finding it hard to believe that i haven't already found a "group" out there with a topic like this.  I'm not at all proud to admit this.  I'm a divorced single mom and have known him for 4 years.  We just started this a year ago after i moved...
    jaddicted2k jaddicted2k 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    If you all could read my last experience and help me out I will in return help you out as well.
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    I have been married for 15 years, although my marriage has been a lengthy one it's been a tough thing to deal with. I always had a low self-esteem so I was fine not being woo'ed or...
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    Ok I just need some advice or insight on my situation. If I went into detail about my married man it would take days. Basically last year we had a fling for about 4 months. He...
    carter57 carter57 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    I separated from my husband. I had an affair with his ex co-worker. Not to get back at him but because I was attracted to him. The affair had its high and crashed when it hit me...
    macabre00 macabre00 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Ok story time. So me and my beef have known each other since I can remember being in school. And i don't even know what our relationship was until middle school it was something...
    Lightnbug Lightnbug 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My mother in law and father in law live with us. She has early onset dementia at 68. She has lived with us for 6 months and is convinced that I am her lover or husband and...
    andyp3136 andyp3136 51-55 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hi all anyone in Sydney that is married think of having an affair want to chat
    penrithguy2774 penrithguy2774 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    I have been married for 19 years. We got married when she was pregnant with out first child. Soon thereafter, we learned that a number of emotional problems that she had been...
    tempestae tempestae 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    I was working and on a trip, I went to the movies one night, when this young looking woman came in, and we made eye contact, so I followed her into the movie theater, she sat...
    dadineed53 dadineed53 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    I so quickly received reassurance that I could share here it made me feel safe! So thank you guys! The guy who I am involved with is married for 3 years now and has never had an...
    kmudge kmudge 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So it's not technically an affair About six or seven months ago I had to drive an atv over to a neighbors house so that I could plow her driveway with it She had gotten divorced...
    JayNan51 JayNan51 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    so after an affair, I left my husband (now ex) and settled down with the man I had the affair with. after dealing with this guilt for 4 years, we are now getting married in the...
    MTHeart MTHeart 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I'm having EDC withdrawals and I hate it 😩!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I know it's odd but I like my wife having affairs.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 46 Responses 2 days ago

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