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I Am Having An Affair With a Married Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 277 People

    The Short Version.

    I met him through my best friend's boyfriend, we sat next to each other in the car that night because I accidentally spilled an energy drink on his side of the car. He started touching my leg. It had been so long since anyone had touched me at all.. I went for it instantly. I...
    Jan 13, 2013

    Annnnd This Is Why I'm Having An Affair With A Married Man

    I've posted in here a few times before and talked about my current affair with a young married man and why I chose to get into such a situation. And here is just more proof of why I chose to do so--because I just can't handle the crazy mind games that single men play with me and...
    princessmermaid princessmermaid
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 6, 2013

    How To Get Over It

    So here is my story. I recently moved to a new area and met this really cute guy. He wasn't wearing a wedding band so I didn't think anything about him being married. We went out for lunch a few times. While doing so, I really felt a connection with him-things just clicked in...
    DazedandCrazy DazedandCrazy
    4 Responses Jul 15, 2013


    I began a creative writing therapy group to help me in my recovery from depression. The guy who ran the group gradually grew on me or put another way the tension between us was growing and becoming almost unbearable. Eventually we met up for a drink outside the centre very much...
    purplegirly purplegirly
    31-35, F
    Apr 10, 2010

    Both Married - How Long Can An Affair Go On ?

    I have been in a loveless marriage for 29 years and just met up a year ago with my boyfriend from when I was 17 . He is also married And also has young children and really does live his wife but obviously loves the ego trip he gets from being with me as well as the sex he doesn...
    Mocalite Mocalite
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2012

    Gay And Having An Affair With A Married Man

    Hi I am a gay male and having an affair with a married man, His wife does not know, what should I do ??
    regina2009 regina2009
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2009

    Yup, Cheating With A Married Man.

    Its pretty simple. Boring sexual relationship with the current bf. At work all the time, surrounded by a bunch of married men who wouldn't mind having a good ****. I realized this. I took advantage of it. It was fun. I don't take it back, and we already have another outing...
    Canary218 Canary218
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2009

    It Works For Us

    I have been seeing a married man for the past half year. He is away from home and goes back every 2 or 3 months for a week. He will be going back permanately this summer. From the get go there was an attraction. We started out as friends within a group who did many activities...
    friendsonly friendsonly
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Mar 3, 2013

    I Am Underage And Am Having An Affair With A Married Man, Please Help

    I am 17, and he is 26 and has five kids. Him and his wife have been together since they were 16. We met at the end of the summer, he sold a car to my mom and her phone broke so my mom put his cell number in my phone incase she needed to call about the car. One night after my...
    strawberriesyum strawberriesyum
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 17, 2010


    I'm kind of having an affair with my ex-husband who has remarried. We were married for five years and we have two kids. Things just didn't work out and we've been divorced for about four years. Since the divorce we've gotten along alright, he's a good dad. He married a women...
    OpenandReady OpenandReady
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 22, 2013

    In Love With a Married Man

    I'am a married woman of 42 my husband is 63 and the man i'am having the affair with is 62 I know you are thinking why so old. But i have always been attracted to older men not to mention they are really great in bed. Well anyway i'am amercian but my lover is from india he has...
    cupcake66 cupcake66
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2008

    He Is Like A Drug!

    I am having an affair with a married man. He is 46, and we have been having an affair off and on for four years. I am 34, and married too!We have a child together, and I tried to end it, when I was pregnant and confessed everything to my husband. I was determined to work it...
    grrll76 grrll76
    Sep 14, 2010

    Married And Having Affair With Married Man.

    So, my story goes like this. I have been Married for 9 years, together for 12. But as time has gone by I feel like I am married to the oldest 45 year old Man I know. I have been a very supportive wife, lover, friend to him. I encourage him, never stopped him from job changes. As...
    13Nevaeh 13Nevaeh
    1 Response Jul 19, 2013

    How I Fell In Love With A Married Man

    Well it all started around July of 2011, when Jerry and I worked at Mcdonald’s by Wal-mart (C2). He was the first manager that I met at Mcdonald’s. He told me I was pretty from the beginning. I didn’t think much of it at first because I was in love with my fiancé Dustin...
    Tiffmarie08 Tiffmarie08
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

    First. I'm a guy and I'm 19.

    I'm having an affair with a 35 year old married man with 3 children. It all started when I went to his office for an appointment. And it just went from there. We do it everywhere. His office, his Mercedes, his wife's Range Rover and it almost happened on his daughters bed but I...
    Treyzawn Treyzawn
    22-25, M
    Jan 16, 2015

    I Tried Everything Before I Decided To Do It....

    Just started my affair this month May 2012 but not after trying everything first with my husband of 20 years whom I still adore. Interesting but I tried to communicate and nothing came out of that. I tried leaving him in 1998 but he begged and said he loved me and things would...
    js0904 js0904
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 28, 2012

    Hey guys . I just need some advice .

    I've recently started seeing this guy and I found out he was married about 2 weeks agon but I haven't stopped seeing him . My problem is that when I'm not around him I feel guilty and when I am around him I become a whole different person . And I don't know what to do some...
    moondustfairy moondustfairy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2015

    Is It So Wrong?

    He's 57 I am 50. I posted an ad for a relationship and he responded. From thebeginning he was honest, in a relationship without passion or connection... We exchanged several emails and met for dinner. There is a connection there, a warm understanding connection, intelligence...
    ajewel ajewel
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Feb 26, 2010

    There's Still No Ending To Our Story ...

    I guess my story is crazy i was pretty young when I started my affair with a married man he is the love of my life and i can't imagine life without him....everyone says i should leave him alone and that i deserve so mych better . But what can i do I'm in love with him ...he says...
    LAMetalhearts LAMetalhearts
    Jul 11, 2012

    Happy And Sad All At The Same Time??

    I have been in a relationship for 14 years. My partner never wanted to get married so we didn't. He cheated on me for years and i always forgave him. I started seeing a married man about 3 months ago. He is everything i have ever wanted in a man. He is caring, compassionate, and...
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2012

    Married Coworker...

    I cant tell anybody this story because Ilivein a very small town and somebody would let it slip... so here I am telling a whole bunch of random online strangers one of my deepest darkest secrets... I am falling for a married man... I have been working with him for over a year...
    elementalcrisis67 elementalcrisis67
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 31, 2010

    I'm Confused

    I have been friends with a married guy for a few months now.  We have been getting along very well.  My situation is my children father and I have been living together for over a year now for the sake of our kids.  We are not emotionally or physically involved with each other...
    shinyeyes shinyeyes
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2012


    I've stayed friends with my old history teacher from high school and for the last 3 years we've just talked for a few mins every couple of weeks. Lately I noticed that he was on facebook every night for hours at a time. I hate to admit it. Both him and his wife are great people...
    TerraLee TerraLee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2010


    i have been having an affair with a married man for 2 years, he has been in a stale marriage for the last 10 years, everybody knows about me and him, all apart from his wife she knows something is going on but not about me,and knows he will be leaving as she has asked him to...
    ajnana ajnana
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 27, 2012

    Your Opinion On My Affair

    i was in a abusive relationship for 2 yrs which i found the strenght to leave. I have 6 children, 3 to my ex husband and 3 to the ex i left due to the abuse, age range from 11 yrs to 5 months. I recently met a man who turns out to be married, we have been toghether for only 3...
    ditto13 ditto13
    1 Response Jan 2, 2012

    Emotional Affair Turned Physical With Long Time Friend...

    It all started when I was 17 years old. I was in my first relationship with my first "love" when I met "my love". We met at a party at my friends house and instantly knew we liked each other, we just had that instant chemistry that is so rare and hard to find. My then boyfriend...
    gnarvar gnarvar
    31-35, F
    Nov 8, 2013

    Falling In Love With A Married Man

    I am a 34 yr old married woman with 3 kids. I was at home feeling very lonely when I decided to go on a website for married people. I have been missing the connection and the spark with my husband for a long long time. I met a married man and it was an instant connection. He was...
    lulubelle76 lulubelle76
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2010

    Im Having A Affair With A Married Man

    i just needed to tell my story and found thats theres lots of you like me it comforts me that i`m not alone glad i found this site . i been having an affair with a married man for just over 8 yrs, im single and now 43, 2 children 23 and 17 youngest still lives at home, i started...
    Den43 Den43
    41-45, F
    Jul 18, 2011


      I am married, and have been having an affair with a married man for six months. What started as a fling, has now become a serious committed relationship. We each have 4 children, most of them grown. I have been in an unhappy marriage for years. Stayed because of the kids...
    Jadite Jadite
    41-45, F
    9 Responses May 1, 2008

    They Only Give You A Small Piece Of Their Lives.

    This was when I was just out of high school years ago. A friend of my father's began calling me and flirting without me knowing who it was. Of course eventually we have to meet and even though I was initially uncomfortable with it, we became sex buds. Usually married men are...
    herdofcats herdofcats
    46-50, M
    Jan 9, 2012

    What Should I Do?

    My wife and I are in a sexless marriage. She has excuses why we cannot have sex so I quit trying. She was never a big sex lover. I must say she is the coolest woman I know. So I have decided to venture out to find a partner. Going to bars and hanging more with friends I meet...
    charjason1 charjason1
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2012

    Married Boss

    When I was 16 y/o I went to work for vacation job. There is where I met 'him' that in the story will be called Rick. Rick was 15 years older than me. Rick and I started talking more in a friendly way because one day at lunch break I was eating and heard that he was listening to...
    Kdc20 Kdc20
    18-21, F
    Oct 24, 2013

    So I have now become another statistic.

    I am having an emotional and physical affair with a married man. For background, I am in the process of getting a divorce. I have been married for 7 years. We always had an open relationship so I have had partners on the side before but my husband always knew and I always made...
    daughterofapreacherman daughterofapreacherman
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2014

    Two Different Affairs With Married Men

    Unfortunately, against my better judgement, this is my second time up to bat with a married man. The first time was a few years ago and the relationship lasted about a year and a half. I knew from the beginning that he wouldn't leave his family, at least not until his kids were...
    LTRgirl LTRgirl
    3 Responses Feb 5, 2012

    We Just Connected

    I started having an affair in July of 2011 with a man that I knew was married. This situation usually is not something I go for but this man came on to me and he is an older, very attractive man. We always had great communication and great sex. We would text and talk every day...
    Keebler1577 Keebler1577
    1 Response Sep 13, 2013

    Well, here we go again.

    Another crushed heart and more tears. Another day I rescheduled to be with him and he cancelled at the last minute. Another day of me being angry at myself for depending on him to be there for me that won't happen. Another spin around my ridiculous thoughts and memories...
    WickedVagabond WickedVagabond
    Dec 2, 2015

    I Am Having An Affair With A Married Man

    i met the man who wasnt of my dreams but was my real life hero-right here on earth, i dedicated my time and gave him two wonderful children, he began to become abusive -abusing aclohol and me, i was told to bear it by so called friends and family(funny they were from his side), i...
    lshuenyane lshuenyane
    22-25, F
    Dec 22, 2009

    Having An Affair With A Married Man

    my story is not anything new, but it is new to me.. i am having an affair with a married man.. i love him more than i can say.. i have never felt it like this before.. i am married and my marriage fell apart.. it was done before i ever went looking for him.. i have read soo many...
    danidoe danidoe
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2012

    Never Say Never

    I always looked down on other females who were cheating with married men. I said I would never do that.  Why would you want someone else's man.  He will never be yours.  Well never say never! I have been married for a little over 4 and a half years.  We...
    Iwnnabfree Iwnnabfree
    Mar 25, 2008

    Why Do I Keep Falling For This?!

    I had a 2 year long affair with a married man several years ago. He was separated when we met but he did go back to his wife while we were dating. I stayed with him. Even going as far as having sex in their bed. I only ended it when I got sick of his drinking. Not because he was...
    Lillyrose1234 Lillyrose1234
    Jan 21, 2011

    How Do I Cut Ties With Him...

    So my story starts out over 11 years ago when I met the man I am having an affair with. I was only 15 and he was 29, but he quickly stole my heart the more time I was around him. He was a friend of my best friend’s boyfriend and we all spent quite a bit of time together. We...
    nurse99 nurse99
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2011


    Hello to you all. This is the first time I am speaking to people about this. I am having an affair with a married man. It started two years ago. It started innocently. We were both in a strange country and we fell in love and we become closer and closer. He was married and had a...
    lelike lelike
    Mar 21, 2012

    A Woman's Intuition Is Never Wrong

    Where to begin.  For the past two years I have been involved with a man who holds my heart, makes me feel at peace, makes me feel alive, and someone who I would marry in a heart beat if he asked me to.  Trouble is I found out this weekend that him and I have...
    hockeygal7 hockeygal7
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2010

    Married Men DO Leave For The Other Woman

    I've been reading a lot of these blogs re affairs with married partners. It's the same over and over and OVER again--how they never leave their wives, how if they do it with you they'll do it TO you, how bad it is for the kids, etc. etc. etc. Come ON people, married people...
    sunshinecheri sunshinecheri
    51-55, F
    1 Response May 18, 2013

    Sometimes I Feel Like I've Been Branded.

    When people find out that I am having an affair with a married man, I am immediately the bad person. I'm a *****, I'm a homewrecker. I am white trash in its most classic form. I am everything that every woman hates. But in reality -- I'm just another woman in love. My life was...
    simplencountry simplencountry
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2012

    Epiphany Or Not?

    I am 26 yo I was dating a guy and found myself being called up by a women who claimed to be his wife of a week and pregnant with his child even though I dated him a half yr prior to that call I deprecated myself from him just to find my heart leading me back it has been almost 6...
    Lateisha87 Lateisha87
    26-30, F
    Sep 20, 2013

    In Love With A Married Man Twice My Age

    I had worked for a man for several years who is twice my age and always knew he messed around on his wife who has two children with him.  For years I was in a committed relationship and had two children, but I was always attracted to my boss secretly and believed it would...
    jusplainconfused jusplainconfused
    May 12, 2010

    My Cowboy

    I met him 7 years ago, and we knew straight away there was something there. We were both married at the time, i have since devorced. We started seeing each other 1 or 2 times a week before we knew it we were seeing each other every day,this went on for 3 years, until i knew we...
    burnett13 burnett13
    Oct 28, 2012

    Having An Affair With My Married Boss

    So, it started out totally innocent and I actually looked up to him as a father figure.  This past March something changed and it turned into love.  We consummated our relationship three weeks later. He has a child and says he cannot do anything to hurt her, but...
    butterfly77373 butterfly77373
    1 Response Jul 21, 2009

    Having An Affair W/a Married Man

    I am a married woman having an affair with a married man.  We met in an online social site and started out as friends.  Then we decided to meet and it became sexual and emotional.  We didn't set out ot have an affair, it just sort of happened.  It's...
    MsTexas73 MsTexas73
    36-40, F
    May 13, 2010
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