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I Am Having An Affair With a Younger Man

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    In A Happy Place

    Been together 10 yrs, married 6, no sex in last 5 yrs due to ED/impotence and he does not want to do anything about it. I started an affair with someone whose about 9 yrs younger than me, he knows its just an affair, we enjoy each other, and I should feel gulity but I dont. We...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 13, 2012

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Letting Go

    I have a rather unusual relationship with a younger man. He is twenty years younger than I am. At 30, it's time for him to be looking for someone to be his life partner. I know that won't be me. We are "friends with benefits". We live quite far apart so we only get to be...
    Sumpin Sumpin 51-55, F 9 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    My Man Is 11 Yrs Younger

    I'm having an affair with a younger man. He's 24 and I'm 35. I'm stuck in a sexless marriage and he fills the void. I fear I will become attached to him but so far things are working out really well. I do feel guilty but my husband refuses to work on our intimacy issues.
    philagirl philagirl 36-40, F 36 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Birthday Surprise

    Sunday, Sept 2. I was sweaty & breathless, pushing through the higher resistance setting on the elliptical at the gym when my i-phone buzzed.  Boy-toy.  Ignoring irritated looks from other patrons, I took the call. "Happy Birthday to you.... Happy Birthday to you...."  I...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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    Caught In The Act

    i was having a drink with a guy i had been seeing on and off at a hotel near heathrow airport when a woman who lived locally to me walked in with a younger guy, her husband and mine were part of a group of golf club bores who had gone to the US for a golf tourney but i didnt know...
    Amanda36UK Amanda36UK 36-40, F 18 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    I have been sleeping with young men behind my

    husbands back for almost 5 years
    sherri610111 sherri610111 46-50, F 9 Responses May 28

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    Is there any older women

    that would like to text this young guy over here 😉. Don't worry your secret is safe with me
    Afroman22 Afroman22 22-25, M Aug 12

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    I Want To Be The Younger Man....

    But I find it hard to find women that are looking for it, because its not something people put out there for the world to know. Anyone have any tips on how to get more intimate with a more mature woman, without sounding like a total tool?
    JayRIVXX0 JayRIVXX0 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site -

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    norahcc11 norahcc11 22-25, F Oct 21

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    Ok So I Am 11 And Well... You Guys Seem Like You Could Help Me.

    I am a guy be im really horny. I wanna be blown or just have a little fun. I dont wanna get in trouble tho.
    LucasDaSniper13 LucasDaSniper13 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 15, 2013

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    Affair With A Younger Man

    I finally went ahead and gave in.  I started having an affair with a guy 6 years younger than I am.  It has been amazing so far.  Can't wait to see where this leads.  The sex is already better than I've ever had.
    asperez asperez 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2010

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    My Favorite Mistake

    A little over a year ago my life change without warning. I've always been the conservative, somewhat judgmental Mother of 3. Before, I would have never admitted to being judge mental. I thought that was how good moms were. Anyway back to the change. Out about town one...
    Summersolstice Summersolstice 46-50, F 16 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Rules For An Affair With A Younger Man

    So... after maintaining icy communication silence for three days and googling "rules for affairs with younger men" -- I realized two things:1.  I still want him around.2.  There don't seem to be any Googlable rules for this rollercoaster ride -- so, because I post here...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 16 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    tessacc11 tessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    How do you think Younger Women Older Men Dating

    & Older Women Younger Women Dating ? If you not mind , Could i recommend a good dating to you . agemeet#com is the best site for Younger Women Older Men Dating & Older Women Younger Women Dating .For 13 years, it have successfully helped people who celebrate age gap dating.No...
    youngerolderdating youngerolderdating 26-30, F Oct 10

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    Crazy Emotions, Expectations...and Complete Exhileration

    I am four months into this affair, what a whirlwind! He's 35 and I'm 47. He's single, I'm married. I am having the time of my life but daily feel like I need to walk away. I will have huge battles with myself, out loud frequently..."What the hell are you doing?", "I am so over...
    inlovewithayoungin inlovewithayoungin 46-50, F 14 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    jmontoya50913 jmontoya50913 18-21, M Sep 22

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    Caught Between Two Men

    I started having affairs after I found out that my boyfriend of 6 years had an affair 2 years ago. We had a big fight and he thought I was going to leave him so he had an affair with her. When I found out about it, I told him to choose me or her. He left her and came back to me...
    sonicbelle sonicbelle 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    Cougar Evermore . . .

     I absolutely was NOT interested in younger men!  No dammit.  I put my foot down! He started working at my office just before Xmas.  Nothing extraordinary.  6'3", an IT tech.  At 14yrs my junior, he barely even registered on my radar.  Just someone I called for help...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 29 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    Having An Affair With An 18 Year Old (i'm 47)

    I'm 47, married with two kids, a stay at home mom. We were having some work done in our back yard and I ended up in bed with one of the workers, who is almost 30 years younger than me. I've never been so sexually satisfied as the 3 hours we spent together. The sex was incredible...
    lookingformore47 lookingformore47 46-50 24 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed

    for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most effective dating website which is committed to cater the needs of those people who would like to meet someone who is significantly older or...
    cindycc14 cindycc14 26-30, F Mar 14

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    He's Always On My Mind

    I'm a 51 year old married mother of 2 - and have been having an affair with a 39 year old newly divorced man since September. He makes me feel sexy and desireable, and has given me the chance to explore things I would never think of with my husband. I still feel as if I'm...
    KarenRia KarenRia 51-55 3 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    8 Years And Still Going Strong......

    Eight years ago I met a guy online and we have been seeing each other for the last 8 years. I'm 48 and he is 29. It started when my husband completely ignored me and my sexual needs I warned him over and over that I was going to cheat if he didn't change. He chose not to...
    NeverRegret2005 NeverRegret2005 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    youngguysaremyweakness youngguysaremyweakness 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Is It Really An Affair?

    My younger guy...lives quite a distance so we dont see each other often. Some weeks he will text me all day long for days, then on other weeks I barely hear from him. He has always said that is because he is very busy at work and I never believed it until he took me to his work...
    Sumpin Sumpin 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    I love to find an older woman 35

    that wants to have affairs with younger a guy
    Beatz21 Beatz21 22-25, M Apr 26

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    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    chriscc19 chriscc19 26-30, F Mar 6

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    Getting Too Hard..

    It's weird I don't think of seeing my younger guy as an "affair" . I valued our friendship first and maybe even more so than everything else which is why I know I need to stop seeing him as 'my love' if we are to keep that intact. But it's been 2 years and we are just getting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    Twenty-Six Years After The Fact

    Looking back I tried to recall when the whole episode of my Father "Stepping" out on my Mother started. Part of this I found out from my brother who still lives back east: I am here in Colorado -- eighteen hundred miles separate us. My brother says I am the smart one. (I haven...
    EdHuntley EdHuntley 61-65, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2013

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    I Confess...i Can't Stop Seeing Him....

    I've been seeing a younger guy for the past 6 months, he's not the first but it has turned into the longest affair I've had, although I say affair loosely as we just meet for sex. I've been married for over 30 years, and was happy until 6 years ago when things started to change...
    redlady1958 redlady1958 51-55, F 10 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    Three Months of Heaven

    for Justin John Kinsella: Is this heaven? Ray Kinsella: It's Iowa. John Kinsella: Iowa? I could have sworn this was heaven. [John starts to walk away] Ray Kinsella: Is there a heaven? John Kinsella: Oh yeah. It's the place where dreams come true. - Field of Dreams On...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Best Age Gap Dating Site( Younger Women Older

    Men Dating and Older Women Younger Men Dating ) ## Age Meet .com -The Largest Dating Site for Older Women Dating Younger Men and Older Men Dating Younger Women - Date A Cougar, Old Man, Younger Woman or Younger Man Society has long become more open to the idea of older man...
    feistcc11 feistcc11 26-30, F Nov 5

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    Whirlwind

    Up until two months ago, I was a content wife and mother of two. I went out with friends one night. I met this guy, we hit it off immediately but more as older woman to young idiot...lol. About a month ago, he called and asked me to breakfast. I figured, no harm..We had lovely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is

    because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's usually because he is...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Well I'm having an affair

    and it's quite difficult to understand why I'm so torn up inside about this guy (we'll call him Abel) I'm 26 and he's 20 which (in its self) is kinda weird. I've been with my husband (we'll call him Justin) for 4 years and we just got married in dec. I've been married before so...
    lostnconfused8769 lostnconfused8769 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I am not that old..ok,

    well I am 35 years old. I feel older though, probably because I married really young. My husband was my first and we've been together since I was 18. Our relationship has been through many ups and downs but it does feel as though we've been together forever and I feel like I am...
    forever26 forever26 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    "never Thought I Would Do It"

    So we met at work about a year ago. I am a married mom of 3 and he is single and 15 years younger than me. When we first met I never saw him in that way, then the flirting began. To me it was like wanting a piece of candy from the candy store that you know you were not supposed...
    hisbeauty hisbeauty 31-35 14 Responses Oct 5, 2010

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    Beyond Complicated

    So there's this guy.... *sigh* Isn't that how it always starts? He's amazing. I've known him a couple of years through a professional situation regarding my young son. He's brilliant--incredibly smart, very classy, gorgeous enough to be on the cover (or centerfold) of magazines...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    A Sleazy Affair Or The Love Of My Life

    I am 54 (going through a divorce) and have fallen hopelessly in love with a married man who is 8 years younger. I have never been with a married man before. He is the most wonderful man I have ever known . . . except that he is married. He is tender, loving, affectionate, fun...
    carunner carunner 51-55, F 10 Responses Nov 23, 2012

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    Chuckle Of The Day

    It's close to time to book "the room" for our first getaway. The hotel we have chosen offers, of course, a "senior rate" which is a bit less than the normal. They define "seniors" as 50+ I've stayed with this chain many times, and was always thrilled with the lower age for...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    I am 34 yo woman, and have been living with my

    fiancé for 9 years. We care about each other, and he is very supportive, of my studies and as a result of my financial situation. I am now on a job hunt. We are from different cultures, but besides some in-law tensions, we love the same things, we have great fun together, and...
    angelp79 angelp79 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Related Experiences

    Always enjoyed me boss's company, but was never sexually attracted to him. Then we had a couple of international trips away together and after lots of alcohol we ended up in bed. I...
    Maxieb Maxieb 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I'm a married man and am interested in a wonderful married woman.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Who would **** their boss? Are you that desperate for ****!!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Help!! I've been having an affair with a married man at work. We've had instances where we almost got caught. He's much older than me. But so gentle. My marriage broke down because...
    cdngirl2 cdngirl2 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    Best Age Gap Dating Site( Younger Women Older Men Dating and Older Women Younger Men Dating ) ## Age Meet .com -The Largest Dating Site for Older Women Dating Younger Men and Older...
    feistcc11 feistcc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I had an affair with a married man that last for two months. I thought they were already separated but realize they haven't but the marriage is on the rock. His wife was a casino...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 1 Response Oct 22

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