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I Am Having An Affair With a Younger Man

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    Three Months of Heaven

    for Justin John Kinsella: Is this heaven? Ray Kinsella: It's Iowa. John Kinsella: Iowa? I could have sworn this was heaven. [John starts to walk away] Ray Kinsella: Is there a heaven? John Kinsella: Oh yeah. It's the place where dreams come true. - Field of Dreams On...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Dec 9, 2013

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    I know I've written about this subject

    previously, but I have been feeling compelled to write about a very special man I met last year. This man responded to my ad on the married dating site. I felt as if he was a little too upbeat for me (I am bipolar, but 80% of the time I'm depressed), a little too daring (he had...
    LadyJane9 LadyJane9 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    In A Happy Place

    Been together 10 yrs, married 6, no sex in last 5 yrs due to ED/impotence and he does not want to do anything about it. I started an affair with someone whose about 9 yrs younger than me, he knows its just an affair, we enjoy each other, and I should feel gulity but I dont. We...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 13, 2012

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2014

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    "never Thought I Would Do It"

    So we met at work about a year ago. I am a married mom of 3 and he is single and 15 years younger than me. When we first met I never saw him in that way, then the flirting began. To me it was like wanting a piece of candy from the candy store that you know you were not supposed...
    hisbeauty hisbeauty 31-35 14 Responses Oct 5, 2010

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    My Favorite Mistake

    A little over a year ago my life change without warning. I've always been the conservative, somewhat judgmental Mother of 3. Before, I would have never admitted to being judge mental. I thought that was how good moms were. Anyway back to the change. Out about town one...
    Summersolstice Summersolstice 46-50, F 16 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    A Sleazy Affair Or The Love Of My Life

    I am 54 (going through a divorce) and have fallen hopelessly in love with a married man who is 8 years younger. I have never been with a married man before. He is the most wonderful man I have ever known . . . except that he is married. He is tender, loving, affectionate, fun...
    carunner carunner 51-55, F 10 Responses Nov 23, 2012

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    Is It Really An Affair?

    My younger guy...lives quite a distance so we dont see each other often. Some weeks he will text me all day long for days, then on other weeks I barely hear from him. He has always said that is because he is very busy at work and I never believed it until he took me to his work...
    Sumpin Sumpin 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Beyond Complicated

    So there's this guy.... *sigh* Isn't that how it always starts? He's amazing. I've known him a couple of years through a professional situation regarding my young son. He's brilliant--incredibly smart, very classy, gorgeous enough to be on the cover (or centerfold) of magazines...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    I have been sleeping with young men behind my

    husbands back for almost 5 years
    sherri610111 sherri610111 46-50, F 18 Responses May 28, 2014

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    youngguysaremyweakness youngguysaremyweakness 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    I love to find an older woman 35

    that wants to have affairs with younger a guy
    Beatz21 Beatz21 22-25, M Apr 26, 2014

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    Birthday Surprise

    Sunday, Sept 2. I was sweaty & breathless, pushing through the higher resistance setting on the elliptical at the gym when my i-phone buzzed.  Boy-toy.  Ignoring irritated looks from other patrons, I took the call. "Happy Birthday to you.... Happy Birthday to you...."  I...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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    Best Age Gap Dating Site( Younger Women Older

    Men Dating and Older Women Younger Men Dating ) ## Age Meet .com -The Largest Dating Site for Older Women Dating Younger Men and Older Men Dating Younger Women - Date A Cougar, Old Man, Younger Woman or Younger Man Society has long become more open to the idea of older man...
    feistcc11 feistcc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2014

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    He's Always On My Mind

    I'm a 51 year old married mother of 2 - and have been having an affair with a 39 year old newly divorced man since September. He makes me feel sexy and desireable, and has given me the chance to explore things I would never think of with my husband. I still feel as if I'm...
    KarenRia KarenRia 51-55 3 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    Ill Take The Young Man

    in my experiences I realize old men come with a lot of baggage you can't teach an old dog new tricks at least they don't want to learn they're mean and hateful and hate woman I'll take a young fool over an old 1 any day at least they are trainable and eager to please after I get...
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2013

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is

    because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's usually because he is...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21, 2014

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    Ok so first off not in love with him.

    This was the closest group I could find for the subject. I met him a while back gaming. After a while I asked him to exchange pics because I wanted to see who I was playing with. I thought he was gorgeous and hot from the very start . He was not what I expected at all and that...
    LadyValeska LadyValeska 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 14

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    ragingoutlaw ragingoutlaw 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    Crazy Emotions, Expectations...and Complete Exhileration

    I am four months into this affair, what a whirlwind! He's 35 and I'm 47. He's single, I'm married. I am having the time of my life but daily feel like I need to walk away. I will have huge battles with myself, out loud frequently..."What the hell are you doing?", "I am so over...
    inlovewithayoungin inlovewithayoungin 46-50, F 14 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    jmontoya50913 jmontoya50913 18-21, M Sep 22, 2014

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    Affair With A Younger Man

    I finally went ahead and gave in.  I started having an affair with a guy 6 years younger than I am.  It has been amazing so far.  Can't wait to see where this leads.  The sex is already better than I've ever had.
    asperez asperez 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2010

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    Ok so this is in a second part to the 1st story

    I posted up. I have spoken to him since but he doesn't seem interested. We play a lot of destiny together and well he doesn't play anymore and last night he went on to help out his folks..yup..they are gamers too lol and he will go on and help them but not come on and play with...
    LadyValeska LadyValeska 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    Smart Relationships : My approach to build one .

    Atlast I permitted my boyfriend to enter in my life :) He will live with me in my house along with my family . Love these moments .I am so excited ! This happened last week . He is a nice chap who more than a decade younger than me . He joins me with lots of flair , loads of...
    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm in my mind thirties

    and I've been sleeping with a guy just turned twenty. He's fun to be with but it's nothing more than sex. In three months of seeing each other we've spent one night together, just physical and I'm not after anything more. He has a girlfriend (19!) Which is a ego boost for me. He...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 5

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    tessacc11 tessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2014

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    I had my first older woman

    when I was in HS...sadly the EP cops won't let me post the story so it's in the comments
    MidwestBull4 MidwestBull4 41-45, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Is there any older women

    that would like to text this young guy over here 😉. Don't worry your secret is safe with me
    Afroman22 Afroman22 22-25, M Aug 12, 2014

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    Whirlwind

    Up until two months ago, I was a content wife and mother of two. I went out with friends one night. I met this guy, we hit it off immediately but more as older woman to young idiot...lol. About a month ago, he called and asked me to breakfast. I figured, no harm..We had lovely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Having An Affair With An 18 Year Old (i'm 47)

    I'm 47, married with two kids, a stay at home mom. We were having some work done in our back yard and I ended up in bed with one of the workers, who is almost 30 years younger than me. I've never been so sexually satisfied as the 3 hours we spent together. The sex was incredible...
    lookingformore47 lookingformore47 46-50 25 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    In general, it is hard to understand men.

    Having an emotional and physical affair with a 6 years younger man than me even make me think harder. When I first know him, I refused to add him in FB fearing that should one day our relation doesnt go well we dont need to shut each other abrubtly.. However, he blocks me from...
    envymyself envymyself 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 18

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    Well I'm having an affair

    and it's quite difficult to understand why I'm so torn up inside about this guy (we'll call him Abel) I'm 26 and he's 20 which (in its self) is kinda weird. I've been with my husband (we'll call him Justin) for 4 years and we just got married in dec. I've been married before so...
    lostnconfused8769 lostnconfused8769 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    My Lover Is 19

    i am having an affair with a 19-year old I met at University. I am 28, the mother of 2 boys, 9 and 7, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is a great person, we get along, he is great with my boys and yes I do love him, but I can't leave my lover...
    dora85 dora85 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I Confess...i Can't Stop Seeing Him....

    I've been seeing a younger guy for the past 6 months, he's not the first but it has turned into the longest affair I've had, although I say affair loosely as we just meet for sex. I've been married for over 30 years, and was happy until 6 years ago when things started to change...
    redlady1958 redlady1958 51-55, F 10 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    8 Years And Still Going Strong......

    Eight years ago I met a guy online and we have been seeing each other for the last 8 years. I'm 48 and he is 29. It started when my husband completely ignored me and my sexual needs I warned him over and over that I was going to cheat if he didn't change. He chose not to...
    NeverRegret2005 NeverRegret2005 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Letting Go

    I have a rather unusual relationship with a younger man. He is twenty years younger than I am. At 30, it's time for him to be looking for someone to be his life partner. I know that won't be me. We are "friends with benefits". We live quite far apart so we only get to be...
    Sumpin Sumpin 51-55, F 9 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    Hi . I'm a 50 year old women

    who is having a affair with a 22 year old man ..the problem is that I have fallen in love with him..I have been married for 31 years . Me husband is a great provider , but I never was in love with him. All day long all I do is smile when I think about my lover he is loving...
    PRMAMI50 PRMAMI50 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 22

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed

    for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most effective dating website which is committed to cater the needs of those people who would like to meet someone who is significantly older or...
    cindycc14 cindycc14 26-30, F Mar 14, 2014

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    The premier older women younger men dating

    site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the #1 Age Gap Dating Site for younger women seeking older men. It is Free to post & browse 550,000+ active members. We have been in the online dating business for over 11 years and has achieved tremendous success bringing younger women and...
    chriscc19 chriscc19 26-30, F Mar 6, 2014

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    I am not that old..ok,

    well I am 35 years old. I feel older though, probably because I married really young. My husband was my first and we've been together since I was 18. Our relationship has been through many ups and downs but it does feel as though we've been together forever and I feel like I am...
    forever26 forever26 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    Rules For An Affair With A Younger Man

    So... after maintaining icy communication silence for three days and googling "rules for affairs with younger men" -- I realized two things:1.  I still want him around.2.  There don't seem to be any Googlable rules for this rollercoaster ride -- so, because I post here...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 18 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    I am 34 yo woman, and have been living with my

    fiancé for 9 years. We care about each other, and he is very supportive, of my studies and as a result of my financial situation. I am now on a job hunt. We are from different cultures, but besides some in-law tensions, we love the same things, we have great fun together, and...
    angelp79 angelp79 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2014

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    Getting Too Hard..

    It's weird I don't think of seeing my younger guy as an "affair" . I valued our friendship first and maybe even more so than everything else which is why I know I need to stop seeing him as 'my love' if we are to keep that intact. But it's been 2 years and we are just getting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    Caught In The Act

    i was having a drink with a guy i had been seeing on and off at a hotel near heathrow airport when a woman who lived locally to me walked in with a younger guy, her husband and mine were part of a group of golf club bores who had gone to the US for a golf tourney but i didnt know...
    Amanda36UK Amanda36UK 36-40, F 36 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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