I Am Having An Affair With a Younger Man

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    Well I'm having an affair

    and it's quite difficult to understand why I'm so torn up inside about this guy (we'll call him Abel) I'm 26 and he's 20 which (in its self) is kinda weird. I've been with my husband (we'll call him Justin) for 4 years and we just got married in dec. I've been married before so...
    lostnconfused8769 lostnconfused8769
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 1, 2014

    I know I've written about this subject

    previously, but I have been feeling compelled to write about a very special man I met last year. This man responded to my ad on the married dating site. I felt as if he was a little too upbeat for me (I am bipolar, but 80% of the time I'm depressed), a little too daring (he had...
    LadyJane9 LadyJane9
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    Is there any older women

    that would like to text this young guy over here ūüėČ. Don't worry your secret is safe with me
    Afroman22 Afroman22
    26-30, M
    Aug 12, 2014

    Ok So I Am 11 And Well... You Guys Seem Like You Could Help Me.

    I am a guy be im really horny. I wanna be blown or just have a little fun. I dont wanna get in trouble tho.
    LucasDaSniper13 LucasDaSniper13
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 15, 2013

    Rules For An Affair With A Younger Man

    So... after maintaining icy communication silence for three days and googling "rules for affairs with younger men" -- I realized two things:1.  I still want him around.2.  There don't seem to be any Googlable rules for this rollercoaster ride -- so, because I post here...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant
    46-50, F
    14 Responses Jul 4, 2012

    i had 1 just abt a month ago he told me he waa

    17 so i was dating him until some1 told he was 13
    Angela1211 Angela1211
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    I have always felt attracted to older woman

    but its so hard to meet one.
    Accg23 Accg23
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    I'm in my mind thirties

    and I've been sleeping with a guy just turned twenty. He's fun to be with but it's nothing more than sex. In three months of seeing each other we've spent one night together, just physical and I'm not after anything more. He has a girlfriend (19!) Which is a ego boost for me. He...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 5, 2015

    youngguysaremyweakness youngguysaremyweakness
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2014

    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014
    jmontoya50913 jmontoya50913
    22-25, M
    Sep 22, 2014

    I am not that old..ok,

    well I am 35 years old. I feel older though, probably because I married really young. My husband was my first and we've been together since I was 18. Our relationship has been through many ups and downs but it does feel as though we've been together forever and I feel like I am...
    forever26 forever26
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    Three Months of Heaven

    for Justin John Kinsella: Is this heaven? Ray Kinsella: It's Iowa. John Kinsella: Iowa? I could have sworn this was heaven. [John starts to walk away] Ray Kinsella: Is there a heaven? John Kinsella: Oh yeah. It's the place where dreams come true. - Field of Dreams On...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    Dec 9, 2013

    I Confess...i Can't Stop Seeing Him....

    I've been seeing a younger guy for the past 6 months, he's not the first but it has turned into the longest affair I've had, although I say affair loosely as we just meet for sex. I've been married for over 30 years, and was happy until 6 years ago when things started to change...
    redlady1958 redlady1958
    51-55, F
    10 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    Affair With A Younger Man

    I finally went ahead and gave in.  I started having an affair with a guy 6 years younger than I am.  It has been amazing so far.  Can't wait to see where this leads.  The sex is already better than I've ever had.
    asperez asperez
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2010

    Getting Too Hard..

    It's weird I don't think of seeing my younger guy as an "affair" . I valued our friendship first and maybe even more so than everything else which is why I know I need to stop seeing him as 'my love' if we are to keep that intact. But it's been 2 years and we are just getting...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

    I have gotten out of shape.

    ... I want to get in shape and I KNOW a hot older woman... convincing me to get in shape to the end result being me and her... together for a wild night... that would definitely work.
    JPasco2013 JPasco2013
    26-30, M
    Sep 15, 2015

    Letting Go

    I have a rather unusual relationship with a younger man. He is twenty years younger than I am. At 30, it's time for him to be looking for someone to be his life partner. I know that won't be me. We are "friends with benefits". We live quite far apart so we only get to be...
    Sumpin Sumpin
    56-60, F
    9 Responses Sep 26, 2013

    My Favorite Mistake

    A little over a year ago my life change without warning. I've always been the conservative, somewhat judgmental Mother of 3. Before, I would have never admitted to being judge mental. I thought that was how good moms were. Anyway back to the change. Out about town one...
    Summersolstice Summersolstice
    46-50, F
    16 Responses Sep 8, 2012

    I am 34 yo woman, and have been living with my

    fiancé for 9 years. We care about each other, and he is very supportive, of my studies and as a result of my financial situation. I am now on a job hunt. We are from different cultures, but besides some in-law tensions, we love the same things, we have great fun together, and...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 3, 2014

    In general, it is hard to understand men.

    Having an emotional and physical affair with a 6 years younger man than me even make me think harder. When I first know him, I refused to add him in FB fearing that should one day our relation doesnt go well we dont need to shut each other abrubtly.. However, he blocks me from...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 18, 2015


    Up until two months ago, I was a content wife and mother of two. I went out with friends one night. I met this guy, we hit it off immediately but more as older woman to young idiot...lol. About a month ago, he called and asked me to breakfast. I figured, no harm..We had lovely...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

    Beyond Complicated

    So there's this guy.... *sigh* Isn't that how it always starts? He's amazing. I've known him a couple of years through a professional situation regarding my young son. He's brilliant--incredibly smart, very classy, gorgeous enough to be on the cover (or centerfold) of magazines...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Jun 29, 2013

    I am 59 yrs old having an affair with a man

    who is 14yrs younger. I have been with the same man since I was 18. I met the man I am having an affair with on a plane. We don't see each other often, but when we do, it's so much fun. I miss him when he's not here, and I look forward to the time we have. He is recently...
    Salve7856 Salve7856
    61-65, F
    3 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2014

    My Man Is 11 Yrs Younger

    I'm having an affair with a younger man. He's 24 and I'm 35. I'm stuck in a sexless marriage and he fills the void. I fear I will become attached to him but so far things are working out really well. I do feel guilty but my husband refuses to work on our intimacy issues.
    philagirl philagirl
    36-40, F
    25 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    Smart Relationships : My approach to build one .

    Atlast I permitted my boyfriend to enter in my life :) He will live with me in my house along with my family . Love these moments .I am so excited ! This happened last week . He is a nice chap who more than a decade younger than me . He joins me with lots of flair , loads of...
    rsushama73 rsushama73
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    Hi . I'm a 50 year old women

    who is having a affair with a 22 year old man ..the problem is that I have fallen in love with him..I have been married for 31 years . Me husband is a great provider , but I never was in love with him. All day long all I do is smile when I think about my lover he is loving...
    51-55, F
    8 Responses Apr 22, 2015

    8 Years And Still Going Strong......

    Eight years ago I met a guy online and we have been seeing each other for the last 8 years. I'm 48 and he is 29. It started when my husband completely ignored me and my sexual needs I warned him over and over that I was going to cheat if he didn't change. He chose not to...
    NeverRegret2005 NeverRegret2005
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

    My Lover Is 19

    i am having an affair with a 19-year old I met at University. I am 28, the mother of 2 boys, 9 and 7, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is a great person, we get along, he is great with my boys and yes I do love him, but I can't leave my lover...
    dora85 dora85
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

    Caught In The Act

    i was having a drink with a guy i had been seeing on and off at a hotel near heathrow airport when a woman who lived locally to me walked in with a younger guy, her husband and mine were part of a group of golf club bores who had gone to the US for a golf tourney but i didnt know...
    Amanda36UK Amanda36UK
    41-45, F
    36 Responses Sep 2, 2013

    "never Thought I Would Do It"

    So we met at work about a year ago. I am a married mom of 3 and he is single and 15 years younger than me. When we first met I never saw him in that way, then the flirting began. To me it was like wanting a piece of candy from the candy store that you know you were not supposed...
    hisbeauty hisbeauty
    14 Responses Oct 5, 2010

    Crazy Emotions, Expectations...and Complete Exhileration

    I am four months into this affair, what a whirlwind! He's 35 and I'm 47. He's single, I'm married. I am having the time of my life but daily feel like I need to walk away. I will have huge battles with myself, out loud frequently..."What the hell are you doing?", "I am so over...
    inlovewithayoungin inlovewithayoungin
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Oct 30, 2012

    I love to find an older woman 35

    that wants to have affairs with younger a guy
    Beatz21 Beatz21
    26-30, M
    Apr 26, 2014

    I remember the passion,

    I member the lust. I remember Exploring very inch of her body when her husband could care less about her. I remember her being invisible to him and me wondering how he could ignore such a beautiful sexual tigress... And now almost at 30 .. I find myself looking again ...I have...
    Russian29 Russian29
    31-35, M
    Feb 2, 2016

    Ill Take The Young Man

    in my experiences I realize old men come with a lot of baggage you can't teach an old dog new tricks at least they don't want to learn they're mean and hateful and hate woman I'll take a young fool over an old 1 any day at least they are trainable and eager to please after I get...
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2013

    Having An Affair With An 18 Year Old (i'm 47)

    I'm 47, married with two kids, a stay at home mom. We were having some work done in our back yard and I ended up in bed with one of the workers, who is almost 30 years younger than me. I've never been so sexually satisfied as the 3 hours we spent together. The sex was incredible...
    lookingformore47 lookingformore47
    23 Responses Nov 4, 2012

    I have been sleeping with young men behind my

    husbands back for almost 5 years
    deleted deleted
    16 Responses May 28, 2014

    Birthday Surprise

    Sunday, Sept 2. I was sweaty & breathless, pushing through the higher resistance setting on the elliptical at the gym when my i-phone buzzed.  Boy-toy.  Ignoring irritated looks from other patrons, I took the call. "Happy Birthday to you.... Happy Birthday to you...."  I...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2012
    ragingoutlaw ragingoutlaw
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    Is It Really An Affair?

    My younger guy...lives quite a distance so we dont see each other often. Some weeks he will text me all day long for days, then on other weeks I barely hear from him. He has always said that is because he is very busy at work and I never believed it until he took me to his work...
    Sumpin Sumpin
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2013

    A Sleazy Affair Or The Love Of My Life

    I am 54 (going through a divorce) and have fallen hopelessly in love with a married man who is 8 years younger. I have never been with a married man before. He is the most wonderful man I have ever known . . . except that he is married. He is tender, loving, affectionate, fun...
    carunner carunner
    51-55, F
    10 Responses Nov 23, 2012

    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    A year ago I started a new affair with a

    younger guy. I met him through my friend from University, who lives with him. My friend he doesn't know, his roommate and I have been sleeping together. As far as he knows we are just friends and we just like spending time together. It is easy to convince him of this, as my...
    dora85 dora85
    31-35, F
    Oct 5, 2015
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