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I Am Having An Affair With My Brother In Law

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    Well he is not really my brother-in-law. Me and his brother never married we just have a 33 year old son.
    coldface coldface 51-55, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    Affair With Brother-in-law?

    So here's the back story- I've been in a dry spell with my husband on and off for the past year or so. He's always so tired and I have to actually beg him to have sex with me. I buy new exciting toys to try and get him excited, but nothing works. It's starting to make me feel...
    grey122 grey122 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2013

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    Naughty

    i just got home from work made a qucik stop at my brother in laws house. my sister was at work and now i lay down next to my clueless huband with my ***** filled with my brother in laws ***. i love the naughtiness of this affair
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 14 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    It Is What It Is

    I know that some people will see what I have allowed to happen as atrocious. Perhaps it really is. That said I have learned a valuable lesson along this journey. You cant judge another person unless you have walked a mile in their shoes. My life is my own life, the experiences...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2012

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    Crazy In Love

    I am having an affair with my brother in law, my husbands sisters husband and I've fallen in love with him and he to me as well. We see each other often, and find it to be okay in the same company but it is a little awkward at times. I truly am in love with him but also thinks...
    Nloveandhappy Nloveandhappy 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    "i Am With My Brother In Law And I Love Him"

    Hi, I last saw my brother in law when when my husband and I visited Samoa in 2000 and my brother in law was 12years old and a skinny little thing he was.  My brother in law got an opportunity to come to NZ in the quota and my husband and I were the one's to bring him over...
    deeva2009 deeva2009 26-30, F 11 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    Had Affair With Brother In Law And Still Have Feelings - Very Confused.

    I have been with my husband for over 20 years. We were high school sweethearts. I have also been very close with his brother for just as long. In fact when we were in high school we almost kissed at a party. I have always felt there was a mutual attraction, but I was also madly...
    akamandy akamandy 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    Today

    Today was incredible.  He came by the house this morning.  He brought me an early christmas present.  I pair of lace panties and bra.  Black and pink, I feel so sexy wearing them.  After opening them changed into them. We went out for breakfast, two...
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    He Is a Wonderful Man

    We have known each other for about 20 years.  At first we did not get along at all.  Over time and maturity we became good friends.  We have discovered that we are alot alike in many ways.   As our friendship developed there came the natural flirting...
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 2 Responses May 22, 2009

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    Is It So Strange To Love His Brother?

    I have been married for 7 yrs. I am 25 yrs young and have been having an affair for the past 3 years with my husbands older brother. I started dating my husband when I was 16 and got married at age 18 I was not pregnant ...I'm just southern and around this small town there...
    evesforbiddenfruit evesforbiddenfruit 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    Im In Love With My Brother In Law

    For the last 4 months I have been having an affair with my brother in law. It started off as just a friendship between two lonely people in unhappy marriages. It took about a month to become an emotional affair, my husband has never been supportive in this regard. It slowly...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F Nov 7, 2011

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    And The Mess Continues.........

    I have just realized that my posts are all in different areas. Opps. My life is still the same mess it was before. I am living with my husband and am afraid to break free and stand alone. It really is a fear, I dont think I have ever been entirely alone and I find it hinders me...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F Jan 19, 2012

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    Still Love My Brother In Law

    After 3 weeks of pure hell I am still lost in what to do. For the last week we have been talking again with set rules about things so as to be "friends". I have complied to this pretty well and we have talked about things and what went wrong. The biggest part being that we really...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F Nov 28, 2011

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    He is coming over today I cannot wait to see

    and feel him. We will share a few hours if bliss that I will cherish
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Idiots

    So things remain the same in my life. Confusion in every thought I have. Unable to walk away from my marriage, unable to stop wanting a life with his brother. I'm clearly an idiot. He is an idiot too though because he is still here in this mess with me. The time we can see each...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2012

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    What Do I Do?

    My husband chose to go do training out of state for his job for 6 months. Even before that time, and during his time away we had marrital issues. He had only been home a short while after being gone for over a year. So, him choosing to leave home (me) again was devastating...
    hellpmee hellpmee 26-30 5 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I Was Visiting My Sister When

    I was visiting my sister one weekend. My sister works nites and I was home alone with my brother in law. I went to the bed room and put on my lace nity. While watching TV, my brother in law was on the computer when he came accross my pics of me ******* guys and found out I was a...
    sluttyteresa76 sluttyteresa76 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I Gave It All Up For Him

    I was with my husband for 12 years, married for 5. His brother lived on and off with us for years. We always had this attraction neither one of us would admit. My husband would notice it and make comments to me. My husband and have had alot of issues in our marriage, there was a...
    rl1982 rl1982 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    Started Something That I Thought Would Be Fun But For Me Is Turning More Serious.

    I started an affair with my Husband's younger Brother. (W my Husband permission) It was supposed to be just for fun and sex but nobody has ever made me feel this way in a long, long time. Sexually it's 5 out of 5. Ever since it began, it's been very close, very touchy, very...
    Unknowngirl420 Unknowngirl420 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    Can't Go On With Or With Out Him

    Hi I got married 20 years ago to a man II never wanted it was aranged 1 year after we got married he had to go to the army for 1 year. He ended up serving 5. And I could not leave the country. It's in Italy it's not allowed at that time for army wives to leave . Was...
    Pluto7777 Pluto7777 36-40 5 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    I had an affair with a married man.. At first I didn't know that until he told me after we started to get serious! I'm a 18 yr old guy who is gay. He is very DL which his wife didn...
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    Married and had an affair with a married man at work. We've been trying to keep the friend thing going, talking occasionally, but when I think I'm over it those feeling come...
    artist7 artist7 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    In 2000 I had sex with my first black woman 3-4 times. I was 20. She was 30. She reconciled with her husband of 7 years and I returned to Russia. I did not know she gave birth to a...
    SmolenskBorn SmolenskBorn 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I think it might be time to end things. He isn't available for me (obviously) and I think maybe the thrill is fading. Our weekly trysts are almost like a chore. If I don't feel...
    Specificity Specificity 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I was 15 she was 35 my speech teacher. She was very will pretty and always rubbed against me in class. I was a naive kid who did not know what was happening. She told me in class...
    edstarr edstarr 56-60, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was borrowing my friends camping equipment and I stopped by. My friend was gone with his mom for a week at a soccer tournament. We slept together the first night and I freaked...
    Barefootjamie Barefootjamie 18-21 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I love him and he loves me. It was supposed to be a fling. I would never be involved with a married man... I was turned off when I first met him then he became my boss and I had to...
    EssAyyRrr EssAyyRrr 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I met this guy at a Fashion show, we never really spoke much but exchanged business cards. he later added me on skype and we'd converse daily ever since. When we had our first date...
    mwichkins mwichkins 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    First off, let me say that I'm not looking to be with a married man or someone who has a girlfriend...not my thing. I'm seeking a single guy to be a Friend with Benefits. Why...
    air2fire air2fire 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I really want to find a guy who would be wiling to come out at 4 am when I'm on break for work. I would love to have someone to fool around with at work...it's so much fun.
    LadyCNote LadyCNote 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    She arrived the other day I couldn't be there when she stepped off the train A few days later we finally met Knowing that the sun on our relationship would eventually set She...
    melbourneonly melbourneonly 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    i went to italy not expecting anything but study. i thought learning from the source directly was essential to achieve what i wanted. met new friends, seen wonderful places, ate...
    remydodol remydodol 36-40, F Jul 21

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    At first I didn't know what to think. Then I decided that I was giving this man something his wife could not give him. Sexual satisfaction. I knew the mans wife because I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Heres the thing... The girl i thought i loved... still do kinda... she wouldn't break up with her boyfriend... it just tore me to pieces everytime she said 'i love you' or 'your...
    wombatron wombatron 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I've been dealing with it for over a month. I post here frequently about her, and I should probably stop, but I feel crappy almost every day and this is some sort of escape for me...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm not yet but I'm considering it. I am 37 and he's 18. We are both single. My best friend said he's too young. He is closer to my kids age than mine. I don't know what to do! We...
    crzy69 crzy69 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm obviously messing up their marriage. He is obviously messing up mine .. So to me it seems clear we need to throw some water on this fire but neither of us seem motivated to do...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He was my everything, my perfect connection, he said the same about me, and yet now he is able to put me on limited contact and I feel lost and alone and confused. How can people...
    Kaspeers Kaspeers 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    I would love for this to happen oddly enough. If anyone has encouraged their partner to do this and it happened, how did you do this. Please feel free to message me your ideas
    Jamie444 Jamie444 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    A new guy stared at my job and immediately started pursuing me. I thought he was awesome, but I knew he was married so I didn't give in... Until he fed me a bunch of garbage about...
    fucknshit fucknshit 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    YES .. I still think 'bout u YES .. Too hard to forget 'bout u AND YES .. I think I still love U ,, BUT NO , I don't want U back
    ElenaMegan ElenaMegan 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    See Dreamgirl75,,,you had the affair,,with your co-worker,,now you ask a question ,,Can to married people (MM and MW) Who having affair with one another 1, Stop the sex ,, yes you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    My MM once again said he loves me, and this time around he added that he is not having sex with his wife, in fact I'm the only woman he is intimate with.. And he used the words, he...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 9 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So yea I'm having an affair with my sister in laws husband... We've been seeing each other on and off over the past 7 months. My marriage to his wife's brother has been in the...
    bowerstoy bowerstoy 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    Happily ever after is only in the fairy tales ladies. I was a "success" story. I thought that I got my HEA when I married my mm. That is what we all think. We think how perfect...
    blumomma blumomma 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 17

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