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I Am Having An Affair With My Brother In Law

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    It Is What It Is

    I know that some people will see what I have allowed to happen as atrocious. Perhaps it really is. That said I have learned a valuable lesson along this journey. You cant judge another person unless you have walked a mile in their shoes. My life is my own life, the experiences...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2012

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    Naughty

    i just got home from work made a qucik stop at my brother in laws house. my sister was at work and now i lay down next to my clueless huband with my ***** filled with my brother in laws ***. i love the naughtiness of this affair
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 14 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    I Gave It All Up For Him

    I was with my husband for 12 years, married for 5. His brother lived on and off with us for years. We always had this attraction neither one of us would admit. My husband would notice it and make comments to me. My husband and have had alot of issues in our marriage, there was a...
    rl1982 rl1982 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    Still Love My Brother In Law

    After 3 weeks of pure hell I am still lost in what to do. For the last week we have been talking again with set rules about things so as to be "friends". I have complied to this pretty well and we have talked about things and what went wrong. The biggest part being that we really...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F Nov 28, 2011

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    Can't Go On With Or With Out Him

    Hi I got married 20 years ago to a man II never wanted it was aranged 1 year after we got married he had to go to the army for 1 year. He ended up serving 5. And I could not leave the country. It's in Italy it's not allowed at that time for army wives to leave . Was...
    Pluto7777 Pluto7777 36-40 5 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    He Is a Wonderful Man

    We have known each other for about 20 years.  At first we did not get along at all.  Over time and maturity we became good friends.  We have discovered that we are alot alike in many ways.   As our friendship developed there came the natural flirting...
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 2 Responses May 22, 2009

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    I Was Visiting My Sister When

    I was visiting my sister one weekend. My sister works nites and I was home alone with my brother in law. I went to the bed room and put on my lace nity. While watching TV, my brother in law was on the computer when he came accross my pics of me ******* guys and found out I was a...
    sluttyteresa76 sluttyteresa76 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    Started Something That I Thought Would Be Fun But For Me Is Turning More Serious.

    I started an affair with my Husband's younger Brother. (W my Husband permission) It was supposed to be just for fun and sex but nobody has ever made me feel this way in a long, long time. Sexually it's 5 out of 5. Ever since it began, it's been very close, very touchy, very...
    Unknowngirl420 Unknowngirl420 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    In Love

    Well he is not really my brother-in-law. Me and his brother never married we just have a 33 year old son.
    coldface coldface 51-55, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    Crazy In Love

    I am having an affair with my brother in law, my husbands sisters husband and I've fallen in love with him and he to me as well. We see each other often, and find it to be okay in the same company but it is a little awkward at times. I truly am in love with him but also thinks...
    Nloveandhappy Nloveandhappy 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Is It So Strange To Love His Brother?

    I have been married for 7 yrs. I am 25 yrs young and have been having an affair for the past 3 years with my husbands older brother. I started dating my husband when I was 16 and got married at age 18 I was not pregnant ...I'm just southern and around this small town there...
    evesforbiddenfruit evesforbiddenfruit 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    Affair With Brother-in-law?

    So here's the back story- I've been in a dry spell with my husband on and off for the past year or so. He's always so tired and I have to actually beg him to have sex with me. I buy new exciting toys to try and get him excited, but nothing works. It's starting to make me feel...
    grey122 grey122 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2013

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    Today

    Today was incredible.  He came by the house this morning.  He brought me an early christmas present.  I pair of lace panties and bra.  Black and pink, I feel so sexy wearing them.  After opening them changed into them. We went out for breakfast, two...
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    And The Mess Continues.........

    I have just realized that my posts are all in different areas. Opps. My life is still the same mess it was before. I am living with my husband and am afraid to break free and stand alone. It really is a fear, I dont think I have ever been entirely alone and I find it hinders me...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F Jan 19, 2012

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    Idiots

    So things remain the same in my life. Confusion in every thought I have. Unable to walk away from my marriage, unable to stop wanting a life with his brother. I'm clearly an idiot. He is an idiot too though because he is still here in this mess with me. The time we can see each...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2012

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    Had Affair With Brother In Law And Still Have Feelings - Very Confused.

    I have been with my husband for over 20 years. We were high school sweethearts. I have also been very close with his brother for just as long. In fact when we were in high school we almost kissed at a party. I have always felt there was a mutual attraction, but I was also madly...
    akamandy akamandy 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    He is coming over today I cannot wait to see

    and feel him. We will share a few hours if bliss that I will cherish
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Im In Love With My Brother In Law

    For the last 4 months I have been having an affair with my brother in law. It started off as just a friendship between two lonely people in unhappy marriages. It took about a month to become an emotional affair, my husband has never been supportive in this regard. It slowly...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U 41-45, F Nov 7, 2011

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    "i Am With My Brother In Law And I Love Him"

    Hi, I last saw my brother in law when when my husband and I visited Samoa in 2000 and my brother in law was 12years old and a skinny little thing he was.  My brother in law got an opportunity to come to NZ in the quota and my husband and I were the one's to bring him over...
    deeva2009 deeva2009 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    What Do I Do?

    My husband chose to go do training out of state for his job for 6 months. Even before that time, and during his time away we had marrital issues. He had only been home a short while after being gone for over a year. So, him choosing to leave home (me) again was devastating...
    hellpmee hellpmee 26-30 5 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Okay, I'll begin by acknowledging that I won't likely find a woman to have an affair with here. But I want to have an affair with a woman. I have been married 17 years and have...
    Mcluvinassman Mcluvinassman 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I had an affair with a son of a ***** Francesco Clementucci, I really felt in love with him, despite the terrible intimate part with him and knowing that he is almost married, I...
    anna1953 anna1953 56-60, F Apr 10

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    I probably shouldn't be admitting this, but I need to express it. So mostly everyone that knows me on here knows that I cheated on my fiancé and I've been pretty torn up about...
    rajasaeed rajasaeed 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    You people make me sick think of the loved ones you'd be hurting by having an affair I remember when marriage was a bond between two people for life for better or worse now it's...
    ash18bmth ash18bmth 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    "Enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming better or being happier. Enlightenment is the crumbling away of untruth. Its seeing through the...
    PhosphorescentBlack PhosphorescentBlack 36-40, F Mar 25

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    It happened so fast. I was cool with it considering that he already has a family. I just wanted to experience it. We didn't actually do it. He touched me, i blew him in his car...
    Polalou Polalou 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    am 18yrs old both my parents deceased have a older sister 40ish,i have 2babies 1and3,my sis takes care of my babies I support them being a exotic dancer my brother inlaw joe was...
    ralphbruno ralphbruno 56-60, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have never forgot my first love, we were not in a relationship but we were together one and one night, and this was 1993. This was going on in about 4 years. But then he...
    klve klve 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    Idk what it is about the thought of pleasing a man that isn't getting what he needs from his wife! I will be the that satisfies him That gets me so excited and horny! I've never...
    expressingmyself expressingmyself 36-40, F 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am 28 years old, married for 1.5 years. My boss was at my wedding where I said YES to love of my life in front of 300 people. Then I got an offer to move my home country to...
    bilmem bilmem 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I am married to a great guy. He isn't perfect but who is. Anyways, he knows that I am more attracted to women than I am men and he knows that I have been with women in the past. I...
    Lanet809 Lanet809 26-30, F Mar 31

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    We met in a 3 month long nursing class & work together. He knew dad & came to His funeral. He surprisingly kissed me out of the blue at a bar after some drinks & told me about his...
    BlueEyes3182 BlueEyes3182 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Some days I have clarity. It was a great time. I played my role. We've moved on. We know it wasn't meant to be right now. We are still friends - best friends. I'm hearing all about...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Looking for somebody to have fun with. (Female)
    Miguel1987 Miguel1987 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I wish I could find a sexy woman that wants to be with another sexy woman!!
    ob1knob1 ob1knob1 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I do,I just like being with both.I like having the difference of the 2.
    sexyheatherb sexyheatherb 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I am looking for girls to have sex with and it's terrible bc 1 I can't find a girl 2 I live in Cranston and 3 idk I'm at the right place lol
    DaveP13 DaveP13 18-21, M Mar 24

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    I think every chick likes to be with other girls now and then, especially when you're going through an oral sex drought with the boyfriend. I cheated last weekend after some beers...
    Purplesloths Purplesloths 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    I can't stop thinking about a erotic encounter with another woman I am In a relationship with a man right now but I have these fantasies about women.
    Jenniferparis Jenniferparis 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    An entry for little Beaver. So on my latest post, I wrote about how I almost fainted and then my sister brought me to the nearest fast food chain thinking it was due to low...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 Apr 13

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    How about. Me I am 66 can we date. Let me no baby.... Xx
    tom1912 tom1912 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    "It takes a fearless, unflinching love & deep humility to accept the universe as it is. ." ~ Ann Druyan, speaking of her husband, Carl Sagan
    PhosphorescentBlack PhosphorescentBlack 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I was seated at cafe on the Marina and I immediately noticed a very beautiful and voluptious women seated at the corner table.
    maxjonk maxjonk 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    i am single but i want a married women any on here message me or heart this or add me to your circle
    alexhome alexhome 36-40, M Apr 3

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    I once knew a guy for a few hours then i rode him and he busted inside me. About 5min after that i meet his wife.
    100slut 100slut 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    This would be hot, him sneaking around to get his end away in me ;)
    bd693 bd693 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Any women ??????.............
    Miguel1987 Miguel1987 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    As the title says...I recently fell in love with someone. Sparkles are in the air. He woos me and my feet is off the ground. I feel so excited to see him. Even talking to him gives...
    sleeplessin sleeplessin 31-35, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    It all started when I started dating my now husband about 15years ago. My sister in law didn't want her brother with anyone unless she had say in who it was. Well when she didn't...
    laidbackgirl laidbackgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Anyone experience an affair with a man that had to end things because they were so transparent, they're spouses could tell they were seeing someone?
    prettykitty0810 prettykitty0810 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I have been here for awhile hoping to come across a story similar to mine. I need help. My story has gone from dream to nightmare. Had affair. MM always said he loved us both...
    blumomma blumomma 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 31

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    I found this TREMENDOUSLY eye opening. I read this last night on a message board about affairs and had to share ----- "Love", within infidelity, isn’t. Love in this context is...
    Wikedangel Wikedangel 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 27