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I Am Having An Affair With My Brother In Law

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 101 People

    Still Love My Brother In Law

    After 3 weeks of pure hell I am still lost in what to do. For the last week we have been talking again with set rules about things so as to be "friends". I have complied to this pretty well and we have talked about things and what went wrong. The biggest part being that we really...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U
    41-45, F
    Nov 28, 2011

    Affair With Brother-in-law?

    So here's the back story- I've been in a dry spell with my husband on and off for the past year or so. He's always so tired and I have to actually beg him to have sex with me. I buy new exciting toys to try and get him excited, but nothing works. It's starting to make me feel...
    grey122 grey122
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 18, 2013


    i just got home from work made a qucik stop at my brother in laws house. my sister was at work and now i lay down next to my clueless huband with my ***** filled with my brother in laws ***. i love the naughtiness of this affair
    suez68 suez68
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Feb 2, 2011

    Had Affair With Brother In Law And Still Have Feelings - Very Confused.

    I have been with my husband for over 20 years. We were high school sweethearts. I have also been very close with his brother for just as long. In fact when we were in high school we almost kissed at a party. I have always felt there was a mutual attraction, but I was also madly...
    akamandy akamandy
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2012


    So things remain the same in my life. Confusion in every thought I have. Unable to walk away from my marriage, unable to stop wanting a life with his brother. I'm clearly an idiot. He is an idiot too though because he is still here in this mess with me. The time we can see each...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U
    41-45, F
    Feb 22, 2012

    It Is What It Is

    I know that some people will see what I have allowed to happen as atrocious. Perhaps it really is. That said I have learned a valuable lesson along this journey. You cant judge another person unless you have walked a mile in their shoes. My life is my own life, the experiences...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2012

    In Love

    Well he is not really my brother-in-law. Me and his brother never married we just have a 33 year old son.
    coldface coldface
    56-60, F
    1 Response May 30, 2013

    Im In Love With My Brother In Law

    For the last 4 months I have been having an affair with my brother in law. It started off as just a friendship between two lonely people in unhappy marriages. It took about a month to become an emotional affair, my husband has never been supportive in this regard. It slowly...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2011

    What Do I Do?

    My husband chose to go do training out of state for his job for 6 months. Even before that time, and during his time away we had marrital issues. He had only been home a short while after being gone for over a year. So, him choosing to leave home (me) again was devastating...
    hellpmee hellpmee
    5 Responses Nov 17, 2011

    "i Am With My Brother In Law And I Love Him"

    Hi, I last saw my brother in law when when my husband and I visited Samoa in 2000 and my brother in law was 12years old and a skinny little thing he was.  My brother in law got an opportunity to come to NZ in the quota and my husband and I were the one's to bring him over...
    deeva2009 deeva2009
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Dec 3, 2009

    He Is a Wonderful Man

    We have known each other for about 20 years.  At first we did not get along at all.  Over time and maturity we became good friends.  We have discovered that we are alot alike in many ways.   As our friendship developed there came the natural flirting...
    suez68 suez68
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 22, 2009

    I Gave It All Up For Him

    I was with my husband for 12 years, married for 5. His brother lived on and off with us for years. We always had this attraction neither one of us would admit. My husband would notice it and make comments to me. My husband and have had alot of issues in our marriage, there was a...
    rl1982 rl1982
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2012

    Crazy In Love

    I am having an affair with my brother in law, my husbands sisters husband and I've fallen in love with him and he to me as well. We see each other often, and find it to be okay in the same company but it is a little awkward at times. I truly am in love with him but also thinks...
    Nloveandhappy Nloveandhappy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

    And The Mess Continues.........

    I have just realized that my posts are all in different areas. Opps. My life is still the same mess it was before. I am living with my husband and am afraid to break free and stand alone. It really is a fear, I dont think I have ever been entirely alone and I find it hinders me...
    Me4MeU4U Me4MeU4U
    41-45, F
    Jan 19, 2012

    He is coming over today I cannot wait to see

    and feel him. We will share a few hours if bliss that I will cherish
    suez68 suez68
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 10, 2013


    Today was incredible.  He came by the house this morning.  He brought me an early christmas present.  I pair of lace panties and bra.  Black and pink, I feel so sexy wearing them.  After opening them changed into them. We went out for breakfast, two...
    suez68 suez68
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Dec 21, 2009

    Can't Go On With Or With Out Him

    Hi I got married 20 years ago to a man II never wanted it was aranged 1 year after we got married he had to go to the army for 1 year. He ended up serving 5. And I could not leave the country. It's in Italy it's not allowed at that time for army wives to leave . Was...
    Pluto7777 Pluto7777
    4 Responses Apr 9, 2012

    I spent the night at my sisters house.

    We had a good time chatting and watching movies. Everyone went to bed. Next thing I know I am being woken up by my brother-in-law giving me a blow job. I am a gay man, in a long term relationship 21 years btw (yes he knows of this event). I am torn, I love my sister dearly...
    bobweekend bobweekend
    46-50, M
    Feb 3, 2015

    Started Something That I Thought Would Be Fun But For Me Is Turning More Serious.

    I started an affair with my Husband's younger Brother. (W my Husband permission) It was supposed to be just for fun and sex but nobody has ever made me feel this way in a long, long time. Sexually it's 5 out of 5. Ever since it began, it's been very close, very touchy, very...
    Unknowngirl420 Unknowngirl420
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2013

    Is It So Strange To Love His Brother?

    I have been married for 7 yrs. I am 25 yrs young and have been having an affair for the past 3 years with my husbands older brother. I started dating my husband when I was 16 and got married at age 18 I was not pregnant ...I'm just southern and around this small town there...
    evesforbiddenfruit evesforbiddenfruit
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2012
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