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I Am Having An Affair With My Wife's Best Friend

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    I have a bf, he has a wife. My boss, Alcohol > one night stand > friends with benefit, but now we both developed feelings. What should I do?
    redautumnleaves redautumnleaves 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    I am happily with my boyfriend but his friend is like his complete opposite; shy, quiet, a different physique, very warm-hearted to EVERYONE, weird in his own way, and funny in his...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Unlike most of the stories here on the same subject, absolutely nothing ever happened between me and my best friend: we never dated—nor did anyone ever even suggest it or say we...
    luehdnoea luehdnoea 18-21, M Apr 10

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I love my best friend, but I don't think it's necessary to have contact everyday just because of that one fact. Simply because we have a stronger bond than most, doesn't mean we...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Apr 6

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    My best friend is a guy and we've known each other for almost 9 years already. We constantly get into stupid arguments but they are serious that's just us. I stopped talking to him...
    AlwaysHaveDreams AlwaysHaveDreams 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    After being married for many years, I found out my wife ( my ex now as we are divorced for about ten years now) had been cheating on me with a guy who purported to be my best...
    ExperienceDan ExperienceDan 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Okay, I'll begin by acknowledging that I won't likely find a woman to have an affair with here. But I want to have an affair with a woman. I have been married 17 years and have...
    Mcluvinassman Mcluvinassman 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Idk what it is about the thought of pleasing a man that isn't getting what he needs from his wife! I will be the that satisfies him That gets me so excited and horny! I've never...
    expressingmyself expressingmyself 36-40, F 14 Responses 1 day ago

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    ​know i am very young, but yes I've fallen in love. so it all started in kindergarten. we instantly connected, he was my best friend over everything. we both had a learning...
    seersh98 seersh98 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I probably shouldn't be admitting this, but I need to express it. So mostly everyone that knows me on here knows that I cheated on my fiancé and I've been pretty torn up about...
    rajasaeed rajasaeed 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    I lost my best friend Kayla when we were in 8th grade. Kayla moved here in 6th grade, but we didn't really get close until the summer after our 7th grade year. We did everything...
    harperm97 harperm97 16-17, F Mar 24

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    I cannot live without my best friend But I have no choice My best friend my wife my love of my life my soulmate passed away on January23/14 And I am left here without you I feel so...
    IlovetitsToo IlovetitsToo 31-35, M Mar 27

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    Maybe hate is too much but… I thing she is not my best friend anymore, I don´t know what to do. I met my best friend 4 years ago and we became friends very quickly, we had fun...
    CaptainMer CaptainMer 16-17 Mar 31

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    I don't even know how it happened. But one minute I'm telling people we grabbed lunch and now I'm having to defend it. Sometimes I wonder if it was the input of other people that...
    ellieo5 ellieo5 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Some days I have clarity. It was a great time. I played my role. We've moved on. We know it wasn't meant to be right now. We are still friends - best friends. I'm hearing all about...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I used to be best friends with a girl all the way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I won't leave my best friend Kody. Right now, he is in a really dark place. He said a LOT of hurtful and hateful things to me today, and I know he is lashing out, and when he gets...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I hate my 'best friends' they're so ignorant and selfish. They never listen to me, and always push me away when I'm walking with them. They were never there when I'm sad, they...
    gyomii gyomii 16-17, F Mar 29

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    So I kissed my best male friend on lips. It is more like an expected one but it was still very satisfying. He has been someone who is really supportive and we get along really well...
    koomi koomi 18-21, F Apr 2

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    My dog was my best friend. The best feeling in the world is having a little buddy there for you who you know will always love you no matter how emotionally unstable or crazy you...
    livslife livslife 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So me and my best friend are very close. We treat each other like siblings. We talk every day, and we're usually all about having a great time. Yet, lately, we've seemed to be...
    Confused8816 Confused8816 22-25 Mar 29

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    My girl friend we have been dating for weeks and when she saw my best friend and room mate she say she is now in love with him , and i having been telling my room mate how much i...
    abah1985 abah1985 26-30 Apr 6

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I believe everything happens for a reason and that you meet everyone that you meet for a reason. Most of my friends have been girls, but I've had one really good guy friend and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    besides my dog, i have no best friend. the one i had for over 16 years decided to turn into a druggie and move in with his other friend who was supplying him. he then ended up...
    RedBats RedBats 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My best friend is AWESOME. (No, it's not myself, he really does exist). :D We've been best friends for a few years, and he's cheered me up when I felt sad. He has been there for...
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M Mar 23

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    Here's to the best friend who... Can pep-talk away my tears. Here's to the best friend who... Is there for me when life turns its back. Here's to the best friend who... Assures me...
    Amsch95 Amsch95 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I had been estranged from my best friend for quite some time now. I thought it must have been the distance thing. He is a whole continent away. But despite my emails, he would...
    ashashwat ashashwat 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, and hanging with his friends pretty much the whole time. I haven't really got comfortable with them until recently. See, what...
    edlineuser edlineuser 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    My best friend is great. I love her, and I think she loves me. Till she stopped responding to my snapchats and texts (despite opening them), we would text for 3 hours daily. I want...
    kylalafferty kylalafferty 22-25, F Mar 25

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    I feel extremely guilty even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    At school me and my friends have a group, with 5 girls Alex, Adelaide, Brenna, Grace and Me and I am the only one without a best friend. Adelaide has a best-friends called...
    bryannnnaaa bryannnnaaa 13-15, F Apr 11

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    i actually have a lover who is my best friend and it is so complicated.. we argue so much.. we get upset.. worry.. cry.. laugh.. open up to each other.. kiss and go further.. sneak...
    dontlosehope28 dontlosehope28 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My best friend and I were friends for 3 long years. Sadly our friendship is over, but I don't want to dwell on that. She's changed. She's not that girl that I knew anymore. But I...
    sarah81199 sarah81199 13-15, F Mar 21

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    I may not only love, but be in love with my best friend. I have never been a fan of her boy friend that I unfortunately introduced her to, thinking they would be a quick hook up as...
    EccentricTree EccentricTree 18-21 Mar 25

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    We met 20 years ago in nursing school. She was so funny! We were in the same carpool together. She was from Korea but she was adopted at age 9 by an Italian family, and she had the...
    SanitySister SanitySister 41-45, F Mar 25

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    Friendship especially Best Friends for men is probably the greatest and most intimate relationship for the male species. As a guy we would love to have that level of intimacy and...
    robertv1976 robertv1976 36-40, M Mar 28

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    I want a best friend that will be by my side 24/7. Who will always be there if you need help. Who I can act crazy around with. Who do everything together. Who doesn't care if I'm...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F Apr 11

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    I am head over heals in love with my best friend. Scratch that. I have 2 best friends with whom I am in love. First, there is my husband. We have been through more than any 2...
    staystronglivelong29 staystronglivelong29 26-30, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    My absolute best friend is also my ex-boyfriend. It's not really weird because we didn't date for long and that was a while ago. The only thing that makes it woes is that he knows...
    Usethisone1331 Usethisone1331 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I have many friends but i just want that one best friend. Like i want to be a best friend to someone and be their best friend only. Someone to connect very easily with....
    dawntaker020 dawntaker020 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    My best friend is the best. We have gone to high school together and we have been roommates in college for three years (and probably a fourth). We have been through a lot together...
    CAdaPro CAdaPro 18-21, M Mar 20

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    I Really Want That friend That I Can tell anything To and Be honest I'm 16 mixed With white black and French Have Big curly Hair and I'm a girly Girl Lol I Want a best friend Like...
    pinkd0llss pinkd0llss 16-17, F Mar 20

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    He's been my best friend since 2nd grade. I think he feels the same about me, but I don't want to risk ruining our friendship. Can anyone help?
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I recently moved to a new state and started my freshman year of high school. I tried to tell myself going into the school year that I would no longer put up with abusive...
    reillymac reillymac 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Hate is a strong word but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    It has always been my fantisies that i have sex with my best friend my current best friend is so sexy he is my dream guy and according to his ex girlfriend has a big one she was my...
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

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