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I Am Having An Affair

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    Read This On Facebook....just Thought Id Share It - “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 16 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    I Take Revenge On My Cheating Wife - I guess I should start off by telling you how all this got started. After I discovered my wife’s infidelity (please read my stories in “I...
    DragonflyGreen DragonflyGreen 41-45, M 14 Responses May 13, 2013

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    Yup, since June of 2013. He is 26, I am 39. We get together sometimes twice a day, sometimes twice a week. He says we F like rabbits. We don't hang out, it usually I go to his...
    LLmom32 LLmom32 36-40, F 21 Responses Feb 5

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    I've been seeing someone for 1 month less than the length of my marriage (almost 5 years). She is the best friend I've ever had. I love my wife still, and I don't want to be...
    nospamblock nospamblock 31-35, M 5 Responses Mar 21

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    In 3 days my lover could come to my house anytime. We can go out.....in public. We can be a real couple. I am having a slight panic attack but I am very excited! I am so in love...
    007love 007love 31-35, F Jan 3

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    No Wonder We Have Affairs - Alright, this conversation absolutely floored me. I was having a wonderful time with my lover on Saturday, and we were enjoying each other in ways that...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 24 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    I remember when you wrote me "PS: xt me anytime"
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Mar 24

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    I'm having an affair with a married man. I'm putting it all out there, so I warn you in advance this may be a long read, but I need to get it out. This affair has been going on for...
    rrn14 rrn14 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Is texting and messaging intimate things with someone other than your spouse considered an affair?
    reneedarkside reneedarkside 46-50, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    So I'm having a very passionate affair with an old flame and struggling with my feelings. I am interested to know how other people having affairs cope with sex with their spouse...
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    My Affair Frees Me - I have been having an affair with my bestfriend for the past 4 years. My husband found out 2 years ago and thinks I have stopped seeing him! I tried but...
    sadgrl sadgrl 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 19, 2007

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    I really need many of my boy friend kisses. Miss you!
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Apr 6

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    Yes. I am. I admit I did actively search one out, my marriage wasn't great, not bad, but not great and the sex when it happened was blah! But with kids and life I wasn't ready to...
    lachatnoir9 lachatnoir9 46-50, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    The more I live my life, the more convoluted it becomes. If you know anything about me, you know that I am involved with a married man, but that I want a real relationship with...
    Crazy4Rn Crazy4Rn 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    If you tell your secret to Soembody is not a ( your) secret anymore. Don't kill it. Keep a private, fun, colorfull life ;-)
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Mar 13

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    It Just Happened - I am married and had become bored with day to day life. Sometimes during the day I would browse through men's web postings just out of curiosity. I came across...
    Erotic2 Erotic2 36-40 5 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Married Woman Having Affair With Younger Married Man - I am a 51 year old woman who has been married for over 20 years. I had never been unfaithful to my husband in all these years...
    Src Src 51-55, F 106 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    A Thought From The Other Woman - You are the one he’s lived with for a very long time. I have known him for three years. You are the one who wakes up to his familiar face each...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 16 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    I remember when you wrote me " desperatly anxious waiting for your text" -and "ooo que buena maner de empezar el fin de semana"
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I had sex with a married friend. OMG I had sex with a married friend, who is also my law partner. What am I doing?
    alicelostinnwonderland alicelostinnwonderland 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    Sex, Lies and Fulfillment - I, too, am a married woman having an affair.  And I feel the worst about lying where I am.  My husband and I have been living very separate...
    CatEyes09 CatEyes09 46-50, F 38 Responses Apr 5, 2008

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    My Story - hi, I'm having an affair. Its my first and its been going on for 4 weeks.  I can't believe how easy it was to slip into the lying for me.  I told myself I...
    Keri75 Keri75 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 28, 2007

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    I Am A Woman Having An Affair With Another Woman! - My husband thinks we are just friends but what he doesn't know is that we are sexually involved. Our frequent shopping...
    wow41 wow41 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    I Am Having and Affair - And enjoying every second we can find together. We are both married and happily, its just that neither of our partners is interested in sex. My lover and I...
    Gil Gil 41-45, F 17 Responses Sep 13, 2007

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    It's our second night we get to spend with each other, all night. As I drive to the hotel I am excited, the thought of getting to kiss and feel him for a long time tonight makes me...
    Erotic2 Erotic2 36-40 11 Responses Jan 21

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    When my girlfriend call me and she was with you, just happened to be Feb 14 and you told me: happy valentine's day, injust wish we had met each other before.
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Apr 6

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    Today i saw my BF and we were together for two seeet hours, just talking and laughing. I am happy that he is back in town.
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I apologize in advance for the length of my story. I know that by posting this I am opening myself up for a slew of judgmental comments, but I guarantee anything you would like to...
    notturningback notturningback 31-35, F Mar 26

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    I had another passionate day. But today was different today I told him I am falling in love with him. So I will be in love with someone share intimacies but it only be once or...
    itsme3333 itsme3333 36-40 1 Response Mar 10

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    Chemistry Is Too Overwhelming - I am having an affair with a man I met on a website. It started out innocent enough, we are both writers of erotica. However as we shared stories we...
    sweetflavor sweetflavor 31-35, F 26 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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    The other night I decided to go for a run in our apartment complex. It's in a valley between two mountains, one of those sights that takes your breathe away. It was dark and chilly...
    exciteme89 exciteme89 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I am having an affair and strange, exiting, fun, sad, nostalgic, happy, colorful, cololess, important, boring things happening in my life right now. I miss so many beautiful...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    The Cat Is Out Of The Bag...busted! - After 3 years, my husband found out about my MM. It was a very bad day, but to be honest, my first reaction was actually relief that the...
    aod7909 aod7909 46-50, F 13 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Next time i'll kiss your other lips. OMG.
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Apr 3

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    I have been having an emotional affair with an old flame for months and this week it became a physical affair. I've been unhappy with my husband for a while, we live like flatmates...
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Why I Prefer Married Women - Why? It's not because there's no commitment involved. There can be even in an affair. But why I do love cheating wives is because I like bad girls. I...
    BadBoyKL BadBoyKL 41-45, M 10 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Because Of Nights Like This... - I'm having an affair. Tonight was another night like countless others - I came in from work, a little upset and I asked a simple question, and it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Sep 5, 2010

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    Having an affair Is become addicted to a person. Start a secret, fun, sparkling, sad, ironic long situation. I go the extra mile anyways.
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Mar 16

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    So we actually talked about it. He wants it to keep going, says it is exciting for him. Says he never thought I would say yes and that it was incredible. I didn't know what to...
    alicelostinnwonderland alicelostinnwonderland 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    My Affair Is Great - Yes, I am having an affair! I don't care if you judge me, I'm going to continue to be who I am, you may not understand my reasons or care to, but they are mine...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 20 Responses Sep 3, 2007

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    I would like to ask and have the true answer of ...Hon... Are you having an affair? Why are those selfies at your cell Phone? Did you enjoy " tapas" with your co-worker? Moovie uh...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F a week ago

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    I found this letter on Craigslist.... - I DID NOT write this but I wish I had!!! If you are planning on banging a married woman... You should read this letter: Dear Men of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 49 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I Am Christian And Married... - I have been saved for just over 10 years. In these last 10 years I have turned my life around and have lived for God. I am active in my church in...
    HaileyGail82 HaileyGail82 31-35, F 30 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Affair With Son-in-law - This is a true story of a woman I know, would like your positive opinion. Don't post anything negative, she is my friend and I like a positive feed back...
    SunnyBelle SunnyBelle 26-30, F 83 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    Rachael and the Diatonic Scale Music is love in search of a word. - French novelist and performer Sidonie Gabrielle I had booked a cruise with family and friends weeks before...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Mar 10

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    When someone leave my life i feel always sad. Lonely.
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Apr 6

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    I let you hurt me again. I gave away my power and my dignity. Fell victim to your words of how much you care when your actions continue to show that you don't. Why would I think...
    addict44 addict44 31-35, F Mar 13

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    I Am In The Worst Of The Worst Category - Here it is. My chance to share my, hopefully non-unique, story with people who may understand my position. I am having an affair. I am the...
    accidentaldelilah accidentaldelilah 31-35, F 20 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    Not what i expected. Not what i expected. Not what I expected. Sorry ;-/
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Mar 11

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    Avoiding an affair. He keeps calling and leaving dirty messages and texts. It is kind of hot.
    alicelostinnwonderland alicelostinnwonderland 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    " Me quiero quedar contigo. Es mucho el deseo"
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Apr 2