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I Am Having An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,615 People

    I'm a married woman with a single man.

    Seems this is an unusual combination. Anyone else in the same situation?
    belovedblue belovedblue 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 28, 2015

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    South Of The Border: A Chipotle Story

    Sooo . . . . It was one of those days when my self-esteem needed to play princess dress-up.  His text was simple:  "Good Morning Beautiful, how I wish I could wrap my arms around you today...."  . . . And just like that - JUST LIKE THAT - I"m alive w/desire...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 12 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    I Am Christian And Married...

    I have been saved for just over 10 years. In these last 10 years I have turned my life around and have lived for God. I am active in my church in many areas and most of my friends are also Christians. I got married young and have only 'been' with my husband, and have always...
    HaileyGail82 HaileyGail82 31-35, F 29 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    My Affair Is Great

    Yes, I am having an affair! I don't care if you judge me, I'm going to continue to be who I am, you may not understand my reasons or care to, but they are mine just as much as my choice to have my affair. I am sleeping w/ my best friend because my husband ignores me & we...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 19 Responses Sep 3, 2007

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    It's difficult tonight

    that my husband and I are at the same event my other man is
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2015

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    Should I Continue With Him?

    I have been married for 14 years. Hubby has lost interest in sex. I started an affair with a married man in August 2012. He is a great lover. The sex is absolutely amazing. The only thing that bothers me is that we don't talk or chat because he doesn't want us to be emotionally...
    secretaffair secretaffair 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    I have had affairs with married men many times.

    Perhaps it's because I have six brothers and always had male friends growing up, that I have learned to think like a man. I tend to have a sex drive like a man. I have often been told I am a dude in a chicks body. But here is the thing; I almost do it because I care about them...
    Candigirl70 Candigirl70 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I had my heart broken by the ONLY person I ever

    loved, he was my first time and I was quite innocent then. After him I decided **** love, I'll just have fun and went from my first time to sleeping with....a lot.....of people. It was good in a way because I got to explore my sexual interests and met some amazing people but I...
    AshleyLithe97 AshleyLithe97 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2015

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    AIYAZ123 AIYAZ123 26-30 Nov 3, 2015

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    I want to tell the world about this man!

    About how happy he makes me and to share the many things he does to make me smile but under the circumstances that's not possible. The only ifs run through my head over and over again. If only I had met him 5 years ago if only my divorce were finalized those kinds of things. He...
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F Mar 19, 2015

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    For those of you that have read my stories,

    this is going to surprise the heck out of you. As you all know i classified myself as bi and heavily towards being gay. Then i met a woman here on EP, she sounded fascinating and lives not too far from me. We messaged each other a few times before deciding to meet for a...
    Sportjeff Sportjeff 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    On the verge of tears tonight.

    Wanting to be out with my AP, but home with H, and I'm feeling guilty for not wanting to be here.
    Rosybottomz Rosybottomz 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 1

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    Other than kissing, nothing else happened

    that night. We both felt pretty ******, he took me home and left. We met up after a couple days to talk about what happened... we both thought it was not right, but I guess our feelings were developing for each other, we kept meeting up. We would usually meet up once a week...
    gianneisstuck gianneisstuck 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2015

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    So, here's my story,

    or ours rather. She and I are both married and unhappy in them. Neither are ready (yet) to end our marriages. I feel it's what is written on the wall for us both. We have so many likes and joys in common that when I think about it sometimes it's a amazing and overwhelming at...
    ILnativeNOWinAZ ILnativeNOWinAZ 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 20, 2015

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    Driving in the car today,

    I misheard directions and made a wrong turn. A switch flipped in new AP and he got so mad and yelled at me. Like yell yelled. I yelled back and he only got angrier. He told me just to take him home. He cooled down and ended up changing his mind. We went on with our evening, but...
    Rosybottomz Rosybottomz 36-40, F Dec 12, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    emilyccaa emilyccaa 26-30, F Dec 8, 2015

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    Helping Melissa Move

    Melissa, my sister-in-law (my wife's younger sister) recently sold her house and bought a smaller one in a new modern development. She had hired movers to do most of the heavy lifting and all that she wanted from me was to supervise and to help with the odds and ends. My wife...
    DragonflyGreen DragonflyGreen 41-45, M 9 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    I Take Revenge On My Cheating Wife

    I guess I should start off by telling you how all this got started. After I discovered my wife’s infidelity (please read my stories in “I have a cheating wife”) I was determined to have some extra marital fun of my own. I was also determined to make sure, that if my wife...
    DragonflyGreen DragonflyGreen 41-45, M 9 Responses May 13, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 3, 2015

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    Once In A Lifetime...

    I fell head over heals for my MM, and the fabulous sex and his perfect anatomy { ;) }, coupled with our hunger to share, discuss, advise and plainly marvel at our deepening friendship - helped none... From the start there was a spiritual like bond. It was crazy and compulsive, as...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 7 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I found this letter on Craigslist....

    I DID NOT write this but I wish I had!!! If you are planning on banging a married woman... You should read this letter: Dear Men of Craigslist, Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less please. In a post-feminist society...
    deleted deleted 26-30 39 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    Read This On Facebook....just Thought Id Share It

    “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    AIYAZ123 AIYAZ123 26-30 Nov 3, 2015

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    Wow, it's been a very long time

    since I've logged on here. Last was in late August or early September just after my AP of almost two years ghosted on me and jumped into a new relationship. It was about two months before he contacted me again telling me how much he missed me and wanted me. It felt good that he...
    Rosybottomz Rosybottomz 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2015

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    Because Of Nights Like This...

    I'm having an affair. Tonight was another night like countless others - I came in from work, a little upset and I asked a simple question, and it erupted into WWIII, and a relatively soft object got thrown at me and struck me in the face. Softer than a brick but harder than a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Sep 5, 2010

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    The bliss to self-control

    and self love. MM and I spent Friday all day. We were able to fill in our whereabouts. We had Heaven on Earth for the day. Then he fell into a black hole. Family duties and responsibilities. I texted a 'Hi'. No response for 2 hours. I texted another 'Hi'. See...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 5, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 May 2, 2015

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    AIYAZ123 AIYAZ123 26-30 Nov 3, 2015

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    Sex, Lies and Fulfillment

    I, too, am a married woman having an affair.  And I feel the worst about lying where I am.  My husband and I have been living very separate lives for a long time, so it's not hard at all to make things up, and he isn't suspicious.  I get together with "friends...
    CatEyes09 CatEyes09 46-50, F 38 Responses Apr 5, 2008

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    After so many years of misery somehow I find

    the strength to open up a profile on a dating site.I had quite few dates till I met him. It felt just right the moment I saw him.We klicked and we didn't feel like strangers to each other. We took our time to get to know each other, I think we both new that that was it.He was...
    Sofia02 Sofia02 41-45 1 Response Jul 25, 2015

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    I'm going to try to keep this short

    as I just want a little advice. I have been in an emotional affair with my hs boyfriend for about 7 years I've been married for 15 years, no kids, he's been married 19, two teenagers. We both work at home and text fairly furiously and flirtatiously during the week. Our spouses...
    Ophelia25 Ophelia25 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2015

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    Affair With Son-in-law

    This is a true story of a woman I know, would like your positive opinion. Don't post anything negative, she is my friend and I like a positive feed back, Only those who have had such nice experiences qualify to comment.In her own words:Well, where do I begin? I have always felt...
    SunnyBelle SunnyBelle 26-30, F 77 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    Yup, since June of 2013.

    He is 26, I am 39. We get together sometimes twice a day, sometimes twice a week. He says we F like rabbits. We don't hang out, it usually I go to his place, we do our thing, talk for a few minutes and I go back to my suburban home life. He was my massage therapist and one day...
    2little2late 2little2late 41-45, F 17 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    I'm new. I'm not sure what I'm looking for,

    except to maybe find others who are going through/have gone through similar situations. I'm a writer, and tend to ramble way too much, but I'll attempt to sum up. My "affair" is dumb. At 15, I fell in love with the person that everyone I knew dubbed "the wrong man." My friends...
    Ophelia25 Ophelia25 36-40, F Oct 12, 2015

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    I'm sleeping around with this 45 year old

    married guy with a family
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 2, 2015

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    I've been married for 12 yrs

    and for almost a year now I have been having an affair with someone I met offline. We talked on the phone for a year before it became sexual. I was hesitant about meeting him because I knew the next step would be us being intimate. I am in love with him and can't understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 8, 2015

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    A Thought From The Other Woman

    You are the one he’s lived with for a very long time. I have known him for three years. You are the one who wakes up to his familiar face each and every day and you give him a peck on the cheek. I gaze into his deep brown eyes and run my hands through his slightly graying...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 15 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    I have been involved with a married man

    for 5 yrs... I met him on Ashley Madison.. I thought it was a really " grown up" solution to an emotionless,sexless marriage ...most of the men were pigs...but " tom" was different... He talked and talked and never was overtly aggressive. He seemed sincerely interested in me..my...
    Bancy918 Bancy918 51-55 6 Responses Jun 13, 2015

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    Art basel ended yesterday in South Miami,

    after working the weekend which I never ever do, I am taking today off, husband wont know im off, he works all day anyway and my kids both have plans after school. I have not seen my AP in a while, I miss him so much, we have the whole day planned out, although I just want to...
    RumNraisin1978 RumNraisin1978 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 7, 2015

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    Chemistry Is Too Overwhelming

    I am having an affair with a man I met on a website. It started out innocent enough, we are both writers of erotica. However as we shared stories we realized how much we have in common sexually. As our friendship developed we began sharing personal details of our life. He is...
    sweetflavor sweetflavor 31-35, F 24 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30, 2015

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    The other night I decided to go

    for a run in our apartment complex. It's in a valley between two mountains, one of those sights that takes your breathe away. It was dark and chilly, itched started to rain lightly. My husband was at work. I took of down the road, ran around the back and through the tennis...
    exciteme89 exciteme89 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    No Wonder We Have Affairs

    Alright, this conversation absolutely floored me. I was having a wonderful time with my lover on Saturday, and we were enjoying each other in ways that I am sure all of you have done with yours. We were on the subject of oral sex for him. I nonchalantly asked him as I moved my...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 22 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    She is amazing. Smart,

    smart, smart, sexy, funny, sexually adventurous, and so much more. The problem is time and distance. It's been a year, and we've only seen each other 5 times. The upside to that is every time we get together we spend hour after hour tumbling through a sea of physical pleasure. I...
    Jonahgraff Jonahgraff 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 24, 2015

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    With My Cousin. Gross Maybe?

    I know. Although, I've always flirted with him as if he was an outsider to my family. There was one day where he texted me to catch up on old times, and both of our confessions (of mutual attraction) had came out. We linked up really soon after that, and after the ten minutes of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 26, 2015

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