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I Am Having An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,556 People

    It's difficult tonight

    that my husband and I are at the same event my other man is
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    The other night I decided to go

    for a run in our apartment complex. It's in a valley between two mountains, one of those sights that takes your breathe away. It was dark and chilly, itched started to rain lightly. My husband was at work. I took of down the road, ran around the back and through the tennis...
    exciteme89 exciteme89 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Read This On Facebook....just Thought Id Share It

    “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    A woman once told me she had a crush on my

    husband. I hugged her. We had at least half an hour of conversation on the side walk. Later, whenever we ran into each other, I wanted to be nice and attentive to her, so she did not hurt. Or at least my niceness would ease her hurt. We both had a loving for my husband...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 15

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    About a month ago, a 3 month long emotional

    affair with a former co-worker (who is also my friend for many years) turned physical one time (I am married, he is single...and my husband has no clue). The guilt I felt right afterwards was so crushing, I told him, and we agreed to part ways (he felt the guilt as well, and...
    dayflight dayflight 36-40 2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    I want to tell the world about this man!

    About how happy he makes me and to share the many things he does to make me smile but under the circumstances that's not possible. The only ifs run through my head over and over again. If only I had met him 5 years ago if only my divorce were finalized those kinds of things. He...
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F Mar 19

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    I have had affairs with married men many times.

    Perhaps it's because I have six brothers and always had male friends growing up, that I have learned to think like a man. I tend to have a sex drive like a man. I have often been told I am a dude in a chicks body. But here is the thing; I almost do it because I care about them...
    Candigirl70 Candigirl70 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    She is amazing. Smart,

    smart, smart, sexy, funny, sexually adventurous, and so much more. The problem is time and distance. It's been a year, and we've only seen each other 5 times. The upside to that is every time we get together we spend hour after hour tumbling through a sea of physical pleasure. I...
    Jonahgraff Jonahgraff 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm sleeping around with this 45 year old

    married guy with a family
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 2

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    Affair With Son-in-law

    This is a true story of a woman I know, would like your positive opinion. Don't post anything negative, she is my friend and I like a positive feed back, Only those who have had such nice experiences qualify to comment.In her own words:Well, where do I begin? I have always felt...
    SunnyBelle SunnyBelle 26-30, F 80 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 3

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    With My Cousin. Gross Maybe?

    I know. Although, I've always flirted with him as if he was an outsider to my family. There was one day where he texted me to catch up on old times, and both of our confessions (of mutual attraction) had came out. We linked up really soon after that, and after the ten minutes of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 26

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    I Am Christian And Married...

    I have been saved for just over 10 years. In these last 10 years I have turned my life around and have lived for God. I am active in my church in many areas and most of my friends are also Christians. I got married young and have only 'been' with my husband, and have always...
    HaileyGail82 HaileyGail82 31-35, F 27 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    For those of you that have read my stories,

    this is going to surprise the heck out of you. As you all know i classified myself as bi and heavily towards being gay. Then i met a woman here on EP, she sounded fascinating and lives not too far from me. We messaged each other a few times before deciding to meet for a...
    Sportjeff Sportjeff 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30

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    Should I Continue With Him?

    I have been married for 14 years. Hubby has lost interest in sex. I started an affair with a married man in August 2012. He is a great lover. The sex is absolutely amazing. The only thing that bothers me is that we don't talk or chat because he doesn't want us to be emotionally...
    secretaffair secretaffair 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    It's been 3 weeks since I spent time with him.

    I went to see him today. I told myself that I wasn't going to let him get to me that I was seeing him as a friend to chat about something, but I couldn't resist him. It was passionate and everything my body yearns for but the emotional side of me wanted run away. I am just going...
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F Feb 23

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    I found this letter on Craigslist....

    I DID NOT write this but I wish I had!!! If you are planning on banging a married woman... You should read this letter: Dear Men of Craigslist, Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less please. In a post-feminist society...
    deleted deleted 26-30 39 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    After 12 Years of Marriage...i Am Having An Affair....

    I will add to this as I have time. Short description of the story... married to someone I was deeply in love with... we adopted 2 special needs children ... 12 and 6 the younger is rather normal but the older is a handfull. Anyhow we tried for all these years to have our...
    slyfingersjoe slyfingersjoe 36-40, M 98 Responses Oct 4, 2007

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    Yup, since June of 2013.

    He is 26, I am 39. We get together sometimes twice a day, sometimes twice a week. He says we F like rabbits. We don't hang out, it usually I go to his place, we do our thing, talk for a few minutes and I go back to my suburban home life. He was my massage therapist and one day...
    2little2late 2little2late 36-40, F 18 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    The bliss to self-control

    and self love. MM and I spent Friday all day. We were able to fill in our whereabouts. We had Heaven on Earth for the day. Then he fell into a black hole. Family duties and responsibilities. I texted a 'Hi'. No response for 2 hours. I texted another 'Hi'. See...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    Chemistry Is Too Overwhelming

    I am having an affair with a man I met on a website. It started out innocent enough, we are both writers of erotica. However as we shared stories we realized how much we have in common sexually. As our friendship developed we began sharing personal details of our life. He is...
    sweetflavor sweetflavor 31-35, F 24 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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    I cut off my affair with the OW a couple months

    ago then I was missing here and sent her a email. She missed me too and we began talking and saw each other again. We did not have sex we just made out and rekindled. She wanted me to meet her at a restaurant in the area I live and I told her no way because I always see people...
    MrMan67 MrMan67 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    Today was another bad day,

    I presented a proposal to the the Regional Director (my boss) on how to upgrade the full timer's health insurance policies to stay competitive on benefits offering. He rejected it in less than 2 minutes, something my department had been working for weeks, I got a phone call from...
    RumNraisin1978 RumNraisin1978 36-40, F 14 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    It seems like the past month has been a

    lifetime. I never thought meeting someone else that I barely knew could mean so much.Despite our slight age difference he is everything I have ever wanted in a man, I just wish I had met him sooner. I am in the process of leaving my husband after many hurtful things and...
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F Feb 1

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    After so many years of misery somehow I find

    the strength to open up a profile on a dating site.I had quite few dates till I met him. It felt just right the moment I saw him.We klicked and we didn't feel like strangers to each other. We took our time to get to know each other, I think we both new that that was it.He was...
    Sofia02 Sofia02 41-45 1 Response Jul 25

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    I don't know if i had

    or i am having an affair.
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2014

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    Because Of Nights Like This...

    I'm having an affair. Tonight was another night like countless others - I came in from work, a little upset and I asked a simple question, and it erupted into WWIII, and a relatively soft object got thrown at me and struck me in the face. Softer than a brick but harder than a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Sep 5, 2010

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    I have had a letter from him

    for about a year now- in the letter he wrote that had we met 15 years ago, we'd be married- no question. It was a brief letter, but it was a sweet one, and he signed it "Love, xxxx". I'd often get this letter out and read it, because it made me feel equal parts happy and sad...
    AllTheLastAtTheBack AllTheLastAtTheBack 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2014

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    I stay in UAE (Dubai).

    ..I am single male, 30 age....I had an affair with a married lady ....we spent really good time with each other by sharing a lot with each other..including sex...she was much better than me in sex....now she is not here in this country and I m missing her very badly.
    dearrishit dearrishit 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 20, 2014

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    Sex, Lies and Fulfillment

    I, too, am a married woman having an affair.  And I feel the worst about lying where I am.  My husband and I have been living very separate lives for a long time, so it's not hard at all to make things up, and he isn't suspicious.  I get together with "friends...
    CatEyes09 CatEyes09 46-50, F 38 Responses Apr 5, 2008

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    I have been involved with a married man

    for 5 yrs... I met him on Ashley Madison.. I thought it was a really " grown up" solution to an emotionless,sexless marriage ...most of the men were pigs...but " tom" was different... He talked and talked and never was overtly aggressive. He seemed sincerely interested in me..my...
    Bancy918 Bancy918 51-55 7 Responses Jun 13

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    My Affair Is Great

    Yes, I am having an affair! I don't care if you judge me, I'm going to continue to be who I am, you may not understand my reasons or care to, but they are mine just as much as my choice to have my affair. I am sleeping w/ my best friend because my husband ignores me & we...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 19 Responses Sep 3, 2007

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    A Thought From The Other Woman

    You are the one he’s lived with for a very long time. I have known him for three years. You are the one who wakes up to his familiar face each and every day and you give him a peck on the cheek. I gaze into his deep brown eyes and run my hands through his slightly graying...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 16 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    My lover, that i used to know.

    So special. Snowden, Dave, you are so cheap. I totally missunderrstood. I was so wrong. My instinct failed. Fake.
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F Nov 16, 2014

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    South Of The Border: A Chipotle Story

    Sooo . . . . It was one of those days when my self-esteem needed to play princess dress-up.  His text was simple:  "Good Morning Beautiful, how I wish I could wrap my arms around you today...."  . . . And just like that - JUST LIKE THAT - I"m alive w/desire...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 12 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    So, here's my story,

    or ours rather. She and I are both married and unhappy in them. Neither are ready (yet) to end our marriages. I feel it's what is written on the wall for us both. We have so many likes and joys in common that when I think about it sometimes it's a amazing and overwhelming at...
    ILnativeNOWinAZ ILnativeNOWinAZ 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    I am 24, in college, married,

    and having an affair with a man who goes to my school and who has been engaged for five years. It started harmlessly; working on a project together and we started to become closer friends (we were friends before this.) I had already started to develop a crush on him, but I...
    BwayGirl676 BwayGirl676 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    In real life this time.

    Best sex of my life. It has made my life immeasurably better. Extremely lucky.
    Jonahgraff Jonahgraff 36-40, M Feb 10

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    Over two and a half years ago,

    I fell in love for the first time--twenty-five years too late--and began an affair. Over the years, Kevin and I have met once or twice a week and email several times a day. I have kept almost all of the emails that I sent to him and that he sent to me. Along the way, there has...
    cbny24 cbny24 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Sucked back in! Let the roller coaster begin

    again. Yesterday, we had an amazing day. **** hit the fan... I am sneezing..I think I have allergies to the thought, but, yes, nothing has changed in his marital status. Our status is 'secret'. I broke up with him 21st of December, and then, I had these things happening...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Once In A Lifetime...

    I fell head over heals for my MM, and the fabulous sex and his perfect anatomy { ;) }, coupled with our hunger to share, discuss, advise and plainly marvel at our deepening friendship - helped none... From the start there was a spiritual like bond. It was crazy and compulsive, as...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 7 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    Married Woman Having Affair With Younger Married Man

    I am a 51 year old woman who has been married for over 20 years. I had never been unfaithful to my husband in all these years, until recently. Although our marriage has been rocky, I just did not feel the need to seek gratification elsewhere. ABout 3 years ago my husband...
    Src Src 51-55, F 110 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    I've been married for 12 yrs

    and for almost a year now I have been having an affair with someone I met offline. We talked on the phone for a year before it became sexual. I was hesitant about meeting him because I knew the next step would be us being intimate. I am in love with him and can't understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 8

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    Other than kissing, nothing else happened

    that night. We both felt pretty ******, he took me home and left. We met up after a couple days to talk about what happened... we both thought it was not right, but I guess our feelings were developing for each other, we kept meeting up. We would usually meet up once a week...
    gianneisstuck gianneisstuck 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I'm a married woman with a single man.

    Seems this is an unusual combination. Anyone else in the same situation?
    belovedblue belovedblue 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 28