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I Am Having An Affiar With a Married Man

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    We Are Both Married, But This Works.

    There's something very comfortable about having an affair with a true friend. I've known my MM for over 30 years, we (my husband, him and me) were all at school together in the same group and MM and I had a one day fling, prompted by a dare, before I was married. For me it was...
    GT4me GT4me 51-55 15 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    I Am Having An Affair With A Married Man... Not!

    How can you look at yourself in the mirror and think of yourself as anything but a stupid, completely ridiculous, *****, ****, *****, homewrecker? By the way you ARE, all of those things that are listed above. Let me break it down for you. I am a child of no innocence. My dad...
    lostsoulinlife lostsoulinlife 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    Once In A Lifetime....

    I fell head over heals for my MM, and the fabulous sex and his perfect anatomy { ;) }, coupled with our hunger to share, discuss, advise and plainly marvel at our deepening friendship - helped none... From the start there was a spiritual like bond. It was crazy and compulsive...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 4 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I Miss All Of Him...

    I met a wonderful, caring and thoughtful, sexy man.  I knew he was married, but we started off as just friends(work at same place), which lead to alot of harmless flirting at the beginning.  I am recently getting a divorce, which was not a good marriage at all...
    jaklexboy7 jaklexboy7 46-50 5 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Hi well it's 2years and 2 months now.

    we had an affair for a year and then we stopped it, we made a point of it not having any contact. and all of a sudden we started to talk again, i realized that i still have the same feelings for this man and he still feels exactly the same way about me. i saw him yesterday and...
    Dimpels1984 Dimpels1984 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    Should I?.....

    Should i continue my relationship with my bf if i'm already cheating on him with two other men, before he's even got round to proposing. i do love him, but the sex is basically non-existent. n i know sex isn't everything but my two mm's make me happy, and they both know about...
    sexyannie sexyannie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    jamdog22 jamdog22 13-15, M Jun 24

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    I Know I'm Wrong But Can't Stop

     I am having an affair and don't want to stop . He's married , I'm not . I've been married and have had an affair while I was married . This time it's different because I'm the one that's here alone when he leaves . He came into my life when I was vulnerable and going thru...
    Angel1967 Angel1967 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    It'S Really Over.....

    So if you read my previous stories, I was having an affair with a married man. It was quite the ride. I went on vacation with my family at the end of September and he texted me that he was having a bad time at home and his wife wanted a divorce but she didn't know i existed. So...
    Beautifulnbroken Beautifulnbroken 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Well today is the day had it well

    and truly rubbed in my face last night. Cannot cope with this. I am human let me know with words. Is there any point anymore??
    lolita3121 lolita3121 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    Torn

     I am having an affair with a married man.  The words are hard for me to say because to be honest, thats not something I ever saw myself doing.  In my last relationship, I was cheated on and lied to.  And now I am contributing to something I ...
    hopefull44 hopefull44 26-30 5 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    coletraiin coletraiin 16-17, M Jun 1

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    I am a 16 year old girl.

    I don't know how or why I have gotten so sucked in to this toxic relationship I currently have with a married man- twice my age. (It's legal in my state.) It's been going on for about 3 months, he's constantly, constantly on my mind. And today, his wife went into labor. That's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 29

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    He Used Me

    He is my boss...tempted me and used me. Im so stupid to fall in love with him and giving him all i have-body and soul. After getting what he wanted,he just thrown me like a scratch. Im so foolish to fall in love with a married man who is 20 years older than me... if i could only...
    Garnet131 Garnet131 26-30 4 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    How do you move on? How do you switch from

    lovers to being good friends? I asked for a break up but he FLIPPED! We talked abt it via FB and he just FLIPPED! He was emotional and can't accept the fact that the texting will stop! Then how do we move on? I asked. He said just stay. He can't promise that things will be...
    dominic3 dominic3 41-45, F 1 Response May 12

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    Complicated Love Of My Life.

    I met this amazing man who is a bit younger than me 5 months ago. We are in the same workplace. He is single living with a gf and a daughter who is 5 years old and I am separated living with my 10 year old daughter. We fell inlove because one thing maybe, we were both desperate...
    busybabe2012 busybabe2012 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    I Am Having An Affair and Want to Keep It That Way

    I an having an affair with a married man and nnow he wants to leave his wife who is pregnant.  They have a 1 year old too.  But I am not sure I want to be with him long-term so don't want him to make a decision he will end up regretting.  Tere is a bit of...
    Lex23 Lex23 18-21 7 Responses Feb 1, 2009

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    I Just Cant Seem to Get Rid of My Married Lover

    We have been seeing each other for over a year now, and have attempted to end the relationship about a million times....and everytime he comes back! Seriously i dont know if i love him or pity him...he plays mind-games and im just one big softy to fall for all his lies everytime...
    MonaLisa73 MonaLisa73 36-40 12 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    Empty

    This is a continuation of what i have shared a month ago about having an affair with a married man. So I already started ignoring him bit by bit and I don't know why i feel like this. I feel so empty and lonely. There's no one I could talk to. I just hope things will turn out...
    sosweetforyou sosweetforyou 22-25 5 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Today my MM told me that he informed his wife

    that he had needs and because they "weren't being met at home", that he basically was asking permission to have an affair (even though he already is). She told him that as long as it doesn't take time away from the family, and he doesn't tell her who it is or the details that...
    SingleIn2014 SingleIn2014 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    Ok, so we have only had sex once.

    I kind of feel betrayed because when we met he was insistent upon his ring being from a surf shop and meaningless. He wooed me and asked me on numerous dates. I smelled something fishy and totally didn't realise until after I'd had car sex with him that he had a baby seat in the...
    amandapanda88 amandapanda88 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    The Mistress And So Much More....

    A friendship turned into an affair. We were smoke buddies and after several months of instant messages at work, it came out that I had a little crush on him. We kissed for weeks, then after months we had sex. I thought it would be something that would end quickly. He was...
    Souxie Souxie 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    Chronicles of a Mistress

      How do I start this story out or should I say how this did happen to me. A female of great sense of self worth,  of high respect from everyone, with a truly great up bringing, that has high morals and common sense, literally falling for a man, not just any man, a...
    msg4vonni msg4vonni 26-30 3 Responses Jun 7, 2009

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    I Really Do Care About Him But I'M Not Doing This Anymore

    I feel horrible but in so many ways it feels right. he has a wife and a 10 year old daughter. He is busy with work and with his family. I'm just on the side and he sees me when he can. He tells me he loves me and there is a part in my heart that thinks he is telling the truth...
    NicolesWay NicolesWay 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    He And I

    He is a 37 year old, successful, handsome, and married man. Thank God he has no children. He and I first started talking while he and his wife were separated. Our relationship has blossomed since then, and even they are back together we have stayed in touch. I'm not a love...
    KristinaQ KristinaQ 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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    Cheating With another married man

    I met this guy and work and we've been having an affair for about 6 months! When I met him he told me he was livin with a girl because his wife had put him out, and was going through a divorce. At that time I wasn't sleeping in the same room with my husband ok so don't judge me I...
    Lillie706 Lillie706 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2013

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    Its Not A Physical Affair..

    He was my first love, as a young fresh virgin from college, we met and dated for six good years. We later grew apart and got into other relationships. He was a gentleman, a rare breed of men who became a benchmark for every relationship that came my way. No man could measure up...
    Jeliza94 Jeliza94 26-30, F 1 Response May 7, 2013

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    There is a mutual attraction between us?

    Maybe..He is hot quick witted probably not as happy as he should be with his wife and I'm single - desire for some attention. We haven't done much crossing the line yet kissing. This day may come soon tho. He is very flirty and clever, knows how to play the game... I keep...
    Zbabe Zbabe 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    It's Bad

    I've never seen myself as someone who will date a married man. But apparently, you can't choose how you feel. I'm young, above average looking, smart and pretty successful at work. I'll be getting getting married to a man I love in a few months time. And here's my story of a bad...
    aurorale aurorale 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Once In A Lifetime....

    I fell head over heals for my MM, and the fabulous sex and his perfect anatomy { ;) }, coupled with our hunger to share, discuss, advise and plainly marvel at our deepening friendship - helped none... From the start there was a spiritual like bond. It was crazy and compulsive...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 6 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    My First Time

    Yes I knew he was married and no I'm not a home wrecker. I had no intentions of falling for him,he is my boss. I've worked here for 5 yrs and the first 31/2 I couldn't stand him. His voice his looks just made me cringe,but he started chasing me around,I told him I was not...
    babyrott babyrott 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    Unthinkable

    I met him 11 months ago in a night club. I had gotten out of a 10 yr relationship and decided to use him for a night. I've never done anything like this before in my life so it was very exciting to be able to enjoy time with him and never speak again. After our fling I got up...
    privatepartner privatepartner 31-35, F Feb 2, 2012

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    Broken Hearted By My Lover...

    Well I been married for 30years I been having an affair for 22 years not steady but when ever we saw eachother we got together..alot of time lasped between us..then finally we started talking again after 13years..he's been in jail for that long..the last 2years we got close he...
    bebe511 bebe511 51-55 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    I am finding this hard

    as I can't really talk to anyone about my situation. About 4 weeks ago a guy at work gave me his number. I have liked this guy for nearly 2 years. I had been flirting with him a little (I am shy) and he was always happy to see me and chatted. Giving me his number came out of the...
    Daisydukes79 Daisydukes79 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    My Affair

    I am married he is married, we think we are in love, but neither of us want to leave our spouses. It started as a sexual thing and thought it would fizzle out, but we can't stop seeing each other, believe me we have tried.
    bubbleshappy bubbleshappy 51-55, F Nov 18, 2013

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    Anemones

    I looked out my window to find an anemone plant had bloomed. First one, now three, with about seven buds. The summer had been dry, I hadn’t watered enough, and the backyard had become overgrown, after a diligent spring planting. The variety are a dark pink, slightly lavender...
    skylarkascending skylarkascending 46-50 Sep 21, 2013

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    We connected at a business convention.

    I was crushed to find out he was married and just avoided him when I could until that night when we were drinking. We got very friendly and there was an unexpected spark. However, I thought it would just be a one nighter and that's it. To my surprise, nope. He wants to keep...
    kathleen05 kathleen05 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    How Do I End The Affair?

    I want to forget this affair ever happened.I want him erased from my memory.I was happy go lucky before him.Content.Had problems in my marriage, but not like these...I escaped from my problems into his arms, and yes, he was a wonderful friend with benefits.When we just met and...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 6 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    I am married too. After years of feeling

    neglected and resentful in my marriage, I set out to have some needs met and honestly, get some attention. But I had it in my head that I did not want a long term affair in which emotions would get involved. I had a few "flings" but then I met T. just over 3 weeks ago. T...
    newvome newvome 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    swagg2012 swagg2012 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    I know what I'm doing is totally wrong

    but I can't seem to help my feelings. At the minute I'm stuck between listening to my heart and my head. I know that this affair will probably not develop into anything more than it is but I can't help but stick around hoping it will. His wife knows about me and has contacted me...
    lostinlifeeeee lostinlifeeeee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    Affair Partner

    So a few weeks ago I broke it off with my affair partner. We are both married. We have since reunited, I know, I know. We both agreed to a compromise. Apparently rules and expectations should have been established from the beginning. He has made a huge effort and turn around. I...
    Beautifulnbroken Beautifulnbroken 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    It's Getting Harder

    I've been seeing my mm for about 4 month now. Ever since his wife started questioning him he has backed off but is now questioning me. I have tried ending it with him but he did not make it easy and of coarse I didn't go through with it. Some days I'm perfectly fine and other...
    Isa1 Isa1 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Not only do I love one married man, I'm in love with two and having very deep feelings for a third. I just need to find a man who is single and wants to be with me for me. But it...
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    Well hi I'm not sure how many people will read this but jut thought I would share. If you are in a relationship with a married man its probably a bad idea. It's taboo and against...
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