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I Am Having An Affiar With a Married Man

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    I Really Do Care About Him But I'M Not Doing This Anymore - I feel horrible but in so many ways it feels right. he has a wife and a 10 year old daughter. He is busy with work and...
    NicolesWay NicolesWay 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    I Am Having An Affair With A Married Man... Not! - How can you look at yourself in the mirror and think of yourself as anything but a stupid, completely ridiculous...
    lostsoulinlife lostsoulinlife 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    How Do I End The Affair? - I want to forget this affair ever happened.I want him erased from my memory.I was happy go lucky before him.Content.Had problems in my marriage, but not...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 7 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    *update* London based Research... Are You Interested? - Following my previous posts about research regarding the other woman I am now conducting a quick survey which i would be...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jun 14, 2012

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    He And I - He is a 37 year old, successful, handsome, and married man. Thank God he has no children. He and I first started talking while he and his wife were separated. Our...
    KristinaQ KristinaQ 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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    He Used Me - He is my boss...tempted me and used me. Im so stupid to fall in love with him and giving him all i have-body and soul. After getting what he wanted,he just thrown me...
    Garnet131 Garnet131 26-30 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    The Married Man Wants To Have A Child With Me .... - He wants a baby with me ...
    swagg2012 swagg2012 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    My First Time - Yes I knew he was married and no I'm not a home wrecker. I had no intentions of falling for him,he is my boss. I've worked here for 5 yrs and the first 31/2 I...
    babyrott babyrott 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    London based Research... Are You Interested? - NB: I am carrying out some UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jun 2, 2011

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    Not An Easy Road To Be On! - I was married and he was married and we were best friends. There was always an attraction between us but I never dreamt of ever crossing the line...
    Kiep Kiep 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    I Just Cant Seem to Get Rid of My Married Lover - We have been seeing each other for over a year now, and have attempted to end the relationship about a million times....and...
    MonaLisa73 MonaLisa73 36-40 12 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    I was young and dumb. He was older and very attractive. I fell in his game really fast. It seemed like all he had to do was snap his fingers and I was his. I fell in love. It felt...
    Beckyg91 Beckyg91 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 30

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    Complicated Love Of My Life. - I met this amazing man who is a bit younger than me 5 months ago. We are in the same workplace. He is single living with a gf and a daughter who is 5...
    busybabe2012 busybabe2012 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Broken Hearted By My Lover... - Well I been married for 30years I been having an affair for 22 years not steady but when ever we saw eachother we got together..alot of time lasped...
    bebe511 bebe511 51-55 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    My Affair - I am married he is married, we think we are in love, but neither of us want to leave our spouses. It started as a sexual thing and thought it would fizzle out, but we...
    bubbleshappy bubbleshappy 51-55, F Nov 18, 2013

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    Chronicles of a Mistress -   How do I start this story out or should I say how this did happen to me. A female of great sense of self worth,  of high respect from...
    msg4vonni msg4vonni 26-30 2 Responses Jun 7, 2009

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    Different Elements!!!!!!! - Ive been having an affair with a married man for 9mnths he makes me so happy an the sex is very great we can talk about anything and everything but at...
    Konvict21 Konvict21 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2012

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    We connected at a business convention. I was crushed to find out he was married and just avoided him when I could until that night when we were drinking. We got very friendly and...
    kathleen05 kathleen05 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Unthinkable - I met him 11 months ago in a night club. I had gotten out of a 10 yr relationship and decided to use him for a night. I've never done anything like this before in...
    privatepartner privatepartner 31-35, F Feb 2, 2012

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    I Am Having An Affair and Want to Keep It That Way - I an having an affair with a married man and nnow he wants to leave his wife who is pregnant.  They have a 1 year old...
    Lex23 Lex23 18-21 7 Responses Feb 1, 2009

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    I Know I'm Wrong But Can't Stop -  I am having an affair and don't want to stop . He's married , I'm not . I've been married and have had an affair while I was married . This...
    Angel1967 Angel1967 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    Once In A Lifetime.... - I fell head over heals for my MM, and the fabulous sex and his perfect anatomy { ;) }, coupled with our hunger to share, discuss, advise and plainly...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 6 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I am married too. After years of feeling neglected and resentful in my marriage, I set out to have some needs met and honestly, get some attention. But I had it in my head that I...
    newvome newvome 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Cheating With another married man - I met this guy and work and we've been having an affair for about 6 months! When I met him he told me he was livin with a girl because his wife...
    Lillie706 Lillie706 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2013

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    Once In A Lifetime.... - I fell head over heals for my MM, and the fabulous sex and his perfect anatomy { ;) }, coupled with our hunger to share, discuss, advise and plainly...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 4 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I am a 16 year old girl. I don't know how or why I have gotten so sucked in to this toxic relationship I currently have with a married man- twice my age. (It's legal in my state...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 29

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    It's Getting Harder - I've been seeing my mm for about 4 month now. Ever since his wife started questioning him he has backed off but is now questioning me. I have tried ending it...
    Isa1 Isa1 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    I Miss All Of Him... - I met a wonderful, caring and thoughtful, sexy man.  I knew he was married, but we started off as just friends(work at same place), which lead to alot...
    jaklexboy7 jaklexboy7 46-50 5 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Torn -  I am having an affair with a married man.  The words are hard for me to say because to be honest, thats not something I ever saw myself doing.  In my...
    hopefull44 hopefull44 26-30 5 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Its Not A Physical Affair.. - He was my first love, as a young fresh virgin from college, we met and dated for six good years. We later grew apart and got into other relationships...
    Jeliza94 Jeliza94 26-30, F 2 Responses May 7, 2013

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    The Mistress And So Much More.... - A friendship turned into an affair. We were smoke buddies and after several months of instant messages at work, it came out that I had a little...
    Souxie Souxie 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    Should I?..... - Should i continue my relationship with my bf if i'm already cheating on him with two other men, before he's even got round to proposing. i do love him, but the sex...
    sexyannie sexyannie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    Empty - This is a continuation of what i have shared a month ago about having an affair with a married man. So I already started ignoring him bit by bit and I don't know why i feel...
    sosweetforyou sosweetforyou 22-25 5 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Anemones - I looked out my window to find an anemone plant had bloomed. First one, now three, with about seven buds. The summer had been dry, I hadn’t watered enough, and the...
    skylarkascending skylarkascending 46-50 Sep 21, 2013

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    So Stupid. - i keep hooking up wid married men and keep getting hurted, but i just cant keep myself from falling wid ds jerks......
    imddevil imddevil 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2010

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    Torn In Two - It hurts! I'm married as well. We are all friends. My husband and I are nothing alike. We never see eye to eye. We don't fight, we are just different. Neither...
    headormyheart headormyheart 31-35 1 Response Mar 28, 2012

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    It's Bad - I've never seen myself as someone who will date a married man. But apparently, you can't choose how you feel. I'm young, above average looking, smart and pretty...
    aurorale aurorale 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Hi well it's 2years and 2 months now. we had an affair for a year and then we stopped it, we made a point of it not having any contact. and all of a sudden we started to talk again...
    Dimpels1984 Dimpels1984 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    We Are Both Married, But This Works. - There's something very comfortable about having an affair with a true friend. I've known my MM for over 30 years, we (my husband, him and me...
    GT4me GT4me 51-55 16 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I realize I have no friends on here or many in real life due to my own issues. I've always been a loner and very introverted. I am seeing a married man who I adore very much and...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I had an affair with a Married Man. Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Ending my relationship With a married man. Feel like I'm getting my life back, never knew he was married until 2 years in . I was in love and stupid by then. I have a strong...
    charlotte61 charlotte61 51-55, F Apr 5