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I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

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    I don't feel important to him at all anymore.

    Last week I found him on a dating website because I told him we were done Saturday night but we made up Sunday. I found him there on Tuesday and he said he activated it Saturday night. So the MINUTE I am gone he goes back online to try to find a new girl. This isn't the first...
    violetskynoise violetskynoise 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Hello, My name is Nicole,

    i have been a psychic since i was 15 years old, i have been helping people with there love lifes, finance’s, Jobs, and just being there for there everyday coaching, a lil about me that you should know … i always give the 100% truth no sugar coating at all, i dont like to...
    psychicnicole psychicnicole 26-30, F Jul 22

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    Frustrated Sigh

    After another ***** session over how useless my boyfriend can be, my dad phrased it perfectly- if he went on a camping trip and got stranded with an esky full of meat, bread and fluids, all you would find weeks later, is a dead body next to it because he couldn't figure out how...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    My bf wants a prenup

    when we get married ....what should I think?
    mamapeaches mamapeaches 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    i have 17 years oldi am a highschool student

    and i study hard to go to medical school after bacwell this year a really nice guy in my class became my friend we stayed the whole day together but after a couple monthsi told him that i love him he said i like you but give me a chance to love you i said okaywell this this my...
    illusion97 illusion97 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    Boyfriend's Bestfriend And His Girlfriend.....

    Alright so this is going to be a bit of a long story so i will try to keep it as short as i can. My name is Bee and I have been dating my boyfriend Marley for a little over a year now, for the first few months of our relationship things were good the only thing that became a...
    Beezybee17 Beezybee17 18-21 2 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    I NEED ADVICE. PLEASE READ.

    Ok so here's the thing. I have a boyfriend and I love him. I mean he's caring, sweet, treats me well. And gosh he's gorgeous. None of that is the problem. It seems that his priorities are screwed up. Like right now his whole world is revolving around getting into this frat...
    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend fight like any couple.

    But recently he has threatened to hit me and he always calls me extremely bad words. I always stay with him cuz I just love him too much but I don't know what to do anymore.
    br1ttanymarie br1ttanymarie 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2014

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    shauna571 shauna571 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    pandajenn pandajenn 16-17, F Jun 9

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    Today I Decided to Move On..

     Yesterday i posted a story about my confusion and frustration on my boyfriend issues and i realized that when it comes to relationships i seem to make a lot of bad decisions, i almost always use my heart and not my logic but in psycology i learned that your emotions can be...
    Shanta9999 Shanta9999 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    Am I Being a Bad Girlfriend?

    ok so i have been going out with this guy for a year now and about 2 weeks ago i found out that hes separated!!!! not divorced like i have believed the entire time...i knew he had a very rough break up with his wife...she cheated on him got pregnant had an abortion and this was...
    rinn88 rinn88 18-21 9 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    so my soon to be boyfriend ( we've been talking

    for a while ) decided he's gonna get mad at me for signing up for a pageant. he thinks I'm doing it to have guys look at me. and I'm not. I'm doing it because I love being in poofy dresses. it's like a thing I love 😍😍 and he's all mad and decides to say okay I hope your...
    ashleympressler ashleympressler 16-17, F 12 Responses May 17, 2014

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    Can someone help me. My boyfriend is getting

    mad at me because i hate furries. He says i am judgmental to people. He said "Why don't just hate the whole ****** world. because you're already half way there."
    lastendless lastendless 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    solcorona09 solcorona09 16-17, F Jul 4

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    Judyccaa Judyccaa 26-30, F Jun 7

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    So Confused..

    Okay, Well, I do have a wonderful, loving, funny boyfriend...Well, sometimes. He will go days without talking to me, and sometimes he will talk to me like we aren't even dating & then other times he'll act like an amazing boyfriend would. It's so confusing, to me.. If he does...
    Bullet1999 Bullet1999 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    My boo is upset. I wish I could be with him

    right now to help him, but for now I can only text him. I can only try and make him happy and give him advice. He's having boy troubles, his boyfriend isn't texting him back and he's all upset over it. He also said "He just usually answers straight away with a rude message...
    xItsChelsx xItsChelsx 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    My boyfriend thinks there always has to be an

    "Us." Is it bad that I don't agree? I'm losing my sanity because there's never any "me time." He sees it as me pushing him away and his clinginess is becoming worse than ever. Sometimes I just wanna go to the mall alone, or something else on my own. But he sees it as me...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating

    for just about 3 years in October, I'm finding that I see him more as a best friend then a lover,it's been about a month and a half since we were last intimate. I know that I love him. We're taking a vacation together to hopefully see if that "spark" is still there. I hope it...
    asharma23 asharma23 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    It may seem small and stupid to most

    but its something I need to say and (maybe get help). My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile and I am now pregnant. I got scarry news that I got an infection that could kill the baby is not taken care of. The only thing I wanted was for my boyfriend to stay home with...
    BleedSick BleedSick 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    So my boyfriend and I have been dating

    for over four months, we fight constantly over text but the second we call over Skype and hear each other's voices we both stop fighting and just talk through it. He never can hang out that's usually why we fight. It's not even that he can't it's that he won't. We haven't hung...
    blondebarbiexxx blondebarbiexxx 16-17, F 1 Response May 26

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    i have been talking to this guy

    and he wants to kiss me and i want to kiss him. the only problem is i told my friends i didnt like him and they told me to stay away from him because he is a player but i didnt and i talk to him all the time. i want to tell my friend but i feel like they will hate me and judge...
    sara346 sara346 16-17, F May 25

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    Getting slapped, your hair pulled,

    bruised, and spat on during sex: cool. Getting them during a fight: not cool.
    LoneDolll LoneDolll 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am currently a High School student in my

    final year at school. I started dating my boyfriend at the end of last year. It’s my first real relationship. Due to this being my final year at school i have become very anxious, stressed and a little depressed. which is affecting my moods and relationships. I don’t...
    LadyPayne LadyPayne 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I feel like I'm his toy.

    He asked me to quit my job (as a successful adult model) for him; I did. He asks me to drop everything and travel with him, and I do. Now he's paying my bills while demanding that I find a new career, but there's nothing that will pay me a decent wage and also allow me to take...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    Okay so I've always been a skinny girl my whole

    life. When I was 14, I was 117 pounds. Then when I got to 16 I've gained 27 pounds and developed curves. I was 144 pounds. I'm 5'4. I love my curves but I thought they were too big so yeah whatever. Then a couple of months ago which was like in January I started losing weight...
    SlimChick101 SlimChick101 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 17

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    My boyfriend hates my parents

    and my parents hate my boyfriend. I love him to death but I love my family to death too. What do I do?
    emyay emyay 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Hello, I really have been struggling with

    myself lately, and my 'boyfriend' of 4 months is really getting on my nerves. I don't think he really cares about me, and I've told myself that I shouldn't care about what he thinks any longer, because I just have this gut feeling that he doesn't care, but I care. I care a lot...
    redveIvet redveIvet 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    My relationship with my bf has gone from

    amazing to miserable. I feel so lonely, stuck and unwanted with him. But I had someone else enter my life who fills that void of me being lonely and makes me feel alive again and wanted. I feel conflicted of course I would never physically cheat but I know I'm emotionally...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    . I've been seeing this guy

    for a year as of today. We've had our ups ad downs due to my 12 yr olds behavior issues. Well now my 4 yr old is starting to be mean towards him. I found out a few weeks ago that my kids dad has told them they do not have to like my bf ect. Hard to tell what else he has told...
    happymom2 happymom2 31-35, F Jun 20

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    Confussed!!!

    i want to become a mum, however my boyfriend does not want a baby yet. i can't help but think we shouldn't be together then. all i can think about is have a baby and how great it will be. i no i am young but i feel like it is what i am meant to be!!!
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    I am in a long distance relationship

    and my boyfriend and I have tried to see each other but we are mostly busy. In February it was my birthday so he said he would come to see me. So I am waiting at the train station for him and he texts me that he can't come that the train was delayed so he can't make it. no happy...
    lolpologone lolpologone 16-17, F Apr 7

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    Looking For Some Advice

    I have been seeing this guy, Ryan, for over a month now and I have been having some problems with him. It all started within two weeks of seeing one another. We were doing really good up and we hung out every single day. Well he is good friends with my brother and they were...
    IshouLdbeOVEryoU IshouLdbeOVEryoU 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    Okay, so I am seriously craving some sexual

    contact...but not from my boyfriend. He gets really annoying and immature. Sometimes I don't want to be with him but it's only been a month and I don't really like it. I like the fact of a boyfriend. Not the boyfriend himself. It's seriously not him it's me. I'd way rather have...
    Shannyo Shannyo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    My Boyfriend Refers To Me As "One Of The Guys?!"

    I was hanging out with my boyfriend and he said "I don't think of you as a girl. I think of you as one of the guys." Could this be why he hasn't kissed me yet? Or hasn't been very romantic? It's starting to bother me..am I worrying to much? I really love him. I don't want him to...
    skinnyjeansandbandmerch skinnyjeansandbandmerch 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    OK so I've been seeing this guy

    for 9 months. We tell each other we love you. Well last night he sent me a text that said I kinda want to be single yo but u r sweet to me so that would be stupid. So I told him be single then. Today I text him and asked we were OK or if he needed time. He said I'm not the...
    happymom2 happymom2 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Sweet Sorrow Is Basically Relationships.

    USE YOUR BRAIN Generally speaking, people are concerned with their own welfare. You cannot really know whether their advice is meant for your benefit – or for themselves. You may find some who appear to want to help you but actually have other intentions and others who...
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 7, 2012

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    Boyfriend Problems

    i am recently having problems with my boyfriend. we have only been together 9 months and i am afraid that we are growing apart. he tells me that he doesn't feel that 'spark' anymore and i dont know what to do about it. i try to talk to him, but i'm not good at talking so it takes...
    rebelwitacuz rebelwitacuz 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    my boyfriend and I have been together a year

    and it's starting to be a mess. he has done two big things for me and he thinks I haven't for him. I have sacrificed so much for him but he doesn't see that. today we got into a argument and he lives away like an hour and he told me if I loved him then I'll go see him. I told...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26

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    Confused! My Boyfriends Love For Me Faded....i Dont Know What to Do...

    I had my boyfriend for couple of months already but we have not meet each others personally yet until now. We meet by irc chat online. At first, I just joined the ride and not really serious of the relationship I had with him, because who would ever thought that it would work...
    princess2003 princess2003 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    Trapped!!!! And Confused!!!

    I feel like i am stuck, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit however recently things are going from bad to worse and we have started arguing a lot. he makes me feel so angry with him as he is always doing stupid things and things he says. he can't seem to think...
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    I'm Pushing Him Away

    none of this will make any sense if I don't explain the beginning of my 3 year long relationship. Everything started out fine. We were both in high school he was a Sr. and I was a JR. for the first 2 month we saw each other once or twice a week, when ever he felt like he wanted...
    wonderstruck93 wonderstruck93 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2012

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    Another guy kissed me.

    I tried to talk it out with my boyfriend and he tried to kill himself. All of his friends text me and cussed me. I know letting him kiss me was wrong but now my feelings are tied up in two guys.. Help please
    lizaboo lizaboo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm dying 😞 last week I've found out

    that my boyfriend that I thought was all I ever wanted was waiting at the hospital for another woman to have his baby. 5 months he never said a word to me. He says all all he wants its me but I can't believe him and my heart aches so much
    amadoradosurf amadoradosurf 31-35, F Jun 9

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    OK so I have two kids 12

    and 4. My bf loves my 4 year old. He recently told me he doesn't like my son, he only puts up with for me. He is good to him never mean. My son is lazy, disrespectful and out of hand. He is 12 but acts as if he is 4. I don't know what to do with this situation. My son is...
    happymom2 happymom2 31-35, F 1 Response May 21

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