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I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 516 People

    Sweet Sorrow Is Basically Relationships.

    USE YOUR BRAIN Generally speaking, people are concerned with their own welfare. You cannot really know whether their advice is meant for your benefit – or for themselves. You may find some who appear to want to help you but actually have other intentions and others who...
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 7, 2012

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    My boyfriend is 4 years younger

    than me. I want to have kids in a few years, but I don't think he shares the same goal. he's still somewhat immature & I'm slowly falling out of love with him. We haven't had sex (not for lack of trying) throughout our 2 years together & it's taking it's toll on our relationship...
    gardenbeauty gardenbeauty 22-25, F Aug 4

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    My sister knew him first

    and told me we were perfect for each other. Now, after almost two years of us as a couple, she uses every opportunity to tell stories about the times they hung out together before me. Or all the girls he thinks were hot. He's a good guy, but I can't stand being put into second...
    Anonym57 Anonym57 26-30, F Oct 10

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    Unsure Of Intentions (Too Unemotinal & Anger-Prone?)

    I've been dating this guy for about 7 years now. After year 2 he moved away from me, so we stayed in a long term relationship. However...I have found that connecting to him emotionally is very difficult (not due to the LD issues but this was when we date originally too). I do...
    Job237 Job237 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    We planned a sushi date.

    He came home two hours late. And had eaten pizza.
    Anonym57 Anonym57 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 16

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    Tired...

    How would you respond when the one you've been dating for at least two years told you that they are no longer into the relationship? How would you respond if the other person stopped trying? How would you repond if you look at the direction that he's looking at and it happens...
    mtngo mtngo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    Should I stay or should I go?

    Am I stronger, or am I weak. My parents stayed together. I on the other hand am one of the first divorces in our family in a very long time. I am a very giving person and I tend to end up with people who take advantage... Here are my experiences where I thought about leaving...
    Anngelic Anngelic 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Me and my boyfriend fight like any couple.

    But recently he has threatened to hit me and he always calls me extremely bad words. I always stay with him cuz I just love him too much but I don't know what to do anymore.
    br1ttanymarie br1ttanymarie 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    Looking For Some Advice

    I have been seeing this guy, Ryan, for over a month now and I have been having some problems with him. It all started within two weeks of seeing one another. We were doing really good up and we hung out every single day. Well he is good friends with my brother and they were...
    IshouLdbeOVEryoU IshouLdbeOVEryoU 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    There's a couple guys

    that were interested in me. One of them is the guy that was dating my old friend. The other one was the guy I was friends on facebook. Anyway I kind of gave them the impression that I wasn't interested in both of them and I feel bad. I gave that impression because with one of...
    dboyd610 dboyd610 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 17

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    When I am around my boyfriend

    or I am talking to him.... I get super aggravated. But when I'm away from him or don't hear from him... I miss him. WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH ME?
    wehc wehc 26-30, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I find it weird that I seem to enjoy sex more

    than him, I love him but he can't seem to keep up with me. I want someone who wants me just as much as I want them. I love him, but he doesn't satisfy me enough in bed. I want him more than once a day, and he seems to think this is a bad thing, how is it bad I wanna blow him...
    Taylorgangbby Taylorgangbby 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    So I been with my boyfriend

    for 6 month now this is the problem he's really cute and funny romantic sometime but he just doesn't text me like he use to I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore I feel like he using me my friend thinks he using me 2 bc all he ever talks about with me is nude,sex that he...
    thatgurl6 thatgurl6 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Okay, so I am seriously craving some sexual

    contact...but not from my boyfriend. He gets really annoying and immature. Sometimes I don't want to be with him but it's only been a month and I don't really like it. I like the fact of a boyfriend. Not the boyfriend himself. It's seriously not him it's me. I'd way rather have...
    Shannyo Shannyo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I Love Him But This Is Killing Me! :(

    Okay so i've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months now, (11 months unofficialy) he's going to uni at the end of next month but i dont want to talk about that for various reasons :'( But yeah, we're trying to see eachother as much as possible but its so difficult to make plans...
    abb246 abb246 16-17 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Is it okay that my boyfriends password (which

    he just created) for some website is his ex girlfriends name? He was showing me something and I was just looking down when he typed it and noticed it was her name...
    tpaskew1 tpaskew1 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Filled With Hurt And Rage

    There are a lot of details I will have to leave out of my story, as to save time. Also, I apologize in advance if this sounds confusing and the story doesn't flow very well - just kind of pouring out thoughts. Growing up I had a great childhood and loving parents, lots of...
    skye1111 skye1111 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    My boyfriend thinks there always has to be an

    "Us." Is it bad that I don't agree? I'm losing my sanity because there's never any "me time." He sees it as me pushing him away and his clinginess is becoming worse than ever. Sometimes I just wanna go to the mall alone, or something else on my own. But he sees it as me...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    Frustrated Sigh

    After another ***** session over how useless my boyfriend can be, my dad phrased it perfectly- if he went on a camping trip and got stranded with an esky full of meat, bread and fluids, all you would find weeks later, is a dead body next to it because he couldn't figure out how...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    Am I Being a Bad Girlfriend?

    ok so i have been going out with this guy for a year now and about 2 weeks ago i found out that hes separated!!!! not divorced like i have believed the entire time...i knew he had a very rough break up with his wife...she cheated on him got pregnant had an abortion and this was...
    rinn88 rinn88 18-21 8 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    My boyfriend has kid to pay,

    has apartment to pay, has lots of bill and charges, he won't stop spending money and he expect me to share his house bill (we move in recently), I am not working currently because this is not my country, but he expect to marry me so I can start working ASAP, I doubt about we...
    formagerie formagerie 31-35, F Nov 8

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    I'm super insecure about my boyfriend

    and I's relationship. I'm 100% faithful to him and always have been and he says he has been too but for a while, I've felt insecure that he hasn't always been faithful. I'm not sure if I'm just crazy or what... I almost wish sometimes he'd come out and say he did cheat, because...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Today I Decided to Move On..

     Yesterday i posted a story about my confusion and frustration on my boyfriend issues and i realized that when it comes to relationships i seem to make a lot of bad decisions, i almost always use my heart and not my logic but in psycology i learned that your emotions can be...
    Shanta9999 Shanta9999 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    I always thought that

    if I felt undervalued I would end things. But I haven't. Anyone else struggling with standing up for yourself?
    Anonym57 Anonym57 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    My boyfriend despite dating fore over 9 months

    and having sex nearly everyday we are with each other during that time, has recently decided to become religious again. He grew up very religious. A few weeks ago he guilted me into going to church with him, ever since then I have felt a numbness towards him. Not all the time...
    Redwhiteandpinup Redwhiteandpinup 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm dating this guy and we've been together

    for 2 years now, we know everything about each other and I feel very comfortable around him and he makes me feel complete and he never does anything that makes me mad or sad and he cares about me a lot and he takes care of me BUT the problem is that he has anger issues and gets...
    cancergirl246 cancergirl246 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    My boyfriend always hides his phone

    and what he's doing on his phone. Most people would say take his phone and find out what he's doing but it's not that simple, he aaaalways has it or has it put away in a drawer or something. And secondly, I don't want to invade his privacy like that even if I do suspect...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I've been trying to be a good girlfriend lately

    but due to recent issues, it has been hard. I've been having a hard time these past few days and I've just wanted the attention and comfort from my boyfriend. I know he's got a lot on his hands with school and everything but even me just being near him while he's doing his...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    Annoyed, But Still Care

    We've been dating for two months. He is creative and intelligent. He just finished college. He's funny and fun to hang out with. We like spending time together, but we live 2 hours apart so we see each other when we can. We talk almost every day. My problem is that I don't want...
    CreativeChaos CreativeChaos 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Refers To Me As "One Of The Guys?!"

    I was hanging out with my boyfriend and he said "I don't think of you as a girl. I think of you as one of the guys." Could this be why he hasn't kissed me yet? Or hasn't been very romantic? It's starting to bother me..am I worrying to much? I really love him. I don't want him to...
    skinnyjeansandbandmerch skinnyjeansandbandmerch 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Trapped!!!! And Confused!!!

    I feel like i am stuck, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit however recently things are going from bad to worse and we have started arguing a lot. he makes me feel so angry with him as he is always doing stupid things and things he says. he can't seem to think...
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    So Confused..

    Okay, Well, I do have a wonderful, loving, funny boyfriend...Well, sometimes. He will go days without talking to me, and sometimes he will talk to me like we aren't even dating & then other times he'll act like an amazing boyfriend would. It's so confusing, to me.. If he does...
    Bullet1999 Bullet1999 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    My relationship with my bf has gone from

    amazing to miserable. I feel so lonely, stuck and unwanted with him. But I had someone else enter my life who fills that void of me being lonely and makes me feel alive again and wanted. I feel conflicted of course I would never physically cheat but I know I'm emotionally...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    I love my boyfriend. We've been together

    for over a year, but lately, we fight all the time. It's over stupid little things. He's very good to me though in general. My parents love him, we've been through a lot, I wouldn't want to lose him in my life. But sometimes I wonder if the feelings are still there. I've...
    AnxietyDepressionExhausted AnxietyDepressionExhausted 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    ADVICE PLEASE. My boyfriend

    and i have been on and off for almost 4 years now. Recently we have been in a really good place. We have had a tough relationship so i have a few trust issues. He lied to me about being a virging for over a year now. He always told me he was waiting for me and i was the love of...
    Coolari Coolari 16-17, F Oct 14

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    Confussed!!!

    i want to become a mum, however my boyfriend does not want a baby yet. i can't help but think we shouldn't be together then. all i can think about is have a baby and how great it will be. i no i am young but i feel like it is what i am meant to be!!!
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    so my soon to be boyfriend ( we've been talking

    for a while ) decided he's gonna get mad at me for signing up for a pageant. he thinks I'm doing it to have guys look at me. and I'm not. I'm doing it because I love being in poofy dresses. it's like a thing I love 😍😍 and he's all mad and decides to say okay I hope your...
    ashleympressler ashleympressler 13-15, F 12 Responses May 17

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    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    My boyfriend textes a bunch of girls saying

    they're beautiful. But today he was talking to this girl asking if she had a boyfriend and said that she was very beautiful. I tell him I don't like when he does this but he still does it. He says I get mad for no reason, advice?
    daniellelarson22 daniellelarson22 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating

    for just about 3 years in October, I'm finding that I see him more as a best friend then a lover,it's been about a month and a half since we were last intimate. I know that I love him. We're taking a vacation together to hopefully see if that "spark" is still there. I hope it...
    asharma23 asharma23 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Now you're all gonna say wow that's horrible

    or that I should dump him. But I can't I've known him for 5 years and then we started dating a year ago, he's my best friend and my boyfriend, but we've had issues we got months without seeing each other started having little conversations not because he doesn't love me but...
    sunshine2415 sunshine2415 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    my boyfriend is hanging out with this girl

    and he tells me there just friends but there always flirting with eachother and he says im paraoied i dont want them hanging out im afraid of losing him and im thinking there doing something behind my back what should i do
    tannilleking tannilleking 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 12

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    My boyfriend seems distant lately,

    like he speaks to me over text but when we go out together he barely even as much as makes eye contact, I do love him a lot yet he claims to have family issues. Is that a good enough excuse to ignore me? Am I being too needy and clingy?
    blissfulx blissfulx 18-21, F Aug 16

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    pelekhezhie pelekhezhie 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Boyfriend Problems

    i am recently having problems with my boyfriend. we have only been together 9 months and i am afraid that we are growing apart. he tells me that he doesn't feel that 'spark' anymore and i dont know what to do about it. i try to talk to him, but i'm not good at talking so it takes...
    rebelwitacuz rebelwitacuz 16-18, F 5 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    I NEED ADVICE. PLEASE READ.

    Ok so here's the thing. I have a boyfriend and I love him. I mean he's caring, sweet, treats me well. And gosh he's gorgeous. None of that is the problem. It seems that his priorities are screwed up. Like right now his whole world is revolving around getting into this frat...
    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 16

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    My boyfriend and I broke up in April

    but I still love him and we had planned to get back together in the future after we had sorted are own lives out (he is going into the army and I am going to university). He asked me to meet him today to talk and it was lovely and he told me that he wanted to get back together...
    dmarie1995 dmarie1995 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Confused! My Boyfriends Love For Me Faded....i Dont Know What to Do...

    I had my boyfriend for couple of months already but we have not meet each others personally yet until now. We meet by irc chat online. At first, I just joined the ride and not really serious of the relationship I had with him, because who would ever thought that it would work...
    princess2003 princess2003 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    My boo is upset. I wish I could be with him

    right now to help him, but for now I can only text him. I can only try and make him happy and give him advice. He's having boy troubles, his boyfriend isn't texting him back and he's all upset over it. He also said "He just usually answers straight away with a rude message...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    The Trouble With Naughtiness

    To most people, this may sound like I'm being selfish or unable to compromise and though that's probably true, I just need somewhere to talk about it. In a nut shell, one of my female friends came over for a drink two days ago. The last time we'd all gotten together for a...
    Meeoko Meeoko 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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