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I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

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    Me and my boyfriend fight like any couple.

    But recently he has threatened to hit me and he always calls me extremely bad words. I always stay with him cuz I just love him too much but I don't know what to do anymore.
    br1ttanymarie br1ttanymarie 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2014

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    When he is around me I can be in the moment

    and have fun. When he is gone, even for a few minutes, all I do is fester over all the things he's lost my trust over, all the ways he disrespected me as a friend (let alone a girlfriend), and everything he does that makes me angry, sad, or annoyed. Sometimes I wish he wouldn't...
    Anonym57 Anonym57 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    I feel like he doesn't care about anything I say

    and that he ignores me but I'm not sure if it's just me i tell how I feel and he says he does care and he does love me yet he doesn't show it ... And he's always cocky towards me
    michellesydney michellesydney 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Okay, so I am seriously craving some sexual

    contact...but not from my boyfriend. He gets really annoying and immature. Sometimes I don't want to be with him but it's only been a month and I don't really like it. I like the fact of a boyfriend. Not the boyfriend himself. It's seriously not him it's me. I'd way rather have...
    Shannyo Shannyo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    I Love Him But This Is Killing Me! :(

    Okay so i've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months now, (11 months unofficialy) he's going to uni at the end of next month but i dont want to talk about that for various reasons :'( But yeah, we're trying to see eachother as much as possible but its so difficult to make plans...
    abb246 abb246 16-17 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Boyfriend's Bestfriend And His Girlfriend.....

    Alright so this is going to be a bit of a long story so i will try to keep it as short as i can. My name is Bee and I have been dating my boyfriend Marley for a little over a year now, for the first few months of our relationship things were good the only thing that became a...
    Beezybee17 Beezybee17 18-21 2 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    I just need someone to talk to

    and get their opinion on my problems please help me...
    rhianon22 rhianon22 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    My relationship with my bf has gone from

    amazing to miserable. I feel so lonely, stuck and unwanted with him. But I had someone else enter my life who fills that void of me being lonely and makes me feel alive again and wanted. I feel conflicted of course I would never physically cheat but I know I'm emotionally...
    Nottheaveragegirl Nottheaveragegirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    My boyfriend has ring me

    or spoken too me for a week will he speak to me back.. Someone please help.. :-/
    heartbroken1991 heartbroken1991 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    Confused! My Boyfriends Love For Me Faded....i Dont Know What to Do...

    I had my boyfriend for couple of months already but we have not meet each others personally yet until now. We meet by irc chat online. At first, I just joined the ride and not really serious of the relationship I had with him, because who would ever thought that it would work...
    princess2003 princess2003 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    Confussed!!!

    i want to become a mum, however my boyfriend does not want a baby yet. i can't help but think we shouldn't be together then. all i can think about is have a baby and how great it will be. i no i am young but i feel like it is what i am meant to be!!!
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    My boyfriend makes me sad.

    It's always like a roller coaster. It's so confusing. today he once again dropped everything for his (younger) brother and cigars (gross). He doesn't even smoke. and he didn't call me back like he said after he canceled our dinner plans like it was nothing. I guess we won't see...
    LittleBabyAnimals LittleBabyAnimals 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    I NEED ADVICE. PLEASE READ.

    Ok so here's the thing. I have a boyfriend and I love him. I mean he's caring, sweet, treats me well. And gosh he's gorgeous. None of that is the problem. It seems that his priorities are screwed up. Like right now his whole world is revolving around getting into this frat...
    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Am I Being a Bad Girlfriend?

    ok so i have been going out with this guy for a year now and about 2 weeks ago i found out that hes separated!!!! not divorced like i have believed the entire time...i knew he had a very rough break up with his wife...she cheated on him got pregnant had an abortion and this was...
    rinn88 rinn88 18-21 9 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    My boyfriend always hides his phone

    and what he's doing on his phone. Most people would say take his phone and find out what he's doing but it's not that simple, he aaaalways has it or has it put away in a drawer or something. And secondly, I don't want to invade his privacy like that even if I do suspect...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2014

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    Boyfriend Problems

    i am recently having problems with my boyfriend. we have only been together 9 months and i am afraid that we are growing apart. he tells me that he doesn't feel that 'spark' anymore and i dont know what to do about it. i try to talk to him, but i'm not good at talking so it takes...
    rebelwitacuz rebelwitacuz 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    My boyfriend has kid to pay,

    has apartment to pay, has lots of bill and charges, he won't stop spending money and he expect me to share his house bill (we move in recently), I am not working currently because this is not my country, but he expect to marry me so I can start working ASAP, I doubt about we...
    formagerie formagerie 31-35, F Nov 8, 2014

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    Filled With Hurt And Rage

    There are a lot of details I will have to leave out of my story, as to save time. Also, I apologize in advance if this sounds confusing and the story doesn't flow very well - just kind of pouring out thoughts. Growing up I had a great childhood and loving parents, lots of...
    skye1111 skye1111 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    I have just split up with my bf today

    and changed my number, dose anyone know if he will get in-touch not that I wanna see him again just the fact he gone.. PlZ can someone help thanks
    heartbroken1991 heartbroken1991 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Trapped!!!! And Confused!!!

    I feel like i am stuck, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit however recently things are going from bad to worse and we have started arguing a lot. he makes me feel so angry with him as he is always doing stupid things and things he says. he can't seem to think...
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F Dec 14, 2014

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    so my soon to be boyfriend ( we've been talking

    for a while ) decided he's gonna get mad at me for signing up for a pageant. he thinks I'm doing it to have guys look at me. and I'm not. I'm doing it because I love being in poofy dresses. it's like a thing I love 😍😍 and he's all mad and decides to say okay I hope your...
    ashleympressler ashleympressler 13-15, F 12 Responses May 17, 2014

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    Welp, can't say I didn't see it coming.

    He canceled our trip to go see friends in a beautiful little coastal town down south. It wasn't due to work conflicts or any sort of emergency; he just decided last-minute that he'd prefer to attend a conference in our neck of the woods. A conference I can't attend with him...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    I feel like I'm his toy.

    He asked me to quit my job (as a successful adult model) for him; I did. He asks me to drop everything and travel with him, and I do. Now he's paying my bills while demanding that I find a new career, but there's nothing that will pay me a decent wage and also allow me to take...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    So Confused..

    Okay, Well, I do have a wonderful, loving, funny boyfriend...Well, sometimes. He will go days without talking to me, and sometimes he will talk to me like we aren't even dating & then other times he'll act like an amazing boyfriend would. It's so confusing, to me.. If he does...
    Bullet1999 Bullet1999 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    I don't know what to do anymore.

    I feel like my boyfriend doesn't respect me or take me seriously. There are a couple of factors to take into account: he is substantially younger than me and I am his first real girlfriend. Because of those reasons I feel I have been very patient. The problem is a reoccurring...
    MessJess MessJess 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F Nov 19, 2014

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    We're in the middle of a (not

    even remotely heated) debate about the cost of raising children with and without stay-at-home moms - neither of us have kids, so it's not exactly a hot button - and suddenly he turns on a Youtube clip. About nuclear war. While I'm in the MIDDLE of a sentence. Seriously, just...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    My boyfriend is the sweetest most romantic

    person sometimes. he says things like I could have a future with you, and I think you're perfect for me, and I had a dream we got married and got a house together (despite the fact he never intended to get married), but when he gets into a slump he just shuts out the world...
    KC94 KC94 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My boyfriend thinks there always has to be an

    "Us." Is it bad that I don't agree? I'm losing my sanity because there's never any "me time." He sees it as me pushing him away and his clinginess is becoming worse than ever. Sometimes I just wanna go to the mall alone, or something else on my own. But he sees it as me...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Sweet Sorrow Is Basically Relationships.

    USE YOUR BRAIN Generally speaking, people are concerned with their own welfare. You cannot really know whether their advice is meant for your benefit – or for themselves. You may find some who appear to want to help you but actually have other intentions and others who...
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 7, 2012

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    Frustrated Sigh

    After another ***** session over how useless my boyfriend can be, my dad phrased it perfectly- if he went on a camping trip and got stranded with an esky full of meat, bread and fluids, all you would find weeks later, is a dead body next to it because he couldn't figure out how...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    My boyfriend plays computer games all the time

    I'm always his last priority he takes me for granted and whenever I'm doing stuff on my own he tells me to hurry home. He started playing this much two weeks ago he told me yesterday that I will adjust to this but no f*cking way I'm doing that. I love him but I hate this and I...
    niraken niraken 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    Where to start from, I have always been someone

    who lacked self-confidence. I think it got worse as I started dating, I guess I tend to go for the wrong type of guys sometimes. Most of them just wanted me for my body and pressured me to go further. Or constantly cheated on me and they would call me the wrong name. This made...
    lolpologone lolpologone 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    undeadsuperhero undeadsuperhero 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Unsure Of Intentions (Too Unemotinal & Anger-Prone?)

    I've been dating this guy for about 7 years now. After year 2 he moved away from me, so we stayed in a long term relationship. However...I have found that connecting to him emotionally is very difficult (not due to the LD issues but this was when we date originally too). I do...
    Job237 Job237 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    He was my life my every concern

    but now its always do this go do that he is so demanding its getting to be too much.
    Miranda538 Miranda538 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Today I Decided to Move On..

     Yesterday i posted a story about my confusion and frustration on my boyfriend issues and i realized that when it comes to relationships i seem to make a lot of bad decisions, i almost always use my heart and not my logic but in psycology i learned that your emotions can be...
    Shanta9999 Shanta9999 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    Supergirl2015 Supergirl2015 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    I love my him, but I don't know

    if we can build a future together.. He listens to his mom for everything when i believe she doesn't even do anything much to help and support him.
    gnycnn gnycnn 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me

    until I'm 18. I have a boyfriend who is afraid of loving me,...
    spiteyourface spiteyourface 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Looking For Some Advice

    I have been seeing this guy, Ryan, for over a month now and I have been having some problems with him. It all started within two weeks of seeing one another. We were doing really good up and we hung out every single day. Well he is good friends with my brother and they were...
    IshouLdbeOVEryoU IshouLdbeOVEryoU 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    OK so I've been seeing this guy

    for 9 months. We tell each other we love you. Well last night he sent me a text that said I kinda want to be single yo but u r sweet to me so that would be stupid. So I told him be single then. Today I text him and asked we were OK or if he needed time. He said I'm not the...
    happymom2 happymom2 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Please can I have people advice,

    will my r-ship work If me And my bf only see each twice a week :-/.. Or is there no point holding on anymore:-(
    heartbroken1991 heartbroken1991 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    When I am around my boyfriend

    or I am talking to him.... I get super aggravated. But when I'm away from him or don't hear from him... I miss him. WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH ME?
    wehc wehc 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2014

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    My Boyfriend Refers To Me As "One Of The Guys?!"

    I was hanging out with my boyfriend and he said "I don't think of you as a girl. I think of you as one of the guys." Could this be why he hasn't kissed me yet? Or hasn't been very romantic? It's starting to bother me..am I worrying to much? I r