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I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

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    I have known my boyfriend

    for about four years. In the first 3 tears and the start of the fourth, i had no romantic interest in him. After about 3 years and 3 months, and if course after puberty had hit him and he waa completely changed, i started catching feelings for him and in mo time i was madly in...
    Faten99 Faten99 16-17, F Aug 14, 2015

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    How can you tell the difference between

    if you are bringing insecurities from your past relationship into your knew one vs being smarter in your current relationship? My problem is that I'm kind of paranoid my boyfriend will have a relationship with someone else while he is seeing me. In a past relationship that...
    Morrgin Morrgin 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2015

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    My heart is wavering on

    whether I want to continue to be with my partner. I have been with him 7 years and a few months. We lived together for about 4 years. He has proposed to me several time, which I rejected due to college. I didn't want to be more distracted from school. For the past 2 years, he...
    MiBellanna MiBellanna 22-25, F Dec 30, 2015

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    Ok so my ex boyfriend gave me 3 bruises

    and 5 scratches during school and one of the scratches might might scar also he said to me that if he was bleeding he would cover me in his blood so I broke up with him and hour later and now I have to make a decision of to date him again or just be friends I don't know what to...
    Bluesparkles Bluesparkles 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Trapped!!!! And Confused!!!

    I feel like i am stuck, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit however recently things are going from bad to worse and we have started arguing a lot. he makes me feel so angry with him as he is always doing stupid things and things he says. he can't seem to think...
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    I NEED ADVICE. PLEASE READ.

    Ok so here's the thing. I have a boyfriend and I love him. I mean he's caring, sweet, treats me well. And gosh he's gorgeous. None of that is the problem. It seems that his priorities are screwed up. Like right now his whole world is revolving around getting into this frat...
    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    My boyfriend thinks there always has to be an

    "Us." Is it bad that I don't agree? I'm losing my sanity because there's never any "me time." He sees it as me pushing him away and his clinginess is becoming worse than ever. Sometimes I just wanna go to the mall alone, or something else on my own. But he sees it as me...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating

    for just about 3 years in October, I'm finding that I see him more as a best friend then a lover,it's been about a month and a half since we were last intimate. I know that I love him. We're taking a vacation together to hopefully see if that "spark" is still there. I hope it...
    asharma23 asharma23 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    I was strong and independent once

    and I'll be happy to do it again so if you want to leave go ahead
    secretsbyr secretsbyr 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2015

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    I've been with boyfriend

    for 4 years and I feel like the relationship is dimming down slowly but it feels quick, we have a son and we hardly seem to have time together and when we do we don't seem too gullible. He enjoys to go out and do activities with friends and he works hard while I stay home and...
    catanddogperson123 catanddogperson123 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2015

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    Confused! My Boyfriends Love For Me Faded....i Dont Know What to Do...

    I had my boyfriend for couple of months already but we have not meet each others personally yet until now. We meet by irc chat online. At first, I just joined the ride and not really serious of the relationship I had with him, because who would ever thought that it would work...
    princess2003 princess2003 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    I just hate when I do something wrong

    and no one will talk to me to forgive me or aneything like that it sucks
    TrustingJungle TrustingJungle 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Anonym57 Anonym57 26-30, F Aug 1, 2015

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    i don't know if this actually fits in this

    group... I love my boyfriend and he's great, but i HATE his family. Now I think we are going to take the next step and this issue with them is stressing me out. They are rude, disorganized and completely egocentric. He is very close to them and is blind to everything they do...
    alessandraRV alessandraRV 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2015

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    My Boyfriend Refers To Me As "One Of The Guys?!"

    I was hanging out with my boyfriend and he said "I don't think of you as a girl. I think of you as one of the guys." Could this be why he hasn't kissed me yet? Or hasn't been very romantic? It's starting to bother me..am I worrying to much? I really love him. I don't want him to...
    skinnyjeansandbandmerch skinnyjeansandbandmerch 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I love my him, but I don't know

    if we can build a future together.. He listens to his mom for everything when i believe she doesn't even do anything much to help and support him.
    gnycnn gnycnn 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I just recently started dating my ex boyfriend

    again. My friends are always wondering why we go off and on.But that was when we were in 5&6&7 but now we are in high school and he dumps me and says that he was cheating on me this whole it whitch is not cool at all . We are really good friends I just don't know what to do...
    Hailyslife Hailyslife 13-15 2 Responses Sep 28, 2015

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    My relationship with my bf has gone from

    amazing to miserable. I feel so lonely, stuck and unwanted with him. But I had someone else enter my life who fills that void of me being lonely and makes me feel alive again and wanted. I feel conflicted of course I would never physically cheat but I know I'm emotionally...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    I swear sometimes i feel

    so unappreciative from my significant other. He doesn't act as if he loves me and i give him all the love i have. Like i don't understand. He starting ti ignore me and even go a whole day without talking to me. Like I'm so heart broken. I blame myself , because i have such a big...
    dmagwood13 dmagwood13 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

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    I don't know. It's been almost two months

    and he's already said to me 3-4 times maybe this isn't going to work out ..... I'm anxious and insecure about stupid stuff ..... I feel easily ignored and hurt and I've mentioned this to him A few times already .... I did again today and he said again, maybe this won't work out...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa 26-30, F Jan 19

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    Hi I need a place to write

    and be anonymous hope this is a good place. I am together with my boyfriend who I really really love. He is my first boyfriend ever. But sometimes he is so mean that I cry the whole night alone in my room. I don't know why he is together with me because he is fit and sexy and I...
    inloveandscared inloveandscared 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11 26-30, F Aug 3, 2015

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    Idk what to do I need a friend to Talk To

    and help me get throw this he's Ben have if a online relasonship and skypeing with this girl who didn't even know he was with me idk what to do
    spice3xl spice3xl 18-21, F Sep 10, 2015

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    pandajenn pandajenn 16-17, F Jun 9, 2015

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    My boyfriend who I have been with

    for two years seems to me to be acting suspicious. I'm not sure if I'm over paranoid or insecure but he keeps hiding his phone from me which he has never done before. I confronted him a few months back and he said he did not know what I was talking about. That if he was hiding...
    lyla3 lyla3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2015

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    Sweet Sorrow Is Basically Relationships.

    USE YOUR BRAIN Generally speaking, people are concerned with their own welfare. You cannot really know whether their advice is meant for your benefit – or for themselves. You may find some who appear to want to help you but actually have other intentions and others who...
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 7, 2012

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    The Trouble With Naughtiness

    To most people, this may sound like I'm being selfish or unable to compromise and though that's probably true, I just need somewhere to talk about it. In a nut shell, one of my female friends came over for a drink two days ago. The last time we'd all gotten together for a...
    Meeoko Meeoko 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    He's a mama's boy. So badly.

    He is actually going to have a second Christmas with his parents this year, and I have never spent a Christmas with him in 3 years. His reason, "she just gets so sad." He was mid-apology about this when guess who calls? And they talked for an hour. About his hair and the cool...
    Anonym57 Anonym57 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    So Confused..

    Okay, Well, I do have a wonderful, loving, funny boyfriend...Well, sometimes. He will go days without talking to me, and sometimes he will talk to me like we aren't even dating & then other times he'll act like an amazing boyfriend would. It's so confusing, to me.. If he does...
    Bullet1999 Bullet1999 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Welp, can't say I didn't see it coming.

    He canceled our trip to go see friends in a beautiful little coastal town down south. It wasn't due to work conflicts or any sort of emergency; he just decided last-minute that he'd prefer to attend a conference in our neck of the woods. A conference I can't attend with him...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced 26-30, F Feb 24, 2015

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    My boyfriend makes me sad.

    It's always like a roller coaster. It's so confusing. today he once again dropped everything for his (younger) brother and cigars (gross). He doesn't even smoke. and he didn't call me back like he said after he canceled our dinner plans like it was nothing. I guess we won't see...
    LittleBabyAnimals LittleBabyAnimals 22-25, F Feb 20, 2015

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    I feel like I'm his toy.

    He asked me to quit my job (as a successful adult model) for him; I did. He asks me to drop everything and travel with him, and I do. Now he's paying my bills while demanding that I find a new career, but there's nothing that will pay me a decent wage and also allow me to take...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22, 2015

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    Me and my boyfriend fight like any couple.

    But recently he has threatened to hit me and he always calls me extremely bad words. I always stay with him cuz I just love him too much but I don't know what to do anymore.
    br1ttanymarie br1ttanymarie 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for nearly 2 years now. However, we've been in a long distance relationship for about 5-6 months now. He's my first boyfriend, and maybe my last. But sometimes it just gets really hard to deal with it. I think I might be too needy to be in this kind of relationship, because when...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    My boo is upset. I wish I could be with him

    right now to help him, but for now I can only text him. I can only try and make him happy and give him advice. He's having boy troubles, his boyfriend isn't texting him back and he's all upset over it. He also said "He just usually answers straight away with a rude message...
    xItsChelsx xItsChelsx 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    It's not really problems.

    . It's just half our relationship he's been in jail. We made it official the 26th of December and he went to jail the 31st of December and he's been in there since. He might be going to prison for 6 months. I've known I'm forever since I was like 9 and he's wanted me for a long...
    hinatahyuga809 hinatahyuga809 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    Okay, so I am seriously craving some sexual

    contact...but not from my boyfriend. He gets really annoying and immature. Sometimes I don't want to be with him but it's only been a month and I don't really like it. I like the fact of a boyfriend. Not the boyfriend himself. It's seriously not him it's me. I'd way rather have...
    Shannyo Shannyo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    I'm losing my mind. My boyfriend

    and I constantly argue. He doesn't open up to me because he says he can't trust anyone and I thought I was special, turns out I was wrong. I love him, but I don't know if I could take anymore arguing. Talking doesn't work what so ever. Any advice?
    XberlinX XberlinX 16-17, F 7 Responses Dec 18, 2015

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    My boyfriend is mad at me

    because guys hit on me. So If people think I'm pretty it my fault? ok makes perfect scence
    modestihawkins modestihawkins 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2015

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    So frustrating! My boyfriend has a PenPal

    who he emails, I honestly don't mind - but when he's taking an hour or so, responding to her I get quite annoyed like hello? I'm sat here thinking you're gonna be 5 minutes - I've cleaned up and been sat here for ages whilst you're ******* responding then if I'm looking at your...
    SarcasticCxnt SarcasticCxnt 18-21 Sep 12, 2015

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    Frustrated Sigh

    After another ***** session over how useless my boyfriend can be, my dad phrased it perfectly- if he went on a camping trip and got stranded with an esky full of meat, bread and fluids, all you would find weeks later, is a dead body next to it because he couldn't figure out how...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    so my soon to be boyfriend ( we've been talking

    for a while ) decided he's gonna get mad at me for signing up for a pageant. he thinks I'm doing it to have guys look at me. and I'm not. I'm doing it because I love being in poofy dresses. it's like a thing I love 😍😍 and he's all mad and decides to say okay I hope your...
    ashleympressler ashleympressler 16-17, F 12 Responses May 17, 2014

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    im at the end of my rope with my bf.

    we just had a beautiful baby 6 months ago and i must have had love goggles on in the beginning but he is SO irresponsible i cant even stand it anymore. i have no idea if this is just "normal guy behavior", if that is even a thing, or if i legitimately have a child on my hands...
    Steph62415 Steph62415 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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