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I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

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    Annoyed, But Still Care

    We've been dating for two months. He is creative and intelligent. He just finished college. He's funny and fun to hang out with. We like spending time together, but we live 2 hours apart so we see each other when we can. We talk almost every day. My problem is that I don't want...
    CreativeChaos CreativeChaos 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    Sweet Sorrow Is Basically Relationships.

    USE YOUR BRAIN Generally speaking, people are concerned with their own welfare. You cannot really know whether their advice is meant for your benefit – or for themselves. You may find some who appear to want to help you but actually have other intentions and others who...
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 7, 2012

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    Boyfriend Problems

    i am recently having problems with my boyfriend. we have only been together 9 months and i am afraid that we are growing apart. he tells me that he doesn't feel that 'spark' anymore and i dont know what to do about it. i try to talk to him, but i'm not good at talking so it takes...
    rebelwitacuz rebelwitacuz 16-18, F 5 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    I am in love with my boyfriend of 2 years.

    we were perfect together. then he started changing and treating me terrible. verbal, sexual and physical abuse. and now, he has left me with nothing. left me like I was nothing. and chose drugs over me. he is a drug addict. and I don't matter to him anymore. I have nothing else...
    daniellefardoe daniellefardoe 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 15 months, he's perfect but we had a big row and he said 1 hurtful thing that meant a lot. Finding it hard to be ok with it. We have spoken about it but finding it hard
    lovelylisa1980 lovelylisa1980 31-35, F 1 Response May 11

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    Frustrated Sigh

    After another ***** session over how useless my boyfriend can be, my dad phrased it perfectly- if he went on a camping trip and got stranded with an esky full of meat, bread and fluids, all you would find weeks later, is a dead body next to it because he couldn't figure out how...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    Confused! My Boyfriends Love For Me Faded....i Dont Know What to Do...

    I had my boyfriend for couple of months already but we have not meet each others personally yet until now. We meet by irc chat online. At first, I just joined the ride and not really serious of the relationship I had with him, because who would ever thought that it would work...
    princess2003 princess2003 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    My relationship with my bf has gone from

    amazing to miserable. I feel so lonely, stuck and unwanted with him. But I had someone else enter my life who fills that void of me being lonely and makes me feel alive again and wanted. I feel conflicted of course I would never physically cheat but I know I'm emotionally...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    I think my boyfriend has stopped caring.

    I can't tell if it's him, stress, or me. He just doesn't seem to care. Be barely have sex and no he isn't gay and I know he's not cheating. I don't know what to do..
    jellybean4342 jellybean4342 26-30, F 2 Responses May 18

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    I Love Him But This Is Killing Me! :(

    Okay so i've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months now, (11 months unofficialy) he's going to uni at the end of next month but i dont want to talk about that for various reasons :'( But yeah, we're trying to see eachother as much as possible but its so difficult to make plans...
    abb246 abb246 16-17 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    My boyfriend just talked about his hot bisexual

    exes...again. He always does that. And when i told him "wow, you're really into bisexual bombshells"...he just answered "up to now". I know im no bombshell. My body is like that of a teenage boy. So skinny and flat. He does a good job in making me feel like an ugly duckling.
    Silveria20 Silveria20 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    If He Doesn't Get It Now, He Never Will

    He can't save money. He's under my parents roof with cheap rent, yet he's taken advantage of it by smoking and drinking more heavily. He had two jobs and still never had $10 to his name. I can't control my anger with him anymore, he's 25 and I've never had anyone love me as much...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    Trapped!!!! And Confused!!!

    I feel like i am stuck, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit however recently things are going from bad to worse and we have started arguing a lot. he makes me feel so angry with him as he is always doing stupid things and things he says. he can't seem to think...
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    My boyfriend of 4yrs is moving out.

    We're still a couple so I'm confused and scared that our relationship is coming to an end.
    tisher2288 tisher2288 22-25, F 1 Response May 30

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    Lack Of Trust

    I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. 2 months ago I moved to university, 2 hours away from home. We still see each other every other weekend at least and text every day. On about 3 occassions I've seen very innappropriate messages to several different girls on his phone...
    RunAwayGirl94 RunAwayGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2013

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    ashleympressler ashleympressler 13-15, F 1 Response May 11

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    Boyfriend's Bestfriend And His Girlfriend.....

    Alright so this is going to be a bit of a long story so i will try to keep it as short as i can. My name is Bee and I have been dating my boyfriend Marley for a little over a year now, for the first few months of our relationship things were good the only thing that became a...
    Beezybee17 Beezybee17 18-21 1 Response Aug 4, 2012

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    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 26

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    My boyfriend is what you call the possessive,

    controlling,jealous type. I can't go out in town with my friends that are girls without any guys. He never wants me too. He doesn't like most of the clothes I wear and it's not even inappropriate. I'll be wearing a dress or a v-neck sweater and he won't like it. I can't have NO...
    carlover16 carlover16 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    I find it weird that I seem to enjoy sex more

    than him, I love him but he can't seem to keep up with me. I want someone who wants me just as much as I want them. I love him, but he doesn't satisfy me enough in bed. I want him more than once a day, and he seems to think this is a bad thing, how is it bad I wanna blow him...
    Taylorgangbby Taylorgangbby 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Two months ago, my boyfriend

    and I got into a huge fight that resulted in a break due to his inappropriate IG/text interactions with a particular girl. We've been together for two years. He's known her since middle school and says he considers her family, but they were talking about doing anal, oral, and...
    niceusername niceusername 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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    We've been together for 2 months now

    and it's been really awesome but it hasn't been easy for me at all because I admit I'm very insecure sometimes and he's the most handsome man in school and has a very charming personality and he's friend of almost everyone so I have to control my insecurities and jealousy all...
    everyoneisafterlove everyoneisafterlove 18-21, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I've been trying to be a good girlfriend lately

    but due to recent issues, it has been hard. I've been having a hard time these past few days and I've just wanted the attention and comfort from my boyfriend. I know he's got a lot on his hands with school and everything but even me just being near him while he's doing his...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    I Love U No I Love Her

    I met a guy 6 months ago, he is so sweet and funny and knows how to make me smile. But 4 months into our relationship he confessed that he'd been having sex with another girl. I forgave him ( relationship= trust right?). But saddly 2 weeks after ( on mothersday) he broke up with...
    LyraVanity LyraVanity 16-17, F Aug 23, 2012

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    Should I stay or should I go?

    Am I stronger, or am I weak. My parents stayed together. I on the other hand am one of the first divorces in our family in a very long time. I am a very giving person and I tend to end up with people who take advantage... Here are my experiences where I thought about leaving...
    Anngelic Anngelic 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    My boyfriend and I broke up in April

    but I still love him and we had planned to get back together in the future after we had sorted are own lives out (he is going into the army and I am going to university). He asked me to meet him today to talk and it was lovely and he told me that he wanted to get back together...
    dmarie1995 dmarie1995 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I need some advise. In past relationships I

    have been with a boy, he's been the love of my life, but every time we go out, he always seems to treat me like a pile of crap. But each time we've gone out, he's been getting better at the whole love situation. Recently, very bad roomers spiral split me and my boyfriend up, but...
    BethHawkins BethHawkins 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This guy iv been meeting

    for 3 weeks asked me out today and I said yes he is 31 and I'm 18! There is this girl and she is so bad minded and jealous over us supposingly a friend but not anymore because today she went to the pub and blackened my name in the pub what do I do over this?
    laura3131 laura3131 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    So Confused..

    Okay, Well, I do have a wonderful, loving, funny boyfriend...Well, sometimes. He will go days without talking to me, and sometimes he will talk to me like we aren't even dating & then other times he'll act like an amazing boyfriend would. It's so confusing, to me.. If he does...
    Bullet1999 Bullet1999 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    my friend (guy ) came to my house today.

    we're like best friends, my boyfriend knows bout him. whatever. so... I didn't tell him he was coming over Til it happened. and he was beyond mad. I was nervous to tell him because I thought he'd get even more mad. my boyfriend hangs out with girls at his dad's house... and...
    ashleympressler ashleympressler 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 27

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    He is my fiancé actually.

    Last night I found an app called Pcalculator on his phone... That's short for private calculator. It looks like a calculator but actually hides photos secretly. He claims to have had it since before we got together.... But I don't know if I should believe him. There were...
    MissAlexis MissAlexis 22-25, F 1 Response May 28

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    Tired...

    How would you respond when the one you've been dating for at least two years told you that they are no longer into the relationship? How would you respond if the other person stopped trying? How would you repond if you look at the direction that he's looking at and it happens...
    mtngo mtngo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    Lately ..

    My boyfriend of 3 years now , is just being childish , I found out he's lying to me , he smokes weed , even though he told me he stopped 4 months ago . All to find out he was lying . He's really starting to irk me ... Without him ,I'd go crazy . He's been off for the past year...
    AmandaLanae21 AmandaLanae21 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    I get mad at my boyfriend

    and I don't even know why. Ok I kinda do. He studies medicine and he gets very busy and im aware of it. But when i ask him to come over and says he has a test tomorrow i feel kind of rejected and it makes me sad and upset...
    ssodapop ssodapop 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    I'm super insecure about my boyfriend

    and I's relationship. I'm 100% faithful to him and always have been and he says he has been too but for a while, I've felt insecure that he hasn't always been faithful. I'm not sure if I'm just crazy or what... I almost wish sometimes he'd come out and say he did cheat, because...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    so my soon to be boyfriend ( we've been talking

    for a while ) decided he's gonna get mad at me for signing up for a pageant. he thinks I'm doing it to have guys look at me. and I'm not. I'm doing it because I love being in poofy dresses. it's like a thing I love 😍😍 and he's all mad and decides to say okay I hope your...
    ashleympressler ashleympressler 13-15, F 11 Responses May 17

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    Well okay lets start off I gave him my email

    and password to my facebook so he knows i'm not hiding anything from him but when I asked him for his email and password he didn't give it to me so that makes me think he is either cheating on me or talking to someone else.. Idk what to do
    SexyMexican SexyMexican 13-15, F 2 Responses May 24

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    Hey guys, I'm new to this site

    so bear with me (: I met this guy online (i'm 20 and he's 22) and we had been talking since the end of March/early April. Everything was GREAT! He would text me everyday, have long conversations with me, and actually made me feel wanted. I went away for about two weeks and when...
    jerseygrl29 jerseygrl29 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    Yeah can't seem to find one.

    HAHAHAH. But no seriously
    freeebird freeebird 18-21, F 1 Response May 17

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    Unsure Of Intentions (Too Unemotinal & Anger-Prone?)

    I've been dating this guy for about 7 years now. After year 2 he moved away from me, so we stayed in a long term relationship. However...I have found that connecting to him emotionally is very difficult (not due to the LD issues but this was when we date originally too). I do...
    Job237 Job237 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    I love my boyfriend greatly,

    we've been dating for almost a year and within the time we've been together we have been through a lot. My boyfriend is very good looking, sweet, smart, funny and savvy. He's 6 years older than me. When we first met I was dealing with the breakup of my ex bf who was the love of...
    Sicundas Sicundas 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    Today I Decided to Move On..

     Yesterday i posted a story about my confusion and frustration on my boyfriend issues and i realized that when it comes to relationships i seem to make a lot of bad decisions, i almost always use my heart and not my logic but in psycology i learned that your emotions can be...
    Shanta9999 Shanta9999 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    My boyfriend thinks there always has to be an

    "Us." Is it bad that I don't agree? I'm losing my sanity because there's never any "me time." He sees it as me pushing him away and his clinginess is becoming worse than ever. Sometimes I just wanna go to the mall alone, or something else on my own. But he sees it as me...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 16

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    Looking For Some Advice

    I have been seeing this guy, Ryan, for over a month now and I have been having some problems with him. It all started within two weeks of seeing one another. We were doing really good up and we hung out every single day. Well he is good friends with my brother and they were...
    IshouLdbeOVEryoU IshouLdbeOVEryoU 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    Lazy, Depressed Or What??

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and have been living with each other for about 2. When we would hang out as friends before we started dating he would make it a point to clean before I came over, he was more active and seemed to be healthy. Since I've moved in...
    lifeasis22 lifeasis22 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Confussed!!!

    i want to become a mum, however my boyfriend does not want a baby yet. i can't help but think we shouldn't be together then. all i can think about is have a baby and how great it will be. i no i am young but i feel like it is what i am meant to be!!!
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    Recently, my boyfriend

    and I have been arguing a lot . Nothing major just little ones over stupid things. But, last night was our first REAL fight. He had left his facebook logged in my laptop. I was scared, i didnt know what to do with it! He goes through my phone all the time and facebook. So, i...
    bmccord bmccord 22-25, F 3 Responses May 25

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    My boyfriend textes a bunch of girls saying

    they're beautiful. But today he was talking to this girl asking if she had a boyfriend and said that she was very beautiful. I tell him I don't like when he does this but he still does it. He says I get mad for no reason, advice?
    daniellelarson22 daniellelarson22 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I've recently got together with this boy called

    jack he is lovely, I would say I love him and I miss him when I'm not with him , but it does annoy me when he goes out I suppose I'm the clingy type and he speaks to a lot of girls who I know it's as friends but it still bugs me and he always switches his moods, plus I've still...
    brokensouls brokensouls 18-21, F 3 Responses May 11

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    My Boyfriend Refers To Me As "One Of The Guys?!"

    I was hanging out with my boyfriend and he said "I don't think of you as a girl. I think of you as one of the guys." Could this be why he hasn't kissed me yet? Or hasn't been very romantic? It's starting to bother me..am I worrying to much? I really love him. I don't want him to...
    skinnyjeansandbandmerch skinnyjeansandbandmerch 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Am I Being a Bad Girlfriend?

    ok so i have been going out with this guy for a year now and about 2 weeks ago i found out that hes separated!!!! not divorced like i have believed the entire time...i knew he had a very rough break up with his wife...she cheated on him got pregnant had an abortion and this was...
    rinn88 rinn88 18-21 8 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    Now you're all gonna say wow that's horrible

    or that I should dump him. But I can't I've known him for 5 years and then we started dating a year ago, he's my best friend and my boyfriend, but we've had issues we got months without seeing each other started having little conversations not because he doesn't love me but...
    sunshine2415 sunshine2415 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Filled With Hurt And Rage

    There are a lot of details I will have to leave out of my story, as to save time. Also, I apologize in advance if this sounds confusing and the story doesn't flow very well - just kind of pouring out thoughts. Growing up I had a great childhood and loving parents, lots of...
    skye1111 skye1111 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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