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I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

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    I Love Him But This Is Killing Me! :(

    Okay so i've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months now, (11 months unofficialy) he's going to uni at the end of next month but i dont want to talk about that for various reasons :'( But yeah, we're trying to see eachother as much as possible but its so difficult to make plans...
    abb246 abb246 16-17 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Okay, so I am seriously craving some sexual

    contact...but not from my boyfriend. He gets really annoying and immature. Sometimes I don't want to be with him but it's only been a month and I don't really like it. I like the fact of a boyfriend. Not the boyfriend himself. It's seriously not him it's me. I'd way rather have...
    Shannyo Shannyo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Today I Decided to Move On..

     Yesterday i posted a story about my confusion and frustration on my boyfriend issues and i realized that when it comes to relationships i seem to make a lot of bad decisions, i almost always use my heart and not my logic but in psycology i learned that your emotions can be...
    Shanta9999 Shanta9999 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    My boyfriend seems distant lately,

    like he speaks to me over text but when we go out together he barely even as much as makes eye contact, I do love him a lot yet he claims to have family issues. Is that a good enough excuse to ignore me? Am I being too needy and clingy?
    blissfulx blissfulx 18-21, F Aug 16

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    Unsure Of Intentions (Too Unemotinal & Anger-Prone?)

    I've been dating this guy for about 7 years now. After year 2 he moved away from me, so we stayed in a long term relationship. However...I have found that connecting to him emotionally is very difficult (not due to the LD issues but this was when we date originally too). I do...
    Job237 Job237 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    My boyfriend always hides his phone

    and what he's doing on his phone. Most people would say take his phone and find out what he's doing but it's not that simple, he aaaalways has it or has it put away in a drawer or something. And secondly, I don't want to invade his privacy like that even if I do suspect...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Confused! My Boyfriends Love For Me Faded....i Dont Know What to Do...

    I had my boyfriend for couple of months already but we have not meet each others personally yet until now. We meet by irc chat online. At first, I just joined the ride and not really serious of the relationship I had with him, because who would ever thought that it would work...
    princess2003 princess2003 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    Looking For Some Advice

    I have been seeing this guy, Ryan, for over a month now and I have been having some problems with him. It all started within two weeks of seeing one another. We were doing really good up and we hung out every single day. Well he is good friends with my brother and they were...
    IshouLdbeOVEryoU IshouLdbeOVEryoU 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    We split up about two months I went away home

    because I couldn't handle not being with him, so I had to move I came back after a month and we got together again, I'm so scared to be dumped again, the reason we broke up in the past was because when we started dating I took a lot of wrong advices saying that to make him fall...
    goicual goicual 18-21, F May 30

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    Confussed!!!

    i want to become a mum, however my boyfriend does not want a baby yet. i can't help but think we shouldn't be together then. all i can think about is have a baby and how great it will be. i no i am young but i feel like it is what i am meant to be!!!
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    Annoyed, But Still Care

    We've been dating for two months. He is creative and intelligent. He just finished college. He's funny and fun to hang out with. We like spending time together, but we live 2 hours apart so we see each other when we can. We talk almost every day. My problem is that I don't want...
    CreativeChaos CreativeChaos 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    pelekhezhie pelekhezhie 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    My boyfriend thinks there always has to be an

    "Us." Is it bad that I don't agree? I'm losing my sanity because there's never any "me time." He sees it as me pushing him away and his clinginess is becoming worse than ever. Sometimes I just wanna go to the mall alone, or something else on my own. But he sees it as me...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 16

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    My boyfriend and I are in two different colleges

    and we're in a long distance relationship. I am quite busy with my studies as I am studying medicine. However, I still do everything I can to contact him. He, on the other hand, have a lot of extra-curricular activities like being in the student council and being a lead in their...
    HexPixie114 HexPixie114 18-21, F 3 Responses May 28

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    My boyfriend and I broke up in April

    but I still love him and we had planned to get back together in the future after we had sorted are own lives out (he is going into the army and I am going to university). He asked me to meet him today to talk and it was lovely and he told me that he wanted to get back together...
    dmarie1995 dmarie1995 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Boyfriend Problems

    i am recently having problems with my boyfriend. we have only been together 9 months and i am afraid that we are growing apart. he tells me that he doesn't feel that 'spark' anymore and i dont know what to do about it. i try to talk to him, but i'm not good at talking so it takes...
    rebelwitacuz rebelwitacuz 16-18, F 5 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    Frustrated Sigh

    After another ***** session over how useless my boyfriend can be, my dad phrased it perfectly- if he went on a camping trip and got stranded with an esky full of meat, bread and fluids, all you would find weeks later, is a dead body next to it because he couldn't figure out how...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    My boyfriend just talked about his hot bisexual

    exes...again. He always does that. And when i told him "wow, you're really into bisexual bombshells"...he just answered "up to now". I know im no bombshell. My body is like that of a teenage boy. So skinny and flat. He does a good job in making me feel like an ugly duckling.
    Silveria20 Silveria20 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Recently, my boyfriend

    and I have been arguing a lot . Nothing major just little ones over stupid things. But, last night was our first REAL fight. He had left his facebook logged in my laptop. I was scared, i didnt know what to do with it! He goes through my phone all the time and facebook. So, i...
    bmccord bmccord 22-25, F 3 Responses May 25

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    Well okay lets start off I gave him my email

    and password to my facebook so he knows i'm not hiding anything from him but when I asked him for his email and password he didn't give it to me so that makes me think he is either cheating on me or talking to someone else.. Idk what to do
    SexyMexican SexyMexican 16-17, F 2 Responses May 24

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    Should I stay or should I go?

    Am I stronger, or am I weak. My parents stayed together. I on the other hand am one of the first divorces in our family in a very long time. I am a very giving person and I tend to end up with people who take advantage... Here are my experiences where I thought about leaving...
    Anngelic Anngelic 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I love my boyfriend greatly,

    we've been dating for almost a year and within the time we've been together we have been through a lot. My boyfriend is very good looking, sweet, smart, funny and savvy. He's 6 years older than me. When we first met I was dealing with the breakup of my ex bf who was the love of...
    Sicundas Sicundas 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    My Boyfriend Refers To Me As "One Of The Guys?!"

    I was hanging out with my boyfriend and he said "I don't think of you as a girl. I think of you as one of the guys." Could this be why he hasn't kissed me yet? Or hasn't been very romantic? It's starting to bother me..am I worrying to much? I really love him. I don't want him to...
    skinnyjeansandbandmerch skinnyjeansandbandmerch 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I've been trying to be a good girlfriend lately

    but due to recent issues, it has been hard. I've been having a hard time these past few days and I've just wanted the attention and comfort from my boyfriend. I know he's got a lot on his hands with school and everything but even me just being near him while he's doing his...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    Filled With Hurt And Rage

    There are a lot of details I will have to leave out of my story, as to save time. Also, I apologize in advance if this sounds confusing and the story doesn't flow very well - just kind of pouring out thoughts. Growing up I had a great childhood and loving parents, lots of...
    skye1111 skye1111 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    I need some advise. In past relationships I

    have been with a boy, he's been the love of my life, but every time we go out, he always seems to treat me like a pile of crap. But each time we've gone out, he's been getting better at the whole love situation. Recently, very bad roomers spiral split me and my boyfriend up, but...
    BethHawkins BethHawkins 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    My boo is upset. I wish I could be with him

    right now to help him, but for now I can only text him. I can only try and make him happy and give him advice. He's having boy troubles, his boyfriend isn't texting him back and he's all upset over it. He also said "He just usually answers straight away with a rude message...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    So Confused..

    Okay, Well, I do have a wonderful, loving, funny boyfriend...Well, sometimes. He will go days without talking to me, and sometimes he will talk to me like we aren't even dating & then other times he'll act like an amazing boyfriend would. It's so confusing, to me.. If he does...
    Bullet1999 Bullet1999 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    My boyfriend despite dating fore over 9 months

    and having sex nearly everyday we are with each other during that time, has recently decided to become religious again. He grew up very religious. A few weeks ago he guilted me into going to church with him, ever since then I have felt a numbness towards him. Not all the time...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Lack Of Trust

    I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. 2 months ago I moved to university, 2 hours away from home. We still see each other every other weekend at least and text every day. On about 3 occassions I've seen very innappropriate messages to several different girls on his phone...
    RunAwayGirl94 RunAwayGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2013

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    Trapped!!!! And Confused!!!

    I feel like i am stuck, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit however recently things are going from bad to worse and we have started arguing a lot. he makes me feel so angry with him as he is always doing stupid things and things he says. he can't seem to think...
    hopehasgone hopehasgone 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    Now you're all gonna say wow that's horrible

    or that I should dump him. But I can't I've known him for 5 years and then we started dating a year ago, he's my best friend and my boyfriend, but we've had issues we got months without seeing each other started having little conversations not because he doesn't love me but...
    sunshine2415 sunshine2415 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I think my boyfriend has stopped caring.

    I can't tell if it's him, stress, or me. He just doesn't seem to care. Be barely have sex and no he isn't gay and I know he's not cheating. I don't know what to do..
    jellybean4342 jellybean4342 26-30, F 1 Response May 18

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    I find it weird that I seem to enjoy sex more

    than him, I love him but he can't seem to keep up with me. I want someone who wants me just as much as I want them. I love him, but he doesn't satisfy me enough in bed. I want him more than once a day, and he seems to think this is a bad thing, how is it bad I wanna blow him...
    Taylorgangbby Taylorgangbby 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    I get mad at my boyfriend

    and I don't even know why. Ok I kinda do. He studies medicine and he gets very busy and im aware of it. But when i ask him to come over and says he has a test tomorrow i feel kind of rejected and it makes me sad and upset...
    ssodapop ssodapop 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    I NEED ADVICE. PLEASE READ.

    Ok so here's the thing. I have a boyfriend and I love him. I mean he's caring, sweet, treats me well. And gosh he's gorgeous. None of that is the problem. It seems that his priorities are screwed up. Like right now his whole world is revolving around getting into this frat...
    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 16

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    If He Doesn't Get It Now, He Never Will

    He can't save money. He's under my parents roof with cheap rent, yet he's taken advantage of it by smoking and drinking more heavily. He had two jobs and still never had $10 to his name. I can't control my anger with him anymore, he's 25 and I've never had anyone love me as much...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    My boyfriend of 4yrs is moving out.

    We're still a couple so I'm confused and scared that our relationship is coming to an end.
    tisher2288 tisher2288 26-30, F 1 Response May 30

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    Boyfriend's Bestfriend And His Girlfriend.....

    Alright so this is going to be a bit of a long story so i will try to keep it as short as i can. My name is Bee and I have been dating my boyfriend Marley for a little over a year now, for the first few months of our relationship things were good the only thing that became a...
    Beezybee17 Beezybee17 18-21 2 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    My boyfriend is 4 years younger

    than me. I want to have kids in a few years, but I don't think he shares the same goal. he's still somewhat immature & I'm slowly falling out of love with him. We haven't had sex (not for lack of trying) throughout our 2 years together & it's taking it's toll on our relationship...
    gardenbeauty gardenbeauty 22-25, F Aug 4

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    As of late my bf has been very secretive about

    his phone. Before, he knew my password, I knew his and we would just check up on one another playfully. About 4 months ago, he changed his password and now takes the phone with him everywhere (bathroom, kitchen, etc). In the four months, he's also built a new friendship with a...
    Sicundas Sicundas 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating

    for just about 3 years in October, I'm finding that I see him more as a best friend then a lover,it's been about a month and a half since we were last intimate. I know that I love him. We're taking a vacation together to hopefully see if that "spark" is still there. I hope it...
    asharma23 asharma23 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    My relationship with my bf has gone from

    amazing to miserable. I feel so lonely, stuck and unwanted with him. But I had someone else enter my life who fills that void of me being lonely and makes me feel alive again and wanted. I feel conflicted of course I would never physically cheat but I know I'm emotionally...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Sweet Sorrow Is Basically Relationships.

    USE YOUR BRAIN Generally speaking, people are concerned with their own welfare. You cannot really know whether their advice is meant for your benefit – or for themselves. You may find some who appear to want to help you but actually have other intentions and others who...
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 7, 2012

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    Am I Being a Bad Girlfriend?

    ok so i have been going out with this guy for a year now and about 2 weeks ago i found out that hes separated!!!! not divorced like i have believed the entire time...i knew he had a very rough break up with his wife...she cheated on him got pregnant had an abortion and this was...
    rinn88 rinn88 18-21 8 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    I was out from a ****** relationship almost 2

    years ago before I started a new one with my current boyfriend. I don't think it was a rebound tho I was with this guy few days after breaking up. However after a year ++ of knowing him he becomes cold, and he treats me bad. He has this thing with temper and he always blame me...
    ThePorcelainDoll ThePorcelainDoll 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    He is my fiancé actually.

    Last night I found an app called Pcalculator on his phone... That's short for private calculator. It looks like a calculator but actually hides photos secretly. He claims to have had it since before we got together.... But I don't know if I should believe him. There were...
    MissAlexis MissAlexis 22-25, F 1 Response May 28

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    I'm Pushing Him Away

    none of this will make any sense if I don't explain the beginning of my 3 year long relationship. Everything started out fine. We were both in high school he was a Sr. and I was a JR. for the first 2 month we saw each other once or twice a week, when ever he felt like he wanted...
    wonderstruck93 wonderstruck93 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2012

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    I'm super insecure about my boyfriend

    and I's relationship. I'm 100% faithful to him and always have been and he says he has been too but for a while, I've felt insecure that he hasn't always been faithful. I'm not sure if I'm just crazy or what... I almost wish sometimes he'd come out and say he did cheat, because...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Hey guys, I'm new to this site

    so bear with me (: I met this guy online (i'm 20 and he's 22) and we had been talking since the end of March/early April. Everything was GREAT! He would text me everyday, have long conversations with me, and actually made me feel wanted. I went away for about two weeks and when...
    jerseygrl29 jerseygrl29 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    The Trouble With Naughtiness

    To most people, this may sound like I'm being selfish or unable to compromise and though that's probably true, I just need somewhere to talk about it. In a nut shell, one of my female friends came over for a drink two days ago. The last time we'd all gotten together for a...
    Meeoko Meeoko 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    I'm dating this guy and we've been together

    for 2 years now, we know everything about each other and I feel very comfortable around him and he makes me feel complete and he never does anything that makes me mad or sad and he cares about me a lot and he takes care of me BUT the problem is that he has anger issues and gets...
    cancergirl246 cancergirl246 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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