I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 700 People

    Welp, can't say I didn't see it coming.

    He canceled our trip to go see friends in a beautiful little coastal town down south. It wasn't due to work conflicts or any sort of emergency; he just decided last-minute that he'd prefer to attend a conference in our neck of the woods. A conference I can't attend with him...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced
    26-30, F
    Feb 24, 2015

    Trapped!!!! And Confused!!!

    I feel like i am stuck, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit however recently things are going from bad to worse and we have started arguing a lot. he makes me feel so angry with him as he is always doing stupid things and things he says. he can't seem to think...
    hopehasgone hopehasgone
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

    I love my him, but I don't know

    if we can build a future together.. He listens to his mom for everything when i believe she doesn't even do anything much to help and support him.
    gnycnn gnycnn
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

    Me and my boyfriend have been dating

    for just about 3 years in October, I'm finding that I see him more as a best friend then a lover,it's been about a month and a half since we were last intimate. I know that I love him. We're taking a vacation together to hopefully see if that "spark" is still there. I hope it...
    asharma23 asharma23
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

    im at the end of my rope with my bf.

    we just had a beautiful baby 6 months ago and i must have had love goggles on in the beginning but he is SO irresponsible i cant even stand it anymore. i have no idea if this is just "normal guy behavior", if that is even a thing, or if i legitimately have a child on my hands...
    Steph62415 Steph62415
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 22, 2015


    Ok so here's the thing. I have a boyfriend and I love him. I mean he's caring, sweet, treats me well. And gosh he's gorgeous. None of that is the problem. It seems that his priorities are screwed up. Like right now his whole world is revolving around getting into this frat...
    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    My boyfriend is in college

    and is moving down in 2 months to be closer to me. The closer it gets the more we argue and I don't understand why. We met on tinder and we have been dating for almost a year. When he's down we always hang out and we love each other so much...I think lol, I do. But, we seem to...
    sharky101 sharky101
    16-17, F
    Mar 10, 2016

    Boyfriend Problems

    i am recently having problems with my boyfriend. we have only been together 9 months and i am afraid that we are growing apart. he tells me that he doesn't feel that 'spark' anymore and i dont know what to do about it. i try to talk to him, but i'm not good at talking so it takes...
    rebelwitacuz rebelwitacuz
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 12, 2008

    Idk what to do I need a friend to Talk To

    and help me get throw this he's Ben have if a online relasonship and skypeing with this girl who didn't even know he was with me idk what to do
    spice3xl spice3xl
    18-21, F
    Sep 10, 2015

    My relationship with my bf has gone from

    amazing to miserable. I feel so lonely, stuck and unwanted with him. But I had someone else enter my life who fills that void of me being lonely and makes me feel alive again and wanted. I feel conflicted of course I would never physically cheat but I know I'm emotionally...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    Am I Being a Bad Girlfriend?

    ok so i have been going out with this guy for a year now and about 2 weeks ago i found out that hes separated!!!! not divorced like i have believed the entire time...i knew he had a very rough break up with his wife...she cheated on him got pregnant had an abortion and this was...
    rinn88 rinn88
    9 Responses Mar 30, 2009

    My boyfriend makes me sad.

    It's always like a roller coaster. It's so confusing. today he once again dropped everything for his (younger) brother and cigars (gross). He doesn't even smoke. and he didn't call me back like he said after he canceled our dinner plans like it was nothing. I guess we won't see...
    LittleBabyAnimals LittleBabyAnimals
    26-30, F
    Feb 20, 2015

    Ok so my ex boyfriend gave me 3 bruises

    and 5 scratches during school and one of the scratches might might scar also he said to me that if he was bleeding he would cover me in his blood so I broke up with him and hour later and now I have to make a decision of to date him again or just be friends I don't know what to...
    Bluesparkles Bluesparkles
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2016

    How can you tell the difference between

    if you are bringing insecurities from your past relationship into your knew one vs being smarter in your current relationship? My problem is that I'm kind of paranoid my boyfriend will have a relationship with someone else while he is seeing me. In a past relationship that...
    Morrgin Morrgin
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    My boo is upset. I wish I could be with him

    right now to help him, but for now I can only text him. I can only try and make him happy and give him advice. He's having boy troubles, his boyfriend isn't texting him back and he's all upset over it. He also said "He just usually answers straight away with a rude message...
    xItsChelsx xItsChelsx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014

    i don't know if this actually fits in this

    group... I love my boyfriend and he's great, but i HATE his family. Now I think we are going to take the next step and this issue with them is stressing me out. They are rude, disorganized and completely egocentric. He is very close to them and is blind to everything they do...
    alessandraRV alessandraRV
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2015

    I just recently started dating my ex boyfriend

    again. My friends are always wondering why we go off and on.But that was when we were in 5&6&7 but now we are in high school and he dumps me and says that he was cheating on me this whole it whitch is not cool at all . We are really good friends I just don't know what to do...
    Hailyslife Hailyslife
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    So frustrating! My boyfriend has a PenPal

    who he emails, I honestly don't mind - but when he's taking an hour or so, responding to her I get quite annoyed like hello? I'm sat here thinking you're gonna be 5 minutes - I've cleaned up and been sat here for ages whilst you're ******* responding then if I'm looking at your...
    SarcasticCxnt SarcasticCxnt
    Sep 12, 2015

    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for nearly 2 years now. However, we've been in a long distance relationship for about 5-6 months now. He's my first boyfriend, and maybe my last. But sometimes it just gets really hard to deal with it. I think I might be too needy to be in this kind of relationship, because when...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2016

    It's not really problems.

    . It's just half our relationship he's been in jail. We made it official the 26th of December and he went to jail the 31st of December and he's been in there since. He might be going to prison for 6 months. I've known I'm forever since I was like 9 and he's wanted me for a long...
    hinatahyuga809 hinatahyuga809
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2016

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    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa
    26-30, F
    Jan 19, 2016

    My boyfriend thinks there always has to be an

    "Us." Is it bad that I don't agree? I'm losing my sanity because there's never any "me time." He sees it as me pushing him away and his clinginess is becoming worse than ever. Sometimes I just wanna go to the mall alone, or something else on my own. But he sees it as me...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    My heart is wavering on

    whether I want to continue to be with my partner. I have been with him 7 years and a few months. We lived together for about 4 years. He has proposed to me several time, which I rejected due to college. I didn't want to be more distracted from school. For the past 2 years, he...
    MiBellanna MiBellanna
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015
    adianoeta adianoeta
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    I just hate when I do something wrong

    and no one will talk to me to forgive me or aneything like that it sucks
    TrustingJungle TrustingJungle
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2016

    (Note: this is long distance relationship) So,

    let me give you an update before explaining my situation. My boyfriends is my childhood friend's brother who asked me out four months ago. I've had a crush on him and my friend has always teased me about it before all this. I naturally have a bubbly, open, out going, full of...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2016

    so my soon to be boyfriend ( we've been talking

    for a while ) decided he's gonna get mad at me for signing up for a pageant. he thinks I'm doing it to have guys look at me. and I'm not. I'm doing it because I love being in poofy dresses. it's like a thing I love 😍😍 and he's all mad and decides to say okay I hope your...
    ashleympressler ashleympressler
    18-21, F
    11 Responses May 17, 2014


    How would you respond when the one you've been dating for at least two years told you that they are no longer into the relationship? How would you respond if the other person stopped trying? How would you repond if you look at the direction that he's looking at and it happens...
    mtngo mtngo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2008

    My boyfriend always hides his phone

    and what he's doing on his phone. Most people would say take his phone and find out what he's doing but it's not that simple, he aaaalways has it or has it put away in a drawer or something. And secondly, I don't want to invade his privacy like that even if I do suspect...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2014

    Long distance has opened my eyes to the

    possibility that I prefer independence. I've always been independent, but now I wonder if it is because I wasn't in a great relationship. I feel like we are best friends. How do you know when it's just early long distance jitters, or if the relationship should be examined?
    Anonym57 Anonym57
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2016

    I have known my boyfriend

    for about four years. In the first 3 tears and the start of the fourth, i had no romantic interest in him. After about 3 years and 3 months, and if course after puberty had hit him and he waa completely changed, i started catching feelings for him and in mo time i was madly in...
    Faten99 Faten99
    18-21, F
    Aug 14, 2015

    I don't know. It's been almost two months

    and he's already said to me 3-4 times maybe this isn't going to work out ..... I'm anxious and insecure about stupid stuff ..... I feel easily ignored and hurt and I've mentioned this to him A few times already .... I did again today and he said again, maybe this won't work out...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015
    pandajenn pandajenn
    18-21, F
    Jun 9, 2015

    Hello ladies !! I just came across this

    Experience.. Whatever you like to ask please ask me anything personal or opinion I'm here to answer your questions!
    deleted deleted
    Jan 20, 2016

    Looking for advice on how to dump my bf.

    (See my post of half an hour ago.)
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jan 19, 2016

    Sweet Sorrow Is Basically Relationships.

    USE YOUR BRAIN Generally speaking, people are concerned with their own welfare. You cannot really know whether their advice is meant for your benefit – or for themselves. You may find some who appear to want to help you but actually have other intentions and others who...
    trilo2 trilo2
    18-21, M
    Jul 7, 2012

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    My boyfriend who I have been with

    for two years seems to me to be acting suspicious. I'm not sure if I'm over paranoid or insecure but he keeps hiding his phone from me which he has never done before. I confronted him a few months back and he said he did not know what I was talking about. That if he was hiding...
    lyla3 lyla3
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    I feel like I'm his toy.

    He asked me to quit my job (as a successful adult model) for him; I did. He asks me to drop everything and travel with him, and I do. Now he's paying my bills while demanding that I find a new career, but there's nothing that will pay me a decent wage and also allow me to take...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2015

    Hi I need a place to write

    and be anonymous hope this is a good place. I am together with my boyfriend who I really really love. He is my first boyfriend ever. But sometimes he is so mean that I cry the whole night alone in my room. I don't know why he is together with me because he is fit and sexy and I...
    inloveandscared inloveandscared
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    The Trouble With Naughtiness

    To most people, this may sound like I'm being selfish or unable to compromise and though that's probably true, I just need somewhere to talk about it. In a nut shell, one of my female friends came over for a drink two days ago. The last time we'd all gotten together for a...
    Meeoko Meeoko
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 4, 2010

    I swear sometimes i feel

    so unappreciative from my significant other. He doesn't act as if he loves me and i give him all the love i have. Like i don't understand. He starting ti ignore me and even go a whole day without talking to me. Like I'm so heart broken. I blame myself , because i have such a big...
    dmagwood13 dmagwood13
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    I'm dying 😞 last week I've found out

    that my boyfriend that I thought was all I ever wanted was waiting at the hospital for another woman to have his baby. 5 months he never said a word to me. He says all all he wants its me but I can't believe him and my heart aches so much
    amadoradosurf amadoradosurf
    36-40, F
    Jun 9, 2015

    Me and my boyfriend fight like any couple.

    But recently he has threatened to hit me and he always calls me extremely bad words. I always stay with him cuz I just love him too much but I don't know what to do anymore.
    br1ttanymarie br1ttanymarie
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2014

    He's a mama's boy. So badly.

    He is actually going to have a second Christmas with his parents this year, and I have never spent a Christmas with him in 3 years. His reason, "she just gets so sad." He was mid-apology about this when guess who calls? And they talked for an hour. About his hair and the cool...
    Anonym57 Anonym57
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    My current boyfriend

    and I are a long-distance couple. We have been on and off for nearly 8 years now. We've gotten closer than we've ever been, and are planning on finally meeting up either during Spring Break (depends on how our schedules look) or some time during the Summer. Things were going...
    Destati Destati
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2015

    Frustrated Sigh

    After another ***** session over how useless my boyfriend can be, my dad phrased it perfectly- if he went on a camping trip and got stranded with an esky full of meat, bread and fluids, all you would find weeks later, is a dead body next to it because he couldn't figure out how...
    Tippitoe Tippitoe
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2013

    So a few months ago my boyfriend quit smoking

    weed for me (we have been together 3 years and he wasn't a heavy user to begin with) then he started again last month and every weekend he completely ignores me to go do that. I know he's not with any girl, he's with guys, but I'm so sick with hurt that he can't even text me...
    imdesperateforhelp imdesperateforhelp
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2016

    I'm losing my mind. My boyfriend

    and I constantly argue. He doesn't open up to me because he says he can't trust anyone and I thought I was special, turns out I was wrong. I love him, but I don't know if I could take anymore arguing. Talking doesn't work what so ever. Any advice?
    XberlinX XberlinX
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 18, 2015

    Okay, so I am seriously craving some sexual

    contact...but not from my boyfriend. He gets really annoying and immature. Sometimes I don't want to be with him but it's only been a month and I don't really like it. I like the fact of a boyfriend. Not the boyfriend himself. It's seriously not him it's me. I'd way rather have...
    Shannyo Shannyo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

    So Confused..

    Okay, Well, I do have a wonderful, loving, funny boyfriend...Well, sometimes. He will go days without talking to me, and sometimes he will talk to me like we aren't even dating & then other times he'll act like an amazing boyfriend would. It's so confusing, to me.. If he does...
    Bullet1999 Bullet1999
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    My boyfriend is the sweetest most romantic

    person sometimes. he says things like I could have a future with you, and I think you're perfect for me, and I had a dream we got married and got a house together (despite the fact he never intended to get married), but when he gets into a slump he just shuts out the world...
    KC94 KC94
    22-25, F
    Mar 22, 2015

    Confused! My Boyfriends Love For Me Faded....i Dont Know What to Do...

    I had my boyfriend for couple of months already but we have not meet each others personally yet until now. We meet by irc chat online. At first, I just joined the ride and not really serious of the relationship I had with him, because who would ever thought that it would work...
    princess2003 princess2003
    4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

    I've been with boyfriend

    for 4 years and I feel like the relationship is dimming down slowly but it feels quick, we have a son and we hardly seem to have time together and when we do we don't seem too gullible. He enjoys to go out and do activities with friends and he works hard while I stay home and...
    catanddogperson123 catanddogperson123
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 13, 2015

    ----PLEASE READ AND HELP---- So I have known my

    boyfriend for about 2 years as good friends but we've only been dating for around 7 months. I am 21 he's 22. Usually we get along great and just love being with each other. Last night, my boyfriend and I had been to a bar and had a few drinks then went back to his apartment. I...
    karisriverax karisriverax
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 12, 2015

    I was strong and independent once

    and I'll be happy to do it again so if you want to leave go ahead
    secretsbyr secretsbyr
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2015
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