I Am Having Marital Issues

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    So like many couples we have 2 anniversaries. 1 for when we started dating and1 for when we got married. They are 1 week apart. Total we have been "together" for 12 years this month. This month was also Mother's Day. My husband let all 3 go by unacknowledged. Mother's Day I...
    Littledreamer83 Littledreamer83
    26-30, F
    May 30, 2013

    Finally had our first marriage counseling

    session! I should feel better. I think? He went willingly. He didn't say much, but a lot was brought up. I can't seem to help but feel like he is so "done" with this way of living (ie. Drinking issues causing episodes of extreme dysfunction) that he is also looping me in...
    Littledreamer83 Littledreamer83
    26-30, F
    Sep 17, 2015

    Here Is No Happily Ever After

    I used to think there was. I used to think everyone was jealous of what I had. What I have now is becoming a lie. I lie for him. For his name. For his family. For my children. To save my own face. But I really don't see much in return. I wish I could just walk away and...
    Littledreamer83 Littledreamer83
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2013

    Still at the same old place

    as I was years ago!
    maxmoca1 maxmoca1
    51-55, F
    May 3, 2015

    So tonight we had a heated argument.

    I feel he favors the younger kid and is too harsh on the older one. I step in the disciplining and side with the older kid (9). Who also has a behavioral health problem and takes mess for it. I'm very upset. I have skills to work an office job, but I only work seasonally and...
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    1 Response Jul 23, 2015

    That Picture to the Left Is Me and My Husband

    No, its not but should be! We are so far apart now; why should I even try to get this marriage back. I was the one that was doing all of the given and him just taken it all in. He never given anything back; just sat there on his computer chair; having a great old time chatting...
    123ct 123ct
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2008

    The 10 Year Hump Or Lump?

    WEll... I've been with my husband for almost 10 years... I feel like we connect still.. have fun together still... all around I think we are both pretty cool people... I love hanging out with my husband.. being ith him.... he's my best friend... my soul mate.... I can't imagine...
    7398to711 7398to711
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 30, 2007

    Neigbors Upstairs

    They are interfearing in our marriage. I'm a stay at home wive and so is she. Every time husband stop to talk to my husband he says little things, I'm think they are listening and ears dropping and they are causing problems
    46-50, F
    Jul 27, 2012
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    Jul 29, 2015

    25 Years & Problems

    My wife & I have been married almost 26 years. She is the love of my life and (I know it's overused) my true soulmate. Recently she has become fast friends with a man that she works with. He is in an out of town location & she's his customer service rep. My 1st...
    crimsonblues crimsonblues
    1 Response Feb 10, 2009
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