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I Am Having Relationship Problems

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    Love To Hate Him.. (Jealous Boyfriend)

    So a little background: My man and I have been together for almost a year. When we met, we hit it off instantaneously, I could almost see the fireworks. He and I clicked so well and we understood each other. Then after about 4 months into the relationship, he began to show his...
    Reyene Reyene 18-21 Aug 28, 2013

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    Somebody Help. I Could Use Some Advice

    When I was 16, young, lonely, and stupid I would go on the internet to seek comfort from talking to people I didn't know and didn't really care. One night, I had an extremely long conversation with a guy. Long story short, after a few months and a few visits we started dating. He...
    canadianlover canadianlover 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    I feel like we're drifting apart.

    And it hurts really bad to admit this. I'm getting irritated really easily by every little thing between us. We stopped having sexual conversations for a few weeks now. It'll just get worse when he actually starts a job. I find myself crying a lot thinking about this kind of...
    ShadowyCheshire ShadowyCheshire 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    we broke up and she still calls me baby,

    boyfriend, and husband, she moved to Minnesota and still texts me with all that, im having a hard time getting her to understand that we aren't together,will i ever find the right one?
    boyo00000 boyo00000 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 21

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    so i met this girl Candace during a band

    rehearsal and to start we were really good friends and now its about 6 months after that and ive started to have a crush on her. so after a band clean up i decide to ask her if we can get together. turns out she liked me alot as well. so we started going out and its been about 4...
    NanNanNanNan NanNanNanNan 13-15, T 1 Response May 26

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    He Left Me At 6 Months Pregnant

    I started to date this guy my junior year of high school February of 2008, we had the most amazing relationship. We had so much in common, we made eachother laugh and smile, He made me feel so beautiful and told me everyday how much he loved me. We shared so many firsts together...
    titosmommy titosmommy 18-21 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    I Need Advice.

    My boyfriend is really quiet and doesn't talk about his problems until he gets overwhelmed and can't hold it in anymore but he is easy to read like a book. So couple weeks ago, i had noticed my boyfriend acting distant and less loving to me. So, we get into a fight after i...
    christina0259 christina0259 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Feeling Less And Less Wanted

    How can a person that you love so very much constantly hurt your feelings? I know you are thinking "why are you still with him?" I love this man more than I have ever loved anyone in my life. I believe that I have much stronger feeling for him that he has for me. This has not...
    montygue63 montygue63 46-50 4 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    I've been with my next-door neighbour

    for a while now. We've been together for a couple of years and were introduced to each other via our parents and church leaders. Recently, he says he's been craving more than just "innocent touching" and essentially wants me to put out. I've never really craved intimacy but...
    schemily03 schemily03 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    So I'm 16 and currently dating a girl

    for just over a month. It's the school holidays at the moment so we haven't seen each other in 6 days. What I find strange however is that for the past 2 days, she has not replied to any text messages or Facebook messages. I know she is online because it comes up when she likes...
    PWF1 PWF1 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 14

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    My Phd Husband...

    I met my husband 5 1/2 years ago. He was in year 4 of his PhD and he was teaching the summer class I was in. (Everything was kosher: I pursued him, and only after final grades were released. While in class, I don't think he even knew who I was; the class wasn't my thing, I was in...
    rebcca rebcca 26-30, F Nov 2, 2012

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    So 6 guys have major crushes on me,

    and like 3 of them!!!! Help me choose!!!!! Plus how do I tell the others I'm not interested?
    soccergirlXD soccergirlXD 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Space Is Good..... Right?

    I just broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago and now I'm slightly regretting it. We were together for over a year. We were also having a lot of problems though. We argued constantly over the same things. We tried to work it out and always hit the point where we would almost...
    tiredsadalone tiredsadalone 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    I Feel Like This Is So Typical...

    I'm not one to reach out for help, but I really need to get this off my chest. Ugh, so of course, I am having boyfriend problems. We've come a long way in the last 2 1/2 years. I will give a back story... I am 23, and he is 29. He is a very responsible person, and me? Well not...
    CaliLove666 CaliLove666 22-25, F Sep 20, 2013

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    I Need My Space.

    Probably some of the most powerful words. When your the one saying them its you telling somebody in the nicest way possible, get away from me..I need a break from you. But when there being said its either hurting somebody because they don't feel the same way or its giving them...
    idk624 idk624 18-21, F Sep 26, 2012

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    Moody Husband

    My husband of 19 years is moody and when he gets tired he can become angry, most of the time he just goes to bed and falls asleep but sometimes he is annoying and causes arguements. I do love him, but sometimes I wonder if I'd be better on my own, I am tired of always being on...
    scoobydoono2 scoobydoono2 41-45 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    It Feels Like My Boyfriend Is Drifting Away

    From Me. We Stopped Facetiming.. We Hardly Talk, And When We Do We're Either Fighting Or He'll Cut Me Down To Size... He Doesn't Say He's Sorry For When He Makes Me Cry, Or After He Says Something Totally Rude! Always Has To Have His Way... We've Been Together For 1 Year And 4...
    KateMost KateMost 13-15, F 3 Responses May 11

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    My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship

    since we were very young. 14 years old. We are now 28 with two kids. No marriage but have been engaged but was called off. We are together again. Through out the years of being together we have been on and off a lot. But no longer than a few weeks. I feel like we are stuck in...
    irishspring3 irishspring3 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Today

    About 10 minutes ago I found out that the love of my life is secretly carrying on with many women on Craigslist. He responds to their ads and tells them that he is looking for the love of his life. That he recently broke up with a girl who was clingy and self centered. That he...
    silverbluedragon silverbluedragon 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2013

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    Trust

    hi am josh and have a problem of trust. am living with a girl whom i dont trust lately. i used to trust her but these days she is full of lies. i have been with her for four years. i had wanted to quit but she always tells me she loves me and would like me to marry her. can...
    joshuapadi joshuapadi 22-25 4 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Where Did The Spark Go?

    My relationship most of the time, is amazing. We do everything as we always have, and yet something happened. We are not mad at each other, we don't fight much. We have been together about a year and a half. We used to be so close. It was like we could read each others minds...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    mem04006 mem04006 26-30, F May 11

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    My girl and I are about to have daughter

    together and I'm happy as I could be but she don't know how to separate from her family we been together since 2011 and it was the same back then I have talk to her about it and nothing changes we can have time for our self bc of them I'm tired of this broken record I don't know...
    jp1992 jp1992 22-25, M Apr 14

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    Hi guys, So I am in high school

    and I really like this girl in my class, I did not even know she was in the class till a year back when I started noticing her, I don't know why, call it love or attraction but now I am having some problems about it. I told my bestfriends about the way I feel about her and...
    Blueblues12 Blueblues12 13-15, M Jul 20

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    I'm Married To A Person With Borderline Disorder.

    Hi guys, I want to share my experience with you and maybe have some advice. I'm a brazilian gay girl who lives in england with my partner. We are together for almost two years and even though I love her to sweetness, it's being really hard. She has borderline disorder and...
    cissarego cissarego 26-30, F Dec 4, 2012

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    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M Jul 21

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    I Think My Girlfriend Is Going To Dump Me?

    Do any ladies out here have any advice for me...We have a good relationship most days. She told me she's happy but she wants To slow things down, she's suffocating, it's not all my fault cus she's also got a lot going on in her life but also she wants our relationship to last a...
    Freddiederf Freddiederf 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Confused

    okay so ive been dating this guy for about 3 months. and before he came along, whenever id date someone i would always have a rebound guy just in case we broke up id have someone to go to. well I honestly love this guy, hes amazing, but lately we've been fighting and so a couple...
    cef2412 cef2412 18-21, F 2 Responses May 7, 2012

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    Recently my bf and I have had problems in our

    relationship. I don't believe he is a strong person who can stand up for himself. His parents are having issues with our relationship and it is as if they want to control everything that happens between us. I let him know that I am not going to deal with that sort of...
    AmoyL AmoyL 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    So this is what is going on.

    I recently started going back to church and everything was going great. Then one day a member from the church who plays the Piano took me home after service was over. On the way to my house you could tell he was into me but i also was into him but he is married so i played it...
    denise2190 denise2190 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    My Life

    My life now is going down hill. I've tried to be there for my man but he won't talk to me. He rather talk to other people then communicate with me. I see so much of my ex in him that I'm seeing red. I left my ex for this same reason. My man I believe is my soul mate. I just wish...
    silverbluedragon silverbluedragon 31-35, F Jul 30, 2013

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    Girlfriend Sending Emails To Her Ex

    Hello, I would like to know your opinion on this. Recently, I was sitting behind my girlfriend while she was checking her emails. I was watching t.v. but as I glanced at the screen (yes I was curious) I noticed she had emails from a guy I'd never heard of. Later...
    Jiffius Jiffius 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Advice I Have Recieved Off Of One Issue! Feed Back Please.

    Ok, So I have been seeking advice from several people on here and I want some opinions on what everyone thinks about the advice I have been given, So here is how this will work, I will post my story and the responses. This may take some time to read but I would love for everyone...
    Claire56 Claire56 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    Don't No What To Do.

    well i have been dating this girl for 5 months and she has 3 kids 17 14 12yrs. for a long time before we got together the kids had absolutly no discipline. and now I'm trying to get the kids to stop walking all over there mother. me and my gf have sat down and worked out a chore...
    dbmb5555 dbmb5555 22-25 1 Response Jul 24, 2012

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    Confussed

    Well I am in a relationship with a very strong, smart, and all around great woman. We first started dating a year ago and I knew getting involved into the relationship invovled myself getting involved with her son, and her soon to be adopted 2 neices. I thought that I could...
    sonic054 sonic054 26-30, M Apr 4, 2010

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    My Crazy Husband

    I am married to a recently separated former Marine. Being a Marine doesn't mean anything positive or negative, it is just what he was doing for 8 years. We got married in a rush and then almost immediately he was talking to other women and cheating. From constantly trying to push...
    amyinfv amyinfv 36-40 Aug 26, 2012

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    im dealing with anger

    and grief aftr betrayal
    geee21 geee21 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Having relationship issues.

    ..what do I do with a guy I have been with for almost 3 years who wants to "shack up" in response to my desire to be married?
    honeygirl1223 honeygirl1223 36-40, F 1 Response May 1

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    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I really don't know where to start

    or what to do .. I been with this guy for 9 months at first everything was wonderful and we would talk about everything for hours come visit me just coz he could now he doesn't tell me anything or really talk at all we don't really fight but there is tension and I've tryed so...
    bindy4 bindy4 31-35, F Apr 15

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    I feel like every time I go out with my

    boyfriend, he's always staring at other women. I asked him, and he sincerely told me that the only women he looks at is me. I just can't trust him though. This has gotten to the point where I honestly feel like not being in a relationship because of how insecure I feel. Help...
    sarakmyers23 sarakmyers23 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    It Feels Like My Boyfriend Just Doesn'T Care Anymore

    My boyfriend & I have been together for just over a year now. I have had some very bad relationships in the past so I tend to have some trust issues but I've been working through them because he has never given me reason to be not trusting. He used to be very supportive, sweet...
    loserlikemee loserlikemee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    In a relationship but we're more like friends

    who live together. We sleep in separate rooms for god's sake!
    anonymousfraud anonymousfraud 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 15

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    My boyfriend begged me to go to church with him,

    I not religious at all. Ever since them I've felt numb towards him. I spent the entire time trying to not cry because if he wants to be with a religious girl I can't give him that. I guess I've been distancing myself from him because of that. Shutting off my emotions. I truly do...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 18

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    Related Experiences

    I have been really discouraged lately, on of my ex girlfriends is trying to get back with me and wont leave me alone. We had a really bad breakup and I don't like being associated...
    Andrewwo Andrewwo 18-21, M Aug 10

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    What a pathetic loser am i. Still attached to my ex. I know we're still in love with each other. But i cannot take the risks of fighting each other. We always had arguments over...
    isotope95 isotope95 18-21, F Aug 19

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    My boyfriend is 4 years younger than me. I want to have kids in a few years, but I don't think he shares the same goal. he's still somewhat immature & I'm slowly falling out of...
    gardenbeauty gardenbeauty 22-25, F Aug 4

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    I'm dating this guy and we've been together for 2 years now, we know everything about each other and I feel very comfortable around him and he makes me feel complete and he never...
    cancergirl246 cancergirl246 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago. We dated for 4 months. The first month and a half was great and we were "in love" and I had no problem letting him in surprisingly. I'm one of...
    xprncemore xprncemore 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    How do I get excitement back into my relationship my girlfriend is bat crazy over me.. And yeah she is good looking. Just I feel I can aim higher but I don't want to be shallow...
    darkvoid13 darkvoid13 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    My boyfriend despite dating fore over 9 months and having sex nearly everyday we are with each other during that time, has recently decided to become religious again. He grew up...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F Aug 18

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    My boo is upset. I wish I could be with him right now to help him, but for now I can only text him. I can only try and make him happy and give him advice. He's having boy...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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