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I Am Having Relationship Problems

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    im dealing with anger

    and grief aftr betrayal
    geee21 geee21 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    So I'm 16 and currently dating a girl

    for just over a month. It's the school holidays at the moment so we haven't seen each other in 6 days. What I find strange however is that for the past 2 days, she has not replied to any text messages or Facebook messages. I know she is online because it comes up when she likes...
    PWF1 PWF1 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 14

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    Relationship Problems.

    I recently "talked" to a guy for a little over two months. He asked for my number when I came into his work. We REALLY hit it off. We were calling eachother baby, talking for hours, all the good stuff. But then he started not texting me, For 3 DAYS AT A TIME. The first time I...
    lovelylo94 lovelylo94 18-21, F 1 Response May 3, 2013

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    Space Is Good..... Right?

    I just broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago and now I'm slightly regretting it. We were together for over a year. We were also having a lot of problems though. We argued constantly over the same things. We tried to work it out and always hit the point where we would almost...
    tiredsadalone tiredsadalone 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Love To Hate Him.. (Jealous Boyfriend)

    So a little background: My man and I have been together for almost a year. When we met, we hit it off instantaneously, I could almost see the fireworks. He and I clicked so well and we understood each other. Then after about 4 months into the relationship, he began to show his...
    Reyene Reyene 18-21 Aug 28, 2013

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    Somebody Help. I Could Use Some Advice

    When I was 16, young, lonely, and stupid I would go on the internet to seek comfort from talking to people I didn't know and didn't really care. One night, I had an extremely long conversation with a guy. Long story short, after a few months and a few visits we started dating. He...
    canadianlover canadianlover 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    My Phd Husband...

    I met my husband 5 1/2 years ago. He was in year 4 of his PhD and he was teaching the summer class I was in. (Everything was kosher: I pursued him, and only after final grades were released. While in class, I don't think he even knew who I was; the class wasn't my thing, I was in...
    rebcca rebcca 26-30, F Nov 2, 2012

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    Trust

    hi am josh and have a problem of trust. am living with a girl whom i dont trust lately. i used to trust her but these days she is full of lies. i have been with her for four years. i had wanted to quit but she always tells me she loves me and would like me to marry her. can...
    joshuapadi joshuapadi 22-25 4 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    I Feel Like This Is So Typical...

    I'm not one to reach out for help, but I really need to get this off my chest. Ugh, so of course, I am having boyfriend problems. We've come a long way in the last 2 1/2 years. I will give a back story... I am 23, and he is 29. He is a very responsible person, and me? Well not...
    CaliLove666 CaliLove666 22-25, F Sep 20, 2013

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    Don't No What To Do.

    well i have been dating this girl for 5 months and she has 3 kids 17 14 12yrs. for a long time before we got together the kids had absolutly no discipline. and now I'm trying to get the kids to stop walking all over there mother. me and my gf have sat down and worked out a chore...
    dbmb5555 dbmb5555 22-25 1 Response Jul 24, 2012

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    My Life

    My life now is going down hill. I've tried to be there for my man but he won't talk to me. He rather talk to other people then communicate with me. I see so much of my ex in him that I'm seeing red. I left my ex for this same reason. My man I believe is my soul mate. I just wish...
    silverbluedragon silverbluedragon 31-35, F Jul 30, 2013

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    Where Did The Spark Go?

    My relationship most of the time, is amazing. We do everything as we always have, and yet something happened. We are not mad at each other, we don't fight much. We have been together about a year and a half. We used to be so close. It was like we could read each others minds...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    I really don't know where to start

    or what to do .. I been with this guy for 9 months at first everything was wonderful and we would talk about everything for hours come visit me just coz he could now he doesn't tell me anything or really talk at all we don't really fight but there is tension and I've tryed so...
    bindy4 bindy4 31-35, F Apr 15

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    Advice I Have Recieved Off Of One Issue! Feed Back Please.

    Ok, So I have been seeking advice from several people on here and I want some opinions on what everyone thinks about the advice I have been given, So here is how this will work, I will post my story and the responses. This may take some time to read but I would love for everyone...
    Claire56 Claire56 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    It Feels Like My Boyfriend Just Doesn'T Care Anymore

    My boyfriend & I have been together for just over a year now. I have had some very bad relationships in the past so I tend to have some trust issues but I've been working through them because he has never given me reason to be not trusting. He used to be very supportive, sweet...
    loserlikemee loserlikemee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    I feel like we're drifting apart.

    And it hurts really bad to admit this. I'm getting irritated really easily by every little thing between us. We stopped having sexual conversations for a few weeks now. It'll just get worse when he actually starts a job. I find myself crying a lot thinking about this kind of...
    ShadowyCheshire ShadowyCheshire 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    What A Ride!

    well iam a 22 yr old male that needs advice
    dbmb5555 dbmb5555 22-25 Jul 22, 2012

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    He Left Me At 6 Months Pregnant

    I started to date this guy my junior year of high school February of 2008, we had the most amazing relationship. We had so much in common, we made eachother laugh and smile, He made me feel so beautiful and told me everyday how much he loved me. We shared so many firsts together...
    titosmommy titosmommy 18-21 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    I Think My Girlfriend Is Going To Dump Me?

    Do any ladies out here have any advice for me...We have a good relationship most days. She told me she's happy but she wants To slow things down, she's suffocating, it's not all my fault cus she's also got a lot going on in her life but also she wants our relationship to last a...
    Freddiederf Freddiederf 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Confussed

    Well I am in a relationship with a very strong, smart, and all around great woman. We first started dating a year ago and I knew getting involved into the relationship invovled myself getting involved with her son, and her soon to be adopted 2 neices. I thought that I could...
    sonic054 sonic054 26-30, M Apr 4, 2010

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    I Feel I Can'T Make Her Happy.

    I have moved to NY and I convinced my GF to come with. We had plans to open up our own business (with the help of my father, which he now backed out and left us on our own) and start our lives together. We have only been here three months and it has been hell, I am able to deal...
    YayoDeals YayoDeals 26-30, M May 20, 2013

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    Confused

    okay so ive been dating this guy for about 3 months. and before he came along, whenever id date someone i would always have a rebound guy just in case we broke up id have someone to go to. well I honestly love this guy, hes amazing, but lately we've been fighting and so a couple...
    cef2412 cef2412 18-21, F 2 Responses May 7, 2012

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    I Need My Space.

    Probably some of the most powerful words. When your the one saying them its you telling somebody in the nicest way possible, get away from me..I need a break from you. But when there being said its either hurting somebody because they don't feel the same way or its giving them...
    idk624 idk624 18-21, F Sep 26, 2012

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    I'm Married To A Person With Borderline Disorder.

    Hi guys, I want to share my experience with you and maybe have some advice. I'm a brazilian gay girl who lives in england with my partner. We are together for almost two years and even though I love her to sweetness, it's being really hard. She has borderline disorder and...
    cissarego cissarego 26-30, F Dec 4, 2012

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    Girlfriend Sending Emails To Her Ex

    Hello, I would like to know your opinion on this. Recently, I was sitting behind my girlfriend while she was checking her emails. I was watching t.v. but as I glanced at the screen (yes I was curious) I noticed she had emails from a guy I'd never heard of. Later...
    Jiffius Jiffius 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Moody Husband

    My husband of 19 years is moody and when he gets tired he can become angry, most of the time he just goes to bed and falls asleep but sometimes he is annoying and causes arguements. I do love him, but sometimes I wonder if I'd be better on my own, I am tired of always being on...
    scoobydoono2 scoobydoono2 41-45 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    I Need Advice.

    My boyfriend is really quiet and doesn't talk about his problems until he gets overwhelmed and can't hold it in anymore but he is easy to read like a book. So couple weeks ago, i had noticed my boyfriend acting distant and less loving to me. So, we get into a fight after i...
    christina0259 christina0259 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Feeling Less And Less Wanted

    How can a person that you love so very much constantly hurt your feelings? I know you are thinking "why are you still with him?" I love this man more than I have ever loved anyone in my life. I believe that I have much stronger feeling for him that he has for me. This has not...
    montygue63 montygue63 46-50 4 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    In a relationship but we're more like friends

    who live together. We sleep in separate rooms for god's sake!
    anonymousfraud anonymousfraud 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 15

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    My girl and I are about to have daughter

    together and I'm happy as I could be but she don't know how to separate from her family we been together since 2011 and it was the same back then I have talk to her about it and nothing changes we can have time for our self bc of them I'm tired of this broken record I don't know...
    jp1992 jp1992 18-21, M Apr 14

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    My Crazy Husband

    I am married to a recently separated former Marine. Being a Marine doesn't mean anything positive or negative, it is just what he was doing for 8 years. We got married in a rush and then almost immediately he was talking to other women and cheating. From constantly trying to push...
    amyinfv amyinfv 36-40 Aug 26, 2012

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    My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship

    since we were very young. 14 years old. We are now 28 with two kids. No marriage but have been engaged but was called off. We are together again. Through out the years of being together we have been on and off a lot. But no longer than a few weeks. I feel like we are stuck in...
    irishspring3 irishspring3 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Help!

    "Okaay- I've been with ryan for two years now, and all we've ever done is argue. We have some really good times, but we don't talk anymore. I can't open up to him, I can't tell him anything, if I do we just argue, I'm depressed all the time, my mum and dad say we're not suited...
    RyanMcK RyanMcK 16-17 Oct 14, 2012

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    I feel like every time I go out with my

    boyfriend, he's always staring at other women. I asked him, and he sincerely told me that the only women he looks at is me. I just can't trust him though. This has gotten to the point where I honestly feel like not being in a relationship because of how insecure I feel. Help...
    sarakmyers23 sarakmyers23 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Today

    About 10 minutes ago I found out that the love of my life is secretly carrying on with many women on Craigslist. He responds to their ads and tells them that he is looking for the love of his life. That he recently broke up with a girl who was clingy and self centered. That he...
    silverbluedragon silverbluedragon 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2013

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    Bad Position

    Im going to break up with my boyfriend, because I still have feelings for my ex. And I know that he still has feelings for me, because he told me that himself. I don't know how to break up with him, I don't want to hurt him. Please help.
    Jacqid96 Jacqid96 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    Lost My Boyfriend And A Friend :(

    Hi am 19 years old and I met my ex bf about 4 months ago through his friend and my friend. We totally hit it off right away and was pretty much unseperable after that. We hung out almost ever day and about a month in he asked me to be his girlfriend and of coarse I was so happy...
    Lindz9211 Lindz9211 18-21, F Aug 13, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Yeah I'm having some problems I know some of you don't care but I need help plz I know deep down or not you probly do just message me and so we can get help plz only people who...
    Wolf267 Wolf267 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    This has been going on for way too long that I don't even remember when it began anymore. It just seems that no matter who I'm speaking to, they all have one thing in common...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Every time I feel as though things are going right in my life, I go & mess them up. Whether it be in work, school or my personal life, I have problems with making relationships...
    midnight925 midnight925 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    When is enough, enough? I honestly don't know what to do. My husband is secretive and I feel like he is extremely deceitful. This ***** with my head in the worst way possible...
    lj1127 lj1127 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    My boyfriend, Nate, can never fight for me. If I left he would just watch me do. He can never utter the strength to be with me. To be honest I just want to see him be brave. To...
    4Ana 4Ana 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    My anxiety holds me back from being happy in relationships. I'm too scared to be hurt. Suggestions/advice anyone??
    Tuffblowfish Tuffblowfish 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Me&my ex was dating for 7 months and we both loved each other very much but she has a new boyfriend now but i was with her last night and we was speaking about our relationship and...
    pipkin15 pipkin15 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This school year has been a whiz, but I'm also graduating from 5th grade. So here is the problem. It all started on the first day of 5th grade, everything was normal, many shy...
    LoveBunny1 LoveBunny1 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I really feel bad and I want to cry . So my boyfriend has reAlly bad teeth and I was telling him that I was upset that my roommate was making fun of them . He than stated that it's...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F Apr 3

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    My boyfriend and I love each other, but it's like when ever we don't see each other after a few days we start fighting. I don't know what to do and I need some advice please?
    17JustBeingMe17 17JustBeingMe17 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Me and this girl have been speaking for a long time now but when we first started speaking i didn't treat her right but now i realised how much she means to me im always trying to...
    pipkin15 pipkin15 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Honestly, it feels like everything I do is wrong. I find myself second guessing literally everything I say and do when I'm with my boyfriend because if I do the wrong thing or say...
    beautifulhypocrisy beautifulhypocrisy 18-21, F Apr 5

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    We've been together for 4 years. We talk to each other everyday. Most of the time we're great, but when we fight, it's really bad. The other day we watched a movie and when it was...
    Natask Natask 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I don't know what to do. I'm sitting outside listening to my mother and step father argue in the house. He's on a rampage. Throwing things and breaking glass. It's the worst it's...
    sKat22 sKat22 16-17, F Apr 12

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    I have a good amount of friends but one of my friends that iv known for like 3 years is smoking,doing drugs and cutting her self and the worst part is her excuse was she was per...
    ngoodfellow ngoodfellow 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    He has been my best friend since 3rd grade and now he is avoiding me? He won't talk to me in the hallway, doesn't reply to texts, anything.. Help?
    summerlove18 summerlove18 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    So my crush will message me every now and then and majorly flirt and say stuff that he shouldn't because he has a girlfriend and I don't know what to do
    teamnotbatman teamnotbatman 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now and lately it feel like he doesn't appreciate me. I basically do everything for him and he's just so selfish. He never...
    plzchooseanother plzchooseanother 18-21, F 5 days ago