I Am Having Trouble With a Break Up

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 135 People

    It's only been 2 weeks

    and a day, since he broke up with me. I have the stuff that he gave me packed up. I just have to deliver it. The sad pathetic part of me is saying have faith maybe you guys will get back together. But my logical side is saying, girl don't be stupid that's not going to happen. He...
    candij1983 candij1983
    31-35, F
    Feb 2, 2015

    To Life

    "Kiss me only if you agree that we're not right for each other," said he. He didn't want me to go home confused. "That's like drinking a bottle of poison and toasting to life," said I. But I kissed him anyway.
    ambrosei ambrosei
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 27, 2013

    And Then It Hit Me.

    We broke up 5 months ago, and I was fine for a long time.  But now I'm angry.  For no apparent reason.  It sucks because we're supposed to be good friends but i had to tell my ex i wanted to take space from them because I'm angry.  Frankly I'm sick of feeling...
    onetwothree onetwothree
    22-25, T
    1 Response Jan 8, 2009

    I Don't Know How To Break Up With Him!

    I have a boyfriend named Kainan. I've known him for two years. We've liked each other the whole time, but didn't know it. We've been going out for a month now, and it's going really good! Everyone thinks we're a good couple and everything! Thing is.. I seem to be the only one...
    ThisIsMyUsernameDealWithIt ThisIsMyUsernameDealWithIt
    18-21, F
    Sep 3, 2013

    It's been 17 months and I still am not over my

    ex and/or have not been able to move on. I spend a lot of time in my bed and I don't go out in public because I don't like to see him with his new girlfriend
    sashafierce007 sashafierce007
    46-50, F
    May 2, 2015

    I've been dealing with it

    for over a month. I post here frequently about her, and I should probably stop, but I feel crappy almost every day and this is some sort of escape for me. A few days after she broke up with me, she said she met someone new. She liked him. He was coming over hers for a weekend...
    xSundip xSundip
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    YES .. I still think 'bout u YES .

    . Too hard to forget 'bout u AND YES .. I think I still love U ,, BUT NO , I don't want U back
    ElenaMegan ElenaMegan
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    This is long, sorry! I am 16,

    and am having trouble with a break up. This girl and I did everything together. We were never really apart for our relationship. During school, between classes we would be together, lunch, after school, we would call each other every single night for 2-5 hours. At least once a...
    brentlz brentlz
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 22, 2015

    It's been 5 months since we've broken up

    and I'm still not over it .. I hate him so much and all this hate that I harbor is killing me.. One day I'm ok and the next I'm thinking about everything that I allowed him to do to me and I get angry with myself and him.. Everyday I pray for a change and closure.. I'm just...
    Dbell1101 Dbell1101
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2014

    I'm clearly in a relationship

    that is very bad for me, even my therapist said that. Nothing works for us. We have nothing in common anymore. And the sad thing is, is that the main reason I'm giving up, is his parents. It's not his parents fault, it's their relationship with my boyfriend and the other way...
    lyllithium lyllithium
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 14

    Just got overwhelmed with the feeling of loss.

    He was supposed to help me with something but I realized now he's gone. This made me so sad. I know he wasn't the "one" but it still hurts. Please fix me.
    nikkisun nikkisun
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2014

    Why Can't We?

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months 2 days ago. I bought it up and he agreed that I have a valid reason why I should be mad for things that he did. He suggested we start all over again from scratch, from being just friend. I agreed. When we talked last night on the phone...
    honeyangel honeyangel
    46-50, F
    Jul 10, 2012

    Remember....

    I want you to know right now that you are too strong to live life hurt.You are too beautiful to let someone elses ugly ways make you insecure yourself.So stop crying over that person thats making somebody else smile and let God bring you the person who wants to make you smile...
    kmart52492 kmart52492
    18-21, F
    Sep 15, 2013

    The love of my life dumped me 2 days ago.

    I can't eat or sleep and all I can do all day is cry, I am beyond devastated. Also he blamed me for the break up and said we argued too much and that he wasnt happy with me anymore. I am in so much pain, I really thought he was the one for me. I dont know what to do or how to...
    Beachbabe2115 Beachbabe2115
    26-30, F
    Feb 24, 2015

    Accidentally Erased

     I just wrote an extensive blog detailing all of my feelings upon facing the end of my three year relationship. I felt okay, like I'd be able to deal with everything. Then I accidentally erased the whole thing. Only then did I cry.
    AssumeVivid AssumeVivid
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2008

    Still Hope He Is Coming Back.....

    I have been with my bf for 1 year 5 months. We were in love and gradually moved in. Then He wanted to move back to his home country to start a business and  bought a house there. He went back after a year living to gether which I loved, the only thing that troubld me was a...
    ekki ekki
    46-50
    1 Response Sep 15, 2008

    Break Up And Friends

    My ex and I of 3 years broke up a while ago and we remain best friends. Everything was fine until recently she has gotten obsessed with talking to this new guy who she thinks is so great. The way they started talking is very strange to say the least. From him not really taking an...
    Rpg6 Rpg6
    26-30, M
    Apr 1, 2013

    Have you ever had someone you loved

    and cared about just walk out your life without explaining why? Without giving you a clue they were going to leave? Can you imagine that in your last conversation you spoke about having kids and getting married? That is exactly what happened to me . I've know this guy for 5...
    ethereal101 ethereal101
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2014

    Cheating to Break Up

    My relationship finally ended after almost 8 months of  "pushing him away" and "asking him back".  how and why? is not important any more. The thing is, neither of us can pull ourselves away from the relationship and that's why the breaking up...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 29, 2008

    Are You Really Almost 30?

    I broke up with my bf of 6 months last night and it's been hell today. He checked my facebook status and decided I had cheated on him. I kinda thought he would find something to justify that since he'd been "teasing" that me and my best friend were have a lesbian...
    alisheaskylar alisheaskylar
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2008

    This Break Up Is Bothering Me!

    Please!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.  So here's the story. My boyfriend and I dated for almost 2 years.. We were faithful to each other, and it would seem that we were a great couple. But the last 2 months of our relationship, we began to go on and off...
    jenzilla jenzilla
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2010

    My boyfriend and I haven't really been together

    long. Just 7 1/2 months and we just broke up yesterday. I haven't been through this much pain in a while. I had a feeling it was coming but I am cursed with an unrealistically optimistic spirit and was hoping he would at least try to stick things out with me. He broke up with...
    BBopenbook BBopenbook
    18-21, F
    Oct 16, 2014

    My GF left me a week ago

    and I really though I would be over it. Long story short...I'm not. I feel so lost with our having someone beside me to hold onto. I have always been worried and struggled with depression not to the point of suicide but to the point of being very antisocial. When I had first...
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    I Need Help

    I was in a two and a half year relationship with this woman. I fell for uer so fast and deeply only problem was that she lived in florida and im in new york. Things started out great there were jealousy probs but nothing huge. After i got out the marines i brung her to me to live...
    junior7362 junior7362
    26-30, M
    May 8, 2013

    Want Him Back

    Hi I'm Brittany, My boyfriend and I broke up today, [what a way to celebrate easter] I saw it coming yet i didnt at the same time. It's kind of weird. He dropped off my stuff and then his parents both came back at seperate times to drop my stuff off too [i had become apart of...
    brittany2009 brittany2009
    18-21, F
    Apr 13, 2009

    Long Distance And The Age Difference

    In early 2008 I met a young lady online who lived several states away from me. Over a period of a year we grew quite attached to one another. After much discussion she eventually came to visit me. She is 8 years younger than me but that didn't seem to be a significant issue at...
    BrianDavidHarris BrianDavidHarris
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 15, 2011

    I had a lying and cheating boyfriend whom I've

    been with since 2007 on and off due to his untrusting ways. Can someone please tell me why I've given him so many chances over the years and always end back up with the loser. He just broke up with me in a text message and we are living together. What a jerk. I know it's for the...
    MitzieZ MitzieZ
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

    New Army Girlfriend Issues

    I've been with my bf for 9 months and we're having trouble deciding where to go from here. He will get posted next year and I am not 100% sure that I want to move with him. I'm a teacher and love my life right here. My dad was in the Air Force, so I know the life I'm getting in...
    shellbelle24 shellbelle24
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2013

    Want Him Back

    Hi I'm Brittany, My boyfriend and I broke up today, [what a way to celebrate easter] I saw it coming yet i didnt at the same time. It's kind of weird. He dropped off my stuff and then his parents both came back at seperate times to drop my stuff off too [i had become apart of...
    brittany2009 brittany2009
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 13, 2009

    I've been seeing this guy

    for 2 months now. For the past 4 years he has had a very toxic relationship with a woman who is addicted to oxies. I have know this man for over 10 years from work. 2 months ago he had moved right across the street from me, and he started to come over and visit and we would...
    Linley242 Linley242
    51-55, F
    Aug 10, 2015

    Heres the thing... The girl i thought i loved.

    .. still do kinda... she wouldn't break up with her boyfriend... it just tore me to pieces everytime she said 'i love you' or 'your the thing that makes me smile when i wake up' So for the second time (yeahhh didn't learn the first time because i'm a sucker) i pushed her away...
    wombatron wombatron
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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