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I Am Having Trouble With a Break Up

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    Accidentally Erased

     I just wrote an extensive blog detailing all of my feelings upon facing the end of my three year relationship. I felt okay, like I'd be able to deal with everything. Then I accidentally erased the whole thing. Only then did I cry.
    AssumeVivid AssumeVivid 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    New Army Girlfriend Issues

    I've been with my bf for 9 months and we're having trouble deciding where to go from here. He will get posted next year and I am not 100% sure that I want to move with him. I'm a teacher and love my life right here. My dad was in the Air Force, so I know the life I'm getting in...
    shellbelle24 shellbelle24 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    I Don't Know How To Break Up With Him!

    I have a boyfriend named Kainan. I've known him for two years. We've liked each other the whole time, but didn't know it. We've been going out for a month now, and it's going really good! Everyone thinks we're a good couple and everything! Thing is.. I seem to be the only one...
    ThisIsMyUsernameDealWithIt ThisIsMyUsernameDealWithIt 16-17, F Sep 3, 2013

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    Hello, I'm new to this website.

    My friend told me people here might be able to help me. (WARNING VERY LONG >.< SORRY) So, In January I started dating this boy (18) His name was Ian. I had talked to Ian before. Back in June of the previous year. I would've originally dated him then... but my friend and her...
    maromis maromis 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    And Then It Hit Me.

    We broke up 5 months ago, and I was fine for a long time.  But now I'm angry.  For no apparent reason.  It sucks because we're supposed to be good friends but i had to tell my ex i wanted to take space from them because I'm angry.  Frankly I'm sick of feeling...
    onetwothree onetwothree 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 8, 2009

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    Break Up And Friends

    My ex and I of 3 years broke up a while ago and we remain best friends. Everything was fine until recently she has gotten obsessed with talking to this new guy who she thinks is so great. The way they started talking is very strange to say the least. From him not really taking an...
    Rpg6 Rpg6 26-30, M Apr 1, 2013

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    Still Hope He Is Coming Back.....

    I have been with my bf for 1 year 5 months. We were in love and gradually moved in. Then He wanted to move back to his home country to start a business and  bought a house there. He went back after a year living to gether which I loved, the only thing that troubld me was a...
    ekki ekki 46-50 1 Response Sep 15, 2008

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    Have you ever had someone you loved

    and cared about just walk out your life without explaining why? Without giving you a clue they were going to leave? Can you imagine that in your last conversation you spoke about having kids and getting married? That is exactly what happened to me . I've know this guy for 5...
    ethereal101 ethereal101 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    This Break Up Is Bothering Me!

    Please!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.  So here's the story. My boyfriend and I dated for almost 2 years.. We were faithful to each other, and it would seem that we were a great couple. But the last 2 months of our relationship, we began to go on and off...
    jenzilla jenzilla 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    Threw you the obvious

    and you flew with it on your back,A name in your recollection, down among a million same.Difficult not to feel a little bit disappointed, and passed overWhen I've looked right through, see you naked but oblivious.And you don't see me.But I threw you the obvious, just to see if...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21, F Dec 27, 2013

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    50 Ways to Leave Your LoverThe problem is all

    inside your head", she said to meThe answer is easy if you take it logicallyI'd like to help you in your struggle to be freeThere must be fifty ways to leave your loverShe said it's really not my habit to intrudeFurthermore, I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstruedBut I...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Want Him Back

    Hi I'm Brittany, My boyfriend and I broke up today, [what a way to celebrate easter] I saw it coming yet i didnt at the same time. It's kind of weird. He dropped off my stuff and then his parents both came back at seperate times to drop my stuff off too [i had become apart of...
    brittany2009 brittany2009 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    Want Him Back

    Hi I'm Brittany, My boyfriend and I broke up today, [what a way to celebrate easter] I saw it coming yet i didnt at the same time. It's kind of weird. He dropped off my stuff and then his parents both came back at seperate times to drop my stuff off too [i had become apart of...
    brittany2009 brittany2009 18-21, F Apr 13, 2009

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    To Life

    "Kiss me only if you agree that we're not right for each other," said he. He didn't want me to go home confused. "That's like drinking a bottle of poison and toasting to life," said I. But I kissed him anyway.
    ambrosei ambrosei 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2013

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    Are You Really Almost 30?

    I broke up with my bf of 6 months last night and it's been hell today. He checked my facebook status and decided I had cheated on him. I kinda thought he would find something to justify that since he'd been "teasing" that me and my best friend were have a lesbian...
    alisheaskylar alisheaskylar 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    Why Can't We?

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months 2 days ago. I bought it up and he agreed that I have a valid reason why I should be mad for things that he did. He suggested we start all over again from scratch, from being just friend. I agreed. When we talked last night on the phone...
    honeyangel honeyangel 46-50, F Jul 10, 2012

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    Remember....

    I want you to know right now that you are too strong to live life hurt.You are too beautiful to let someone elses ugly ways make you insecure yourself.So stop crying over that person thats making somebody else smile and let God bring you the person who wants to make you smile...
    kmart52492 kmart52492 18-21, F Sep 15, 2013

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    Heres the thing... The girl i thought i loved.

    .. still do kinda... she wouldn't break up with her boyfriend... it just tore me to pieces everytime she said 'i love you' or 'your the thing that makes me smile when i wake up' So for the second time (yeahhh didn't learn the first time because i'm a sucker) i pushed her away...
    wombatron wombatron 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Just got overwhelmed with the feeling of loss.

    He was supposed to help me with something but I realized now he's gone. This made me so sad. I know he wasn't the "one" but it still hurts. Please fix me.
    nikkisun nikkisun 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Cheating to Break Up

    My relationship finally ended after almost 8 months of  "pushing him away" and "asking him back".  how and why? is not important any more. The thing is, neither of us can pull ourselves away from the relationship and that's why the breaking up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    I had a lying and cheating boyfriend whom I've

    been with since 2007 on and off due to his untrusting ways. Can someone please tell me why I've given him so many chances over the years and always end back up with the loser. He just broke up with me in a text message and we are living together. What a jerk. I know it's for the...
    MitzieZ MitzieZ 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Long Distance And The Age Difference

    In early 2008 I met a young lady online who lived several states away from me. Over a period of a year we grew quite attached to one another. After much discussion she eventually came to visit me. She is 8 years younger than me but that didn't seem to be a significant issue at...
    BrianDavidHarris BrianDavidHarris 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 15, 2011

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    YES .. I still think 'bout u YES .

    . Too hard to forget 'bout u AND YES .. I think I still love U ,, BUT NO , I don't want U back
    ElenaMegan ElenaMegan 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I Need Help

    I was in a two and a half year relationship with this woman. I fell for uer so fast and deeply only problem was that she lived in florida and im in new york. Things started out great there were jealousy probs but nothing huge. After i got out the marines i brung her to me to live...
    junior7362 junior7362 26-30, M May 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Well not life in general but just continual traumatic events. The latest being my husband's redundancy. He is late 40's and has never been made redundant before and it is after a...
    savedbygrace0 savedbygrace0 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    So i'm having relatives over and that's great and all but my mom doesn't let me go out just to go hang out with my friends. It is so annoying because even when we do not have any...
    loveandfeels55 loveandfeels55 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Well I've broken up with my boyfriend of a year.. And I'm finding it really hard getting over him! Every time I see something he's posted on Facebook or a new girl he's added I...
    helloellie helloellie 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 15 kgs over-weight and I only have till late September to lose weight. Every time I lose weight I eat too much and gain it back. I don't feel like i'm going anywhere with this...
    Risingstarr Risingstarr 13-15, F Jul 1

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    A few days ago, I woke up to yelling in the front room. I was scared because I thought something terrible had happened to either my parents or one of my relatives. I just remember...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I completely blame EP every night Im on here talking with so many different kinds of great people I never would have met otherwise :)
    EffyXOXO EffyXOXO 16-17, F Jul 8

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    Latest news about my boyfriend. Apparently he has no thyroid problems, the doctors said he has anxiety. From previous episodes, I told you how agressive he was in our fights, both...
    alegz alegz 26-30, F a week ago

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    I don't know what to do with my life . My motivation has been taken away from me .
    zebrelle9 zebrelle9 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I realized I like working so much because it distracts my mind. I'm exhausted and my mind still whirls with what I'm trying to avoid, but it helps. I don't know what to do when I'm...
    KimTin33 KimTin33 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I still love my ex that I haven't been with for 7 months, I don't know how to move on, I try I just can't .. I remember him:(
    chelsean16 chelsean16 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I think I might be in love with my best friend. We are both girls, and I don't have feelings for any other girls. I have a boyfriend... But my best friend is always there and I...
    LoveYouGuys LoveYouGuys 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    You know I can be labeled as a heartbreaker. I've had only 2 boyfriends who I broke up with for the same reason, yet I find myself to be the apple in multiple eyes internationally...
    thesassiestamerican thesassiestamerican 13-15, M Jul 7

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    It only hurts when I breathe. I can't seem to catch my breath.
    absolom absolom 36-40 Jun 27

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    For the last few months I have not been able to sleep until after 1.30am. Then 2.30am. It changes between the two usually. Last night? After 4.30. I feel awful today.
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 13

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    I advise that you seek mental health assistance immediately
    support4life support4life 31-35, M Jul 11

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    Tonight was AWFUL!! AWFUL AWFUL AWFUL! I cried! I shocked! I tasted bile in my mouth! I screamed! I yelled! I even said the F word to my own grandmother!!! I was apart of a moms...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I know harsh realities are better than sugar coating but everytime a certain someone gives me tough love it doesn't feel very "loving" at all and I get very very confused and they...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F Jul 13

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    I lost both of my best friends. They were both so important to me. The key in battling my depression. Now things are worse. And I don't know what I'm going to do.
    JustBeingMe572 JustBeingMe572 13-15, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I'm scared to fall in love, I'm scared of it.
    chelsean16 chelsean16 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Me and my ex broke up because of his agressivity, especially verbal. I slapped him and I said I'm leaving him for calling me names and getting angry out of nothing, and he slapped...
    alegz alegz 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Seeing bae crying💔💔😭😭
    love4allquotes love4allquotes 13-15, F Jun 29

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    Lol at the fact that he dumped me and now he's crawling back to me. Sucks😏
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    So...me and my bf started out as friends. Then became best friends then fwb. We are now in a relationship and I am having trouble with transitioning from friends to lovers. Has...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I am having trouble controlling my feelings for that person...my mind would tell me that he belongs to God, but my heart wishes and desires for him. Oh these feelings of mine, Lord...
    angela0887 angela0887 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    Hi, I'm having a nervous breakdown at the moment. It all started about 4 months ago when I left my ex partner who was controlling, I had to leave and give up my job and moved...
    stephanie29 stephanie29 26-30, F Jul 1

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    I know its a real taboo of online dating, what makes it worse is that it is long distant as we are both from different countries, I from the UK him from Romania (tom-not his real...
    kitakata1 kitakata1 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago