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I Am Having Trouble With a Break Up

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 109 People

    Why Can't We?

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months 2 days ago. I bought it up and he agreed that I have a valid reason why I should be mad for things that he did. He suggested we start all over again from scratch, from being just friend. I agreed. When we talked last night on the phone...
    honeyangel honeyangel 46-50, F Jul 10, 2012

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    Heres the thing... The girl i thought i loved.

    .. still do kinda... she wouldn't break up with her boyfriend... it just tore me to pieces everytime she said 'i love you' or 'your the thing that makes me smile when i wake up' So for the second time (yeahhh didn't learn the first time because i'm a sucker) i pushed her away...
    wombatron wombatron 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    My GF left me a week ago

    and I really though I would be over it. Long story short...I'm not. I feel so lost with our having someone beside me to hold onto. I have always been worried and struggled with depression not to the point of suicide but to the point of being very antisocial. When I had first...
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 28

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    Break Up And Friends

    My ex and I of 3 years broke up a while ago and we remain best friends. Everything was fine until recently she has gotten obsessed with talking to this new guy who she thinks is so great. The way they started talking is very strange to say the least. From him not really taking an...
    Rpg6 Rpg6 26-30, M Apr 1, 2013

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    To Life

    "Kiss me only if you agree that we're not right for each other," said he. He didn't want me to go home confused. "That's like drinking a bottle of poison and toasting to life," said I. But I kissed him anyway.
    ambrosei ambrosei 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2013

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    I Don't Know How To Break Up With Him!

    I have a boyfriend named Kainan. I've known him for two years. We've liked each other the whole time, but didn't know it. We've been going out for a month now, and it's going really good! Everyone thinks we're a good couple and everything! Thing is.. I seem to be the only one...
    ThisIsMyUsernameDealWithIt ThisIsMyUsernameDealWithIt 16-17, F Sep 3, 2013

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    I had a lying and cheating boyfriend whom I've

    been with since 2007 on and off due to his untrusting ways. Can someone please tell me why I've given him so many chances over the years and always end back up with the loser. He just broke up with me in a text message and we are living together. What a jerk. I know it's for the...
    MitzieZ MitzieZ 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Want Him Back

    Hi I'm Brittany, My boyfriend and I broke up today, [what a way to celebrate easter] I saw it coming yet i didnt at the same time. It's kind of weird. He dropped off my stuff and then his parents both came back at seperate times to drop my stuff off too [i had become apart of...
    brittany2009 brittany2009 18-21, F Apr 13, 2009

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    Still Hope He Is Coming Back.....

    I have been with my bf for 1 year 5 months. We were in love and gradually moved in. Then He wanted to move back to his home country to start a business and  bought a house there. He went back after a year living to gether which I loved, the only thing that troubld me was a...
    ekki ekki 46-50 1 Response Sep 15, 2008

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    50 Ways to Leave Your LoverThe problem is all

    inside your head", she said to meThe answer is easy if you take it logicallyI'd like to help you in your struggle to be freeThere must be fifty ways to leave your loverShe said it's really not my habit to intrudeFurthermore, I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstruedBut I...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 Dec 27, 2013

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    I Need Help

    I was in a two and a half year relationship with this woman. I fell for uer so fast and deeply only problem was that she lived in florida and im in new york. Things started out great there were jealousy probs but nothing huge. After i got out the marines i brung her to me to live...
    junior7362 junior7362 26-30, M May 8, 2013

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    This Break Up Is Bothering Me!

    Please!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.  So here's the story. My boyfriend and I dated for almost 2 years.. We were faithful to each other, and it would seem that we were a great couple. But the last 2 months of our relationship, we began to go on and off...
    jenzilla jenzilla 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    Just got overwhelmed with the feeling of loss.

    He was supposed to help me with something but I realized now he's gone. This made me so sad. I know he wasn't the "one" but it still hurts. Please fix me.
    nikkisun nikkisun 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    New Army Girlfriend Issues

    I've been with my bf for 9 months and we're having trouble deciding where to go from here. He will get posted next year and I am not 100% sure that I want to move with him. I'm a teacher and love my life right here. My dad was in the Air Force, so I know the life I'm getting in...
    shellbelle24 shellbelle24 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    My boyfriend and I haven't really been together

    long. Just 7 1/2 months and we just broke up yesterday. I haven't been through this much pain in a while. I had a feeling it was coming but I am cursed with an unrealistically optimistic spirit and was hoping he would at least try to stick things out with me. He broke up with...
    BBopenbook BBopenbook 18-21, F Oct 16

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    Cheating to Break Up

    My relationship finally ended after almost 8 months of  "pushing him away" and "asking him back".  how and why? is not important any more. The thing is, neither of us can pull ourselves away from the relationship and that's why the breaking up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    Threw you the obvious

    and you flew with it on your back,A name in your recollection, down among a million same.Difficult not to feel a little bit disappointed, and passed overWhen I've looked right through, see you naked but oblivious.And you don't see me.But I threw you the obvious, just to see if...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 Dec 27, 2013

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    And Then It Hit Me.

    We broke up 5 months ago, and I was fine for a long time.  But now I'm angry.  For no apparent reason.  It sucks because we're supposed to be good friends but i had to tell my ex i wanted to take space from them because I'm angry.  Frankly I'm sick of feeling...
    onetwothree onetwothree 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 8, 2009

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    Are You Really Almost 30?

    I broke up with my bf of 6 months last night and it's been hell today. He checked my facebook status and decided I had cheated on him. I kinda thought he would find something to justify that since he'd been "teasing" that me and my best friend were have a lesbian...
    alisheaskylar alisheaskylar 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    It's been 5 months since we've broken up

    and I'm still not over it .. I hate him so much and all this hate that I harbor is killing me.. One day I'm ok and the next I'm thinking about everything that I allowed him to do to me and I get angry with myself and him.. Everyday I pray for a change and closure.. I'm just...
    Dbell1101 Dbell1101 22-25, F Nov 20

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    I've been dealing with it

    for over a month. I post here frequently about her, and I should probably stop, but I feel crappy almost every day and this is some sort of escape for me. A few days after she broke up with me, she said she met someone new. She liked him. He was coming over hers for a weekend...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 28

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    YES .. I still think 'bout u YES .

    . Too hard to forget 'bout u AND YES .. I think I still love U ,, BUT NO , I don't want U back
    ElenaMegan ElenaMegan 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Want Him Back

    Hi I'm Brittany, My boyfriend and I broke up today, [what a way to celebrate easter] I saw it coming yet i didnt at the same time. It's kind of weird. He dropped off my stuff and then his parents both came back at seperate times to drop my stuff off too [i had become apart of...
    brittany2009 brittany2009 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    Have you ever had someone you loved

    and cared about just walk out your life without explaining why? Without giving you a clue they were going to leave? Can you imagine that in your last conversation you spoke about having kids and getting married? That is exactly what happened to me . I've know this guy for 5...
    ethereal101 ethereal101 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    Long Distance And The Age Difference

    In early 2008 I met a young lady online who lived several states away from me. Over a period of a year we grew quite attached to one another. After much discussion she eventually came to visit me. She is 8 years younger than me but that didn't seem to be a significant issue at...
    BrianDavidHarris BrianDavidHarris 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 15, 2011

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    Accidentally Erased

     I just wrote an extensive blog detailing all of my feelings upon facing the end of my three year relationship. I felt okay, like I'd be able to deal with everything. Then I accidentally erased the whole thing. Only then did I cry.
    AssumeVivid AssumeVivid 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    Remember....

    I want you to know right now that you are too strong to live life hurt.You are too beautiful to let someone elses ugly ways make you insecure yourself.So stop crying over that person thats making somebody else smile and let God bring you the person who wants to make you smile...
    kmart52492 kmart52492 18-21, F Sep 15, 2013

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    My girlfriend just broke up with me and its possibly the most painful thing ive ever experienced. I try not to think about her but everything reminds me of her. i still wake up...
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    of late, i have started a program to lose weight....combination of reducing portions plus introduction of exercise into my sedentary lifestyle... its been 3 weeks now and i feel...
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    The aftermath of breakups really sucks. This feelings and everything freaking sucks. I don't understand guys and why they think it's okay to put us girls through hell. I'm so...
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    she is very selfish and it is hard to accept, she only thinks about herself and doesnt care who she hurts in the process as long as she gets what she wants. i want to learn...
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    They Call Me Big Poppa! #EXGAY~ #EXHOMO living REAL life after being in "the life." **Link in comments to I'm Free Project
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    So im 5 foot 7.5 inches. I was 147 pounds before i started university now im 150. So i began working out harder and eating better but im in a plateau. They say the last 10 pounds...
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    So i recently had to take a break do to the unfortunate events that have risen in my life. I have been having trouble trying to balance everything and its just terrible. But all us...
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    I met my the most perfect guy in november 2013. I was 14 and a freshman at that time. He was a junior in a relationship with this girl. He was so cute and so funny, we always...
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    I went through a really bad break up a few months ago and since then I've gone off the rails. About three months ago I came home early from a business trip and caught her having...
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    I wished I could get through this day without breaking down crying...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 10

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