I Am Honest and Direct

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 612 People

    And It's What Gets Me In Trouble

    with others sometimes. personally i think it's the right thing to do, to tell the truth. but often times i've learned that alot of people feel offended by the truth. ofcourse that wasn't my intention but they take it as they want to and thats completely out of my hands. i wish...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2011

    No Tact

    Sometimes i am so honest & direct...it hurts the person. I lack tact..i know that...one thing for sure, you will always know where i stand with a person or an issue
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2010

    Yes I Am

    And if you can't handle it, that's not my problem.I'm going to tell it like it is.Don't bring stupidity my way.  I will slap you for starting it with me.Common sense people.  Common sense.  Get some.  Its free.
    ladygodiva110 ladygodiva110
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 4, 2012

    Should Be The Only Approach.

    i believe if you are honest and direct people will know the "true you" and there for will attract positive influinces patrners friends and lovers into your life. cheat  and lie. deal with guilt and bad karma.  
    singlemale30 singlemale30
    31-35, M
    Mar 2, 2010

    Care About People and Want Them to Know it

      Agree or agree to disagree but voice how you feel honestly. I listen and take info I need or want and move on. I give info and move on. If you do not want and honest and direct view then don't ask or talk with me. I am not about to tell you something that I feel is not...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe
    36-40, F
    Mar 11, 2009

    There was a rumor going around about a certain

    teacher being a pervert, I have him as a teacher. One day after class, I said, "Oh, Mr. L. There's a rumor going around school about you." He said, "Oh, what is it?" I said, "That you're a perv." He says, "How so?" I tell him, "They're saying you keep staring at girls' butts and...
    LadyValaina LadyValaina
    22-25, F
    Jan 5, 2014

    Such a simple thing that's

    so hard for many to practice.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 26, 2015

    Even if it hurts someone's feelings,

    atleast I didn't say **** behind their backs! Being honest and direct is always the best option
    zrendi zrendi
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2015

    Ask me anything and I will give you an honest

    and direct answer ask me some thing stupid and you'll get a stupid answer, ask me for advice and I'll tell it like it is, I can be awesome and soft and gentle at times when listening to relationship problems but rub me up the wrong way and you will know about it, by the way I'm...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 10, 2015

    This I Am

    I refuse to be any other way as it avoids so much drama!
    MoonFlower11 MoonFlower11
    31-35, F
    Apr 13, 2010

    yep very honest and very direct,

    mainly cuz i don't how to say things in another way.
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy
    18-21, M
    Nov 30, 2015


    We all know that we can not be honest all the time.  It would be eternal war.  I oppose far too many people and I think I'm not the only one.  Being doomed to live in an ocean you dislike is possible only with a degree of hypocrisy.  I will not tell it...
    moreandless moreandless
    56-60, M
    1 Response May 16, 2010

    Honest And Direct

    this is what i said about a website when i was asked what i thought about it Will lat see here about 75.5% of the people on this site are only looking for one thing and that's a cheep lay because they don't want the true love because they 've been hurt way two many times. And...
    67newfie 67newfie
    41-45, M
    Feb 14, 2013

    Whenever reasonable. Tact is important too

    and I try not to be careless with people's feelings.
    TaoJKD TaoJKD
    26-30, M
    Apr 25, 2014

    Never Known Different

    I've always been honest and direct, that's not to say I don't flirt or tease. But I don't play games and if you want my opinion on something, I will tell you what I really think. Not what I think you want to hear. I may try to lessen the impact of the truth if I think it may hurt...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Jun 15, 2009

    I would say "I'd hate to say it",

    but then I'd be censoring my thoughts and feelings, so I will just say what is on my mind and weighing on my heart right now: It's best not to get into the affairs of people. What they do is their business. Let God handle that. If they don't feel remorseful, if they know they...
    bkf2 bkf2
    26-30, M
    Nov 25, 2014
    zydeko zydeko
    Jan 10, 2015

    Sometimes I don't realize the things I say

    and the way I say them, that people get offended or think I'm rude. I just say what I think and truth is supposed to be better then sugar coating it all. I hate fake smiles and agreeing with people, If I don't believe it's right. Sometimes I know when to keep my mouth shut just...
    XwonderlustX XwonderlustX
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2014

    This is how I communicate.

    I wish people would communicate this way with me. Sometimes I "just don't get it." It's funny because I'm very analytical and I can come up with a theory to something that'll completely challenge your views but with the tiniest things of 1 on 1 interaction..........
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 10, 2015

    I'm very blunt and to the point.

    Normally won't sugar coat or lie unless it's about being ugly or fat towards a friend that I'm not close with. I'm known for being honest actually😅. Everyone comes to me for advice
    deleted deleted
    Feb 28, 2015

    To A Fault.

    I Inadvertently end up hurting peoples feelings. Never my intention, but I cant hold back my feelings either. If I perceive something to be off, I almost instinctively make bold statements. Something that confuses me about it is -- I am so direct with my passion, that it...
    1 Response Jun 28, 2012

    I Am Both

    I am honest and direct...I won't deny it one bit.  For people who believe I'm not (cause I had people on my case about it)...I can tell you to go screw yourself for judging me cause you don't have any clue who and what I am.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2011
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