Post

I Am Hurt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 612 People

    I Am Hurt Because...

    I've been thrust into this life in the wrong body I'm expected to have long hair, wear makeup, and wear heels I'm expected to just sit aside as boys roughhouse I'm expected to giggle and gush over guys But I don't. And I won't. I'm not the girl so many people see. I'm a guy...
    NerdyTransDude NerdyTransDude 18-21, T Jan 20, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sadly, today is one of the day I'm not sure

    what to do and how to handle my emotions. I never hurt people-mentally- or at least try not to do it intentionally and even if I did I apologise with all sincerity. And I'm clearly not sure why I'm writing this here as the freaking words are not coming to me. ūüė∂
    Pandainpinktutu Pandainpinktutu 18-21, F Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why did he say that to me?

    Then act like saying "sorry" would actually help any. I didn't need to know that at all.
    Kayleer18 Kayleer18 18-21, F Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This That I Dread.

    At times when I'm deeply hurt like this and it didn't escalate further into a darker deeper pit, I can tell myself, tomorrow would be a better day. Sometimes I feel that I shouldn't even open my mouth to ask you things. You get angry at me so damn easily. I just wanted to discuss...
    LovelessAdvocate LovelessAdvocate 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hello

    Hey baby may be i am the one you waiting for and am here to look after youi want to end you tears coming out accept me am a Gambian base in the Gambia west Africa..xx
    mokks mokks 26-30, M Jan 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I knew Mrs McCartney didnt care.

    I hate her. She's just like every other counselor my face got that numb feeling and I feel like I need to run away or I'm going to cry. So I did. I packed my school stuff and ran to my actual class. I'm excited to leave this school now. And I plan to avoid her for the rest of...
    KovusShame KovusShame 13-15, F 1 Response May 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not in the inside... Well kinda is

    because it's on my mouth. I'm getting braces and I got second elastics and moved up. I can't make a face because it hurts. I can't bite or chew unless I chew with just the bottom jaw ... If that even makes sense? I have metal in my mouth and I can still taste it ew :/ but it's...
    MerpR MerpR 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just a little bit. Long story short the guy I

    used to have a crush on got a girl pregnant and is now dating her. Our knowing each other goes way back when to like.. 2009, most likely later. This was around when I was suffering from insane depression, because I knew he knew that I was sad. He used to do things to make me...
    BunnyGruff BunnyGruff 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Went Digging....

     To make a long story short, I'm Facebook friends with a few of my ex's family members and I went to on one of their pages, and a few clicks later I unintentionally ended up on my ex's page. Of course his privacy settings block me from seeing anything "interesting" on there, but...
    Princess1211 Princess1211 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Theres this guy I've been talking to

    for a while now and like and he's told me he likes me to and all. Well I just saw a snapchat of him and 3 other girls on his bed drinking. And one of the girls is his ex girlfriend. Ugh I'm so hurt, I feel so ugly and stupid. Idk what to think or do. Please give me advice.ūüėĒ
    alexiaaaxx alexiaaaxx 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Stalker

    I met a girl. She is the most direct one I have ever seen. If you speak with her, she will always tell you her opinion and mind, seemingly not caring what you have to say. Maybe it's not as bad as I describe it. And maybe it's just as bad but my fascination made it so that I don...
    firelordt firelordt 18-21, M Oct 6, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So I was going out with a woman it was long

    distance and I really loved her but was recently dumped by her and her reason for leaving was all true she said I need a physical relationship plus you don't have a job your not in school and are not completely independent. She is right but she doesn't know is that I've filled...
    PerryC PerryC 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have spend the last 2 years working my ***

    off to lose weight. Even though I'm still not thin, I'm proud of every pound of fat I burned. Today a boy, of which I thought was a friend and who knows everything about my weightloss, got together with a friend of him and they spent the entire day sending me messages about how...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    While my husband and I were separated

    and supposedly working on our marriage he cheated. He tells me he still loves me but then tells me that this other person snuggled and things I didn't do. Now she might be pregnant. Why is he blaming me? I feel like a piece of garbage that wasn't good enough.
    tattoolvr81 tattoolvr81 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Right Now...

    Right now I am hurting, and my best way to get through it, is to express it. I am sick and tired of being made to feel bad for expressing how I feel, and for writing down how I am feeling. I'm over it. You have a problem what I'm posting, there is a remove from circle button, hit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 1, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Literally. I got in a fight

    and now my lower lip is slower and twice it's size. And it hurts like a *****. But on the positive side when someone asks me what happened I go- oh I just had a waaaayyy too heated make out session. Though them not believing me is another story-_-
    Pandainpinktutu Pandainpinktutu 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hurt And Overwhelmed!! What Do I Do?

    I have been in a relationship for 3 years with the person I thought was the love of my life. Now everything has fallen apart. 6 months ago we were so happy and planned to have a baby together and get married. Then everything changed a couple of months ago. I got our cell phone...
    jess4383 jess4383 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Mean beginning of day,

    sucks to be me
    Pandainpinktutu Pandainpinktutu 18-21, F Jan 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Call It 'the Never Ending Revolving Door'

    I'm hurt. I'm broken. I'm done. I've given up on every aspect of my life. To all of you out there who fell in love, keep that love dear to you. If they break your heart once, don't believe that they won't do it again when they come back to you. They'll do it everytime, no matter...
    runwhileyoustillcan2 runwhileyoustillcan2 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 28, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I thought family member should understand u

    better but they just the same as people out there. Judging here and there. :(
    ladyhurt ladyhurt 22-25, F Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why...me....

    I have lived a very sheltered life....My believe in my God...allows me to have a very trusting and honest nature....character traits that i attributed to the wrong person.....a person who misrepresented himself to be the man of my dreams.....but the lies  proved to hard for him...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yes...

    I'm not saying it, and I am not going into why I am hurt, but I am hurting too. I am falling apart, and I am feeling alone, but all I am, is the bad guy, the one who is not dealing with it. Well maybe just maybe the pain is just too much for me to handle. People don't know the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 1, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Memories

    I suffered through an affair although it was my wife having the affair. We had been married for 19 years at the time and it was devastating for me. I experienced a pretty poor life as a youngster although I wont go into details here, the effect of this upbringing results in an...
    myfanwy1uk myfanwy1uk 61-65, M 1 Response May 2, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am hurt that people can be

    so shallow...I love people with all my heart. when I get to know someone, even if they are a little weird to me or not what is the common norm...once I take them into my heart, I just try to ride out what ever comes with them as part of the package of getting to know the good...
    wayup68 wayup68 46-50, F 1 Response May 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Very

    I am very hhurt right now...Everyone in the family is going to universal tomorrow...But not me...NO...I am not even invited. I just ******* hurts that no one wants me around. As if I haven't been feeling lonely and hurt lately, now my family does this to me....-sigh-
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Hurt

    It is difficult to try to always be the one to reach out to others who are hurting.  Sometimes the depths of their despair are so bad, that instead of raising their spirits, they bring you down.  Although I always try to give to others in the spirit that I think God...
    weareonespirit weareonespirit 51-55, F 10 Responses Jan 23, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It sucks when you love someone

    and the love isn't returned, at least in a way that matters to you. I get that people love differently. Why can't I be loved the way that's important to me?
    MatureNotDead MatureNotDead 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i had a barbecue stick stuck on my leg

    when i was 12.i know how it feels to be a barbecue.hooray!XD
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Losing Senses

    We  don't  lose senses that  easily  in  routine  life  however  misjudging  people  and  their hidden  intention  makes  us  so  vulnerable  to  such  tragic  happenings  when  we  get  paralyzed  temporarily   and  the  actual  fault  lies  with...
    shap36 shap36 41-45, M Dec 9, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't know. I am blank.

    I am calm. I am collected. I am okay. It's okay. Everything happens for a reason. Throughout it all, you just have to rebuild yourself and know that it's going to be okay. Acceptance is the foundation to a strong comeback. Positivity in life is key. I just know that I...
    xFreeSpirit23 xFreeSpirit23 16-17, F Feb 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Friends Pain

    Because my wife and I have a couple from church were friends with that we just recently found out seperated...and after seeing and talking to her yesterday at church it cut me... ever since I found out about this I could actually feel the pain of what the wife in the couple is...
    cf51802 cf51802 36-40, M 2 Responses May 12, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I opened up to you. I thought we were getting

    along great. You blocked me?? Seriously? Instead of just talking to me and explaining, you just shut me off? That was unfair.
    moonlightdancer1967 moonlightdancer1967 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sex has been few and far between.

    When i asked him why he said " i am just not as sexual as you are". Recently i found out he has been just getting off on **** this entire time. So he is a sexual person, just not towards me. When confronted, he got mad at me saying i am stupid.
    Imnotdillusional Imnotdillusional 31-35, F 1 Response May 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Again. Why am I so stupid.

    I let him betray me. I let him rip my heart from my chest. I let him hurt me. I tried to tell myself that he would only end up leaving but I wouldn't listen. And now I'm broken and he has all of the pieces.
    BunnyGruff BunnyGruff 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Talking devotion, he used to stride along

    happily thinking He was doing something humanHe got bruisedHe bledAnd bledYes, indeed, he was human..
    TheDustyDiary TheDustyDiary 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Was Let Down

    It's so depressing when the ones that should support you let you down. My own mother did that. A few days ago I had a job interview which for various reasons went terribly wrong. The company misread my verbal and nonverbal signals and created a completely wrong picture of me, who...
    skadi skadi 22-25, F Oct 21, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    With Nobody To Cry To

    I'm sick of this.  I thought it was over, but evidently not.  I don't think this will ever be over until either I die or both of these people die.  I ended my very deep friendship with a woman who I used to be having an emotional affair with a few weeks ago.  ...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M Sep 26, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    From the inside . Tdy the girl said to her

    friend "imagine if u were (me) sister " the other girl said "I would have murdered her from a long time and anyway my mom cannot be pregnant of these shapes" I acted cold but I was hurting myself like always and crying in the inside.
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F Apr 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Slipping Away

    I am slipping away from this world. Forever alone. I call out for people to hear me, yet they all turn their backs on me. I am a dissappointment to the world. I find comfort in the darkness. I seek reffuge with solitude. I dont know were to turn, my heart is shatterd. I have been...
    EolandeFoalan EolandeFoalan 18-21, F Aug 7, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hurt But Not Broken...

    We fell down, we got hurt, we felt the pain... We get up, we wipe our tears, we keep walking... We mourn our loss, we learn from our mistakes, and we move on, albeit along a different path... Tomorrow will be a great day, life goes on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 2, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    .....

    Cause my echo,echo.... Is the only voice coming back... Shadow,shadow... Is the only friend that I have ....
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F Aug 3, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Alive To Tell

    I was abused , i was  beaten  ; i was in pain  ; i runway but am still hurt , am divorced , am 23 years old , i don't trust people, well they always fail me, my heart is from fall to another, i cry  but nothing to do, even when i fall in love again , he...
    hibaa hibaa 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Today I found something out.

    ..I am torn inside because of it and I don't know what to do. The girl l love most...I can't be with her right now, and she found another guy...I love her with all my heart and would do anything, BE anything for her. Whatever it takes, I'd do it just to be with her. But I she...
    BluePaws55 BluePaws55 13-15, M Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've Just Seen...

    ...the size of the bruise on my foot from when I fell off the table the other night. IT HURTS!!!!!!!!!!!   No more dancing on tables in high heels for me
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 9, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I failed since I kept my promise

    and you succeeded since you failed to keep yours. Both are suffering in our own ways. You know you could help me, but you chose not to. I know my attempts will never be enough. But I keep trying. Is that how it is going to be?
    Anconia Anconia 26-30, M Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    God I'm still so hurt about my guy booking up

    with another girl. He texted me and called me like 5 times last night. He told me how much he likes me and how nothing happened. I want to believe him so badly I wish I did. I'm so hurt. He told me he never wants to hurt me and I know but he did. And I have to respect myself by...
    alexiaaaxx alexiaaaxx 18-21, F Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hurt

      I look around, now I look around, and I see hurt, I see sadness I find it in everyone. No one can escape its clutches, like an unknown hunting its prey; it sinks its deadly fangs into your innocent neck. Tearing away all that was once real , happy, free, it leaves its...
    midnightson27 midnightson27 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yes

    stabbed in the heart by my boyfirend. i didn't think he could betray me the way he did, i didn't think he could hurt me like this, again, i didn't think he wanted to lose me, but i guess he does
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 14, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Is It Just Me

    This happen years ago I was in love with my best friend I told him that. and then he stopped talking to me. I was really heart broken. But thats then My stories not really about that I'm way over that now. It hurts me that I was never in a relationship yet. when I see other...
    sweetparis101 sweetparis101 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He Hurt Me So Bad

    i have to tell this storyand man its pretty longso i'll start at the beginningand listen to my wordsi happened so fasti thought it'll never lasti was blinding by lovehearing angels singing abovei loved him with all my heartit would kill me to be apartbut then it that endedit...
    invisiblegirl904 invisiblegirl904 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I do not understand..

    . She asked me to commit and I have... Why is she flirting with another guy? Is she worth staying with? Who knows :(
    NimprodiTorgue NimprodiTorgue 22-25, M Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Even when I hurt someone unintentionally, I have trouble forgiving myself and living with what I did. Life is all about making mistakes - and that means hurting people is...
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 46-50, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Love hurts, love scars Love wounds, and mars Any heart, not tough Or strong enough To take a lot of pain Take a lot of pain Love is like a cloud Holds a lot of rain Love hurts...
    Pawsforthought Pawsforthought 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel