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I Am Hurting People I Love

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    I am cheating on my husband.  I am shutting out my lover.  I want to meet a new lover and keep my old one, too.
    noexcuses noexcuses 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2007

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    I'm really tired of accidentally hurting people...it seems like now, whenever I try to say something, it ends up being offensive to someone.  I hate this...I love everyone on here, and I can't stand that I keep hurting them.  Sometimes I'm even trying to help, but it...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 32 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    I hate when people have a crush on me and want to date and I don't feel the same. I'm not really the type that likes hurting people but I would rather them be with someone who...
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    Because I'm a bad person. I'm negative, I ruin everyone's fun, I say or do things that ****** people off, and I don't care about anyone else's feelings but my own. I don't mean to...
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    I know Love is risky. You have so much to lose, but with the right person you can be really happy. I did not knew Love was this difficult. I never figured out myself and my...
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    One day I recieved a letter from grandma... The other day I went up to a local Christian bookstore and saw a "honk if you love Jesus" bumper sticker. I was feeling particularly...
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    I am learning how to love. There are a few people in my life that I really, REALLY don't get along with. They have crossed some lines and really ticked me off, and all their...
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    For 8 years of my life I had this thing where if I knew 1 person hated me I would freak out and I wouldn't be able to sleep at night I would have little mental break downs but as I...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Ok so most people love their family. But I am truly, fascinated and drawn to my step brother. He is one year older than me and I have know him for over twenty years. We will be...
    lilkitten87 lilkitten87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't get why some people love quotes or try to model their lives around the words of other people. It just seems to me that once we try to quote others those words are...
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    I don't understand haters , They hate for no reason and they usually don't even know the person they are being hateful towards but yet they still do it. Why I have no idea #Love...
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I don't know why but I just can't. I can tell when people love me but I can't love them back, I just don't feel it no matter how hard I try. It's like I'm disconnected from...
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    The most sweetest thing is that when two people love each other but do not communicate instead they Pray for each other in their SUJUD >3
    PerinduSyahid PerinduSyahid 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Summer of 06 and 07 I was in Nantucket! It's really nice place specially in summer, and I have no idea during winter. Night time in Nantucket is it feels winter season in Florida...
    Bluejec19 Bluejec19 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I'm Savannah & I'm being bullied by a large group of girls. We used to be friends but when I got tired of hanging out with one girl because she was really mean..she turned her...
    DisneyGirl390 DisneyGirl390 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I believe in love and could have posted this under that, but the real experience I'm having now is understanding why I am not ready for love. How do I know I'm not ready? That is...
    OnAlert OnAlert 56-60, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    July 16. Insisting on the Best. We deserve the best life and love has to offer, but we are each faced with the challenge of learning to identify what that means in our life. We...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 16

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    The people I trust always let me down. I'm tired of hurting, I can't do it anymore. I feel like one more push and I'm over the edge and falling. I'm hurting and no one knows...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    This whole situation with my so called friends is just draining me. one of my closest friend starts giving me ultimatums saying if i don't tell my sister my situation by a certain...
    Insearchofsunrise Insearchofsunrise 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    So an older friend of both of ours called me after speaking to her. The soon to be ex wife.. She wanted to confirm the details with me of what I did not just hear say... Anyways...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Anybody that are going to tough times tough break ups it's not the end of anything it's just the start! god created us to be successful not to be down and sad all our lives we all...
    Junebug33 Junebug33 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    My MM has disrespected me one too many times. I have tried to be everything that he wanted but have lost myself. I've lost my spark, my enthusiasm for life and even sometimes my...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I have struggled with depression and self harm for several years now. I always feel so alone but I know part of that is my fault, because no matter how hard I try I can never let...
    mmccarth mmccarth 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i hate when someone tells you they love you and then tells you that there done with life. you blow up there phone phone to get ahold of them and they ignore you. then they get...
    keyheart14 keyheart14 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    July 19. Proving It to Ourselves. "I spent a year trying to prove to my husband how much his drinking was hurting me. When I began to recover, I realized I was the one who needed...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 19

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    I just want to be happy but it seems hard to be. It's just the people I am around are not good influences and it hurts seeing others sad or others hurting me. I am thinking of...
    Alyzza123 Alyzza123 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm so alone idk what to do with myself anymore I'm never up this late crying. I've never cried sm ever I honestly feel like I have to go to the hospital again because I'm losing...
    mikaylahoguexo mikaylahoguexo 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I know how it is to be depressed cos i was depressed. Now i look at myself like i look on a freak. I was wronged by some people in my past and somehow i allways had this memories...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Jun 30

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    I love gaming. I've always found it easier to hang around guys and I had grown up gaming since I was a kid. I made a Steam account a few months ago and I game on it almost everyday...
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Someone told me that when you love someone, it's not about how you feel, it's choosing to feel that way. You chose to love that person even how good, bad or different he/she. You...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Between my 8th grade and freshman years of high school, I took an online class called "philosophy and pop culture." It taught basic theories and principles of philosophy as well as...
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    "You Don't Know Her Like I Do"- Brantley Gilbert "Hey old friend, thanks for callin' It's good to know somebody cares Yeah she's gone, but I don't feel like talkin' It might be...
    towsonstudent towsonstudent 18-21, M Jul 18

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    oh withdrawals! i came back after work yesterday just to find him in the fetal position. it hurt me seeing him this way but i knew in my mind this was bound to happen. He ran out...
    lovelyytroubledsoul lovelyytroubledsoul 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I know its wrong find enjoyment in the failures of other people .... but c'mon ... its Hi-larious! I find myself dying of laughter watching other people fail at stunts or hurting...
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    A little story about a heartbreak... She was in love with him. He did not love her back the same way. His presence made her fall in love with him more thinking he wanted to stay...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    The LIE of BMI After a year of getting back in shape, I did the standard BMI calculation: 26.7. According to the chart, I am overweight. Ha! After a little digging, I found a...
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