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I Am Hurting People I Love

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    I am cheating on my husband.  I am shutting out my lover.  I want to meet a new lover and keep my old one, too.
    noexcuses noexcuses 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2007

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    I'm really tired of accidentally hurting people...it seems like now, whenever I try to say something, it ends up being offensive to someone.  I hate this...I love everyone on here, and I can't stand that I keep hurting them.  Sometimes I'm even trying to help, but it...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 32 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    Because I'm a bad person. I'm negative, I ruin everyone's fun, I say or do things that ****** people off, and I don't care about anyone else's feelings but my own. I don't mean to...
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    Don't listen to those people who suggest you should be "over it" by now. The people who squawk the loudest about such things have almost never had to get over anything. Or at least...
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    I am learning how to love. There are a few people in my life that I really, REALLY don't get along with. They have crossed some lines and really ticked me off, and all their...
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    For 8 years of my life I had this thing where if I knew 1 person hated me I would freak out and I wouldn't be able to sleep at night I would have little mental break downs but as I...
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    I don't know why but I just can't. I can tell when people love me but I can't love them back, I just don't feel it no matter how hard I try. It's like I'm disconnected from...
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    What if life is perfect ? What if we won't feel hurt, won't experience pain? We have all the things that we need and want. People love you, they won't complain, they won't fight...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    The most sweetest thing is that when two people love each other but do not communicate instead they Pray for each other in their SUJUD >3
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    Anybody that are going to tough times tough break ups it's not the end of anything it's just the start! god created us to be successful not to be down and sad all our lives we all...
    Junebug33 Junebug33 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    keyheart14 keyheart14 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yes, its quite offen that I can't tell people who are really close to me that they are hurting me ... just because I wouldn't want them to be hurt by my saying so.
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