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I Am Hurting People I Love

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    I am cheating on my husband.  I am shutting out my lover.  I want to meet a new lover and keep my old one, too.
    noexcuses noexcuses 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2007

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    I'm really tired of accidentally hurting people...it seems like now, whenever I try to say something, it ends up being offensive to someone.  I hate this...I love everyone on here, and I can't stand that I keep hurting them.  Sometimes I'm even trying to help, but it...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 32 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    I don't get it with some people, they only love you when you're whole and when everything is perfect, but when you're broken they give up, they let go even though they're the one...
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    I love wearing plastic raincoats. I feel good in plastic. How do other people feel?
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    It's a normal thing all people do, yet I feel like I must hide it. I don't want to admit I am hurting or broken. I don't want to become vunerable infront of anyone. I don't want to...
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    I really do hate it. I hate hurting peoples feelings and making them feel bad. It hurts me just as much seeing them like that. Espeically people I care about. :( But lately I've...
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