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I Am Hurting People I Love

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    I'm really tired of accidentally hurting people...it seems like now, whenever I try to say something, it ends up being offensive to someone.  I hate this...I love everyone on here, and I can't stand that I keep hurting them.  Sometimes I'm even trying to help, but it...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 32 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    I am cheating on my husband.  I am shutting out my lover.  I want to meet a new lover and keep my old one, too.
    noexcuses noexcuses 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2007

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