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I Am Hurting People I Love

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    I am cheating on my husband.  I am shutting out my lover.  I want to meet a new lover and keep my old one, too.
    noexcuses noexcuses 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2007

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    I'm really tired of accidentally hurting people...it seems like now, whenever I try to say something, it ends up being offensive to someone.  I hate this...I love everyone on here, and I can't stand that I keep hurting them.  Sometimes I'm even trying to help, but it...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 32 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    "I don’t think people love me. They love versions of me I have spun for them, versions of me they have construed in their minds. The easy versions of me, the easy parts of me to...
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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 days ago

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    I don't want to be this person. I want to be different. I'm hurting by lots of people. I feel like all the people I love, care, and want are hurting me. They don't care about me...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F Sep 1

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    I trusted a guy who said he loved me and would be there forever. He knew without a doubt I was the one. He met my family and close friends and i introduced him to my children...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    this is how i get to know people. this is how I really feel connected with somebody...I love night and I love debating/talking with good, solid people
    brookel16 brookel16 16-17, F 4 Responses 51 mins ago

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    Dpreukssiya Dpreukssiya 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    yeronlyman yeronlyman 41-45, M Aug 23

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    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    NightMagic367 NightMagic367 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    MsLouisLane MsLouisLane 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I shouldn't be hurting, but it's creeping up on me. I need to beat the pain, ignore it, defeat it. It's hurting like a *****. I'm not trying to get into another depth like this...
    Latiaaaa Latiaaaa 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    Someday, I'm going to have a big playground in my backyard. It's going to be candy apple red. And the slides will be blue and the swings will be purple. I'll have a big tire swing...
    LittleGirlCrissy LittleGirlCrissy 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm not as smart or in control of my life as people think I am. I mean I have a lot of cool accomplishments that make me seem like I have my life together. I'm only 17 and I've...
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    it is very hard to accept people as who they are because for one thing, there are a lot of different kinds of people in the world. the concept of good and evil varies from...
    Ryel004F Ryel004F 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Almost 5am: head pounding, been going on for hours non stop now, another migraine. Tears rolling down my face, so lonely, so unloved, in so much eternal pain it's physically...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    I just want all this hurting to stop :( how does my ex move on so fast whilst I constantly want to talk to her and be with her and comfort her :( I know they say if you love...
    leeroy100 leeroy100 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Fear and panic in the air I want to be free From desolation and despair And I feel like everything I saw Is being swept away Well I refuse to let you go I can't get it right Get...
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    "Hurt" Seems like it was yesterday when I saw your face You told me how proud you were but I walked away If only I knew what I know today I would hold you in my arms I would...
    afoolishheart afoolishheart 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    It's really not how I planned it, but I think I wouldn't have wanted it any other way... It's not what I was looking for, but it still happened and I guess, that's the magic that...
    Chips007 Chips007 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    We have been together for almost 2 years. I love him, but I don't think I've ever been "in love" with him. I think our relationship is more about companionship now. Recently he's...
    Nlix Nlix 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    this really is a really big thing to wonder, and of course if we could see what people saw of us then it would be a terrible depressing thing. but I wonder it so much...
    brookel16 brookel16 16-17, F 26 mins ago

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    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    So tired of people saying they are here for me and when it comes down to it everyone runs away. I mean am I so ****** up I scare you away! I hate people. Im so tired of being...
    SkinnImIn SkinnImIn 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    If someone doesn't know how to love correctly can they end up hurting you?
    takiaa takiaa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Why do people feel the need to cut it doesn't make the pain go away. Your just hurting yourself and after you don't you think your badass or something I could cut my self and it...
    Blackwolf666 Blackwolf666 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    If you're really sick to the point that you ache all over your body and can barely walk, why come to work just so you can complain to 10 people that you are oh so sick and hurting...
    rawrgirl90 rawrgirl90 22-25, F Sep 3

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    i am hurting so much right now. i need someone here by my side but no one can be here. i just need a hug and a talk. i dont have anyone to help me. i am suffering alone.
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    We're good friends again and have been continuing to build up an even better friendship. But when I think about the time that he hurt me the most, I just can't help but ache...
    boomkimchaloy boomkimchaloy 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i think back to the most influential ppl ive ever meet in my life. one person comes to mind. this person has brought out the best and the worst in me. ive pushed, ive shoved, and...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F