I Am In a Complicated Relationship

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    So I am writing this more to vent

    but I also need advice. I have been with my boyfriend since 2010. the first few years were great. I felt loved and he I loved him dearly. he made me happy and I could see myself spending my whole life with him. In 2013 I became pregnant and we both decided to have an abortion...
    doubtful09 doubtful09
    26-30, F
    Mar 11, 2015

    I sometimes feel imprisoned by my wife's mood

    swings. Her stress level is high from work and it doesn't take much to set her off raising her voice at me or crying... I could ask if she knows if we have more toothpaste in the other bathroom closet or if she was able to pick up dog food at the store.... I am suddenly...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2014

    We're Complex

    I guess we're both kind of complex human beings. I have BPD and can't deal with being close to people. It took me a full five months until I could really ever touch my girlfriend in a sexual way. It took me eternities until I first kissed her. It took me months until I was able...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2007

    i'm done. we were going to do

    that whole stay friends thing but i'm giving up. he's such a ****** person and i'm seeing that now. i mean, i understand that i'm not perfect either and i have made heaps of mistakes, it's just that his by far outweigh mine. i broke up with him because he said he would stop...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27
    18-21, F
    May 25, 2015

    A new one. I have a friend with benefits.

    But we kinda have feelings for each other so it's more than that. It's amazing though. He gives me so much pleasure and I can't wait to meet up with him tomorrow >:3.
    unfaiir unfaiir
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2015

    So me and my "boyfriend"

    as some people would just say or "lover" aren't really together, like we've never made it official but we've been seeing each other for over a year now. I'm really in love with him and he loves me but he is scared of getting hurt again so he's never made it official and he doesn...
    PrincessKylieP PrincessKylieP
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2015

    My Complicated Relationship

    I am in a Complicated Relationship.  I know that this could be in a different category but, it is very complicated.  I get frustrated and aggravated at how events unfold.  Anyway, where do I begin.  I have a Best Boyfriend Forever.  We were friends for 2...
    crabcancer69 crabcancer69
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

    I'm so confused. I don't know

    whether I give up on him and start to move on, or give him a second chance.
    1dfeels 1dfeels
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2014
    Lovechriscornell Lovechriscornell
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    I met him back in fifth grade,

    and we didn't like each other at all. We went through most of middle school ignoring each other (he's one of the more popular students, and I tend to shy away from big groups) except for a few brief interactions. Now we're both high school freshman, and I rarely see him anymore...
    AngelGirlSwims AngelGirlSwims
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2015

    Im pushing someone that i really like away

    since i fear falling for him and not being with him. What should i do?
    Misguided123 Misguided123
    22-25, F
    Oct 4, 2014

    So i have a friend who i am imensly atracted to,

    she has a perfect figure keeps in shape and for a long while i thought she was perfect. And i began to get to know her demons and before i knew it i became to love and hate her equily... we became so close that we need each other but it hurts a lot. She knows i have feelings for...
    jesuscravits jesuscravits
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 6, 2015

    Hey guys. I feel like I need a shoulder to cry

    on or some advice, I just need someone to talk to:( Okay, so almost a year ago, I started dating a man who was(well, is) everything I have ever wanted but there is one problem: he has overstayed his tourist visa. When we started dating, his visa had just expired and he had told...
    mayy95 mayy95
    22-25, F
    Nov 8, 2014

    We aren't really together.

    He told me he loved me. I really love him too. We aren't together yet though I feel like we both have had issues in our past relationships. I think this is the best way. I met him online about 2 weeks ago. He lives close, and I am pretty sure that I saw him somewhere before, but...
    Pets1616 Pets1616
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2015
    Bagh8 Bagh8
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    Lack of Love Life

    I'm new here, I signed up to find a group of people that can relate. Been Married for 15 years, over the years my wifes sex drive has faded and is all but gone. She tells me she loves me, but comes up with excuse after excuse when it comes to our sex life... We have two kids, she...
    Jack2580 Jack2580
    1 Response Jun 3, 2008

    Crush Not Really A Relationship Lol

    So I like this guy he goes to my college and he's one of my friends I told him about a month ago I liked him he said he didn't feel the same way and recently he started to hardcore flirt with me by touching me which never happened and tries to get close to me.. He is genuinely a...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 2, 2013
    shemaleluverb shemaleluverb
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

    After I hang out with my boyfriend

    for 6 hours I get in such a crummy mood and I don't like the sound of him talking and just want to snap at him.
    alexjohnson28 alexjohnson28
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 4, 2015

    Im sitting here wondering

    why I always fall into relationships with guys whose minds are still in their early 20's, insecure and always follow what their mates say and do? Or is this all men? Would love to hear others opinions on this, male or female?
    Bells83 Bells83
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    Living Together...

    I've been with my current boyfriend since September and he had to move in with me in June because he had nowhere to go. Let me explain a little better... When he was younger he'd taken his sisters vehicle (he was old enough to drive lol) and he'd ran a stop sign and hit another...
    SexyChelle86 SexyChelle86
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Aug 13, 2013

    We're this utter mess despite it all,

    almost feels as if we're addicted to one another, and we always end up back together somehow. Like one night we're each other's throat, wake up the next morning with her in my arms again. I mean we do have it rough, it's not exactly pleasant somedays. It's just that the good...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2015

    I met Jon 4 years ago

    while I was still in high school. My best friend set me up with him because he was a chef, and I LOVE to cook. For 2 years we were just casual guck buddies. Once I graduated high school. I told Jon that wanted to be more than what we were. He told me he didn't have time for a...
    meganloren meganloren
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2014
    forkinyoureye forkinyoureye
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2015

    Someone Help Me

    Come to think of it, even the beginning of our relationship was bad. When we started talking again, my girlfriend was with her ex at that time. You flirted with me to the point that i fell for you and I confessed. You told me that you liked me too. And we kissed three days later...
    Diddy20 Diddy20
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 29, 2013

    He called last night to ask

    if I was ok after breaking up the day before. I didn't say no but instead I said I lied im not giving up on you but I'm scared if when I get to you, you'll be waiting at the altar for someone else. I know this is real I just need to make my move and fast. 1 year countdown😥
    deleted deleted
    Dec 8, 2015

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 4, 2015

    I Had An Affair With My Friends Wife And Now She Wants To End It And I Dont Want To Go On Living.

    Just over a year ago my friends wife told me she had feelings for me, she was friends with my girlfriend and we all used to go out together. We all hung out together as part of a big social group and in the months building up i noticed her flirt with me a little more then one...
    avb1538 avb1538
    2 Responses Jan 8, 2013

    Officially on a break.

    Never felt more broken.
    unfaiir unfaiir
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 7, 2015

    I don't know how I feel about the relationship

    I am in.... Sometimes it's good and sometimes I get annoyed and just want to move on. I love my boyfriend but a lot of the time I don't think I'm in love with him. I just don't know.....
    karalolz karalolz
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 10, 2014
    ItsMeJessy ItsMeJessy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014


    Oneness My heart grows distant and cold. Freezing over for its own preservation. The woman inside keeps you at bay, pushing you further and further away. Silently building up my fortress, a safe place apart from this distress. The girl who still loves you screams out in protest I...
    LG76 LG76
    36-40, F
    Mar 12, 2012

    My bf and I live in two different cities

    and it's not a piece of cake
    lexii0008 lexii0008
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Nov 26, 2014

    Where To Even Start?

    I am currently married/living with my spouse. I do not share the bed with him. Nor do we have any sort of intimate lifestyle. We do however, have 3 little girls who live with us in the house. We have been "separated" for months now, but he has not really seen anyone seriously. I...
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

    Am I Being Used?

    My relationship right now is the most complicated one i've ever been in. I was in a relationship for four years with a wonderful girl. We were engaged, had our own place and were doing wonderful.  A year ago, she left, just one day broke it off and got into a...
    anyankafirequeen anyankafirequeen
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Sep 14, 2009

    I've been married for almost 20 years.

    We love each other, but the passion is gone and has been for awhile. We've grown into this comfortable living situation. We parent together, live together, sleep together, but things just aren't right. I got married very young and the life I've built with him and our kids is...
    KScarlett KScarlett
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2014

    Not looking to be with anybody,

    but is there any guy out there who is not a jerk in the end and who actually gives a **** about his girl?
    Chrysanthemummarie Chrysanthemummarie
    Oct 14, 2015

    In a yo-yo relationship.

    .. Been together 5 years (not together now for almost a year) but those 5 years we have broken up about 5 times (each break up he broke it off with me and wanted to get back with me) this time I said enough. I can't keep doing this... But I obviously can because I talk to him on...
    tiddlywinks123 tiddlywinks123
    31-35, F
    Jun 10, 2014

    I'm in a long distance relationship.

    I fear I can't give him what he wants because I'm far away. he gets really sad a lot and frustrated at me. so I hope he doesn't get tired of this one day
    Krisxo Krisxo
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    emilyccaa emilyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    Complicated Is An Understatement For This Story

    So here is my story, its fairly long, so please, bare with me.  I met a woman that I worked with over 2 years ago, she was gorgeous, and had such a great personality, I loved being around her, when we worked together, I was happy, and when she wasnt there, I felt sad, which...
    topojoe83 topojoe83
    Sep 15, 2010

    our relationship has never been typical.

    it's always been weird... unconventional. well, i suppose it's becoming more normal and accepted these days... anyway, we met online. just an online chat website that hooks you up with random people. you usually don't find cool people on there, but sometimes you do. i found him...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27
    18-21, F
    May 10, 2015

    So I told this guy that I liked him over texts

    some times. We have hanged out once a week for the last month. I quitted my first full-time job a month ago and he was my colleague there. At the first glance, he wasn't the apple of my eyes because he looked a little bit overweight and he seemed quite introverted. Actually I...
    Flora3456 Flora3456
    26-30, F
    Jul 4, 2015

    It's complicated. I'm finally with a man

    that I love. He's four years older than I am and he has a nice little apartment and a wonderful job. At first, we got along so well. I felt like I was living for the first time in my life. And then he started showing signs of insecurity and jealousy. He started having horrible...
    InsaneFlowerGirl InsaneFlowerGirl
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 3, 2015

    I found the solution.

    don't do this. don't do that. and still be yourself. but still do this and that or you really don't care. some story I fall into. dammed if you do dammed if you don't. where do you want to be stopped. I can't be with her and she will not go away. I give her back her heart and...
    bigheartsmallworld bigheartsmallworld
    36-40, M
    Aug 13, 2015

    The Last Straw

    First off, let me say that I am not blinded by a false concept of true love. I've been through hell and back in previous relationships. Now I'm with someone who seems to be secure in every way. Confident, in a great family, very humble guy. I'm so happy with him but we're so...
    jetaimeh jetaimeh
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2012

    Confused Relationship

    My relationship is one on the extremes. But its always confusing. Maybe Im the one who's confused, but yeah its kinda complicated. From being a guy who'd never get into a serious relationship..I fell madly in love with her,and now my life revolves around her. Even the seriousness...
    rockstard rockstard
    26-30, M
    9 Responses Dec 15, 2011

    With my best friend of two years we act like

    were dating we hug kiss cuddle all that and we've both known we liked each other for a little over a year we won't date because he has a perfect picture in his head and does want it to be any less perfect to me
    xoxtaylorxox xoxtaylorxox
    18-21, F
    Nov 3, 2014

    Well it lasted 6 month.

    She decided to call a break due to my insecurities. The problem has let me down in the past. I decide to get councelling. She said we will take things slow and not be with each other everyday like we were. Tonight one of her friends said she cheated . So I have a situation in my...
    paul1989 paul1989
    22-25, M
    Jan 18, 2015

    My boyfriend never makes me feel important he

    never makes me feel special his so far away and he never even wants to hear my voice or see my through cam! YAY ME!!!!!!!!!!! )';
    MermaidUnderneath MermaidUnderneath
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014
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