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I Am In A Dd Marriage

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    My husband spanks me

    as punishment when I deserve it usually a hand spanking followed by a implement of his choice paddle, bathbrush, wooden hairbrush, wooden spoon, belt or switch and I get weekly maintenance spankings too usually a hand spanking although if I am really naughty that week he will...
    redbottomedfamily redbottomedfamily 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 19

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    So I recorded my last punishment with my phone

    so I could count the smacks. I was really surprised by what my punishment sounded like. I thought I was pretty quiet. I am not. A lot of my noises sound a bit sexy also. It was weird, it doesn't feel sexy. Also I have a new respect for the Dom in any relationship. As soon as my...
    meganluck21 meganluck21 26-30, F 1 Response May 29

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    I want so badly to start this!

    I think it would truly help my marriage in so many ways but I don't know how to go about it. My husband is not the dominant one and is irresponsible and isn't a "man" yet (or so I feel) he's a bit arrogant instead of confidant. I'm hoping these things will change over time and I...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    Today I was in a bad mood

    because of events that didn't go my way! I told Sir about my bad mood and at lunch He gave me some maintenance spanks to adjust my attitude and release some stress I was having. I have to say how much better I feel!!! No more bad attitude and the stress of this morning is gone...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 2 Responses May 14

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    mollyhearts mollyhearts 36-40, F May 19

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    Well it seems as I may have given the

    impression I have been offended by leaving EP. So I am back on EP to stay thank you to those who share my DD lifestyle and want to be in my circle...again lol
    IdahoHOH IdahoHOH 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I am in a DD marriage.

    My wife is in charge. She is very dominant and runs our life. I get spanked and disciplined
    happyguy99 happyguy99 66-70, M 5 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    Oops, I fished for a spanking.

    Anyone out there made this error? Things were going so smoothly. I began to think, are we still doing this DD lifestyle thing? Then I was terrible, awful to my husband. I was an insolent brat! I shocked myself . I received the worst spanking EVER. It was so stingy. Ouch...
    Happilyinmyplace Happilyinmyplace 41-45, F 16 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    Oh man! I broke one of our most basic rules

    today! Darn my ability to be easily distracted!!! I am to get Sir's approval on my clothing before I leave the house. And guess what! I left the house without asking his approval. I could give a million excuses on why I forgot... But that's all they are... Excuses... So I will...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 29

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    So I have a question.

    How do you fully submit to your husbands? Trying to walk this new path is proving more difficult as situations arise. When I was still "in charge" I decided we should delete our facebooks for a while until we could get our relationship back on track. Well, tonight I found out he...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 8 Responses May 6

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    "Mine" I met her for the first time just over

    a month before her fifteenth birthday. It was April 1st, 1995 (April Fool's Day) and I was a fool for not making her mine that very first day we met. One year later we began to hang out quite often. I would take her everywhere I went with me, I would watch over her and...
    Jesse35536 Jesse35536 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Soon! Going to look at wedding gowns tonight.

    So excited!!! Thanks to this lifestyle, we have found a way to fall back in love and respect one another, and now we're getting married. ♥
    Oneluckygal Oneluckygal 31-35, F 14 Responses Apr 29

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