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I Am In A Dd Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 204 People

    Oh man! I broke one of our most basic rules

    today! Darn my ability to be easily distracted!!! I am to get Sir's approval on my clothing before I leave the house. And guess what! I left the house without asking his approval. I could give a million excuses on why I forgot... But that's all they are... Excuses... So I will...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    I want so badly to start this!

    I think it would truly help my marriage in so many ways but I don't know how to go about it. My husband is not the dominant one and is irresponsible and isn't a "man" yet (or so I feel) he's a bit arrogant instead of confidant. I'm hoping these things will change over time and I...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    Well it seems as I may have given the

    impression I have been offended by leaving EP. So I am back on EP to stay thank you to those who share my DD lifestyle and want to be in my circle...again lol
    IdahoHOH IdahoHOH 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    mollyhearts mollyhearts 36-40, F May 19

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    "Mine" I met her for the first time just over

    a month before her fifteenth birthday. It was April 1st, 1995 (April Fool's Day) and I was a fool for not making her mine that very first day we met. One year later we began to hang out quite often. I would take her everywhere I went with me, I would watch over her and...
    Jesse35536 Jesse35536 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    Soon! Going to look at wedding gowns tonight.

    So excited!!! Thanks to this lifestyle, we have found a way to fall back in love and respect one another, and now we're getting married. ♥
    Oneluckygal Oneluckygal 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 29

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    So I have a question.

    How do you fully submit to your husbands? Trying to walk this new path is proving more difficult as situations arise. When I was still "in charge" I decided we should delete our facebooks for a while until we could get our relationship back on track. Well, tonight I found out he...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 6 Responses May 6

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    Oops, I fished for a spanking.

    Anyone out there made this error? Things were going so smoothly. I began to think, are we still doing this DD lifestyle thing? Then I was terrible, awful to my husband. I was an insolent brat! I shocked myself . I received the worst spanking EVER. It was so stingy. Ouch...
    Happilyinmyplace Happilyinmyplace 41-45, F 14 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    My husband spanks me

    as punishment when I deserve it usually a hand spanking followed by a implement of his choice paddle, bathbrush, wooden hairbrush, wooden spoon, belt or switch and I get weekly maintenance spankings too usually a hand spanking although if I am really naughty that week he will...
    redbottomedfamily redbottomedfamily 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 19

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    So I recorded my last punishment with my phone

    so I could count the smacks. I was really surprised by what my punishment sounded like. I thought I was pretty quiet. I am not. A lot of my noises sound a bit sexy also. It was weird, it doesn't feel sexy. Also I have a new respect for the Dom in any relationship. As soon as my...
    meganluck21 meganluck21 26-30, F May 29

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    I am in a DD marriage.

    My wife is in charge. She is very dominant and runs our life. I get spanked and disciplined
    happyguy99 happyguy99 66-70, M 5 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    Good Day! I hope the weekend was good

    for everyone. My wife and I are just starting CDD, and so far we are seeing very positive results, and we have barely begun. We are jumping in with both feet this weekend with our modified "boot camp". I love, adore, and cherish my wife. However, see both want to glorify God by...
    Captkirkk Captkirkk 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Today I was in a bad mood

    because of events that didn't go my way! I told Sir about my bad mood and at lunch He gave me some maintenance spanks to adjust my attitude and release some stress I was having. I have to say how much better I feel!!! No more bad attitude and the stress of this morning is gone...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 2 Responses May 14

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    We met 5-6 years ago and our relationship was going like any other. We talk a lot, spend lot of time together, kissing, hugging, laughing...we couldn't wait next time to see each...
    auspergerica auspergerica 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I am in a sexless marriage. Yes, its my fault. Despite mutliple opportunities to act, instead I let fear and anxiety rule the day (I am now addressing long term depression issues...
    AnnesHusband AnnesHusband 46-50 1 day ago

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    Sometimes I don't know which is worse. I shouldn't be whining, it's really over now, for the last and final time; but writing about how it feels makes it somehow feel better...
    comeonletsgo comeonletsgo 61-65, M 3 days ago

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    My mum and dad want me to be in an arranged marriage when I'm older. I feel like I can't live with someone I've just been introduced to for the rest of my life. The thing is is...
    Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I totally believe in traditional marriage roles. The man should be in charge. He should be the one to make any big (and little too if he wishes) decisions. The wife's role should...
    Rscfm04 Rscfm04 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi Folks Well, in 2009 while working to try and get through a work-related (and marriage-related, although unbeknownst to me at the time) burnout, I wrote my fist post on...
    Mrcellophane Mrcellophane 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm not sure what to make of my marriage at this point. I thought I was marrying my best friend, but instead of being a wife she has become another mother. I've mentioned this...
    RNMedic RNMedic 26-30, M 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Here's 2min40 sec of how to empathize. This is a building block for love and can lead you out of a sexless marriage I believe as well as many other relationship problems, family...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    In order to have a perfect relationship that turns into a perfect marriage, the wife must honor her husband over her own will, and the husband must love his wife over his own...
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I was watching the reality tv series Arranged and I thought wow, it must be therapeutic to go through the what ifs and shoulds before you get hitched to a person someone else chose...
    zizna zizna 36-40, F a week ago

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    or how many ppl claim to be? some use that line for sympathy sex. but, I am still amazed ar how many ppl are in sexless marriage. i guess iy is believable, cuz my marriage was...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 21

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    I think it is a legal price of paper, so the federal government can poke n prod into yo personal affairs. I think you can love someone n make a commitment from the heart. I shouldn...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I have been struggling with sexless marriage for years. Recently, I have been telling my husband to separate because I really don’t want to stuck on something is not going to...
    AwesomeLucy AwesomeLucy 31-35, F 10 Responses Aug 19

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    I tend to reject the institution of marriage in general but I'm happy for those find their own happiness through marriage. I just hope the gay rights community in America doesn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 17

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    So many people in sexless marriages... relationships which should be so different... enjoying the pleasure of holding hands, cuddling, smiling to each other sweetly... and of...
    SolitaireGent SolitaireGent 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Whilst in my marriage, I used to question myself, why it wasn't working. Not matter how hard I tried, and boy did I try! It always felt like an uphill struggle, or like I was in a...
    despondant despondant 51-55 1 Response Aug 15

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    I don't date for the sake of always being just a girlfriend. I date with the expectations of eventually getting married. Yes, I know, "dating is for fun and getting to know someone...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    When I was working out yesterday, I was thinking about Unjusted's recent post. It was such a good read. During my run, I pondered that while my Ex seemed to be so easy going, just...
    PinkJeanie1970 PinkJeanie1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Seriously!! Why do people from Pakistan always propose marriage to me! Do they seriously think id really consider marriage. No Thank You!! Caucasian Americans Only Need Apply.
    Sabr3na Sabr3na 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    It's not that I am scared of marriage- in fact, I want to love so badly. I want to give somebody unconditional love and be their best friend in their worst times. But, I am afraid...
    mmerose mmerose 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Ever since my fiancé as I got together, we have casually talked about having sex with other people, attending swinger clubs or indulging in our fantasies. Last night our...
    ladySoDivine ladySoDivine 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I am contemplating leaving my husband. My husband and I have been together for 14 years, married for 12. While the marriage has been "good" with no abuse, or anything bad.. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I am in a verbally abusive marriage. I want out but I am over 60 and have been unemployed now for eight months. I want to leave now but have no way to take the little bit of...
    mjb2015 mjb2015 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    There absolutely needs to be more in common and more to share than just kids in a marriage. I think when one person stops trying it doesn't make any sense to go on. I just hate...
    L7guy L7guy 36-40, M Aug 7

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    Why does something so simple and basic have to be so complicated? I mean, sex is part of the marriage deal is it not? Either we're married and in love and are lovers trying to...
    Heartfelt38 Heartfelt38 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    In my youth I didn't respect marriage and l distinctively remember flirting with a few married ladies during my late adolescence. When I became a Christian and started to study...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    It is the "norm" to feel to alone and disconnected in an old marriage. There is nothing fun anymore. Nothing to look forward to. No "us" time. He is just not fun or exciting to be...
    hcsunshine hcsunshine 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    Gay marriage is already legal in Scotland but not in many other places. I believe it should be legal everywhere but doubt very much that will happen.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    After 39 years together, my partner and I applied for our marriage license today. The staff was most helpful at the county clerk's office and helped us complete the forms and...
    Dan2602 Dan2602 66-70, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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