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I Am In a Female Led Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 280 People

    Getting To Flm

    When we first started experimenting with D/s (WLM) in the spring of 2012, we started as Mistress and slave boy. We played around with Godess as well. However changing to Queen/knight was a much better fit for us. I am a loving person and love to reward service and loyalty. I am...
    queenkeyholder queenkeyholder
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Aug 16, 2012

    My wife is my Mistress.

    I am Her collared slave.
    maleslaveShilo maleslaveShilo
    56-60, M
    Mar 26, 2014

    I actually had quite a conversation with my

    sister-in-law today. My wife had told me previously that, if her sister asked any questions about spanking or why I am doing the housework I am to tell her all about the situation. Well, today she asked me why I was doing all the housework and why my wife was so bossy. I told...
    teenieweenie2 teenieweenie2
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 4, 2014

    My wife is the head of our household.

    I told her once that it was my job to make the money and her's to spend it properly. She makes sure all the bills are paid and she gets the rest! (I didn't tell her the last part :) ) If I need money for something, I have to ask for her permission BEFORE I spend it. I do all the...
    slavemissylee slavemissylee
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 19, 2015

    To *** Or Not To ***

    Oh, I am very excited about Saturday. My knight has sent me menus for approval--of course I have picked a place that had two entrees that I could not choose between, so I will order both--one for him and one for me and I will eat some of both. I can't wait to be more openly domme...
    queenkeyholder queenkeyholder
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Jul 26, 2012

    Making Progress

    I am now definitely making progress on my plan of turning my marriage into a female led one. My husband is past the first stage, and now admits that it is his wish to serve and obey me, but I now have to reinforce my control, and make him understand that this is a permanent...
    pampereddiva pampereddiva
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2012


    who treats me very much like a child, and who tells me to address her as "Mommy" at home, and sometimes in public, had laid down today to take a nap but was not asleep yet. She looked a little agitated, and i did not want to ask her why. Suddenly she called me into the bedroom...
    kent1973 kent1973
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jul 11, 2014

    Anniversary Night

    During our date out this past weekend, I had some fun. I believe the waiter was a bit scared of me (as my knight put it). It was my first public display of dominance: husband opening all doors, me telling the server that my date can only have two drinks and I will decide what and...
    queenkeyholder queenkeyholder
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2012

    My Wife Loves To Control Me

    Its taken me a long time to fully realize it. 12 years. That's how long we have been married. Slowly but very surely over those years my wife has added more and more control over me. It has been so slow that I had a real hard time seeing it and I guess that is because I have...
    vincenzacuck vincenzacuck
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2012

    Mistress's Poly Family

    i am my Mistress's sissy cuckolded husband. She runs the household. i am Her wife and housemaid. She also owns two masculine submissives who each have their own roles within Her family. One is Her lover and the other Her pet. One lives with U/us the other doesn't. W/we are all...
    sissyslavejamie sissyslavejamie
    51-55, T
    Jan 16, 2009

    Her New Bedroom

    I entered our bedroom. I noticed you changed things in the bedroom. You bought a canopy. It looked real nice, very modern and it suited in our furniture of the house. On the corners of the bed you secure don top and bottom iron rings. “Well sub, you like my new bedroom...
    soulfire1 soulfire1
    56-60, M
    Jul 27, 2012

    I have been married to my wife

    for 28 years. She has always been the one in charge. She has controlled the finances since the first day. She stayed home and raised the children while I went to work and when I had the opportunity to make more money driving over the road, she said that if that's what I wanted...
    slavemissylee slavemissylee
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2015

    Shopping Instructions

    My gorgeous wife decided that I haven't been showering her with enough gifts. She dropped subtle hints like, 'where is my prezzy?' and 'if you're online looking at ****, you could be online buying me something instead'. So, yesterday I took the hint and went onto her favourite...
    krsoundman krsoundman
    56-60, M
    Jan 18, 2012

    From My Sub Hub

    An introduction from the Knight: My Queen and I have been married for 12 years. It has been clear for most of our marriage that I am by a good measure the kinkier of the two of us. I also **********...A LOT...generally a minimum of once a day, and often three to four times a day...
    queenkeyholder queenkeyholder
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2012

    I'm In The Catbird Seat

    I suddenly realized tonight that I call the shots in my marriage.It was a stunning revelation, one that I should have realized a long time ago.But here's the thing - I am a little disappointed in my mate, so it's not an entirely satisfying marriage. Still, I figured I should...
    milkynips milkynips
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Oct 8, 2012
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