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I Am In A Lesbian Relationship And She Broke My Heart

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    When Will I Gain The Strength!!

    When will I have the strength to leave? I feel my gaurd going up... But I long for love and attention. My bed is empty right now.... All I want and desire is the true love of a woman that will not fade away!!! But as for now... My sadness/ loneliness grips me like an old...
    Pennysmith Pennysmith 31-35, F Aug 10, 2012

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    2nd part: i lost all sense of security in the

    relationship after seeing those photos, selfies of them both, clinging to each other like partners. how could this be? i trusted my partner and this particular friend of hers, i knew her, she stayed overnight in our place a few years back, i thought she was a friend, i thought...
    faith43 faith43 46-50, F Feb 10

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    Heartbroken...

     I'm pretty new to this, for anybody that cares to read this please forgive me if my story is lacking in more detail. I will do my best. I was born and raised overseas (army brat) and then I went to the states for college. It was there I met C and she was just such a great...
    Familiaxantexceteros Familiaxantexceteros 22-25, F 21 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    Farewell...

    Farewell Baggage...I'm tired of carrying you around. It's not as if you ever served me well. It's time to let go and let you belong to another to lug around. I've allowed you to inflict enough pain onto me. No more will you shut hard on my heart. I must push you aside to make new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 18, 2012

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    An Incomplete Ending

    I know when something is worth holding on to because it is that good. And she does too. Which is why we are still best friends today, and two weeks from today is her wedding day. We had our first kiss two years back, and started an intimate label-less relationship over a year and...
    imaginationew imaginationew 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    She Broke My Heart

    I just needed to let this out, its killing me to keep it in. so here is my story. i met my GF well i suppose my Ex now 6 years ago. we were so in love she made me so happy i was in a dark pet before her, and she came and light my world. we have been into a lot of ups and downs...
    mily2 mily2 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Thank You Southern Gals...

    I actually have three very incredible women I met on here to thank for helping ease a lot of my heartache over my Utah girl. T, D and B... I know I still have a little ways to go before totally moving on, but you three have really helped soften the yearning by allowing me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    Again...

    I'm just a broken record! FML! And I don't know where to find the strength to get off the train! Hot then cold ... Love then nothing! Is being a closeted femme a curse! My life seems so f'd right now!
    Pennysmith Pennysmith 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    Im Not Bi Or A Lesbian But I Did Love Her - My Story

    I met her online when I was 12 through my ex girlfriend, Liah. At the time I was pretending to be a boy online and I told ALOT of lies! Nick, the the girl I can't leave alone, was currently Liah's friend and Nick always had a Habit of taken Liah's boyfriends and to make a long...
    PharaohAzul PharaohAzul 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    I don't know what's going on

    but lately things have been pretty good with the ex. It seems strange to me that she's finally coming around and making an effort, but maybe it'll be worth it. I'm just protecting myself by not fully letting her in until it stays like this for a while. It's nice to be noticed...
    Lesbtruthful Lesbtruthful 22-25, F May 31

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    I'm not avoiding the question :p I've been a

    little overwhelmed but definitely not avoiding telling you why I like you. You amaze me everyday! Every time I'm with you, saying goodbye is the most difficult part. I hate saying goodbye! What scares me is how close I feel to u. I've only known you a short period of time...
    toughskinnygirl toughskinnygirl 31-35, F Jul 18

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    Part 3: A few weeks before my bday,

    i held my partner's hand close to my heart, looked into her eyes and said "we are going to work this out, everything is going to be alright". She looked at me and said "I'm leaving for Sydney, I was planning to do it while you are at work, so that your tears won't stop me from...
    faith43 faith43 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    From A Straight Girl To A Lesbian

    i didn't know that having lesbian relationship came to my life because i was so naughty and a play girl then suddenly this lesbian came to my life and start building our own paradise...but most of us didn't succeed because this relationship they said are "immoral" i really hate...
    angelalwaysloveyou angelalwaysloveyou 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    She Got Engaged !!!

    since early in my life, i wasn't sure about my sexuality, was attracted to boys and still felt something aroung girls, but till now i only had a relationships with guys, i'm really a deep closet lesbian.. the first time that i fall for a girl was in college, we were both at...
    knarin108 knarin108 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    Low Point

    I think I'm at one of the lowest points in my life. She holds all the cards and I feel like a fool. I just wait on her and work around her schedule and I'm there whenever she can be around me... I spend most of my night alone and lonely. I can't come out. I feel like if I...
    Pennysmith Pennysmith 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2012

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    Why Won't She Leave...

    I don't know why she continues to contact me. Its so hard on me. It keeps hurting me. The problem is, is that I'm nervous. I'm such a femme...so I'm always over looked. I'm afraid this will be my life.
    Pennysmith Pennysmith 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    Randomly Ranting...

    Damn...looks like I'm the only one posting stories in this group anymore...I think we should retitle this group..."Sparksfly Punked By Chick in Utah"! Anyone mind? Okay, first the good news...I think I am almost done scraping the remnants of this chick from my heart. I still may...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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    Part 1: I still wake up with pain in my heart,

    everyday. I'm in a lesbian relationship for 26years and trying to work it out the best way I know how. Around Dec 2012 I noticed some changes in my partner, I could not pinpoint exactly but my intuition tells me, there is just something that is not quite right. Our relationship...
    faith43 faith43 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I've Blogged My Heart...

    http://signsoflife4cj.blogspot.com/
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 23, 2012

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    Stop! Let Me Off!

    When will I get off this freakin merry go round of hurt? It's my own damn fault. I blocked her from my Facebook and she talked me into reinstating her. This morning I log on to see a pic of her and her girlfriend snuggling together at breakfast pop up larger than life on my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    After 1 failed marriage and 7 broken relationships I am done with telling my tail of a broken heart. It took me 20 years to figure out that we are only as happy as we purpose to be...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F Jul 3

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    I happened upon this piece of writing today, and I liked it so much I thought I'd share. It really speaks to me! I agree with what she says, and almost feel like I could have...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    So my girlfriend was grounded for 2 months back in June... And I have been suffering from a broken heart ever since then, it doesn't help that my parents and her mom seem to be...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    a lot of people I meet say they have a broken heart because of love.. that's not my case, well part of my case is love, is that I love people too much.. but in return I do not feel...
    Starz93 Starz93 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    This is a group to help people with sadness in their lives, if you wanna become part of this group guys, message heartless2, the creator of this group, for info. We don't judge at...
    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Its really a good thing you can't physically see broken hearts...there would be dazzling shards of broken blood diamonds everywhere...such is my beautiful tender agonizing ache for...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I have a slightly broken heart Not torn but a little damaged Threw all the people who told me they loved me and then was just gone
    teenwolf360 teenwolf360 13-15, F Jul 7

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    One day everything was perfect. The next day he told me that he needed space. I was not only confused but hurt. Losing my best friend and the love of my life at the same time...
    JadedMoonbeam JadedMoonbeam 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Why does splitting up hurt so much when it was my decision to end it? Around February this year my ex-girlfriend persuaded me to try giving our relationship another go. We had...
    Rafamac Rafamac 41-45, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I fell deeply in love with this girl, I never had opened myself to anyone like I opened myself to her. We were in love for about 2 years and everything seemed great, then one day...
    Santi0924 Santi0924 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I found out he was "back" with his X, apparently they been together and never broke up, he play both of us, she doesn't know about me, I confront him about it he didn't face me and...
    esscape esscape 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am completely devastated and heartbroken. I have a partner, we have been in a relationship for 5 years now and last March, she proposed to me in our holiday trip. It was going...
    Oblivion111 Oblivion111 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Wow, heart break sucks. This isn't the first time I've had my heart broken. The guys I was with before hurt me, broke my heart into a thousand piece, but as cliche as this sounds...
    Via70 Via70 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm heart broken and no one seems to see me. I fell in love again and love cast me aside as always. I wonder why it's so easy for me to be thrown away and ignored? But it's a...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I seem to have lost someone very close to me, and I don't even know what happened. We met last year, just by chance. We were so alike it was scary. We quickly became good friends...
    nmt1 nmt1 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Broken. 4 relationships so far in my life One passed away .. 2 cheated And one left Tired of being heartbroken and feeling worthless. All I wish to do is to be able to love a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    A six year long crush/almost boyfriend rejected me. It's been a year now almost and I know longer think about it all the time, but when I do it's still embarrassing and still hurts...
    janicefromkansas janicefromkansas 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    It's hard to not take a breakup personnally. It must be your fault right? If you were amazing they never would have left. But that's not true. Don't get me wrong I don't think I'm...
    NanaH2014 NanaH2014 22-25, F Jul 6

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    I'd love some feedback. For years I "dated" this guy who was like my best friend. He was with the same girl for years. When he was younger he was a major player but he's out grown...
    confused256 confused256 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    My bf, now ex and I broke up. It's been almost a month now. Our relationship is on and off. It's hard for me to fall In love with someone else especially since my ex gave me so...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 13

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    I broke up with my boyfriend the moment I found out he lied to me about going out with his coworkers. That very night he happened to get his car stolen (sign from the universe) and...
    zashleyyy zashleyyy 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My heart hurts so bad supposed to be in a relationship but feel more lonely than ever
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 6

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    my heart is breaking, been in a relationship for only 4-5 months, we grew close and connected, we were good together and had so much fun chatting.. as of late, seems like our...
    dayz25 dayz25 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    When I say you broke my heart. You broke my heart, and you broke me down. You broke the strongest part of me. And the strongest part of me was you. I just wish I could hurt you or...
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want a girlfriend. I want to be in a relationship, but then feel like were best freinds and can tell eachother everything.. Any single girls? Hmu with a message ๐Ÿ˜
    SamanthaThizzle SamanthaThizzle 13-15, F Jul 3

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    I understand what itโ€™s like to want to hide a part of who you are, to want to lock the key into your heart, into who you are, and throw it into the deepest depths of the ocean...
    brandon1841 brandon1841 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    So I was with my girl for 4 years we quickly fell in love, we had been living together for about 3 and a half years, so two years ago I got a new job in the city we finally had our...
    afcbaker afcbaker 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I fell in love with a 25 year old man Scott he was amazing! Sweet, funny, drop dead gorgeous and always knew how to make me smile! We had a fling on and off for abit because he was...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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