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I Am In A Lesbian Relationship And She Broke My Heart

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    Im Not Bi Or A Lesbian But I Did Love Her - My Story

    I met her online when I was 12 through my ex girlfriend, Liah. At the time I was pretending to be a boy online and I told ALOT of lies! Nick, the the girl I can't leave alone, was currently Liah's friend and Nick always had a Habit of taken Liah's boyfriends and to make a long...
    PharaohAzul PharaohAzul 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    I'm not avoiding the question :p I've been a

    little overwhelmed but definitely not avoiding telling you why I like you. You amaze me everyday! Every time I'm with you, saying goodbye is the most difficult part. I hate saying goodbye! What scares me is how close I feel to u. I've only known you a short period of time...
    toughskinnygirl toughskinnygirl 31-35, F Jul 18

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    An Incomplete Ending

    I know when something is worth holding on to because it is that good. And she does too. Which is why we are still best friends today, and two weeks from today is her wedding day. We had our first kiss two years back, and started an intimate label-less relationship over a year and...
    imaginationew imaginationew 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    2nd part: i lost all sense of security in the

    relationship after seeing those photos, selfies of them both, clinging to each other like partners. how could this be? i trusted my partner and this particular friend of hers, i knew her, she stayed overnight in our place a few years back, i thought she was a friend, i thought...
    faith43 faith43 46-50, F Feb 10

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    Farewell...

    Farewell Baggage...I'm tired of carrying you around. It's not as if you ever served me well. It's time to let go and let you belong to another to lug around. I've allowed you to inflict enough pain onto me. No more will you shut hard on my heart. I must push you aside to make new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 18, 2012

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    She Got Engaged !!!

    since early in my life, i wasn't sure about my sexuality, was attracted to boys and still felt something aroung girls, but till now i only had a relationships with guys, i'm really a deep closet lesbian.. the first time that i fall for a girl was in college, we were both at...
    knarin108 knarin108 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    Randomly Ranting...

    Damn...looks like I'm the only one posting stories in this group anymore...I think we should retitle this group..."Sparksfly Punked By Chick in Utah"! Anyone mind? Okay, first the good news...I think I am almost done scraping the remnants of this chick from my heart. I still may...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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    Heartbroken...

     I'm pretty new to this, for anybody that cares to read this please forgive me if my story is lacking in more detail. I will do my best. I was born and raised overseas (army brat) and then I went to the states for college. It was there I met C and she was just such a great...
    Familiaxantexceteros Familiaxantexceteros 22-25, F 21 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    I don't know what's going on

    but lately things have been pretty good with the ex. It seems strange to me that she's finally coming around and making an effort, but maybe it'll be worth it. I'm just protecting myself by not fully letting her in until it stays like this for a while. It's nice to be noticed...
    Lesbtruthful Lesbtruthful 22-25, F May 31

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    From A Straight Girl To A Lesbian

    i didn't know that having lesbian relationship came to my life because i was so naughty and a play girl then suddenly this lesbian came to my life and start building our own paradise...but most of us didn't succeed because this relationship they said are "immoral" i really hate...
    angelalwaysloveyou angelalwaysloveyou 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Part 3: A few weeks before my bday,

    i held my partner's hand close to my heart, looked into her eyes and said "we are going to work this out, everything is going to be alright". She looked at me and said "I'm leaving for Sydney, I was planning to do it while you are at work, so that your tears won't stop me from...
    faith43 faith43 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    She Broke My Heart

    I just needed to let this out, its killing me to keep it in. so here is my story. i met my GF well i suppose my Ex now 6 years ago. we were so in love she made me so happy i was in a dark pet before her, and she came and light my world. we have been into a lot of ups and downs...
    mily2 mily2 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Why Won't She Leave...

    I don't know why she continues to contact me. Its so hard on me. It keeps hurting me. The problem is, is that I'm nervous. I'm such a femme...so I'm always over looked. I'm afraid this will be my life.
    Pennysmith Pennysmith 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    Part 1: I still wake up with pain in my heart,

    everyday. I'm in a lesbian relationship for 26years and trying to work it out the best way I know how. Around Dec 2012 I noticed some changes in my partner, I could not pinpoint exactly but my intuition tells me, there is just something that is not quite right. Our relationship...
    faith43 faith43 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I've Blogged My Heart...

    http://signsoflife4cj.blogspot.com/
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 23, 2012

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    Stop! Let Me Off!

    When will I get off this freakin merry go round of hurt? It's my own damn fault. I blocked her from my Facebook and she talked me into reinstating her. This morning I log on to see a pic of her and her girlfriend snuggling together at breakfast pop up larger than life on my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 15, 2012

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    Again...

    I'm just a broken record! FML! And I don't know where to find the strength to get off the train! Hot then cold ... Love then nothing! Is being a closeted femme a curse! My life seems so f'd right now!
    Pennysmith Pennysmith 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    Low Point

    I think I'm at one of the lowest points in my life. She holds all the cards and I feel like a fool. I just wait on her and work around her schedule and I'm there whenever she can be around me... I spend most of my night alone and lonely. I can't come out. I feel like if I...
    Pennysmith Pennysmith 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2012

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    Thank You Southern Gals...

    I actually have three very incredible women I met on here to thank for helping ease a lot of my heartache over my Utah girl. T, D and B... I know I still have a little ways to go before totally moving on, but you three have really helped soften the yearning by allowing me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    When Will I Gain The Strength!!

    When will I have the strength to leave? I feel my gaurd going up... But I long for love and attention. My bed is empty right now.... All I want and desire is the true love of a woman that will not fade away!!! But as for now... My sadness/ loneliness grips me like an old...
    Pennysmith Pennysmith 31-35, F Aug 10, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    (Sorry for grammar mistakes. English is not my native language) It's a long and complicated story. So i will start with the background. I spent most of my life closed in my home...
    Valiosc2 Valiosc2 18-21, M Aug 12

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    I fell for him unexpectedly and that's what made things seem so amazing no matter how bad he treated me. Than he left me, came back to tell me it was a mistake, left me again, came...
    baybabes71 baybabes71 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Hi. Please read this cause I would like to explain a concept lots of you seems to misunderstand. There I was forcing laughters faking smiles. Lying to myself that I'm actually...
    TheLadyYves TheLadyYves 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I am not a singer so belting out my hurt won’t help. I am not an artist so painting my broken heart with the tormented colours of my palette won’t work. So, I play the music...
    Bandiliu Bandiliu 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Have you ever tried sleeping with a broken heart, well you can try sleeping in bed.
    melXlo melXlo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    If only a broken heart could be fixed so easily. If only the person you want, would be there with you and everything just be fine. The past is looking pretty damn amazing right now...
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I've survived a broken heart before so why can't I be rational about it? Why haven't I hardened to it? I can't sleep, I've lost my appetite but worst of all is the overwhelming...
    heartskipsabeat heartskipsabeat 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    The worst part about having a broken heart is going to bed knowing that when you wake up the realization is going to hit you again ... And again .
    tasha456 tasha456 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    The ****** thing about a broken heart is that the one who can dry your tears is the reason they're there in the first place!
    skysplits skysplits 16-17, F Aug 14

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    The broken heart has become a comfort
    tatterdremains tatterdremains 13-15, M Aug 20

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    I NEED TO BE LOVED! I DON'T NEED TO BE WITH A MAN! MEN ARE LIKE GARBAGE TO ME!...IT'S LIKE I'M A MIRROR, MY MIRROR STARING BACK AT ME! THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO LOVE! THEY HATE...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Dear Reader, The date is August 16th, 2014. I don’t know why I’m writing this. I guess maybe I just feel like I don’t have any other place to turn at the moment, afraid of...
    SmrtMouth SmrtMouth 16-17, M Aug 17

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    So this is going to be long but I got to get all this off my chest... and it wouldn't hurt to get some feedback. So as always there was this guy lets call him Tom. I met him my...
    justagirl18 justagirl18 16-17, F 16 Responses Aug 21

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    This is the story of me and a boy named joey a met on a teen program in my cruise. We're still friends after all of this, but I'm scared that we'll never get back together because...
    SteffXRocker SteffXRocker 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I got out of my country looking for a new life. I arrived in Spain and was working at a small shop. In doing so I met him, the most beautiful man I have ever seen in my life...
    bala311 bala311 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    My heart aches for you. I am tortured with thoughts of you, and though I am sometimes convinced that these feelings have faded, each and every time I fall in love with you again...
    brandon1841 brandon1841 18-21, M Aug 12

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    So I've been friends with this girl for several years now and I've always been crazy about her. Our relationship is unique to say the least. We have really good rapport but will go...
    tourok tourok 22-25, M Aug 18

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    So broken, I ask myself how it can ever be whole once again, so many pieces, fragments, broken, busted, wrecked. I have never experienced pain such as this, never knew this type of...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    my boyfriend of one year and six months has broken up with me out of no where. his excuse is that I'm wrong and I'm not that attractive. I don't understand how any of this is true...
    princesspandaxo princesspandaxo 18-21, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have never had a girlfriend. I've never kissed a girl. I've never had a female friend until recently. I've become friends with someone I've liked for some time. I know there are...
    persononinternet persononinternet 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Me and my fiance share an Instagram. Some girl started following us and he asked me if I knew who she was. I didn't, so I dug deeper and checked facebook. Turns out he knew who she...
    misstuscansun misstuscansun 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    I don't know what to say but It's so broken... Since we broke up, almost everyday, every morning I wake up so so early (not like usual) and when at night trying to sleep, the...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21, T 1 Response Aug 22

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    Ok, so my Sophomore year in High School, I had a crush on this really cute guy. We had a couple of classes together and I always used to pick with him and flirt with him, I even...
    DiamondInTheSkye DiamondInTheSkye 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I met a guy online around this time last year right before I began an intensive 21 month program. Everything about him seemed right and perfect. He was a gentleman, he stayed on...
    lilanie lilanie 36-40 Aug 16

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    Today was the first day in three days that I changed clothes, ate, had human contact.... And it all hurt. I still cry at random moments and am sick thinking of having to go to work...
    sar4952 sar4952 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    This might be a bit long, so bear with me. A few months ago during my spring semester 2014 of college, I met someone; a boy I fell In love with. We started as friends and just a...
    anderrss16 anderrss16 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Have I learned nothing.... Here we go again! I try not to be that person, you know the evil black b!+ch that men complain so much about. So I enter every new situation with an...
    Alanda510 Alanda510 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    When you are on one end of a cliff. And your falling, Who is going to catch you? They say, If he loves you he leaves and never comes back, he wasn't worth it. If he comes back. It...
    jeniridianar9 jeniridianar9 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    I REALLY WANT TO BE WITH A WOMAN, BUT I AM TOO UGLY. I'M THINKING THAT IF I GET WITH A WOMAN AND MAKE HER MY GIRLFRIEND, SHE MAY LEAVE ME FOR ANOTHER MAN, BECAUSE A MAN WOULD DO...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F Aug 24

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