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I Am In a Long Distant Relationship

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    Meeting After 3 Years (Help Us, We're This Close)

    Hi, everyone. First of all I have to express how awkward I feel to asking help for personal issue. But I've got to try this. I am 25 years old student in Vancouver from all the way from Mongolia. I am vegan and normal nice girl. One day started to talk this person from Hawaii...
    smileyanar smileyanar 22-25, F Nov 21, 2013

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    My New Ldr Blog :)

    Hi everyone, my name is Alex, I have been in an amazing LDR for a little over a year. I truly believe that he is THE ONE! lol and we have plans to move in together this spring! But anyways, being that this is my very first time experiencing an LDR, I decided to document the...
    hiales hiales 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2011

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    I Love Him

    Some days its lonely, I always wish we could be together, but I know we will. He means so much to me, I could never let him go. Distance is such a tiny little thing, it should never get in the way.
    cynthiaelizabeth cynthiaelizabeth 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2009

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    I Have A Question

    I want to go up and meet my boyfriend in person for the first time he lives 5 states away we have talked about it and kind of set it up not fully date cause of my work but I'm sooooooo nervous because hes so out of my league but at the same time i'm excited because other then...
    sweety7268 sweety7268 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    A Dream Within A Dream

    I can honestly say, what I'm about to write has been the most stressful issue for me lately. Basically, during one of the multiple times my ex and I broke up, I met a guy while playing a video game. This was about ten months ago in November. Of course, it started out as gamer...
    MeowingLadyBug MeowingLadyBug 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2012

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    ::Split::

    I know I love this guy in Vegas a whole lot and I've know him for three years going on four and right now Im in Vegas but I haven't gone to visit him yet out of fear because in the back of my head I have doubts. Im going off to college next year and staying here in my hometown...
    XCheshireKatX XCheshireKatX 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    We Met- We Fought - We Love... Not Yet

    Charlie, as I shall call him for his privacy, is 25. He is 7 years older than I am. We love each other. I fight with him about stupid things. Why? Oh because I think he is too good to be true, and I rather he break up with me so I could settle instead of be with the man I think...
    3Dgirl 3Dgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    I Feel So Alone, He Is All I Have

    My darling boyfriend lives in the states while I am in Canada. We have been together for 8 months now, have not yet met but he is my best friend. I love him so so much. I have a four day weekend, with friday, saturday, sunday and monday off, I am living at a friend's place...
    3Dgirl 3Dgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    Long Distance Fears....

    My boyfriend and I have been together a total of 4 and a half years. We first started dating when we were 16 and were together for a year and a half. When we finished high school he planned on spending the summer in America and when he returned after 3months we would be attending...
    SRG8988 SRG8988 22-25 Aug 22, 2012

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    Fate Is Sometimes Impredictable

    I never thought i could meet someone like him on the internet. It happened by pure luck, i wasn't even planning it, it just happened. The first time we spoke, i barely payed attention, but after several trials on his own, we managed to have a real conversation. He helped me a...
    Loveleh Loveleh 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    A day without hearing about him is torment.

    I can go work and focus on it but cant help thinking about him. My daytime is his night time. So many challenging that we need to go through and keep in touch as much as possible. I dont regret knowing him. Who would have known that this person can become big part of your life...
    spongechannie spongechannie 22-25, F Jul 6

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    Every Type Of Relationship Has Advantages And Disadvantages

    A lot of people say it doesn't work. So many people have had long distance relationships that don't work out.. think about it this way... do short distance relationships always work. My longest relationship is my long distance one. Many people may argue and say " But, what...
    cynthiaelizabeth cynthiaelizabeth 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2009

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    And I Hate It So Much!!!

    She's so close yet so far away!  We met first in elementary school, but weren't ever really friends until middle school.  She and her group were my main friends then for parts of 7th and 8th grade.  When we got to highschool, I hung out with her and ...
    moonlit1 moonlit1 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    I Have Never Cried So Much Before

    I spent the most of my day in bed, crying my heart out, crying my face off. I wanted to rip out my heart and throw it away. I've never been hurt so much. I never cried like this before, it was as if someone had died. But even when my beloved grandmother had died from a tragic...
    3Dgirl 3Dgirl 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    In A Long Distant Relationship Because Of My Parents :(

    me and my parents never really got along. I always been the A + student with great grades , never done drugs , alcohol or anything. never really had friends so staying home and doing chores was really my thing. I met this guy in 11th grade. he was a senior in high school. I...
    lostbutterfly100 lostbutterfly100 18-21 1 Response Jun 16, 2013

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    Want to Hold Him

    His amazing His sweet His caring His adorable His loving His nice His perfect His all mine..although He lives a state away :( Its so hard when im this in love with him, yet we cant hold each other and tell each other i love you in person.. Ive known him ever since...
    Miffy Miffy 16-18, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2009

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    Can't Belive It

    i was just bored one day and my mom wasn't home so i went on EP and clicked on random member. It came up with a user name i will not reveal but because of his username i felt bad for him and put him in my circle. he sent me a messege asking why he should trust me. i told him...
    UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick 18-21 Nov 16, 2008

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    A New Beginning <3

    Sept. of 2003, I was 16 years old and attending High school in my hometown in California. My now fiance was there as a foreign exchange student. We met in our french class, our first encounter was rocky, but we soon became very close friends. A couple of weeks later we started...
    Mausi16 Mausi16 22-25, F Oct 5, 2010

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    His Type

    He likes petite girls, proportional girls. He is beyond picky. He likes the Debra Morgan from Dexter kind of girls... and he admits I am not like that. I am a bit on the skinny with curves side. The breasts are not proportional (too big) and i know its a turn off for him. He...
    3Dgirl 3Dgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    Yeah What Can You Do...

    So my kooky boyfriend and his friend without any planning or really any money decided to drive all the way from Georgia to California (my location) They made it to Mississippi but to no surprise they have to go back.With no money you can't do it. They were planning on selling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 26, 2012

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    April 7, 2009

    Everyone always tells me guys in a long distance relationship will cheat. My ex boyfriend Nathan lived in Brittish Columbia while I lived in Ontario. Everyone said he was going to cheat on me, and I didn't beleive it. Why should I have beleived it? We talked everyday and he was...
    cynthiaelizabeth cynthiaelizabeth 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    People msg me saying hey and starting off with a kiss 😘 as if I feel the same and will fall in love in 3 seconds
    elismith elismith 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm in a some what long distant relationship. My boyfriend left for the Air Force and won't be back for 9 months. I've been sending letters while his in Texas and soon ill get to...
    samcozz22 samcozz22 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Hi! I'm in a long distant relationship right now he lives we both live in New York I live in upstate New York and he lives in New York City and it is the hardest thing I've ever...
    Lotusgirlred Lotusgirlred 31-35, F Jul 13

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    The Difficulty of Personal Legends: LDRs - The computer crashed and I'm left feeling absolutely terrible about it. Not my fault exactly, however just knowing that it makes it...
    LysanderFremont LysanderFremont 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    Long Distance Relationship aren’t always ideal. In fact, they’re really tough. You spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. You can’t see...
    AJAY2404 AJAY2404 31-35, M 8 Responses Jul 8

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    I have been dating a guy whom I've know for a year know, we've been together for just two and a bit months. I must say, I have never been in a long distance relationship this long...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I met (let's call him T) T two years ago. In April of this year, I had the opportunity to go visit him in Japan and really hit it off with him. We ended up liking each other and...
    dreamsheep dreamsheep 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hello, my name is Casey and I am 16 years old and currently in a long distance relationship with a boy whom is also 16. I live in California and my boyfriend lives in New York. We...
    TheOddChild TheOddChild 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F Jul 4

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F Jul 4

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F Jul 6

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F Jul 6

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F Jul 6

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    This is about long distance relationship. (I am 18 years old) I only do if we will be apart for 3-5 years and no longer. However, I an going abroad for medical program, which means...
    uniqueresonance uniqueresonance 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    And it's perfect. Honestly, a Long Distance Relationship IS a hard thing to manage. There are lots of pros and cons regarding the concept of Online Dating. Like missing out on...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I met this guy online a year ago and we have been close every since. He finally asked me out and of course I said "yes!". He lives in France so the distance is a problem but we...
    linkingold linkingold 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I miss my man too. We have been in a long distance relationship for a long time and haven't seen each other in a year. About 2 months ago I asked him about this number I saw on...
    meredith98 meredith98 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    So i have a friend from a different state, its not really a long distance relationship because we aren't really, like officially, boyfriend and girlfriend. we only text but we do...
    Aimeelouisee Aimeelouisee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I believe long distance relationships can work, but I got burned in a long distance relationship and all she wanted was money. She did not get what she wanted and I got left out...
    Kerry2014 Kerry2014 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I've been with my boyfriend 9months and we are pretty good together. Thing is now he as been offered a job in Australia building a factory. I don't know if I can have a long...
    sarah696969 sarah696969 31-35, F Jun 29

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    So I'm really really excited because I've been in a long distance relationship for nearly 3 years and my boyfriend is finally making the move in 2 weeks time :) I'm so excited and...
    amythetinysaur amythetinysaur 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I don't know what to make of my thoughts. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. 2 of which were part of a long distance relationship. I have not seen him at all in...
    BBopenbook BBopenbook 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Many doubt.. So do i.. But i am contented and blessed that he makes the trip here every month with a minimum stay of at least 2 days. Do i need to ask for more when i choose for...
    EpQueen EpQueen 51-55, F a week ago

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    I believe they can to an certain point. If your boyfriend who you've dated for a couple years is gone for a couple months on business and both people stay faithful and talk to each...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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