I Am In a Long Distant Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 125 People

    I Have Never Cried So Much Before

    I spent the most of my day in bed, crying my heart out, crying my face off. I wanted to rip out my heart and throw it away. I've never been hurt so much. I never cried like this before, it was as if someone had died. But even when my beloved grandmother had died from a tragic...
    3Dgirl 3Dgirl
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 24, 2012

    I want to know I'm I wasting my time.

    I want to ask his friends girlfriend. I know if I do this it will cause a problem.
    missteen2 missteen2
    36-40, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    And I Hate It So Much!!!

    She's so close yet so far away!  We met first in elementary school, but weren't ever really friends until middle school.  She and her group were my main friends then for parts of 7th and 8th grade.  When we got to highschool, I hung out with her and ...
    moonlit1 moonlit1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2008

    His Type

    He likes petite girls, proportional girls. He is beyond picky. He likes the Debra Morgan from Dexter kind of girls... and he admits I am not like that. I am a bit on the skinny with curves side. The breasts are not proportional (too big) and i know its a turn off for him. He...
    3Dgirl 3Dgirl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2012

    A Dream Within A Dream

    I can honestly say, what I'm about to write has been the most stressful issue for me lately. Basically, during one of the multiple times my ex and I broke up, I met a guy while playing a video game. This was about ten months ago in November. Of course, it started out as gamer...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 26, 2012

    Me and him started playing LoL together with

    alot of others 2 years ago, we all talked in skype all days and kicked some ***. We started talking just more and more, getting to know eachothers and we became best friends, the best friend i had ever had. Then one day now in the summer break, we decided that we would meet, he...
    Soldottern Soldottern
    18-21, F
    Jul 28, 2014

    Being in a long distant relationship is far

    from easy. Especially when you hardly get to talk to one another.
    lIShayIl lIShayIl
    18-21, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    Meeting After 3 Years (Help Us, We're This Close)

    Hi, everyone. First of all I have to express how awkward I feel to asking help for personal issue. But I've got to try this. I am 25 years old student in Vancouver from all the way from Mongolia. I am vegan and normal nice girl. One day started to talk this person from Hawaii...
    smileyanar smileyanar
    26-30, F
    Nov 21, 2013

    I Feel So Alone, He Is All I Have

    My darling boyfriend lives in the states while I am in Canada. We have been together for 8 months now, have not yet met but he is my best friend. I love him so so much. I have a four day weekend, with friday, saturday, sunday and monday off, I am living at a friend's place...
    3Dgirl 3Dgirl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2013

    Yeah What Can You Do...

    So my kooky boyfriend and his friend without any planning or really any money decided to drive all the way from Georgia to California (my location) They made it to Mississippi but to no surprise they have to go back.With no money you can't do it. They were planning on selling...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 26, 2012

    Can't Belive It

    i was just bored one day and my mom wasn't home so i went on EP and clicked on random member. It came up with a user name i will not reveal but because of his username i felt bad for him and put him in my circle. he sent me a messege asking why he should trust me. i told him...
    UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick
    18-21
    Nov 16, 2008

    A New Beginning <3

    Sept. of 2003, I was 16 years old and attending High school in my hometown in California. My now fiance was there as a foreign exchange student. We met in our french class, our first encounter was rocky, but we soon became very close friends. A couple of weeks later we started...
    Mausi16 Mausi16
    22-25, F
    Oct 5, 2010

    Long Distance Fears....

    My boyfriend and I have been together a total of 4 and a half years. We first started dating when we were 16 and were together for a year and a half. When we finished high school he planned on spending the summer in America and when he returned after 3months we would be attending...
    SRG8988 SRG8988
    22-25
    Aug 22, 2012

    My New Ldr Blog :)

    Hi everyone, my name is Alex, I have been in an amazing LDR for a little over a year. I truly believe that he is THE ONE! lol and we have plans to move in together this spring! But anyways, being that this is my very first time experiencing an LDR, I decided to document the...
    hiales hiales
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2011

    I Love Him

    Some days its lonely, I always wish we could be together, but I know we will. He means so much to me, I could never let him go. Distance is such a tiny little thing, it should never get in the way.
    WinterPrincess21 WinterPrincess21
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 21, 2009

    My dude and I are having a very rough patch at

    the beginning of our LD relationship. Our communication has become very grim, he attributes it to his job. He's a paralegal for a major firm in a large city. Sooo I'm trying to be understanding however all I ask is for some communication.. Good morning texts, etc.. But I have...
    missteen2 missteen2
    36-40, F
    Mar 23

    We Met- We Fought - We Love... Not Yet

    Charlie, as I shall call him for his privacy, is 25. He is 7 years older than I am. We love each other. I fight with him about stupid things. Why? Oh because I think he is too good to be true, and I rather he break up with me so I could settle instead of be with the man I think...
    3Dgirl 3Dgirl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 19, 2012

    Fate Is Sometimes Impredictable

    I never thought i could meet someone like him on the internet. It happened by pure luck, i wasn't even planning it, it just happened. The first time we spoke, i barely payed attention, but after several trials on his own, we managed to have a real conversation. He helped me a...
    Loveleh Loveleh
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2008

    Hes been gone for 3 months now

    and basically i am a wreck. The thing is, not even that it didnt work out, its that hes not coming back for 2 years and i cant go there. i know what was to come of it, we talk once in a while, he calls me baby becasue he knows were in eachothers hearts. i love this man, i love...
    Erianne12 Erianne12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 10, 2014

    In A Long Distant Relationship Because Of My Parents :(

    me and my parents never really got along. I always been the A + student with great grades , never done drugs , alcohol or anything. never really had friends so staying home and doing chores was really my thing. I met this guy in 11th grade. he was a senior in high school. I...
    lostbutterfly100 lostbutterfly100
    18-21
    1 Response Jun 16, 2013

    April 7, 2009

    Everyone always tells me guys in a long distance relationship will cheat. My ex boyfriend Nathan lived in Brittish Columbia while I lived in Ontario. Everyone said he was going to cheat on me, and I didn't beleive it. Why should I have beleived it? We talked everyday and he was...
    WinterPrincess21 WinterPrincess21
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2009

    Want to Hold Him

    His amazing His sweet His caring His adorable His loving His nice His perfect His all mine..although He lives a state away :( Its so hard when im this in love with him, yet we cant hold each other and tell each other i love you in person.. Ive known him ever since...
    Miffy Miffy
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2009

    Every Type Of Relationship Has Advantages And Disadvantages

    A lot of people say it doesn't work. So many people have had long distance relationships that don't work out.. think about it this way... do short distance relationships always work. My longest relationship is my long distance one. Many people may argue and say " But, what...
    WinterPrincess21 WinterPrincess21
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2009

    ::Split::

    I know I love this guy in Vegas a whole lot and I've know him for three years going on four and right now Im in Vegas but I haven't gone to visit him yet out of fear because in the back of my head I have doubts. Im going off to college next year and staying here in my hometown...
    XCheshireKatX XCheshireKatX
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    You don't need someone to complete you. You only need someone who will accept you completely.
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    I still take relationships seriously, i guess i'm old school like that
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    the worst part about being confused as to where you stand in a relationship, is fear of misinterpreting communication and then hurting the relationship. but if you ask too many...
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    Apr 19
    My fiancé and I got together under the premise that it would be an open relationship and now that it's happening I'm scared that I won't like it. He's very honest and has told me...
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    22-25, M
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    ILIASMAllie ILIASMAllie
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    thatpiscesguy thatpiscesguy
    22-25, M
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    Klm7239 Klm7239
    18-21, F
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    It's been so long since I've been in a proper relationship and its annoying how all of my friends have a special person to spend their time with and I'm just left on my own :(
    ultimateninja ultimateninja
    18-21, M
    Apr 17
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    26-30, M
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    26-30, F
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    niceguycursed niceguycursed
    31-35, M
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    I'm currently in one with an amazing girl called desi I love her so much and I know this relationship will work
    prodemonz prodemonz
    13-15, M
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    I have never had a interracial relationship and would like t o have one.
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    13-15, M
    Apr 15
    I hate one way relationships. This is what prevents me from opening up to anyone in the first place. Guys are so ******* rude.
    Ariannaaaaa Ariannaaaaa
    22-25, F
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    18-21, F
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    13-15, F
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    16-17, F
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    18-21, F
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    2AMandstillawake 2AMandstillawake
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 14
    My bf and I are in a long distance relationship. Yes, long distance relationships are little hard to maintain but they are not impossible! so all the people who say they (long...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Apr 14
    Of course they can :) :):)
    Schiizm Schiizm
    22-25, M
    Apr 14
    My ex-boyfriend is incredibly depressed and doesn't want to acknowledge he needs help. Rather, he gets high and drunk almost daily. When we were dating I knew he was having an...
    iamhannahh iamhannahh
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13
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    Amidala06 Amidala06
    18-21, F
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
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    babygirl011015 babygirl011015
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