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I Am In a Love Triangle

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    Me, Him And The Ex

    i am in love with a man that insists on being friends with his ex.  I dont beilieve they are fooling around, not to sound naive.  But I cant continue with the relationship with her in his life.  It doesnt feel right to me. But damn he is perfect in every...
    sadgirl08 sadgirl08 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2009

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    Love Triangle And I Like Them Both :(

    So I don't really know how to say this. Lets start off at the beginning. I'm still in high school so sorry if I confuse you. So about a year ago I was with a boy named John we can call him 1 he's a sweetie and really shy. I don't like shy people but with him I was happy. No...
    Archer42311 Archer42311 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    My Best Friend And My Boyfriend...

    Well Im a 31 year old female. My story began 7 years ago, I met a guy and we hit it off but after only a few months I realized his personal life was too messed uip for me. I backed away from him. We eventually started talking again and it grew into a great friendship. I met...
    squeaky30 squeaky30 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    Musical Love Triangle

    I never thought that I would be in a love triangle. I think of myself as a pro-active, intelligent and low drama sort of woman who would not put up with any sort of infidelity for a hot second. But the situation I've found myself in is pretty strange, to say the least. This...
    Kitsune77 Kitsune77 22-25 7 Responses May 13, 2008

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    Lost In Ohio

    hey i am in need of some good advice... i am a young adult... i have been in a five year relationship with ( eric) and we have been engaged for almost 3 years and we have a child. he was my first and he stole my heart right off. i was in love and i thought it would...
    ohio22 ohio22 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    I Don't Know What It Called But It Involves 4 Individuals

    ok i m bi .... once a time i used to love a guy we call him Lee and as he says he consider me best friend, relative, big brother, support system but i loved him and wanted him as bf and i told him but he said told me he is not into guys and he is totally stright and in love with...
    luckyboy20 luckyboy20 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2011

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    I'm In A Love Triangle Involving My Ex And A Marine

    I was with my ex for 6 years I met him when I was only 13. We fell in love everyone though it was just puppy love but over the years it grew into so much more. we were two crazy teenagers in love. it was the most beautiful relationship i had ever been in and also the worst. we...
    txrangersgirl txrangersgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2011

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    What To Do..please Help.

    Been with this girl for more than 8 months now. We are madly in love and still are. We had so much things going on over the past months. She even got pregnant and we were so happy then. But sadly, our child didn't came to be for she misscarried it in the 2nd month. 4 months ago...
    slimhaneous slimhaneous 26-30 3 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    I Don't Know Who To Choose.

    My name is Alexis (Allie) and I live in a small town, and up until recently I've had stress-free teenage life. Bear with me please this is a long story and I need some help. You see I have 3 great best friends, my boyfriend Jamie, my best friend Jared and his girlfriend Cathy...
    AlexisMolden AlexisMolden 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    I've Been In A Love Quadrilateral

    Yeah... I've dated 3 people at once before... 2 girls and 1 guy.  None of them knew of each other :p
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    Love Triangle In College

    Okay, im in need of some help. Im a girl and this may sound a bit crazy but please be respectful with your insight. I came into college, in Jersey, with an open mindset, me and my ex-boyfriend of a year broke up on a bad note the summer before for issues irrelevant. I live in an...
    bbevj bbevj 18-21 1 Response Apr 14, 2013

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    I Have A Feeling I Am Magpie

    Funny thing about my 20's is that I'm starting to experience life again as a 17 year old. Not because I lack maturity... c'mon I'm a little better now. It's just my impulsive nature to accept attention and give it to various fellows which are getting me into awkward situations...
    misselodie misselodie 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Someone Help Me?

    I dated this guy Josh for almost a year and during the time we were together he enlisted in the army. We've known each other for 3 or 4 years now and did a long distance relationship for a year, he'd come by plane to visit. He was in Texas while I was in Colorado and sometimes...
    warrensangel warrensangel 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    I'm stuck in a love triangle.

    I really like two guys and they both like me. I just can't decide which one I should go with. I hurt when of them before so I i don't know if I should pick that one so I can't hurt him again.
    juliaek1 juliaek1 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Feel Like I'm In A Sappy Love Story...

    Let me try to map this thing out for you. I won't use anyone's real name OR their real first initial even. One of my guy friends, R, is in love with my best friend, A. A has a crush on Y, who used to like me but now likes X- a girl I know nothing about. Four boys at A's school...
    StrangeDarkSecrets StrangeDarkSecrets 13-15, F Oct 17, 2013

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    Couples In Love With Gay Marriage Woman

    we have loved this woman who is in her lives for 6 yrs. before 6 yrs she left us and marriage a woman and she isnt happy where she at now. she wanna to come back to us and b with us again ... i am still hurted by all this. she wanna me to wait for her to leave her roomate(her...
    mekia78 mekia78 31-35, F Apr 27, 2012

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    Lost, Torn And Confused...

    I’ve got quite a dilemma and I need all the help and advice I can get right now. I am in such a tough situation that to get the best advice from everyone, I will have to give a short summary of the past year. To start it off… a year ago I was single and “doing my thing...
    redredcamaro redredcamaro 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2011

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    I Dont Know Who to Choose.

    okay here's the story. my ex and i have been dating on and off for almost 3yrs now. its a very weird relationship b/c no matter what we always go back to each other. but to be honest I've grown quite sick of the back and forth and i need a solid relationship. this is where the...
    dagirloyea dagirloyea 18-21 2 Responses Dec 29, 2008

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    Betrayal And Honesty Combined.

    I basically feel like the bad person in the love triangle.My best friend, Kieran, I have known and loved since we were 6 years old. I developed a crush on him during our time together and I've liked him for quite a while now. All we basically do is sit, laugh, and share our...
    24luverofchoc 24luverofchoc 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    Stupid Love Triangle

    If I tell you about my ex, you'll probably say "leave him and pick the other guy." I know that already. He has a sort of personality disorder, not one of the more shocking ones, but passive-aggressive (negativistic) personality disorder...long story short, he rains on everyone's...
    fireflower413 fireflower413 18-21 2 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    What Do You Think I Should Do?

    So there are two characters here excluding me. They are Kim and Jo. They are both older than me by 2 years.Kim and Jo have known each other for about 6 years and when they first met, Jo fell for her, but they never got together because Kim had a boyfriend whom she broke up with...
    creamrn0s creamrn0s 18-21, F Jan 2, 2012

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    Well first of all, I'm not gonna use anyone's

    real name, just the initials. Me and my girlfriend, we'll call her M, have been dating for 13 months and we have so many things in common and we are definitely in love. Well her ex, which was just released from prison in January, we'll call him S, started talking to M again...
    bigdaddybass bigdaddybass 18-21, M Mar 18

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    My wife is involved with another man,

    but she's playing the dodging game. So far I have learned to keep a low profile, but I am aware of her double standards. Be rest assured , that that if the sex I have with her is somewhat different to previous times, than it stands to reason that something is amiss.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 22

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    I Am In A Mess

    I am a husband of 18 years. I have been in an affair since last may. I met a girl from work and fell in love/lust It was wonderful. My wife and I had problems. This girl made them go away I thought. It came to apoint that I told my wife and she threw me out. It is now march and...
    stihlman stihlman 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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    Longevity

    Basically for years I was friends with this girl. She was amazing, unlike anyone else. Although she had issues, she let me close, and were excellent friends. I started to fall in love with her and as such became very depressed as it seemed futile, but I moved on. I had a few...
    SpaceyMax SpaceyMax 18-21 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    Love And Crush

    It all started when Daisy was in 12th grade and keep in mind Honey is her best friend. Daisy and Honey were 2 close friends who could sacrifice their life for each other at any instance until both met James. James wasa hot hunk & extrovert guy parllely even Honey is a good...
    friendtou27 friendtou27 18-21 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    Need Advice

    So my best friend Risha is head over heels for this guy. She squeals and it's so cute and how she reacts to her crush. And I started talking to her guy just to get to know him. Next thing I knew, he confessed to me in front of her. (Risha) He didn't ask me out and I would have...
    xUsa xUsa 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    Confused...

    Their is a girl who lives about 30 minutes away. We met about 3 months ago and talk everyday and we skype. Everytime i see her i get butterflies, but we have only met in person twice. She tells me she loves me everydaay. I really like her a lot, but we never see eachoter and that...
    lalalove123 lalalove123 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    My life is a freaking love triangle movie

    and I want it to stop!! 😣😣😣😣😣
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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    So, on one hand, my ex boyfriend is trying to

    find his way back into my life and it's hard for me to not want to love him and be with him but at the same time idk how I can move on from everything that has happened between us like him cheating on me and his navy drama of not wanting to hold me down. But on the other hand, I...
    Kshaf3 Kshaf3 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My Friend's Crush Likes Me

    I like him, too. But as a friend. Last month, my friend found out that her crush liked her. Which was great. But then again, I keep catching him staring at me, and he always compliments me and agrees with everything I say. As you probably guessed, my friend got jealous. I...
    Transparency Transparency 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2013

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    Some One Please Help Me

    I am having the hardest time right now and am desperate Im 19 and have been in a 3 year relationship with alex. We lived together and things got shaky at about two years in so I started to cheat on him and i met a couple of guys had some flings and they ended. We were happy...
    frenchfry5 frenchfry5 18-21 8 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    Unrequited Love Triangle?

    A little over a year ago I met A, a girl who would come to be my best friend in the entire world. She, at the time was in a relationship with my guy friend and it was very serious. When we started hanging out she had a good effect on making me more outgoing. This is when we...
    gggfdsrt gggfdsrt 22-25 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    I'm Engaged...and In Love With a Married Man!!

    HELP!!!! I am 24 years old. I am engaged (for a year) and have been with my fiance for 6 years. I love him to death, and can't wait to get married to him. About a year ago, I joined a role playing game on the internet. Long story short...I fell in love with somebody. At first we...
    jillhell jillhell 22-25 4 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    What Do You Think Of This Situation?

    Hi guys, thanks for reading. I really don't know to whom I supposed to tell this. Last time my gf's EX told me not to close with my gf..he threatened me and I warned him. I reported about that.  It made me down for a moment and didn't scold her or anything. I just said that...
    espada04 espada04 18-21 Dec 26, 2011

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    Ugh

    I'm falling in love with this guy who I recently found out is with someone else. In his past relationships he flirts with other people so much that it could be considered cheating. He told me that he doesn't want to create a love triangle like he has in the past. Later that day...
    paramore814 paramore814 16-17 Dec 21, 2007

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    A Fine Mess

    I have worked with a woman 14 years my junior for the past 18 months.  We started as colleagues, then became friends.  We're both highly educated and musically inclined.  We have a lot of mutual respect for each other as professionals, and we got along very well...
    guitarmt guitarmt 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    It's A Long Story....

    I have written a few time about my boyfriend Trevon, a.k.a Trey. Him and I have been dating for only 2 months, but things are really good between us. At least that's what it looks like from another's point of view. But there is one person in my life would can potentially mess...
    Riomi Riomi 16-17, F Jun 16, 2012

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    You Will Be Loved...

    I had a conversation with a good friend of mine Henderson. I told him about two long distances friendships I had maintained online are taking curious turns in my life. Tom and Patrick. I felt like I had no idea how to appropriately address the situation because they both are...
    misselodie misselodie 22-25, F Oct 14, 2013

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    Am I Silly For Believing Him? Help...please

    I met a man who's legally separated. He's 47, & I'm 38. His wife of 26 yrs filed for legal separation. There are no kids together. The wife has already moved out and they've already split all their assets between them.There is nothing left to do but finalize it. He said the...
    msblack36 msblack36 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Three

    Okay so here's my story... I'm a single woman with two kids. I don't find being a mom or being single, to be difficult but I would like to find love. With that being said... it was a typical day. I was hanging out with a friend of mine. She and I weren't always close. In fact...
    UnorthodoxLove UnorthodoxLove 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    More Like A Lust Triangle

    I work with these 2 guys who are friends with me. One of them is married, and we began an affair. I ended things with my boyfriend shortly after (not for the married man) because I realized I was too far detached from my relationship to continue any longer, and had been detached...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 15, 2011

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    Getting Played? Or Am I???

    My wife left me for a man over 20 years my junior.  I was torn up mentally and emotionally.  So about 6 months later, my 16 year old daughter brings a woman to our house for a church related care group.  She ended up staying afterwards and talking to me until 4:30...
    manuelcp manuelcp 36-40 4 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    2 Women 1 Man

    am living the life that most ppl would think of as crazy, but hey it's my life. So here go's. I am currently involved in a relationship with a man, and he was being unfaithful, so I went to the woman and offered her a solution to sneaking around, she agreed and she and I went to...
    LadieTee LadieTee 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    2 Women 1 Man

    am living the life that most ppl would think of as crazy, but hey it's my life. So here go's. I am currently involved in a relationship with a man, and he was being unfaithful, so I went to the woman and offered her a solution to sneaking around, she agreed and she and I went to...
    LadieTee LadieTee 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    Awks

    My best friend has been with this guy for almost a year now. She threw herself at him one night when she saw him eyeballing me instead of her & ever since then they've been together. Now, they're pretty much my only friends. He's like my older brother. Except of course for the...
    DeletednGone DeletednGone 18-21, F Nov 6, 2013

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    Dilemma ...

    I met Kev a few years back and we became good friends. Few months into our relationship i started having feelings for him and i did not tell him about my feelings. After that i came to know that he has a girlfriend (Vee) and he did not tell me about her. I confronted him about...
    shan7 shan7 22-25 2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    A Monogamatic Love Triangle

    I guess it all started with the flood. In case you live under a rock I will state the fact that last May  Nashville, TN experienced a devastating and life-altering flood. It effected people from their jobs to where the would live and/or go to school. Well I was out of school for...
    brunette1993 brunette1993 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2011

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    I Had No Choice

    Its not me but my wife Ive been put in a hard place and im not sure how im getting out. About month ago i found out that my wife had been having an affair with her friend (male) about 2yrs ago now what ever 2yrs but its over is what im thinking. No she still talks to him now i...
    nickaman nickaman 26-30, M 24 Responses May 3, 2011

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    My Story

      Where to start.  1 year ago I meet a wonderful man online and began communicating with him through emails and texts and talked on the phone every day.  We decided to meet about 2 weeks after we started chatting.  We would meet at neutral places and to hang...
    kellyc kellyc 36-40 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    Respect Other People's Relationship

    When I met him, I was married, and he was in a long distance relationship We wanted to be together I divorced but he still cannot give up his girlfriend Now she is also interested in another man, but he still doesn't make any moves toward our relationship now all four...
    Chikoobaobay Chikoobaobay 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2010

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    For the past month, I've been in a vicious triangle with an older man, we sleep together, he tricks me into feelings, his girlfriend lives in another state, he wants someone to...
    FightForYourRight FightForYourRight 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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