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I Am In a One Sided Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 13 People

    I'm In a Bad Marriage

    HELP!  I'm just cheking to see f I'm even signed on this site.
    LCBWTB LCBWTB 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2008

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    Double Standards

    Well we split up on Monday! For the whole time we were married though he had such double standards. I wasn't even allowed to go food shopping with my friend without him questioning me about it. I wasn't allowed to go for a drink.... he was so controlling and I would tell myself...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    Ok so I came home last night ready to be ******.

    I mean down and dirty **** my brains out kind of horny. Talking to hubs and let him know this. He wanted to take a bath so I fill it up and hopped in. We continued our talk and I mentioned I was going to go commando to my Christmas party. He asked why. I said because it would...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 47 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    Needing To Vent

    I've been married over 16 years and have two great kids, now teenagers. My marriage has had its ups and downs. We started out great with many common interests. As we grew, my career became much more important to me than his to him. This is fine with me and I don't mind being the...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Don'T Know What Else To Do

    I've been married to a fabulous man for 25 years. We have 3 children. We've had a very happy marriage but it has always been somewhat lopsided. During the first 15+ years I would send the kiddos off to grandmas house and I'd make special dinners and do special little things...
    sylviasylvester sylviasylvester 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    One sided love is so uncomfortable. A few weeks ago, a guy my age fell head over heels for me. This 'love' turned into infatuation, and then obsession. Despite me stating that I'm...
    Annaelaine Annaelaine 16-17, F May 9

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    When I reflect on most of my life.........I see that most of the friendships I had were pretty one-sided. Perhaps there was a lesson for me in that......in the knowledge that...
    AKLady15 AKLady15 26-30, F 1 Response May 7

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    8 years ago I had a guy friend his name was zen. will zen was a very nice guy super cute respectfull. then **** happened n he fall in love wth me started to call me daily asking to...
    candles700 candles700 22-25, F 1 Response May 8

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    Recently having to remove myself from a toxic relationship , I sacrificed everything for someone to help them, we grew close emotionally physically but on the side she had apparent...
    Renevatio Renevatio 22-25, M May 8

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    A couple years ago, I fell in love with my straight friend without realizing I was head over heels for her until long after any point I could've gotten out unscathed. When she...
    Inigoshadow92 Inigoshadow92 22-25, F 3 Responses May 8

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    anyone here who is broken ?? but looking to be in loved again. ...?
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 8

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    Wow....worst feeling ever....humiliated...sad...heartbroken..angry....takes a lot from you:'(
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 9

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    I met a guy and we've been falling in love for sometimes but i just can't stand for every single words he flirt idle rhetoric with me ,e.g last 2 days ago he told me "I love you so...
    zumii zumii 26-30, F 1 Response May 9

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    I hated it, so much. It was always the same: 'I love you', 'I would never do anything that you are not ready for', 'I would do anything for you', blah blah blah. But what hurts me...
    justordinarygirl2015 justordinarygirl2015 16-17, F 1 Response May 9

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    I have been married for less than a year. My wife is 50 and I am 51 and this is a second marriage for both of us. My wife has 2 kids, one a junior in college and one a senior in a...
    Airbuspilot Airbuspilot 51-55, M 6 hrs ago

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    I just watched a good presentation from one of the marriage counsellor about affair, I think everyone should watch this, just let me know your email address and I can send you the...
    cleanyoursoul cleanyoursoul 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    Life is a sea and we are ships. We conquer the storms, master the tides, face the hurricanes and keep sailing forth to our next horizon. On our ship we are either alone or we have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30

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    I am 32-year-old south Indian (Telugu) gay guy who is in the closet. Am looking for a Telugu non-sexual/lesbian girl for marriage of convenience. I am currently working in USA. I...
    krishere1982 krishere1982 31-35 May 18

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    I am 32-year-old south Indian (Telugu) gay guy who is in the closet. Am looking for a Telugu asexual/lesbian girl for marriage of convenience. I am currently working in Texas. I am...
    krishere1982 krishere1982 31-35 4 days ago

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    I live in New Zealand and gay marriage was legalized here a couple of years ago. So there is currently a referendum circulating in my area to make gay marriage illegal again (it...
    peter1992 peter1992 22-25, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    It was a Tuesday, I think…maybe a Thursday I can’t remember. At the time, I was content with where I was in life. Single…healthy, happy, no debt, free to live life as I chose...
    1StateAway 1StateAway 36-40, M 4 Responses May 5

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    i would not want it any other way!!! i recently found this on-line a few years ago. It is a great list of ideas on ways to submit to your Husabnd. i found this list giving me new...
    goodgirl456 goodgirl456 31-35, F 5 Responses May 7

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    Keonz Quek is an experienced marriage counselor, whose assistance has proved instrumental in the life of numerous couples. He provides marriage advice and counseling to couples...
    gordon54 gordon54 22-25, M May 7

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    I wrote on this topic a while ago and thought i'd give an update on how things are. Unfortunately, things have not improved in my marriage of almost now 10 years. My wife and I...
    JBMaine75 JBMaine75 36-40, M 4 Responses May 15

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    I've been with my husband for 9 years, married for 8; we don't have kids and I'm 35; he is 40. We have struggled through our marriage at times as a result of my husband's drinking...
    SadPanda35 SadPanda35 31-35, F 3 Responses May 19

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    I've been married for almost seven years now, together for closer to ten. We have two wonderful children, both of which are loved. I feel like I should be happy in my marriage...
    enjoymentofquiet enjoymentofquiet 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    As I said I was the controller in my marriage, The operational word in this sentence is "was". Now everything is out of my control and my husband is ruling everything with an iron...
    isis55 isis55 51-55, F May 9

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    Things can get better. I have posted on here a couple of times about problems I had in my marriage, mainly ones in the bedroom. After 3 years of marriage and most of those being...
    alonelynewlywed alonelynewlywed 22-25 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been married for close to 3 years and have a beautiful daughter. Since the first day of our marriage, my husband is largely absent. He has a very demanding job which...
    notashappyasilook notashappyasilook 26-30, F 3 Responses May 6

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    Hi Folks, I'm new here, but it seems like the appropriate group to post in because for the past month our marriage has become a kind of sexless desert. It's all because of some sex...
    NaiveSusan NaiveSusan 18-21, F 8 Responses May 13

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    hi!sir this is rekha ,ihave married almost 10yr since our marriage my husband has not held a steady job in entire 10 yrs ,now he is not working ,he is not intrested to job,iam so...
    harshi1 harshi1 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Body image. As a teenager, I hated my curves and the stretch marks I gained for the price of those curves. I learnt the inportance of a good bra for a woman with a C cup and up...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 46-50, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    Very hard to write something on here for the first time, but I'll say that reading other people's experiences has made me confident enough to admit to myself (and here) that I've...
    silverdarling silverdarling 46-50, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Random thoughts of an email I didn't send to a friend I am making some blueprints for : Hi, I hope I can help you with your home plan. I honestly don't look forward to show it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hi there. It seems weird to post in "I Live in a Sexless Marriage" now, since I have one foot out the door, so here I am. So much has happened since about 6 weeks ago, when I told...
    isoldeblue isoldeblue 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I have been a sexless marriage for years with sex coming and going a few times a year. But now even this is gone. My husband now sleeps in another room altogether. There is no...
    Christina6581 Christina6581 46-50, F 2 Responses May 2

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    Ok need some help! I want you to tell me a truth, am I overreacting? Today is our 3 year dating anniversary (something H finds hilarious that I want to celebrate as we now have...
    KFallon92 KFallon92 22-25, F 6 Responses May 10

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    Why am I writing this? Because so many of the stories you see are about bad marriages and sad marriages. I just want to remind people that sometimes marriage is wonderful.
    pinkcorsetgirl pinkcorsetgirl 41-45, F 8 Responses May 14

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    I met my wife in December of 1988 at a singles gathering at the Methodist Church. We seem to hit it of and when the weather outside had gotten worse and she did not want to walk...
    spenser60 spenser60 61-65, M 1 Response May 17

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    Well I read a post on marriage today here.This set me thinking.Can we change those who cheat in their marriages .I think we cannot unless these people...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 46-50, F 2 Responses May 19

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    I am not in a completely sexless marriage, but if my wife and I have sex 4 times a year I would be surprised. I do not fully understand my wife. There have been times she says she...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy 51-55, M 5 Responses Apr 28

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    I want so badly to start this! I think it would truly help my marriage in so many ways but I don't know how to go about it. My husband is not the dominant one and is irresponsible...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 28