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I Am In a One Sided Marriage

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    Ok so I came home last night ready to be ******.

    I mean down and dirty **** my brains out kind of horny. Talking to hubs and let him know this. He wanted to take a bath so I fill it up and hopped in. We continued our talk and I mentioned I was going to go commando to my Christmas party. He asked why. I said because it would...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 49 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    Double Standards

    Well we split up on Monday! For the whole time we were married though he had such double standards. I wasn't even allowed to go food shopping with my friend without him questioning me about it. I wasn't allowed to go for a drink.... he was so controlling and I would tell myself...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    I'm In a Bad Marriage

    HELP!  I'm just cheking to see f I'm even signed on this site.
    LCBWTB LCBWTB 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2008

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    Don'T Know What Else To Do

    I've been married to a fabulous man for 25 years. We have 3 children. We've had a very happy marriage but it has always been somewhat lopsided. During the first 15+ years I would send the kiddos off to grandmas house and I'd make special dinners and do special little things...
    sylviasylvester sylviasylvester 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    Needing To Vent

    I've been married over 16 years and have two great kids, now teenagers. My marriage has had its ups and downs. We started out great with many common interests. As we grew, my career became much more important to me than his to him. This is fine with me and I don't mind being the...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Well I'm not going I say never but as of right now I don't feel like i need to get married in the future. Look I'm not in a serious relationship, do I want to be yes. I want to be...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 18

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    To say that my mind is constsntly on this site is such flabbergasteding understatement it's unreal....... But ive just read a post byCherishme2 and i feel as if the wind has just...
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    aquietcouple aquietcouple 41-45, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    ExhaustedChristine ExhaustedChristine 70+, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 19

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    Stickwithmebabe Stickwithmebabe 36-40, F Jan 20

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    I was another teenage girl who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom...
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