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I Am In a Relationship But I Don't Feel Loved

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    I feel like there is something not right the

    way I think I have so many negative thought about my husband I love him but I also hate him for emotional pain he has caused me I feel like a storm of love and hate going on inside me if this make senses to anybody we both have said and done hurtful and mean things to each other...
    dolphintree94 dolphintree94 46-50, F 7 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Highschool Sweethearts My husband

    and I have been together for 11yrs. we got together the summer after junior yr of high school in Hawaii. We were inseparable. As soon as we graduated from high school I told my dad goodbye and left to live with my husband, boyfriend at the time and his family. We attended...
    dejayla06 dejayla06 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 20

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    I am married and it is a sexless marriage.

    I have a high sex drive and find myself jacking off daily. I want to enjoy sex again with a partner who responds to my touch and touches me back. The marriage is over 20 years and last child has 2 years left in school. BUT I don't know that I can wait till she is out of school...
    rjd4dnvr6pk rjd4dnvr6pk 46-50 1 Response Aug 1

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    Pretty Heartbroken

    The worst feeling ever is loving your significant other so damn much you'd do anything and everything for them, and having them admit that they don't feel the same way about you in the slightest.
    muddledmuggle muddledmuggle 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    I'm At A Loss

    My relationship is in stasis. I don't want to stay, but I haven't the will to go. I feel no love for or from the man I've sworn my life to till death. I'm so frustrated...maybe I still love him it's just buried under all this disappointment and grief. So many things are wrong. I...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    haven't had sex with my boyfriend

    for months..... no desire. but I feel horrible because he's only human and obviously wants to. idk what to do. what could change it
    yafeelmepenguin yafeelmepenguin 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I need attention, compassion,

    compliments, conversation, and laughter in my marriage.
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 10

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    Here we go again. He's home

    before I got home.. Sitting in his chair.. Not even a hello..how was your day... Ugh
    RahRah73 RahRah73 41-45, F 10 Responses May 15

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    Recently we celebrated our 10 month anniversary,

    it was great. He got back late from work that morning apologizing for the fact that he couldn't get up on time to come pick me up even though he got out of work 2am that morning. Silly, I was surprised he woke up at all! We shared gifts and watched movies, it was great. The...
    skitty25 skitty25 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    on a date with my boyfriend.

    and I don't even wanna be sitting here at this table. wanna leave. don't want to eat. don't want to be with him
    yafeelmepenguin yafeelmepenguin 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 5

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    I'm moving out. I've been married

    for 9 years. I cook, clean, watch the kids, work full time, and seem solely responsible for the downfall of our relationship. 4 years ago she became friends with another man. 3 years ago they went on a vacation with another female friend of theirs. I was under the...
    ugolliii ugolliii 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I am so in love with my husband but.

    ..he's making it hard to love him. So catch up at the very beginning of our relationship he cheated, I forgave him and I thought everything has been great since. We each have a child of our own however we raise bothn of them. I love him and I think he is a great father. However...
    wonderinggirl1015 wonderinggirl1015 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Eighteen years of marriage

    and it's not easy. I am unappreciated, unnoticed, degraded verbally, and taken for granted. My children are the best part. He needs a babysitter for his odd working hours and I will not be on welfare. I am very prideful.
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 12 Responses Jul 7

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    Everything You Do For That One Person It

    Doesn't Matters how Much You Try ' It doesn't matter How much love and effort you put into them . It's Never Enough :/
    Slowlytuya Slowlytuya 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I hate feeling so lonely

    when I'm in a relationship.
    ihavepurplecurtains ihavepurplecurtains 31-35, F 3 Responses May 19

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    Today someone recommended a book to me called

    "Winning your husband back" Ok excuse me while i go figure out why i would want to woo that cheating lying bastard who took everything i had to offer and threw it away. HE should be trying to win ME back if anything. But i grew up in a religious culture where if the man strays...
    miaruth miaruth 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    10 years and I've only just realised he's never

    actually loved me never bought me a gift said anything sweet or cared at all he manipulates me to stay to continue doing everything for him and making sure he has all he wants an needs...I feel so stupid.
    LittleMissInsignificant90 LittleMissInsignificant90 22-25, F Aug 19

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    Big decision to make

    and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I was really really in love but the other person left me for no reason. Even today I still don't know why. but anyway so I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    What I will say right

    now may not apply all of you, but it's still true that a lot of relationships are like this: Some of you may think that you "don't feel loved", but maybe you haven't taken the time to know your partner well enough to recognize HOW he/she loves you. It might be very different...
    Realitea Realitea 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2014

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    My wife goes out often.

    Friday night she said she may or may not be coming home, its her night. she told me nothing of the happenings, just that she could sleep out, we'll see. Then she came home early catching me red handed watching TV by myself. Saturday night i go out. I tell her im going to...
    ugolliii ugolliii 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Iam in a relationship with someone i really like

    but these days its like we stopped talking we say hi only all day long its like im not comfortable talking to him or telling him stories anymore i dont know what happened
    yhad yhad 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Livit Livit 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 8

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    I have decided to get out of my dead end

    marriage and start living
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8

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    I seriously don't feel loved

    when all he does is ignore me lately. He always accuses me of many things. He spends more time and enjoys himself with his friends. He rarely hangs out with me, he's not affectionate towards me. I don't know what to do or say. Each time i talk to him about how i feel, he turns...
    InfinityIBeyond InfinityIBeyond 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Really starting to hate myself.

    Maybe I should be single. Don't feel wanted or loved. I'm divorced. Failed once... going to keep on failing. Can't make anyone happy no matter what I do. fml
    nclo8907 nclo8907 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    In-Love With The Wrong Person:

    "Is it normal to love someone so much that it hurts? To the point where it just feels like a massive weight inside your chest and your eyes water up for no reason, but you can't express how much you truly care for someone for the fear of screwing something up or making it sound...
    CancerGal CancerGal 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Ive been with my bf for 3 years now,

    but everything feels so different now. like i feel like he dont love me at all. like he wont let me touch hes phone or near hes phone. its just werid. he wont let me be affection towards him, we have a baby girl together shes going to turn 2 which i can see he loves alot more...
    flipinagirl flipinagirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    No matter how many times I try to tell my BF

    how to communicate with me he NEVER does it. I feel as if everything I say goes in one ear and out the other. I'm getting so frustrated with telling him anything anymore. I shut down and become distant because I feel as if my feelings don't matter. He blames me for any problem i...
    Badriyah Badriyah 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I had a ****** birthday.

    My own best friend wouldn't join my family and friends for lunch because her boyfriend expects her to be available to him at his every whim. And don't get me started on my husband. He thinks social media is stupid, so he refuses to wish me a happy birthday on my page. Just a...
    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 13 Responses Aug 8

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    I think my boyfriend is addicted to ****.

    I noticed he masturbates almost every day but when it comes to sex we barely do it once every 10 days or so on average and when I try to initiate it he almost always turns me down, saying he's not in the mood. I openly talked to him about it, told him it's affecting our...
    someusername20 someusername20 22-25, F 32 Responses Jul 12

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    One lie is enough to question ALL truths.

    .... and now the broken trust will forever haunt us.
    thegirlwithoutasoul thegirlwithoutasoul 31-35, F 2 Responses May 22

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    I just don't feel it with my husband anymore,

    I love my family but not him anymore
    malank malank 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F Jul 28

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    Guys I was really depressed

    and annoyed with few of my problems, but when I used this app, unfortunately I observed I'm not the only person that is having problems Although I met few of the very good people that were real good and kind to me. I think the biggest lesson that I've learn from this app is...
    Aamir316 Aamir316 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    i met the love of my life almost 6 years ago.

    he was the sweetest gentle sensitive man. he proposed 6 months in and i honestly thought my dreams were coming true. i was the happiest I had ever been. He is a tattoo artist and began getting more and more recognition at work. he never wanted to talk about setting a date or...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    So last night he got mad at me

    because I interrupted him while he was playing a game on his phone. we were supposed to watch a movie but I waited for 40 minutes for him to finish the game but he wouldn't. then I said "I guess we're not watching this movie tonight" and he got mad and said "why don't you just...
    fosterpaste fosterpaste 18-21, F 21 Responses Jun 22

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    I love him , we are together ,

    but I need more affection 😣
    LillyO3 LillyO3 18-21, F May 31

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    I hate the way I'm feeling.

    I love this man so much but he doesn't see me. He doesn't know how I'm feeling and I don't believe he cares. I look at my life and I have to ask the question is this really my life? I miss this man I miss my best friend when did he turn into this person? When did he stop caring...
    whenwillheseeme whenwillheseeme 46-50, F 1 Response May 7, 2014

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    The past 6 years of my life have been about

    this boy I am very much inlove with but here lately I feel as if our spark or so called romance is dying out I have confronted him about serval times and all he can say is that he will try harder and he hasn't tried anything I feel as if he may be falling out of love with me
    countrygirl122995 countrygirl122995 18-21, F 26 Responses Feb 2

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    I've been married for 16 years

    but have been feeling lonely for so long now. We don't do much together and we hardly talk anymore. I am afraid that I am not in love with him anymore... I love him. Just not feeling in love.
    RahRah73 RahRah73 41-45, F 16 Responses May 14

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    i received a nice compliment from a male friend

    this week. it just brought into sharp focus the fact that my husband never compliments me on anything.... i compliment him all the yime but I am tired of traveling fiwn this one way street. is there an experience group for me because I will be yours if you say one tiny nice...
    LeighAd1 LeighAd1 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    It is not a lack of love,

    but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    Big decision to make

    and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I was really really in love but the other person left me for no reason. Even today I still don't know why. but anyway so I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm new to this and I don't really understand

    it could someone explain it to me.... I would like to chat and meet some friends is this what this about or am I wrong?
    JayRoseJay JayRoseJay 46-50, F 24 Responses May 12, 2014

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    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 2 Responses