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I Am In a Relationship But I Don't Feel Loved

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    The past 6 years of my life have been about

    this boy I am very much inlove with but here lately I feel as if our spark or so called romance is dying out I have confronted him about serval times and all he can say is that he will try harder and he hasn't tried anything I feel as if he may be falling out of love with me
    countrygirl122995 countrygirl122995 18-21, F 26 Responses Feb 2

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    bellecc11 bellecc11 26-30, F Jul 7

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    I need attention, compassion,

    compliments, conversation, and laughter in my marriage.
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 10

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    i'm in a relationship

    since April2014 and i feel bad. I feel bad because .. Boh.. He is at work until 5 then he wants to rest.. We talk.. Then :/ .. He goes out at his neighborhood with his mates and stays up late. I wanna talk. I need attention and care:( do i ask too much?
    callmeflower1 callmeflower1 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    The more ppl I have around me ,

    the more alone I feel an don't know why !! I think these ppl not for me , I'm just a loner lost in my own mind 😔
    realbrown realbrown 31-35, M Jul 8

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    I try to do things for him

    that I know he likes and enjoys, and I know he loves and cares for me-- but at the end of the day, I go to bed feeling empty and alone. I don't want to say that he doesn't love me and doesn't show affection, but words and the occasional cuddle isn't what I'm looking for...
    NoYourComstock NoYourComstock 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    it's more of I feel like she's my mom

    and feel awkward unless I'm baked
    mundinger1992 mundinger1992 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Eighteen years of marriage

    and it's not easy. I am unappreciated, unnoticed, degraded verbally, and taken for granted. My children are the best part. He needs a babysitter for his odd working hours and I will not be on welfare. I am very prideful.
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 17 Responses Jul 7

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    I have a boyfriend yet I feel

    so alone. I spend too much time hoping the men I date will love me and my normal expectations but I'm constantly disappointed.
    amhermosillo amhermosillo 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 3

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    Here we go again. He's home

    before I got home.. Sitting in his chair.. Not even a hello..how was your day... Ugh
    RahRah73 RahRah73 41-45, F 11 Responses May 15

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    So last night he got mad at me

    because I interrupted him while he was playing a game on his phone. we were supposed to watch a movie but I waited for 40 minutes for him to finish the game but he wouldn't. then I said "I guess we're not watching this movie tonight" and he got mad and said "why don't you just...
    fosterpaste fosterpaste 18-21, F 23 Responses Jun 22

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    I'm new to this and I don't really understand

    it could someone explain it to me.... I would like to chat and meet some friends is this what this about or am I wrong?
    JayRoseJay JayRoseJay 46-50, F 25 Responses May 12, 2014

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    I love him , we are together ,

    but I need more affection 😣
    LillyO3 LillyO3 18-21, F May 31

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    I've been married for 23 years,

    we have 4 kids 3 girls 1 boy, the oldest girls are grown ups now but the last 2 kids are 15 & 13. In the past 5-6 years my husband has been so controlling & here lately I've been standing up to him & he says I act like a child, I'm worthless & he wants me to make the decision on...
    Poohbear1974 Poohbear1974 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    I hate feeling so lonely

    when I'm in a relationship.
    ihavepurplecurtains ihavepurplecurtains 31-35, F 3 Responses May 19

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    A woman can always tell

    if a man loves her by how much time he is willing to invest. Money spent is meaningless, but time spent is priceless.
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Sometimes I feel I do not understand him enough

    because he has a stressful job. But then I think I have a stressful job too. We are after all in the same line of work. How come I think about him every day and he can go days without saying a single hi. And yet he can communicate with his friends constantly during the day and...
    Fierceapple Fierceapple 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Everything You Do For That One Person It

    Doesn't Matters how Much You Try ' It doesn't matter How much love and effort you put into them . It's Never Enough :/
    Slowlytuya Slowlytuya 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    It is not a lack of love,

    but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 14

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    So the few people who know my husband is

    cheating on me seem to have the perfect solutions. Have more sex! Spoil him more! Love him better! How do they know we don't have a great sex life? We do! How do they know i don't spoil him? I quit my job to be there for him more and be able to cook him great meals and be a more...
    miaruth miaruth 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know if anyone else has this issue.

    My boyfriend constantly plays video games, it's progressed over the years. I like to play once in awhile, but I really don't like them. He wakes up and plays the same game over and over, all day, he'll take a break to go do something, but when I get home from work he's still...
    Worleybirdie Worleybirdie 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    What I will say right

    now may not apply all of you, but it's still true that a lot of relationships are like this: Some of you may think that you "don't feel loved", but maybe you haven't taken the time to know your partner well enough to recognize HOW he/she loves you. It might be very different...
    Realitea Realitea 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2014

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    Really starting to hate myself.

    Maybe I should be single. Don't feel wanted or loved. I'm divorced. Failed once... going to keep on failing. Can't make anyone happy no matter what I do. fml
    nclo8907 nclo8907 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    Aamir316 Aamir316 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Pretty Heartbroken

    The worst feeling ever is loving your significant other so damn much you'd do anything and everything for them, and having them admit that they don't feel the same way about you in the slightest.
    muddledmuggle muddledmuggle 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    So sick of a dead end marriage.

    I'm alone all week and tomorrow is my birthday. I'm looking for a real present.
    good4nothin1 good4nothin1 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    In-Love With The Wrong Person:

    "Is it normal to love someone so much that it hurts? To the point where it just feels like a massive weight inside your chest and your eyes water up for no reason, but you can't express how much you truly care for someone for the fear of screwing something up or making it sound...
    CancerGal CancerGal 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I'm a beautiful woman

    who comes home everyday and sleeps next to a man who doesn't wanna touch me or give Me what I desire. I'm ready to explode. My mind is wondering!
    curioslybeautiful curioslybeautiful 26-30, F 14 Responses Jun 8

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    One lie is enough to question ALL truths.

    .... and now the broken trust will forever haunt us.
    thegirlwithoutasoul thegirlwithoutasoul 31-35, F 2 Responses May 22

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I just don't feel it with my husband anymore,

    I love my family but not him anymore
    malank malank 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    I think my boyfriend is addicted to ****.

    I noticed he masturbates almost every day but when it comes to sex we barely do it once every 10 days or so on average and when I try to initiate it he almost always turns me down, saying he's not in the mood. I openly talked to him about it, told him it's affecting our...
    someusername20 someusername20 22-25, F 39 Responses Jul 12

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    i met the love of my life almost 6 years ago.

    he was the sweetest gentle sensitive man. he proposed 6 months in and i honestly thought my dreams were coming true. i was the happiest I had ever been. He is a tattoo artist and began getting more and more recognition at work. he never wanted to talk about setting a date or...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    not sure how I ended up in a superficial

    relationship & how it took me this many yrs to see that. I'm starting to understand the importance of companionship and how lonely people look for it elsewhere.
    thegirlwithoutasoul thegirlwithoutasoul 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I feel like there is something not right the

    way I think I have so many negative thought about my husband I love him but I also hate him for emotional pain he has caused me I feel like a storm of love and hate going on inside me if this make senses to anybody we both have said and done hurtful and mean things to each other...
    dolphintree94 dolphintree94 46-50, F 7 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    hey, i am emma. i would need a advice.

    .. i am in a relation for 2 years and a half. i am 27 he is 38. he is (still) married and has 2 children, but he lives with me from the beginning of the relation. i have no problem with his children, at the contrary, i always try to make him more understanding. the problem is...
    Emma8876 Emma8876 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 11

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    I have decided to get out of my dead end

    marriage and start living
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 8

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    Today someone recommended a book to me called

    "Winning your husband back" Ok excuse me while i go figure out why i would want to woo that cheating lying bastard who took everything i had to offer and threw it away. HE should be trying to win ME back if anything. But i grew up in a religious culture where if the man strays...
    miaruth miaruth 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was married for 18 yrs,

    divorced because she treated me like one of the kids, then made the mistake of getting married on the rebound... She's not the person she appeared to be when we met. Can you say FEELING TRAPPED...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 7

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    petra96 petra96 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    http://myverydarkside.

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    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been married for 16 years

    but have been feeling lonely for so long now. We don't do much together and we hardly talk anymore. I am afraid that I am not in love with him anymore... I love him. Just not feeling in love.
    RahRah73 RahRah73 41-45, F 19 Responses May 14

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    I feel like I'm in a one way relationship.

    I have been feeling very down, and might as well be alone, because when I voice how u feel it's hardly acknowledged. I'm sad. I'm scared. I'm confused, and I'm hurt. I know he loves me, but he is not able to care for someone else's feelings or emotions. I couldn't cry louder for...
    SecretAngel6 SecretAngel6 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 17

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend

    for 5 years. This past February he became completely cold hearted and broke my heart when he unexpectedly broke up with me. I was caught off guard and became severely depressed. I finally find out he left me for another girl and from then on things went from bad to worse. I was...
    schaunie schaunie 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 20

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    I have been with my husband

    for over three years now. We have known each other since we were 11. We have always liked each other, he always made me feel special and did little things to show he loved me. But now that we are a few years in our marriage I feel as if I am just a piece of furniture in his life...
    Fit2btied3 Fit2btied3 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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