I Am In a Relationship, But I'm Still Lonely

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    He works a lot and when he gets home,

    all he wants to do is relax in front of his computer, browsing for long periods of time. After hours of browsing, if I want to spend time with him, he gets mad and tells me he's tired, he hasn't gotten a chance to shower or eat yet and doesn't have time to cater to me. I feel...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    My marriage has finally lost the little passion

    there was left. After learning bout my frustrations towards our intimacy, my husband is now closing the curtains. Can we ever make it with just Love but no romance? So we just love each other coz we are the parents of a very precious girl.
    Peanuter Peanuter
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2015

    He lives in NJ, and the first few years were

    perfect, but after we met the first time, things started spiraling. We were arguing more, he didn't talk to as much, but we figured things would be better when we met again. So we did and things got even worse; long story short, he doesn't love me when we are apart, he won't...
    AnonymouslyAnna AnonymouslyAnna
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jan 1, 2015

    I've thought often about leaving my wife; I

    don't think she knows that she doesn't know me anymore...if she knew about my life online in the last year I'm certain the wheels would come off and the decision would be out of my hands...
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    6 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    My boyfriend is always busy with college,

    driving lessons and occasions with his family until he barely got time for me. I'm going out of town soon because I got offered to a college far from home and I'm afraid that I won't be able to see him anymore....
    deleted deleted
    May 4, 2015

    texting my girlfriend just feel like crap

    sometimes. The problem is not her. The problem is that I haven't even see her in real life. we been together for 5 years through a stupid phone. the only exciting way to see her is on skype. but there is some good news. we been talking about which University is better for her...
    ZardaF5 ZardaF5
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2015

    Even when we're sitting in the same room we're

    so distant. He sits on his phone on reddit, reading and laughing at things he reads like I'm not even there. It used to bug me. I used to want him to tell me what was so funny. I used to want him to tell me about his day. But after years of trying to have conversations being...
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    4 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    My boyfriend and I met in August at the college

    we're both attending and we've been dating ever since. We used to spend a lot of time together but now we rarely even see each other. He's a great, sweet guy but the only issue is not seeing each other. We only get to hangout about once or twice a week and when we do we're...
    MyDearDiary MyDearDiary
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    It's Long Story But I Need Advice

    I feel lonely because I can't talk with my partner anymore without making him angry. I am so fed up with it. He would start an argument with me EVERY time if I say something opposite to his opinion. Literally EVERY TIME. It's about serious subject like politics, religion...
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    1 Response Nov 26, 2013

    I'm married, 12 years now,

    and my wife is great but we are different in some ways. I think I wear her out because I like to talk a lot about my (extremely) technical and obsessive interests, probably too much. She's much more spontaneous than I am. I've tried to make friends because it is unfair to depend...
    ExtrovertedAspie ExtrovertedAspie
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 28, 2015

    30 year old husband just looking

    for a female friend. Preferably married as well that's feeling the same things I am and can relate.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    I am in a relationship

    yet i still feel alone. Anyone else experiencing the same thing?
    Lilys3 Lilys3
    18-21, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    There so much things going on in my life right

    now. It's very stressful and I feel that I am not worth enough for anybody. I dont know, I just feel so worthless. I feel that no matter what I do, no matter who I am with, I can never be happy. Sometimes I think, the problem is really me. It feels like there's a hole in my...
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    i thought having a boyfriend is good,

    but sadly everyhing sucks,.
    BohemianRhapsody23 BohemianRhapsody23
    22-25, F
    Jan 12, 2015

    My husband admitted he wishes I had big boobs.

    I cant give him something and it hurts.
    Moodygirlie Moodygirlie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    I love my boyfriend. He means the world to me.

    He taught me things that I sure would treasure in my life forever. We had our happy times, the side-splitting laughter, the intimate moments, the amazing memories. Everything. But of course, there are also the downside in our relationship. The insecurities, the expectations, the...
    GirlWithThePWSBM GirlWithThePWSBM
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2014

    Hi , not sure what to say

    but I'm lonely as hell. I'm 35 yrs old and have been married to my wife for 5 years and of those 5 we have been truly happy for maybe 2 of them. She was my best friend and rock. We fight over the stupidest things all the time and all intimacy is out the window. yes I want sex...
    invisibletomywife invisibletomywife
    36-40, M
    Jul 28, 2015

    Married for over 4 years now.

    ..but feel lonely and lost. No friends or family for support. Feeling all time low...need someone to talk to ...
    dreamz1203 dreamz1203
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    Six Years And Very Alone

    Ive been with my husband six years and more and more i feel so alone. We use to hug, kiss, hold each other. Not any longer he has cheated three times, left me, sits on xbox and on his cell txtin all the time. The only time we get is showers, sex, bed. I miss the time we use to...
    bobbierybolt bobbierybolt
    36-40, F
    Mar 30, 2013

    He works swing shift.

    Sleeps in every day until he has to get up for work. Doesn't get up to spend time with me. No sex, no intimacy. What do you do when you feel left so alone? I work full time as well, but day shift. If I want to spend time with him then I have to be the one to stay up. Getting up...
    Imnotdillusional Imnotdillusional
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 9, 2014

    I am always alone. leaves early to work comes

    home very late. no phone calls, no texting all day. gets home eats, shower no conversation at all then falls asleep because he said he is tired. I don't feel wanted, loved, or anything. I feel like I am the house keeper not his girl.
    lonelyhdez4 lonelyhdez4
    36-40, F
    Jul 28, 2015
    simplycece simplycece
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    I wanna cry like hell,

    wanna die, don't wanna live anymore, please help me, i am in deep agony
    Humayra345 Humayra345
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jul 29, 2015
    liljake53 liljake53
    51-55, M
    Jul 28, 2015


    I've been with him for about 6 years. We have a son together. Not married. He is emotionally . Always has been really. I used to love love but now, I don't believe in it anymore. I know I need to leave. So why don't i?
    downunderchick downunderchick
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2013

    If your in a relationship

    but still lonely then your in a bad relationship
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2015

    I have dreams every night

    that my boyfriend is having sex with other girls
    candra209 candra209
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Dec 31, 2014

    I am 23 and have a 3fd baby on the way.

    My husband joined the militaryand has an awesome life, he has friends, hobbies. I have nothing just watch the kids all day, no friends, no hobbies. try havjng a hobby with kids, tv doesnt count. I used to be smart, driven and fun but Ive given that all up. My husband was the fat...
    Moodygirlie Moodygirlie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    I live with my boyfriend

    and our 2 children but he lays in bed all the time when he's not at work. We don't talk really, or go do anything, he's just sucking up all the oxygen in the freaking house. I hate it here.
    lucismom lucismom
    41-45, F
    May 15, 2015

    he has a new internship job

    so nights get so lonely. my entire life i always moved my work and social life for him. doesnt seem like he ever did the same for me. now im starting soon full time for the first time since 5 years ago. im nervous because if i felt scared or worried, i could always reach out...
    danna223 danna223
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2015
    simplycece simplycece
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015

    So here I'm laying in bed waiting

    for my wife, she's been distant these past couple of months, we've been trying to have a baby for 3 years, she got pregrant but lost it at 4weeks. shes emotional, and i try to comfort her but that dont work either. we dont talk, before she was pregrant we shes not really...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 28, 2015

    He's at work, I'm at home

    until I leave for work in a lil bit... But sometimes, I still get lonely even when he's around. We need to do more stuff, but we are low on money so we can't always be doing things. I feel bad that sometimes I still get lonely because I know he's not the reason, but its just me...
    KimmyWhite920 KimmyWhite920
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    i have a boyfriend. the best one ever.

    i love him so much and were always together. everyday at some point. i love him soooo much. he means everything to me. we spend lots of our spare time together: kissing, dirtbiking, horse riding, walking, picnicing, swimming at the pond, just relaxing under our secret tree with...
    CalgaryFlamesGirl CalgaryFlamesGirl
    13-15, F
    Sep 20, 2015

    I have been dating my boyfriend

    for a little over a year now. At first things were okay at best.... We only see each other once a week and he calls/text me any other day... He works full time and lives an hour away. Sometimes he will visit me on a weekday... Though that can be pretty rare. He takes me out and...
    avag1992 avag1992
    22-25, F
    Jan 9

    There are numerous older men in the world

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    eioncc11 eioncc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 12, 2015

    My relationship is over.

    Lonely got to both of us. We didnt know and didnt do what we could have or should have to save the relationship. Im very depressed. I failed her. The thousand chains that used to bind us....werent strong enough . 20 years. All gone...I dont know how to live without her. I have...
    brownyray brownyray
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    Relationship Rules on Falling in Love: #1.

    DON'T Feeling single in a relationship can be more lonely than when you're single. At least when you're single you know what to expect #ArmyGirlfriend #MyRelatiobshipPatternsSuck #PartTimeRelationship
    CestLaVegan CestLaVegan
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    He is very distant and mean.

    I love him though. This sucks.
    caddyshaque caddyshaque
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 5

    I might as well be single

    because he can't stay faithful... our children being together is the only reason I am with him. I feel sad when I think about him. he doesn't get me or understand me at all and he's terribly misogynistic. I feel like we are both going through the motions... and financially I am...
    somebodyssomebody somebodyssomebody
    31-35, F
    Feb 13

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chavacc11 chavacc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    In A Relationship And Alone Most Of The Time

    1 Response Oct 2, 2012

    I'm in a relationship with a guy

    who is really cool. But this relationship isn't like the other 2 I've been in. He's not really into pet names or emotional things or like compliments and such. The other guys I dated were very much into telling me how they feel, pet names, etc. I'm not sure how to act around him...
    AwkwardTomboy AwkwardTomboy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2015
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