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I Am In a Relationship With a Soldier

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    Bad Timing

    We aren't technically dating... I have known him for a year and we talked on the phone or Facebook everyday and saw each other about once a month. Two weeks ago he told me he liked me, now he leaves for basic training next month. What do I do? I never intended to fall for a guy...
    Lindsay65 Lindsay65 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 20, 2013

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    To All Of My Army Family..

    Alright family, i have read at least 4 stories-& i read word for word i do not skim your stories!-& they have all had to do with ARGUMENTS. from having their men cheating on them, to not being trusting of them, to just being plain mean. Now i know i don't know everything, that is...
    Chaylani Chaylani 18-21 6 Responses Sep 8, 2011

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    My relationship with my soldier isn't 100%

    legal. I'm in a relationship with a 19 year old and I'm 14. He is getting deployed soon and my family is worried that I won't stay loyal but the thing is... I've never felt this way about anyone in my entire life. Yes I'm only 14 about to be 15. But still. I feel really really...
    elischaise elischaise 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Had A Good Talk With My Sweetheart:)

    So yesrday I had a long talk with my sweetheart on Skype he said "I'm the most important person in his life".. I was like awww he said that we been so long together and that no one else out there knows him like I do which is true and that he also said that I should stop worrying...
    Luvtennis89 Luvtennis89 22-25, F Mar 23, 2012

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    Looking for advice on soliders coming back from

    deployment. Mine has just gotten back and is being distant from me. This is out of character as we talked every day while he was gone. Any advice? I don't want my relationship to be over but I am not sure how much longer I can hang on being pushed away.
    court30 court30 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    First Call! :)

    I got my first call from my soldier tonight! I was so happy that I was crying. He was being timed and only had 30 seconds but I am so happy that I at least got something. He told me that he would call as soon as he got another chance to call and that he loved me and that he...
    ILoveMyGuardsman ILoveMyGuardsman 18-21, F Jan 19, 2013

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    I met my Marine when he was a junior

    and i was a freshman. i have known since that day he was gonna go to the Marines. We broke up before he left and i said things i shouldn't have. so with him being gone, i haven't talked to anyone about him being gone or about what i said. It is hard because i miss him and just...
    audreynicole7 audreynicole7 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I think the worse thing in the world is not

    being able to wake up next to him. Soon enough I'm counting the weeks and Days down.
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Hiya, I'm pretty much a newbie to this entire

    military girlfriend thing. My boyfriend is currently at Fort Benning for AIT and will be home soon, and I was just looking for some advice on how to welcome him home. I know it might take him awhile to get back into the routine of being home, and I'm wondering how I can let him...
    Jmm23 Jmm23 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I need a solidier who's gonna stand up

    for me... I don't know the rest of the song but @love_thechase follow me Instagram
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F Aug 2

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    He Asked Me To Marry Him

    Right before he got on the bus to leave today. He is gone now. For who knows how long. But now I have our wedding to plan :)
    mashleysue mashleysue 18-21, F Apr 27, 2012

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    Ahhh I Lovves Myy Infantryman!!!

    So this is my first story && it's a good one :) the past week my boyfriend && I have discussedd engagement, when he gets backk from a year tour in afghan! which would be nexxt year! And I'm okayy with thaat! I wouldd wait for forever for this guy! Well two days ago, I juust had a...
    GF2PFCLusher GF2PFCLusher 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    Do Happy To Here From Him

    I hard from my boyfriend today . It was the happiest time . I was wearing so much the past week know it of my cheats . Does every one feel it when there boyfriend live.
    jakeismyhero jakeismyhero 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    My name is Jami I've been with my Bf

    for 8 months now and we've been apart for 7 of them. From what i hear that's not uncommon with military relationships. I joined EP because not a lot of people i know have dealt with this sort of thing so its hard for me to talk to people because no one can relate. Me and my s/o...
    WhisperEden WhisperEden 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    So my boyfriend is in basic training right now.

    I got a call today yay!! He told me how he misses me & how much he appreciates me. I miss him so much I write to him every night. He says it's the worst experience ever. I wish i could be with him every step of the way. I worry myself daily. I wish he could just come home now...
    Amber1027 Amber1027 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    A Cheating Soldier

    I'm a newly wedd in FL just got married in April to my senior year sweetheart,left dreams family friends everything to be with him . Everything was perfect we had our ups and downs but we always seem to get over any little argument, everyone always told us how in love we always...
    JReyCarrillo JReyCarrillo 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    "Yeah, But He's Over There..and I'm Here"

    As some of you already know if you've read any of my stories, I work as a singer in a bar on the weekends. Needless to say, I have my fair share of men and sometimes women that hit on me. It's no secret to the regulars at our bar and my coworkers that I'm in a relationship...
    allynally allynally 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Lettes! :)

    I got two letters the other day! Two on the same day! What makes it even better is that it was our anniversary, and that was the best present that I could have gotten! He even remembered that it was our anniversary and said that he was sorry we couldn't be together for Valentine...
    ILoveMyGuardsman ILoveMyGuardsman 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    My soldier has been gone

    for almost 2 months now and sometimes I feel like no one understands how it feels. Even though he hasn't been gone long, it still feels like forever.
    amberaate amberaate 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    Anyone from Fort Drum,

    NY? Looking to find some people to chat with..My boyfriend is deployed and its getting closer to his homecoming..its getting harder and its making me anxious.
    mallorierenee mallorierenee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    My soldier says he loves me,

    and he's coming home to me in two weeks from deployment. We talk every single day.. usually video calls.. but he won't accept relationship status on Facebook. Am I stupid, what is going on... should I ask him about it or is that just opening a can of worms? He calls me his...
    misslady88 misslady88 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I wish. It would have been exciting.

    I myself wanted to be a Soldier. Then gotten in to the thought to take a chance on a Shooting Star.What if it does fall and I miss the chance to see it? What is there will be Always Sunshine in the Morning and I do not have stay inside dork down? What if there is a 8th Nature...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F Aug 11

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    I've been married for two years with my husband

    who is currently enlisted in the us army. I love him with all my heart. I just hate that I moved from California to NC far from my family, and now we just moved to Germany thinking it would be a great experience for us but I'm just more home sick than ever. Anyone else feel the...
    smartlop93 smartlop93 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    He is going away to Ranger school in two weeks

    - This will be the longest we have been apart so far. I am proud of him but I am so sad. I am in a new city with no friends - just work and our puppy! Not looking forward to how lonely I will be =(
    ALynn007 ALynn007 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    hey girls!!! Since i havent shared my story, I will state off the bat im madly in love with my soldier lol. he is my everything. =) but i couldnt wait to share this with you girls.. found this tonight when i was browsin and supposed to be doing my hw =P thought you ladies might...
    bucketgirl7 bucketgirl7 18-21, F 36 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    Let me start off by saying I'm married to a

    sailor. We are on our 2nd year of marriage and a lovely 6 years together total. Up to now I have loved being a military wife but now its time for my first sea duty. It truly couldn't have come at a worst time because I'm pregnant with twins. Its not our first time being a part...
    cmp7876 cmp7876 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    My boyfriend is at a 2 week drill.

    .not long but still feels like forever. Ive been through this before (3 month AIT) but since we've gotten much closer since then it gets really lonely I try to pass the time with friends and family but it still isnt the same without him..
    juliethemagnificent14 juliethemagnificent14 18-21, F Jul 25

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    my future solider leaves in 3 weeks

    for basic. I am not ready..
    portiafay portiafay 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 23

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    Okay. My boyfriend and I have been together

    for about a year and he left July 2nd for basic and I am honestly having a really hard time dealing with this. I write him everyday an I just got my first letter last week and my first call yesterday. I love this guy more then anything and I'm just not sure what to do.. Help?
    Navygirlfriend99 Navygirlfriend99 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 28

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    Being in a two year relationship with a soldier

    who is deployed overseas is one of the hardest things I have ever done.
    aashley1989 aashley1989 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Been basically 6 months

    since I haven't been or seen my bf. it's the hardest thing ever. Never imagined how hard this would be. Feels like I'm falling apart without him.
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    You Know You're A Military Gf When...(found This Online)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I don't want him to get shipped over to Iraq

    with everything happening. The chance of him not coming back is higher and I don't want that to happen
    lovelittleones lovelittleones 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    He Said " I Love You" (:

    I've been through a lot and now that I'm dating Ryan it's finally starting to get better I feel so much better I don't know how to explain it but it finally seems that's things are getting better. But the other day he told me he loved me and I said I'm not ready to say it yet...
    nessababy1014 nessababy1014 18-21, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Well .. my boyfriend left

    for San Diego today for boot camp. I was looking for some research, advice, and anything else that will help me get through this. Thanks in advance.
    jessicaguzman147 jessicaguzman147 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 23

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    Me and my soldier are into it

    and I need some support right now :(
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I am a first time military girlfriend

    and having some trouble. I really don't know what to expect. I love him so much, but having a hard time not having him be by my side everyday. I don't have anybody to talk to about this who can actually relate to the situation I'm in. Any advice?
    Caylina Caylina 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why does it feel like

    when your soldier is away there are so many military commercials on TV!!! Makes me tear up every time!
    kalz17 kalz17 26-30, F 3 Responses May 31

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    Hopes

    After him breaking up with me the day before my birthday, I had already planned to move on. Not by dating but just taking care of myself. With out a doubt he decides to come back into my life. I guess he was never gone. I decided to give him yet another chance and drove 11 hrs to...
    hellio hellio 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

    hey everyone! This is my first experience dating a soldier and boy am I surprised its actually happening to me! I always knew of girls who had boyfriends or husbands or fiances in the military but I never knew I would be one of them. It's hard to believe that its actually been...
    nm617ox nm617ox 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    If Someone Ever Says Its Easy.. Just Say This To Them

    You think that you can make it as a Military girlfriend/fiance/spouse well maybe you should take a day in our shoes. Trust me its not a walk in the park defiantly not, I always thought it would be the easiest thing to do.. but man I have been proven wrong. It has taken me to...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Hello! This is my first post

    and I've decided to talk about my boyfriend. We are both from Georgia. I'm in New Jersey for college and because of my dad's job has transferred us here. My boyfriend is a United States Marine and is currently stationed at Camp Pendleton, California. We have been together for 10...
    MilsoChristine MilsoChristine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    Bad News...

    So my boyfriend was due to come home next month but now he is saying he won't be home until the end of the year. I bought my plane ticket to fly down so we can come home together and everything. I have been looking forward to his return since last month or when he first left for...
    TheDiva3 TheDiva3 26-30, F Jul 22, 2013

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    Hello all! I'm new to this site

    and to the Army lifestyle. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He just left a week ago for basic training in Fort Benning for 14 weeks. He has an SF contract so he'll be doing a lot of training but I get to go down for his graduation in the beginning of...
    armylove11 armylove11 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    He'S Getting Deployed

    He told me he's getting deployed very soon. I don't know what to do I'm so scared this will be his first deployment. This is all getting all real I don't know to do or how to handle it in just scared he's gonna get hurt or something. What do I do I'm so scared of him not coming...
    nessababy1014 nessababy1014 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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