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I Am In a Relationship With a Soldier

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    Been basically 6 months

    since I haven't been or seen my bf. it's the hardest thing ever. Never imagined how hard this would be. Feels like I'm falling apart without him.
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    Pip246 Pip246 22-25, F Sep 14, 2014

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    I'm going to Texas next weekend to see

    him😍😍😄😄🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
    Realwinner Realwinner 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    me and my boyfriend have been together

    for almost 2 years now and this is the first day with out him.. I feel horrible since I'm so used to him already I cried so much because I miss him so much.. last night I sent him a message telling him how much I miss him and it just made me cry a lot more knowing he will not...
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2015

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    I had my first experience with a friend saying

    "I'm not going to see my boyfriend for a week" today, girl I haven't seen my boyfriend in 5 months!!
    londonbridg londonbridg 22-25, F 2 Responses May 2, 2015

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    How do you keep from breaking the **** down?

    Sorry for the cursing I just had to let it out.
    armygf227 armygf227 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 4, 2015

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    I need help. My boyfriend has only been gone a

    month and he's at airborne school right now and I feel like we're falling apart but when we get to talk he's always tired but he says he loves me and misses me so much. How do we keep the spark when we barely get time to talk everyday and we have more time on the weekends
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    My boyfriend is a senior in high school

    and just enlisted into the army...
    cdt2017 cdt2017 16-17, F Oct 26, 2015

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    I am in a relationship with my soldier .

    I just love him so much and I'm proud of him for making it this far . I just want to hug him and just be by his side . 😉😍
    mp2015 mp2015 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2015

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    THIS IS A REPOST AND VERY MUCH NEEDED: Hey

    girls! Recently I discovered this group and I like it a lot. My boyfriend has been stationed for about two years and I've felt lonely most of the time because I don't know any other girls that has to deal with this. But, finding this group made me feel less alone in my...
    luv0927 luv0927 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2015

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    I got letters today! Gosh it's the best flippin

    week of my lifeeee!!!! 43 days until I see him!!!! He's sooooo worth the wait! :)
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F Oct 14, 2014

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    Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend is the only

    person who has ever truly made me feel appreciated and loved. This is the main reason I miss him so much, everyone else is always too involved with their own lives to pay attention to me and my problems (even thought I'm there for them, when they're in need) just wish someone...
    uribegre uribegre 18-21, F Sep 25, 2014

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    Lettes! :)

    I got two letters the other day! Two on the same day! What makes it even better is that it was our anniversary, and that was the best present that I could have gotten! He even remembered that it was our anniversary and said that he was sorry we couldn't be together for Valentine...
    ILoveMyGuardsman ILoveMyGuardsman 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    You Know You're A Military Gf When...(found This Online)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    PopeyesOlive PopeyesOlive 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    SkyeFoster SkyeFoster 26-30, F Aug 16, 2015

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    Ugh . I Miss Him So Much ,

    Hurry Back Baby ! #76 Days & Counting . . . ♥
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F Sep 30, 2014

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    My boyfriend of two years is a disabled veteran

    so he's done his time however all the blessings out to the families still serving!
    No1likeNickii No1likeNickii 18-21, F Mar 5, 2015

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    armygf227 armygf227 22-25, F Nov 3, 2015

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    In a new relationship with a solider

    who has been deployed for 6months, this will be our first deployment together And currently a week into the deployment. Don't have much of a support network back here at home. Most people I speak to don't understand and some people are really negitive. wondering if there is...
    rosierosa rosierosa 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 28, 2015

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for just over a year, he was sent to live in Germany in May. He has been on exercise in Canada for 3 months and is back next month. I hate being away from him but it's something I have to do to be with him. I am 17 and every body acts as though this is nothing serious and will...
    JessieeMae JessieeMae 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2015

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    hey girls!!! Since i havent shared my story, I will state off the bat im madly in love with my soldier lol. he is my everything. =) but i couldnt wait to share this with you girls.. found this tonight when i was browsin and supposed to be doing my hw =P thought you ladies might...
    bucketgirl7 bucketgirl7 18-21, F 36 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    Someone help... My boyfriend got kicked out

    and now he has the option to recycle back and it sounds like he wants to. Will he get to come home before he recycles back?
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2015

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    Hello all! I'm new to this site

    and to the Army lifestyle. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He just left a week ago for basic training in Fort Benning for 14 weeks. He has an SF contract so he'll be doing a lot of training but I get to go down for his graduation in the beginning of...
    armylove11 armylove11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    I'm 17 my boyfriend is 18 he just got out of

    basic and is at his station. Conversations aren't the same anymore we tend to not know what to talk about. After him being gone for 16 weeks and. Hardly any communication. it's been hard. He just got his phone 3 days ago. So it hasn't been that long. But will the conversations...
    Bethanyat17 Bethanyat17 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2015

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    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2015

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    I met the love of my life 3 months ago

    and he just left for basic training yesterday and I cried myself to sleep and slept most of today. I know I'm not the only "soldiers girl" out here but is there any coping methods you ladies use. I'm 23 in my first year of college.. and he's 25 in the 1st year of his 4 years of...
    aliciathestrange aliciathestrange 22-25, F Jan 31

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    I just got my first letter today.

    ..and it was not a fun letter to read. he seemed miserable, I can't help but cry when I read it...
    Dana7371 Dana7371 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I finally got to talk to my boyfriend today!

    It was only for 5 minutes but it made me feel so much better. We are both counting the days until he comes home and we get engaged. Stay positive ladies! He won't be gone forever!
    mufasamilan mufasamilan 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    I got a phone call!!!

    ! I'm so happy I could cry! His voice is the best thing I have ever heard :)
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F Oct 13, 2014

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    Amrs2TB Amrs2TB 22-25, F Sep 28, 2015

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    My boyfriend is in the Army

    and I fell madly in love with him and he fell madly in love with me. BUT, I am about to lose what we have. He has been in for almost two years and has two years left. I am enlisting and shipping to basic in less than a month. He has made it clear that he doesn't want to date...
    awtr awtr 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I don't mean to brag.

    .but I've my man back and I could not be happier ❤️
    Pip246 Pip246 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2014

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    It's been 2 weeks and my soldiers family

    or I haven't heard from her. It's killing me. I just need to know she's ok. Or anything.
    armygf227 armygf227 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2015

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    Being an Army Wife, is nothing

    but COMMITMENT, to be committed 100% to your spouse whether he is deployed or not, and also stay 100% faithful is the number one key in a whole life time relationship.
    pesimk pesimk 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2015

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    My bf graduates next month at Fort Leonard Wood.

    Nobody in his family can go to the graduation. I can go, but I'd have to go alone. I don't know what to do or how to go about it... Any suggestions?
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    How do u get use to the fact of being alone.

    I went to the movies last night alone you know trying to do the I can do this mind set. I mean I did it. But all I could think about was him. I love my guy so much. Many advice on finding peace
    haleycole haleycole 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    I am the happiest gf EVER!

    Before he left for bootcamp my bf sent me a letter with a couple of charms! He's always given me charms for my necklace he has basically made every momentous occassion. I am soooooo thankful to have such an amazing guy in my life. Sweetie, you are my love and my hero :)
    MsEj2010 MsEj2010 22-25, F Oct 1, 2015

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    Help! My boyfriend is in the army

    and he is really close with a girl in his block, she texts him and calls on odd occasions, I know I don't need to be jealous but I can't help it? It's annoying me so much even to the point where I keep deleting her off his Facebook friends list. I know they just work colleagues...
    lauren2997 lauren2997 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    Was it here that I saw someone post a wrist

    band with their soldiers name on it? I want to know where to get one
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 28, 2015

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    I just feel like he's going to break up with me

    because I wanted to cuddle and he was tired and didn't want to. I got mad and told him how I felt. Before he left I asked if we were okay and he said yes. I said you're not going to break up with me Bc of this? He said no. We said "I love you" and he went to work that night. and...
    Realwinner Realwinner 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Hey girls! Recently I discovered this group

    and I like it a lot. My boyfriend has been stationed for about two years and I've felt lonely most of the time because I don't know any other girls that has to deal with this. But, finding this group made me feel less alone in my experiences. I also happen to be working on an...
    luv0927 luv0927 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2015

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    my future solider leaves in 3 weeks

    for basic. I am not ready..
    portiafay portiafay 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    My boyfriend is a soldier from East Ukraine

    and I'm a north american. He's about to go fight at the front for the first time and Im nervous.
    AbbeyRutherford AbbeyRutherford 31-35, F Nov 25, 2015

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    I am really needing some extra support

    and friends that get what I'm going through so if any ladies here wanna share experiences feel free to comment!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 27, 2015

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