I Am In a Relationship With a Soldier

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    How do you keep from breaking the **** down?

    Sorry for the cursing I just had to let it out.
    armygf227 armygf227
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 4, 2015

    i married my soldier 3 weeks ago,

    he just left for a month today and i miss him so much... it's not helping that i am struggling with an eating disorder and not having him around hurts
    heatherweste129 heatherweste129
    18-21, F
    Apr 18, 2016


    girls! Recently I discovered this group and I like it a lot. My boyfriend has been stationed for about two years and I've felt lonely most of the time because I don't know any other girls that has to deal with this. But, finding this group made me feel less alone in my...
    luv0927 luv0927
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

    I got a phone call!!!

    ! I'm so happy I could cry! His voice is the best thing I have ever heard :)
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr
    22-25, F
    Oct 13, 2014

    If Someone Ever Says Its Easy.. Just Say This To Them

    You think that you can make it as a Military girlfriend/fiance/spouse well maybe you should take a day in our shoes. Trust me its not a walk in the parkΒ defiantlyΒ not, I always thought it would be the easiest thing to do.. but man I have been proven wrong. It has taken me to...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

    me and my boyfriend have been together

    for almost 2 years now and this is the first day with out him.. I feel horrible since I'm so used to him already I cried so much because I miss him so much.. last night I sent him a message telling him how much I miss him and it just made me cry a lot more knowing he will not...
    etrigo etrigo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 25, 2015

    My boyfriend of two years is a disabled veteran

    so he's done his time however all the blessings out to the families still serving!
    No1likeNickii No1likeNickii
    22-25, F
    Mar 5, 2015

    I had my first experience with a friend saying

    "I'm not going to see my boyfriend for a week" today, girl I haven't seen my boyfriend in 5 months!!
    londonbridg londonbridg
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 2, 2015

    Being an Army Wife, is nothing

    but COMMITMENT, to be committed 100% to your spouse whether he is deployed or not, and also stay 100% faithful is the number one key in a whole life time relationship.
    pesimk pesimk
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    I just feel like he's going to break up with me

    because I wanted to cuddle and he was tired and didn't want to. I got mad and told him how I felt. Before he left I asked if we were okay and he said yes. I said you're not going to break up with me Bc of this? He said no. We said "I love you" and he went to work that night. and...
    Realwinner Realwinner
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2016

    It's been 2 weeks and my soldiers family

    or I haven't heard from her. It's killing me. I just need to know she's ok. Or anything.
    armygf227 armygf227
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    In a new relationship with a solider

    who has been deployed for 6months, this will be our first deployment together And currently a week into the deployment. Don't have much of a support network back here at home. Most people I speak to don't understand and some people are really negitive. wondering if there is...
    rosierosa rosierosa
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    My boyfriend is in the Army

    and I fell madly in love with him and he fell madly in love with me. BUT, I am about to lose what we have. He has been in for almost two years and has two years left. I am enlisting and shipping to basic in less than a month. He has made it clear that he doesn't want to date...
    awtr awtr
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2016

    I don't mean to brag.

    .but I've my man back and I could not be happier ❀️
    Pip246 Pip246
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2014

    You Know You're A Military Gf When...(found This Online)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    Hey all, I'm new here.

    .. just trying to find my way. I'm 15... my significant other is 18. Yeah, kinda nuts. I know. He leaves in December for boot camp which is 2 months without contact, and I wanted to see if anyone's been through the same thing.. how it is.. what I can send him in the mail and...
    laniemarie217 laniemarie217
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2015

    my future solider leaves in 3 weeks

    for basic. I am not ready..
    portiafay portiafay
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jul 23, 2014

    Found out my other half is being sent away

    for training.....don't know where, don't know how long for...all I want to do is cry. Must.stay.strong
    Pip246 Pip246
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2014

    I met the love of my life 3 months ago

    and he just left for basic training yesterday and I cried myself to sleep and slept most of today. I know I'm not the only "soldiers girl" out here but is there any coping methods you ladies use. I'm 23 in my first year of college.. and he's 25 in the 1st year of his 4 years of...
    aliciathestrange aliciathestrange
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2016

    Lettes! :)

    I got two letters the other day! Two on the same day! What makes it even better is that it was our anniversary, and that was the best present that I could have gotten! He even remembered that it was our anniversary and said that he was sorry we couldn't be together for Valentine...
    ILoveMyGuardsman ILoveMyGuardsman
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

    My boyfriend is a senior in high school

    and just enlisted into the army...
    cdt2017 cdt2017
    18-21, F
    Oct 26, 2015

    Someone help... My boyfriend got kicked out

    and now he has the option to recycle back and it sounds like he wants to. Will he get to come home before he recycles back?
    sandrew42 sandrew42
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015
    armygf227 armygf227
    22-25, F
    Nov 3, 2015

    My bf graduates next month at Fort Leonard Wood.

    Nobody in his family can go to the graduation. I can go, but I'd have to go alone. I don't know what to do or how to go about it... Any suggestions?
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    I need help. My boyfriend has only been gone a

    month and he's at airborne school right now and I feel like we're falling apart but when we get to talk he's always tired but he says he loves me and misses me so much. How do we keep the spark when we barely get time to talk everyday and we have more time on the weekends
    sandrew42 sandrew42
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2016

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for just over a year, he was sent to live in Germany in May. He has been on exercise in Canada for 3 months and is back next month. I hate being away from him but it's something I have to do to be with him. I am 17 and every body acts as though this is nothing serious and will...
    JessieeMae JessieeMae
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015

    I finally got to talk to my boyfriend today!

    It was only for 5 minutes but it made me feel so much better. We are both counting the days until he comes home and we get engaged. Stay positive ladies! He won't be gone forever!
    mufasamilan mufasamilan
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2014
    CassidyEldridge CassidyEldridge
    18-21, F
    Jul 4, 2015

    I really care about this soldier.

    He is currently in South korea. he was supposed to be back from the field three days ago. I've heard nothing from him and my anxiety is crazy.i know hardly anything about the military life. I have no one around me who knows much either. my only two friends I speak too telling...
    claudyy claudyy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 14, 2015

    I just got my first letter today.

    ..and it was not a fun letter to read. he seemed miserable, I can't help but cry when I read it...
    Dana7371 Dana7371
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2016

    I am really needing some extra support

    and friends that get what I'm going through so if any ladies here wanna share experiences feel free to comment!!
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 27, 2015

    I have been so annoyed with girls today

    who say stuff like 'I'm sad I won't be kissing my boyfriend under the fireworks tonight'. Like really? I'm sad that my boyfriend is on the other side of the country learning how to fight for our country's freedom. But ya know, we all gotta make sacrifices. Here's to all the men...
    brennx33 brennx33
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 4, 2015
    Amrs2TB Amrs2TB
    26-30, F
    Sep 28, 2015

    People don't realise how hard it can be

    sometimes having no contact with your solider. 7 days to go!!
    Pip246 Pip246
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Sep 13, 2014

    I am the happiest gf EVER!

    Before he left for bootcamp my bf sent me a letter with a couple of charms! He's always given me charms for my necklace he has basically made every momentous occassion. I am soooooo thankful to have such an amazing guy in my life. Sweetie, you are my love and my hero :)
    MsEj2010 MsEj2010
    22-25, F
    Oct 1, 2015

    I got letters today! Gosh it's the best flippin

    week of my lifeeee!!!! 43 days until I see him!!!! He's sooooo worth the wait! :)
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr
    22-25, F
    Oct 14, 2014

    I'm 17 my boyfriend is 18 he just got out of

    basic and is at his station. Conversations aren't the same anymore we tend to not know what to talk about. After him being gone for 16 weeks and. Hardly any communication. it's been hard. He just got his phone 3 days ago. So it hasn't been that long. But will the conversations...
    Bethanyat17 Bethanyat17
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 6, 2015

    Was it here that I saw someone post a wrist

    band with their soldiers name on it? I want to know where to get one
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 28, 2015

    Ugh . I Miss Him So Much ,

    Hurry Back Baby ! #76 Days & Counting . . . β™₯
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter
    18-21, F
    Sep 30, 2014

    Help! My boyfriend is in the army

    and he is really close with a girl in his block, she texts him and calls on odd occasions, I know I don't need to be jealous but I can't help it? It's annoying me so much even to the point where I keep deleting her off his Facebook friends list. I know they just work colleagues...
    lauren2997 lauren2997
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    How do u get use to the fact of being alone.

    I went to the movies last night alone you know trying to do the I can do this mind set. I mean I did it. But all I could think about was him. I love my guy so much. Many advice on finding peace
    haleycole haleycole
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2015

    So I feel really alone.

    Everyone tells me it's not big deal your fine. Well I'm not. I'm tired of it seeming like I have a expiration date on my happiness. I miss him
    haleycole haleycole
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015
    PopeyesOlive PopeyesOlive
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend is the only

    person who has ever truly made me feel appreciated and loved. This is the main reason I miss him so much, everyone else is always too involved with their own lives to pay attention to me and my problems (even thought I'm there for them, when they're in need) just wish someone...
    uribegre uribegre
    22-25, F
    Sep 25, 2014

    Dear Civilian Girl

    hey girls!!! Since i havent shared my story, I will state off the bat im madly in love with my soldier lol. he is my everything. =) but i couldnt wait to share this with you girls.. found this tonight when i was browsin and supposed to be doing my hw =P thought you ladies might...
    bucketgirl7 bucketgirl7
    18-21, F
    36 Responses Mar 9, 2009

    I'm going to Texas next weekend to see

    Realwinner Realwinner
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2016

    So my boyfriend is in basic training right now.

    I got a call today yay!! He told me how he misses me & how much he appreciates me. I miss him so much I write to him every night. He says it's the worst experience ever. I wish i could be with him every step of the way. I worry myself daily. I wish he could just come home now...
    AmberNykkol AmberNykkol
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    Hey girls! Recently I discovered this group

    and I like it a lot. My boyfriend has been stationed for about two years and I've felt lonely most of the time because I don't know any other girls that has to deal with this. But, finding this group made me feel less alone in my experiences. I also happen to be working on an...
    luv0927 luv0927
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015
    sandrew42 sandrew42
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2015
    Pip246 Pip246
    26-30, F
    Sep 14, 2014

    Hello all! I'm new to this site

    and to the Army lifestyle. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He just left a week ago for basic training in Fort Benning for 14 weeks. He has an SF contract so he'll be doing a lot of training but I get to go down for his graduation in the beginning of...
    armylove11 armylove11
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2014

    I am in a relationship with my soldier .

    I just love him so much and I'm proud of him for making it this far . I just want to hug him and just be by his side . πŸ˜‰πŸ˜
    mp2015 mp2015
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2015

    My boyfriend is a soldier from East Ukraine

    and I'm a north american. He's about to go fight at the front for the first time and Im nervous.
    AbbeyRutherford AbbeyRutherford
    31-35, F
    Nov 25, 2015

    Been basically 6 months

    since I haven't been or seen my bf. it's the hardest thing ever. Never imagined how hard this would be. Feels like I'm falling apart without him.
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    Hello Girls!! I've created a blog,

    to use it as a platform to share my feelings and stories/experiences of being an army girlfriend. Be expected to hear about the daily long distant relationship struggles, as well as the changes that our military partners have gone through which ultimately impact our...
    Clare96 Clare96
    18-21, F
    Oct 13, 2015
    SkyeFoster SkyeFoster
    31-35, F
    Aug 16, 2015
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