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I Am In a Relationship With a Soldier

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    My relationship with my soldier isn't 100%

    legal. I'm in a relationship with a 19 year old and I'm 14. He is getting deployed soon and my family is worried that I won't stay loyal but the thing is... I've never felt this way about anyone in my entire life. Yes I'm only 14 about to be 15. But still. I feel really really...
    elischaise elischaise 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    "Yeah, But He's Over There..and I'm Here"

    As some of you already know if you've read any of my stories, I work as a singer in a bar on the weekends. Needless to say, I have my fair share of men and sometimes women that hit on me. It's no secret to the regulars at our bar and my coworkers that I'm in a relationship...
    allynally allynally 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I got letters today! Gosh it's the best flippin

    week of my lifeeee!!!! 43 days until I see him!!!! He's sooooo worth the wait! :)
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F Oct 14

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    He Asked Me To Marry Him

    Right before he got on the bus to leave today. He is gone now. For who knows how long. But now I have our wedding to plan :)
    mashleysue mashleysue 18-21, F Apr 27, 2012

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    If Someone Ever Says Its Easy.. Just Say This To Them

    You think that you can make it as a Military girlfriend/fiance/spouse well maybe you should take a day in our shoes. Trust me its not a walk in the park defiantly not, I always thought it would be the easiest thing to do.. but man I have been proven wrong. It has taken me to...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    My Baby Left For Basic Training Monday ,

    The 22nd . & I Already Miss Him Like Crazy He Was Not Only My Fiance` But My Bestfriend . I Talked To Him About Everything Now He's Gone & I Feel Incomplete . How Long Does It Take For Me To Get A Phone Call From Him ?
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    My bf graduates next month at Fort Leonard Wood.

    Nobody in his family can go to the graduation. I can go, but I'd have to go alone. I don't know what to do or how to go about it... Any suggestions?
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 17

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for four years. He's 25 and I'm 29. He decided to join the marines last year. I support him in everything he does, but I miss him so much. I keep busy with my job and playing on my local roller derby team, but sometimes I just need support from people who know what I'm going...
    Kaziopiah Kaziopiah 26-30, F Oct 9

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    I just missed my boyfriend's phone call

    for the second time because I was asleep. I miss him so much and feel like no one understands the emotional pain I'm in. This is only his second week being gone and I already feel like I cant function without him.
    mufasamilan mufasamilan 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    Found out my other half is being sent away

    for training.....don't know where, don't know how long for...all I want to do is cry. Must.stay.strong
    Pip246 Pip246 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    People don't realise how hard it can be

    sometimes having no contact with your solider. 7 days to go!!
    Pip246 Pip246 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 13

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    Ugh . I Miss Him So Much ,

    Hurry Back Baby ! #76 Days & Counting . . . ♥
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F Sep 30

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    So jealous of the other girls

    who can visit their SO! wish I can do the same, oh well I'm real busy with school and he lives on the other side of the earth. US-Asia distance :( #Asiangirlproblem
    PopeyesOlive PopeyesOlive 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    so we had a real bad day today

    and we've split up he says he doesn't want to see me down, he just doesn't understand I'm not unhappy I just miss him a lot. So torn up
    Mhairix Mhairix 18-21, F Oct 13

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    Soldiers are the most secretive

    and intellectual men when it comes to surprising their family and SO back at home. Y'all have any stories to share about how your soldier surprised you coming home?
    itsjess13 itsjess13 22-25, F Nov 14

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    I cant wait to find out

    if my boyfriend comes home after Basic Training or goes straight to AIT !!
    xoxoarmygirlfriend xoxoarmygirlfriend 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    He has been gone 32 days now.

    The only reason I know that is I have been keeping a journal to keep him up to speed on every day since he was gone once he returns. I've only gotten 2 letters from him and 2 phone calls... one telling me his address for boot camp and the other to check up on his accounts and...
    sebuka92 sebuka92 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    It's been a week now

    since my boyfriend has been gone.:( I miss him so much. Does anyone know when they are able to call or send letters in basic training?
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    I finally got to talk to my boyfriend today!

    It was only for 5 minutes but it made me feel so much better. We are both counting the days until he comes home and we get engaged. Stay positive ladies! He won't be gone forever!
    mufasamilan mufasamilan 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    So I am a couple of months into his ten month

    deployment and at first I was receiving emails every couple of days at least...it has now been over three weeks without an email...I'm trying to stay strong but I don't know what is going on on his side, so it is worrisome. Some days are harder than others, but I don't know how...
    lalahughes lalahughes 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    I dont know what to do

    while my marines gone... Most people start a relationship and then have there men join the USMC but mine kissed me on leave and thats when we started to like eachother and now hes always gone...this is really difficult i wish someone knew how this felt...i just want someone to...
    Map124 Map124 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 9

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    He's been at basic for almost a month

    and I've only gotten one phone call. 5 minutes. That's it. Today I miss him more than ever. This is so hard :/ I can't wait to get a letter from him! I can't even imagine what other ladies go through when their man gets deployed. I am not looking forward to that. I hate that I...
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Just booked my flight!

    Holy cowwwww!!! 13 more days!!! Aarrrgggfbrbekcbbejakcu!!!
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F Nov 13

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    Been basically 6 months

    since I haven't been or seen my bf. it's the hardest thing ever. Never imagined how hard this would be. Feels like I'm falling apart without him.
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I am relatively new to being an army girlfriend

    and it's the hardest thing I've had to do. I can barely cope with 3 weeks of him being away for some training. I fully respect the wives/girlfriends who don't get to see there loved ones for months and not having any communication with them at all. But I will stick by him!
    Mhairix Mhairix 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 12

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    my future solider leaves in 3 weeks

    for basic. I am not ready..
    portiafay portiafay 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 23

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    Pip246 Pip246 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I don't mean to brag.

    .but I've my man back and I could not be happier ❤️
    Pip246 Pip246 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    Date a solider they say,

    it will be fun they say...this is just a joke! Calm down! Lol
    Tbarlow8 Tbarlow8 18-21, F Sep 13

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    It's been a week now

    since my boyfriend has been gone.:( I miss him so much. Does anyone know when they are able to call or send letters in basic training?
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    My name is Jami I've been with my Bf

    for 8 months now and we've been apart for 7 of them. From what i hear that's not uncommon with military relationships. I joined EP because not a lot of people i know have dealt with this sort of thing so its hard for me to talk to people because no one can relate. Me and my s/o...
    WhisperEden WhisperEden 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    kerendion kerendion 26-30, F Nov 4

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    To All Of My Army Family..

    Alright family, i have read at least 4 stories-& i read word for word i do not skim your stories!-& they have all had to do with ARGUMENTS. from having their men cheating on them, to not being trusting of them, to just being plain mean. Now i know i don't know everything, that is...
    Chaylani Chaylani 18-21 6 Responses Sep 8, 2011

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    Hi everyone. I'm new to EP.

    My boyfriend (of 10 months) is going to deploy soon for 9 months. I would love to chat with anyone on here who is going through a deployment also. I go from being calm and thinking positively to feeling like a total basket case about it and it sucks.
    RikkiDF RikkiDF 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hello all! I'm new to this site

    and to the Army lifestyle. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He just left a week ago for basic training in Fort Benning for 14 weeks. He has an SF contract so he'll be doing a lot of training but I get to go down for his graduation in the beginning of...
    armylove11 armylove11 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm pretty new to this whole thing.

    Social media and meeting new people. But a lot of my friends have told me finding people who feel similar or have been in my place would help. So here goes nothing. My boyfriend and I have known each other for seven years. We recently started a relationship. He just shipped out...
    Jaderaute Jaderaute 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 23

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    Lettes! :)

    I got two letters the other day! Two on the same day! What makes it even better is that it was our anniversary, and that was the best present that I could have gotten! He even remembered that it was our anniversary and said that he was sorry we couldn't be together for Valentine...
    ILoveMyGuardsman ILoveMyGuardsman 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    I have recently become extremely sick.

    I can't eat or sleep and I have chills and a fever that won't break. I live alone (my parents divorced and my mom gave me the house and moved) so I pretty much have to take care of myself. It's times like this that I really miss my boyfriend. He is very nurturing and has taken...
    mufasamilan mufasamilan 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    PopeyesOlive PopeyesOlive 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 7

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    Our mail lady came today

    as I was in the car with one of my friends driving away from my house. I made my friend stop the car and I got out, turning and sprinting to my house to check the mail. I flung open the mailbox and checked inside; nope. No letters from The Boy. It was depressing, to say the...
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    hey girls!!! Since i havent shared my story, I will state off the bat im madly in love with my soldier lol. he is my everything. =) but i couldnt wait to share this with you girls.. found this tonight when i was browsin and supposed to be doing my hw =P thought you ladies might...
    bucketgirl7 bucketgirl7 18-21, F 36 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend is the only

    person who has ever truly made me feel appreciated and loved. This is the main reason I miss him so much, everyone else is always too involved with their own lives to pay attention to me and my problems (even thought I'm there for them, when they're in need) just wish someone...
    uribegre uribegre 18-21, F Sep 25

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    My boyfriend graduated boot camp

    and is now a U.S. Marine! He came back home last Saturday (Oct.4th) after 3 months of not being with him, and I couldn't be happier! although lately I feel really clingy.. and I'm really not a clingy person.. why doesn't he understand that I want to hear from him every second of...
    uribegre uribegre 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    My boyfriend is in the military

    and we've been dating for close to a year now. I believe a week after I told him that I, too, wanted to be involved with him, I dreamt of me walking in on him cheating on me with another woman. It's odd because I have never had dreams about any guys I dated in the past. That isn...
    hibeckybyebecky hibeckybyebecky 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    So my boyfriend is in basic training right now.

    I got a call today yay!! He told me how he misses me & how much he appreciates me. I miss him so much I write to him every night. He says it's the worst experience ever. I wish i could be with him every step of the way. I worry myself daily. I wish he could just come home now...
    Amber1027 Amber1027 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Thank you to all our veterans

    and boyfriends out there that fight so hard for our freedom. I'm grateful to call my boyfriend my hero. He's been through so much making this commitment to our country and I couldn't be more proud of that man. He's so very special to me. The love I have for that man cannot be...
    itsjess13 itsjess13 22-25, F Nov 11

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    You Know You're A Military Gf When...(found This Online)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I got a phone call!!!

    ! I'm so happy I could cry! His voice is the best thing I have ever heard :)
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F Oct 13

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