I Am In a Secret Relationship

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    I'm in a secret relationship we met actually on here and we Skype as much as we can but there's one problem he's 3 years older than me and lives in the UK and I'm in the USA my mom found out about us and said we couldn't be together but then we started talking again 3 months...
    Eevee99 Eevee99
    13-15, F
    Apr 18, 2013

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    norahcc11 norahcc11
    26-30, F
    May 25, 2015

    A Letter To My Lover

    I am torn between feeling guilty about lying and knowing that there really was no other option if we wanted to be together. We met on the internet playing a game 9 years ago, when we were both just kids. We stayed in touch, basically becoming pen pals over nearly a decade. God...
    autumnlily autumnlily
    22-25, F
    Apr 9, 2013

    I am kept in places out of sight,

    Dark places where the mind wanders Forbidden to speak of I am hidden in lost messages Of love and lust and longing Shared between only us And nobody else I am tucked away in silence Scheduled into breaks and pauses Allowed only to speak Once spoken to I am left in...
    annalea annalea
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    so I work at a daycare,

    and there was always this dad who was a little flirty but I didn't think anything would come from it. he tried to get me and some people from work out once and everyone went but me so I like texted him saying sorry and I owe him. well fast forward like 2 or 3 months to one...
    mm2332 mm2332
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 25, 2015

    Am I Seriously Doing This?

    I have been friends with this guy for like four years, he used to be really out of shape and had this crazy shaggy hair and he was kind of a loser but we were still friends. At some point last year he cut all his hair off and got really in shape and dang is he fine. He really...
    Layla777 Layla777
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    annacc11 annacc11
    26-30, F
    Sep 18, 2015

    I'm secretly dating this guy,

    or not dating kind of. I broke up with his best friend and we had to hide because his best friend was really hurt about the breakup. He feels so guilty about it that we tend to take breaks where we don't talk for a while. Those parts are the worst, because it kills me when we...
    Synthesiate Synthesiate
    18-21, M
    Jan 25, 2015

    Probably Just A Booty Call

    Almost every relationship im in always start out with the words "Lets just keep this between us for awhile, k?" Of course i agree, but it gets on my nerves sneaking out of class and making up excuses for where i was. One boy, i thought we were close to going public, but...
    neversweet neversweet
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2009

    Secret Realtionship In Every Sence

    im unoffically and secretly with this guy he just makes me so happy and we get along very well, some of my friends dont like him - but i generally get along with his friends.. we have been super close friends for a couple years now but only in the sence of we talk EVERYDAY...
    musicoreo musicoreo
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2011

    Well kinda and kinda not his family knows

    and all my friends know but my family doesn't they would completely freak his family is okay with it because they know how important I am to him he is always depressed when I'm not around he got mad at his mom for making him taking his anti depressants because he couldn't cry...
    CookieMonsta16 CookieMonsta16
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 25, 2015

    I Am The Secret Girlfriend.

    About a year ago my boyfriend broke up with me after pressure from his family to end our relationship.  I thought of him every day and, out of pain, became involved with someone else.  He tried to contact me several times and I was very cruel and cold to him. He also...
    annamaebullock annamaebullock
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

    My secret relationship is with an x

    psychiatrist of mine we are seeing each other
    shootingstar2015 shootingstar2015
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2015

    To my senior, I'm nothing

    but a character in his fantasy, a pawn willing to be manipulated during the course of the game he plays, and a child that he wants to protect. To me, he is...he is a good friend of mine, he is a big brother figure, he is someone who will stay up in the late hours of the night...
    PaigetheBook PaigetheBook
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    Are you in a relationship

    that you are forced to hide from the people around you? Does your family not approve of your partner, but you still continue to date them in secret? Are you in love with a colleague, but can't share it with anyone, not even your best friend, because of a work policy against...
    gigantictv gigantictv
    18-21
    Aug 27, 2014

    Yeah

    Not be retarded, but I am in a secret relationship with my self!
    123ct 123ct
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Apr 23, 2008

    So hard, this divorce is tearing me up,

    now after a few meaningless people I've met someone and want to scream happy from the roof tops! I have to stay quiet, my friends, my family I have only shared my my details with one person, very frustrated when I see him in public and have to keep my feelings, my touch all to...
    Froggy420 Froggy420
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    Well kinda, kinda not in a secret relationship.

    it's hard to explain. I wish I could say it all but it would last a lifetime. Me and this boy, Andrew, Started dating September 22, 2014. I thought he was the one for me. We were open about fating then, My uncle was the one who got us together. My uncle is Andrews and his 3...
    IlyAAfaa IlyAAfaa
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 26, 2015

    Write about your experienceThere are numerous

    older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect...
    norahcc11 norahcc11
    26-30, F
    May 25, 2015

    Me and my senior, my first kiss,

    the first person who I let in completely, the guy who encouraged my spiteful side and turned me a little bit mean, the boy who's either going to be a politician or blow up a school, the sociopath who cares so deeply for select few. We split up. I really should be upset, but I...
    PaigetheBook PaigetheBook
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2014

    She Couldn't Be Any Farther.

     At this point there is too much to hide. I have a girlfriend (secret). She's in Australia (secret). I've never met her in person (secret). I met her online (secret). Everything about our relationship has to stay a secret because every bit of it is taboo. In addition, she's...
    recognizeXreflection recognizeXreflection
    16-17, F
    Apr 23, 2008

    Write about your experienceThere are numerous

    older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect...
    norahcc11 norahcc11
    26-30, F
    May 25, 2015

    I love her I really really love her.

    No one will ever understand what we mean to each other. Parents are trying but our love is way to strong it's amazing how much love we have for each other. Yea we're 3 hrs apart but she's everything to me and I'm not about to lose her because people don't believe in us. If I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 5, 2015

    Are You Living A Double Life?

    MTV is NOW CASTING! Do you lead a double life? We’re looking for extreme here (i.e. accountant all week and racecar driver on weekends), so actors trying to make ends meet need not apply. Or maybe you work (and look like you belong) in a world of luxury, but your home is the...
    NandD NandD
    18-21
    Feb 3, 2011

    Christian

    I must have a Christian boyfriend, and the guy I'm with is getting close to converting, but not 100% there yet.  He's sad I can't tell my parents about him and that I'm so secretive about it, but the fact is, they'd kill me.  =(
    DramaMagnet DramaMagnet
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2008

    My dad doesn't know she's actually not Jewish

    cause if he knew he would kill me and prob cancel my phone plan:( were miles apart so the only way we communicate is by skype. Everybody has a problem with her and me being together for there own reasons. One major reason is they think I'm too old for her (I'm 20 she's 16) but...
    YLIhououin YLIhououin
    18-21, M
    2 Responses May 26, 2015
    AquamarineCiara AquamarineCiara
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 25, 2015

    If only I could hold your hand

    as we walk side by side, I would. If only I could shout to the world how much I love you, without getting weird looks from the people around, without being judged, without anyone contradicting, I would. I don't mind keeping our secret only between the two of us tho. ;)
    babyheartlove babyheartlove
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2015

    My Friend

    I have a friend that I talk to all the time to here and away from EP but we keep our relationship a secret.  The only persons that know we are friends other than the two of us are our best friends and significant others. I used to meet this friend for coffee/tea back in the day...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    Jun 17, 2011
    shootingstar2015 shootingstar2015
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2015

    South Asian Mixed Relationship

    My girlfriend is of South Asian (Indian) heritage although she has always lived in the UK.   Her parents would not accept our relationship as I am not Indian, I am white. So we have been going out for 2 years without telling her family.
    mixtogether mixtogether
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 22, 2008

    So I'm a 19th old queer person

    and I've been dating this lovely Transgirl for a little over a year. I met her in community college and she's just perfect, you know? The terrible thing is that I have to keep it secret from my transphobic, homophobic, conservative- Christian family. It hurts me so much. I...
    brittaE brittaE
    18-21
    Feb 2

    Family Vs Girlfriend

    Me and my girlfriend's relationship is unapproved by both our families. Different race, different culture and background, different religion and belief... We don't really have anything in common; We both loves entertainment, but I love games and she love animes. Both of us loves...
    Nelangsa Nelangsa
    22-25, T
    1 Response Aug 24, 2013

    I just broke up with my bf few months ago

    and I am bi. Im now in a secret relationship with a girl i had liked before in HS. Im 19 she's 17 and we both know our family are against this thing. They don't even know I am Bi. We are in a long distance relationship right now though its quite tough we still able to manage...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    What Started Wrong...but Feels Right

    so i am in a secret relationship, and its horrible, im 20 yrs old and i feel like im in highschool again. its horrible.8 months ago i began working at a company w my mom (shes my coworker not my boss, but still higher up then i) first rule of her getting me the position "dont...
    aneeloveperez aneeloveperez
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2011

    Write about your experienceThere are numerous

    older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect...
    norahcc11 norahcc11
    26-30, F
    May 25, 2015

    I love him my mom and dad thinks he use to go

    to school with me and I told them he moved to north Carolina his sophomore year but really I met him on kik and we talked for some months and we decide to date he's lived in North Carolina his whole life but he's awesome he's really sweet and silly
    RebelStar24 RebelStar24
    18-21, F
    Jul 20, 2015

    Me and my guy, dan have been together

    for almost 2 years now. We have been public for over a year, but we were quiet for a long time. It started in Yr 12 when he always flirted with me, and I would always be snarky/sarcastic back. Before I ever gave some kind of presentation, he would say something like "I can help...
    andreagee andreagee
    18-21, F
    Nov 12, 2015

    My boyfriend and I dated

    for 19 months before he broke up with me and his dad and step mom told me to stay away. We took a break for a couple months and he came back to me asking for a chance to prove he's changed. I decided to give him that chance, but we have to keep our relationship secret because...
    OneMoreBrokenSoul OneMoreBrokenSoul
    18-21, F
    Jul 2, 2015

    Our relationship was strictly physical.

    We promised that our "relationship" wouldn't be more than this, but the truth is, the only reason we started this "friends with benefits" arrangement was because we both knew that we had feelings for each other... Now I can't stop thinking about him, and he can't stop thinking...
    triplemix triplemix
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    I m very sad because I know he's leaving the

    city and he only sees me as a fling. I wish I would find someone better soon but I know it's hard because he's sooo perfect ... Except he's a little too cold. I m hiding my feelings because I don't want my intensity to scare him away. I really should move on but his image is...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts
    22-25, F
    May 25, 2015

    Me and this guy have been together

    for three months now, he doesn't want anyone to know that we're together & having sex. The only people we've told are close friends, so it's almost as if it's not a real relationship, yet were supposed to be "exclusive"
    sierramay sierramay
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 25, 2015

    A Fling That Turned Into A Thing

    He is my brother in-law's brother.  Which isn't at all the reason it's a secret.  We were trying to be discreet because of our neices and nephews (mine are his step nieces and nephews, and vice versa).  I'm very careful about who I date because of how close I am with the...
    Amilli Amilli
    26-30, F
    Mar 2, 2011

    On cloud 9 today, had a night out with him,

    he always makes me smile, blush when I normally wouldn't. Smiling big after a good night! Thankful for good moments in my stressful dayz!!
    Froggy420 Froggy420
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    I am a fairly new college professor (on my

    second semester teaching). I met this student who instantly became one of my favorite students because she always participates in my class and sits in front. She started going to my office after class to ask for academic advice or just to hangout with me. We started getting...
    yoojp yoojp
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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