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I Am In a Secret Relationship

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    A Letter To My Lover - I am torn between feeling guilty about lying and knowing that there really was no other option if we wanted to be together. We met on the internet playing a...
    autumnlily autumnlily 22-25, F Apr 9, 2013

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    He's Older And A Man. - Im a bisexual woman and I have a girlfriend. We're both 21 and we kind of share a boyfriend whos 30. She dated him before I dated her and now Im kinda...
    paoilyn paoilyn 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2011

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    I'm in secret relationship with my best friend. We've been lovers since we were 19 and friends since 16. We are both now 24. In the beginning the secret part was fun, exciting, and...
    myke757 myke757 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    South Asian Mixed Relationship - My girlfriend is of South Asian (Indian) heritage although she has always lived in the UK.   Her parents would not accept our relationship...
    mixtogether mixtogether 26-30 Apr 22, 2008

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    Life Changed In A Second! - So I guess the background is important here. I was in a realtionship with my best friend for about a year and we were very in love. He was a soldier and...
    reyem reyem 18-21, F 1 Response May 30, 2011

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    I've met my first and current girlfriend back in high school, 5 years ago. We are now about to finish university, but I've never met her parents nor have I been to her home. The...
    AlexeiZ AlexeiZ 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I'm Not Alone. Or Am I? - The worst part is not being able to show him off. My friends all say "Why don't you date? You're beautiful and awesome, I can't believe you don't have...
    0rph1a 0rph1a 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2013

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    I Have To Be Honest Because I Think There Is A Solution That We All Refuse To Admit! - Quickly, how do I meet people on skype? This shouldn't take long to say. In the past there...
    Realove4u Realove4u 46-50, M May 18, 2013

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    A Fling That Turned Into A Thing - He is my brother in-law's brother.  Which isn't at all the reason it's a secret.  We were trying to be discreet because of our neices and...
    Amilli Amilli 26-30, F Mar 2, 2011

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    She Couldn't Be Any Farther. -  At this point there is too much to hide. I have a girlfriend (secret). She's in Australia (secret). I've never met her in person (secret). I...
    recognizeXreflection recognizeXreflection 16-17, F Apr 23, 2008

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    New And Old... - My new girlfriend is my ex-girlfriend,, But shshshsh don't tell anyone! It's kind of a secret... Well it all started mii ninth grade year,, my second real...
    IAmTrevorBrentMAXX IAmTrevorBrentMAXX 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2011

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    Secret Relationship! - Do you find yourself sneaking around your family to spend time together? Do you want to come clean to your family and friends about your relationship despite...
    ForbiddenLove11 ForbiddenLove11 31-35 Mar 18, 2013

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    I Am The Secret Girlfriend. - About a year ago my boyfriend broke up with me after pressure from his family to end our relationship.  I thought of him every day and, out of...
    annamaebullock annamaebullock 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Secret Relationship! - Do you find yourself sneaking around your family to spend time together? Do you want to come clean to your family and friends about your relationship despite...
    ForbiddenLove11 ForbiddenLove11 31-35 Mar 18, 2013

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    Employee Of He Month? - I'm 19 and started a new job recently... Within the first couple of days of meeting my new boss we instantly clicked and he was constantly praising my hard...
    smichelle smichelle 18-21 1 Response Dec 18, 2012

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    Yeah - Not be retarded, but I am in a secret relationship with my self!
    123ct 123ct 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Soap Opera? - I'm in a relationship with an Admissions Counsellor at my university, and I'm a sophomore in college. He's only 21, he just graduated from the same university, and I...
    daddyslittledefect daddyslittledefect 18-21 1 Response Apr 14, 2009

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    Whispers - yes i confess i too am in a secret relationship with someone, we have 4 years difference on each other. the relationship is very conflicted at this point both...
    fallenangelkokoro fallenangelkokoro 18-21, F Jan 2, 2013

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    Christian - I must have a Christian boyfriend, and the guy I'm with is getting close to converting, but not 100% there yet.  He's sad I can't tell my parents about him and...
    DramaMagnet DramaMagnet 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Am I Seriously Doing This? - I have been friends with this guy for like four years, he used to be really out of shape and had this crazy shaggy hair and he was kind of a loser but...
    Layla777 Layla777 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    My Friend - I have a secret friendship with a man who is not my husband. I think this is an emotional affair, but I’m not really sure. I don’t think this friendship will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Are You Living A Double Life? - MTV is NOW CASTING! Do you lead a double life? We’re looking for extreme here (i.e. accountant all week and racecar driver on weekends), so...
    NandD NandD 18-21 Feb 3, 2011

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    What Started Wrong...but Feels Right - so i am in a secret relationship, and its horrible, im 20 yrs old and i feel like im in highschool again. its horrible.8 months ago i began...
    aneeloveperez aneeloveperez 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    Killing Me Softly - At the moment I have been dating a mormon guy (he's 22). We met in high school in band and he was a year older than me. We were friends for quite a while. I...
    sentunderscore sentunderscore 18-21 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    My Friend´s Girlfriend Is Now My Girlfriend :-s - I know how it sounds, but please let me explain... Since the first day of college, I saw this pretty girl that caught my eye...
    24hu8xqzms 24hu8xqzms 18-21 May 26, 2010

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    Family Vs Girlfriend - Me and my girlfriend's relationship is unapproved by both our families. Different race, different culture and background, different religion and belief... We...
    Nelangsa Nelangsa 22-25, T 1 Response Aug 24, 2013

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    Secret Relationship Is Just Like A Slow Poison. - Hi there fellas, i fell in love with a lady who is 51 now but when i met her she was 48 years old having two kids. She was living...
    saltish143 saltish143 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Secret Realtionship In Every Sence - im unoffically and secretly with this guy he just makes me so happy and we get along very well, some of my friends dont like him - but i...
    musicoreo musicoreo 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2011

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    My Secret Love - I had an affair about 18 years ago. We were both in love but also both married. It ended unofficially because we also lived in different cities now and he was...
    wetheliving wetheliving 46-50 1 Response Oct 27, 2012

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    USA And UK - I'm in a secret relationship we met actually on here and we Skype as much as we can but there's one problem he's 3 years older than me and lives in the UK and I'm in...
    Eevee99 Eevee99 13-15, F Apr 18, 2013

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    My Friend - I have a friend that I talk to all the time to here and away from EP but we keep our relationship a secret.  The only persons that know we are friends other than the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Jun 17, 2011

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    I met a guy a month before I study abroad, he confessed to me that he likes me and I kinda like him too, and he took me to meet his family and I spent a night w them cause I get a...
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    I've been in a long distance relationship for three and a half years... We haven't even met face to face yet, but we expect to within the next few weeks... (Very Long Story!) We...
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    ok so recently I've been wanting to have a cute relationship,to have someone,someone I can lean on. I'm a girl but there's this girl in school who's a really good friend to me,(she...
    recoverybemine recoverybemine 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    April 14th was the 4 year "anniversary" of when my ex punched me in the face and slammed my head into the car window. At school that day a friend told me that if he hit me again...
    Jeradactyl Jeradactyl 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm not sure if it's a secret but I think he knows I'm in love with him though we know we're both in a relationship. I just quit with my bf but he don't want to quit on me. I'm in...
    iluvmojm iluvmojm 26-30, M Mar 31

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    Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage and not to have outside marriage 1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most...
    Sarah4567 Sarah4567 22-25, F 17 Responses Apr 2

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 19

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 20

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    i'm a 20 year old male. i've never had a girlfriend they either have a (dushbag) boyfriend or too young (that was the case back in high school). plus i'm shy i would spend hours...
    voltinfinity voltinfinity 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    I have never fully opened myself up during relationships considered serious at the time. Great women but both have been devastated by my lack of honesty up front, generally...
    Samcayhall Samcayhall 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    We all have them. But what really defines a secret for me is who you share it with. People joke and day if anyone but you knows, it's not really a secret, but to share a secret is...
    mindoftblack mindoftblack 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well... I think a large portion of this community does. Because that's kinda the reason most people join- to, as the EP front page says, "find support from others who understand...
    AZChomp644 AZChomp644 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Does anybody feel like to talk about their secrets? If so just msg whenever you feel like to bring up the secrets from the closed corner of your..I m very good at keeping secrets...
    openheart92 openheart92 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I really hate it when a secret gets out. And i especially hate it when it's me who let it out. My friend told me this secret over some couple of beers and told me that it should...
    phoebegreene phoebegreene 22-25, F Apr 3

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    The kind of secret that you are so ashamed of you just feel u cant tell anyone. Because they will see you in a different light, even if they are your very good friend. Either way...
    dixiecrystal1 dixiecrystal1 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I have never been a person to gossip, or repeat anything or even listen or believe any second hand information. As a child I never told stories about what my siblings did or said...
    aussieguy01 aussieguy01 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I i have a HUGE crush on my best guy friend. He doesnt know and i have liked him forbabout 6 or 7 months.he is best friends with one of my best friends(girl) and i think he likes...
    vampiregymnast vampiregymnast 13-15, F Mar 18

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    My other half is a drug addict I didn't know she was when we started dating now it's two years later and she's worse I feel like she lies and has a secret life on the side for her...
    becks2378 becks2378 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 20