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I Am In a Secret Relationship

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    My dad doesn't know she's actually not Jewish

    cause if he knew he would kill me and prob cancel my phone plan:( were miles apart so the only way we communicate is by skype. Everybody has a problem with her and me being together for there own reasons. One major reason is they think I'm too old for her (I'm 20 she's 16) but...
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M 2 Responses May 26

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    so I work at a daycare,

    and there was always this dad who was a little flirty but I didn't think anything would come from it. he tried to get me and some people from work out once and everyone went but me so I like texted him saying sorry and I owe him. well fast forward like 2 or 3 months to one...
    mm2332 mm2332 22-25, F 3 Responses May 25

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    I Am The Secret Girlfriend.

    About a year ago my boyfriend broke up with me after pressure from his family to end our relationship.  I thought of him every day and, out of pain, became involved with someone else.  He tried to contact me several times and I was very cruel and cold to him. He also...
    annamaebullock annamaebullock 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    What Started Wrong...but Feels Right

    so i am in a secret relationship, and its horrible, im 20 yrs old and i feel like im in highschool again. its horrible.8 months ago i began working at a company w my mom (shes my coworker not my boss, but still higher up then i) first rule of her getting me the position "dont...
    aneeloveperez aneeloveperez 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    So hard, this divorce is tearing me up,

    now after a few meaningless people I've met someone and want to scream happy from the roof tops! I have to stay quiet, my friends, my family I have only shared my my details with one person, very frustrated when I see him in public and have to keep my feelings, my touch all to...
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    A Fling That Turned Into A Thing

    He is my brother in-law's brother.  Which isn't at all the reason it's a secret.  We were trying to be discreet because of our neices and nephews (mine are his step nieces and nephews, and vice versa).  I'm very careful about who I date because of how close I am with the...
    Amilli Amilli 26-30, F Mar 2, 2011

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    Well kinda and kinda not his family knows

    and all my friends know but my family doesn't they would completely freak his family is okay with it because they know how important I am to him he is always depressed when I'm not around he got mad at his mom for making him taking his anti depressants because he couldn't cry...
    CookieMonsta16 CookieMonsta16 18-21, F 1 Response May 25

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    My Friend

    I have a friend that I talk to all the time to here and away from EP but we keep our relationship a secret.  The only persons that know we are friends other than the two of us are our best friends and significant others. I used to meet this friend for coffee/tea back in the day...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Jun 17, 2011

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    Write about your experienceThere are numerous

    older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

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    My Friend´s Girlfriend Is Now My Girlfriend :-s

    I know how it sounds, but please let me explain... Since the first day of college, I saw this pretty girl that caught my eye, she was so beautiful, she was exactly the type of girl that I like. By then I was 18 years old, too inexperienced and shy to make a move on her.. ...
    24hu8xqzms 24hu8xqzms 18-21 1 Response May 26, 2010

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    My boyfriend and I dated

    for 19 months before he broke up with me and his dad and step mom told me to stay away. We took a break for a couple months and he came back to me asking for a chance to prove he's changed. I decided to give him that chance, but we have to keep our relationship secret because...
    OneMoreBrokenSoul OneMoreBrokenSoul 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Yeah

    Not be retarded, but I am in a secret relationship with my self!
    123ct 123ct 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I'm Not Alone. Or Am I?

    The worst part is not being able to show him off. My friends all say "Why don't you date? You're beautiful and awesome, I can't believe you don't have a boyfriend. Let me set you up." And they don't understand why I say no or why I never have a guy on my arm or respond to...
    0rph1a 0rph1a 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2013

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    Write about your experienceThere are numerous

    older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

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    I Have To Be Honest Because I Think There Is A Solution That We All Refuse To Admit!

    Quickly, how do I meet people on skype? This shouldn't take long to say. In the past there was always someone to give the bride away. Now this is just tradition, but the natural one to give the bride away was the father and now this is no longer the case. Why was it the father's...
    Realove4u Realove4u 46-50, M May 18, 2013

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    Our relationship was strictly physical.

    We promised that our "relationship" wouldn't be more than this, but the truth is, the only reason we started this "friends with benefits" arrangement was because we both knew that we had feelings for each other... Now I can't stop thinking about him, and he can't stop thinking...
    triplemix triplemix 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    Am I Seriously Doing This?

    I have been friends with this guy for like four years, he used to be really out of shape and had this crazy shaggy hair and he was kind of a loser but we were still friends. At some point last year he cut all his hair off and got really in shape and dang is he fine. He really...
    Layla777 Layla777 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    On cloud 9 today, had a night out with him,

    he always makes me smile, blush when I normally wouldn't. Smiling big after a good night! Thankful for good moments in my stressful dayz!!
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    I've met my first and current girlfriend back

    in high school, 5 years ago. We are now about to finish university, but I've never met her parents nor have I been to her home. The majority of my family thinks it is a stupid and dangerous relationship. They say that her parents will be very angry to find out that their...
    AlexeiZ AlexeiZ 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Me and my senior, my first kiss,

    the first person who I let in completely, the guy who encouraged my spiteful side and turned me a little bit mean, the boy who's either going to be a politician or blow up a school, the sociopath who cares so deeply for select few. We split up. I really should be upset, but I...
    PaigetheBook PaigetheBook 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    Probably Just A Booty Call

    Almost every relationship im in always start out with the words "Lets just keep this between us for awhile, k?" Of course i agree, but it gets on my nerves sneaking out of class and making up excuses for where i was. One boy, i thought we were close to going public, but...
    neversweet neversweet 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2009

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    Me and this guy have been together

    for three months now, he doesn't want anyone to know that we're together & having sex. The only people we've told are close friends, so it's almost as if it's not a real relationship, yet were supposed to be "exclusive"
    sierramay sierramay 13-15, F 1 Response May 25

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    I m very sad because I know he's leaving the

    city and he only sees me as a fling. I wish I would find someone better soon but I know it's hard because he's sooo perfect ... Except he's a little too cold. I m hiding my feelings because I don't want my intensity to scare him away. I really should move on but his image is...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F 4 Responses May 25

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    Christian

    I must have a Christian boyfriend, and the guy I'm with is getting close to converting, but not 100% there yet.  He's sad I can't tell my parents about him and that I'm so secretive about it, but the fact is, they'd kill me.  =(
    DramaMagnet DramaMagnet 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    My Friend

    I have a secret friendship with a man who is not my husband. I think this is an emotional affair, but I’m not really sure. I don’t think this friendship will progress to anything more than what it is now, which is good. We talk about lots of things. He is unlike anyone I’ve...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    A Letter To My Lover

    I am torn between feeling guilty about lying and knowing that there really was no other option if we wanted to be together. We met on the internet playing a game 9 years ago, when we were both just kids. We stayed in touch, basically becoming pen pals over nearly a decade. God...
    autumnlily autumnlily 22-25, F Apr 9, 2013

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    Secret Realtionship In Every Sence

    im unoffically and secretly with this guy he just makes me so happy and we get along very well, some of my friends dont like him - but i generally get along with his friends.. we have been super close friends for a couple years now but only in the sence of we talk EVERYDAY...
    musicoreo musicoreo 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2011

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    USA And UK

    I'm in a secret relationship we met actually on here and we Skype as much as we can but there's one problem he's 3 years older than me and lives in the UK and I'm in the USA my mom found out about us and said we couldn't be together but then we started talking again 3 months...
    Eevee99 Eevee99 13-15, F Apr 18, 2013

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    I am kept in places out of sight,

    Dark places where the mind wanders Forbidden to speak of I am hidden in lost messages Of love and lust and longing Shared between only us And nobody else I am tucked away in silence Scheduled into breaks and pauses Allowed only to speak Once spoken to I am left in...
    annalea annalea 22-25, F 16 Responses Feb 13

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    Write about your experienceThere are numerous

    older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

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    To my senior, I'm nothing

    but a character in his fantasy, a pawn willing to be manipulated during the course of the game he plays, and a child that he wants to protect. To me, he is...he is a good friend of mine, he is a big brother figure, he is someone who will stay up in the late hours of the night...
    PaigetheBook PaigetheBook 16-17, F 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Write about your experienceThere are numerous

    older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

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    Life Changed In A Second!

    So I guess the background is important here. I was in a realtionship with my best friend for about a year and we were very in love. He was a soldier and I was waiting paciently at home for him. The plan was that once he got his duty station i would move with my daughter and be...
    reyem reyem 18-21, F 1 Response May 30, 2011

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    She Couldn't Be Any Farther.

     At this point there is too much to hide. I have a girlfriend (secret). She's in Australia (secret). I've never met her in person (secret). I met her online (secret). Everything about our relationship has to stay a secret because every bit of it is taboo. In addition, she's...
    recognizeXreflection recognizeXreflection 16-17, F Apr 23, 2008

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    Are You Living A Double Life?

    MTV is NOW CASTING! Do you lead a double life? We’re looking for extreme here (i.e. accountant all week and racecar driver on weekends), so actors trying to make ends meet need not apply. Or maybe you work (and look like you belong) in a world of luxury, but your home is the...
    NandD NandD 18-21 Feb 3, 2011

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    South Asian Mixed Relationship

    My girlfriend is of South Asian (Indian) heritage although she has always lived in the UK.   Her parents would not accept our relationship as I am not Indian, I am white. So we have been going out for 2 years without telling her family.
    mixtogether mixtogether 26-30 1 Response Apr 22, 2008

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    He doesn't want to hurt his ex.

    I understand that. I just hope that I don't end up accidentally saying something, accidentally betraying the secret of us. I don't want her finding out. I don't want her hurting because of me.
    PaigetheBook PaigetheBook 16-17, F 1 Response May 6, 2014

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    I just broke up with my bf few months ago

    and I am bi. Im now in a secret relationship with a girl i had liked before in HS. Im 19 she's 17 and we both know our family are against this thing. They don't even know I am Bi. We are in a long distance relationship right now though its quite tough we still able to manage...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I'm secretly dating this guy,

    or not dating kind of. I broke up with his best friend and we had to hide because his best friend was really hurt about the breakup. He feels so guilty about it that we tend to take breaks where we don't talk for a while. Those parts are the worst, because it kills me when we...
    Synthesiate Synthesiate 18-21, M Jan 25

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    I'm in secret relationship with my best friend.

    We've been lovers since we were 19 and friends since 16. We are both now 24. In the beginning the secret part was fun, exciting, and different, now that I'm older I want more. I don't want him to change his personality, or lose any of his masculine traits. We broke all the rules...
    myke757 myke757 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 10, 2014

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    Are you in a relationship

    that you are forced to hide from the people around you? Does your family not approve of your partner, but you still continue to date them in secret? Are you in love with a colleague, but can't share it with anyone, not even your best friend, because of a work policy against...
    gigantictv gigantictv 18-21 Aug 27, 2014

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    Secret Relationship Is Just Like A Slow Poison.

    Hi there fellas, i fell in love with a lady who is 51 now but when i met her she was 48 years old having two kids. She was living with her husband though separated. We fell in deep love by time. Since then our relationship is a secret but sometimes it just hurt like anything and...
    saltish143 saltish143 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Family Vs Girlfriend

    Me and my girlfriend's relationship is unapproved by both our families. Different race, different culture and background, different religion and belief... We don't really have anything in common; We both loves entertainment, but I love games and she love animes. Both of us loves...
    Nelangsa Nelangsa 22-25, T 1 Response Aug 24, 2013

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    I am a fairly new college professor (on my

    second semester teaching). I met this student who instantly became one of my favorite students because she always participates in my class and sits in front. She started going to my office after class to ask for academic advice or just to hangout with me. We started getting...
    yoojp yoojp 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    kidrauhlciara16 kidrauhlciara16 18-21, F 2 Responses May 25

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    Well kinda, kinda not in a secret relationship.

    it's hard to explain. I wish I could say it all but it would last a lifetime. Me and this boy, Andrew, Started dating September 22, 2014. I thought he was the one for me. We were open about fating then, My uncle was the one who got us together. My uncle is Andrews and his 3...
    IlyAAfaa IlyAAfaa 13-15, F 1 Response May 26

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