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I Am In A Successful Ds Relationship

This is a group for individuals who are currently in a working Dominant/submissive relationship either physically or online 334 People

    Ink And Skin

    My sub and I recently took the vantage of marking ourselves for life...his and her tattoos, mine a kanji for "Master" hers "Slave" and albeit somewhat discreet, it makes us happy that we have these outward signs of our inner selves.
    GuitarMedic GuitarMedic
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2011

    Advice For New Gay D??

    I am new to the whole D/s relationship.  I am a gay male who is thinking about entering this relationship with another submissive male.  This desire in both of us was kind of discovered "accidentally".  We met on an online site and started talking a little about this sort of...
    ksm2123 ksm2123
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2011

    The Best Kind Of Relationship

    Me and my wife have been married for 4 years now, it started out just in the bedroom but recently she told Me she craves more, total servitude, so being the nice guy that I am I agreed, she now serves Me in a 24/7 relationship and it has made our relationship even stronger. We...
    pokerplayer1985 pokerplayer1985
    26-30, M
    Aug 14, 2012

    Evolving From Vanila To Ds Relationship

    Although I've always been curious about the stories I heard from some friends about their DS relationships, I never imagined myself being attracted to a passive woman, nor could imagine myself in a passive role. As a result I would seek out relationships with strong willed women...
    dson dson
    26-30, M
    3 Responses May 13, 2011

    It's Getting To Be A Ltr

    My sub and I met online, and then in person.  She was very new to the Lifestyle but eager to learn.  I slowed her down, calmed the frenzy, and then we started to explore the various paths to the joys of our D/s relationship.  It's been a great addition to both of our lives.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 19, 2012

    Looking - Suggestions?

    I am interested in becoming a sub to an experienced Dom for a sincere relationship (live in Chicago) but have no idea how to start looking -suggestions? (early 30s, cute, few extra lbs, good career) I'll check back here for ideas - Thanks!
    Merin3 Merin3
    1 Response Jan 16, 2012

    Guiding Lights.....

    These are some principles that I have developed over time. These are how I see things and by no means are meant to be another list of demands by a raving madman who thinks himself a Dom or Master. They are how I see the world in which I live..... I firmly believe in living a...
    mastrmind mastrmind
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 24, 2012

    Fantasy Realized

    I hear him outside the door of our "Play Dungeon" he's preparing our lovely playmate Shiver runs down my naked body I've been strapped up, blindfolded kept waiting My Man is giving me a treat of love, appreciation and accomplishment I've done good he said, a good...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    Sep 28, 2011

    Unconventional Happiness

    I met Alex at a ********/swingers party in a town an hour away in December 2012. I say "met", but in reality, we just saw each other across the room and smiled, and then went about our business. The next day I was in my hometown, at the grocery store. It was a busy Sunday...
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2013

    Loving My Place

    I am my husbands slave. I am completely obedient and subserviaent to him. I accept his dominion over me as his right and duty. I accept my place as a woman is to be the property of a man.  I have belonged to him for six years and during those years he has nurtured my...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 30, 2010

    Daddy & Babygirl

    We are in a D/s relationship.  He is the D and I am the s.  He is Daddy and I am BabyGirl, but we do not engage in age play.  These are terms of endearment.  This is a relationship dynamic where he is the leader and my dominant and caregiver.  I am his...
    darkscarlett darkscarlett
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 10, 2010

    Why She Wants To Be Submissive

    In my conversations with submissive women, one thing stands out prominently and that is very very few men realize the importance that submission holds for her. It is far more than a physical experience, it is an emotional connection with you so meaningful that it contains her...
    irishdom69 irishdom69
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Apr 29, 2010

    If I Don't Obey I Must Pay

    I am usually a very good submissive wife. I get my fair share of beatings (usually deserved) but I learn from them and try harder. Obedience is something my husband (daddy) insists on and I am mostly good at it. Then this happened... The other day I lost my wedding ring. This...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 18, 2012

    Our First Fetish Party

    it was Monday night and after dropping the kids off at mums went home to get ready. not knowing what to expect Sir decided on my nice short black pleated skirt stockings and my gorgeous corset. i was very nervous as i have never worn anything so revealing so i was allowed to wear...
    sublucy sublucy
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 6, 2012

    Seeker Of Wholeness

    Greetings, I was recently guided to fetlife and from there to this enlightening community of fellow seekers. I as so new to the world of kinksters that I have to look up every abbreviation and wikipedia is constantly open and active. I am a switch (now I know there's a word for...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    1 Response May 17, 2010

    I Am His Completely...mind, Body, & Soul

    I met Sir online in a 3D social gaming platform. We started off as friends just spending time together talking. We discovered we had a lot in common and shared many of the same struggles in our real lives. Our online time together was an escape from reality. It was a time where...
    Hissweetgirl528 Hissweetgirl528
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2012

    The Beauty Of Bdsm D/s

    Untill recent years I was unable to successfully come to grips with my sadomaschistic desires and was confused and unhappy to say the least. However, a series of events were to take place and forever change my life. I had a mental epiphany of sorts and what soon followed was the...
    UltraHighMonarch UltraHighMonarch
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 18, 2011

    An Exploration Of The D/s Relationship By A Female Historian

    The existence of D/s relationships as a lifestyle, one that is acted out 24 hours a day, came as a complete shock to my system when I came across it a little less than a year ago. I came upon an article about it online, quite by accident, while researching information on...
    leylaelizabeth leylaelizabeth
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Nov 9, 2011

    Just A Horny Bi Man

    Im 22 and have been going steady with a girl for about a year now and things are getting kind of serious but im not sure about it. See about two years ago I didn't have anywhere to go so was crashing at my best friends house for the night. When i showed up he was pretty buzzed...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 7, 2011


    …is a relationship between two people in which each person is dependent upon and receives reinforcement from the other. The symbiotic relationship that is formed in most romantic relationships is acknowledge and even celebrated as an indication of maturity and stability...
    herMaitre herMaitre
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Aug 26, 2010

    The New Kid

    I recently turned 18, and I am looking for some answers. I devoured the 50 Shades trilogy, and it got me interested in the world of BDSM and D/s relationships. I've heard that the books barely scratch the surface of what really happens, so I started doing a little research. I...
    curiositykillscats curiositykillscats
    Jul 8, 2013

    We are deeply in love.

    He makes me feel like a princess, and he is my king. We talk, we laugh, we have passion, we figure things out, we work on the relationship together, we hold each other tight, we plan our future, we work through any issues, we love without limit. He just....gets me. He knows...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 31, 2015

    Words Of Waiting...

    Wondering if words will bring you to me expressing the yearning the longing the certainty of knowing that you are out there waiting for me Yearning for your touch, your presence, your present Longing for you, longing to be fully me Knowing that you will know instantly that I am...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    1 Response May 14, 2011

    A Successful D/s Relationship :)

    I met my Dom on a chat site, and started asking him questions concerning the Lifestyle. We clicked instantly and He had me become His sub. He treats me so well, I've never been happier before. We both work hard to make sure the relationship works in a healthy way, and care about...
    ryebug1 ryebug1
    Jun 13, 2011

    Kinky Secrets

    I'm hopelessly addicted to the website I never miss reading the Sunday's Secrets on Monday. I read one today that just had me absolutely baffled. It was along the lines of "reading the book 50 Shades of Grey destroyed my sex life". That's...
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2013


    I believe that a selective Dom must look for a very long time for just the right type of submissive. I have been called a Romantic in the past, known for wearing a velvet glove as much as a leather one. I had just about given up hope when I ran into Lovelybound, almost by...
    Leatherheart Leatherheart
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Jan 30, 2010

    Domination And Submissive Bonds

    My Master and myself have been together for over a year now. Before that, we were great friends. Master and i are currently going through a slight transition or 'improvement', if you'd like. Being a 24/7 submissive servant has been the best learning experience for me, and has...
    BitterSweetTruth BitterSweetTruth
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 27, 2012

    I Am....

    My slave (ownedbiMC) and I share as close to perfect of a relationship that we are allowed to share in this world of small minded social taboo's. We are a 24/7 couple and she willingly has yeilded to me all she is and wants to be. We are quickly approaching our third year...
    mastrmind mastrmind
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    Finding My Release, First D/s Relationship

    I have been with my boyfriend (dominant) for just shy of seven months now, and I have never been happier or more comfortable in my life. This man and I went to high school together, we were good friends, and at the end of our senior year I asked him out. From there an amazing...
    MissHeater17 MissHeater17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2012

    Not A Game

    I swear that some people think that D/s is just a big game. Ugh it aggravates me. Whether it's an in person on online relationship it is still very serious. You can't just become a slave/sub on day and than not the next but then become one again the next time. When you decided to...
    YourLittleAngel YourLittleAngel
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jun 4, 2012

    Moving Forward

    I have met the perfect man. I may be young, and this relationship is only 7months old (as of today ;) ) but I really and truly feel this!! I told him full out what a submissive means and how the relationship can, if he is willing, alter slightly. He just nodded and afterwards...
    MissHeater17 MissHeater17
    18-21, F
    Nov 26, 2012

    Young, And Looking For Help

    Hey all, My Girlfriend and I are in a D/S relationship. Me as the Master, and her as the pet. We are both still young though, (Don't worry still adults). I was wondering what kind of tips or advice you more experienced Masters would have as far as training and D/S play goes...
    Jayman333 Jayman333
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2012

    Oh If Only....

    Oh if only I could feel your fingers brushing ever so lightly over my nipples feeling how they respond as if a light breeze has gently kissed each one under a bright blue sky transforming them into deliciously tempting dark red cherries Oh if only I could feel your sweet lips...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    Nov 12, 2011

    Dominance / Submission As A Lifstyle From 1977 To 1980

    I was gently introduced to D/s when I was only 17 yo by the most gentle, wise, warm and giving man. Our relationship slowly evolved into a 24/7 D/s marrige. This abruptly ended with his untimely death in a car crash This he wrote to me a looong time ago and I still cherish his...
    Purple0Sky Purple0Sky
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

    My beautiful wife and Mistress have decided to

    start our pages on here looking for friends and networking. I am 40 bi m who loves to be humiliated and made to dress up by my wife and suck **** and want to get ******. I would love to see my wifes sweet ***** ****** by a fat **** since I have such a small sissy...
    hersissycuck hersissycuck
    41-45, M
    Dec 8, 2013

    My First Public Spanking

    This Friday we attended our second fetish event. What a fantastic time we had. We met lots of weird and wonderful people. We had a play with a violet wand which I loved and have added one to my Christmas list! We had a few drinks and socialised for a while before I was attached...
    sublucy sublucy
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 28, 2012

    My Sir writes to me on this day.

    ... I have indeed taken ownership of you, but it also requires communication to include requests from both parties. You are responsible to learn my needs, as well as I am obligated to find a balance that's meets both of our needs in and out of the bedroom.
    Shawnownsme Shawnownsme
    51-55, F
    Sep 19, 2014
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