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I Am In a Taken In Hand Relationship

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    Can anyone else relate to how I'm feeling? My husband hasn't spanked me in over 3 weeks. After about a week I started feeling like I needed it. But my sister was staying with us so...
    mmoore036 mmoore036 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Forgetfulness Ends In Discipline - I got spanked again tonight and as I write, I am sitting here with my bottom still tingling, so I  thought I would share this time. Tomorrow...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 2, 2011

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    Bad Attitude - A couple of weeks ago I got married. As a result my new wife needed to go down to London to renew her australian passport as name changes have to be done in person...
    cptenna02 cptenna02 31-35, M 9 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    His Parents - My husbands parents were visiting us for a whole week. One night during dinner, I disrespected my husband and started arguing with him about an issue we had been...
    spankedhousewife spankedhousewife 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    He Takes Me In Hand - The last time I was rude to my h2b, I raised my voice and did not listen to him when he told me to change my attitude. He sent me to the bedroom, where I had...
    mearamar mearamar 26-30 12 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    My husband told me to post this. He would like all the submissive women and Dom men's opinion on this. He believes that when I continue to act out, that it is foreplay for me. I...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 20

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    The Challenge - You say the man is the boss. You say you are submissive sexually. I have the ultimate challenge. My wife and I had this conversation a few years ago. I sat her down...
    ice4u ice4u 36-40, M 28 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    Attitude Re-Set. - Tuesday evening I was feeling out of his control, like a flying kite where someone has dropped the string, I was fluttering to the ground. We had a lovely...
    kayemkay kayemkay 41-45, F 11 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    Spanked Because Of Jehovah's Witnesses - So yes I got another spanking again yesterday. I don't share every spanking I get (there would be no room for anyone else to share lol) but...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    Proud Through The Chaos - The past few weeks of my life have been so stressful, fast paced and extremely trying. There are so many changes happening at one time, I've kind of lost...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    Sort of. What I mean is, he spanks me, but not for discipline. I guess it would fall under the "maintenance spanking" category. He does it because he knows I enjoy it. And it's not...
    Rebel2256 Rebel2256 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    First Punishment Spanking - So, I blew it yesterday. My MIL came over to pick up my nieces I was watching.  I did ok with the kids, but when she was there, I went on EP.  NOT...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    So I have decided to start blogging about me and my hoh/ master/ sir/ honey :) We are in a very wonderful and loving dd relationship. I am his 24/7 and he has collared me. Well...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    My Transformation - My HOH and I will celebrate our 24th wedding anniversary in June.  We met at a very young age and dated until we turned 21 and married.  I would...
    ForestFaery ForestFaery 41-45, F 16 Responses May 27, 2010

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    Wife Tantrum Ii - So, after kids felt asleep, he came over and sighed... I started talking. I told him everything that upsets me regarding his mom. He told me that I have to sit...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    A Morning In My Life - I can't wake up. I hear the distant sound of the alarm.... Oh ****! This week seems to last forever. I close my eyes tight as I hear you, rushing around the...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    Im in so much trouble. Most know I'm not a real submissive. In my first marriage I made all decisions about family, financial, house rules, My late husband was a workaholic there...
    trudypitudy trudypitudy 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Did You Say Thank You For Spanking Me? - A Hard and Thankless Task Has any woman ever wondered how hard her HOH’s job really is? Being the head and leader of the family can be a...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 34 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    We Are Working On Beginning A Taken In Hand Relaationship - I am 19 years old and a sophomore in college. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and we are deeply...
    manda8888 manda8888 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 13, 2010

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    I Am Submissive But Not a Slave - My soon to be husband  (he is I raq)  and I met online and it was instant sexual and emotional connection the first date, In fact at the...
    themajorswoman themajorswoman 41-45 4 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    He's Not Supposed To Be Superman.... But, He Is Super! - I'm relatively new to the whole TiH..DD relationship. In fact I'm pretty proud that I at least know what 'TiH AND DD' stand...
    MatildaEve MatildaEve 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    3:00 Am - Last night I felt asleep early but I woke up at 3 am with an odd feeling. As I opened my eyes I noticed the lights were still on. I turned around and found my husband...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female that wants to be taken in hand relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl . I am a single white male age 58 searching for an open...
    thisthatcurious thisthatcurious 56-60 Dec 3, 2013

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    Hey everyone I just added some people. I'm the HOH of silencedshy. I've heard ams seem they're are a lie of changes in EP over the last year. I understand some of the people I...
    mike82779 mike82779 31-35, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Creating A Structured Dd Contract - When we set out on the journey of becoming taken in hand we had a lot of long heart to hearts and as time has gone on, we have become more...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Waiting for it I really hate when you know you are in so much trouble and have to wait on it. I had a day yesterday that was really bad. He knew somehow that I was in "that...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    How Hard Does Your Spanking Need To Be? - First some clarifications: I realize that people's tolerance levels are vastly different and even vary from day to day for the same...
    Tushy Tushy 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Its been a long week i quit smoking about 2 months ago .I started a new job this week and i also start school this week . Well little sleep and stress I have not been in the best...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    All my life, I've liked being a submissive person. I always listened to my parents, and loved the attention I got from being a good obedient daughter. It was no surprise that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Spanked Against My Will - Last night I knew I was in trouble, since the incident I had at the police station. That brought me to my full bitchy mode all afternoon. He told me to go...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    I have a question I could use some help on. If your hoh said that 5 loads of laundry need to be completed. Is punishment needed for each load not done or just for the choir as a...
    mike82779 mike82779 31-35, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    So does anyone else have to keep a journal? R is insisting on it daily. Grrrrrr
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    As I have mentioned in one of my previous blogs, I am pretty new to the TPE/DS lifestyle. On the other hand, my Brat was very well trained (many years ago), but still knows all...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    I Gave Up To Soon! - A few days after I wrote my last story, I said something that made my husband madder than I have ever seen him. Even hurt him deeply. I knew I was in trouble...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    You say brat like its a bad thing.. I wanted to take a minute to explain what I consider a brat. I personally do not think of it as a bad thing, and I know that some do. I think...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    Need To Be Taken In Hand - I'm not married but need to be in a taken in hand relationship, I don't have to be the only "wife" just as long as the discipline is there and punishment...
    axiomaz axiomaz 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    I couldn't be in a TIH relationship with anyone but him. He is the only one who deserves that much authority over me and freedom with me. He is so kind, gentle, loving, adoring...
    iwantdreadlocks iwantdreadlocks 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I haven't posted on here for a few days. Right now I am sitting down on a very sore reminder that I am not the one in charge in this relationship. It is so difficult sometimes for...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Happily Taken In Hand - My husband and I have been in a TiH relationship since we were married two years ago. This has just always been what suited us best. I am naturally...
    sweetsubmissivewife sweetsubmissivewife 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    Tonight I am going to get my first maintenance spanking. We started DD/TIH about 6 months ago and we are really benefitting from it. We decided a few days ago to revise how we use...
    Obedient28 Obedient28 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I have not be spanked in some time. I have been thinking all day about asking for one. Now he has agreed that I do not have to ask because getting the courage up to ask is hard for...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Question about bruising. I have never been an easy bruiser but I always bruise bad when I'm spanked. I don't want to stop the spankings either. I have 2 different questions about...
    mmoore036 mmoore036 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I don't know how to deal with spanking. I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me too. He only spanks me when I'm really rude or do something deliberate. I usually follow the...
    fireflylily fireflylily 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    On Being Rude - My Husband and I went to StarB yesterday, and for some reason (I was moody) I didn't thank the cashier when she gave me my drink, and I didn't reply when she said...
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    This story is an "assignment" Ok, you got the idea... So here it goes: I sometimes have trouble to listen to my husband. Especially if I sense his talking as a criticism. That is...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 2

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    At Least I Think I Am... - Something is different about us as a couple...compared to our friends and other people we know. We are madly in love with each other, we make decisions...
    rainbowbunny85 rainbowbunny85 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    Another reminder. I need constant reminder of DD. It just works better for me. Just being good doesn't cut it. I have asked my husband of He would like me too call him anything...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    What My Hoh Gets In Exchange For All His Hard Work With Me - What Does the HoH get out of our relationship? The question has been asked before, what do men possibly get out of a...
    brokentoy2011 brokentoy2011 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I'am taken in hand, my Hoh and I have been living this way happily for several months now, we've really come far from when we started, one thing this has taught us is communication...
    Flick86 Flick86 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 12

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    Trying so hard to be good today. Some days it's so hard to be good and stay out of trouble.
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F Jan 21

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    Dealing with OCD and TIH I must say it has calmed me a lot. I have not been diagnosed by a doctor. I fear they will want to lock me up or put me on meds. I have struggled for a...