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I Am In A Very Happy Domestic Discipline Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 439 People

    A Good Old Fashioned Spanking At The Hand Of Their Husband Is What Most Women Need

    My husband and I have been married for just over 10 years. I was never spanked as a child but remember being threatened with spanking a couple of times. The treat was enough for me to moderate my behavior. I am a glorious, enthusiastic woman, in some ways a of a handful. That is...
    catkin99 catkin99 36-40 7 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Getting Better!!!

    As you know my husband has had to spank me a lot more than.normal lately... I got a new third shift job and have been.very disrespectful to him ... he belted me last week and I swear I have never felt that much pain. He made me stand.for this one and after 50 hard hits with that...
    tinkkris tinkkris 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    Naked Spanking

    whenever i am rude or disrespectful or bad my husband gives me a choice of two punishments and if i haven't decided two minutes later i will receive both punishments yesterday we were having a party and he told me to pop to the shop and buy some drinks and i said do it yourself...
    esulli esulli 26-30 2 Responses May 4, 2013

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    I Wish!

    I wish this were the situ. 4 me, but it's not. :( I "join" some groups not necessarily b/c I literally share a given experience, but often b/c I believe I'd want 2 be experiencing/living it.
    subservientwife subservientwife 46-50 Jul 31, 2013

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    Punished

    today i got a big attitude with my husband first he paddled me on my bear butt after he paddled mehe told menot todispespect him again but stupid me didnt listen andgot paddled again then he caught me lying to him and he made mebend over and pull my pants and underwear down and...
    mary211990 mary211990 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    Lying Hurts

    I cried. I cried a lot! The punishment hurt but the look of disappointment on his face right before I was pulled acrossed his lap was what really got to me. I really hurt him. I lied. I don't even know why. When he asked if my ex had contacted me I told him no... it was a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    'funny' Spanking Stories... Come On, You Know You Have Some

    So as serious as domestic discipline is, let's share 'bloopers' or some rather amusing anecdotes that may have happened in the past. I have two... Last week, I was in HUGE trouble. My fil was over and hubby wanted to wait until everyone was asleep, so he took me out on a mini...
    Tihtil Tihtil 36-40, F 10 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    It Works For Us

    I am a very ornery and spirited girl, to say the least. One day, after being married for about a year I was having a very ornery day. It was all in good spirits but I started picking on my husband a little. Then it happened, I said something way over the line. By the look on his...
    texasgrrrl texasgrrrl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    Is It Dangerous?

    I'm new to dd and I've been looking up alot of information on it but my question is, is it dangerous? How possible is it to rupture a kidney or something like that?
    Mnr22 Mnr22 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    So... How did you come to this relationship?

    Who's 'idea' was it... Or an idea at all? I'm curious on the men's take on this as well. How do you notice a difference in your wife when you discipline? How do you do so? Ladies... How des it make you feel? I know I wouldn't have it any other way, myself. ❤️
    Tihtil Tihtil 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    Marriage Saved

    It was a second marriage for both of us. We quickly found out that both of us enjoyed having me be sexually submissive in the bedroom. But later it evolved and I find that I'm happy and secure being disciplined by my husband.
    Morghana Morghana 51-55, F May 6, 2013

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    Happy Ever After

    my husband and I have been married for almost 7 years.  He is HOH and I do my best to follow him.  He does his best to be worthy of that submission.  We have had a DD relationship from the beginning.  We have a very loving respectful relationship and never seem to fight.  It...
    ladygwen67 ladygwen67 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2012

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    Maintenance Spanking Today

    It has been months since my last spanking. Today I was told to get all the tools out and wait on the bed. I did He came in the room looked everything over. I had the whip, belt. Strap, and riding crop all out. He slides a blindfold over my eyes. Led me over to stand at the end...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    I've been gone for a while

    and would like to tell you about what's been going on. As many of you know, I believe in this lifestyle. I love this lifestyle and chose it because I couldn't stand my old nagging self and saw what it was doing to my Jack who I love with all my heart. Now I love him even more...
    JackAndJillDD JackAndJillDD 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I have been through a lot of changes lately .

    My entire family has .So much has happen over the mast month . With a bad Dr that caused a med mess up on me .My husband has been trying to work and care for me and the kids . The kids sports have started. I am going back to school .Hopefule starting Friday . I am also looking...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F Feb 26

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    My sweet sir... Feeling very blessed!

    Many of you know we have been practicing this for the better part of this year, but the last few months we have taken our dd relationship to a much more intense level. I just want to say how it's been so worth it. I am so incredibly happy and content. I'm finding that we are...
    Tihtil Tihtil 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    New To The Scene.

    Hello everyone. So I've recently learned about domestic discipline after doing a search to read about dominant/submissive relationships. My long-term boyfriend whom I live with is very masculine and dominant while I am very feminine and submissive. I crave to be dominated and our...
    momobaby momobaby 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    Asking For It.

    Just the other day my husband and I were out at a restaurant having dinner. I had been in a horrible mood the whole day, and I was still being bratty while we were having our dinner. My husband kept telling me, you need to adjust your attitude before I have to do it for you. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    The Belt

    My husband has me keep a journal of all the times I get punished in a month. It includes why i did what i did, why i am sorry, and sometimes writing thati will not commit a certain offence over and over. Normally my punishments are painful spankings with his hand or a paddle. But...
    tinkkris tinkkris 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2013

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    I have been through a lot of changes lately .

    My entire family has .So much has happen over the mast month . With a bad Dr that caused a med mess up on me .My husband has been trying to work and care for me and the kids . The kids sports have started. I am going back to school .Hopefule starting Friday . I am also looking...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F Feb 26

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    Support From You All

    Just let me start by saying that this is my favorite group because its nice to know when things get tough that I'm not alone in my struggles to be an obedient wifey and respectful to my husband. I am young and make a lot of mistakes. Ivy been spanked 3 times this week and this...
    tinkkris tinkkris 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    Punishments Other Than Spanking

    My husband and I have found that my obedience improves if spankings are accompanied by other forms of punishment. These usually have a strong element of humiliation and this is the thing that really makes me learn my place and strive to please him at every opportunity. I hope...
    holly1977 holly1977 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    In A Loving, Secure Marriage That Involves Some Discipline

    My husband and I have been married for three years now. We are best friends, in love and I am so happy to married to a wonderful man. We discussed two weeks before our wedding about rules and guidelines in our marriage. We bought a book about Christian domestic discipline and a...
    Latinabeauty97 Latinabeauty97 22-25, F 4 Responses May 21, 2012

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    I have been through a lot of changes lately .

    My entire family has .So much has happen over the mast month . With a bad Dr that caused a med mess up on me .My husband has been trying to work and care for me and the kids . The kids sports have started. I am going back to school .Hopefule starting Friday . I am also looking...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    I Wish!

    I wish this were the situ. 4 me, but it's not. :( I "join" some groups not necessarily b/c I literally share a given experience, but often b/c I believe I'd want 2 be experiencing/living it.
    subservientwife subservientwife 46-50 2 Responses Jul 31, 2013

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    My Blog!

    Hello all! I have started a blog about domestic discipline. For those of you who like to read those, here's the link. I'd appreciate it so much if you were my first viewers! Thank-you! http://thejourneyofdomesticdiscipline.blogspot.ca/
    Cocobonbon97 Cocobonbon97 22-25, F Jul 4, 2013

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    Want To Be Disciplined By Husband

    hello group, i have been reading the stories on here and i have tried in the past to get my husband to help me with discipline and it never worked out. it just seems like its too much work for him. i am a big time control freak and very demanding about everything and i wanted...
    disciplineme2265 disciplineme2265 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2013

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    Last Night

    I decided to tell my husband that he doesn't take care of me like he should. This injured him because he works ten to twelve hours a day to take care of me and keep me happy. He was so hurt. So I got the belt He hit harder than normal and left a bruise on my bare bottom that...
    tinkkris tinkkris 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    About Us

    My husband and I have been married 11 years. It is out second marriage. We were both active Christians and became more involved once e married with church and Bible studies. It was one afternoon that I was in just a really cranky mood and was very disrespectful to my spouse...
    bent4him bent4him 51-55, F 14 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    A Painful Spanking.

    Last night I had my first real punishment and the most painful spanking I have had since I started DD recently. My HoH was out of town all day/night visiting a friend who is getting married. I was very sad and lonely as we are never apart for that long and I was sad not to sleep...
    momobaby momobaby 26-30, F 1 Response May 20, 2013

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    I Guess I Have More Questions Than Stories :)

    First my husband(hoh) told me along time ago that we werent to discuss our life style with other people, he said no one else would understand. Its is so nice to find a group of people who live this way I thought we were the only ones :) My questions are why or what are your...
    RICCILYNN RICCILYNN 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    Thoughts?

    I was recently reading a blog where the HoH explained his definitions of what domestic discipline was and included, and what it did not. I agreed with a good majority of what he wrote, and thoroughly enjoyed the remainder of the blog, however there were a few things that I...
    XoTheLadyXo XoTheLadyXo 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2013

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    I'm pretty well trained now

    so she rarely needs to have me over her knee. I do dread the day the credit card statement comes. Kind of like bringing home a report card saying I misbehaved and didn't pay attention when I was a kid
    bobbyxqy bobbyxqy 36-40, M May 8

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    I have been through a lot of changes lately .

    My entire family has .So much has happen over the mast month . With a bad Dr that caused a med mess up on me .My husband has been trying to work and care for me and the kids . The kids sports have started. I am going back to school .Hopefule starting Friday . I am also looking...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Here's My Story

    My husband and I are young. We've been together 3 years and have been married over a year. We got pregnant got married and were thrown together very fast. I will say we were looking at engagement rings before I got pregnant so pregnancy wasn't the only reason we got married it...
    Mnr22 Mnr22 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    As I have mentioned in one of my previous blogs,

    I am pretty new to the TPE/DS lifestyle. On the other hand, my Brat was very well trained (many years ago), but still knows all too well the do’s and do not’s of TPE. Please don’t misunderstand, I love everything about her and cherish her like none other, but she is very...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO 46-50, M Jan 22

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    With Her White Skirt!

    It was a truly accidental thing. With her white skirt tucked in and green panties at her knees she was stretched over my lap as I slapped her bottom. Giving it a long spanking seemed to make sense so I did it. She moaned. She groaned and she most definitely wiggled. So I smacked...
    Lomaz Lomaz 61-65, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2012

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    I have been through a lot of changes lately .

    My entire family has .So much has happen over the mast month . With a bad Dr that caused a med mess up on me .My husband has been trying to work and care for me and the kids . The kids sports have started. I am going back to school .Hopefule starting Friday . I am also looking...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F Feb 26

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    My Husband Spanks Me

    I have never shared my story out of embarrassment, but my husband has decided I should be spanked for bad behavior. Yesterday, I was in a terrible mood and to make along story short in a short period of time I told him to shut up and called him stupid. I was cussing like a sailor...
    Wife23 Wife23 41-45 9 Responses Dec 6, 2011

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    My Husband Started To Spank Me

    I was spanked by my parents while growing up, and sometimes too severely, but spanking is something I have found that I need in my life to keep me in check. Why I need them and why I generally like them, I don't know. As long as I've been with my husband, even before we got...
    Emma83 Emma83 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    Ahhhh... Back in my submissive place!

    I needed that! I was way overdue for a punishment spanking. Last night he made sure I was given exactly what I deserved and needed. I'm so much calmer and more settled! I love being back in my submissive place! ❤️
    Tihtil Tihtil 36-40, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Discipline In The Garage

    2 days ago I got what had been coming to me for quite some time. We have been busy and up and down for the last few months and have finally gotten back on track. In between that time, I've MORE than caused trouble and gotten out of line with my husband. Well, i finally got the...
    Husbandismaster Husbandismaster 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I have been through a lot of changes lately .

    My entire family has .So much has happen over the mast month . With a bad Dr that caused a med mess up on me .My husband has been trying to work and care for me and the kids . The kids sports have started. I am going back to school .Hopefule starting Friday . I am also looking...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F Feb 26

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    My Rant.

    Have you ladies ever just felt really needy? Like you wanted so much affection from your husband? How about has your husband ever got in those moods where he wants to make you prove your submission? Well today was both for me. All I wanted was to cuddle up to my husband and be...
    tinkkris tinkkris 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Paying For It.

    My husband gave me a very generous amount of money to go shopping with yesterday. He gave me no rules as to what I could or could not buy, but the only rule was to not go over the $250 limit he had given to me. I was at the mall for a while. I had bought all kinds of cute clothes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    My husband and I have struggled with maintaining a domestic discipline marriage for years now. I was the one to bring it up to him. But we always kind of fissled out of doing it...
    meganluck21 meganluck21 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I was slammed the other day when posting an experience under this heading. I am in a domestic discipline relationship. My husband is my leader, my HoH, my love, my life. I am not...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love my Wife, it has not been easy getting to this point in our relationship. When she first brought up the idea of living in DD marriage i had never discipline any before. its...
    MnMLuvsmyarms MnMLuvsmyarms 26-30, M 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I am happy to report that after a few wayward weeks we finally have things dialed in again and I am happier than ever (albeit a little sore)!!!!
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I am working hard to choose submission instead of my will (without losing who I am or silencing my voice). I have been giving myself little exercises to try to get used to...
    perfectlypunished2014 perfectlypunished2014 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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    Life happens I am in all kinds of trouble right now! I know..I know.. You are all pretty surprised ..lol Here is something that will surprise you though... I have not been...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F Sep 8

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    Finding the time for our discussions and discipline have been so hard since we started this a few weeks ago. We love our kids. Don't get me wrong. But they love spending all their...
    TonysDoll TonysDoll 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 19