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I Am In a Wife Led Marriage

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    My wife is definitely in charge in our marriage.

    Probably a lot more than in most marriages, but still not to the extent that I would like her to be. I have suggested that she should spank me if I do not please her but she is hesitant to do so. We bought a wooden paddle but she has only used it a few times.
    steevo895 steevo895 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 27

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    Pierced

    My wife had my **** pierced three months ago. After a lot of thought, she decided on a Prince Albert. Now that I'm healed, she likes to attached a short chain to the ring. The other end of the chain is attached to a medium sized butt plug. When she pushes the plug into my...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Why Wont My Wife Let Me Lick Her Feet?

    Why is my wife so bossy? I would have loved for her to be submissive to me but that is a pipe dream. The next best thing I found is to be submissive to her, but I am doing it reluctantly. I hate her power over me. She makes me massage her feet A LOT. But I dont get to...
    doctorrs doctorrs 36-40, M Jan 19, 2011

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    PUNISHED FOR SASSING "MOMMY" My wife,

    who treats me very much like a child, and who tells me to address her as "Mommy" at home, and sometimes in public, had laid down today to take a nap but was not asleep yet. She looked a little agitated, and i did not want to ask her why. Suddenly she called me into the bedroom...
    kent1973 kent1973 56-60, M Jul 11

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    A Typical Day At Our House: Part 2

    (This is part two of an excerpt for our book on Female Dominant Marriage. It describes a typical day in our life together.) Ivy drives to work. She is an important professor of history and women's studies at a certain University that we won't name. She is tenure track and on...
    Clande567 Clande567 36-40, M Feb 2, 2011

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    More Questions On The Subject

    whats typical day for someone in this type of relationship? Do the women still do nice for the men? Is this fun for both people? Does this arrangement first take place place before or after the wedding? If possibly interested where does one go about this? Also how do you...
    fuzz06 fuzz06 22-25 Oct 3, 2012

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    How She Humiliates Me

    My wife found out I have served other men now she thinks I am gay. She suggested we watch Magic Mike and then she told me that she knew I would get hard. Well sure enough when the men started to ***** my **** got hard and started dripping. She ended up climbing on top of me...
    Misunderstood999 Misunderstood999 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    My Wife Is In Charge

    I kow the man is supposed to be the head of the household but even when we were dating it was obvious that Susan was in charge of our relationship. Where to go to eat dinner, she made the call. What movie to see, it was her decision. She was so much stronger and more confidant...
    michael56 michael56 31-35 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Admitting It

    My observation is that most probably most marriages are wife led. It's just a facade that the ladies allow their husband to put on that they are in charge of things You aren't. Try an experiment, give up the facade and don't let her pretend that you are in anyway in charge of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 3, 2012

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    Back From My Trip

    When I was traveling on business last month my wife had packed me a pair of panties and a cotton nighty. She had never done this before and it turned me on a great deal. She had mentioned that she might pack something special for me, but never followed through. We had also...
    fiddlerontheedge fiddlerontheedge 41-45, M Jul 1, 2013

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    How We Have Moved Towards A Wife-led Marriage

    My Wife has taken on the dominant role to a large extent, but it's taken a few years to get to where we are. It's not something that can be hurried. Try baby steps and there will be a better chance of your Wife accepting these changes in your routine. I do all the housework...
    huggy01 huggy01 41-45 2 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    A Typical Morning At Our House

    A Typical Morning at the Rigger House: Part 1 From the outside, our marriage would seem pretty conventional. Oh, there are a few things that may excite the interest of our neighbors in the little suburb where we live. For instance, it is Ivy Ann Rigger who goes out to work...
    Clande567 Clande567 36-40, M Jan 4, 2011

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    My Life In Transition

    my wife has been more assertive and dominant in bedroom . she initiated sex and made our sex life. however so far she has not responded greatly to the idea of wife led relationship in our marriage. she is showing some positive signs . she is opening to the idea of she getting...
    69218server 69218server 36-40, M Nov 18, 2012

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    It's a beautiful Saturday

    and the weather is perfect. It would be a perfect day to enjoy a beer or a cocktail outside. I know this because that is just what my wife is doing right now. I can see here in the back yard on her lounge chair sipping a margarita, as I clean and scrub the kitchen. She...
    steevo895 steevo895 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 7

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    Erotic Power

      What is there in life that is more powerful than a sexy confident woman using her erotic powers to seduce and control her man? Most women I've known in my life have no clue as to the latent power that lies within them. Some that do know are afraid to use it because, "...
    hertoy hertoy 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Why Wont My Wife Let Me Lick Her Feet?

    Why is my wife so bossy? I would have loved for her to be submissive to me but that is a pipe dream. The next best thing I found is to be submissive to her, but I am doing it reluctantly. I hate her power over me. She makes me massage her feet A LOT. But I dont get to...
    doctorrs doctorrs 36-40, M 8 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    I Believe In The Sovereign Approach To Marriage

    I love my "wife" dearly.  I have been with WildSpectrumArts for many years.  She truly is my soul mate.  I would have married her right after our first date but I think that would have assured that she never saw me again.  It took some time for me to grow on her.  I...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    The Excitement Is Back!

    After 10+ years as a vanilla marriage we switched to a full blown FLR/FLM about 10 months ago. It was my idea and at first my wife wasn't sure how it would work, but after finding,"Real Women Don't Do Housework", and practicing using her erotic feminine powers on me, we...
    hertoy hertoy 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    She Is So Reasonable

    I've been advocating for a wife led marriage for a year or two and now my wife happily decides when we have sex and whether I can ***. I don't *** at all without her permission. Most mornings I get up and make her coffee, wearing cute panties if she wants me to. I'll pretty...
    Ironbutt Ironbutt 51-55, M Sep 7, 2013

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    My Life As A Househusband(Full Story Frm Start)

    hi..i am a married man from INDIA...i always take her name n call her mam or she ***** me badly... It all started in college when i was madly in love with her...she knew dat i would do nythng for her...so she took undue advantage of it....n made me do her homework...carry her...
    jimmit jimmit 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    How My Wife Took Over

    Like many others my marrige started out traditional. My wife was the shy girl next door type. We usually made decisions together and shared the household chores. How we ended up in a FLM was bit by bit, we didn't decide we should make a change and try it but it happened over a...
    jimjmale jimjmale 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    Obedient Husband, Updated

    Our one year experiment has terminated.                    
    Cordett Cordett 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    Discovering Importance To Be My Fiancée's Slave

    I am 42 and, for some years, engaged with a slightly younger woman whom I hope to marry soon. We discovered progressively that She had matriarchal (or gynocratic, whatever name you give it) instincts, whereas I have submissive, obedient inclinations in front of Her. Since I...
    Eved Eved 41-45, M 8 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    We're There, After A Few Years.

    I suppose my wife was attracted to me and felt comfortable because, well, I was always fairly agreeable. Sure, we differed, and differ, but we chose our battles, not letting little things separate us. I could tell right away that she was strong willed and had distinct preferences...
    wastom wastom 51-55, M 5 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    My Wife My Queen

    I am a 41 year old male nurse father of two and I have been marrried to my Queen for 19 1/2 years. It took a long time and many start overs for us to finally get fully into the lifestyle but somewhere inside both of us always knew the key to happiness in our marriage was with me...
    AmysSweetBoy AmysSweetBoy 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2010

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    Female Led Relationship . Must Read .

    Female Led Relationship . Must Read . The female gender is BY FAR the superior gender. Mans time is over and patriarchy is losing ground everyday . Matriarchy is the future and the sooner men accept this and embrace it the happier we all will be and the world will be a much...
    ACHAMA ACHAMA 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 11, 2012

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    Hello all you wonderful EP folks, I have another update on my formerly sexless marriage. If you want the back story, read my previous posts as they will shed light on the progress...
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    (Repost...EP BLOCKED my first story) I stumbled upon EP the latter part of last year, and I've been a fairly frequent lurker ever since. It has taken me quite some time to...
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    Diary Entries During The First Months Of Marriage I have been slowly transferring my handwritten diary entries to this site. I've reached the part about my arranged marriage and...
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    I think I've got the guts to post this now. My wife and I have talked about this many times. I think it would help me to talk to others about it, even if it is anonymously. Since...
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    Hello I'm new to this site. I posted once prior, but I had no clue where I was in the situation. I'm a terrible writer and this is going to be long enough, so I'll jump right into...
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    Sexless Marriage is a Biblical Reason for Divorce This is a re-post of a comment I wrote to someone that TheWendigo suggested I post as a story, in case it helps anyone. I am...
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    Ask about my wife? Or we can talk about her. Or whomever.
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    Double back stab, never been hurt so much like this I know that I'm not married yet (and now I doubt I will for some time) but I'm currently engaged to a guy. I am 28 and he's 27...
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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    the perfect way to describe my wife is a line from a Police song Synchronicity part II , "mother chants her litany of boredom and frustration , but we know all her suicides are...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 13 Responses a week ago

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    A funny story. The day after our D-Day (when I confronted my husband about his affair, and he ended it), my husband and I met with our priest. We told him we wanted to stay...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I am not sure I love my wife enough. I've been married for 11 yrs, together for 18 yrs and we have 2 young kids. About 2 yrs ago she was unhappy because I was spending too much...
    Inurdrmz Inurdrmz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    So this is my first post/experience. I am a man in my 40's. I have been married 21 years now we have the 2 most amazing children in the world. For 15 of those years our marriage...
    Tryingtobeagoodman Tryingtobeagoodman 36-40, M 9 Responses Jun 30

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    I am in my third marriage. Curious how things go, my first one ended because my wife refused sex almost all the time. to the point of being intolerable. The stories I read here, i...
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    A Bucket Filled With Tools And Getting Closer Again The crisis between my wife and myself started around Christmas and came to a terrible high at New Years eve. I left the family...
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    Don't get me wrong, I love and appreciate my wife, but the institution of marriage, the very idea that a man or woman can contract the other not only to financial obligations, but...
    frogchop frogchop 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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