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I Am In a Wife Led Marriage

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    Female Led Relationship . Must Read .

    Female Led Relationship . Must Read . The female gender is BY FAR the superior gender. Mans time is over and patriarchy is losing ground everyday . Matriarchy is the future and the sooner men accept this and embrace it the happier we all will be and the world will be a much...
    ACHAMA ACHAMA 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 11, 2012

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    It's a beautiful Saturday

    and the weather is perfect. It would be a perfect day to enjoy a beer or a cocktail outside. I know this because that is just what my wife is doing right now. I can see here in the back yard on her lounge chair sipping a margarita, as I clean and scrub the kitchen. She...
    steevo895 steevo895 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 7

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    My Wife My Queen

    I am a 41 year old male nurse father of two and I have been marrried to my Queen for 19 1/2 years. It took a long time and many start overs for us to finally get fully into the lifestyle but somewhere inside both of us always knew the key to happiness in our marriage was with me...
    AmysSweetBoy AmysSweetBoy 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2010

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    My Life As A Househusband(Full Story Frm Start)

    hi..i am a married man from INDIA...i always take her name n call her mam or she ***** me badly... It all started in college when i was madly in love with her...she knew dat i would do nythng for her...so she took undue advantage of it....n made me do her homework...carry her...
    jimmit jimmit 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    Back From My Trip

    When I was traveling on business last month my wife had packed me a pair of panties and a cotton nighty. She had never done this before and it turned me on a great deal. She had mentioned that she might pack something special for me, but never followed through. We had also...
    fiddlerontheedge fiddlerontheedge 41-45, M Jul 1, 2013

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    My wife is definitely in charge in our marriage.

    Probably a lot more than in most marriages, but still not to the extent that I would like her to be. I have suggested that she should spank me if I do not please her but she is hesitant to do so. We bought a wooden paddle but she has only used it a few times.
    steevo895 steevo895 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Discovering Importance To Be My Fiancée's Slave

    I am 42 and, for some years, engaged with a slightly younger woman whom I hope to marry soon. We discovered progressively that She had matriarchal (or gynocratic, whatever name you give it) instincts, whereas I have submissive, obedient inclinations in front of Her. Since I...
    Eved Eved 41-45, M 8 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    I Believe In The Sovereign Approach To Marriage

    I love my "wife" dearly.  I have been with WildSpectrumArts for many years.  She truly is my soul mate.  I would have married her right after our first date but I think that would have assured that she never saw me again.  It took some time for me to grow on her.  I...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    A Typical Morning At Our House

    A Typical Morning at the Rigger House: Part 1 From the outside, our marriage would seem pretty conventional. Oh, there are a few things that may excite the interest of our neighbors in the little suburb where we live. For instance, it is Ivy Ann Rigger who goes out to work...
    Clande567 Clande567 36-40, M Jan 4, 2011

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    Admitting It

    My observation is that most probably most marriages are wife led. It's just a facade that the ladies allow their husband to put on that they are in charge of things You aren't. Try an experiment, give up the facade and don't let her pretend that you are in anyway in charge of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 3, 2012

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    My Life In Transition

    my wife has been more assertive and dominant in bedroom . she initiated sex and made our sex life. however so far she has not responded greatly to the idea of wife led relationship in our marriage. she is showing some positive signs . she is opening to the idea of she getting...
    69218server 69218server 36-40, M Nov 18, 2012

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    Pierced

    My wife had my **** pierced three months ago. After a lot of thought, she decided on a Prince Albert. Now that I'm healed, she likes to attached a short chain to the ring. The other end of the chain is attached to a medium sized butt plug. When she pushes the plug into my...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    My wife wears the pants

    and I serve her needs to make her life easier. We read Miss Rika's book on FLM in a somewhat vanella relationship and she loved it. I now do almost all of the household chores and pay close attention to her needs so she doesn't have to tell me what to do. She uses her paddle...
    LongBeau LongBeau 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    How She Humiliates Me

    My wife found out I have served other men now she thinks I am gay. She suggested we watch Magic Mike and then she told me that she knew I would get hard. Well sure enough when the men started to ***** my **** got hard and started dripping. She ended up climbing on top of me...
    Misunderstood999 Misunderstood999 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    How We Have Moved Towards A Wife-led Marriage

    My Wife has taken on the dominant role to a large extent, but it's taken a few years to get to where we are. It's not something that can be hurried. Try baby steps and there will be a better chance of your Wife accepting these changes in your routine. I do all the housework...
    huggy01 huggy01 41-45 2 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    Why Wont My Wife Let Me Lick Her Feet?

    Why is my wife so bossy? I would have loved for her to be submissive to me but that is a pipe dream. The next best thing I found is to be submissive to her, but I am doing it reluctantly. I hate her power over me. She makes me massage her feet A LOT. But I dont get to...
    doctorrs doctorrs 36-40, M Jan 19, 2011

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    A Typical Day At Our House: Part 2

    (This is part two of an excerpt for our book on Female Dominant Marriage. It describes a typical day in our life together.) Ivy drives to work. She is an important professor of history and women's studies at a certain University that we won't name. She is tenure track and on...
    Clande567 Clande567 36-40, M Feb 2, 2011

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    Erotic Power

      What is there in life that is more powerful than a sexy confident woman using her erotic powers to seduce and control her man? Most women I've known in my life have no clue as to the latent power that lies within them. Some that do know are afraid to use it because, "...
    hertoy hertoy 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    More Questions On The Subject

    whats typical day for someone in this type of relationship? Do the women still do nice for the men? Is this fun for both people? Does this arrangement first take place place before or after the wedding? If possibly interested where does one go about this? Also how do you...
    fuzz06 fuzz06 22-25 Oct 3, 2012

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    The Excitement Is Back!

    After 10+ years as a vanilla marriage we switched to a full blown FLR/FLM about 10 months ago. It was my idea and at first my wife wasn't sure how it would work, but after finding,"Real Women Don't Do Housework", and practicing using her erotic feminine powers on me, we...
    hertoy hertoy 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    My Wife Is In Charge

    I kow the man is supposed to be the head of the household but even when we were dating it was obvious that Susan was in charge of our relationship. Where to go to eat dinner, she made the call. What movie to see, it was her decision. She was so much stronger and more confidant...
    michael56 michael56 31-35 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    PUNISHED FOR SASSING "MOMMY" My wife,

    who treats me very much like a child, and who tells me to address her as "Mommy" at home, and sometimes in public, had laid down today to take a nap but was not asleep yet. She looked a little agitated, and i did not want to ask her why. Suddenly she called me into the bedroom...
    kent1973 kent1973 56-60, M Jul 11

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    We're There, After A Few Years.

    I suppose my wife was attracted to me and felt comfortable because, well, I was always fairly agreeable. Sure, we differed, and differ, but we chose our battles, not letting little things separate us. I could tell right away that she was strong willed and had distinct preferences...
    wastom wastom 51-55, M 5 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    How My Wife Took Over

    Like many others my marrige started out traditional. My wife was the shy girl next door type. We usually made decisions together and shared the household chores. How we ended up in a FLM was bit by bit, we didn't decide we should make a change and try it but it happened over a...
    jimjmale jimjmale 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    Why Wont My Wife Let Me Lick Her Feet?

    Why is my wife so bossy? I would have loved for her to be submissive to me but that is a pipe dream. The next best thing I found is to be submissive to her, but I am doing it reluctantly. I hate her power over me. She makes me massage her feet A LOT. But I dont get to...
    doctorrs doctorrs 36-40, M 8 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    Obedient Husband, Updated

    Our one year experiment has terminated.                    
    Cordett Cordett 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    juanasguy juanasguy 70+, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I will try to describe my sexless marriage. We have been together for a long time. We met in high school and were each others first lovers. Both of us were shy and insecure and...
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    How do guys really feel when your wife tells you "I think the reason we have unexplained infertility is that we don't have sex often enough"? It's been more than 2 months since...
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    I have been married for close to 8 years. Before we had kids I actually had to tell my wife to take it easy...I didn't need to have sex everyday! Boy do I miss those days...We now...
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    The compromise promise. I ran into a former colleague yesterday. When I worked with him I got to know his wife and kids, and the couple seemed happily married, but got divorced a...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I did not write the following but it is a great take on what an open marriage is like and what it should be like. I found this article at Salon.com. What I learned from dating...
    sosexyincolo sosexyincolo 36-40 2 Responses Sep 11

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    I live in a sexless marriage have been for the last 6 years... Just didn't realize I was until recently. In my situation i never married for love, didn't even find him attractive...
    Sobeit06 Sobeit06 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 28

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    That's right you read correct, my wife shaved her head. Conversations have been happening for months with my wife who has been spending her free time studying the bible and has...
    HoMaj HoMaj 31-35, M Sep 2

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    Sorry, this is awfully long! I'm a married mother of two little boys - two little treasures who make my heart soar with every kiss, every pudgy hand-hold, and every time I hug...
    Wonderloon Wonderloon 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    The road that has led each of us to the SM we find ourselves in is unique to each of us and in reading stories I can imagine that many people would wonder which came first, the...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 10 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    This Aug. 21 advice column may be of interest to those staying in a miserable marriage "for the sake of the children." "DEAR AMY: I have been married for 15 years and have two...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I have been married for 8 years now and my wife and I have a beautiful 4 year old daughter who we both cherish. My wife is a kind, loving woman who loves me and our daughter and...
    Jeremy0121 Jeremy0121 31-35, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Wish I could believe- my heavens he is really trying to be a better husband but he also watches me all the time. He has even taken over my office and works on his laptop from...
    peaceseeker09 peaceseeker09 46-50, F 12 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I am against the demand in girls marriage by Inlawas.....very bad!!
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    On the outside my marriage appears to be wonderful. I got married at 16 and over 6 years later I truly do love my husband and I know he truly loves me. The problem that keeps...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    Today's Dear Prudence: " Dear Prudence, My wife hates sex. Over the years, her libido has gradually faded to nothing and she now finds even the thought of intercourse unpleasant...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 19 Responses Sep 4

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    I've been married for nearly 7 years now and have enjoyed many intimate moments with my wife. A lot of that has changed in the last two years. Sex isn't something that happens...
    absalom123 absalom123 26-30 19 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm sure we all have read the story of the guy who emailed his wife a spreadsheet of his failed attempts at sexual advances. I've read more than a few articles on the story...
    chuckdaly chuckdaly 36-40, M 11 Responses Aug 22

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    For those of you who have been following my SM, you know that I've been struggling with depression and low self esteem. For the past few years I've been struggling with ADHD...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 7 Responses Aug 25

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