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I Am In a Wife Led Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 342 People

    Why Wont My Wife Let Me Lick Her Feet?

    Why is my wife so bossy? I would have loved for her to be submissive to me but that is a pipe dream. The next best thing I found is to be submissive to her, but I am doing it reluctantly. I hate her power over me. She makes me massage her feet A LOT. But I dont get to...
    doctorrs doctorrs 36-40, M 8 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    More Questions On The Subject

    whats typical day for someone in this type of relationship? Do the women still do nice for the men? Is this fun for both people? Does this arrangement first take place place before or after the wedding? If possibly interested where does one go about this? Also how do you...
    fuzz06 fuzz06 22-25 Oct 3, 2012

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    It's a beautiful Saturday

    and the weather is perfect. It would be a perfect day to enjoy a beer or a cocktail outside. I know this because that is just what my wife is doing right now. I can see here in the back yard on her lounge chair sipping a margarita, as I clean and scrub the kitchen. She...
    steevo895 steevo895 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 7

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    The Excitement Is Back!

    After 10+ years as a vanilla marriage we switched to a full blown FLR/FLM about 10 months ago. It was my idea and at first my wife wasn't sure how it would work, but after finding,"Real Women Don't Do Housework", and practicing using her erotic feminine powers on me, we...
    hertoy hertoy 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Back From My Trip

    When I was traveling on business last month my wife had packed me a pair of panties and a cotton nighty. She had never done this before and it turned me on a great deal. She had mentioned that she might pack something special for me, but never followed through. We had also...
    fiddlerontheedge fiddlerontheedge 41-45, M Jul 1, 2013

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    How We Have Moved Towards A Wife-led Marriage

    My Wife has taken on the dominant role to a large extent, but it's taken a few years to get to where we are. It's not something that can be hurried. Try baby steps and there will be a better chance of your Wife accepting these changes in your routine. I do all the housework...
    huggy01 huggy01 41-45 2 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    PUNISHED FOR SASSING "MOMMY" My wife,

    who treats me very much like a child, and who tells me to address her as "Mommy" at home, and sometimes in public, had laid down today to take a nap but was not asleep yet. She looked a little agitated, and i did not want to ask her why. Suddenly she called me into the bedroom...
    kent1973 kent1973 56-60, M Jul 11

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    A Typical Day At Our House: Part 2

    (This is part two of an excerpt for our book on Female Dominant Marriage. It describes a typical day in our life together.) Ivy drives to work. She is an important professor of history and women's studies at a certain University that we won't name. She is tenure track and on...
    Clande567 Clande567 36-40, M Feb 2, 2011

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    Erotic Power

      What is there in life that is more powerful than a sexy confident woman using her erotic powers to seduce and control her man? Most women I've known in my life have no clue as to the latent power that lies within them. Some that do know are afraid to use it because, "...
    hertoy hertoy 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Pierced

    My wife had my **** pierced three months ago. After a lot of thought, she decided on a Prince Albert. Now that I'm healed, she likes to attached a short chain to the ring. The other end of the chain is attached to a medium sized butt plug. When she pushes the plug into my...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Obedient Husband, Updated

    Our one year experiment has terminated.                    
    Cordett Cordett 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    My Life As A Househusband(Full Story Frm Start)

    hi..i am a married man from INDIA...i always take her name n call her mam or she ***** me badly... It all started in college when i was madly in love with her...she knew dat i would do nythng for her...so she took undue advantage of it....n made me do her homework...carry her...
    jimmit jimmit 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    My Wife My Queen

    I am a 41 year old male nurse father of two and I have been marrried to my Queen for 19 1/2 years. It took a long time and many start overs for us to finally get fully into the lifestyle but somewhere inside both of us always knew the key to happiness in our marriage was with me...
    AmysSweetBoy AmysSweetBoy 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2010

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    My wife leads our marriage.

    She wears the pants. I have to submit to her authority or we fight all the time. She has control over most of the finances so it pretty much puts me in the role of support spouse. The domestic chores fall to me. I clean the house as well as take care of her. She often gives me...
    deeken deeken 36-40 2 Responses Sep 30

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    Discovering Importance To Be My Fiancée's Slave

    I am 42 and, for some years, engaged with a slightly younger woman whom I hope to marry soon. We discovered progressively that She had matriarchal (or gynocratic, whatever name you give it) instincts, whereas I have submissive, obedient inclinations in front of Her. Since I...
    Eved Eved 41-45, M 8 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    How She Humiliates Me

    My wife found out I have served other men now she thinks I am gay. She suggested we watch Magic Mike and then she told me that she knew I would get hard. Well sure enough when the men started to ***** my **** got hard and started dripping. She ended up climbing on top of me...
    Misunderstood999 Misunderstood999 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    A Typical Morning At Our House

    A Typical Morning at the Rigger House: Part 1 From the outside, our marriage would seem pretty conventional. Oh, there are a few things that may excite the interest of our neighbors in the little suburb where we live. For instance, it is Ivy Ann Rigger who goes out to work...
    Clande567 Clande567 36-40, M Jan 4, 2011

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    juanasguy juanasguy 70+, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    My wife wears the pants

    and I serve her needs to make her life easier. We read Miss Rika's book on FLM in a somewhat vanella relationship and she loved it. I now do almost all of the household chores and pay close attention to her needs so she doesn't have to tell me what to do. She uses her paddle...
    LongBeau LongBeau 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    My Wife Is In Charge

    I kow the man is supposed to be the head of the household but even when we were dating it was obvious that Susan was in charge of our relationship. Where to go to eat dinner, she made the call. What movie to see, it was her decision. She was so much stronger and more confidant...
    michael56 michael56 31-35 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    How My Wife Took Over

    Like many others my marrige started out traditional. My wife was the shy girl next door type. We usually made decisions together and shared the household chores. How we ended up in a FLM was bit by bit, we didn't decide we should make a change and try it but it happened over a...
    jimjmale jimjmale 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    I Believe In The Sovereign Approach To Marriage

    I love my "wife" dearly.  I have been with WildSpectrumArts for many years.  She truly is my soul mate.  I would have married her right after our first date but I think that would have assured that she never saw me again.  It took some time for me to grow on her.  I...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    My Life In Transition

    my wife has been more assertive and dominant in bedroom . she initiated sex and made our sex life. however so far she has not responded greatly to the idea of wife led relationship in our marriage. she is showing some positive signs . she is opening to the idea of she getting...
    69218server 69218server 36-40, M Nov 18, 2012

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    Why Wont My Wife Let Me Lick Her Feet?

    Why is my wife so bossy? I would have loved for her to be submissive to me but that is a pipe dream. The next best thing I found is to be submissive to her, but I am doing it reluctantly. I hate her power over me. She makes me massage her feet A LOT. But I dont get to...
    doctorrs doctorrs 36-40, M Jan 19, 2011

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    Admitting It

    My observation is that most probably most marriages are wife led. It's just a facade that the ladies allow their husband to put on that they are in charge of things You aren't. Try an experiment, give up the facade and don't let her pretend that you are in anyway in charge of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 3, 2012

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    Female Led Relationship . Must Read .

    Female Led Relationship . Must Read . The female gender is BY FAR the superior gender. Mans time is over and patriarchy is losing ground everyday . Matriarchy is the future and the sooner men accept this and embrace it the happier we all will be and the world will be a much...
    ACHAMA ACHAMA 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 11, 2012

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    My wife is definitely in charge in our marriage.

    Probably a lot more than in most marriages, but still not to the extent that I would like her to be. I have suggested that she should spank me if I do not please her but she is hesitant to do so. We bought a wooden paddle but she has only used it a few times.
    steevo895 steevo895 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Since I started posting here everything has changed. W has declared she will no longer work at improving our physical relationship and that I should feel free to seek that type of...
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    So, after my last post about my crappy week last week, I read and re-read HusbandOfOne's comment, the one about spending the next 20 years feeling the way I do in my marriage...
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    I feel like this experience us turning me into an emotional Jekyll and Hide... In the morning, when domestic life goes on as it must, I feel inclined to be patient, more forgiving...
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    So, I've posted previously, but its a been a long time. I've been married over 11 years, the vast majority of which which have been sexless. I've spoken to my wife countless times...
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    Who complains about an hour long back massage ? .... who complains about a dozen roses for no reason ? .... who complains about texts about how beautiful she is and how special...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 22 Responses 3 days ago

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    Of course! Marriage means obsession,love,friendship,acquaintence,estrangement,loathing and eventual hatred.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I used to think marriage was a load of crap, but now I think that it is if you let it get that way. Now I want to find someone to marry, find my love and best friend. Whatever may...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Is there really one point in marriage that the husband is vulnerable and would sleep with a ********?
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