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I Am In An Age Gap Marriage

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    We are not married yet,

    but my boyfriend is 16 years my senior. I am 21, he 37. Apart from the occasional "oh, is this your daughter" comments our age gap is practically invisible to us. I often feel our maturity levels meet somewhere in the middle and that's why we connect with ease. We never fight...
    noelle1234 noelle1234 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    A Whole Bunch Of Time

    I met my wife where we work. She in the front office, and I in the service dept. I would have contact with her through the equipment we rented. At first the relationship was no relationship at all, in fact we didn't get along at all. One night I was alone, and out on the town...
    junkit71 junkit71 70+, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Happy Couples With An Age Difference

    Hello everyone. I'm new to this board, but not new to an age gap relationship. My husband and I have a 28 year age gap (he's 56 and I'm 28) and we were married this summer after five years of dating. Couldn't be happier!!! We have had our ups and downs (as any couple does), but...
    Wildflower1985 Wildflower1985 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    "if You Love Someone, Set Them Free"

    am 54 and dated a wonderful lady now aged 32 for 6 years. We spent a lot of time together but her friends and family disapproved and pulled her leg about seeing and old man and we eventually split up but stayed friends. Deep down I always knew we would end up together but she...
    l35tb l35tb 51-55 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    Not Married Yet, But Soon

    My fiancee is 22 years younger than me. We've been together for almost 4 years in a long distance (on top of the age gap loll) relationship. Of course we've met as often as possible. We planned the marriage soon. It works great for both of us. From her previous marriage, she has...
    MeetMeToday MeetMeToday 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Age Gap

    i have been in 2 age gap marriages. my first one was with a girl 14 years younger than me and my second one was with a girl 24 years younger than me. i just assumed that because i have such a strong sex drive that a younger woman would be able to keep up with me but found out now...
    woodsman675 woodsman675 51-55, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    12 Year Gap

    I am 12 years younger than my husband, but I don't think it really has an effect on us in any dramatic way. If you were to look at us astologically, he is a Saggitarius and I am a Capricorn. Unlikely perhaps, but we do keep each other balanced well. He is so young at heart, and...
    Orckiss Orckiss 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    Meet My True Love On Agelessmate.

    I meet my husband on www.agelessmate.com I’m 26, and my partner is 23 years older than me. We met on agelessmate.com a year ago, started talking and never stopped. He is relatively successful in career and understand how to treat me. we work out fine and get alone splendidly...
    dreamwill dreamwill 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Interracial Interfaith And Age Gap Marriage

    I bumped into this site by accident and am loving it.  I'm 34 and my gf is 22... Though we have no problem amongst us, but lately I'm feeling that my 12 year age gap would cause problem. Her mother feels I'm too old for her. And to top it off I'm not white, nor am I a Catholic...
    Shaan2021 Shaan2021 31-35 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    OK...I'm not married.

    ..but AM in an age gap relationship. I'm 44 & my bf is 30. We have had some issues, but I have always liked younger guys. Sometimes I don't FEEL 44...yet other times...I can really feel the age difference, but not as much as I used to. Hope that makes some sense.LOL
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Family

    My Husband is twenty years older than I am and I have gone against the wishes of my family to marry him. I do not feel like I have made a mistake as I know he is my soul mate. I just wish that my Mum could see that we are happy together and stop finding fault with everything he...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 19 Responses Oct 6, 2007

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    12 Years Gap

    I am 12 years younger than my husband, but I don't think it really has an effect on us in any dramatic way. If you were to look at us astologically, he is a Saggitarius and I am a Capricorn. Unlikely perhaps, but we do keep each other balanced well. He is so young at heart, and I...
    Orchalia Orchalia 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    Time Of My Life

    Five years ago this month we met. She was 19 cute and shy. I was 42 and confident. She was needing that father figure type from me. Not the type telling her what to do but just spending time with her. She never had a father. I enjoyed having a daughter i never had. Soon we fell...
    agegap agegap 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    I want to experience gap 15 years.

    Im separated to ex husband im older him for 1 year only but his not my soulmate. So that i want to experience mature for me?
    Bhengtmx Bhengtmx 26-30, M Dec 6, 2013

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    9 Years And 6 Days (novel Sorry)

    My husband is 9 years and 6 days older than me. Here is our story. My best friend of forever ago was living with me and me parents when we were in high school. She had a falling out with her dad and moved in with her mom, which was about 40 miles away. She began working at a...
    ClownieFreak ClownieFreak 26-30, F 2 Responses May 24, 2011

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    9 Years

    My hubby is nine years older than me. It isn't a very big gap, but it was enough to get plenty of negative reactions from his friends and family when they heard that he wanted to date me. My family were very accepting because my grandparents had a big age gap. It was also enough...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    I am 28 and my husband is 49.

    We just had our first child and couldn't be happier. We have so much in common, from working in the same field, to the same music. Sometimes age gap relationships work, sometimes they don't. I really think it comes down to how the younger person in the relationship was raised as...
    ltwh13 ltwh13 26-30, F 1 Response May 21

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    19 Years and Change

    I'm sure many think I'm odd being married to someone that much older but it has worked out for us. Not that it has always been easy, far from it at times. I think it has been easier for me than my wife though especially when someone mistakes me for her son instead of husband. Our...
    outercalm outercalm 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    I am not married ... I've been with my boyfriend

    for 5 years.... I'm 23 and he's 48. We recently moved to NYC .... And coming from a small town you'd think we wouldn't get stares but we do... Usually by guys my age, I don't care but I just don't like problems...He's my best friend , and I couldn't picture my life without him...
    Ymarie0531 Ymarie0531 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I Never Knew Love Was This Much Fun.

    I am 48 years old, my husband is 21...and i didnt know love could be this fun and full of joy..I have no complaints..our life is sweet and full of joy and very basic..its not about anything else but compatibility..we compliment each other ..we get along..and although physically...
    rjwright rjwright 46-50, F Dec 4, 2012

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    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    28 Year Gap

    And we couldn't be back happier. Found this picture of our wedding day and I wanted to share it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    i am 7 years younger

    than my wife so she is retired and i am still going to be working for another 9 years happy non retirement
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T Jan 15

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    I have been reading a lot of stories

    and finally decided I should post. I am very private about my relationship with my OM in real life. We have a 40+ year age gap (I am 22 and he is 65) and unfortunately it does offend a lot of people. In an age when most alternative lifestyles are accepted it is still so hard for...
    AlbaLena AlbaLena 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 22

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    Old-fashioned?

    I met my husband while dancing. He is 33 yrs older than me but we balance out wonderfully. He is a mover and a shaker and never sits still for 2 seconds put together. He loves life and is always trying new adventures.  I'm also an adventure lover, but I'm not as interested...
    Puttytatgal Puttytatgal 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 2, 2009

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    How can you tell someone

    that it's hard for you too. They think you'll be alone when they're "gone". They worry who will take care of you. They want you to keep people in your life so someone will take care of you "after". They need the comfort of knowing you are looked after. But it's hard for me too...
    Missjayne1 Missjayne1 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 8

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    10 Years Difference

    My Husband is 10 years older than I am and I couldn't ask for a better match.  There is NO GAP between us....Except for our age!!
    PeedeeDog PeedeeDog 12919 8 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    8 Years

    I am 8 years older than my husband, that not a whole lot but sometimes it seems like a lifetime.  The funny thing is I have never been attracted to younger men but my husband and I just clicked.
    dixie934 dixie934 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    i am 7 years younger then my wife it didnt

    matter when we were both working but my wife is now retired and i have another 8 years to go happy non retirement
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T Jan 15

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    I am a producer in Los Angeles at Lighthearted Entertainment, a television production company. We are currently interested in unique romantic relationships with big age gaps as a potential idea for a TV show. If you are interested please call me back at 818-842-8500. I look...
    SamLightheart SamLightheart 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    I need advice. 30 Years Age Gap, Married 20 Years, 1 Child, People Ostracize Us In Minutes......

    It's not easy being in such an age gap, however strong you are, there will always be people with ageist prejudice, or jealous or racist or just plain ignorant, shallow and self centered. Unfortunately there seems to be more of these people in the world, especially in affluent...
    Ifeellikeet Ifeellikeet 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    10 Years' Difference

    Going on five years married to my second husband, who is 10 years older than I am.  To me, that doesn't seem like many. My first husband was 15 years older.  Age did matter in the end -- it wasn't so bad when we were married at 25 and 40 but at 35 and 50 (when our 10...
    nevermore123 nevermore123 36-40 6 Responses Oct 23, 2008

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    20 Years Difference

    Me and my wife have 20 years difference i age between us. It was some problem for her in the beginning because of her parents. After they met me a couple of times they felt ok with me. I guess it is more people around you who have problem with age gaps.  
    tse tse 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    Im 19 Years Older Then My Wife

    I'm 19 years older then my wife we have been together for 2 years some of the biggies problems we have are with Sex, Kids, and Friends I have 4 kids from a perverse marriage my oldest kid is only 8 years younger them her my kids can be a hand full and I think she has been doing...
    Jase69 Jase69 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 27, 2009

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    Age Gap

    We met New. Years eve 2005 she was 48 at the time I was 35 turning 36 the next April.Wow.Older women are sexier.I prefer older women. But menopause was a problem.
    bedrock70 bedrock70 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Why Older Guys Dating Young Girls

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    olderguysdatingyounggirls olderguysdatingyounggirls 26-30, M Sep 11, 2013

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    17 Year Difference

    I have to say, I recently saw a story about the Olsen twin dating a man who is 17 years older than her and all kinds of people are shaking their heads in judgement. WTF!!!!! Who's business is it anyways!!! This struck a nerve with me because I am in the same boat, I am 25 years...
    BondGirl87 BondGirl87 22-25 2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    19 year age gap. I am 18 and he is 37. I joined this just so I could talk about it, because no one knows about us. He is married, and my parents would be furious if they found out...
    EmCCM EmCCM 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 12

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    Hello,friends!How do you think about age gap relationship ?If you not mind, I want to recommend to you a good dating site--> http://www.agegapcupid.comThey verify all members...
    qearl71016 qearl71016 26-30, F Jul 23

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    Hello all, i am new to this site and have come here for guidance regarding my situation. In a way i know what the answer is , but its helps when someone else throws it in your face...
    buddieface buddieface 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Hi folks! Stumbled across this site, and decided to make your acquaintance! I'm a 60-year-old, happily married to a 28-year-old guy. My first husband was 6 years younger. I've also...
    Jilara Jilara 56-60, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    I am interested in chatting with women that have been in a large 'age gap' relationship. Either being much younger or older than the guy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19

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    My partner and I have been together for 6 years. In Dec we split up. Since then, I have had a real hard time. We are 17 years apart. Im 26 and she is 43. She is the absolute love...
    lette08 lette08 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm 15 he's 17 so it's not as big of a gap I guess. But I think I'm gonna break up with him anyways, since things aren't working out. So I don't think I'm gonna be In one anymore...
    thanamesnyaa thanamesnyaa 13-15, F Jul 7

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via mutual spiritual interests. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my...
    CosmicGirlA CosmicGirlA 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I met a guy at work that's 24 years younger than me. I'm 53 and he's 29. I've dated younger men before but he is the youngest (my ex-husband was 12 years younger). He's so...
    eveann eveann 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I am an adult man that was involved with the mother of a friend. It was sometime ago..but continues to influence me. If you are a woman that is interested in chatting...that would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 12

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    I am 19 and my bf is 26. We share the same birthday month. He told me he wanted his gf to be young , he wanted a baby and he got me :) lol
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F Jul 19

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    How can one be so happy with a person, yet so conflicted by outside perspectives? Getting hit by the hard "that is just wrong" comments and gossips of "are you really going to get...
    youngatheartoldinsoul youngatheartoldinsoul 22-25, F Jul 23

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    I like to chat with a woman who is familiar with these types of relationships. In either 'directions' (older woman/younger man or older man/younger woman) Thanks.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 days ago

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    40 yr old man with a 20 yr old girl. THATS NOT DATING..ITS BABYSITTING !
    avatar1990 avatar1990 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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