I Am In An Age Gap Marriage

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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 24, 2015

    9 Years And 6 Days (novel Sorry)

    My husband is 9 years and 6 days older than me. Here is our story. My best friend of forever ago was living with me and me parents when we were in high school. She had a falling out with her dad and moved in with her mom, which was about 40 miles away. She began working at a...
    ClownieFreak ClownieFreak
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 24, 2011

    Im 19 Years Older Then My Wife

    I'm 19 years older then my wife we have been together for 2 years some of the biggies problems we have are with Sex, Kids, and Friends I have 4 kids from a perverse marriage my oldest kid is only 8 years younger them her my kids can be a hand full and I think she has been doing...
    Jase69 Jase69
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2009

    20 Years Difference

    Me and my wife have 20 years difference i age between us. It was some problem for her in the beginning because of her parents. After they met me a couple of times they felt ok with me. I guess it is more people around you who have problem with age gaps.  
    tse tse
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 23, 2009

    OK...I'm not married.

    ..but AM in an age gap relationship. I'm 44 & my bf is 30. We have had some issues, but I have always liked younger guys. Sometimes I don't FEEL 44...yet other times...I can really feel the age difference, but not as much as I used to. Hope that makes some sense.LOL
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2014

    8 Years

    I am 8 years older than my husband, that not a whole lot but sometimes it seems like a lifetime.  The funny thing is I have never been attracted to younger men but my husband and I just clicked.
    dixie934 dixie934
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2008

    10 Years' Difference

    Going on five years married to my second husband, who is 10 years older than I am.  To me, that doesn't seem like many. My first husband was 15 years older.  Age did matter in the end -- it wasn't so bad when we were married at 25 and 40 but at 35 and 50 (when our 10...
    nevermore123 nevermore123
    36-40
    6 Responses Oct 23, 2008

    Happy Couples With An Age Difference

    Hello everyone. I'm new to this board, but not new to an age gap relationship. My husband and I have a 28 year age gap (he's 56 and I'm 28) and we were married this summer after five years of dating. Couldn't be happier!!! We have had our ups and downs (as any couple does), but...
    Wildflower1985 Wildflower1985
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2013

    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.

    com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older men and older men dating younger women. This will also set you free from the embarrassment and annoyance of general dating places. Here at...
    sallycc17 sallycc17
    26-30, F
    Apr 3, 2014

    28 Year Gap

    And we couldn't be back happier. Found this picture of our wedding day and I wanted to share it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 18, 2013

    12 Years Gap

    I am 12 years younger than my husband, but I don't think it really has an effect on us in any dramatic way. If you were to look at us astologically, he is a Saggitarius and I am a Capricorn. Unlikely perhaps, but we do keep each other balanced well. He is so young at heart, and I...
    Orchalia Orchalia
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Nov 28, 2009

    Thank you Download 2015

    for one of my favorite shows of our entire career! There is an energy and excitement within the band heading into this summer that is pushing us even further to give it our all on stage. I've never felt better about our live show! Thank you to all of you for giving us a chance...
    LauraGonzalezBVB LauraGonzalezBVB
    22-25, F
    Jun 14, 2015

    Old-fashioned?

    I met my husband while dancing. He is 33 yrs older than me but we balance out wonderfully. He is a mover and a shaker and never sits still for 2 seconds put together. He loves life and is always trying new adventures.  I'm also an adventure lover, but I'm not as interested...
    Puttytatgal Puttytatgal
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 2, 2009

    19 Years and Change

    I'm sure many think I'm odd being married to someone that much older but it has worked out for us. Not that it has always been easy, far from it at times. I think it has been easier for me than my wife though especially when someone mistakes me for her son instead of husband. Our...
    outercalm outercalm
    51-55, M
    7 Responses Jul 31, 2009

    17 Year Difference

    I have to say, I recently saw a story about the Olsen twin dating a man who is 17 years older than her and all kinds of people are shaking their heads in judgement. WTF!!!!! Who's business is it anyways!!! This struck a nerve with me because I am in the same boat, I am 25 years...
    BondGirl87 BondGirl87
    22-25
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

    Time Of My Life

    Five years ago this month we met. She was 19 cute and shy. I was 42 and confident. She was needing that father figure type from me. Not the type telling her what to do but just spending time with her. She never had a father. I enjoyed having a daughter i never had. Soon we fell...
    agegap agegap
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2013

    I am not married ... I've been with my boyfriend

    for 5 years.... I'm 23 and he's 48. We recently moved to NYC .... And coming from a small town you'd think we wouldn't get stares but we do... Usually by guys my age, I don't care but I just don't like problems...He's my best friend , and I couldn't picture my life without him...
    Ymarie0531 Ymarie0531
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2014

    How can you tell someone

    that it's hard for you too. They think you'll be alone when they're "gone". They worry who will take care of you. They want you to keep people in your life so someone will take care of you "after". They need the comfort of knowing you are looked after. But it's hard for me too...
    Missjayne1 Missjayne1
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jan 8, 2014

    I Never Knew Love Was This Much Fun.

    I am 48 years old, my husband is 21...and i didnt know love could be this fun and full of joy..I have no complaints..our life is sweet and full of joy and very basic..its not about anything else but compatibility..we compliment each other ..we get along..and although physically...
    rjwright rjwright
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2012

    Meet My True Love On Agelessmate.

    I meet my husband on www.agelessmate.com I’m 26, and my partner is 23 years older than me. We met on agelessmate.com a year ago, started talking and never stopped. He is relatively successful in career and understand how to treat me. we work out fine and get alone splendidly...
    dreamwill dreamwill
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

    i am 7 years younger

    than my wife so she is retired and i am still going to be working for another 9 years happy non retirement
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    Jan 15, 2014

    I need advice. 30 Years Age Gap, Married 20 Years, 1 Child, People Ostracize Us In Minutes......

    It's not easy being in such an age gap, however strong you are, there will always be people with ageist prejudice, or jealous or racist or just plain ignorant, shallow and self centered. Unfortunately there seems to be more of these people in the world, especially in affluent...
    Ifeellikeet Ifeellikeet
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Mar 24, 2012

    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating

    older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men as they are polite, respectful, generous, kind, intelligent, sensitive, caring, affectionate, and understanding. Many younger women would like to...
    JessieFay JessieFay
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2014

    Interracial Interfaith And Age Gap Marriage

    I bumped into this site by accident and am loving it.  I'm 34 and my gf is 22... Though we have no problem amongst us, but lately I'm feeling that my 12 year age gap would cause problem. Her mother feels I'm too old for her. And to top it off I'm not white, nor am I a Catholic...
    Shaan2021 Shaan2021
    31-35
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

    Lighthearted Entertainment Television

    I am a producer in Los Angeles at Lighthearted Entertainment, a television production company. We are currently interested in unique romantic relationships with big age gaps as a potential idea for a TV show. If you are interested please call me back at 818-842-8500. I look...
    SamLightheart SamLightheart
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

    Age Gap

    i have been in 2 age gap marriages. my first one was with a girl 14 years younger than me and my second one was with a girl 24 years younger than me. i just assumed that because i have such a strong sex drive that a younger woman would be able to keep up with me but found out now...
    woodsman675 woodsman675
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Apr 4, 2012

    My husband is 10 years older

    than me. we get a lot of weird looks in public but I don't care. he's an amazing father and husband and I love him
    SouthernBelle95 SouthernBelle95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    i am 7 years younger then my wife it didnt

    matter when we were both working but my wife is now retired and i have another 8 years to go happy non retirement
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    Jan 15, 2014

    I'm 34 going on 35 my husband 25 love of my

    life. Love music, were in Greek culture accept I am Cretan his Spartan. He make me feel you!
    Eleni1179 Eleni1179
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    I want to experience gap 15 years.

    Im separated to ex husband im older him for 1 year only but his not my soulmate. So that i want to experience mature for me?
    Bhengtmx Bhengtmx
    31-35, M
    Dec 6, 2013

    "if You Love Someone, Set Them Free"

    am 54 and dated a wonderful lady now aged 32 for 6 years. We spent a lot of time together but her friends and family disapproved and pulled her leg about seeing and old man and we eventually split up but stayed friends. Deep down I always knew we would end up together but she...
    l35tb l35tb
    51-55
    1 Response Dec 13, 2011

    I am 28 and my husband is 49.

    We just had our first child and couldn't be happier. We have so much in common, from working in the same field, to the same music. Sometimes age gap relationships work, sometimes they don't. I really think it comes down to how the younger person in the relationship was raised as...
    ltwh13 ltwh13
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2014

    I met my husband at restaurant

    when I got stood up by someone else. We ran into each other coming out of the restroom and spent the rest of the night talking. I called him a week later to ask when he was going to ask me out. We're now married. We have 28 years between us. We have an great relationship, and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 9

    12 Year Gap

    I am 12 years younger than my husband, but I don't think it really has an effect on us in any dramatic way. If you were to look at us astologically, he is a Saggitarius and I am a Capricorn. Unlikely perhaps, but we do keep each other balanced well. He is so young at heart, and...
    Orckiss Orckiss
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Dec 16, 2009

    We are not married yet,

    but my boyfriend is 16 years my senior. I am 21, he 37. Apart from the occasional "oh, is this your daughter" comments our age gap is practically invisible to us. I often feel our maturity levels meet somewhere in the middle and that's why we connect with ease. We never fight...
    noelle1234 noelle1234
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2014

    Age Gap

    We met New. Years eve 2005 she was 48 at the time I was 35 turning 36 the next April.Wow.Older women are sexier.I prefer older women. But menopause was a problem.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 25, 2013

    Family

    My Husband is twenty years older than I am and I have gone against the wishes of my family to marry him. I do not feel like I have made a mistake as I know he is my soul mate. I just wish that my Mum could see that we are happy together and stop finding fault with everything he...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    18 Responses Oct 6, 2007

    I have been reading a lot of stories

    and finally decided I should post. I am very private about my relationship with my OM in real life. We have a 40+ year age gap (I am 22 and he is 65) and unfortunately it does offend a lot of people. In an age when most alternative lifestyles are accepted it is still so hard for...
    AlbaLena AlbaLena
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 22, 2014

    A Whole Bunch Of Time

    I met my wife where we work. She in the front office, and I in the service dept. I would have contact with her through the equipment we rented. At first the relationship was no relationship at all, in fact we didn't get along at all. One night I was alone, and out on the town...
    junkit71 junkit71
    70+, M
    1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    I am writing at the suggestion of Robb Warren and Waiting 4 What (and inspired by Vegas Baby). It seems appropriate to put a coda on what was one of the most important and...
    maryryan maryryan
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 21
    I have a complicated situation that has brought my marriage to the point that it is today. I chose to share it here so that maybe it will help someone else and who knows maybe just...
    ParaKlio ParaKlio
    46-50, F
    Apr 21
    Not the age difference is important to me. It´s a peaceful living together, a harmony and each other respecting and understanding what is important to me. I don´t care about age...
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 20
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    vegasbaby551 vegasbaby551
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Apr 19
    Age is jus a number said the peodo in court
    LauraBowker LauraBowker
    46-50, F
    Apr 18
    Why didn't i just move on when I had the chance. I honestly don't know why I went through this marriage. I already knew it was going to trust issue. I am so mad @ myself for not...
    MaySheReign MaySheReign
    26-30, F
    Apr 17
    Over the past five days I have had more sex than I have ever had in my marriage. I truly have felt more passion, Romance, and Love than I have ever dreamed possible. I didn't...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Apr 14
    Ughh it's my countries election next month and guess what no ******* matter what party wins nothing is gonna be done about LGBTQ rights in the country like c'mon were the only...
    HatredIncarnated HatredIncarnated
    13-15, M
    1 Response Apr 13
    I remember when I was around 14-15 this guy started flirting with me. I mean he was really attractive, but I told he my age. Flirting stopped there. Another time happened when I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 13
    I once dated a minor I was his tutor we kissed but did nothing illegal I knew it was wrong but I loved him but I didn't want to destroy my career or be branded a sex offender this...
    LauraBowker LauraBowker
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Apr 12
    I will be 40 in just few more days. I am looking older lately but i could pass for 30 if i tried. it does have its upsides as well as down. The good part is I can act a fool and...
    DirtyRead DirtyRead
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 12
    I even should speak from the past. I have been many years ago in a marriage and I am divorced since 15 years now. But I´ve seen that there was nothing normal in my marriage...
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 12
    People here don't think I'm 15. People in person think I'm in college. Me. I feel old on the inside. But on the outside. I act younger than my age. It goes way back from age 1-9...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee
    70+, F
    10 Responses Apr 10
    My marriage was a fairly tale for every one. Childhood friends lost touch, met after 20 years and fell head over heels for each other. My parents didnt approve of him because of...
    Smileismylife Smileismylife
    22-25, F
    Apr 9
    My marriage was a fairly tale for every one. Childhood friends lost touch, met after 20 years and fell head over heels for each other. My parents didnt approve of him because of...
    Smileismylife Smileismylife
    22-25, F
    Apr 9
    Age is just a number said the peadophile in court
    PositiveStateOfMind PositiveStateOfMind
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Apr 8
    Fall in love with who you fall in love with. Just because someone is 5,10 ,20+ years younger/older than you, doesn't mean your love is wrong or unjustified or twisted. I know its...
    isabellaandre isabellaandre
    16-17
    Apr 8
    I know things on EP are coming to a close but I thought I would share my testimony. I want to start by saying "life is short, too short to be unhappy". A lot of you where were I...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 7
    Actually, age is just an issue of mind over matter. So if you don't mind, it doesn't matter. Relationship should be judge in maturity and not the age difference.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Apr 7
    Age is just a limitations of a person put on his mind.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 7
    I've always found older women more attractive than women my own age. I would love to date a woman in her mid 30s or 40s if we clicked on an intellectual and physical level.
    Milklover24 Milklover24
    22-25, M
    Apr 7
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