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I Am In An Age Gap Relationship

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    Hi all, I'm new to this

    and just come to talk to people who are in the same or similar situation that I am. I'm dating my man who is 14 years older than me, he's 36 I'm 22. Most of the time I forget about the age gap as he really doesn't look it, but other people's comments and judgement really drives...
    clomo20 clomo20 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I Am In Love With A Girl A Third My Age.

    I don't know how it happened. It's crazy, I'll be the first to admit it. She's a 17-year old high school senior who, because of **** that's happened in her life, has more maturity and wisdom than a lot of "women" I've known who are 5-10 years older. She's smart, she's funny, she...
    brobrob brobrob 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    Nine Years Difference....

    I used to think that it was not a big deal, that my girlfriend/wife was nine years younger than me. Nearly everyone insisted it was not a big age gap. Not everyone, after all, could be like my parents and marry someone the exact same age, right?! Then, after we got married it...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 18 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    I'm 51 and she's 23. We've spent an amazing

    month together, so far. She's from a small town and I'm a city guy and she wants to move in after discussing it. I haven't been coercive at all. This is her choice and I gladly agreed. I would like to settle down. We're both childless but we do want to have a child together...
    Fetechef Fetechef 51-55 Sep 7

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    My boyfriend is just over twice my age.

    Next month, I will be 30 and he will be 62. I am very much in love with him and think about having a child with him almost daily. We are both open to marriage and children but trying to be cautious. We have been together for about 6 months and close friends for over a year. We...
    Kindanon Kindanon 26-30, F 6 Responses May 24

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship

    with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway.... He is nothing like anyone I have ever dated before. There's no guesswork as to what he wants - I don't have to read his mind or wonder if...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via mutual spiritual interests. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell...
    CosmicGirlA CosmicGirlA 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I met a guy at work that's 24 years younger

    than me. I'm 53 and he's 29. I've dated younger men before but he is the youngest (my ex-husband was 12 years younger). He's so attentive, nice and kind. At first I was wondering what people would think about us. He kept telling me it's not their business and not to worry about...
    eveann eveann 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    My boyfriend is 24 years older

    than me. He is 53 and I am 28. We had been coworkers and friends for a couple years until recently when things got more serious. Both of us found we needed one another to complete our days in a sane manner and clicked. His family is wonderful and accepting, so it breaks my...
    mothtoaflame22 mothtoaflame22 26-30, F 10 Responses Jun 3

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    I am 19 and my bf is 26.

    We share the same birthday month. He told me he wanted his gf to be young , he wanted a baby and he got me :) lol
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F Jul 19

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    He said "I really wish to cheer you up.

    ..you look most charming when you smile." I know he really cares. Sadly...we will never be together.
    MiniV MiniV 26-30, F Jun 10

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    It can be quite intimidating being with someone

    who's really smart and so many interesting life experiences. Is that why we won't be together?
    MiniV MiniV 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    If you are looking for a sign

    that you're headed in the right direction, this is it! I am an 18 year old girl, turning 19 in April. The cool thing is, my wonderful boyfriend is 32! And he is turning 33, also in April. We have been together for 6 months now, and we have exchanged the "I love you" and I gotta...
    ecress ecress 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I just turned 22 and my boyfriend just turned

    39. 17 years between us but we get along well.
    kayjaybee kayjaybee 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    I fell in love with my music teacher.

    He gave me lessons after school (and in the beginning neither of us had other intentions aside from learning guitar) The more we talked we just clicked, we have EVERYTHING in common. i fell in love with him but never thought in a million years i would have a chance with my...
    Kcase313 Kcase313 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    33 Year Age Gap

    I'm 18 and he's 51, I really care about him and think he's amazing. There are a lot of people telling us that we're not going to last, and telling him that I'm going to break his heart just because of how young I am. We're moving in together next month and I just feel so right...
    Cayslie Cayslie 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    21 Years

    Yes there's 21 years between me and my hubby. Some people have said unkind comments about us in the early days and we often get funny looks from people. All of that's worth it cause I wouldn't be without him, I love my hub so much, he's like the male version of me, only a bit...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 20 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    I started my job about 12 months ago

    and in that time period have fallen head over heels for a man exactly 40 years older then I am. I am 24 year old attractive blonde and he is a 64 year old man. It wasn't until recently that our relationship has become physical as it was only about a month ago that we admitted to...
    elisam elisam 22-25, F 3 Responses May 23

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    In A 21 Year Age Gap Relationship - I Am 31, He Is 52 - Happiest I Have Ever Been!

    I have been in a relationship with a man who is 21 years older for 4 months now. It is the most amazing, gratifying, loving relationship that I have ever been in. We met about a year ago on a swim team and we instantly became friends. It wasn't until we had already been friends...
    Stelll01 Stelll01 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    I'm 15 he's 17 so it's not

    as big of a gap I guess. But I think I'm gonna break up with him anyways, since things aren't working out. So I don't think I'm gonna be In one anymore. I guess I just sorta wanted to document it, haha.
    thanamesnyaa thanamesnyaa 16-17, F Jul 7

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    19 year age gap. I am 18

    and he is 37. I joined this just so I could talk about it, because no one knows about us. He is married, and my parents would be furious if they found out. This is the first time I've ever felt this way about someone, and I hate that I have to hide it. We stay up talking for...
    EmCCM EmCCM 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 12

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    I Am In An Age Gap Relationship

    I started seeing a man I'd known innocently since the age of thirteen around my 16th birthday. It was just casual, and after a couple of months I realised I wasn't ready emotionally for the stress of a relationship with such a big age gap. Over half a year went by and I thought I...
    Galacticwonderer Galacticwonderer 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 51 He's my

    Bestfriend and the love of my life :-)
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    16 Years Difference Doesn't Feel That Different

    My boyfriend and I are 16 years apart (I'm 26, he's 42), but I don't notice it at all. I've dated a lot of men from all different age ranges, and I can honestly say I've never really noticed a difference. Maturity wise, they're pretty much all the same...the chronological age...
    toxicallure toxicallure 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2011

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    Our age gap does not matter.

    He is 33 and i'm turning 19.We're already 4 years together as bf and gf.I love him so much.I hope we'll marry soon :) hehe in God's time..i love you hon..hope you read this..i just want to say how much i love u..i'm so proud and grateful that i have u in my life..mwah :-*
    iamhis17 iamhis17 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I am madly in love with my bf Sam

    who is 22 and I am 29. We are the best of friends and he is wise beyond his age. His charming ways are so adorable. His energy is infectious. He lifts up my mood and makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. He is the best thing that ever happened to me. I am not...
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 5 Responses May 23

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    Happy Father's Day to my love.

    Love this picture of him and his grandson! 😘
    avf24 avf24 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    Our 29 Year Age Difference!

    Hello, I am 21 and my boyfriend is 50. We were friends for a couple years before we got together, we have been together 3 amazing years and he's my best friend and the most wonderful boyfriend! We have a lot in common believe it or not, we want the same things out of life like...
    R3DN3KGAL R3DN3KGAL 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    My partner and I have been together

    for 6 years. In Dec we split up. Since then, I have had a real hard time. We are 17 years apart. Im 26 and she is 43. She is the absolute love of my life and I know I am hers. She is struggling with our age gap. She said as she gets older she feels more and more selfish because...
    lette08 lette08 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    Hi folks! Stumbled across this site,

    and decided to make your acquaintance! I'm a 60-year-old, happily married to a 28-year-old guy. My first husband was 6 years younger. I've also dated other men 20+ years older, or 15 years younger, still friends with most of them. Plus, my mom was 19 years younger than my father...
    Jilara Jilara 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    behindblueeyesx behindblueeyesx 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    10+ Years People call me crazy

    and say pretty messed up stuff but I don't care!! I am 23 but I'm an old soul I am not going to find a man my age ready to settle down that doesn't want to go out every night of the week and party there life away or one that wants to have a family and be a family man . I knew...
    Foreverme23 Foreverme23 22-25, F 7 Responses May 23

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    My GF has just turned 22

    and i will be 33 soon. Ok its just ten years but it makes me a lil nervous sometimes. I really dont know why, age is nothing but a number. There are many people that are way older then me and have no concept of how to act their age. She is different to any woman i have ever met...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I am a 27 year old female,

    pretty mature mentally for my age and I have began talking with a 42 year old. He has been married and has a kid. However, that doesn't concern me. I am not one to care what people think, but, from y'all's experience and knowledge, is it doable? I honestly feel it is, but am...
    pixieblonde pixieblonde 26-30, F 20 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Yw/OM

    I am in a 41-year age gap. I'm 24. My boyfriend is 65.
    ameeker ameeker 21-25, F 17 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I talked to my boyfriend last night We talked

    about marriage, how he may want to purpose, how I would feel being a married woman ect. It was all very sweet. We've already went ring shopping. I picked out my favorite. He said he's just waiting until we move in together and we're more comfortable. We should move in together...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    24 Years Age Gap – Fairytale Come True...But Why Can'T People Mind Their Own Business??

    Hello everyone! I’m 25 years old and I’m in a relationship with a man who’s nearly twice my age. I’m totally in love with this man and the way we met and how everything developed tells me it’s my destiny to be with him – our story would be the right thing for a...
    Mizery25 Mizery25 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    I become involved with a man 7 years younger

    than me (my first of such) and I fell for him even though I've never been the type of woman to fall so easily for a man. But now it seems he has played me and I'm so embarrassed and I feel like such a fool.
    Petal14 Petal14 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I Am In 2 Age Gap Relationships!

    Yes I really am in 2 age gap relationships. I am 23 and I love both of my men. I know this is not considered normal but I never said I was normal. My boyfriend is 40 and it can be hard sometimes since a lot of people seem to think it is wrong. We really don't care, we have 3...
    AngelAndDemon AngelAndDemon 22-25 8 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    I'm 20. I'll be 21 in January

    and I love a 15 year old who turns 16 in April. This sounds crazy, and trust me. I fought it and fought it. But there is this connection with him that I have never had before. He fits me, better than some of my best friends. We've been friends for about a year now, and dating...
    anonlikethat anonlikethat 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    I am looking for one.

    Message me if you're single and seeking the same. Girls only.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M Aug 26

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    I'd like to be. Not with a woman in her 90's,

    maybe just 10 years older. Young women my age (20) seem to want different things. They're all 'yolo' and all that rubbish, which they think that by saying that, society allows them to take all their clothes off and dance around like a you know what... Not girlfriend material. Oh...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 12

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    Large Age Gap And Happy :)

    Hello -- I am 22 years old and in a very loving and happy relationship with a 62 year old man. We've been together for two years now. It wasn't always easy (just like any relationship), but we've stuck together and got through the rough patches, and now it has evolved into a very...
    leafonthewind leafonthewind 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    I absolutely love my man,

    but yesterday I met his youngest son for the first time. Since Blake is in the army, I haven't had a chance to meet him until now and dear God he is attractive. 😍
    avf24 avf24 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    Love Really Has No Age. My 26 Year Age Gap Story.

    5years ago, I met my now husband through my ex whom I was with at the time. They were pretty close friends. I was 18 at the time while my husband was 44. I thought I knew what love was until I met him. I still remember the amazing day at Dunkin Donuts smoking cigarette after...
    teacup180 teacup180 22-25 5 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    So, I'm 21 and my fiancee is 38.

    That raises a lot of questions, like "I didn't know he had a daughter." or "What high school do you go to?" Ouch. Why do people need to be so dismissive of me?
    LivvieDestroyerofSocks LivvieDestroyerofSocks 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Im 24 and my husband is 36.

    me and him dont mind the age gap between us the important thing is that we love each other. my parents were mad at me at first for marrying such an older man. but they soon accepted him.
    kate4000 kate4000 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 11

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    Hey! First off, I would like to say

    that it is amazing to have a social media network to open up and be free about my relationship without judgement! I am 19 and my boyfriend is 50. We met when I was 17 and instantly clicked... We started off joking around and after a few months, our relationship took off and we...
    avf24 avf24 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    She Can'T See Past The Age

    I've a girlfriend who tells me I am what she asked God for. However, in her pleadings she failed to mention an age. As a result, God sent me 23 yrs her senior. She loves me, her children love me, and even the dog loves me as dog do. She says she gets closer every day, but the...
    chief03063 chief03063 51-55, M 3 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Hello all, i am new to this site

    and have come here for guidance regarding my situation. In a way i know what the answer is , but its helps when someone else throws it in your face!! I have been friends with this man who is 30 years older than me for about 6 years, about 2 years ago, he started showing me...
    buddieface buddieface 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Dating sugar mommies can be a very exciting

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    GarthPasche GarthPasche 51-55, F Jun 24

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    My Older Man

    Hey,am 18years old and am dating a 52year old man.I love him so much,he does pretty much everything for me,his full of life.despite his age we do fun things together.. His handsome,great body and loves to have sex.to me that's more than I can ask for in a man. Its just hard...
    banji22 banji22 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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