I Am In An Almost Sexless Marriage

This is a reality check for all you people who think you are in an "almost" sexless marriage. Although by technicality you might not qualify to be in a sexless marriage based on the magic number of 10 encounters/year or less...

I’ve been perusing these support forums all over the web for the past few months. Looking for answers, looking for advice, trying to make sure it wasn’t just me out there experiencing this. Needless to say, I’m hardly alone...

I have been monitoring this group as well as ILIASM, and I have never found a situation that quite matches mine. In a nutshell, my sex life is infrequent, predictable, and boring. However, the main problem is my chronic inability to...

My wife and I very much desire each other, but she doesn't *make* time for us. We've gone from multiple times a week to *maybe* a couple times a month... and the few opportunities we get are always rushed because she wants to get it...

The overwhelming negativity of the posts in experiences like this one is the reason why I have not read or posted much here recently. Two key reasons for that is that I don't need to be more depressed about my situation than I already...

I haven't had sex in 6 weeks.. We would normally have sex at least 2 x a week. For a little over a week, he's been in the spare bedroom.. Told him i need my space to figure things out and that I don't know if the marriage is right...

We had sex 4 times in February, while we were attempting the 10 day challenge, but the last time we were intimate was Feb 23 ... so i guess we have gone back to the once a month plan. Although we both have a very full schedule for the...

I look back at that night on the dance floor and wonder what would have happened if I didn't ask for that number. I often ask myself what could have been if I hadn't called back after that first date, or pursued the exgf that had wanted...

SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE ON MY OTHER STORY!!!!!!

And the quality of the passion recieved is not all that great. We're in a 30 year dedicated marriage. Not once has she ever initiated a sexual encounter. Sex seems almost mechanical from her. Affection has always been lacking. Zero...

Like everyone else I've read that 10 times or less a year is considered sexless. Now what parameters do you give Almost Sexless?

The easy answer would to simply give a different number such 10-20 times a year. But I think "Almost...

Its horrible, i feel unwanted, needy, desperate for the touch of a woman, i feel ugly, i am full of passion and love to give and so so desperade.

I applaud everyone for sharing their stories here. I know it takes courage to do so. This is uncomfortable to share, but maybe it will be cathartic for me.
This story has been several years in the making and it’s not a situation...

So we had another argument of this fun issue and I decide to send her an email about how I felt. I'm guessing it will fall on deaf ears, but at least she can't say I don't communicate with her.
Two nights ago, the rare event happened...

Last night, my wife and I were enjoying a quiet evening in. My wife was sitting in her chair doing a crossword puzzle, one of her favorite things to do. It got late, and I decided I needed to go to bed so I could get up in the morning...

Hoping just sets you up for heartache and frustration.

I'm currently having sex with a married man. See he's not attracted to his wife. He avoids sex with her at all cost. The wife is under the impression that's he has erectile dysfunction. He doesn't, at least with me. We fuck like gods. I...

I was discussing the lack of sexual frequency in our marriage with my wife, and to prove to her that some women actually do pursue sex, I told her about the marriage blogs I read that talk about women who have higher drives tan their...