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I Am In An Interracial Relationship

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    I am an extremely small white (French to be specific) girl my boyfriend is black 6'5 and has beautiful dreadlocks (we are crazy about each other and I think he's probably the most...
    SadKittenOnLine SadKittenOnLine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    A lot of people dont date out, because of preconceived notions about other races and cultures, insecurities, racism, cultural differences, fear of disapproval and judgement and...
    Sistahsky Sistahsky 31-35, F Apr 2

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    I am black any my boyfriend is Mexican. We have been dating for almost two months now and we are in a long distance relationship. We live 500 miles from each other. We barely get...
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F Mar 20

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    Hi guys. I'm new here and just hoping to get some advice or calming words really. I just found out about 3 weeks ago with the guy I'm seeing. He is black(26), I am white(23). My...
    interracialproblems interracialproblems 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    The Colour Of Love - A bit of a contradicting title considering the fact that we are not in "love" yet *she says hopefully* but the title is cool ok so don't judge. Soooooo, I'm...
    Mtende Mtende 18-21, F Jun 13, 2013

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    Chinese American - For almost three years now, I have been in an interracial relationship; he is Chinese and I'm a skinny little white girl from Indiana. For the two of us, one of...
    lianhua lianhua 21-25, F 10 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Mine is a whole different thing. I've never dated someone from another race, though I find guys from all races attractive , it's just never happened. I see guys on the train or...
    sholakila sholakila 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    My husband is from New Zealand and i am from Perú. I think race doesn't matter when you're in love.
    lolaj09 lolaj09 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I started dating outside my race when I was a senior in high school. I went to the high school prom with a black man as my date. We knew each other not only at school but we...
    pattywoods pattywoods 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 19

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    I literally didn't even recognize the fact that my boyfriend and I were an interracial couple until we had already been together for a year! We appreciate each others different...
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Indian Girl In An Interracial Relationship With An African Guy - I am an Indian girl 22 years old. I have been in a relationship with an African Black guy and both of us are very...
    garammast garammast 22-25, F 18 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    My Gorgeous Snowman - I used to wonder what it is like being in an interracial relationship. I personally think its beautiful, the combination of different races, learning about...
    IzWhite IzWhite 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    Maybe I'm in relationship. The guy who started to kiss me and had sex doesn't want to be in relationship. He is saying that he likes to being THIS RELATIONSHIp. What the hell is it...
    JasminaMacky JasminaMacky 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    My Family'S Racist. - I never knew black men were sexy until I went to Paris and saw a man walking in a suit. I looked back like 3 times. That man changed the whole game. I grew...
    princessmika princessmika 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    American and Iraqi Engaged - I came to South Korea over a year ago to teach English. While meeting other foreigners, I met an Iraqi man who is in Korea to learn/teach Taekwondo...
    ExpatInKorea ExpatInKorea 21-25, F 18 Responses Jul 25, 2007

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    I have fallen in love with a Muslim, and vice versa. We have next to no problems in our relationship, but as of late religion has become one of them. I don't define myself as a...
    smgrl16 smgrl16 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    I am involved in an interracial relationship again. This is my fourth interracial relationship with a black man. I have been dating black men since I was in middle school, high...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    How does a black British girl get with a us navy Mexican guy? Wouldn't you lot love to know! Lool :p
    Britgirlxo Britgirlxo 18-21, F Feb 22

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    I've always been taught to date a white guy. A white, cowboy. But growing up I never ever wanted that. I never connected with anyone until I met my current boyfriend. He is...
    lbe0317 lbe0317 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    He's amazing. And patient with me. Still learning Spanish. He speaks English perfectly, but I just want to know how to speak his native language. He's from Mexico City, (Mexican).
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M Mar 10

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    He Is My Life Now.. - Me and my boyfriend haven't been together offcially for very long, but have been close for a while.  He is a black man, I am a white girl.  He is...
    taywil070209 taywil070209 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Thai & Country - I fell in love with the most amazing country white guy, and I'm thai. We've been together for almost 7 months and still going strong. ❤️
    countrythaigirl countrythaigirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    Where I come from people tend to date and marry within their race. But when I met my now husband we fell in love. I am Puerto Rican and he is Italian and Irish. Neither of us would...
    Lapoeta2nv Lapoeta2nv 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I've never been attracted to guys of my ethnicity (scandinavian). I've dated pretty much every race of men lol, but right now I'm dating a caribbean guy. I don't like them because...
    untetheredsoul untetheredsoul 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 23

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    Race is a social term, so I don't want to say that I'm in an interracial relationship because that only specifies the social status of our relationship, but I will say that I am in...
    mlcrae mlcrae 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Troubles In My Interracial Relationship - So, i'm african american and my boyfriend is Filipino and Caucasian. We've been together for about a year and a half and everywhere we go...
    jlsmommy jlsmommy 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Don't Like It? Don't Care.... - I am white, he is black. We love each other. Most people support us, some don't. As far as those who don't are concerned - My life & who I...
    SkullOfAnAngel SkullOfAnAngel 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    My 1st was white. My 2nd husband is white. My boyfriend is Turkish. You like and Are attracted to what you like and are attracted to. Be with the one who makes you happy...
    askmeplease askmeplease 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    My dad and step mom do not want me to be dating a black man. They don't want to talk about him or hear about him. They are judging me for being with him. If they knew that I am...
    kristenml kristenml 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 9

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    My man is afghani Pashto and I wouldn't change him for the world interracial relationship can work :)
    ayesha290388 ayesha290388 26-30, F Mar 24

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    Terrible+Wonderful Interracial/ethnic Dating: A Family History - There are many here who would say 'love is blind' or 'I don't see his/her race/skin tone/ethnicity'; I respectfully...
    luminak luminak 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    Can Love Really Be Labled As Interracial?? - I have been in an interracial marriage for 10yrs and in the beginning it was hard for us. The stares, the snickers and comments but it...
    alwayslovingfromafar alwayslovingfromafar 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 20, 2009

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    I was in a interracial relationship, until his mother broke it off because I'm African-American. It seriously broke my heart.
    leannia2000 leannia2000 13-15, F 10 Responses Jan 29

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    Well id like to be, with a cute white boy or mexican. But like no nothing works lol
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Jan 27

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    I am a Filipina and my husband is a Peruvian. We are working in a Cruise Ship. We met on the first day i embarked to work in Costa Serena on june 2012.from that day we were...
    DianeKriss DianeKriss 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 19

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    Black Women White Men Dating - We met on this site(blackwhiteflirts.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    Great Weekend...Bad Moment - I had a great weekend....but one ignorant, racist bigot got her ego deflated. Me and my fiancee went out to this popular pizza joint to just have some...
    smooches smooches 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Umm, it is not relating to interracial relationship. My bf is quite smart and wise, but sometimes I don't understand oh humor or jokes because it has some thought to understand him...
    JasminaMacky JasminaMacky 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Black And White - I've always loved to date outside of my race (preferably black men) I believe god made us all the same the only thing different is our skin color. I can proudly...
    sweetlikesuga sweetlikesuga 26-30, F 6 Responses May 23, 2012

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    My Final Rant And The Bogus Entitlement Clause - Takes a long inhale and exhale.... yep it's about to get really real up in this b!Tch so this is the time for the weak a$$ folks to...
    smooches smooches 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    My boyfriend is Asian/white and I am African American. Sometimes I feel like his friends look at me funny when we're together and I kind of feel like an outcast when we go out with...
    xothursday xothursday 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I am dominican and black ive never been with a black man and get more racism by the black community due to. My preference.
    Unoplayedme Unoplayedme 31-35 1 Response Apr 5

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    Love Has No Color. - My boyfriend is Caucasian and i'am Puerto Rican/Spaniard.We've been together for two years already and this year inseven months our third year anniversary is...
    MissSpookiness MissSpookiness 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    After reading many articles about parents don't allow interracial relationship. I have decided to not do anything about it. First of all, i decided to think about myself. I need...
    Enkhuushv Enkhuushv 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I would like to be. --------
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    He treats me food always, he does not want to be in relationship. He always texts me everyday until we say good night. What is this?
    JasminaMacky JasminaMacky 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Love My Man! - My husband of 5 1/2 years is Caucasian and I'm Hawaiian/African American. I love being in an interracial marriage. It's totally normal for my family. I am the...
    1down5up 1down5up 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    I am in an interracial relationship that's really making me happy at this time I love that we have such differant backgrounds but can still connect emotionally and really comfort...
    Nevergonnagiveuup Nevergonnagiveuup 56-60, M 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I am very much into an interracial relationship. I have dated, married, and have twin boys and pregnant again. I am due on May 23rd.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I love people that are in interracial relationship, I can't help but feel warm and fuzzy inside when I see an interracial family… *happy sighs* one day😌
    ninzaxo ninzaxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Here's a confession- I've never been with anyone the same race as myself. I don't know why. It's not that I don't find white guys attractive or anything, but no white guy has...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I've been in a interracial relationship bwwm.
    athleticFunChick athleticFunChick 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 18