I Am In An Interracial Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,009 People

    Hardboy48 Hardboy48
    26-30, M
    Jan 7, 2016

    My boyfriend is a 38 year old Caucasian man,

    I'm African American. I don't discriminate when it comes to race, I just so happen to fall in love this amazing man. I really love him.
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    2 Responses Feb 25, 2016

    I am in an interracial relationship

    and we have a young child. I've noticed the way people treat us when were together is very different from the way i'm treated when i'm alone with our child. In a sad way, it's as if people treat me more nicely when they assume I am a single parent. When they see me with the...
    amb3rxo amb3rxo
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 21, 2015

    Just got married to my very beautiful

    and amazing Cuban fiancée lol or rather now my wife. I'm African American. At first in the relationship there were issues with certain parts of her family which has a strong spaniard ancestry but it's amazing how once the family is on board the dynamic changes that take place...
    Rilucard Rilucard
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    and I wish my family could truly be supportive.

    Yesterday, my mother and I had lunch. We were on the topic of my partner's family because his cousin is having a baby soon. The first awkward part of the whole conversation was she inquired "if any of them are married to Americans". To which, I calmly had to respond that...
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    Oct 9, 2015

    I'm black and my boyfriend is white (: Gorgeous

    baby blues, 6'4", headstrong and makes me laugh! I love that we look so different! Different is beautiful! When he was deployed in Japan, some of the locals would stop and ask to take a picture with him lol. He's tall here in the states but he TOWERED over the Japanese. Of...
    Livvy2 Livvy2
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2014

    American and Iraqi Engaged

    I came to South Korea over a year ago to teach English. While meeting other foreigners, I met an Iraqi man who is in Korea to learn/teach Taekwondo. Since I did TKD for several years as a kid, we immediately hit it off. I joined his class and we soon started dating. We became...
    ExpatInKorea ExpatInKorea
    22-25, F
    18 Responses Jul 25, 2007

    Yeah i am, and I don't see the color in it,

    just my gf, and damn is she gorgeous
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    1 Response Apr 9, 2016

    Can Love Really Be Labled As Interracial??

    I have been in an interracial marriage for 10yrs and in the beginning it was hard for us. The stares, the snickers and comments but it didnt matter because our relationship was about the two of us. I really have never had a preference. I was raised in a predominantly white...
    alwayslovingfromafar alwayslovingfromafar
    31-35, F
    22 Responses Mar 20, 2009

    Thai & Country

    I would like to keep you guys updated, still with same person, we are engaged now. Things have been going great, we may have our differences, but we pull through it together. I love this man with all my heart, not planning to be with anyone else. This next few days will be a YEAR...
    countrythaigirl countrythaigirl
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 28, 2013

    I'm a black girl who's currently in an

    interracial relationship with a lovely white guy. Things are wonderful and I love him very much. Nearly all of my relationships/dating experienced have been interracial with a variety of races. I never look at race, I look at what a person has to offer. Some people one my area...
    raeediance raeediance
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 10, 2016
    infinitelovexo infinitelovexo
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Apr 22, 2015

    I am an extremely small white (French to be

    specific) girl my boyfriend is black 6'5 and has beautiful dreadlocks (we are crazy about each other and I think he's probably the most attractive man I've ever seen). I love everything about him. He's extremely supportive of me, helps me through my depression and is always here...
    SadKittenOnLine SadKittenOnLine
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2014

    I've always been open minded about dating.

    I am not limited to certain races, heights, skin color, etc. I've dated in my own race before. I've been interested in all kinds of guys. But I just happened to come across a man of a different race that I absolutely fell in love with. We've been together for almost 2 years...
    butterflybaby90 butterflybaby90
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016

    If people would see souls instead of bodies,

    they will realize that we are all the same and are equally worthy of love.
    firetiger86 firetiger86
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    Walking down the street with my beautiful,

    amazing girlfriend and some lowlife scumbag yells the N word at her. What upsets me the most is that she's so unaffected by it. Because that's normal for her. She's so incredible. But I'd still like to throat punch that guy...
    MissinMySon MissinMySon
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    My husband identifies

    as culturally Jewish. His parents were both of Polish Jewish descent, liberal and not especially religious. Each lost their first spouse and children in the concentration camps. They met and married just after the war in Berlin, during the allied mop up and then moved to Israel...
    hartfire hartfire
    56-60, F
    Apr 8, 2016
    min0sh min0sh
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

    My Gorgeous Snowman

    I used to wonder what it is like being in an interracial relationship. I personally think its beautiful, the combination of different races, learning about one's cultures, traditions and language. I love seeing interracial relationship and marriages, and the fact that its...
    IzWhite IzWhite
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 13, 2011

    How does a black British girl get with a us

    navy Mexican guy? Wouldn't you lot love to know! Lool :p
    Britgirlxo Britgirlxo
    22-25, F
    Feb 22, 2014

    I am in a interracial relationship.

    I'm African-American and my boyfriend is Caucasian-American. I meet him online about 2 years ago and we've been going strong ever since. He's my best friend and we share a lot in common. I am an ENFP and he is an INFP. He has been there for me and has lifted me up in my most...
    SunshineSplash SunshineSplash
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    Black And White

    I've always loved to date outside of my race (preferably black men) I believe god made us all the same the only thing different is our skin color. I can proudly say that i have jungle fever :)
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    2 Responses May 23, 2012

    Can we please stop acting like mixed people

    and children are watered down versions of their ethnicities. People should stop telling others with light skin and dark skin, oh you're pretty for a white girl, or, oh you're pretty for a dark skinned girl. Light skin or dark skin isn't a badge of shame. But rather a glorious...
    MissQueenB MissQueenB
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 18, 2016

    I find joy and laughter knowing

    that me and my man being together upsets people who don't even know us all because of us being an interracial couple
    tw82491 tw82491
    26-30, F
    Feb 28, 2016

    Yes I am in an interracial relationship

    and I'm very happy with my fiancé. We're just like any normal couple. We don't even consider the fact that we're a black and white couple but yet and still there are so many people in this world who despise it. We always get the snared looks, rude stares, but no one never says...
    Msprissy Msprissy
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 7, 2016

    Before this relationship,

    I have had 6 other relationships, and a marriage. all to white people (I too am white). not out of intent or anything, it just turned out that way. this is my first interracial relationship. my boyfriend is 100% Cherokee Indian. I do have some native blood in me, but not enough...
    TicheledWitch TicheledWitch
    22-25, F
    Dec 16, 2015

    Love My Man!

    My husband of 5 1/2 years is Caucasian and I'm Hawaiian/African American. I love being in an interracial marriage. It's totally normal for my family. I am the youngest of 9, 7 adopted. My parents are Caucasian with 2 biological children. Then I have 3 Korean sisters, 1 Korean...
    1down5up 1down5up
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2012

    Growing up in South Carolina it was always the

    un-spoken mind that the races stay apart. I am happy to say that when I brought my husband home (he is black but grew up in Germany) my parents and family loved him instantly . Since that time we have been married , completed college , succeed in our jobs and had a wonderful son...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2015

    While on an interracial topic I mentioned in a

    previous post, here's a debate I was having with some family a couple days ago. I have dated this guy for 4 and a 1/2 years. He's fully Mexican, born in the US, but raised in Mexico. Catholic, speaks spanish fluently, gets passionate about immigration debates. Let's just say he...
    gazlove17 gazlove17
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015

    I'm Chinese and she is black.

    We have been together for over 3 years now and still going strong.
    fitpro731 fitpro731
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Sep 24, 2014

    My wife is biracial (Black Nigerian

    and Kuwaiti) and I'm a native borne African American man. We make quite the couple. We've together for 3 years. She's 51 and I'm 48 and we want some brown babies. We're going the surrogate route.
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    1 Response Jul 11, 2015

    I am in my first ever interracial relationship.

    Nothing against it obviously lol. I just usually go for really pale guys. I think he thinks im weird sometimes because i often ask him to tell me his whole life story in spanish lol. I don't know. It's nice as hell. I dont think it's because of his race or anything. I think he...
    lyinginwait lyinginwait
    26-30, F
    Apr 3, 2016

    I met my current partner at work.

    He's Mexican and transgendered (ftm) and I'm white and cis-gendered (female). At first I was a little wary of getting into another relationship after the last one went so wrong but the way that he looked at me made me feel weak in the knees and, eventually, I couldn't stand...
    Lilyhammer420 Lilyhammer420
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2015

    I have been in an out of interrelationships

    over the years since I left home. I love when I am with a black man. I love looking at our wonderful and beautiful skin tones on our bodies when we are naked and laying in bed together.
    christymclake christymclake
    36-40, F
    9 Responses May 7, 2014
    VirginGuy55 VirginGuy55
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 8, 2016

    Things people need to stop saying to me about

    my mixed-race children: "Mixed kids are the cutest!" "Your daughter is so lucky to have the blue eyes." "They're so exotic!" "What are they?" "Was it weird to see a black baby come out of you?" "They don't act black." "Are they adopted?" "What percentage black are they...
    lauren71 lauren71
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2016

    I'm white/euro mutt (polish,

    swedish, irish, german, and dutch). He's asian/vietnamese. We're moving into our first home at the end of this month. I can't wait to experience being able to smother him every day of the week.
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    2 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    Lucky for me my family doesn't have a problem

    with anything like that. He's been sweeter and nicer to me then anyone else I've dated, and the fact that people still have a problem with this, makes me sad. I live in the south, and so it's not hard to come across someone who was brought up on "White and White". At a party a...
    AlwaysRestless AlwaysRestless
    18-21, F
    Feb 16, 2016

    I am currently in an interracial relationship

    with a black man. We have been dating for 18 years and been married for 17 years. We have five boys and 3 girls together. We love each other so much and each other's family as well.
    susan33109 susan33109
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2014

    I am a white woman that loves diversity.

    I am involved in an interracial relationship with a black man. I have been dating black men since I was a school girl in England. I came to America and fell in love with a good looking, in excellent shape, intellectual, powerful, and a great catch. We began dating and a year...
    britishfemaleinusa britishfemaleinusa
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I am South African and my boyfriend

    if Mexican. I don't understand what's so bad about dating outside of your race. He makes me laugh and he makes me smile more than anyone else I know. I love him.
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2014

    I am black, and my husband is white.

    We have 4 children. We have never had issues with our own families with our relationship, and we are very fortunate that way. However, my son who is 18 yrs old has not been so lucky. He has been dating a young lady who is white. They started date back in Feb during their senior...
    MomOfFour78 MomOfFour78
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Nov 17, 2014

    the top 10 most beautiful interracial couples

    2015 the number 3 are cute www.youtube.com/watch?v=7YSbQEFUyC0&feature=youtu.be
    Kelly198900 Kelly198900
    26-30, F
    Aug 25, 2015

    I'm black and he's white.

    We've been together almost 3 years. He is now a United States Marine and we will be tying the knot this summer :).
    infinitelovexo infinitelovexo
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 5, 2015
    lovenicolexo lovenicolexo
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 3, 2014

    I am in white woman in relationship with a

    black woman. Just starting out I date women any race though but I feel for woman I am dating now.
    AphroditePink96 AphroditePink96
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    I am a white girl who is dating a black boy

    and I don't see anything wrong with that at all. So what if I'm white and my boyfriend is black it's not any body's business who I choose to date. My boyfriend is a good person and that is the most important thing.
    nodirectioninlife nodirectioninlife
    16-17, F
    Dec 27, 2015

    I like men, period. But I have to say I've

    always liked white guys and for 4 going on 5 months I've been dating my boyfriend. He's the most amazing , interesting and kind hearted person. Which goes well with me because I'm kind but I can be a blunt object too haha. He wants to marry me, loves me completely and is really...
    soulpool20 soulpool20
    26-30, F
    Aug 30, 2015

    I'm married to a white guy,

    I'm a black girl. It's sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy, people used to always joke that I'd marry a white man. I have no preference, I love all colors, he just happens to be the greatest guy I've ever known (besides my dad.) We haven't encountered much prejudice, at least not...
    HairHarlot HairHarlot
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2014

    I love people of all races,

    nationalities and origins. And, I am proud of it!!!
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    Jul 11, 2015

    So, I am a white, 40 year old man.

    I was a member of this dating site, and I get a messege from this very dark skinned, beautiful, big black woman, 30 years old. Large and lovely. Saying I'm hot. I was taken aback, because I thought she was gorgeous. but we started chatting last week, and set up a date...
    bbilbo025 bbilbo025
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 23, 2014

    I have a beautiful Asian wife.

    ..she is my world..
    badlilbutterfly badlilbutterfly
    41-45, F
    Aug 9, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    Black Women White Men Dating

    We met on this site(blackwhiteflirts.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for happy hour . We ended up talking for 4 hours and then she went with me to a cousin's cookout the next day . She is the...
    Allenm13 Allenm13
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013

    I'm costarican and he's haitian.

    I think we're lovely together. It was hard introducing him to my family since hispanics believe it or not are against mixing "blood". They got to know him and now they love him. Or so they seem to. He treats me right and I can tell he has unconditional love for me. 3 years in...
    peacesoullove peacesoullove
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2015

    I started dating outside my race

    when I was a senior in high school. I went to the high school prom with a black man as my date. We knew each other not only at school but we attended the same church. So I had not problem accepting his invitation. After high school, we both attended Baylor University located...
    pattywoods pattywoods
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Jan 19, 2014

    I'm in interracial marriage

    and been married for 10 years. Sometimes I do wonder how will I get along if my spouse was the same race as me. I do think couples who grew up in different culture have to try much harder to make the marriage work. That can be challenging yet intriguing. Personally it...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2015

    And I kind of what EP's thoughts on something.

    I'm black, and my girlfriend is latina. Things are amazing and great aside from one thing. While she doesn't like white people, I don't really care about race and avoid generalizing as much as I can. If I were normal I guess this wouldn't be a problem- but my dad VERY OPENLY...
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 18, 2015
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