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I Am In An Interracial Relationship

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    I'm black and my boyfriend is white (: Gorgeous

    baby blues, 6'4", headstrong and makes me laugh! I love that we look so different! Different is beautiful! When he was deployed in Japan, some of the locals would stop and ask to take a picture with him lol. He's tall here in the states but he TOWERED over the Japanese. Of...
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 4

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    I'm white and I'm deeply in love with a

    Sri-Lankan man, it's amazing seeing my pale hands holding his but I'm scared. I know my parents will love him just because I do but I'm not sure about his mother, their traditions or religion. It's so bad when people says: family first thing and then they impose their children...
    Mistica3 Mistica3 36-40, F 4 Responses May 23

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    Married to a Westerner

    and I am Asian... It is very hard for me to accept some of his western views. I want kids but he does not want one. He thinks that they will just make our life a burden... But from how I was brought up and everything around me I felt different.. Kids makes life better.. Oh i...
    hello7904 hello7904 31-35, F 6 Responses May 16

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    please thoughts and advice.

    im 15 and my bf is 16 we have been together for nearly 9 months now. we have broken up probably more than 5 times throughout. anyways things havent been so great lately. last night we had an argument over how he believes he wont see me over the summer since we live less than 1...
    kathy803 kathy803 22-25, F 2 Responses May 29

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    So, I am a white, 40 year old man.

    I was a member of this dating site, and I get a messege from this very dark skinned, beautiful, big black woman, 30 years old. Large and lovely. Saying I'm hot. I was taken aback, because I thought she was gorgeous. but we started chatting last week, and set up a date...
    bbilbo025 bbilbo025 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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    The Colour Of Love

    A bit of a contradicting title considering the fact that we are not in "love" yet *she says hopefully* but the title is cool ok so don't judge. Soooooo, I'm currently in the "courting" phase of the relationship (which sounds old-fashioned but I am truly enjoying this moment of...
    Mtende Mtende 18-21, F Jun 13, 2013

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    American and Iraqi Engaged

    I came to South Korea over a year ago to teach English. While meeting other foreigners, I met an Iraqi man who is in Korea to learn/teach Taekwondo. Since I did TKD for several years as a kid, we immediately hit it off. I joined his class and we soon started dating. We became...
    ExpatInKorea ExpatInKorea 21-25, F 18 Responses Jul 25, 2007

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    How does a black British girl get with a us

    navy Mexican guy? Wouldn't you lot love to know! Lool :p
    Britgirlxo Britgirlxo 18-21, F Feb 22

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    Can Love Really Be Labled As Interracial??

    I have been in an interracial marriage for 10yrs and in the beginning it was hard for us. The stares, the snickers and comments but it didnt matter because our relationship was about the two of us. I really have never had a preference. I was raised in a predominantly white...
    alwayslovingfromafar alwayslovingfromafar 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 20, 2009

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    Great Weekend...Bad Moment

    I had a great weekend....but one ignorant, racist bigot got her ego deflated. Me and my fiancee went out to this popular pizza joint to just have some fun. As soon as the waitress walked up looking at us weird, I knew we were gonna have a problem. She immediately ignored me and...
    smooches smooches 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Black And White

    I've always loved to date outside of my race (preferably black men) I believe god made us all the same the only thing different is our skin color. I can proudly say that i have jungle fever :)
    sweetlikesuga sweetlikesuga 26-30, F 6 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Black Women White Men Dating

    We met on this site(blackwhiteflirts.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for happy hour . We ended up talking for 4 hours and then she went with me to a cousin's cookout the next day . She is the...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    I was in an interracial relationship

    for 25 years with a black man. He got caught cheating by me and I divorced him 6 months ago for this immoral action. The thing that is most humiliating is the fact that he got pregnant a couple of my girlfriends. They are no long my friends.
    recentlydivorcedmom recentlydivorcedmom 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 26

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    Thai & Country

    I would like to keep you guys updated, still with same person, we are engaged now. Things have been going great, we may have our differences, but we pull through it together. I love this man with all my heart, not planning to be with anyone else. This next few days will be a YEAR...
    countrythaigirl countrythaigirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    Being in a interracial relationship does have

    its challenges. I'm biracial, my mom is black and my dad is full Italian. My boyfriend is Mexican. When we first got together I was worried that we were going to get looks from people. I was more nervous actually saying something rude to us. We still get looks from people...
    PeaceLove212 PeaceLove212 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    My Gorgeous Snowman

    I used to wonder what it is like being in an interracial relationship. I personally think its beautiful, the combination of different races, learning about one's cultures, traditions and language. I love seeing interracial relationship and marriages, and the fact that its...
    IzWhite IzWhite 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    My Final Rant And The Bogus Entitlement Clause

    Takes a long inhale and exhale.... yep it's about to get really real up in this b!Tch so this is the time for the weak a$$ folks to exit this story cause I'm gonna say some stuff ya'll ain't gonna wanna hear. Let's gooo....First off to the Black men who claim that they are more...
    smooches smooches 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    I am dominican and black ive never been with a

    black man and get more racism by the black community due to. My preference.
    Unoplayedme Unoplayedme 31-35 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I have been dating a black guy (I'm white)

    for 4 years now. Until 2012 nobody knew except friends. Then my mom found out. Then last year I told my dad. My parents are not to fond of the fact I am dating him and has refused to meet him. My boyfriend is getting antsy and feels like I'm shuffling my feet. He wants to get...
    slayjn slayjn 26-30, F 14 Responses May 4

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    Love My Man!

    My husband of 5 1/2 years is Caucasian and I'm Hawaiian/African American. I love being in an interracial marriage. It's totally normal for my family. I am the youngest of 9, 7 adopted. My parents are Caucasian with 2 biological children. Then I have 3 Korean sisters, 1 Korean...
    1down5up 1down5up 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    I am South African and my boyfriend

    if Mexican. I don't understand what's so bad about dating outside of your race. He makes me laugh and he makes me smile more than anyone else I know. I love him.
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Don't Like It? Don't Care....

    I am white, he is black. We love each other. Most people support us, some don't. As far as those who don't are concerned - My life & who I choose to be in it is nobodies business but my own. This isn't the 1950's, times are & have been changing. Mixed couples are being...
    SkullOfAnAngel SkullOfAnAngel 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    My Family'S Racist.

    I never knew black men were sexy until I went to Paris and saw a man walking in a suit. I looked back like 3 times. That man changed the whole game. I grew up with traditional Chinese parents. Racist, even with their own race. Their values and the way they saw things were close...
    princessmika princessmika 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I am an extremely small white (French to be

    specific) girl my boyfriend is black 6'5 and has beautiful dreadlocks (we are crazy about each other and I think he's probably the most attractive man I've ever seen). I love everything about him. He's extremely supportive of me, helps me through my depression and is always here...
    SadKittenOnLine SadKittenOnLine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I've been officially with my bf

    for four months. We dated for 6 months before that and he originally was hesitant to be official because his parents would not approve of him dating a black girl (he's Indian) they disowned him and they had a big falling out over his first gf years ago.They broke up n his...
    codelle1 codelle1 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    I'm white and my bf is black.

    For me its not the first time but for him it is. He's very afrocentric and sometimes I feel that even he is shocked that he ended up with a white girl lol (he says I'm the love of his life and that he wants us to get married) but that's fine with me. At least I know he loves me...
    untetheredsoul untetheredsoul 22-25, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I'm so in love with this guy here!

    In a very short amount of time he has consumed any left over space in my heart, then continued to take over space in my mind and I'm pretty sure he has removed one of my kidneys to make more room for himself lol. We have an open relationship with no jealousy issues because we...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    I am 100% Irish and in November I am marrying a

    wonderful gorgeous tall Filipino boy. At 35 I finally figured out- nice is what will take you to old age.
    fionamckenna fionamckenna 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    I am involved in an interracial relationship

    again. This is my fourth interracial relationship with a black man. I have been dating black men since I was in middle school, high school, and in college. I truly enjoy being involved with black men so much. They take good care of me, respect me as a woman, I am never...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    Just tired of people passing judgment,

    or feeling like I'm slowly being robbed of the only thing I want. Marriage and a family with the person I love... I just want to be accepted the way anyone would. Why do people make certain things in life difficult? If you love someone enough you fight for them no matter what...
    winmill winmill 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4

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    I'm married to a white guy,

    I'm a black girl. It's sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy, people used to always joke that I'd marry a white man. I have no preference, I love all colors, he just happens to be the greatest guy I've ever known (besides my dad.) We haven't encountered much prejudice, at least not...
    HairHarlot HairHarlot 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 18

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    He's Italian, I'm Pakistani ,

    black and part European.
    prolongthedream prolongthedream 18-21, F May 4

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    I posted this experience before,

    but deleted it cos I thought we were breaking up, then I realised I was making a horrible mistake, and luckily he loved me enough to fight for us. He is Jamaican, and I am white, and we have been together for just over eighteen months. Yes we have imperfections, as we both have...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I am very much into an interracial relationship.

    I have dated, married, and have twin boys and pregnant again. I am due on May 23rd.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    ilovemangojuice ilovemangojuice 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I really need help. I am Chinese.

    My boyfriend Kim is Korean. His grandfather really disapproves of me because he wants Kim to marry a Korean girl. He makes Kim go on blind dates with Korean girls he picked and even arranged a fiancee from Korea for him. We have stuck to each other for 7 years now. I feel so...
    annkim2 annkim2 36-40, F 4 Responses May 14

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    Mine is a whole different thing.

    I've never dated someone from another race, though I find guys from all races attractive , it's just never happened. I see guys on the train or anywhere else and we smile and there's eye contact but that's about it. I'm thinking, maybe they are intimidated or like the look of a...
    sholakila sholakila 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I haven't experienced many of the challenges

    many interracial couples face, but maybe it's just because it's a long distance relationship. A few weeks ago, my aunt and I were talking about the subject. She was once married to a Caucasian man, but he passed away. She would always share her depressing horror stories about...
    KiannaJ KiannaJ 22-25, F 1 Response May 26

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    I have been in an out of interrelationships

    over the years since I left home. I love when I am with a black man. I love looking at our wonderful and beautiful skin tones on our bodies when we are naked and laying in bed together.
    christymclake christymclake 31-35, F 12 Responses May 7

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    cheon cheon 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    Indian Girl In An Interracial Relationship With An African Guy

    I am an Indian girl 22 years old. I have been in a relationship with an African Black guy and both of us are very happy in this relationship. My parents have met him and know him as a university colleague but I had till then not yet told my parents about the actual relationship...
    garammast garammast 22-25, F 17 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    I'm mixed with African American

    and Mexican while my boyfriend is straight Mexican ☺️
    7lee7 7lee7 16-17, F Jul 8

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    The cream to my coffee.

    . Yes we #swirl
    GabbyMommy GabbyMommy 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Love Has No Color.

    My boyfriend is Caucasian and i'am Puerto Rican/Spaniard.We've been together for two years already and this year inseven months our third year anniversary is coming up.He's the first Caucasian man i've ever been with, i'vebeen with two guys, one was asian and the otherwas mixed...
    MissSpookiness MissSpookiness 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    lovenicolexo lovenicolexo 18-21, F 5 Responses May 3

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    I started dating outside my race

    when I was a senior in high school. I went to the high school prom with a black man as my date. We knew each other not only at school but we attended the same church. So I had not problem accepting his invitation. After high school, we both attended Baylor University located...
    pattywoods pattywoods 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 19

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    I am currently in an interracial relationship

    with a black man. We have been dating for 18 years and been married for 17 years. We have five boys and 3 girls together. We love each other so much and each other's family as well.
    susan33109 susan33109 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 22

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    I am in an interracial relationship

    and pregnant by him too. We are not planning on getting married.
    lovechildreninside lovechildreninside 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    I'm in an interracial relationship.

    My boyfriend Kris, and I. #Swirl
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    People judge all the time about interracial relationships. I had no idea that it would be my own mother.
    bariblessed bariblessed 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I think interracial relationships are awesome it's not about the skin color or the race . It's about how they make u feel. An when I'm walking with a women of a different race an...
    jsmith247 jsmith247 26-30, M Jul 1

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    Double Standard- I'm the product of one and people often say, "So your father's black?" And are stunned when I say, "No my mother. She doesn't do black men. My dad's from Belarus...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I love seeing interracial relationships. My mom and sisters have dated many black guys and had their babies too. Some of my girlfriends are dating and pregnant by black guys too...
    lovechildreninside lovechildreninside 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16