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I Am In An Interracial Relationship

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    It's my first interracial relationship (with a

    white male) and I love just looking at him tattoos, 6'1", dark brown hair, crystal blue eyes 33yrs but above all he's respectful and very caring (can't complain about the "intimate" times as well ;-))
    Janasai Janasai 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Are a black woman and white man meant to be?

    Does he fetishize me? Is our love real? Will our children actually be more beautiful? Should I not help destroy his beautiful white family lineage? Should I marry him? Should I just stay alone? Has media turned my relationship into a trend?
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 23

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    Great Weekend...Bad Moment

    I had a great weekend....but one ignorant, racist bigot got her ego deflated. Me and my fiancee went out to this popular pizza joint to just have some fun. As soon as the waitress walked up looking at us weird, I knew we were gonna have a problem. She immediately ignored me and...
    smooches smooches 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Mine is a whole different thing.

    I've never dated someone from another race, though I find guys from all races attractive , it's just never happened. I see guys on the train or anywhere else and we smile and there's eye contact but that's about it. I'm thinking, maybe they are intimidated or like the look of a...
    sholakila sholakila 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    My boyfriend is Jamaican

    and I am Dominican. Some of my family disapproves of our relationship because of his dark skin, but that's one of the things I love about him! I love my chocolate man <3
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F Oct 1

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    my boyfriend is white

    and im mexican, white and filipino :)
    xolexissss xolexissss 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I love all people the only race is the human

    race BUT from where I'm from there are all kinds of races and we shouldn't interact I think it's hilarious though honestly because it's sooo stupid and I've been affected by it personally but my boyfriend got the worst of it because he's white and I'm black there are a lot of...
    UnconventionalBeauty UnconventionalBeauty 13-15, F Aug 11

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    When I'm with Him and I attempt at using slang,

    he might say, “You are so white!” And vice versa. Its a thing we teased each other about, especially because I live in a more "hoodish" location than he does. When I first saw him, I instantly noticed his hands and how they are different from mine. I love the way our hands...
    PerksOfJonathan PerksOfJonathan 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm in an interracial relationship.

    My boyfriend Kris, and I. #Swirl
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I think my bf is just the sweetest

    and cutest. I love his eyes and his smile even though he worries about it not being perfect sometimes. I used to have similar teeth before braces. I love his strong build even though he playfully calls himself "fat boy." He can easily pick me up, and he has a big broad chest. He...
    princessaliababua princessaliababua 22-25, F Aug 20

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    I'm Chinese and she is black.

    We have been together for over 3 years now and still going strong.
    fitpro731 fitpro731 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I'm black & Brazilian

    and my fiancé is a Caucasian from EUROPE. I love him! If you have a problem with interracial dating then, on well. 😘
    Nolove89 Nolove89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    American and Iraqi Engaged

    I came to South Korea over a year ago to teach English. While meeting other foreigners, I met an Iraqi man who is in Korea to learn/teach Taekwondo. Since I did TKD for several years as a kid, we immediately hit it off. I joined his class and we soon started dating. We became...
    ExpatInKorea ExpatInKorea 21-25, F 18 Responses Jul 25, 2007

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    The Colour Of Love

    A bit of a contradicting title considering the fact that we are not in "love" yet *she says hopefully* but the title is cool ok so don't judge. Soooooo, I'm currently in the "courting" phase of the relationship (which sounds old-fashioned but I am truly enjoying this moment of...
    Mtende Mtende 18-21, F Jun 13, 2013

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    Thai & Country

    I would like to keep you guys updated, still with same person, we are engaged now. Things have been going great, we may have our differences, but we pull through it together. I love this man with all my heart, not planning to be with anyone else. This next few days will be a YEAR...
    countrythaigirl countrythaigirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    Can Love Really Be Labled As Interracial??

    I have been in an interracial marriage for 10yrs and in the beginning it was hard for us. The stares, the snickers and comments but it didnt matter because our relationship was about the two of us. I really have never had a preference. I was raised in a predominantly white...
    alwayslovingfromafar alwayslovingfromafar 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 20, 2009

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    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I am currently in an interracial relationship

    with a black man. We have been dating for 18 years and been married for 17 years. We have five boys and 3 girls together. We love each other so much and each other's family as well.
    susan33109 susan33109 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 22

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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating

    for a year almost 2 now and people still look at us when we're in public together whether it's in confusion or in admiration people just need to stop living in the past and push past the fact that you don't need to be the same race to fall in love .
    7lee7 7lee7 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I love women of all races.

    Race will probably never be an issue to me when selecting a partner. Many in my family do not agree with me. I had a cousin tell me that "A black man who is with a white woman can never truly consider himself black." I thought that was a crock of sh*t when I heard it and I...
    OhDaddyMmm OhDaddyMmm 36-40, M Aug 14

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    I am South African and my boyfriend

    if Mexican. I don't understand what's so bad about dating outside of your race. He makes me laugh and he makes me smile more than anyone else I know. I love him.
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    I'm African American

    and he's Caucasian. I love him to death.
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    So, I am a white, 40 year old man.

    I was a member of this dating site, and I get a messege from this very dark skinned, beautiful, big black woman, 30 years old. Large and lovely. Saying I'm hot. I was taken aback, because I thought she was gorgeous. but we started chatting last week, and set up a date...
    bbilbo025 bbilbo025 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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    We got into a fight,

    and separated. He apologized and I forgave him. We are happy again!
    sanarirachel sanarirachel 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    How does a black British girl get with a us

    navy Mexican guy? Wouldn't you lot love to know! Lool :p
    Britgirlxo Britgirlxo 18-21, F Feb 22

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    I have been in an out of interrelationships

    over the years since I left home. I love when I am with a black man. I love looking at our wonderful and beautiful skin tones on our bodies when we are naked and laying in bed together.
    christymclake christymclake 31-35, F 12 Responses May 7

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    hopelessheartache hopelessheartache 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    lovenicolexo lovenicolexo 18-21, F 5 Responses May 3

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    I am in an interracial relationship

    and it doesn't matter.
    sanarirachel sanarirachel 31-35, F Aug 12

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    Did I mention my parents stopped speaking to me?

    ? Lol but guess who is in the best relationship of her ****** life bruh lol :)))
    prettylove2 prettylove2 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Well kind of . I'm Black/Native mostly

    and Bae is Puerto Rican/ Dominician mostly . We are us so it counts. I speak more spanish than him and he cooks for comfort. He's very (white) American integrated and I'm like a (New) Black Panther. We differ a lot . He rejects his upbringing and accepts America. I reject...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Oct 2

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    Love My Man!

    My husband of 5 1/2 years is Caucasian and I'm Hawaiian/African American. I love being in an interracial marriage. It's totally normal for my family. I am the youngest of 9, 7 adopted. My parents are Caucasian with 2 biological children. Then I have 3 Korean sisters, 1 Korean...
    1down5up 1down5up 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    i am white and my boyfriend is west indian.

    .. i don't give a damn! <3
    syentafoxy syentafoxy 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I was in an interracial relationship

    for 25 years with a black man. He got caught cheating by me and I divorced him 6 months ago for this immoral action. The thing that is most humiliating is the fact that he got pregnant a couple of my girlfriends. They are no long my friends.
    recentlydivorcedmom recentlydivorcedmom 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 26

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    Black Women White Men Dating

    We met on this site(blackwhiteflirts.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for happy hour . We ended up talking for 4 hours and then she went with me to a cousin's cookout the next day . She is the...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I am an extremely small white (French to be

    specific) girl my boyfriend is black 6'5 and has beautiful dreadlocks (we are crazy about each other and I think he's probably the most attractive man I've ever seen). I love everything about him. He's extremely supportive of me, helps me through my depression and is always here...
    SadKittenOnLine SadKittenOnLine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I've been officially with my bf

    for four months. We dated for 6 months before that and he originally was hesitant to be official because his parents would not approve of him dating a black girl (he's Indian) they disowned him and they had a big falling out over his first gf years ago.They broke up n his...
    codelle1 codelle1 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    I'm married to a white guy,

    I'm a black girl. It's sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy, people used to always joke that I'd marry a white man. I have no preference, I love all colors, he just happens to be the greatest guy I've ever known (besides my dad.) We haven't encountered much prejudice, at least not...
    HairHarlot HairHarlot 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 18

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    My boyfriend is 1st generation Mexican american

    and I am white. We aren't the same person, but we are very compatible, with a couple exceptions. I don't speak Spanish and if and when we get married he would want children who learn Spanish first, just like he did. This is a subject that leads to immediate disagreements and...
    DisneyDreamer DisneyDreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Love Has No Color.

    My boyfriend is Caucasian and i'am Puerto Rican/Spaniard.We've been together for two years already and this year inseven months our third year anniversary is coming up.He's the first Caucasian man i've ever been with, i'vebeen with two guys, one was asian and the otherwas mixed...
    MissSpookiness MissSpookiness 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    Don't even really like calling my relationship

    'interracial' lol but he is black, I am white.. Love the different culture.. He is an amazing man.. His color doesn't matter to me! He's gorgeous and sweet and so perfect.. Been over two years and I know he is my twin flame ☺️☺️☺️ love my baby.. Couldn't ask for no...
    prettylove2 prettylove2 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Me and my girlfriend,

    who I have been dating for over six months, are in an interracial relationship. She is Lebanese-Canadian, and I am a white Canadian. I love her to death! She is amazing and has an interesting culture! Her family is so close! Something that is rare in today's society. She is...
    nohopekid nohopekid 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    I live in a predominately black country

    where the society looks upon inter-racial couples, not as a bad thing but as a 'what's wrong with your own race' sort of attitude . This is not to say that I hate my own race (black) but people naturally assume, I'm too good to be in a relationship with my own, which isn't a...
    InnocentBitesizeChocolate InnocentBitesizeChocolate 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 17

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    Black And White

    I've always loved to date outside of my race (preferably black men) I believe god made us all the same the only thing different is our skin color. I can proudly say that i have jungle fever :)
    sweetlikesuga sweetlikesuga 26-30, F 6 Responses May 23, 2012

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    So meet my bfs bother

    and girlfriend yesterday. I really need to learn Spanish.
    mixedlove mixedlove 18-21, F Oct 5

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    I started dating outside my race

    when I was a senior in high school. I went to the high school prom with a black man as my date. We knew each other not only at school but we attended the same church. So I had not problem accepting his invitation. After high school, we both attended Baylor University located...
    pattywoods pattywoods 31-35, F 15 Responses Jan 19

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    I have been in an inter racial relationship

    long term, we broke up because he had anger issues. Most fun: learning about a new religion and traditions, playfully teasing each other about your differences Wondering what your kids will look like (be amazingly cute and mixed race) and what your wedding day will be like (be...
    atatt atatt 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am involved in an interracial relationship

    again. This is my fourth interracial relationship with a black man. I have been dating black men since I was in middle school, high school, and in college. I truly enjoy being involved with black men so much. They take good care of me, respect me as a woman, I am never...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    My boyfriend is black

    and I'm white. Neither one of our families mind or have anything against it so everything is fantastic lol. We're getting married next year and we're the love of each others lives. He's the most amazing person I've ever met and he makes me feel whole. I've never experienced...
    untetheredsoul untetheredsoul 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 15

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    Don't Like It? Don't Care....

    I am white, he is black. We love each other. Most people support us, some don't. As far as those who don't are concerned - My life & who I choose to be in it is nobodies business but my own. This isn't the 1950's, times are & have been changing. Mixed couples are being...
    SkullOfAnAngel SkullOfAnAngel 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    My Gorgeous Snowman

    I used to wonder what it is like being in an interracial relationship. I personally think its beautiful, the combination of different races, learning about one's cultures, traditions and language. I love seeing interracial relationship and marriages, and the fact that its...
    IzWhite IzWhite 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    The cream to my coffee.

    . Yes we #swirl
    GabbyMommy GabbyMommy 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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