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I Am In An Open Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 97 People

    I am in an open marriage,

    and recently lost someone important in my life because of a choice I made to lie to her. Now looking to move on.
    openinutah openinutah
    41-45, M
    Jul 13, 2015

    I have been married for 8 years

    and we have been open for the last 2. Our relationship has never been better. I have been with my boyfriend for the entire 2 years. My husband has been off and on with a few different girls but I think that recently he has found a keeper. Seems as though she may even want to be...
    threescompany42 threescompany42
    31-35, F
    Feb 20, 2014

    And all is well, his best friend is over,

    I want them both haha how do I go about that? 😇
    spjobber spjobber
    26-30, F
    Dec 28, 2014

    Open Marriage

    My wife and i have been together for 8 years now but we only got married last year, we've always had an open relationship (in terms of talking to each other freely about things) and only a few years ago we were laying in bed, she was reading a book and i had my arm around her...
    touchtoomuch touchtoomuch
    26-30, M
    Sep 30, 2012

    About November 2012 while I was working out of

    town, my wife (at home alone and maybe a bit drunk and under the influence of Ambien) created a profile on a dating website and started immediately getting contacted by men for sex. This led to a conversation about opening up our marriage for us to date others. Previously we...
    PT1968 PT1968
    46-50, M
    Jan 2, 2014

    So, it's Friday, which means girls' nite!

    But after that, I'll go over to my man's. I can't wait to spend the night in his strong loving arms. I'm going to surprise him and show up in a seafoam baby doll I bought just for tonight! (Hubby picked it out!) Hopefully my lover will be turned on enough to "spank my dirty...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 16, 2014

    Wish me luck! My wife has plans to make out

    and if it goes well she may go further with a guy this week sometime! I literally have no idea how to feel about all of it but I'm excited so thats good! Anyone else in this kind of situation?
    theBiggestS theBiggestS
    22-25, M
    Jan 11

    Need Help With Jealousy

    So, a couple days ago, my wife and I sat down and had a long conversation about having an open relationship. I think it's something we're both interested in trying out at least for a little while. We're both bisexual, and we both plan on seeing men and women, if possible.  We...
    themightymonarch themightymonarch
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Jul 26, 2012

    Finally Get It.

    So I have been married for 15 years and my husband has been with several women in the past few years. Now I have been with another man a few times and it was great, did not know what to expect but really enjoyed it. By no means is he a better lover than my husband just...
    alos alos
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Oct 7, 2010

    It takes a lot of love

    and trust and can be work, but our marriage has only grown stronger in the eight years since we decided to open it up.
    KinkyLittleFatGirl KinkyLittleFatGirl
    41-45, F
    Dec 17, 2014

    My husband doesn't have much time

    for me. He works so much and travels and is rarely home. Also since we have a huge gap in our sex drives, we have an "open" marriage, meaning he has a girl friend that gives him what he needs sexually. He says he loves me and he is definitely attracted to me, but outside of sex...
    erikao333 erikao333
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    How Do U Handle The Jealousy??

    This is a tough week for me. I am in an open marriage.  I only agreed to it for I am not ready for divorce or separation.  I love my husband very much and I love the life we have created and how comfortable we finally are financially.  He is in a long-distance relationship...
    SearchingforSomeone SearchingforSomeone
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jun 10, 2013

    Wife On Date

    My wife is on her first date since we officially opened up our marriage. She is already at the hotel, they are probably naked and ******* right now. I'm so hard and turned on knowing this and thinking about it. Can't wait for her to get home and tell me all about it.
    junvar18 junvar18
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2012

    I've been in an open relationship

    for a few years. Until recently I haven't taken advantage of it and to my knowledge, neither has my husband. Not that I want to know the details anyway. I didn't realize how much of an effect fooling around with another man would have on me. Although we didn't have sex, I...
    DamselinDuluth DamselinDuluth
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    No sex with other men,

    just women...So not fully open... but I'm not arguing...
    rosalind2288 rosalind2288
    36-40, F
    Jan 28, 2014
    WitchHazel71 WitchHazel71
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 3

    Im Not Sure If Im In The Right Spot But Here It Goes Yes Sex Is Involded

    here is my story please say what you want i have been with my husband for many years about 10 never had any other lover but him so there is a a big part of me that does want more wonders what i miss out on i do love him dont want to be with out him so i made the suggestion to...
    Rathernotsay01 Rathernotsay01
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2013

    We are married 23yrs. 6yrs.. What a fantastic experience, I'd highly recommend it,, happy to share my thoughts & experience.
    Roxyisme Roxyisme
    46-50, F
    Sep 18, 2014

    Recently Started

    My wife and I recently started our open marriage. We both thought that it was a good idea. Neither one of us has been monogamous for long in the past and we have with each other until now. Last month my wife went first finding someone that she went to high school with for her...
    efoto1 efoto1
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 30, 2013
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