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I Am In An Unhappy Married Life

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    That moments when you can't find employment

    and can't live of credit because cards are max and your husbands just sits back and watch! Domestic house keeping the number one underpaid profession in unhappy marriages! Fml!
    peoplesHere peoplesHere 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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