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I Am In Love and He Doesn't Love Me Back

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    He's In Love With My Best Friend.

    It used to be just the two of us: me and my best friend. But then he came along and then it was the three of us. For two years we were all best friends, but each day my feelings grew stronger for him. He was amazing. He was brilliant, funny, handsome, athletic, and I loved his...
    GrapefruitRed GrapefruitRed 13-15, F Nov 3, 2012

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    I Really Like Him But He Doesn't Seem To Feel The Same

    I met this guy on college. When I first met him, I never thought I would ever like him this way, but one day one of my friends started talking to me about him and just like that, boom, crush. I just can't explain this, it's not fair. I don't want to "fall in love" like this, with...
    Afalu Afalu 18-21 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    But Not Anymore

     He had me wondering day and night, where is he now? Will he ever stay true to his promises? Does he even love me? Will he ever call?I really loved him - intense, passionate love where you're willing to give up your own self just for the contentment of another...
    silver7rose silver7rose 22-25, F Jan 19, 2010

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    I Dont Think He Does Anyway...

    Its almost as if he has SPD, split personality disorder. One day hes all over me, next day hes telling me how he HATES my tattos and how im going to end up with 7 tattoos and 5 piercings and walking around in goth clothes and boots, sounds great to me but he hates the idea of it...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Tears Keep Falling

    -He has a girlfriend -he's two years older than me -i love him - he doesn't love me - he thinks I'm - Dramatic -Babyish - To religious and i still cry for him every night cause he doesn't feel the same way. wow I'm a sad lover...
    glamzie glamzie 13-15, F Apr 6, 2013

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    Bad Marrage But Still Hanging On

    My wife and I have been married for 17 years and problems everwhere I turn.If she doesn't work she will sleep most of the day. I do most of the cooking, do iron my clothes, take care of the dirty dishes, pay all the bills, do most of the grocery shoping, put the food away, pack...
    paintdoc paintdoc 51-55, M 7 Responses Jul 1, 2010

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    He Went Back To Ex And I Was Not Expectin It.. At All!

    Hey, well im 24 and have been seeing a man aged 34 for 3 months or so now, I know its only a short time but It seemed we were gettin on great, he was a bit clingy if anything and was gettin really serious tellin me he loved me, I didnt say it back but it didnt bother him and I...
    leeanne209 leeanne209 22-25 Jul 25, 2011

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    Crush On Teacher! :(

    How embarrassing, I was never one of those girls who ever had crushes on any of my teachers, but I do now. He is actually now my former teacher, but I still view him as my teacher since that is how we met. I am over 30 and he is mid 30s, so we are not that far apart in age...
    sara1234567 sara1234567 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    He's Not Interested Anymore.

    My boyfriend and i was together but we broke up for 7 months. We broke up because i was cheating and lying in the relationship. He took me back after seven months in which i was sorry and i missed him. We are together now and i get this feeling that he is not very interested in...
    Bubblezz123 Bubblezz123 18-21, F Jul 4, 2013

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    Honestly, love is love. As long as the ages are appropriate, I believe it's okay! For instance, when I was 14, I was in "love" with an 18. It doesn't matter how old, or how young...
    MaddyAlexis MaddyAlexis 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Whoever claims this is guilty of paving the way for pedophiles. Of course love has an age. Of course there is no true love without some maturity. This group is promoting a lie and...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 3 hrs ago

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    okay so I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend. I have been through a lot in my life, and I am very.. uh.. "cold" towards my family. I started to self harm this year, and I currently go to...
    thestxrysofar thestxrysofar 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    We all are creatures made for love.I believe there is no age for true love...although it is called in vein that way to mask interests,and fake feelings.That for me is no true love...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This is true but earth has laws witch are there for a good reason but I believe each to there own cause all women of all age turn me on
    kerw94 kerw94 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    This whole situation im in is very weird and awkward. My mother's boyfriends son is back for a month of the summer, as soon as he got back her bf completely ignores her yet chats...
    sgngng sgngng 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Last night I did a coward move and said "I love you" over Facebook to a guy that I'm inlove with, were not going out and I've told him I liked him and he said he likes me too and...
    hollaout hollaout 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    The saddest part of loving someone is knowing that he doesn't really love you the way you do. If only i could get your heart back from her, i would. Hurts me so bad cause i know...
    yamdj yamdj 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    IK for a fact that blood doesn't make family because most of my family ignores me and makes me feel sad and bad about myself I only trust 3 people in my family . To me my real...
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F Jul 10

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    I get no respect from my husband. If respect comes with marital love...then he doesn't love me. And it had broken my heart. Moray of the time I feel invisible. He either over...
    MamaAbby MamaAbby 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    She literally doesn't talk to me and she can't even tell me where she's going with her friends. It's either something really small or something really big but either way she...
    Someoneatschoolfoundme Someoneatschoolfoundme 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    They say even the smallest of questions can tell you if a person knows you or not.... so I decided to ask something to the person most dear to me in hopes that I was wrong thinking...
    dexxie dexxie 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I was horribly abused as a child, the verbal insults would have been enough. My step father liked to beat me he got a perverse pleasure out of it. When the mood hit I was the...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    My parents and family doesn't exactly treat me the best. My best friend and my boyfriend's parents treat me so well. I consider them closer family than my real blood family. They...
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 13-15, F Jul 2

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    yes i think what doesn't kill me makes me stronger, but lifting weights i know that makes me stronger
    addictedtoweightlifting addictedtoweightlifting 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Just Cuse I Like The Rebel Flag Doesn't Mean I'm Racist
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    F I Disagree With You, It Doesn't Mean That I Hate You
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I wonder what do you do. My son doesn't want to read any book. Neither story nor any child book. He wants to play on computer all day, and when I don't let him he switches on...
    hakantas hakantas 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate how money can change a person. It's crazy but some how it happens. My ex boyfriend was one of a kind. Our freshman year, he was quirky, a band geek, down to earth...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    Missteps Every sideways glance, Every corner-of-the-eye view I steal of you Digs me deeper, Makes more real The brutal, unbeautiful Truth that is my Every Day: I love you more...
    embr1233 embr1233 31-35, F Jul 8

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    Hello! I have definitely found this out! You know a family is suppose to be a special thing. These are suppose to be people who come on this earth naturally equipped to be...
    glassfire100 glassfire100 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Mostly at, it shows that they have seem my messages but then they ignored it. It really sucks, especially when you care so much about them. Its sad that you can do nothing about it...
    yomy1603 yomy1603 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My ex started drinking a year and a half ago. She left me for a bartender. We have twins together one has disabilities. I have them all the time and take care of everything. Some...
    leshrac leshrac 26-30, M Jul 18

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    I have this really good friend who I think I might be in love with, but I don't ever think he will see me as more than a friend. As it is now I am "one of the boys"... And to...
    jtajulie jtajulie 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I wanted to send something cause I thought you would like to know that I think about you and I thought I would say hello. The truth is not a day goes by without you on my mind. So...
    scooterp23 scooterp23 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Falling out of love needs to be a much quicker process. I haven't spoken to him in two months and I haven't seen him since October. I have been trying to get over him but I just...
    atadbitinlove atadbitinlove 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    If you are in love with a person...what is the big deal...age is just a number..that should not keep you from being happy
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 11

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    I was 22 when I met my husband at my cousin's wedding. He was 34. We dated and fell in love. I was 23 when I married him and he had just turned 36. He was 12 and a half years...
    youngwidow80 youngwidow80 31-35, F 31 Responses Jul 16

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    My cousins are an age different couple married 20 years and mature...you are not them...They Grow Together everyday...Thats What I Want The Love The Have Not Your Stupid Words On...
    dextermlap dextermlap 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I Think as long as the people are of legal consenting age then who am i to put a number on love. I know i have had sex with a 20 years my elder. Straight forward and to the point...
    laughteraplus laughteraplus 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    I can't stand the family I was born in. They dislike my personality in terms of character and appearance. They ***** about the decisions and mistakes that I make. I mean I turn...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    my boyfriend is 29 and I'm 19. a lot of people have told me that we probably won't last because of our age difference. but I find that to be completely false. I feel like despite...
    lilnymph lilnymph 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Gone It's funny how time changes you That little girl in a pink tutu that you once were Gone That rebellious teenager Gone That headstrong young career woman Gone That...
    CaliCoRex4 CaliCoRex4 13-15, F Jul 6

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    There are many of us who can't share their innermost thoughts with their family as they fear what they might say Hopefully my family is not like that in most matters.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    My parents are 10 years apart. My grandparents are 11 years apart. So, I don't really think it matters.
    xoxoMeowliciousxoxo xoxoMeowliciousxoxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    My life is pretty dysfunctional, I must admit. I'm born out of wedlock. My bio mother cheated on my father for another sh|tty man and left us for America. I hated her since then...
    jesssaying1997 jesssaying1997 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I have young Kids and am married to a woman. I just accepted the fact that I am gay and don't know what to do...
    TKnight11 TKnight11 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    ♫I'm a cheap backseat lover well let's get it on then ♫
    anon13434 anon13434 18-21, M Jul 8

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    Anyone scratched the back of someone of the same gender? If so under or over shirt? I loved having my parents doing that for me as a kid. Me and my lil bro tried it once on...
    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago