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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    So I'm dating this guy.

    He is amazing in so many ways. Everything I could ever ask for and more, except he has a huge fear of commitment. He has pretty much told me that he was not just seeing me. Which in the beginning was fine. Things between us are getting more and more intense but he still doesn't...
    angelwaiting78 angelwaiting78 26-30, F Feb 5

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Hello everyone , uhh , how do I say this ... for a long time I've been single , for to long , it's hard not being able to call someone yours . I thought I was ok , but in the last...
    opheliacross opheliacross 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I'm in love with my student; Here is my story; please help. There is this student that entered my class this year.. We automatically hit it off... She is a junior. We always...
    qwertyuiopasdfghjklzxcvbnm280 qwertyuiopasdfghjklzxcvbnm280 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Well i didnt exactly fall in love with them they have just been arousing me as of late so to begin with i was talking with her and at one point of the conversation robin thicke was...
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i'm madly in love with an ex, its been months since we broke up and i just cant get him off my mind. i know i deserve better than him, he treated me like dirt and now hes dating my...
    sng888 sng888 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I'm in love with my boyfriend of two years and we've never met in person. I love him with all my heart and we both really want to be together in person but its so hard to get to...
    QueenCOLE29 QueenCOLE29 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    This is my first story.I wanted to share my story a long time ago.But didn't have the courage to do so. I'm an undergraduate student who is in love with a close friend. I didn't...
    rookienelly rookienelly 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I never thought I'd miss her that much.. Im out of town for a couple of days and I miss her already. She broke up with her boyfriend and I feel something between us. I know she's...
    niluferid07 niluferid07 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    Age gap, my age, her age and the law of student-teacher relationships is forbidden. Who knew that having an infatuation, or falling in love with a teacher, could be so... Arduous...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Age gap, my age, her age and the law of student-teacher relationships is forbidden. Who knew that having an infatuation, or falling in love with a teacher, could be so... Arduous...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F Apr 10

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    I'm a 30 year old woman with three young children, ages 6, 4 and 1. I'm in my second marriage with a man I thought loved me. He was always there for me throughout my divorce with...
    anastasiablu20 anastasiablu20 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Hi everyone, I was hoping somebody could please give me some insight on a dilemma I am in. I have been friends with a guy for 3 years now. We crossed the line of friendship many...
    mzgirl mzgirl 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I was hoping somebody could please give me some insight on a dilemma I am in. I have been friends with a guy for 3 years now. We crossed the line of friendship many...
    mzgirl mzgirl 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I was hoping somebody could please give me some insight on a dilemma I am in. I have been friends with a guy for 3 years now. We crossed the line of friendship many...
    mzgirl mzgirl 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Where do I start, he was just their to help me get over an ******* and I guess he just came at the right time and I fell deeply madly in love with him, but since I don't live in a...
    holyteenobserver holyteenobserver 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I am 19 and he's 40, happiest we both have ever been. You can't help who you fall in love with
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 20 Responses Apr 12

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    "Our love is a miracle!" That is how I perceived it is. Our story began when I was 27. I was hired as a secretary in a Theology School. He was one of the bosses in that school. We...
    TweetTart TweetTart 36-40 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Hello! I'm new to this image so please no mean comments! i know this is a sensitive topic. And by sensitive i mean debatable . My teacher and i began becoming very close when i was...
    iloveosoandlola iloveosoandlola 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    caraccaa caraccaa 26-30, F Apr 7

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F Apr 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    And its driving me kind of mad. But quite honestly I like it. So my day's play out like this, 2 blocks, then lunch. (Where I sit in the hall and eat my lunch and study. As always I...
    crazyballpointpen crazyballpointpen 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    It has been 8 months since I felt love at first sight for him. I feel so stupid for this going on so long and keep hoping one day these feelings will stop but they arent. I never...
    wxvx wxvx 16-17 1 Response Mar 31

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    My sons father has been on drugs for almost 20 years. 2/3 of it was pills and now for almost a year he has been bouncing from subs to heroin. Smoking not shooting. We've been...
    karebearxoxo karebearxoxo 31-35, F Apr 6

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    Okay i need advice... Is it still a healthy relationship (Teacher and Student) between with me and my teacher if we rarely talk but say hi whenever we walk past each other? Or if...
    MrMovingOn MrMovingOn 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    You told me today I pushed you away and I can`t even tell you were wrong. I do, I push you away, because it hurts too much to be around you. To see you, to talk to you, it makes me...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F Apr 5

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    I found EP specifically because I am a married man who is now in an affair with an OW. I stumbled across EP when I was googling for people with similar experiences. And in no...
    DeepXP DeepXP 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 14

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    I move to a new place about a year ago and i began to attend an evening class and then is when everything start. First when I was new I didn't know that I love this girl even...
    anezah anezah 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My man came to tutor me today and at the end he was talking cutley about stuff then I said haha why are u talking in that girly accent ? him: screw you me: Im jokinggg take it...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    So. I was given the amazing chance as an under class man to attend prom with my upper class man friends. While purchasing our tickets you know who pops into the classroom. He is...
    Cometothedarkside Cometothedarkside 16-17 1 Response Mar 31

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