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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    So I'm dating this guy.

    He is amazing in so many ways. Everything I could ever ask for and more, except he has a huge fear of commitment. He has pretty much told me that he was not just seeing me. Which in the beginning was fine. Things between us are getting more and more intense but he still doesn't...
    angelwaiting78 angelwaiting78 26-30, F Feb 5

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I've been in a relationship for about 5 years. I have love for him, but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. I don't want to be intimate, and I have this 'I don't care...
    standbyme33 standbyme33 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was madly in love with this girl in my class since I met her.When I met her she was the most beautiful person I have ever met.She's smart,athletic and a great person to talk with...
    Athenian101 Athenian101 13-15, M Mar 15

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    Its been 2 years. I have tried to get away from him by dating others and for a while it worked. He was the one to break up with me and I hated him for it for the longest time...
    Idealizer Idealizer 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    He's a 60 year old Russian, masculine man. I think I fell in love two month ago. I was telling my friend a joke and he heard it and laughed and said I'm funny. On the various...
    Gayooshit16 Gayooshit16 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    Starting at the beginning… First off, just letting you know, I am straight to everyone else on the planet, but I know that I am bisexual. This girl Jackie, she is actually...
    shancostello shancostello 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I'm in love with my band director. I know it's inappropriate. He's married with kids. I'm one of his favorite students, if not his favorite. I couldn't help it. He thinks I just...
    winmkcanivadfan winmkcanivadfan 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    We met 15 yrs ago, fell madly in love, right from the gate! He was married, I was in a serious relationship. He left her, I left my bf..life struggles, bad timing, different paths...
    assholemagnet assholemagnet 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    He is 59, and I'm 16. He is also happily married and has a kid that is older than me as well. I don't want to be in love with him, but honestly I need him in my life as much as I...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I met a boy about 4 years ago on a game app thing. We've become the best of friends and we Skype from time to time. He's had girlfriends and I've had boyfriends, although we are...
    xxhannah980xx xxhannah980xx 18-21, F Feb 28

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    I got a question. You might already know that I'm in love with someone... Guess who. Right, him. It just doesn't matter who he is. There were some moments when I felt kinda weird...
    feelthu feelthu 70+, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Ever since I first met him, I always thought he was attractive. I didn't know that I could ever care so much for another human being till I met him. He has asked me out, but we...
    jswdancergirl1 jswdancergirl1 16-17, F Mar 19

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    Fell in love with the wrong person… I've tried to deny it for three years. Can someone help me
    CenaGirl CenaGirl 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    im a junior in high school and I think I'm in love with my female teacher.. and I'm a girl. the first semester I thought she was weird and ugly. I know it's rude, but it's the...
    pixiestick254 pixiestick254 16-17 2 days ago

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    i'm madly in love with an ex, its been months since we broke up and i just cant get him off my mind. i know i deserve better than him, he treated me like dirt and now hes dating my...
    sng888 sng888 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So this week I was with this guy,and my borderline switched places from so many things. And I don't understand what is with my psyche trying to meet damaged yet intelligent people...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alisoncc11 alisoncc11 26-30, F Mar 5

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alisoncc11 alisoncc11 26-30, F Mar 5

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sheryfacc11 sheryfacc11 26-30, F Mar 9

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sheryfacc11 sheryfacc11 26-30, F Mar 9

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sandy11cc sandy11cc 26-30, F Mar 9

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sandy11cc sandy11cc 26-30, F Mar 9

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kelly11aa kelly11aa 26-30, F Mar 17

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    I am a mess when it comes to him. I'm given so many opportunities to talk to him but I run away and ignore the fact that I saw him. I know for a fact the last time the opportunity...
    DaylightAly DaylightAly 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    It hurts so bad to see him this way, he's sad and i don't know the reason wich is killing me, i really want to know because i wannna help him and be with him.. He's just so cold...
    glowingdiamond glowingdiamond 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Me and my cousin don't always get along. We are the same age and everything, but im a month older. Everytime we start talking in public we always end up fighting, but when were are...
    songlyric songlyric 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    We've been friends for ten years now. I never realized but I've loved him for a long time, when I was seven I used to ball my eyes out if I didn't get to play with him, it was...
    Ashuri Ashuri 16-17, F Mar 16

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    Moving On..... Today I called *my bf* and we were talking then I said:I wanna grab you with me to Germany him: Really?you think we can live together under one house? me: yea...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Alright, this is a really, REALLY long tale, so if you're going to stick around, you should probably get some popcorn or something. I've written all of this just kinda to get it...
    Blue707 Blue707 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want someone who shares my passion for horses... Who would help me with my needs and would love to go on a long trail ride with me. Someone who would love going to play days and...
    2Thoughts 2Thoughts 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't think I can help it. Every night when it's quiet, my mind will drift to him. I don't know why. I start crying. I can't even think of his name without the waterworks. It's...
    CindyLEvans CindyLEvans 16-17, F Mar 2

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    Can a fictional character be your guardian angel or spirit guide or something along those lines? Ever since I came to know of Sneezy from The 7D, I've felt as though I have someone...
    LotusoftheLeaf LotusoftheLeaf 26-30 1 Response Mar 4

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    I know it'll never happen but I can't help it. He's so lovely and I have do much desire for him. I want to give into my lust and wrap my arms round his neck, kiss him and feel all...
    hopeandsoul hopeandsoul 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    talking to her was great today. watch her smile and laugh just brought more warmth to my soul. im still unsure what she feels for me but there was a time when she was talking to...
    Boomer2133 Boomer2133 22-25, M Mar 14

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    So yes that's all I have to say for now, I don't know if you still want to know about the things with M, we'll meet soon again .. sometime the next week. The experience group...
    HelenaMai HelenaMai 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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