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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am 19 years old. Two years ago, when I was 17, I met someone who would end up completely altering who I thought I was. I was a happy girl. I enjoyed being single and flirting...
    sheonlysighs sheonlysighs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    hey guys I am going to send him this letter when he gets back in 28th of july …. Thanks for sparkydream <3 for helping me writing this letter .. love you gurll <333...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    (The following 'Connection Tips' post was originally posted by Yalanda, but her account was deleted for whatever reason. I wanted to share this information in the hopes that others...
    joshwilburn1017 joshwilburn1017 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm a 20 year old girl and studying fine metal design in college. I fell in love with the new lecturer in our faculty ever since the last semester. He is a single 26 year old man...
    giarera giarera 22-25, F Aug 8

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    Michael592y3wl8 Michael592y3wl8 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I love someone and would give the world to have her, but..... I'm in such deep love with someone, and I cannot shut her out of my mind, not even for a second. I wake up several...
    aldream221 aldream221 31-35, M Jul 23

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    This actually happened to me twice in my final two years of high school. The first time was on a relief teacher for Social Sciences. I went to an all-girls school so like 90% of...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    My best friend was Jordan and I meet her when I was like 7 believe it or not we first met in a church which was ironic cause she's an atheist and I'm undefined now. Anyway we got...
    DarkRun421 DarkRun421 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I'm a middle aged woman who is in love with my uncle. I was adopted at birth and for a long time didn't know he and I were related. When I was 16 and he was 23,we began a sexual...
    lonelylady1959 lonelylady1959 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    This post is devoted to all of you teacher lovers out there. I have some phisophical/psychological questions to make to you and to myself... questions: 1) since we love them and...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    I think it is something that almost everybody experiences at least once. You get the idea that you maybe like one of your friends more than just for a friend. Well, at least I have...
    briantjuh94 briantjuh94 18-21, M Aug 3

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    I'm thinking about moving to the town of my good life-long friend who is also my crush that rejected me. So, let me explain. There's this guy that I've been good friends with...
    BlueColored BlueColored 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Her essence, you ask? Graceful like the smell of lust and desire. Oh god, is our fire hot! Not to mention it's uncommon fuel, which is our inability to have each other. Well, you...
    ReMaxius ReMaxius 18-21, M Aug 5

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    I'm in love with this girl science last year, we meet in the university and she was the one who start with this feelings , she always sit with me in the classroom, the cafeteria...
    IamNicolle IamNicolle 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Well , this post is kinda different than what people usually share here as I won't stress on " love " as much as I'll do with other important things too. I met my bf online and of...
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Hi hope someone can help I'm married but I have fell in love with someone I don't love my husband the only thing is the person I fell in love with deleted me as a friend on...
    Zoe86 Zoe86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    Ok... this is what happened... It was my Senior Year in High School and I'm the type of girl that gets along with everyone, so I had a big group of friends but I never considered...
    JCTY1512 JCTY1512 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    My friend since early grade got sick and died long time ago when we just finished college and started working. It broke my heart. we were so close and she was the only friend I...
    zoe1970 zoe1970 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel terrible. We have always had this weird tension...I've only been married for a couple years (we will call my husband A and his friend D) A and I had a good relationship at...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know how it happened but I fell in love with two guys and don't want to lose either of them... I don't know what to do... I can't choose between them because I love them...
    MnMss MnMss 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I'm 13 and i'm in love with my cousin. I am most likely sure she's my 2nd cousin so that might make a difference. She doesn't want to ruin our good cousin bond and everything but...
    smaemura smaemura 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    Well ggeeee wiz. I said ages ago that I would write more about my experiences, but that never happened. I'm still in love with him, even after a year and a half of not seeing him...
    Fictionallands Fictionallands 18-21, F Aug 1

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    Dude, I'm in love with this guy from Facebook. He said he likes me too. He's cute, intelligent, and a lot more. He helped me get over my heartbreak the other day with his advice...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I have this amazing women in my life and things are very complicated as we are both married. My marriage is failing and is coming to an end please see my other post. The thing is I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am in love with a friend and colleague who is happily married to a woman he calls his soulmate (and she is beautiful and lovely.) There is absolutely no chance that he and I...
    brendabrenda brendabrenda 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    I didn't realize that I could actually grow to tolerate him much less fall in love. He was the guy I saw Bye Bye Birdie with. The guy who taught me how to work a light board...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Soo much for wanting to go to the rehab clinic. He says he wants to quit but yet buys more and is doing more everyday. He tries to talk to me about it like i'm interested in all...
    lovelyytroubledsoul lovelyytroubledsoul 18-21, F Jul 30

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    Caged Up Emotions This was it… only finals, and no more Mr. A as my teacher. I refused to believe sophomore year went by that fast. I have not felt in such a way before. A...
    TheFrozenOne TheFrozenOne 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    Okay, it's not what I call "in love" but I need help..I've known her for two years now and shes been my best friends ever since. She's said it herself that were like "two peas in a...
    JustAnotherReflection JustAnotherReflection 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Lookin for girl met at Santa Cruz Boardwalk, from Pleasanton. This is Colin. Okay, I'm looking for this brown-haired, 15/16-year-old girl from Pleasanton, California; We met at...
    Colin512 Colin512 13-15, M Aug 9

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    In the bathroom, helping him sit in the tub since he broke his right leg: "Elle, careful! My leg shouldn't bend that way!" "I'm trying okay! Bear with me!" "I know, I know. I'm...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F Jul 22

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    Derek surprised me today. He took half the day off to go to yet another dreaded doctors appointment with me. Seeing as things went relatively well, Derek thought it a good idea to...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    My situation is one I'm still coming to grip with. I met my boyfriend two years ago on a casual online dating site. My intention of joining and communicating was purely for...
    Baughb Baughb 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Well, I was. And it wasn't really love as in kissing someone.. More like loving someone as you love family.. Does that count ? I just wanted to tell this, since I've kept it a...
    perksofbeingamermaid perksofbeingamermaid 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I have been dating my boyfriend for almost five months. he has helped me through so many things, not to mention make me laugh whenever tears are running down my face. I truly love...
    suicidegetout suicidegetout 13-15, F Aug 4