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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 23 People

    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    So I'm dating this guy.

    He is amazing in so many ways. Everything I could ever ask for and more, except he has a huge fear of commitment. He has pretty much told me that he was not just seeing me. Which in the beginning was fine. Things between us are getting more and more intense but he still doesn't...
    angelwaiting78 angelwaiting78 26-30, F Feb 5

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    This is going to be my first time and first post in this app. I never thought I would come up with this idea tho. So, here my little crazy story.... When I started my sophomore...
    sparklescorpio sparklescorpio 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    We all have. I liked to think as each and every person that I'd lost in my life as a 'purposeful' loss - one that had meaning, one that was determined by fate and had pushed me...
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    My ex husband has been stalking me for 6 years. He pays people to rob me, tamper with my car, put dead birds in my house, follow me, tamper with my medications, try to kill my dog...
    b4Iknewit b4Iknewit 61-65, F 20 hrs ago

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    I know this is gonna sound like one of those absolutely ridiculous love stories but hear me out please..This guy who I consider one of my best friends we dated for a year & a half...
    cocososowowo cocososowowo 16-17, F 21 hrs ago

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    Hi Everyone, I just got out of a relationship with a sociopath last week, but I didn't really see all that was happening until after he broke up with me. I would really like to...
    wuwei15 wuwei15 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I got to wear his jacket in class today (I'm his student helper I had him as an actual teacher last year). But he let me wear because he keeps his room cold and I was in a dress...
    KingofHanksHill KingofHanksHill 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In relation to my other post on here it has obviously been a very long time since I've been at school and this is about the OTHER teacher I loved in a non-romantic sense. All...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Love might be a strong word but I have a very serious crush on this person. I really, really Like them and for a while it was just a little crush and I some how let it get out of...
    BeccaB00 BeccaB00 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm sorry for my bad grammar but here I go. Ok so I am in love with this amazing guy who is so sweet and gentle and the most beautiful blue eyes and basically loved him since I was...
    DeadDirection07 DeadDirection07 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Dear Louie I thought maybe writing a letter might help with whatever I'm feeling, because as we know I don't talk much. But with writing I get it all out before I even think. So I...
    WhoseMe WhoseMe 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I am so in love with this girl. She makes me laugh, makes me dinner, loves my children, helps me through the day-- I smile when I think of her. I'm so glad I get to sleep next to...
    DreamCat01 DreamCat01 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. When we first met he was charming, charismatic, confident and sweet. Then things took a turn and I thought...
    marie2324 marie2324 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    With limerence (which I have) there is a term called NC. It means having no contact with your limerent object (LO). I've been going NC for a few months now. But yesterday was a...
    SZPDiablo SZPDiablo 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I love you Babe, you know who are, you have helped me to heal all of my scars, my heart aint hurt, i aint afraid to love you, i need you foreve, and always baby, so even if i am...
    NitouliScarlet NitouliScarlet 13-15 1 Response Aug 27

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    Yes, very very far away...like I complete different world...for years I've forgot about my feelings for a cartoon that I used to be in love with, but lately he's all I can think...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F Aug 27

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    This is a brief telling of the three years I spent with this teacher all the way until I fell head over heels in love with her. This might bother your eyes with the block wall of...
    AKoolGuy AKoolGuy 18-21, M Aug 27

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    So.. There's this guy. (I've wrote about him before) his girl friend of a year and 9 months broke up with him for no reason about a month ago. He already suffers from depression...
    xxJaydaxx xxJaydaxx 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I am trying to be positive but it's hard. He keeps disappearing and won't answer my calls. He was supposed to go get help today but disappeared about 5 hours ago so he either...
    Nikolasmom Nikolasmom 36-40, F Aug 26

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    Well he's not actually a real person...I love a cartoon very much and I often find myself dreaming about a life with him, living with him in his world, going exploring with him and...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I have no spouse to be in love with but I would like one. I have been reading through your experiences hoping to learn something in order to avoid marital pitfalls. I have noticed...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    So I recently went out with someone I've been crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've...
    qeust24 qeust24 22-25, M Aug 25

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    So I recently went out with someone I've been crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've...
    qeust24 qeust24 22-25, M Aug 25

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    Why do I keep doing this to myself? I get attached emotionally too easy, then they don't love me back because they are too old for me. I am honest and not 'just another teenager...
    Myparentsfml Myparentsfml 16-17, F Aug 24

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    I met someone 6 months ago I cannot stop thinking about them we clicked so much. They live really far away so I probably won't ever see them again and the other problem is I'm...
    glitterglitch glitterglitch 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    He was my gym teacher last year. He was 22 and had just gotten out of university. I met him on the first day back to school and I didn't feel anything or think he was attractive at...
    wildestdreamsxx wildestdreamsxx 13-15, F Aug 22

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    Hey guys, I need some advice, so I have this super hot teacher and I swear I think I'm in love but idk if he likes me or not. I need your help to detangle my situation. So we get...
    justanotherconfusrdgirl justanotherconfusrdgirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Hey guys, I need some advice, so I have this super hot teacher and I swear I think I'm in love but idk if he likes me or not. I need your help to detangle my situation. So we get...
    justanotherconfusrdgirl justanotherconfusrdgirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I can't say I love him because I don't know him well but I have a huge crush on my parish priest. It's difficult to stop thinking about him though. I ********** thinking of him so...
    CherryFly CherryFly 26-30, F Aug 20

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