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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    So I'm dating this guy.

    He is amazing in so many ways. Everything I could ever ask for and more, except he has a huge fear of commitment. He has pretty much told me that he was not just seeing me. Which in the beginning was fine. Things between us are getting more and more intense but he still doesn't...
    angelwaiting78 angelwaiting78 26-30, F Feb 5

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I'm new to this and I need to get this feeling out. So here I go. Second Grade is where it started. Mrs. Holston's class. I walked into that class not knowing what to...
    AtheistChrist AtheistChrist 13-15, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I'm in love with my ex n I know I can't have him anymore that hurts I feel useless because I couldn't help him I wish that he would come and there could be a us again but I...
    angie314 angie314 13-15, F 1 Response May 15

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    I have known my best friend for 3 years. We met through band, but our friendship didn't truly start until I sat beside him in biology on the first day of school. He was a freshman...
    Cheyenne555 Cheyenne555 18-21, F Apr 30

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    I have known my friend for almost 2 years now and even though we've only been hanging out for about 1 year, I can strongly say that I have never, in my entire 24 years of living...
    MePlusHim MePlusHim 22-25, M 1 Response May 13

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    I met Amy when I reported for duty in Albany Ga at the Marine base. She in my opinion was the All American Girl.. Blonde hair Blue eyes about 5'7" weighed about 110 lbs dripping...
    ChessiSometimes72 ChessiSometimes72 51-55, M 4 Responses May 11

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    I'm a 14 years old teenager and I guess I'm madly in love with this particular person, who's also a teenager girl like me.We've known each other for a pretty long time, about 7...
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F May 19

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    If your first reaction to this statement is condemnation and judgment, you have obviously never been in love with somebody you shouldn’t be. People like to judge nowadays. And I...
    romka romka 22-25 1 Response Apr 30

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    I am in love with a guy (I'm gay ) his name is aiden potvin I flirt with him but I don't think he knows I am pleas help
    xenon54 xenon54 13-15, M May 11

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    I just posted this around a few places but for some reason didn't think to post it as a story until now. This post is a follow up to my first post, EP Link If you are interested I...
    seb300 seb300 18-21, M 1 Response May 20

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    I didn't realize it until a few weeks ago.Hes just so nice and has a smoking hot body.he says he's not fit but I believe it's a crock of crap.it just seems he reminds that not all...
    Paramoregirl123 Paramoregirl123 16-17, F May 20

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    I'm in love with my very best friend. She's basically family I guess. She stays the night a lot and says she thinks she's likes girls also. She used to have a crush on me a while...
    Stargirl345 Stargirl345 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I should have posted this months ago. *kicks self* Anyway this is another thing I wanted to share. This is for those of you that want to actually see the character you are in love...
    DreamsAreReal1 DreamsAreReal1 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I recently came out as a lesbian, I was in a long term relationship with a man which ended because I felt like I was no longer attracted to men. I then became friends with her (I...
    NoAngel13 NoAngel13 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So i wanted to share my experience with you guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in...
    AlexaER AlexaER 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    confused. if she likes me too. So I have a coworker, who I am madly in love with, but don't know if I am just a regular friend to her more than that. We know each mother from near...
    lostsoul29 lostsoul29 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I are 12 years apart, I am 18 and he is 30, I am perfectly fine with the age and so is he, he has no children and has never been married (neither have I), we have...
    crystal1830 crystal1830 18-21, F 1 Response May 9

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    Idk but how the way he texts me it makes me fall in love with him deeper and deeper ahm help me guys xD
    PrettyMe205 PrettyMe205 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Someone told me to write my feelings down so here goes... I feel numb. I feel hurt. I feel even more self concious but most of all i feel like the bad guy. I'm ill, i know that now...
    xxjellybabyxx xxjellybabyxx 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I am at the end of my rope again with this girl I love. She has been living at my house for a few years. I have been in the hospital for the past six months recovering from heart...
    downthestretch downthestretch 51-55, M 1 Response May 18

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    I have been hoping and praying for my soul mate to finally be in my life. Then strangely enough it feels like it happened. Some guy when I was at karaoke came up to me and we...
    singlemusicnote singlemusicnote 31-35, F a week ago

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    Best friend and I Moving in together ? friend and I are contemplating moving together, I'm in Florida she's in Kentucky. She has already started looking because her lease is up...
    meceemayne meceemayne 22-25, F 2 Responses May 3

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    hello! ok so I need help :/ I can't tell if my teacher likes me or not. We started becoming really close last year when he helped me through my depression and I helped him heal...
    thewhitesage thewhitesage 16-17, F 4 Responses May 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Janetccaa Janetccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Well... I´m 17 almost 18, being exact. I've never been religious nor go to church frecuently but since my grandma died we had to go, though I didn´t meet him at church, actually...
    kailand12 kailand12 16-17, F May 9

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    So it started two years ago when it was my first year at a new school. I started in September, and I saw him in November. He literally took my breath away. I didn't know his name...
    adivcepls23 adivcepls23 13-15, F a week ago

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    Here it is... The story of me and my first love. Currently, I am so confused about where to share my feelings and I want to thank this site for letting me release my emotions...
    ApplePamilar ApplePamilar 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    So I've had a meeting with my psychology teacher (female) this afternoon. After my teacher got fired, I was kinda in trouble too, but in my case, it is a lot better than him. I...
    Karinyu0422 Karinyu0422 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    I just keep making it worse! I've never had a serious girlfriend because of this girl! I met her in 7th grade and we've become better and better friends since that day! I try to...
    sm1ttay sm1ttay 16-17, M May 14

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    Problem: my best friend is a girl. Sometimes we lay in her bed & cuddle & we always make sexual jokes to each other but she said she used to have a friend who turned lesbian & they...
    julianneguinther julianneguinther 16-17, F May 6

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    Tv ****** me off with their interpretations of love stories. I try every chance I can to see the guy I love. Just to see him, maybe say hello. But it never works out right. Tv...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F 1 Response May 10

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    I love friend but my parents wouldn't let me be with her, my religion wouldn't allow it, and society wouldn't allow it. But I can't help the fact that I love her.
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M 2 Responses May 10

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    And so it ends ... Received this Friday Hope you’ve had a good week. My days just fly by. I don’t know that there is one day where I’ve taken a lunch “hour.” But once I...
    PC09 PC09 51-55 4 Responses May 18

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    I'm too raw. I'm too open to meet anybody new. It's not like I have a wingman to help me though this stage... Finding someone to get over you like you have done so well. In this...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes 22-25, F May 18

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    Guys HELP I need URGENT responses So I know I haven't posted in a very long time and I apologize for that, but recently Mr. S and I have been getting along great and we've been...
    Dpreukssiya Dpreukssiya 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 28