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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    So I'm dating this guy.

    He is amazing in so many ways. Everything I could ever ask for and more, except he has a huge fear of commitment. He has pretty much told me that he was not just seeing me. Which in the beginning was fine. Things between us are getting more and more intense but he still doesn't...
    angelwaiting78 angelwaiting78 26-30, F Feb 5

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    Related Experiences

    I fell in love with a friend (we'll call him 'Zach') 6 years ago. We met through a mutual best friend (we'll call her 'Lily'). Shortly before finding out this other chick (call her...
    Bethstar Bethstar 26-30, F Feb 3

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    Hi, everyone. <3 I hope you all are doing well. <3 I'm sorry I haven't posted anything in a long time, but I'm doing fine and so is Danny. The reason why I haven't posted...
    Yalanda Yalanda 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I would like to write about the climax of my life… falling in love with my teacher. This particular teacher had a great impact on my life. In fact, I fell in love with him. For...
    FloristGirl FloristGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    First of all I'd like to say this post really helped me understand more of what exactly I'm going through and i feel a sense of relief, 2ndly I fell in love with a con at 21 years...
    marissabrooke31 marissabrooke31 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    I've posted about this before, but it's still just the same. I am so in love with someone who stumbled into my life and quickly became one of my best friends in a matter of months...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Hi, I just joined today. I am in the 8th grade and in love with my Geography teacher. For the sake of animosity, I'll call him Mr Z. I started having feelings for him at the very...
    Meangirl83 Meangirl83 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    That person was my married female cousin. :/ I know i shouldn't be in love with her but i can't help it.I just love the way she made me laugh when i was feeling down in the dump...
    Stephanieloveowl Stephanieloveowl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    .... so deeply in love with a married man. its such an amazing yet scary feeling. After living in separate countries he came here to live with his wife for the first time last...
    jeebeez2015 jeebeez2015 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    The Unfinished Story We both met each other back in college, which was like 12yrs ago. It was not at all love at first sight. I didn't like him at all initially. He was the most...
    desiredangel desiredangel 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Hello. I wanna do this shortly - okay, I couldn't complety live up to the standards of being a girlfriend because of my illness, paranoid schiophrenia, yet I had the BEST, believe...
    Elverbasse Elverbasse 13-15 Feb 4

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    My name is Alice and I'm from Italy. I'm 22 and since I know how to love, I fall for fictional characters. I never experienced real love and I loved many and many fictional...
    PrincessDevilot PrincessDevilot 22-25 3 Responses a week ago

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    My name is Alice and I'm from Italy. I'm 22 and since I know how to love, I fall for fictional characters. I never experienced real love and I loved many and many fictional...
    PrincessDevilot PrincessDevilot 22-25 a week ago

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    I didn't want to fall in love with him! But every time we would talk it was like he wanted me to... I tried so hard not to but I just couldn't help myself, with his blue eyes and...
    Charg96 Charg96 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I'm in love with a MtF. ( I'm going to call she a him for HE has not transitioned yet) I met my husband while we both were in high school. I had no clue he wanted to be a woman and...
    WoaCD09 WoaCD09 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Anyone in love with their gay best friend too? Do you wanna talk?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 1

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    Hey, so i'm in love with my teacher It all started when he sent me a message from facebook he said "hi" but then he said it was an accident... the "hi" wasn't to me (idek how that...
    httpvxv httpvxv 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    I Am an American woman in my 30s and I met the sweetest most loving man ive ever known online thru a dating site. His name is Raj he just turned 40 and is living as a permanent...
    bubblebobble83 bubblebobble83 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    please help me!!! I think I'm in love with my chemistry teacher....I just can't take him out of my mind.I think of him every second, there are days I don't even sleep because he...
    dwki dwki 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 7

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    Hi my name is Rina , I'm 15 -turning 16 . I'm from Austria (europe) and I'm helplessly in love with my teacher. It all started when I was late for my first geography class(he's...
    itsRina itsRina 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I am finally admitting it to myself. We've been together for eight years. We met on an online game. He moved countries to be with me. He was the first man I ever kissed. It all...
    paranoidbird paranoidbird 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    New for Old - So in the last experience I said I have the English teacher I'm in love with and I don't have my old business teacher who flirts with me anymore. It's been three...
    Anonymouslovelife Anonymouslovelife 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    It all started about a year ago. The pastor of nine years was being transferred to a new parish, and many parishioners (as well as the priest) were upset about it, because over the...
    BadCatholic BadCatholic 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I am in love with life. I have depression issues, more than some people, less than others. This does not stop me from trying to live my life to the fullest. This life was meant to...
    stupendusdude stupendusdude 46-50 7 Responses Feb 17

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    Okay so.. ****. I think I'm slowly starting to fall in love with my chiropracter. I've only been to our sessions twice but I can't stop thinking about him :/ he's got a wife and is...
    liveinadream liveinadream 18-21, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Usually I avoid sites like these, full of people who want attention and telling people things of their boring lifes and craving encouragement. Thus I want none of that, I just...
    Darcera Darcera 18-21, F Feb 1

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    I've always been depressed for as long as I can remember. Really, there's not much in this world that can make me happy. But I've finally found someone that brings me an...
    LotusoftheLeaf LotusoftheLeaf 26-30 2 Responses Feb 5

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    God, help me! I honestly have no clue about what to do anymore! The only thing that I'm sure of is, I am head over heels for a man and it's breaking my heart. I didn't know that...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 1 day ago

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