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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Hi everyone, I decided to share my story on here to perhaps get some support, and to put my story out in the universe. I have quite recently fallen quite hard for a girl who I've...
    whiskeytangofoxtrot530 whiskeytangofoxtrot530 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Moving on to Mr.P~ He's still the same Mr.P that I have written in the other stories.. Mr.P is one of the most arrogant , rude , sarcastic , and masculine teacher I've ever met...
    HereIsToNeverGrowingUp HereIsToNeverGrowingUp 22-25, F Apr 2

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    He is my coworker. I know, I know, getting involved with someone at work isn't exactly the brightest thing to do but it happened. I couldn't help it, my feelings are too strong...
    applef applef 18-21 2 days ago

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    I am 15 turning 16 this month. I am in a mutual understanding kind of relationship with a girl who is not yet out. Her grandmother is so conservative and a devout Catholic. Her...
    buckedteeth buckedteeth 22-25 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Well this is a continuation of "Moving on to Mr.P" Well I just want to say out loud how I feel about him.. I still remember the day when he saved me from retraining , which is...
    HereIsToNeverGrowingUp HereIsToNeverGrowingUp 22-25, F Apr 3

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    About 2 months in to my freshman year in high school, I met this girl in an extracurricular activity (we'll call her gummy) called Rock band. She looked kinda gothic and had a...
    FriendzoneEscapee FriendzoneEscapee 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Ambiguous time: Two and a half this world hours later and I'm still near speechless and unsure how to even begin to find the words. An overly long post here. My apologies in...
    BelleGold BelleGold 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Hey, everyone. Today finds me in quite a quandary, in that I don't know if honesty really is the best policy. As you could have probably guessed by the fact that this is entitled...
    EponymousAnonymous EponymousAnonymous 13-15 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Well, I emailed him this morning about my hubby (Elijah) being in the hospital. Here's the conversation. Me: Hey Big Dawg Don't worry, I'm not the one who was in the hospital...
    ducatigirl07 ducatigirl07 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I’m in my own personal hell. While S and I have managed to maintain a somewhat dignified plutonic relationship, my feelings for him remain unchanged. When we’re apart I...
    myownproblem13 myownproblem13 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hello, everyone. I've decided to write another story about the "fictional character" I love, but it's not Danny Fenton/Phantom. I've fallen out of love with Danny and I now have...
    Yalanda Yalanda 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    So, I THINK Rumplestiltskin sent me a shooting star in this world... Note I've never seen a shooting star (in this world anyway) Basically I was calming my nerves in the most...
    BelleGold BelleGold 16-17, F Mar 24

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    I'm in love with my best friend. She's into someone else. Everyone says we're going to date eventually but I'm just not sure she wants to. She's not a lesbian and neither am I. I...
    Runnergirl4000 Runnergirl4000 26-30, F Mar 25

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    The facts is that I'm in lové with more than one Fictional character ... I'm helpless I guess
    MLJE MLJE 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Okay, so first off she's a guidance counseler. I was a new student at the school and I was adjusting and she was always asking how I was doing and trying to get to know me. I...
    MANCHESTERUNITEDLYFE MANCHESTERUNITEDLYFE 16-17, F Mar 25

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    ~Star-Crossed Lovers~ It's been TWO YEARS... We've been separated for 2 years, I've fallen in love with someone else and almost got married... And yet I'm STILL head over heels in...
    SweetSerendipity14 SweetSerendipity14 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I am in love with Carlos Marin the Spanish Baritone of the operatic pop quartet IL DIVO!!! It started with a crush then I realized I had fallen madly in love with him. I can't help...
    lapluma808 lapluma808 26-30, F Apr 3

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    I am still in love with my first proper boyfriend, we got engaged and then my cousin interfered and split us up. Its been 7 years since we split and i still think about him...
    3271amy 3271amy 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    My girl friend we have been dating for weeks and when she saw my best friend and room mate she say she is now in love with him , and i having been telling my room mate how much i...
    abah1985 abah1985 26-30 Apr 6

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    I feel in love with a co worker and seeing her on an almost daily basis is the hardest thing I have to endure. I think of nothing else but being able to pin her against the wall...
    tannush tannush 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    So I'm in love with my teacher, at the beginning of the year I was scared of him like I couldn't even talk to him. He wouldn't talk to me and he still doesn't. Now it's the ending...
    BriGags BriGags 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I am a man with simple tastes; Netflix, xbox, JOKER, and other things. But when it comes to my room, all I can do is look around and say hot digity, this place is alright. I dream...
    sladewilson101 sladewilson101 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    So there's this teacher at my school her name is Ms.Boyle. She isn't married obviously. Anyways she has gauges and she's so ******* hot. I'm in love with her tbh. I know it's wrong...
    TwdFireflyy TwdFireflyy 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I am so in love with him it's pathetic. I used to laugh at all the people who liked their teachers, and now I'm one of them...who knew? If anyone I knew found out about this, they...
    itsjustme95 itsjustme95 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    This is going to sound weird but i need some advice. I am in love with my aunty's step-son. Yeah! He knows and he told me that we can be together because of the family situation...
    Adridee Adridee 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I had the most amazing experience regarding a Lunar eclipse that happened in the very early morning of this world. For those who have been down or worried, if this isn't a message...
    BelleGold BelleGold 16-17, F a week ago

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    I'm in love with a sort of coworker of mine. He's married, they are in an "open" "poly" relationship. Before I was moved within the company we talked most everyday, we were always...
    butthumbs butthumbs 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    am utterly in love with former English teacher. I came to realize a few months ago that I have been in love with him since October 18 2009. Yes, I've graduated but I still go and...
    moesaubessie moesaubessie 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    i am really in love my teacher her name is ms.anderson and the thing is i am a girl and she 48 and im 12 but i love her. i used to hate her in the beginng of the school year now...
    maibae maibae 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    how amazing animals can be and I believe every kind of animals has their own uniqueness and personality including the wild once but personally I love dogs the most and yes pet dogs...
    nataliechu nataliechu 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I've been in love with my best friend for 2 years and 6 months ago he confessed to me that he was gay, but 2 years ago (when I first started to have feelings for him) he also had...
    marlene5sos marlene5sos 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I dreamed about him again. This time there was a call to my company's office about the government having tracked me down for some petty crime having supposedly been committed by...
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Hello, everyone. I'm writing this story today to give you all encouragement and hopefully help you feel better. I know it's been hard with a lot of us in this group these last...
    Yalanda Yalanda 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 14

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    Part 4: sorting out feelings After my EP guy left my hometown, I knew that since we had an affair things were now real. Now he was a part of my life, I just needed to sort out...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Basically I am going to write about what happened after telling him that I might leave.. He has been trying to approach me much more after that conversation we had.... Yesterday...
    sparkydream sparkydream 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I admit that I have a crush on a teacher. It started last year , I was late for school for a month because of my expired passport. Yes , I was a month late. Then the first time I...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    He's a great guy, but I am a very verbal person and fairly intuitive about other people's feelings and needs. He can go days without hardly saying two words to anyone and he is...
    CaptainXeno CaptainXeno 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F Mar 26

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    On the posts from before, about my love, I expressed my own self hatred. Some were confused as to why or how I can hate myself. I wrote this story to help explain to my friend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    Older Men Like Younger Women as they are more vibrant, spontaneous and full of life. A survey of 2000 adults showed that only one percent of women preferred a relationship with a...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F Mar 31

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    So here's my story. I know it's kind of weird but that's why I'm posting it. Maybe if I get my feelings out I can get over them and realize that it could never happen. So... I was...
    LastOfTheAmericanGirls82 LastOfTheAmericanGirls82 16-17 5 Responses Mar 31

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    It's been awhile - Hi everyone I hope things are going well with you ^.* I haven't been on in awhile lots of school work I haven't had the time unfortunately . But just a quick...
    PerfectlyyUnperfectt PerfectlyyUnperfectt 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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