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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22 People

    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Well hello dear readers.. I wanted to share my stories and experience because I think that every experience is worth sharing.. It all started in August when I was hooking up with...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife 16-17, F Jan 11

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    I finally met him after two months of texting, emails, phone calls and FaceTime. He is working in Afghanistan, but we only live 2 hours apart. I've been holding this guy at arms...
    norlights3 norlights3 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I'm probably the most selfish person to have ever lived on this planet. I know that very well. I take advantage of peoples kindness but I don't do it to intentionally hurt them...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I suppose this is equally a question as it is an experience. I need to have the experience to express in detail what happened, and what has resulted -what I've become. I need...
    CatherineGray CatherineGray 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now and I do love him I really really do but I am so confused. my boyfriend and I have been through hell and back mostly because of...
    purplegirl1991 purplegirl1991 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Wouldn't actually say I'm in love with 2 but I love one very dearly. And I like the other a lot. The one I'm in love with (Matt), I have been with for almost 2 years. He's been...
    Feliciajake Feliciajake 16-17, F Jan 1

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    When he looked at my eyes the very first time, I knew it was something different. I still can't explain that feeling-something so strong and different that I didn't have any...
    AmberDD AmberDD 22-25, F Jan 3

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    It was my second year of varsity, and I had committed myself to my studies and eventually making it into med school.Until he came along.An adorable curly boy wonder who would turn...
    Tshifi Tshifi 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I really don't know where to even begin with this story so lets take it back to 8th grade. I would see this kid all around school, we'll call him James, and I thought he was so...
    haleymaeee haleymaeee 16-17, F Jan 8

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    Ok wow! I have been looking so hard for people with the same thing! I have fallen in love with characters all my life. They have come and go and I have let them do so. But this...
    DatVikingKid109 DatVikingKid109 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Ok wow! I have been looking so hard for people with the same thing! I have fallen in love with characters all my life. They have come and go and I have let them do so. But this...
    DatVikingKid109 DatVikingKid109 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 15

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    So Here I am again, I'm writing here again for the same guy I'm thinking when I first wrote here. I know simple things about him like his name, his birthday etc. So if you read my...
    saiberia saiberia 22-25, F Jan 16

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    Hi.. I know this sounds very weird that 19 yrs old man fells in love with someone who could be his mom. I have fell in love with women who is old enough to be my mother. I am 19...
    Tarakim Tarakim 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I fell in love with people in both ways, well the personality is more important but I can't help it if I see a girl as preety
    daniel147 daniel147 13-15, T 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    My parents are so strict and I mean soooo strict. They got married to each other when my mom was 15 and my dad was 17, but they can't even trust me with anything. Every time I'm in...
    EmilyNMH EmilyNMH 16-17, F Dec 31, 2014

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    I am in love with this guy I meet on line. And I know he likes me and love me very much too. I sent him a lot messages and New Years greetings and he did not respond to me...
    Wecanbfreinds Wecanbfreinds 31-35, F Jan 2

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    im in love with my guy best friend . he is a bi . he likes a guy currently . and i help him a lot with his new relationship with the other guy . i want him to be happy always and i...
    nikhi1996 nikhi1996 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I am with a relationship and we have been friends for four months now. We both love each other... I keep sending him messages but, he send me once in a while. I am really...
    Wecanbfreinds Wecanbfreinds 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I've been in love with my female 1st cousin ever since we were children. In fact at one point as children we both believed that we would marry each other when we got older but we...
    KIKO787 KIKO787 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    I am in love with my best friend to stupendous and ludicrous levels, but I have no idea nor the confidence to find out whether he likes me or not. Im trying to apply basic...
    TheCasualChick TheCasualChick 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 12

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    I've been feeling anxious the whole day, and I desperately wanted to talk about it, but I had no one to talk to. I'm just gonna let out all my thoughts here. Storytime: When I was...
    xCrowSong xCrowSong 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Where to begin my plight? I met him during my second year of highschool (2005). From there, me and the bunch he hang out with became pretty close. I was rowdy, ambitious, and...
    Heartbrokenv2 Heartbrokenv2 22-25, F a week ago

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    am so badly in love with a guy who already has a g.f :( its tearing me apart. i can't let him go... please help me out ??
    senlee senlee 22-25, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    For those who already know. I am madly in love with my best friend, he doest know and I think he may like me back but since Im trapped in a sour relationship, he gives me mixed...
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Ok this year I went on vacation to Central America. I got to stay at my house with my parents. I got a chance to see my cousin who is nineteen he is very sweet to me. Whenever my...
    StayingStrong21 StayingStrong21 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    I need help with something. I cannot decide if my teacher likes me back or not, so Im going to go through all the events that have happened with me and him, and I would really...
    SilencesLullaby SilencesLullaby 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    An u help them, cover their shifts when their sick, help with their rent and love them and they just cast u aside. What's wrong with me why won't they like me why won't any other...
    whatsname whatsname 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I know it's kind of weird posting yet another experience within 24 hours or so of my last one, but I really wanted some help from anyone who is experienced in this. I plan on...
    xCrowSong xCrowSong 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Simply put.. I too am a victim of loving my best friend. For almost 6 years now.. I feel I'm too old for this but love has no boundaries.. he used to tell me about all..but...
    DrGeorgie DrGeorgie 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I recently found this really cool article about reincarnation that could help a lot of you out: http://www.iisis.net/index.php?page=semkiw-reincarnation-past-lives-principles I...
    xCrowSong xCrowSong 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I really am hoping this is my last post on this topic... To continue off from my previous post, today I just dropped off his family to the airport. This vacation was the hardest...
    fuckedupstories fuckedupstories 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Happy New Year! I am so grateful to have an amazing woman to call and wish a Happy New Year. She will make this new year different simply because I haven't had anything like this...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    As much as I love you, you're the one to blame.. At least in my eyes you are. You're everything that I want, completely bad for me but I need you and that that alone makes me want...
    AroundYourFinger AroundYourFinger 13-15, F Dec 31, 2014

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    My girlfriend is a celebrity in her country. I love her but i hate her job. i hate seeing her being paired up with random dudes and have all these teenage fans going crazy with the...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Back in the day lol if you can even call it love at 12 years old? lol.He was cool though everyone in school usually liked him he was 10 years older than me,i would stay after...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    I don't know whether it's because I wrote some of my feelings down yesterday, or simply because I'm thinking more of him lately, but I've been seeing signs of my Azrael everywhere...
    OnBlackWings OnBlackWings 18-21 1 Response a week ago

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    So... Our story is a very strange one. I was seventeen when we first met, he (D) was twenty eight and I was dating his nephew (J). J and I had been going out for six months when I...
    NotSoAngelic NotSoAngelic 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    So I haven't updated in a LONG time... Too much has happened since then and I remember every word, but I'm not going to write it all. I've been trying to keep my life more private...
    auntnichole auntnichole 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Well there's this guy at my high school I really like. Our school is really small (only about 50 people per grade level) because its an advanced education program. We go for 5...
    EmCWolf EmCWolf 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Sometimes you have to laugh. A few minutes ago the woman I wish I could be with just posted on her FB that she just watched a certain movie and I couldn't help but laugh. Because...
    Burai Burai 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I really want to be in a relationship with someone. But girls dont notice me or they notice me when they are already taken. But the problem here is i see nice or beutiful girls...
    JanSchinkel JanSchinkel 16-17, M Dec 31, 2014