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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    So I'm dating this guy.

    He is amazing in so many ways. Everything I could ever ask for and more, except he has a huge fear of commitment. He has pretty much told me that he was not just seeing me. Which in the beginning was fine. Things between us are getting more and more intense but he still doesn't...
    angelwaiting78 angelwaiting78 26-30, F Feb 5

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Ok story time. So me and my beef have known each other since I can remember being in school. And i don't even know what our relationship was until middle school it was something...
    Lightnbug Lightnbug 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I just visited this site again after 2 years, reading my past posts. I unwittingly chronicled my journey. Somehow, I changed, I've managed to handle my feelings for you. Not...
    AlternateUniverse AlternateUniverse 41-45 11 hrs ago

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    I lived in Austria for a year. He went to the same school as I did and although we had never talked before, we did say hi to each other in the hallway--This was because one day we...
    LucySG LucySG 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    well, she is really far away...all the way on the other side of the world. she has the hint that I like her a lot...but she won't accept it. I feel she wants to believe me but can...
    Isayis23 Isayis23 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I recently got into anime at the age of 18. Fresh out of high school and working two jobs, seven days a week (today is my 34th day straight of working) I decided to paruse and...
    SirHop SirHop 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    As I sit here in the dark tonight, I thought I would share a few things that Ive thinking about lately. before I met you, I did dated a few guys, after that whole Michigan...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    It has been 7 months since my separation from my husband. I've moved on but he doesn't know that I moved on with another man. My husband wants to start over but I don't. We text...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So first of all its a girl I met online two years ago. We live almost 2000 kilometers away. We never really thought we would be more than friends. But we have been calling and...
    EternalSolitude EternalSolitude 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I am 15 and I fell in love with a 28 year old from Chicago and I don't know what to to??? Can anyone help me
    TristinandAtlantis TristinandAtlantis 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Its been a year I still love her, I feel stupid. Should I tell her or keep lying and hide the truth? please help me its been two years of regret and love I can't wait any longer...
    WEMLswag123 WEMLswag123 16-17, F a week ago

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    HELP: SORRY FOR THE LENGTHINESS Hello, I'm looking for some guidance but also trying to give a heads up of sorts to us ladies who give our hearts to the men who join the Marines...
    lmoore12 lmoore12 18-21, F a week ago

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    So I am in love with a boy from Star Trek: The Next Generation. As you may know, his name is my username. Can you guess it? Wesley Crusher. I know everyone thinks he is annoying...
    WesleyCrusher WesleyCrusher 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    This was originally published on Elephant Journal and the slightly longer version is on there: This is truth I thought I’d keep to myself. But as the media is abuzz with all...
    californiagirl80 californiagirl80 26-30, F Jun 28

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    I hate just waiting i love her but i can guarantee she will reject me like before but i truly love her and im just lost can anyone help me?
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 16-17, M Jun 26

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    So my boyfriend the love of my life just found out he's leaving for boot camp possibly next month. I'm so nervous and excited for him I need some serious female support while he's...
    Krisha95 Krisha95 18-21, F Jun 26

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    Once I had thought that I'm special. I'm someone lovable. I'm normal... But I'm not. I am nothing. I'm unlovable in a romantic way. I'm a weirdo. He was my savior as well as my...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    So that was like days ago me: I Mr*** I tease him with the Mr haha :P him: Hi Miss *** It seems that you wake only at night and sleep at day time me: don't judge if you don't...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    This story started 6 years ago.I fell in love with a priest when i was 15,he was 22,still studying priesthood and haven't made any of his vows yet.We met in a camp organized by the...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    This story started 6 years ago.I fell in love with a priest when i was 15,he was 22,still studying priesthood and haven't made any of his vows yet.We met in a camp organized by the...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F Jun 23

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    This story started 6 years ago.I fell in love with a priest when i was 15,he was 22,still studying priesthood and haven't made any of his vows yet.We met in a camp organized by the...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Hi, I'm 36, married and bored. I've been married 12yrs (together for 16 in total). My wife and I are a perfect match and are great partners in life. We are virtually the same...
    BoredHubby1 BoredHubby1 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    Puzzled in my life!!! I love someone and messaged him once in Facebook. He just saw my message and didn't reply. I never told him I love or like him. But it expressed my admiration...
    Mou7 Mou7 26-30, F Jun 22

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    When I was alone couple minutes ago. I remembered something that a friend of mine had told me about a month ago. I put a lot of thought into it and maybe, there is something more...
    SweetHeartxxo SweetHeartxxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    As I write this he is asleep in his bed, and me in the same room as him as this is where we keep the computer. I will tell you how it started: January of this past year I was a...
    crisseo crisseo 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I'm 27 years old, and a maths teacher in high school. I have never, ever been interested in one of my students before. I mess around a lot, and I'm attracted to more confident and...
    tumblingdice tumblingdice 18-21 1 Response Jun 21

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    He was my teacher in junior school, now I'm 17. He lives in the neighborhood. We became friends after I graduated from junior high, we have MANY things in common. He introduced me...
    Riikka Riikka 16-17, F Jun 19

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    I met my best friend ironically through an ex 8 years ago.we started talking more and more. then we stopped for a couple years only to reunite again later and hit it off better...
    pandaangel pandaangel 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    This experience in my life has led me to really think about love. It all started in the summer of 2014 when I helped my cousin (let's call her Amy) move out of her old house. At...
    owf684 owf684 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I swear to God that I met my other half at my school. We are both in professional school to obtain our Doctorates in Chiropractic. It was like fate stepped in. I was married when...
    fami1001 fami1001 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Part 2 next day I went to school to paint , so I saw him when everyone left except some teachers.. went in the lab and hugged him , he sqeezed me tight and kissed me , then went...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I'm just being stupid right? she's the best friend I could have ever asked for, we both have helped each other through our depression and I can say for a fact that if it wasn't...
    deejdomingo deejdomingo 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 17

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    so I'm in love with this girl. so where to start? Um. when I was in the second grade we had reading buddies that would come down and read to us. and I so happened got paired with a...
    flo877 flo877 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    Firs i would like to say im a 20 year old bisexual female im in love with two women the first one is the very first female i actually had feelings for we been together for 5 years...
    innocentsmile innocentsmile 18-21, F Jun 17

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    HELP </3 I turned 14 recently and my teacher is 27 this year. I started liking him since last September. For a while my feelings for him was on and off, but from this year...
    Jaytealove Jaytealove 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 16