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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    So yeah, i think i'm kinda in love with my German teacher.. What's coming are a lot of private and detailed stuff. So my parents divorced when i was 12, and it was very hard...
    Elienseys Elienseys 16-17, F 6 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm 14 and my teacher is about 25-27 Ok so for geography this year I was supposed to have this teacher that I didn't know yet.. But on the first day of class I walk in and see a...
    mmello00 mmello00 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    It was an accident, really. Nobody plans to fall in love with their physics teacher. I met my second year physics teacher (we'll call him Mr. K) last year, before he taught me...
    MaiChan MaiChan 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I had my first crush back in the year 2002 (omg :-) its a decade ago), she was my same neighborhood, same school and everything, it all started in the 7th standard. She...
    Anirudhbasutkar Anirudhbasutkar 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    my story is weird I know, but I really need help and advice cause no one that knows this story really gets what I'm going through...I hope you guys will :) I've been single for...
    Storyteller1234567 Storyteller1234567 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    hey guys I am going to send him this letter when he gets back in 28th of july …. Thanks for sparkydream <3 for helping me writing this letter .. love you gurll <333...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    (The following 'Connection Tips' post was originally posted by Yalanda, but her account was deleted for whatever reason. I wanted to share this information in the hopes that others...
    joshwilburn1017 joshwilburn1017 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need help or advice. I am 22 years old, I feel as if I am 50 haha, been through a lot of stuff in my life. I am in love with someone who I will never have, :( we both have...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He was my first kiss back in the summer between 8th grade and 9th grade. 11 years has passed since then and the day he asked me to go out on a date with him I was nervous, almost...
    Hugsandkisses2621 Hugsandkisses2621 22-25, F Jul 1

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    It all started when i was 11 i went to Guatemala to visit my family, when i met this cute kid one year older then me, we hung out a lot since he lived next door to my grandmas...
    Siomara Siomara 18-21 Jul 7

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    I fell in love with my cousin since I was 8 and she was 7 at the time. We didn't know we were cousins at the time. We met when I visited Korea with my mom because she was home...
    foronelove foronelove 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I love gaming. I've always found it easier to hang around guys and I had grown up gaming since I was a kid. I made a Steam account a few months ago and I game on it almost everyday...
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I am in love with my best friend. She's a girl. And straight. Well ... ****. And I love her so much it just hurts and I'm even thinking about ending our friendship. Because she...
    perksofbeingamermaid perksofbeingamermaid 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Why do I feel like this? Months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We had a strainful and failing relationship, a lot of it from the getgo. I was in shambles and in hell. I cried...
    ImmortalxApathy ImmortalxApathy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'm sorry. It's my fault that I fall for you. I did not mean it. I want to talk to you but I don't know how to approach you. I miss you so much. I miss talking to you all the...
    Prince0507 Prince0507 22-25, F Jul 13

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    I love someone and would give the world to have her, but..... I'm in such deep love with someone, and I cannot shut her out of my mind, not even for a second. I wake up several...
    aldream221 aldream221 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    My best friend was Jordan and I meet her when I was like 7 believe it or not we first met in a church which was ironic cause she's an atheist and I'm undefined now. Anyway we got...
    DarkRun421 DarkRun421 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am 24. I've been married to my husband for just over 2 years. We have no children. We met in college, dated for only 6 months before getting engaged, and were married almost 2...
    swimcoachpro swimcoachpro 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    I have been "in love" with my band director for over a year now and I just recently graduated high school. I graduated without any issues and without a slight feeling of sadness...
    ScreamsOfSilence ScreamsOfSilence 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I've been in love with my Ex Boyfriend for more than a year now. It seems to me that he may or may not still like me? Its like he changes his mind all the time. Its almost as if...
    MissCheekyFaced MissCheekyFaced 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Well, I started highschool, I am much more mature than the rest of the high school. I just keep to myself and focus on the future, I've had an unbelievable past for someone of 15...
    DreamLurker DreamLurker 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I can't admit it cause he's a "bad" guys and has a history of raping girls my age and it's happened 2 times but it's not rape cause they said yes to it but since they weren't old...
    marafaunt marafaunt 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Summer holidays 2014 I went on holidays with my family like the usual every year but this year was different 👌 we were staying in a hotel in Morocco 🙏 it was an amazing trip...
    tania577806 tania577806 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I want to share this with everyone, it would help me feel a bit lighter from inside. I am from India, I fell in love with a girl who is elder than me by 3 years. We used to talk...
    sharonnathaniel sharonnathaniel 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I feel like I am knit to my own sorrows... I dont know what it is.. I just can feel the pain it causes me..but I cant help myself..I have become a sadist now and wanna stay in love...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I'm 13 and i'm in love with my cousin. I am most likely sure she's my 2nd cousin so that might make a difference. She doesn't want to ruin our good cousin bond and everything but...
    smaemura smaemura 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    This actually happened to me twice in my final two years of high school. The first time was on a relief teacher for Social Sciences. I went to an all-girls school so like 90% of...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a middle aged woman who is in love with my uncle. I was adopted at birth and for a long time didn't know he and I were related. When I was 16 and he was 23,we began a sexual...
    lonelylady1959 lonelylady1959 51-55, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This is a long story so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29 36-40, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    **** i am so ******* confused I donno from where to start we kept texing then he called when he got back home .. He was like i miss you and telling me about his trip etc and he...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Alright, so I thought I might start off with this one... I was in the tenth grade and this teacher ((I will not mention his name)) who was in his early thirties (he's probably in...
    GrumpyPig GrumpyPig 22-25, F 5 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Guys guys help help Tomorrow is my sister's son biirthday and we arent inviting much people Soooo much little Would be be akward if i asked my sister if i should invite my man...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Ok so I recently started a new job at a restaurant. I've been working there about 3 months and I have developed a huge crush on my manager. He's not an older guy but he's older...
    futureCRNA futureCRNA 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Ok so I recently started a new job at a restaurant. I've been working there about 3 months and I have developed a huge crush on my manager. He's not an older guy but he's older...
    futureCRNA futureCRNA 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Please. Only people who know what it's like, answer ❤️ The flirting, the looks, the laughs we have, the way he says my name, the way he brushes past me and pushes me and hits...
    lindastars42 lindastars42 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    BEST FRIEND--FOREVER! I love Katie, yes I admit it. When I desperately needed a friend, she walked into my life. When all I wanted to do was kill myself, Katie gave me a reason...
    EmmaSylvester EmmaSylvester 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    he ******* never helps and he has screwed up with my lessons.. He just sits there staring at my legs , but never does anything more. Since he isn't helpful at all as a tutor and...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jul 12

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