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I Am In Love With a Commitment Phobic, Help

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    Broken Heart

    This past August, I fell in love with a man that I work with.  I had recently divorced and once he learned of that he ardently pursued me in a very hot pursuit.  He came on really strong and really fast and told me within about 4 weeks that he loved me, before we had...
    Musikgal Musikgal 46-50 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

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    Co-parenting With A Commitment Phoe

    I met a guy who I identified as commitmentphobic while we were in a FWB situation. It was so warm and intimate and comforting for me (just getting over a divorce). He seemed very comfortable with me since I was "okay" with the situation and had no long-term expectations. Then...
    fwmom fwmom 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    I Wouldn't Say "In Love"

    But the guy I've been madly head over heels for for the past two years is afraid of commitment. Its a recent development, he has dated me on and off several times, and never had an issue with it. But lately, its a huge problem for him. He doesn't want to screw up, give up...
    scruffy21 scruffy21 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    He's Gone....after 8 Years....i'm Lost!

    He pursued me so relentlessly....I was in a very unhappy marriage....and I thought he was my dream come true. My gift from God for trying to do the right t h ings.....No one has ever swept me off my feet  the way he did....He listened intently, was so passionate, called...
    Jommie Jommie 46-50 1 Response Jan 8, 2010

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    My Best Friend

    hes my best friend has been for 2 years,our realationship was always odd.we have always treated each other like partners so much so that our work mates thought we were having an work affair.he avoids a sexual relationship because he knows it means comitment but he cant bare to be...
    bohemianbeauty72 bohemianbeauty72 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Indeed I have. And he's not the kind of guy I ever went for. I'm beginning to think that I never had a 'type' as people like to say. It's true. You can't help who you fall in...
    naddo630 naddo630 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am hopelessly in love with my math teacher "Mr o" ummm Mr o is married to someone whom I am pretty sure that he doesn't like her ..do I have the chance for him to look to my...
    troublemaker18 troublemaker18 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    lifechangesallofus lifechangesallofus 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This is one of my poems I wrote that I wish I can tell my teacher about my feelings about him and thinking what he may do if i do tell him. How would you react when i say these...
    blackbunny97 blackbunny97 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    sarahdragonfly sarahdragonfly 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I want to believe that everything is going to work out for the best. But, how can the best be without him? We connected on so many levels. I believe he knows me and understands...
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    he is pretty much my best friend. He makes me smile and laugh and i am always happy when i am around him. I cant help but thinking about hugging and kissing him all the time...
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