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I Am In Love With a Gay Guy

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    Falling For My Gay Best Friend?

    So, first of all, I'm a girl. Secondly, I've known Caleb since we were in kindergarten and we are extremely close. When we were younger, he used to jokingly ask me out over and over, and I would always say no - it just sort of became our thing for a few years. Earlier this year...
    PanYorke59 PanYorke59 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2013

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    I'm in highschool, grade 9, and he is in grade 11, same school as me. A few weeks ago, I actually told him the truth about how I like him a lot. And he told me that he still wanted to be friends, and that we should hang more often. Which I am confused about, becuase well...
    LilBurksy LilBurksy 13-15, F Dec 24, 2009

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    Almost 40 - Gay Alone

    For as long as I can remember, I never really had friends. You know, friends that would come over and make my day brighter. I do remember in some instances in high school and college where I met a "key" person and he would invite me to parties, etc, but I did not belong to that...
    SIngleMiami SIngleMiami 36-40 4 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    Do any Masculine Gay Men like feminine sissy

    boy bottoms that like to be treated like a princess and wife????
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 3

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    It breaks your heart

    when someone you love is gay. I am a streight girl who loves her gay teacher. (Please, not hate on my love for a teacher) i belive he is 23, i am 14. He is my orchestra teacher and is just one of the nicest guys in the world. He dresses like a guy and is not really a feminine...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    Him..

    Me and my ex have dated 3 years on and off, and in the beginning of me and him dating, he wasn't truly gay. He didn't fully come out to being gay until like last year, but me and him continued dating then too. We recently broke up, exactally 3 months today..because he didn't want...
    DavidMatthew1031 DavidMatthew1031 13-15 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    Is He Gay ?

    I don't know where to ask and I'm confused right now. So I hope posting my thought here can resolve it. I'm a straight girl.  I have crush on a guy I met at my university and wonder if he is gay or not. He is two years younger than me. I met him two months ago in the competition...
    meohen meohen 22-25 2 Responses May 19, 2012

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    HELP ME!!!

    So 2 years ago I decided not to talk to my ex who turned out to be gay because I was still in love with him. Long story short I told him that i'm over what happened and that I want to be friends again. He asked me all these questions on why I dud what I did and I asked if we...
    Dreamer212 Dreamer212 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    So I met him not too long ago,

    about two months ago ina workshop about music and stuffs. He's one of the speaker in that workshop. I never even had a feeling that he's gay, he looks very, very masculine. And most of my best boy pal are gays so I can mostly tell the differences. So this guy, lets call him T...
    EdwardSally EdwardSally 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Saudi Lesbian Couple Looking For Gay Moc'S

    two lesbian girls looking for two gay Moc's مثليتين نبحث عن زواج مصلحة من مثليين !! زواج بالاسم فقط !! Saudi lesbian couple looking for a gay husbands (MOC) Marriage of Convenience ,to be each other's social cover ups ,we are serious...
    lesbiancouple lesbiancouple 18-21, F Jun 12, 2013

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    Sweet Agony

    I have loved him...pretty much all my life. I was a child and he was a child...he always told me no when I would ask him to be my boyfriend but he sent mixed signals then. "Gus" actually just started hating me and because of it, I gave up on him and I thought the feelings for him...
    raymievirgil raymievirgil 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 19, 2013

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    We were supposed to be together one day.

    At least that's what he kept saying. But today where I live, gay marriage became legalized. His boyfriend and him both posted that they were going to get their marriage license this week. I wasted so much time and energy on him. I really loved him. I'm just so heart broken. I...
    YouShouldHaveKilledMe YouShouldHaveKilledMe 18-21, F Jun 26

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    Still In Love With My Gay Ex Bf (im A Girl)

    me and my guy met randomly through a friend, but we hit it off sooo fast. we lasted 7 months, and we seemed like we were still strong with our relationship...i became close with his family. He met my family which i never brought people home. We made huge leaps in our relationship...
    confusedgoof confusedgoof 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2010

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    This Is Crazy! I Am Crazy!

    I recently befriended a very sweet gay guy and we've become close friends very quickly. I never had any doubt that he is gay because it is obvious that he is and I've even met his current boyfriend. I have always found him very sweet and we really "click" but I've always...
    ellendea ellendea 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 8, 2010

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    It's Happening So Quickly...

    He's the real-life incarnation of Kurt Hummel, and I've fallen for him. I can't stop thinking about him, and I really want to be with him. I know it's not possible, considering the fact that he's openly gay. But that doesn't stop me from loving him.
    CatCompanion09 CatCompanion09 13-15 Feb 14, 2011

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    This'll Be Fun.

    Alrighty, I'm writing this while almost three hours overdue for bed, so I'll try to get it done in 15 minutes.Beginning of school year, August, 2007:I've moved in with my mom and my stepfather of six months. Mom reminds me that the people in the house to the right of us have a...
    IluvTori3 IluvTori3 18-21, F Sep 17, 2011

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    Letting Go

    It's been a year since I cut all contact with my ex best friend/ex gay boyfriend. Even though we were dating for only four months (before he came out) I was in love with him. My devotion to him was so deep even after we broke up and he came out to me, I still wanted to be with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 24, 2012

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    Unrequited Love

    I met him almost two years ago. I met him through school, and completely fell for him. I had never really been in love before, so this sensation of wanting to be close to someone was incredibly new to me. He occupied my thoughts completely. And I was so happy, I thought I would...
    hopelesslydevoted16 hopelesslydevoted16 16-17 2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    I've been in love with my best friend

    for 2 years and 6 months ago he confessed to me that he was gay, but 2 years ago (when I first started to have feelings for him) he also had feelings for me. ever since he told me I've been crushed, but now the feeling is becoming terribly overwhelming because he's basically...
    marlene5sos marlene5sos 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    I Am Bi. I....

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F Jul 4, 2012

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    I Can't Believe I'm Still Thinking About Him.

    I knew he was gay from the start. I thought I could change him, but I was wrong. So wrong. He knew I liked him; I told him so. He played with my emotions. He acted like he wanted me. He'd text me, he'd touch me. It's funny, but even though he touched me in so many places, he...
    Magpie94 Magpie94 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    My Best Friend

    the one I met over the summer. He's the first guy I've liked this much.  I steeled my nerves for two weeks to tell him over MSN that I had a huge crush on him, and that night when we spoke (which wasn't planned, it just happened) he asked if I wanted to know a secret. ...
    axelval axelval 18-21, T 7 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Gay Best Friend.

    How do you react when your best friend of four years who you've been in love with for a better part of those four years tells you he's gay? From where I am, the concept of homosexuality doesn't exist. Bloody as a country, we're still trying to deal with ancient norms like caste...
    bloopxyz bloopxyz 18-21 8 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    Hay Guys

    add me. im always looking for some gay friends to have fun with ;)
    Frankiebaby90 Frankiebaby90 22-25, M Jan 16, 2013

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    The Hurtful, But Honest Truth.

    So me and my boyfriend met about 3 and a half months ago. We met online and in person the next day. Things were sudden and came fast, I mean he slept over the first day we met. He makes me happier then anyone in this world could have. But he moved with his family in another city...
    alexcloud93 alexcloud93 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    Enemies Turned Besties Turned My First Love??

    the summer between my jr. and sr. year of high school I moved in with my half Brother (who is gay btw and my age) because I was having problems with my mom. During that time My bro also let his love interest who was our age also and went to our school stay there because he was...
    Babyboo92 Babyboo92 18-21, F Feb 7, 2012

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    Screw It

     I am forever doomed to be Grace Adler  >___< So, I joined my college GSA because it's something I've always wanted to do.  The people are sweet (both nice and awesome) and a couple of my already-friends-through-other-interests-like-Korean-pop-music are...
    axelval axelval 18-21, T 4 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    My Gay Best Friend

    My Best friend came out 2 years ago.... and i'm in love with him, so in love with him that i'd do anything for him. But it kills me that we can't be togather because he is Gay. He knows I Love him, but still nothing has changed. I wish he could love me like i love him, he is my...
    XxXHarrietXxX XxXHarrietXxX 16-17 4 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    The Unruley Heart

    So i met the most wonderful man in my world about five years ago... He was the reason i went to work everyday... the reason i went home everyday and the reason i love the way i do today. One could say it was a fairytale.... but in reality it was just like the real world.. we had...
    Katheleen Katheleen 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    I Don't Want To Feel Like This. It's Too Disappointing.

    How many times do I have to scream in my head, "He's gay, Cari!" Before it'll sink in and make me stop feeling this way about him? I KNOW he's gay, and I KNOW the interest is not and COULD not ever ever ever EVER be mutual, but that's not enough make me stop feeling this way...
    cari7 cari7 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2010

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    In December 2013, I met this amazing and artistic person. I have never felt so strong feeling for anyone... But now I can say that I'm in love with this guy. The only problem is...
    asthas33 asthas33 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know how it happened but I fell in love with two guys and don't want to lose either of them... I don't know what to do... I can't choose between them because I love them...
    MnMss MnMss 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I'm a girl, and I'm in love with my best friend's other best friend. My best friend is a girl and we tell each other almost everything. We've been best friends since like 3rd grade...
    malakhkhalil malakhkhalil 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Always had better relationship with guy friends (no back stabbing no jealousy etc) but in the end they always wanted to bang me. Then of course I was doubting the real reason they...
    lifetails lifetails 26-30, F Jul 20

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    honestly this always happens to me there are always two guys in my life and i always choose the wrong one but this time i have no idea what to do. first there is my boyfriend he...
    bapierce9513 bapierce9513 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    So I think I'm in love with this guy. But a lot of people judged us cause he's black and I'm white. But we would always ignore all the comments and **** people would say. It was...
    wolfhaileyyy wolfhaileyyy 13-15, F Aug 10

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    I've never dated anyone online, but boy do I have a story to tell... February 2012 this girl met a guy thru an online dating site. She lives in the US and he lives in Africa...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    September 2012 I met him. He was teaching me English. He was 24 and I was 17. He was working as a TA in our college. As I was studying engineering this particular subject doesn't...
    Anbarasi Anbarasi 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    This actually happened to me twice in my final two years of high school. The first time was on a relief teacher for Social Sciences. I went to an all-girls school so like 90% of...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I fell in love with a guy from spain. Real love. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. He tried to do so many things to me when nobody was around and i almost allowed it...
    Jovifroyo Jovifroyo 18-21 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Dude, I'm in love with this guy from Facebook. He said he likes me too. He's cute, intelligent, and a lot more. He helped me get over my heartbreak the other day with his advice...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I loved a guy before for two years , but he didnt love me back because i was too young for him , we became best friends , i accepted the fact that i should think of him as a friend...
    memo7575 memo7575 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I met a guy at work and we started talking about common interests, some time passed when we stopped talking, however, after some time passed we started talking and hanging out. I...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F 19 hrs ago

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    I dont talk to too many gay guys and i really want to :(
    GayGuy1996 GayGuy1996 16-17, M Jul 29

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    I edited this a little bit, I didn't know if I wanted you guys to know everything that had happened afterwards but I'm not as nervous as I was before. So I'm bi and yes I fell in...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I'm gay and it's hard enough to find people where I live, I found a guy or he found me on the computer and it was a long distance relationship, which I knew would be terrible in...
    EricRadliffe EricRadliffe 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Ok so it's baby steps but I wanna try again with a guy I dated - i didn't realise at the time that I had so many opportunities to get it right so I'm going to try again!
    jpdepamaylo jpdepamaylo 16-17, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I am 19 years old. Two years ago, when I was 17, I met someone who would end up completely altering who I thought I was. I was a happy girl. I enjoyed being single and flirting...
    sheonlysighs sheonlysighs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I am really torn and desperately need advice. I have been married to my husband for 8 years. We have two kids together. Our relationship has always been rocky and I was unhappy for...
    ok4u ok4u 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I didn't realize that I could actually grow to tolerate him much less fall in love. He was the guy I saw Bye Bye Birdie with. The guy who taught me how to work a light board...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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