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I Am In Love With a Gay Guy

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    Sweet Agony

    I have loved him...pretty much all my life. I was a child and he was a child...he always told me no when I would ask him to be my boyfriend but he sent mixed signals then. "Gus" actually just started hating me and because of it, I gave up on him and I thought the feelings for him...
    raymievirgil raymievirgil 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 19, 2013

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    It breaks your heart

    when someone you love is gay. I am a streight girl who loves her gay teacher. (Please, not hate on my love for a teacher) i belive he is 23, i am 14. He is my orchestra teacher and is just one of the nicest guys in the world. He dresses like a guy and is not really a feminine...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    So I've known this guy

    for 3 yrs. He dated an ex-friend of mine, we started to get along very well last year at a party and started talking on the phone... I fell for him, and he didn't. He started seeing this other girl (that was from the same group of friends) but we stayed friends. They didn't work...
    sophiefox sophiefox 18-21, F Sep 9, 2014

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    We were supposed to be together one day.

    At least that's what he kept saying. But today where I live, gay marriage became legalized. His boyfriend and him both posted that they were going to get their marriage license this week. I wasted so much time and energy on him. I really loved him. I'm just so heart broken. I...
    YouShouldHaveKilledMe YouShouldHaveKilledMe 18-21, F Jun 26, 2014

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    The Unruley Heart

    So i met the most wonderful man in my world about five years ago... He was the reason i went to work everyday... the reason i went home everyday and the reason i love the way i do today. One could say it was a fairytale.... but in reality it was just like the real world.. we had...
    Katheleen Katheleen 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Still In Love With My Gay Ex Bf (im A Girl)

    me and my guy met randomly through a friend, but we hit it off sooo fast. we lasted 7 months, and we seemed like we were still strong with our relationship...i became close with his family. He met my family which i never brought people home. We made huge leaps in our relationship...
    confusedgoof confusedgoof 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 8, 2010

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    Is He Gay ?

    I don't know where to ask and I'm confused right now. So I hope posting my thought here can resolve it. I'm a straight girl.  I have crush on a guy I met at my university and wonder if he is gay or not. He is two years younger than me. I met him two months ago in the competition...
    meohen meohen 22-25 3 Responses May 19, 2012

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    Do any Masculine Gay Men like feminine sissy

    boy bottoms that like to be treated like a princess and wife????
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    I've been in love with my best friend

    for 3 years. The whole time people would tell me he is gay because of the way he acted but he denied it all. Just last night he told me he is gay and actually has feelings for another guy in college with him. I know I should be supportive but honestly I'm just heartbroken. He's...
    VocalFlight VocalFlight 18-21 1 Response Oct 13, 2014

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    I've been in love with my best friend

    for 2 years and 6 months ago he confessed to me that he was gay, but 2 years ago (when I first started to have feelings for him) he also had feelings for me. ever since he told me I've been crushed, but now the feeling is becoming terribly overwhelming because he's basically...
    marlene5sos marlene5sos 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    So I've known this guy

    for like three years, we've only been good friends for like a seven or eight months though. I met him at work and for the longest time he identified as bisexual. When we first started talking we really hit it off, I really liked him and wanted to be more than friends. It seemed...
    cosmicdump123 cosmicdump123 18-21, F Nov 10, 2014

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    HELP ME!!!

    So 2 years ago I decided not to talk to my ex who turned out to be gay because I was still in love with him. Long story short I told him that i'm over what happened and that I want to be friends again. He asked me all these questions on why I dud what I did and I asked if we...
    Dreamer212 Dreamer212 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    Falling For My Gay Best Friend?

    So, first of all, I'm a girl. Secondly, I've known Caleb since we were in kindergarten and we are extremely close. When we were younger, he used to jokingly ask me out over and over, and I would always say no - it just sort of became our thing for a few years. Earlier this year...
    PanYorke59 PanYorke59 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2013

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    I Am Bi. I....

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Unrequited Love

    I met him almost two years ago. I met him through school, and completely fell for him. I had never really been in love before, so this sensation of wanting to be close to someone was incredibly new to me. He occupied my thoughts completely. And I was so happy, I thought I would...
    hopelesslydevoted16 hopelesslydevoted16 16-17 2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    The Hurtful, But Honest Truth.

    So me and my boyfriend met about 3 and a half months ago. We met online and in person the next day. Things were sudden and came fast, I mean he slept over the first day we met. He makes me happier then anyone in this world could have. But he moved with his family in another city...
    alexcloud93 alexcloud93 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    So I met him not too long ago,

    about two months ago ina workshop about music and stuffs. He's one of the speaker in that workshop. I never even had a feeling that he's gay, he looks very, very masculine. And most of my best boy pal are gays so I can mostly tell the differences. So this guy, lets call him T...
    EdwardSally EdwardSally 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2014

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    Screw It

     I am forever doomed to be Grace Adler  >___< So, I joined my college GSA because it's something I've always wanted to do.  The people are sweet (both nice and awesome) and a couple of my already-friends-through-other-interests-like-Korean-pop-music are...
    axelval axelval 18-21, T 4 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    This Is Crazy! I Am Crazy!

    I recently befriended a very sweet gay guy and we've become close friends very quickly. I never had any doubt that he is gay because it is obvious that he is and I've even met his current boyfriend. I have always found him very sweet and we really "click" but I've always...
    ellendea ellendea 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 8, 2010

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    My Gay Best Friend

    My Best friend came out 2 years ago.... and i'm in love with him, so in love with him that i'd do anything for him. But it kills me that we can't be togather because he is Gay. He knows I Love him, but still nothing has changed. I wish he could love me like i love him, he is my...
    XxXHarrietXxX XxXHarrietXxX 16-17 5 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    This'll Be Fun.

    Alrighty, I'm writing this while almost three hours overdue for bed, so I'll try to get it done in 15 minutes.Beginning of school year, August, 2007:I've moved in with my mom and my stepfather of six months. Mom reminds me that the people in the house to the right of us have a...
    IluvTori3 IluvTori3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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    Almost 40 - Gay Alone

    For as long as I can remember, I never really had friends. You know, friends that would come over and make my day brighter. I do remember in some instances in high school and college where I met a "key" person and he would invite me to parties, etc, but I did not belong to that...
    SIngleMiami SIngleMiami 36-40 4 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    It's Happening So Quickly...

    He's the real-life incarnation of Kurt Hummel, and I've fallen for him. I can't stop thinking about him, and I really want to be with him. I know it's not possible, considering the fact that he's openly gay. But that doesn't stop me from loving him.
    CatCompanion09 CatCompanion09 13-15 Feb 14, 2011

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    My Best Friend

    the one I met over the summer. He's the first guy I've liked this much.  I steeled my nerves for two weeks to tell him over MSN that I had a huge crush on him, and that night when we spoke (which wasn't planned, it just happened) he asked if I wanted to know a secret. ...
    axelval axelval 18-21, T 7 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Where to begin my plight?

    I met him during my second year of highschool (2005). From there, me and the bunch he hang out with became pretty close. I was rowdy, ambitious, and crazy, so it took me sometime before I realised that I actually liked him (hit me about 2007). Now, I teased him lots. And this...
    Heartbrokenv2 Heartbrokenv2 22-25, F Jan 18

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    I Can't Believe I'm Still Thinking About Him.

    I knew he was gay from the start. I thought I could change him, but I was wrong. So wrong. He knew I liked him; I told him so. He played with my emotions. He acted like he wanted me. He'd text me, he'd touch me. It's funny, but even though he touched me in so many places, he...
    Magpie94 Magpie94 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    Hay Guys

    add me. im always looking for some gay friends to have fun with ;)
    Frankiebaby90 Frankiebaby90 22-25, M Jan 16, 2013

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    I'm in love with my best friend

    and he is gay. He used to flirt a lot in past like tell me "do you want me to sleep with you", wanna make out and i wondered if he was bicurious. I regret not making out or sleeping with him when it was my only opportunity. I hang out with him all the time, it's so hard. I told...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4

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    Letting Go

    It's been a year since I cut all contact with my ex best friend/ex gay boyfriend. Even though we were dating for only four months (before he came out) I was in love with him. My devotion to him was so deep even after we broke up and he came out to me, I still wanted to be with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    I think I'm hopelessly in love with a gay.

    I met him at a dance group I am in, and the first time I saw him dance I knew I already liked him. I told him I liked him and he didn't actually believed me saying that why would I like him knowing that he's a gay. I didn't care if he was a gay, I have accepted it. Everyday...
    Diva1415 Diva1415 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    Enemies Turned Besties Turned My First Love??

    the summer between my jr. and sr. year of high school I moved in with my half Brother (who is gay btw and my age) because I was having problems with my mom. During that time My bro also let his love interest who was our age also and went to our school stay there because he was...
    Babyboo92 Babyboo92 18-21, F Feb 7, 2012

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    I fell in love with my best friend in college.

    He fell in love with me. We dated, and began a relationship, but soon after, he started having homosexual feelings again (something he had dealt with in the past). He broke up with me a week and a half ago, and I'm trying to figure out how to go on. He's my best friend, so I'm...
    allyjo allyjo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Him..

    Me and my ex have dated 3 years on and off, and in the beginning of me and him dating, he wasn't truly gay. He didn't fully come out to being gay until like last year, but me and him continued dating then too. We recently broke up, exactally 3 months today..because he didn't want...
    DavidMatthew1031 DavidMatthew1031 13-15 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    Gay Best Friend.

    How do you react when your best friend of four years who you've been in love with for a better part of those four years tells you he's gay? From where I am, the concept of homosexuality doesn't exist. Bloody as a country, we're still trying to deal with ancient norms like caste...
    bloopxyz bloopxyz 18-21 7 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    I Don't Want To Feel Like This. It's Too Disappointing.

    How many times do I have to scream in my head, "He's gay, Cari!" Before it'll sink in and make me stop feeling this way about him? I KNOW he's gay, and I KNOW the interest is not and COULD not ever ever ever EVER be mutual, but that's not enough make me stop feeling this way...
    cari7 cari7 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2010

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